Sex Therapists in California

Bonni Jane Cardoza
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified
San Diego, CA 92110
I am excited to announce, I am currently in the process of becoming a Certified AASECT
Sex
Therapist! At the moment, I am taking clients from both California and Hawaii, serving private pay clients as well as Tricare, United Health Care and HMSA (Hawaii Medical Services Association) and Blue Shield of California,.
*Happiness, love, abundance, health and healing!* Counseling, coaching and consulting to manifest your best life because you deserve...All The Things! I have been a licensed marriage and family therapist for over 10 years in both California and Hawaii. Offering individual, couples, family and group therapy, I have worked with all populations, offering support in all areas from substance abuse therapy to school based behavioral health. My passion is working with women and girls to build self esteem, cultivate self empowerment and help bring about the change to manifest your best life.
I am excited to announce, I am currently in the process of becoming a Certified AASECT
Sex
Therapist! At the moment, I am taking clients from both California and Hawaii, serving private pay clients as well as Tricare, United Health Care and HMSA (Hawaii Medical Services Association) and Blue Shield of California,.
*Happiness, love, abundance, health and healing!* Counseling, coaching and consulting to manifest your best life because you deserve...All The Things! I have been a licensed marriage and family therapist for over 10 years in both California and Hawaii. Offering individual, couples, family and group therapy, I have worked with all populations, offering support in all areas from substance abuse therapy to school based behavioral health. My passion is working with women and girls to build self esteem, cultivate self empowerment and help bring about the change to manifest your best life.

Psychotherapy of San Diego, Dr Silbert RN,CNS,PHD
Psychologist, RN, CNS, PhD, FACCS
Verified
1 Endorsed
San Diego, CA 92108
A therapeutic relationship develops to treat issues of attachment, angst in living, childhood abuse, betryal, infidelity,
sex
addiction.
Dr Silbert promotes healing and strengthening of the capable inner self. The individual is enhanced positively by a belief in the ability to cope with the human condition and the emotional upheaval exacerbated by the winding road of life's journey. From the initial consultation with Dr. Silbert she remains an active verbal participant in your treatment. She most emphatically "listens" and "sees" you in a genuine attempt to validate the importance and significance of what you say and how you are feeling. Evaluation of the problems and strategies for effective intervention are discussed with the individual from the first consult until completion of treatment.
A therapeutic relationship develops to treat issues of attachment, angst in living, childhood abuse, betryal, infidelity,
sex
addiction.
Dr Silbert promotes healing and strengthening of the capable inner self. The individual is enhanced positively by a belief in the ability to cope with the human condition and the emotional upheaval exacerbated by the winding road of life's journey. From the initial consultation with Dr. Silbert she remains an active verbal participant in your treatment. She most emphatically "listens" and "sees" you in a genuine attempt to validate the importance and significance of what you say and how you are feeling. Evaluation of the problems and strategies for effective intervention are discussed with the individual from the first consult until completion of treatment.

James A. Moore
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, EMDR, CCATP
Verified
15 Endorsed
Los Angeles, CA 90004
I'm certified in treating anxiety (CCATP), have advanced training in
Sex Therapy
& certified in EMDR—a powerful tool shown to reduce the negative effects of trauma & emotional pain.
"Time does not heal all wounds; it just gives them space to sink into the subconscious, where they continue to impact your emotions and behavior. What heals is going inward, loving yourself, accepting yourself, listening to your needs, addressing your attachments and emotional history and following your intuition" (Yung Pueblo). I partner with my clients to help them find their voice, tell their story, re-engage their strengths and cultivate new ways to stay mindful and grounded—no matter what life throws at them. I work with couples and adults suffering from depression, anxiety, relationship challenges and LGBTQI-related issues.
I'm certified in treating anxiety (CCATP), have advanced training in
Sex Therapy
& certified in EMDR—a powerful tool shown to reduce the negative effects of trauma & emotional pain.
"Time does not heal all wounds; it just gives them space to sink into the subconscious, where they continue to impact your emotions and behavior. What heals is going inward, loving yourself, accepting yourself, listening to your needs, addressing your attachments and emotional history and following your intuition" (Yung Pueblo). I partner with my clients to help them find their voice, tell their story, re-engage their strengths and cultivate new ways to stay mindful and grounded—no matter what life throws at them. I work with couples and adults suffering from depression, anxiety, relationship challenges and LGBTQI-related issues.

Eva Clay Sex And Relationship Expert
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, CHT
Verified
1 Endorsed
Santa Monica, CA 90405
Feeling unsatisfied with the intimacy in your relationship? Lacking libido or orgasm? I've been in practice for 25 years and I've helped thousands of people have a joyful, exciting and satisfying intimate life. I love supporting women & couples navigating midlife & menopause.
Sex
is a healthy, human need, and is vital for your relationship.
Sex
can also be a sensitive topic - so don't worry - I'll put you at ease with a comforting, non-judgmental approach that brings you more pleasure, desire, and emotional connection. When you're nourished, you'll enjoy life in a whole new way! Let's get you turned-on, happy and satisfied.
Feeling unsatisfied with the intimacy in your relationship? Lacking libido or orgasm? I've been in practice for 25 years and I've helped thousands of people have a joyful, exciting and satisfying intimate life. I love supporting women & couples navigating midlife & menopause.
Sex
is a healthy, human need, and is vital for your relationship.
Sex
can also be a sensitive topic - so don't worry - I'll put you at ease with a comforting, non-judgmental approach that brings you more pleasure, desire, and emotional connection. When you're nourished, you'll enjoy life in a whole new way! Let's get you turned-on, happy and satisfied.

Vanessa Harvell
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified
5 Endorsed
Los Angeles, CA 90034
I am a licensed psychotherapist specializing in
sex therapy
& sexual wellness. I help my clients work through sexual shame, trauma, anxiety, painful
sex
, issues around arousal, orgasm & desire, compulsive behavior/”porn or
sex
” addiction, & sexual inexperience or anorexia. I believe my first job is to create a sense of safety by attuning to you and ensuring you a shame-free/judgment-free space. My second job is to help you identify the obstacles that are blocking you from sexual well-being and use my expertise, training and education so that you can get unstuck, reach your goals & find deep healing with sustained change.
I am a licensed psychotherapist specializing in
sex therapy
& sexual wellness. I help my clients work through sexual shame, trauma, anxiety, painful
sex
, issues around arousal, orgasm & desire, compulsive behavior/”porn or
sex
” addiction, & sexual inexperience or anorexia. I believe my first job is to create a sense of safety by attuning to you and ensuring you a shame-free/judgment-free space. My second job is to help you identify the obstacles that are blocking you from sexual well-being and use my expertise, training and education so that you can get unstuck, reach your goals & find deep healing with sustained change.

Regina Isabel K'burg
Marriage & Family Therapist, PsyD
Verified
Sacramento, CA 95825
Isabel upholds the belief we are wounded in relationships and healed in relationships. She desires to provide a safe space to heal. As a therapist, Isabel is proactive, transparent, and honest. Currently, she is working towards certification in
sex therapy
and
sex
addiction. She utilizes an integrative approach tailored to individual client’s needs. Her reflective therapeutic style emphasizes the unique strengths of individuals and their ability to create change. In Isabel’s career, she has experience working in inpatient, forensic, school based, and community outpatient settings.
Isabel upholds the belief we are wounded in relationships and healed in relationships. She desires to provide a safe space to heal. As a therapist, Isabel is proactive, transparent, and honest. Currently, she is working towards certification in
sex therapy
and
sex
addiction. She utilizes an integrative approach tailored to individual client’s needs. Her reflective therapeutic style emphasizes the unique strengths of individuals and their ability to create change. In Isabel’s career, she has experience working in inpatient, forensic, school based, and community outpatient settings.

Pillow Talk Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, she/her
Verified
3 Endorsed
Yorba Linda, CA 92887
I have training and experience in Gottman Method Couples Therapy, Couples and
Sex Therapy
through American Association of Couples and
Sex Therapy
, and Internal Family Systems.
ACCEPTING NEW CLIENTS! Schedule free 15 min consultation at www.pillowtalktherapy.com to start! Couples/Relationship Therapy (LGBTQIA+ and poly/kink affirming),
Sex Therapy
(physical/emotional issues affecting sexual relationship), Trauma (IFS); PRIVATE PAY ONLY (can provide superbill but cannot guarantee insurance payment). Currently offering telehealth only for clients within California and Florida.
I have training and experience in Gottman Method Couples Therapy, Couples and
Sex Therapy
through American Association of Couples and
Sex Therapy
, and Internal Family Systems.
ACCEPTING NEW CLIENTS! Schedule free 15 min consultation at www.pillowtalktherapy.com to start! Couples/Relationship Therapy (LGBTQIA+ and poly/kink affirming),
Sex Therapy
(physical/emotional issues affecting sexual relationship), Trauma (IFS); PRIVATE PAY ONLY (can provide superbill but cannot guarantee insurance payment). Currently offering telehealth only for clients within California and Florida.

Hernando Chaves
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT, DHS
Verified
Beverly Hills, CA 90212 (Online Only)
CA Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (MFC #50718), Pepperdine Malibu MFT human
sexuality
professor, Western Region past president and past board of directors member for the Society for the Scientific Study of
Sexuality
(SSSS) with a Doctor of Human
Sexuality
degree (D.H.S.) from the Institute for the Advanced Study of Human
Sexuality
(IASHS). My philosophy is centered on empathetic,
sex
-positive support with a special emphasis on pleasure enhancement. People deserve erotic fulfillment within their relationships & a place to explore ways to live a more authentic & enjoyable sexual lifestyle free of guilt, shame, & self-judgment.
CA Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (MFC #50718), Pepperdine Malibu MFT human
sexuality
professor, Western Region past president and past board of directors member for the Society for the Scientific Study of
Sexuality
(SSSS) with a Doctor of Human
Sexuality
degree (D.H.S.) from the Institute for the Advanced Study of Human
Sexuality
(IASHS). My philosophy is centered on empathetic,
sex
-positive support with a special emphasis on pleasure enhancement. People deserve erotic fulfillment within their relationships & a place to explore ways to live a more authentic & enjoyable sexual lifestyle free of guilt, shame, & self-judgment.

Anna B. Chau
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CST
Verified
San Francisco, CA 94110
As one of the few Asian,
sex
-positive, licensed therapists and certified
sex
therapists, I provide a safe and supportive space for individuals and couples where they can explore their attachment and relationship dynamics, intimacy, identity of self, and
sexuality
. I believe that everyone has the capacity to experience pleasure, joy, and have an overall sense of freedom throughout their lives.
As one of the few Asian,
sex
-positive, licensed therapists and certified
sex
therapists, I provide a safe and supportive space for individuals and couples where they can explore their attachment and relationship dynamics, intimacy, identity of self, and
sexuality
. I believe that everyone has the capacity to experience pleasure, joy, and have an overall sense of freedom throughout their lives.

Mind Divers
Psychologist, PhD, CST
Verified
1 Endorsed
Visalia, CA 93291
Dr Winegarden is a Veteran of the United States Army, she works with many other Veterans and she is the only AASECT certified
sex
therapist in the San Joaquin Valley.
The therapists at MindDivers offer a full range of therapeutic services, much like our Clovis location at Achievements Unlimited. Whether it is a feeling of depression or bothersome anxiety that is difficult to control, children’s issues, or problems in your relationship or
sex
life, our staff has you covered. We care about you and your concerns so that you can come up for air and regain clarity and calmness in your life. We at MindDivers appreciate humor and compassion while exploring the depths with you.
Dr Winegarden is a Veteran of the United States Army, she works with many other Veterans and she is the only AASECT certified
sex
therapist in the San Joaquin Valley.
The therapists at MindDivers offer a full range of therapeutic services, much like our Clovis location at Achievements Unlimited. Whether it is a feeling of depression or bothersome anxiety that is difficult to control, children’s issues, or problems in your relationship or
sex
life, our staff has you covered. We care about you and your concerns so that you can come up for air and regain clarity and calmness in your life. We at MindDivers appreciate humor and compassion while exploring the depths with you.

Dr. Alicia Dukoff, Psy.D, LMFT
Marriage & Family Therapist, PsyD, LMFT
Verified
Newhall, CA 91321
I am currently in the final stages of achieving the Doctorate in Clinical Psychology, with an emphasis on human
sexuality
.
I work with a wide range of clientele including individuals, couples, families and adolescents. In a nurturing and safe therapeutic environment, I work in collaboration with clients on the journey to self discovery, healing past traumas and removing the blocks to invite new space for growth and greater sense of fulfillment in life. In addition to my specialization in
sex therapy
, I work with individuals with depression, anxiety and PTSD.
I am currently in the final stages of achieving the Doctorate in Clinical Psychology, with an emphasis on human
sexuality
.
I work with a wide range of clientele including individuals, couples, families and adolescents. In a nurturing and safe therapeutic environment, I work in collaboration with clients on the journey to self discovery, healing past traumas and removing the blocks to invite new space for growth and greater sense of fulfillment in life. In addition to my specialization in
sex therapy
, I work with individuals with depression, anxiety and PTSD.
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Affirming Therapy Center
Marriage & Family Therapist
Verified
2 Endorsed
San Diego, CA 92123
Each member of the ATC team is a professionally-trained Psychotherapist qualified to address topics such as gender and identity,
sex
and sexual health, non-monogamy, trauma, out-of-control sexual behavior, BDSM, kink, and fetishes.
The core value of Affirming Therapy Center (ATC) is in our name. “Affirming” is both the nature and the goal of ATC’s work as a dedicated resource supporting Gender, Sexual, and Relationship Diversity (GSRD) in California. This core value is embodied by providing you with professional, open-minded care in a space that acknowledges and celebrates your unique personhood and distinct challenges. You are welcome and valued here.
Each member of the ATC team is a professionally-trained Psychotherapist qualified to address topics such as gender and identity,
sex
and sexual health, non-monogamy, trauma, out-of-control sexual behavior, BDSM, kink, and fetishes.
The core value of Affirming Therapy Center (ATC) is in our name. “Affirming” is both the nature and the goal of ATC’s work as a dedicated resource supporting Gender, Sexual, and Relationship Diversity (GSRD) in California. This core value is embodied by providing you with professional, open-minded care in a space that acknowledges and celebrates your unique personhood and distinct challenges. You are welcome and valued here.

Grace Lee
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MFT
Verified
1 Endorsed
San Carlos, CA 94070
My approach to therapy is rooted in modern research on the brain, trauma and attachment. I work with clients who struggle with depression, anxiety, trauma, relationships and their
sexuality
. I am experienced working with couples, adult individuals as well as children. I am LGBTQQA and kink friendly.
My approach to therapy is rooted in modern research on the brain, trauma and attachment. I work with clients who struggle with depression, anxiety, trauma, relationships and their
sexuality
. I am experienced working with couples, adult individuals as well as children. I am LGBTQQA and kink friendly.

Tara Galeano
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, CST
Verified
Sebastopol, CA 95472
My areas of expertise include relationship counseling, intimacy, and
sexuality
.
I trained as a contemplative psychotherapist at Naropa University, where meditation and mindfulness were foundational elements of my studies. As my mentor used to say, “Therapy is about creating more choices." I teach mindfulness skills integrated with a cognitive-behavioral approach. I will support you in having more awareness of your behaviors and cognitions, so that you can move past your limitations to create more satisfaction with yourself, your life, and your sexual relations. If you are interested in learning more about how
sex therapy
may help you, sign-up for a free consultation below. I’d love to learn how I may help you.
My areas of expertise include relationship counseling, intimacy, and
sexuality
.
I trained as a contemplative psychotherapist at Naropa University, where meditation and mindfulness were foundational elements of my studies. As my mentor used to say, “Therapy is about creating more choices." I teach mindfulness skills integrated with a cognitive-behavioral approach. I will support you in having more awareness of your behaviors and cognitions, so that you can move past your limitations to create more satisfaction with yourself, your life, and your sexual relations. If you are interested in learning more about how
sex therapy
may help you, sign-up for a free consultation below. I’d love to learn how I may help you.

Hana Esfandiari
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS , LMFT, CSAT
Verified
Los Angeles, CA 90064
Sex
/porn addiction and sexually acting out are often fueled by secrets and isolation.
"Life is not what it's supposed to be. It's what it is. The way you cope with it is what makes the difference." I am a Licensed Marriage and Family therapist specializing in relationship and intimacy issues,
sex therapy
, infidelity, betrayal trauma and
sex
and porn addiction . I work collaboratively with my clients to facilitate recognition of their strengths so they can actualize self-growth, meet therapy goals, find peace and develop healthy relationships.
Sex
/porn addiction and sexually acting out are often fueled by secrets and isolation.
"Life is not what it's supposed to be. It's what it is. The way you cope with it is what makes the difference." I am a Licensed Marriage and Family therapist specializing in relationship and intimacy issues,
sex therapy
, infidelity, betrayal trauma and
sex
and porn addiction . I work collaboratively with my clients to facilitate recognition of their strengths so they can actualize self-growth, meet therapy goals, find peace and develop healthy relationships.

Kris Roudebush
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified
7 Endorsed
San Luis Obispo, CA 93401
Not accepting new clients
Certified
Sex
Therapist through American Association of
Sexuality
Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT) and Gottman Institute Level 1 trained.
Greetings! I'm Kris and I love facilitating therapeutic work with individuals and couples who are looking to explore, enhance, and heal various aspects of our complicated lives. My practice addresses life challenges using a holistic perspective, blending various treatment approaches. Primary approaches include Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, existential, mindfulness, and trauma focused. I am a
Sex
Therapist, and specialize in working with: clients with sexual traumas and PTSD, queer, trans and nonbinary folx, and those experiencing sexual difficulties, whether personally or in their relationship.
Certified
Sex
Therapist through American Association of
Sexuality
Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT) and Gottman Institute Level 1 trained.
Greetings! I'm Kris and I love facilitating therapeutic work with individuals and couples who are looking to explore, enhance, and heal various aspects of our complicated lives. My practice addresses life challenges using a holistic perspective, blending various treatment approaches. Primary approaches include Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, existential, mindfulness, and trauma focused. I am a
Sex
Therapist, and specialize in working with: clients with sexual traumas and PTSD, queer, trans and nonbinary folx, and those experiencing sexual difficulties, whether personally or in their relationship.

Greta Hassel Grace
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT, MA, MDiv
Verified
1 Endorsed
Los Angeles, CA 90066
She designed “Love, God &
Sex
” for women recovering from sexual shame and guilt.
GRETA is passionate about reaching couples needing to de-escalate conflict, deepen safety and transparency, and strengthen sexual compatibility and connection. She approaches presenting symptoms - anxiety, depression, or addictions - previously deemed problems, as messengers with keys for healing to reveal our buried treasure within. "Where you stumble, therein lies your treasure" is the north star that guides her work to reveal the LOVE that truly lives within. With singles, as a Certified Coach of Katherine Woodward Thomas' program, "Calling in the One", she offers a 6 week course in cultivating Your Attractor Factor.
She designed “Love, God &
Sex
” for women recovering from sexual shame and guilt.
GRETA is passionate about reaching couples needing to de-escalate conflict, deepen safety and transparency, and strengthen sexual compatibility and connection. She approaches presenting symptoms - anxiety, depression, or addictions - previously deemed problems, as messengers with keys for healing to reveal our buried treasure within. "Where you stumble, therein lies your treasure" is the north star that guides her work to reveal the LOVE that truly lives within. With singles, as a Certified Coach of Katherine Woodward Thomas' program, "Calling in the One", she offers a 6 week course in cultivating Your Attractor Factor.

Dylan McClure
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified
Arcata, CA 95521
Are you trans, queer, or non-monogamous? Do you feel at the edges of gender or relationship? As a queer and trans therapist, my practice is centered on supporting trans and queer people in creating lives that are vibrant, balanced, and celebrated. I use a holistic, relational, and collaborative style to work with you in shifting old patterns, to move from uncertainty to clarity in yourself, and in relation to others. I am
sex
-positive, kink-aware, queer and trans affirmative, and welcoming to all non-traditional relationships and lifestyles.
Are you trans, queer, or non-monogamous? Do you feel at the edges of gender or relationship? As a queer and trans therapist, my practice is centered on supporting trans and queer people in creating lives that are vibrant, balanced, and celebrated. I use a holistic, relational, and collaborative style to work with you in shifting old patterns, to move from uncertainty to clarity in yourself, and in relation to others. I am
sex
-positive, kink-aware, queer and trans affirmative, and welcoming to all non-traditional relationships and lifestyles.

San Francisco Intimacy & Sex Therapy Center
Pre-Licensed Professional, PsyD
Verified
Berkeley, CA 94704
East Bay Intimacy &
Sex Therapy
Center was created with the goal of making the practice of
sex
& intimacy therapy more relationship-focused & accessible, without the stigma & confusion that often accompanies misperceptions about couples &
sex therapy
. We offer attachment-based
sex therapy
& couples counseling. We believe that healthy relationships are at the core of how change & healing occur. Having a healthy sexual relationship to one's self or partner(s) is vital to overall wellbeing. We strive to support & promote lifelong change that will allow you to form sustainable, loving & equitable relationships, & an overall sense of health wellbeing.
East Bay Intimacy &
Sex Therapy
Center was created with the goal of making the practice of
sex
& intimacy therapy more relationship-focused & accessible, without the stigma & confusion that often accompanies misperceptions about couples &
sex therapy
. We offer attachment-based
sex therapy
& couples counseling. We believe that healthy relationships are at the core of how change & healing occur. Having a healthy sexual relationship to one's self or partner(s) is vital to overall wellbeing. We strive to support & promote lifelong change that will allow you to form sustainable, loving & equitable relationships, & an overall sense of health wellbeing.

Stephanie Flood
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified
1 Endorsed
Campbell, CA 95008 (Online Only)
I counsel couples and individuals for both relationship therapy and
sex therapy
.
Are you having trouble expressing your needs in the intimacy department of your relationship? Does it feel you and your partner are not on the same page? Are you struggling do you end up in a fight or ignoring the problem? Have you tried to solve the problems in your life on your own and realized you need help from someone else? If you answered yes to any of these questions, then you have made the right choice by being here. And I know this is hard. You've likely been debating seeking help for months, if not years. But I'm so glad you found me and have taken the courageous step of being here.
I counsel couples and individuals for both relationship therapy and
sex therapy
.
Are you having trouble expressing your needs in the intimacy department of your relationship? Does it feel you and your partner are not on the same page? Are you struggling do you end up in a fight or ignoring the problem? Have you tried to solve the problems in your life on your own and realized you need help from someone else? If you answered yes to any of these questions, then you have made the right choice by being here. And I know this is hard. You've likely been debating seeking help for months, if not years. But I'm so glad you found me and have taken the courageous step of being here.
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