Sex Therapists in California

Sex Addiction San Diego, Dr Silbert RN,CNS,PH.D.
Psychologist, RN, CNS, PhD, FAACS
Verified
1 Endorsed
La Jolla, CA 92037
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- Internet
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-Betrayal-Addiction-FBSM -Infidelity-Extra-Marital Affairs" Sexual addiction is a syndrome in which some form of
sex
behavior relates to and negatively affects an individual’s life cognitively and behaviorally. Controversy exists among professionals as to whether the syndrome should be considered sexual addiction, sexual compulsion, hypersexual or possibly a symptom of another mental disorder. Whatever the name, the problem is the same, which includes behavior that is out of control and negatively affecting various aspects of an individual’s life!"
"Escorts-Pornography-Happy Endings-Hook-Ups-Web Cam
Sex
- Internet
Sex
-Betrayal-Addiction-FBSM -Infidelity-Extra-Marital Affairs" Sexual addiction is a syndrome in which some form of
sex
behavior relates to and negatively affects an individual’s life cognitively and behaviorally. Controversy exists among professionals as to whether the syndrome should be considered sexual addiction, sexual compulsion, hypersexual or possibly a symptom of another mental disorder. Whatever the name, the problem is the same, which includes behavior that is out of control and negatively affecting various aspects of an individual’s life!"

Cynthia Haartman: Psychotherapy, EMDR, Sex Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified
13 Endorsed
Los Gatos, CA 95032 (Online Only)
My primary focus includes: anxiety, stress, trauma, self worth, guilt and shame, intimacy and
sexuality
concerns, chronic pain and chronic illness, as well as medical trauma, and manifestation of stress physically in the body. I am kink affirming and knowledgable, LGBTQ+/sexual and gender minority inclusive, and a
sex
positive provider.
My primary focus includes: anxiety, stress, trauma, self worth, guilt and shame, intimacy and
sexuality
concerns, chronic pain and chronic illness, as well as medical trauma, and manifestation of stress physically in the body. I am kink affirming and knowledgable, LGBTQ+/sexual and gender minority inclusive, and a
sex
positive provider.

Meggan Bunce
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified
Irvine, CA 92612
If you have been searching " Sexless Marriage, Difficulty talking about
sex
, diminished desire, loss of desire" or looking for a Marriage Counseling, Couples counseling, Family Counseling, Relational Counseling then Call for a free initial consultation.
Let's talk about what nobody wants to talk about. If toxic relationships, boundaries, co-dependency, sexual dissatisfaction, or problems with intimacy are on your mind, we can create a plan to address this. Ultimately, healthy relationships are vital to our overall well being, let’s help you achieve that. Together we will explore the obstacles and challenges that are showing up in your situation.
If you have been searching " Sexless Marriage, Difficulty talking about
sex
, diminished desire, loss of desire" or looking for a Marriage Counseling, Couples counseling, Family Counseling, Relational Counseling then Call for a free initial consultation.
Let's talk about what nobody wants to talk about. If toxic relationships, boundaries, co-dependency, sexual dissatisfaction, or problems with intimacy are on your mind, we can create a plan to address this. Ultimately, healthy relationships are vital to our overall well being, let’s help you achieve that. Together we will explore the obstacles and challenges that are showing up in your situation.

Rafinee Butler
Marriage & Family Therapist, DHS, PCC, LMFT
Verified
1 Endorsed
San Francisco, CA 94107 (Online Only)
I offer
sex therapy
; individual and couples therapy.
In working together, I will help you identify themes and patterns of feeling and thinking that create barriers to having healthy relationships and preventing you from living life to your fullest potential. I emphasize meeting you where you are at and expanding in ways that are attuned to your needs and your experiences in your social context. I aim for a therapeutic relationship that allows for an experience of respect and equal engagement that is crucial to the foundation of change and exploration.
I offer
sex therapy
; individual and couples therapy.
In working together, I will help you identify themes and patterns of feeling and thinking that create barriers to having healthy relationships and preventing you from living life to your fullest potential. I emphasize meeting you where you are at and expanding in ways that are attuned to your needs and your experiences in your social context. I aim for a therapeutic relationship that allows for an experience of respect and equal engagement that is crucial to the foundation of change and exploration.

Christina Whitney
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MBA
Verified
1 Endorsed
Redding, CA 96001
Are you struggling in your relationship? Overwhelmed due to relationship issues/infidelity/
sex
/lack of communication? As a Certified
Sex
Informed Counselor Im here to help let go of shame, fear and anxiety in regards to your relationship. Are you struggling with previous or current trauma? Seeking counseling can be an anxious time for many people, yet I believe it can be the start to a positive and productive experience where change takes place and growth happen. I believe in joining with my clients to create a therapy experience tailored to their individual needs, where they feel safe and heard.
Are you struggling in your relationship? Overwhelmed due to relationship issues/infidelity/
sex
/lack of communication? As a Certified
Sex
Informed Counselor Im here to help let go of shame, fear and anxiety in regards to your relationship. Are you struggling with previous or current trauma? Seeking counseling can be an anxious time for many people, yet I believe it can be the start to a positive and productive experience where change takes place and growth happen. I believe in joining with my clients to create a therapy experience tailored to their individual needs, where they feel safe and heard.

Sasha Melendez-Goldman
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Verified
Los Angeles, CA 90026 (Online Only)
Utilizing a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy approach and a
sex
positive lens we will identify and challenge core values and schemas.
Therapy is a richly unique experience unlike any other. Through collaboration, acceptance, and honesty my practice helps individuals open their minds to healing and fulfillment. I am passionate about creating a safe environment where you are the expert of your own story.
Utilizing a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy approach and a
sex
positive lens we will identify and challenge core values and schemas.
Therapy is a richly unique experience unlike any other. Through collaboration, acceptance, and honesty my practice helps individuals open their minds to healing and fulfillment. I am passionate about creating a safe environment where you are the expert of your own story.

Rossana Sida
Marriage & Family Therapist, PsyD, LMFT
Verified
7 Endorsed
Los Angeles, CA 90025
Are relationships supposed to be this hard? When sexual issues keep you from maintaining or obtaining a happy relationship it's time to see a
sex
therapist. As a
sex
& relationship specialist, I successfully treat people with issues surrounding sexual desire & performance, sexual trauma, problems with arousal or orgasm, differences in the amount of
sex
they'd like to have, & sexual pain disorders such as vaginismus. I assist clients in building intimacy by deepening their mutual understanding & compassion (for their often very opposite mate!) and help them stay accountable for taking positive action to improve relationships.
Are relationships supposed to be this hard? When sexual issues keep you from maintaining or obtaining a happy relationship it's time to see a
sex
therapist. As a
sex
& relationship specialist, I successfully treat people with issues surrounding sexual desire & performance, sexual trauma, problems with arousal or orgasm, differences in the amount of
sex
they'd like to have, & sexual pain disorders such as vaginismus. I assist clients in building intimacy by deepening their mutual understanding & compassion (for their often very opposite mate!) and help them stay accountable for taking positive action to improve relationships.

Ashley Cooley
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified
San Diego, CA 92109 (Online Only)
Ashley’s specialities are in
sex therapy
and eating disorders.
As a therapist, it is my goal to make sure you get the most out of our sessions together. I encourage all my clients to make the treatment plan with me. You are the expert in you and respecting that is essential to meeting your needs. We will identify your own unique strengths in combination with therapeutic skill building to achieve your goals.
Ashley’s specialities are in
sex therapy
and eating disorders.
As a therapist, it is my goal to make sure you get the most out of our sessions together. I encourage all my clients to make the treatment plan with me. You are the expert in you and respecting that is essential to meeting your needs. We will identify your own unique strengths in combination with therapeutic skill building to achieve your goals.

Ryan Rickert
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, DHS, CST
Verified
1 Endorsed
Palm Springs, CA 92262
I have completed my doctoral degree in human
sexuality
.
I devote my work to hearing and understanding your experience as a unique individual in the world. Psychotherapy can be difficult but transforming work. I am committed to creating a warm and empathic environment with you as we work together to explore your choices in developing a life path that works for you. What are the struggles in your life? How are you dealing with life's problems? When you feel ready, join me in a journey of healing; tell me your story. How are past experiences affecting your life today? I will be creative in joining you to design solutions.
I have completed my doctoral degree in human
sexuality
.
I devote my work to hearing and understanding your experience as a unique individual in the world. Psychotherapy can be difficult but transforming work. I am committed to creating a warm and empathic environment with you as we work together to explore your choices in developing a life path that works for you. What are the struggles in your life? How are you dealing with life's problems? When you feel ready, join me in a journey of healing; tell me your story. How are past experiences affecting your life today? I will be creative in joining you to design solutions.

David Stanton
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified
Elk Grove, CA 95624 (Online Only)
In the past 13 years I have dedicated my clinical focus in the areas of
sex therapy
and problematic sexual behavior.
Are you trying to untangle a personal and/or relational challenge where your sexual behavior is a factor? Maybe it is an affair that just got found out and you have been accused of being a
sex
addict. May it be that you are struggling with mismatched sexual desire with your partner? Perhaps so you supplement with porn and masturbation (in secret)? Maybe your goal or desire is to solve the dilemma of how to come out as gay, lesbian or some other important identity in the LGBTQ+ rainbow? And this dilemma is further complicated by religious shame and guilt for what are actually normal sexual interests and desires.
In the past 13 years I have dedicated my clinical focus in the areas of
sex therapy
and problematic sexual behavior.
Are you trying to untangle a personal and/or relational challenge where your sexual behavior is a factor? Maybe it is an affair that just got found out and you have been accused of being a
sex
addict. May it be that you are struggling with mismatched sexual desire with your partner? Perhaps so you supplement with porn and masturbation (in secret)? Maybe your goal or desire is to solve the dilemma of how to come out as gay, lesbian or some other important identity in the LGBTQ+ rainbow? And this dilemma is further complicated by religious shame and guilt for what are actually normal sexual interests and desires.

Moushumi Ghose MFT - Los Angeles Sex Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MFT
Verified
1 Endorsed
Glendale, CA 91203 (Online Only)
I believe that sexual liberation is the key to our healing, and by reclaiming our pleasure, and embracing our
sexuality
we also heal trauma.
Sexuality
and pleasure are often ignored. I work to get you to authenticity, connection, pleasure and embracing what makes you whole. As a
sex
therapist, I have extensive experience with ENM/CNM, LGBTQIA, gender variant, non-monogamous, polyamorous, kink, erotic laborers. I offer somatic +
sex therapy
, and emotion focused couples therapy. My work addresses trauma (both systemic/social and personal) and addresses harmful societal constructs which affect our
sex
, gender and relationships.
I believe that sexual liberation is the key to our healing, and by reclaiming our pleasure, and embracing our
sexuality
we also heal trauma.
Sexuality
and pleasure are often ignored. I work to get you to authenticity, connection, pleasure and embracing what makes you whole. As a
sex
therapist, I have extensive experience with ENM/CNM, LGBTQIA, gender variant, non-monogamous, polyamorous, kink, erotic laborers. I offer somatic +
sex therapy
, and emotion focused couples therapy. My work addresses trauma (both systemic/social and personal) and addresses harmful societal constructs which affect our
sex
, gender and relationships.
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Greta Hassel Grace
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT, MA, MDiv
Verified
1 Endorsed
Los Angeles, CA 90066
She designed “Love, God &
Sex
” for women recovering from sexual shame and guilt.
GRETA is passionate about reaching couples needing to de-escalate conflict, deepen safety and transparency, and strengthen sexual compatibility and connection. She approaches presenting symptoms - anxiety, depression, or addictions - previously deemed problems, as messengers with keys for healing to reveal our buried treasure within. "Where you stumble, therein lies your treasure" is the north star that guides her work to reveal the LOVE that truly lives within. With singles, as a Certified Coach of Katherine Woodward Thomas' program, "Calling in the One", she offers a 6 week course in cultivating Your Attractor Factor.
She designed “Love, God &
Sex
” for women recovering from sexual shame and guilt.
GRETA is passionate about reaching couples needing to de-escalate conflict, deepen safety and transparency, and strengthen sexual compatibility and connection. She approaches presenting symptoms - anxiety, depression, or addictions - previously deemed problems, as messengers with keys for healing to reveal our buried treasure within. "Where you stumble, therein lies your treasure" is the north star that guides her work to reveal the LOVE that truly lives within. With singles, as a Certified Coach of Katherine Woodward Thomas' program, "Calling in the One", she offers a 6 week course in cultivating Your Attractor Factor.

Nancy Ortiz
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified
Anaheim, CA 92805 (Online Only)
Welcome! I am a Queer Bicultural & Bilingual Psychotherapist, I specialize in cultural centered
sex therapy
and psychotherapy for QTBIPOC couples and individuals. I support folks in creating a fulfilling
sex
life and achieve emotional wellness. Learn how to improve your communication of sexual needs/wants, explore gender and
sexuality
, feel less shame about sexual interests/behaviors, recover from sexual harm/abuse or infidelity, have pleasurable
sex
, and strengthen intimacy with yourself and partner(s). Schedule your free 20 min phone consultation at nancy-ortiz.clientsecure.me
Welcome! I am a Queer Bicultural & Bilingual Psychotherapist, I specialize in cultural centered
sex therapy
and psychotherapy for QTBIPOC couples and individuals. I support folks in creating a fulfilling
sex
life and achieve emotional wellness. Learn how to improve your communication of sexual needs/wants, explore gender and
sexuality
, feel less shame about sexual interests/behaviors, recover from sexual harm/abuse or infidelity, have pleasurable
sex
, and strengthen intimacy with yourself and partner(s). Schedule your free 20 min phone consultation at nancy-ortiz.clientsecure.me

Tamara M Sprigel
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, CST
Verified
Sherman Oaks, CA 91403
I am a trained and AASECT-Certificated
Sex
Therapist, Supervisor and Diplomat of
Sex Therapy
.
I work with individuals, couples and adolescents. I am psychodynamic in philosophy but eclectic in my training and approach. Each person's treatment needs are different, so therapy is often a combination of psychotherapy, insight, cognitive and behavioral. I am aware of the many stressors that come to bear on our lives and address the emotional problems that arise with family, work, and interpersonal relationships. I help people cope with and learn from the challenging tasks of living life.
I am a trained and AASECT-Certificated
Sex
Therapist, Supervisor and Diplomat of
Sex Therapy
.
I work with individuals, couples and adolescents. I am psychodynamic in philosophy but eclectic in my training and approach. Each person's treatment needs are different, so therapy is often a combination of psychotherapy, insight, cognitive and behavioral. I am aware of the many stressors that come to bear on our lives and address the emotional problems that arise with family, work, and interpersonal relationships. I help people cope with and learn from the challenging tasks of living life.

Samantha Ludin
Psychologist, PhD
Verified
San Francisco, CA 94117
In
sex therapy
, I create a safe,
sex
-positive space to address concerns relating to sexual health and intimacy for couples and individuals (queer, ENM, & kink friendly).
These are really tough times, aren't they? Existing issues feel bigger and it can be that much harder to cope. Therapy can heIp. I approach therapy in a warm and collaborative manner to help couples, individuals, and families identify new and adaptive ways to deal with life's challenges. In couples therapy, I use Emotion-Focused and Gottman approaches to help partners learn to manage and repair conflict, rebuild trust and intimacy, and build emotional connections. In family treatment, I'll work with your family to develop adaptive and healthy communication patterns, as well as address parenting concerns and behavioral issues.
In
sex therapy
, I create a safe,
sex
-positive space to address concerns relating to sexual health and intimacy for couples and individuals (queer, ENM, & kink friendly).
These are really tough times, aren't they? Existing issues feel bigger and it can be that much harder to cope. Therapy can heIp. I approach therapy in a warm and collaborative manner to help couples, individuals, and families identify new and adaptive ways to deal with life's challenges. In couples therapy, I use Emotion-Focused and Gottman approaches to help partners learn to manage and repair conflict, rebuild trust and intimacy, and build emotional connections. In family treatment, I'll work with your family to develop adaptive and healthy communication patterns, as well as address parenting concerns and behavioral issues.

Jeffrey Kisling, Ph.D., MFT
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, MFT
Verified
Los Altos, CA 94022 (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
Welcome! I specialize in helping men and women in the most intimate aspect of life: at the intersection of our humanity, our
sexuality
, and our health. Relationships,
sex
and health are rarely about what they seem, but always about the full spectrum of challenges that life throws at us. I'm here to help you meet those challenges.
Welcome! I specialize in helping men and women in the most intimate aspect of life: at the intersection of our humanity, our
sexuality
, and our health. Relationships,
sex
and health are rarely about what they seem, but always about the full spectrum of challenges that life throws at us. I'm here to help you meet those challenges.

Amanda Walters
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified
9 Endorsed
San Jose, CA 95131 (Online Only)
Not accepting new clients
I specialize in
sex therapy
, which means that I enjoy working with individuals and people in relationships who may be struggling with any
sex
-related issues. The types of issues that people tend to see me for include sexual dysfunctions (like problems with orgasm, erection, or sexual pain), intimate relationship concerns, sexual orientation or gender identity, and sexual trauma. I also see folks who are dealing with other issues, such as anxiety or depression. Some of the people I work with have a very specific goal for treatment, while others need more ongoing treatment for deeper, more lifelong concerns.
I specialize in
sex therapy
, which means that I enjoy working with individuals and people in relationships who may be struggling with any
sex
-related issues. The types of issues that people tend to see me for include sexual dysfunctions (like problems with orgasm, erection, or sexual pain), intimate relationship concerns, sexual orientation or gender identity, and sexual trauma. I also see folks who are dealing with other issues, such as anxiety or depression. Some of the people I work with have a very specific goal for treatment, while others need more ongoing treatment for deeper, more lifelong concerns.

Sex Addiction Sexual Misbehavior Infidelity Expert
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, SOTS
Verified
1 Endorsed
San Francisco, CA 94102
Absolute elite level expert 26 years 40,000 hours sexual misbehavior,
sex
addiction Infidelity, psychotherapy provided brings faster recovery. Evidence based research oriented treating of
sex
addiction Infidelity/Cheating/Affairs, Prostitution Use, "Seeking Arrangements",
Sex
Apps, Strip Clubs,Massage Parlors,
Sex
Misconduct, Certified Specialist. I created government funded sexual misbehavior programs, utilizing highly effective clinical models. I use most up to date understanding to have you change your thinking and learn how to not act out these self destructive actions while simultaneously loving yourself and the life you have.
Absolute elite level expert 26 years 40,000 hours sexual misbehavior,
sex
addiction Infidelity, psychotherapy provided brings faster recovery. Evidence based research oriented treating of
sex
addiction Infidelity/Cheating/Affairs, Prostitution Use, "Seeking Arrangements",
Sex
Apps, Strip Clubs,Massage Parlors,
Sex
Misconduct, Certified Specialist. I created government funded sexual misbehavior programs, utilizing highly effective clinical models. I use most up to date understanding to have you change your thinking and learn how to not act out these self destructive actions while simultaneously loving yourself and the life you have.

Jim Conwell MFT
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MFT
Verified
Oakland, CA 94618
I specialize in effective couples therapy. I work with adult individuals, and men with issues in the area of
sexuality
and intimacy. In working with couples I focus on self-responsibility, communication (listening when listening is hard, self revealing instead of finger-pointing), expectations, self-awareness, and remaining intimate through difficulty. Throughout the whole process I integrate a focus on kindness without abandoning or avoiding the truth. I also specialize in assisting and supporting both men and women with building the skill and ability to feel and share their feelings effectively in intimate relationships.
I specialize in effective couples therapy. I work with adult individuals, and men with issues in the area of
sexuality
and intimacy. In working with couples I focus on self-responsibility, communication (listening when listening is hard, self revealing instead of finger-pointing), expectations, self-awareness, and remaining intimate through difficulty. Throughout the whole process I integrate a focus on kindness without abandoning or avoiding the truth. I also specialize in assisting and supporting both men and women with building the skill and ability to feel and share their feelings effectively in intimate relationships.

Julia Simone Fogelson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CST
Verified
1 Endorsed
Oakland, CA 94611
Not accepting new clients
Welcome! I offer psychotherapy to adults, couples and other relationship configurations, families and teens, as well as
sex therapy
. I am a Certified
Sex
Therapist (CST) through AASECT and am also a gender care provider. I believe therapy is a collaborative process; you can think of me as a companion as we travel down the roads of your growth together. If you have been thinking about starting therapy, I invite you to contact me. I am committed to helping my clients become the most authentic version of themselves. I love working with issues around
sex
, relationships, gender, body image and with members of the LGBTQIA2+ community.
Welcome! I offer psychotherapy to adults, couples and other relationship configurations, families and teens, as well as
sex therapy
. I am a Certified
Sex
Therapist (CST) through AASECT and am also a gender care provider. I believe therapy is a collaborative process; you can think of me as a companion as we travel down the roads of your growth together. If you have been thinking about starting therapy, I invite you to contact me. I am committed to helping my clients become the most authentic version of themselves. I love working with issues around
sex
, relationships, gender, body image and with members of the LGBTQIA2+ community.
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