Sex Therapists in California
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Shannon Hanrahan
Psychologist, PsyD, PhD
Verified
Verified
Accepting new clients with the hope of turning this unusual time in history into a positive step in yours. In addition to my psychology credentials I also have a Ph.D. in sexology and a second masters in Psychopharmacology. While I don't believe that this is what sets me apart I do believe it is a strong foundation for my diverse client population. I work with addiction, alcohol monitoring, all
sex
related and mood issues, either chronic or secondary to life changes. I can see clients from anywhere in California or New Mexico via telehealth or anyone near my 3 offices once quarantine is lifted. (WLA/Fullerton/Newhall).

Fran Fisher
Counselor, RN, PhD
Verified
Verified
Is it Time for Sexual Harmony in Your Life? Whether you or your loved one is dealing with personal sexual issues that seem insurmountable or recovering from a physical trauma; when you have sat alone with your worry and pain until you think there is no hope, you need to talk to someone who can help in a safe and nurturing environment, I can help you. - Improving intimacy and
sexuality
within your relationship - Sexual impact of medical conditions - Sexual/Spiritual conflicts - Sexual obsessions - Sexual orientation issues - Intimacy & aging - Women's groups
Not accepting new clients

Deborah Cooper
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MFT
Verified
Verified
Parenting, blended families, sexual issues, adoption and infertility are areas of expertise, as are working with creative and spiritual concerns and helping couples reignite diminished
sex
lives.
Being a licensed psychotherapist since 1986, I've worked with a wide variety of issues. I know that pain and suffering are inevitable in life, but being miserable is optional. With warmth and humor, I am skilled at helping clients make meaning of the suffering, while facilitating and eliciting options that lead out of it. I work with couples and individuals of different races, ethnicities, sizes, orientations, genders, and ages. Therapy is the process of examining your life as a great novel in process of being created. My job is to help you envision and shape the next chapter.

Alisa Blatt
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MFT
Verified
Verified
Specializing in
sexuality
/ sexual issues allows me to help clients gain deeper intimacy with themselves and their partners.
Gaining the knowledge and skills that foster loving relationships is vital to your happiness. My goal is to help you create, build and nurture all of your relationships including and especially the one with yourself. Through one-on-one counseling, education, coaching and even art therapy, we can create a clear path to your greater well-being. Whether you want relationship relief, relationship repair or even relationship release, I provide a safe and supportive environment, and over 30 years of professional experience to help you resolve the things that matter most in your life.
Not accepting new clients

Sasha Melendez
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Verified
Verified
Utilizing a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy approach and a
sex
positive lens we will identify and challenge core values and schemas.
Therapy is a richly unique experience unlike any other. Through collaboration, acceptance, and honesty my practice helps individuals open their minds to healing and fulfillment. I am passionate about creating a safe environment where you are the expert of your own story.

Justin Oberste
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
Verified
Verified
New career. New home. The end of a relationship. The beginning of re-discovery. Living authentically. Living in power. Whatever your need, wherever your journey, welcome to your safe space. I'm an associate psychotherapist specializing in LGBTQ+ Affirmative Psychology and Religious Trauma Therapy. Currently, I'm completing studies in
Sex Therapy
. Here, you have found a caring confidant who offers unconditional positive regard. Allow me to assist you in the areas of general psychology, individual therapy and couples &
sex therapy
.

Linda De Villers
Psychologist, PhD
Verified
Verified
I am a CA psychologist and also certified as a Diplomate in
Sex Therapy
and
Sex Therapy
Supervisor.
Are you seeking a richer, more fulfilling
sex
life? If so, I can help you achieve that goal. With over 30 years of experience as a
sexuality
expert, I have helped hundreds of individuals and couples transform their
sex
lives and deepen their relationships. We will focus on discovering positive, creative solutions to your difficulty in a non-judgmental atmosphere of warmth, wit, and mutual respect. This positive, collaborative approach may include helpful exercises drawn from my book (now in its 6th edition), Love Skills: A Fun, Upbeat Guide to
Sex
-cessful Relationships.
Waitlist for new clients

Cat Meyer
Marriage & Family Therapist, PsyD, LMFT
Verified
Verified
I specialize in
sex therapy
+ ketamine-assisted therapy, working with couples and individuals who seek to understand and enliven their sexual selves.
You have the right and potential to be happy and living the life you want to be. Growth comes when we are able to let go of the need to be certain and embrace self-exploration. We may find ourselves suffering silently or blatantly out loud to the stressors that co-exist with us in our day-to-day lives. Holistic therapy allows for that unique experience to gain and practice the ability to look at self, develop skills to be vulnerable, love + let love in. I offer online 1-on-1, as well as, online courses, workshops, and retreats to fit your needs + preferences.
Waitlist for new clients

Jadelynn St Dre
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified
Verified
In addition, I am a
sex
therapist, focused on boundary development, pleasure, intimacy and desire.
During times of struggle, you have an absolute right to support from an attentive, warm, trustworthy witness - someone who believes in your strength and brilliance when you can no longer see it, and who stands by your side as you emerge as the architect of your own healing. My work and my passion is to be that witness. I entered into the field of mental health to uplift the experiences of those who often struggle to find responsive and attuned care. As a queer, biracial, Latinx therapist and advocate, I am wholly dedicated to opening a space with you through which you can experience repair, discovery, growth and transformation.
Not accepting new clients

Adrienne Usman
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified
Verified
I provide
sex therapy
to help clients better understand their relationships with themselves and others, whether that be through intimacy,
sex
, and all the stuff that’s uncomfortable to talk about.
Sex
and intimacy can be the most challenging part of a relationship. Do you feel uncomfortable, ashamed or embarrassed when talking about
sex
? Do you ask yourself, “Is this normal?” or “How do I ask my partner for this specific need during intimacy?” Do you wonder, “Why is this happening to me?”

Mind Divers
Psychologist, PhD, CST
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
Dr Winegarden is a Veteran of the United States Army, she works with many other Veterans and she is the only AASECT certified
sex
therapist in the San Joaquin Valley.
The therapists at MindDivers offer a full range of therapeutic services, much like our Clovis location at Achievements Unlimited. Whether it is a feeling of depression or bothersome anxiety that is difficult to control, children’s issues, or problems in your relationship or
sex
life, our staff has you covered. We care about you and your concerns so that you can come up for air and regain clarity and calmness in your life. We at MindDivers appreciate humor and compassion while exploring the depths with you.
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Noelle Clason
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified
Verified
I am currently a doctoral student in Human
Sexuality
with a research focus on trans/cis relationships, a
sex
educator endorsed by San Francisco
Sex
Information (SFSI), as well as Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist.
I provide
sex
-positive therapy to individuals, relationships, and adult families. Most of my clients have non-mainstream sexual, gender, and/or relationship identities. Many identify as non-monogamous, are considering opening or creatively designing their relationship(s); I help them to create agreements, move through jealousy, heal from infidelities, build trust, and improve communication with partners and metamours. I work with queer, transgender, and nonbinary clients just beginning to question and explore their identities, and those who have been out for years and need therapy from a clinician familiar with queer issues.

Stephanie Corinna Smith
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified
Verified
I am passionate about helping my clients decrease symptoms of anxiety and depression, communicate more effectively, improve their
sex
lives, and disrupt negative relational patterns. In working with couples and individuals, I utilize attachment-focused EMDR, mindfulness, and relational tools to helps clients heal. The goal is not just increased insight but cultivating a different emotional experience that can benefit all aspects of life.

Magen Todd
Psychologist, MA, PhD, CSAT
Verified
Verified
I'm a Licensed Clinical Psychologist, Certified
Sex
Addiction Therapist, and Founder of Hope Therapy.
For the past 16 years, the focus of my work has been helping individuals and couples achieve relationship and sexual wellness. Weather you're struggling with
sex
and love addiction, relationship difficulties, sexual problems, or suffering from the effects of trauma, I am committed to providing the most cutting edge, research supported therapy to help you not just overcome these issues, but thrive. My approach is holistic and affordable. I provide a range of services because I know that a one-size-fits all approach isn't effective. I will work with you to find the best solutions to meet your needs, goals and budget.

Claire Perelman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, PPSC
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
As a
Sex
Therapist, I offer "regular" therapy with additional expertise and training in
sex
and
sexuality
.
You deserve to feel deeply connected to yourself, your partner(s), and the world around you. I’m here to help. Talking about
sex
with your partner - or anyone - might feel like a daunting task. Having
sex
might feel difficult, impossible, or like too much effort - or lead to conflict with your partner. You might be questioning your sexual desires or wondering if you and your partner are still compatible. I help clients overcome their sexual and relational difficulties to feel confident in and outside the bedroom. Together, we will collaborate on how to help you reach your goals, through therapy sessions and home assignments.

Greta Hassel Grace
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT, MA, MDiv
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
She designed “Love, God &
Sex
” for women recovering from sexual shame and guilt.
GRETA is passionate about reaching couples needing to de-escalate conflict, deepen safety and transparency, and strengthen sexual compatibility and connection. She approaches presenting symptoms - anxiety, depression, or addictions - previously deemed problems, as messengers with keys for healing to reveal our buried treasure within. "Where you stumble, therein lies your treasure" is the north star that guides her work to reveal the LOVE that truly lives within. With singles, as a Certified Coach of Katherine Woodward Thomas' program, "Calling in the One", she offers a 6 week course in cultivating Your Attractor Factor.

Tameca Dove
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA,LMFT
Verified
Verified
My specialities are racial trauma, identity (sexual, personal, & cultural),
sex therapy
, relationships, & life transitions.
My passion is working with BIPOC, LGBTQIA2s+, Neuro-Divergent, 2E, Hsp's & Couples. I work with people who are anxious, overthinkers,empaths, depressed, neuro diverse, adoptees, and creatives. I take a holistic approach. I help people who struggle with setting boundaries, emotional regulation. relationship conflicts, and putting their needs first. I work with people going through life transitions, & are tired of being stuck and misunderstood by themselves and others. I help people understand how their behavior is connected to their thoughts, feelings, past experiences, mood & actions.

Martha Greenburg
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified
4 Endorsed
Verified
4 Endorsed
Are you tired of your life revolving around what you've eaten, how you look, or what you weigh? Maybe you feel out of control around food followed by guilt and shame? Many of my clients struggle with body image, and are tired of feeling like food, exercise, and weight dictate their happiness. If you've tried every diet, and are tired of your mood being affected by a number, therapy can help! I support clients in finding intuitive eating, body neutrality and body trust. I also work with couples struggling with communication, trust, and
sex
. As well as individuals facing codependency and life transitions.
Not accepting new clients

Michael Ryan Guichet
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified
4 Endorsed
Verified
4 Endorsed
Marriage and relationships are challenging and it is even harder to ask for what you want. Often people believe they are broken or their desires are shameful and I work to create change and facilitate communication. As a licensed psychotherapist, specializing in
sex therapy
, I work to help individuals, partners, and couples to connect. It is my passion to heal shame, have the hard talks, and facilitate communication. Personally, I know the challenges of maintaining the passion in a long term relationship and I don't believe it is normal to give up on intimacy.

Lisa Thompson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CST
Verified
Verified
I'm a licensed psychotherapist and AASECT-certified
sex
therapist and I work primarily from a contemporary psychodynamic/relational perspective.
Do you feel conflicted about your sexual fantasies and desires? Want to experience more ease and pleasure? If you’re looking for an empathic, trauma-informed
sex
therapist, you're in the right place. Maybe you're struggling to understand yourself and your relationships and are ready to heal old wounds. Empathic psychotherapy will help you feel more at peace and become more self-accepting. For partners, polycules, parents, and adult family members: Do you want to understand each other better and stop the repetitive cycles? Let’s get to the bottom of it and deepen your connection.
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Sex Therapy
Who is sex therapy for?
Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.
Why do people need sex therapy?
Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.
What happens in sex therapy?
People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.
What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?
Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.