Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists in California
By the time a child with ADHD reaches the age of ten years old they have received over 20,000 additional messages of criticism than their non-ADHD counterparts. These stressors stack up over time and can build to a state of complex trauma by the time we reach young adulthood. What have these stressors done to dim your light?
Living with neurocomplexities like ADHD can cause us to expend massive amounts of emotional energy. Coping mechanisms crop up to try to shield us from shame and failure, and then end up becoming a trap that makes it difficult to imagine a future where your true personality can exist too.
By the time a child with ADHD reaches the age of ten years old they have received over 20,000 additional messages of criticism than their non-ADHD counterparts. These stressors stack up over time and can build to a state of complex trauma by the time we reach young adulthood. What have these stressors done to dim your light?
Living with neurocomplexities like ADHD can cause us to expend massive amounts of emotional energy. Coping mechanisms crop up to try to shield us from shame and failure, and then end up becoming a trap that makes it difficult to imagine a future where your true personality can exist too.
I hold to the belief that all people have the potential to achieve healing and growth. As a practitioner, I take a supportive role as clients determine and strive towards their mental and emotional health goals. I believe my empathy and my non-judgmental, conversational style help form productive therapeutic relationships. In this safe place, difficult issues can be explored. I’m comfortable supporting people from varied age, sexual orientation and genders as well as diverse ethic and cultural backgrounds. I feel passionate about supporting people from groups that have been marginalized in Western society. My pronouns are She/Her
I hold to the belief that all people have the potential to achieve healing and growth. As a practitioner, I take a supportive role as clients determine and strive towards their mental and emotional health goals. I believe my empathy and my non-judgmental, conversational style help form productive therapeutic relationships. In this safe place, difficult issues can be explored. I’m comfortable supporting people from varied age, sexual orientation and genders as well as diverse ethic and cultural backgrounds. I feel passionate about supporting people from groups that have been marginalized in Western society. My pronouns are She/Her
I'm a Psychologist in CA and MN who believes each person has the potential to grow at any age. My ultimate focus in therapy is to not merely eliminate “symptoms” but to increase your fulfillment in life, as defined by you. This means treatment is customized to meet YOUR needs so you can meet your goals. I'm LGBTQIA+-Affirming & provide therapy for a variety of clinical disorders, including but not limited to anxiety, depression, OCD, PTSD, & interpersonal difficulties. I'm MAP-Informed. I believe in the potential for individual and emotional growth, striving to provide a safe and warm environment in which you can explore and thrive.
I'm a Psychologist in CA and MN who believes each person has the potential to grow at any age. My ultimate focus in therapy is to not merely eliminate “symptoms” but to increase your fulfillment in life, as defined by you. This means treatment is customized to meet YOUR needs so you can meet your goals. I'm LGBTQIA+-Affirming & provide therapy for a variety of clinical disorders, including but not limited to anxiety, depression, OCD, PTSD, & interpersonal difficulties. I'm MAP-Informed. I believe in the potential for individual and emotional growth, striving to provide a safe and warm environment in which you can explore and thrive.
My clients are high-functioning people who are tired of being held back from their potential. They've done the therapy, read the books, and have plenty of self-awareness, but there's still one pattern, one fear, one block that won't shift no matter how much they understand it.
They come in for anxiety that won't quiet down, phobias that are getting in the way, habits they've tried to quit a dozen times, or low confidence that affects their work or personal life. What they have in common is this: they're done managing the symptom. They're ready to change it.
My clients are high-functioning people who are tired of being held back from their potential. They've done the therapy, read the books, and have plenty of self-awareness, but there's still one pattern, one fear, one block that won't shift no matter how much they understand it.
They come in for anxiety that won't quiet down, phobias that are getting in the way, habits they've tried to quit a dozen times, or low confidence that affects their work or personal life. What they have in common is this: they're done managing the symptom. They're ready to change it.
Grief changes everything. Whether you've lost a person, a relationship, a version of your life you thought you'd have, or a future you were counting on, even ordinary days can feel impossible. You might be functioning on the outside while falling apart on the inside, wondering when you'll feel like yourself again, or if you ever will.
I specialize in grief and loss. That might mean death, divorce, or a major life transition. It might mean the slower grief of childhood wounds, or grieving a living parent, a relationship that has become painful or unrecognizable. Whatever brought you here, you don't have to keep carrying it alone.
Grief changes everything. Whether you've lost a person, a relationship, a version of your life you thought you'd have, or a future you were counting on, even ordinary days can feel impossible. You might be functioning on the outside while falling apart on the inside, wondering when you'll feel like yourself again, or if you ever will.
I specialize in grief and loss. That might mean death, divorce, or a major life transition. It might mean the slower grief of childhood wounds, or grieving a living parent, a relationship that has become painful or unrecognizable. Whatever brought you here, you don't have to keep carrying it alone.
Hi! You're here - that's a BIG first step! If you're reading this, you've already done something meaningful. There are probably a million questions running through your mind right now - Is this worth it? Will this actually help? Am I just wasting my time? Those thoughts are completely normal. Even considering therapy can take courage. And, if it crossed your mind enough to bring you here, I believe there's a reason for that. Something inside you is ready for care, understanding, and/or change - even if you're not quite sure of what that looks like yet...
Hi! You're here - that's a BIG first step! If you're reading this, you've already done something meaningful. There are probably a million questions running through your mind right now - Is this worth it? Will this actually help? Am I just wasting my time? Those thoughts are completely normal. Even considering therapy can take courage. And, if it crossed your mind enough to bring you here, I believe there's a reason for that. Something inside you is ready for care, understanding, and/or change - even if you're not quite sure of what that looks like yet...
I specialize in working with LGBTQ folks, trauma, body and fat liberation, and couples ( kink and CNM friendly).
Do you feel your survival strategies are keeping you from truly thriving? Maybe you find yourself scrolling social media for hours avoiding challenging emotions? Maybe you grew up around addiction or dysfunction and struggle to feel safe in relationships.
Together, we can explore the protective parts of you that have worked hard to keep you safe. By building compassion for these parts and leading from your authentic Self, you can create more freedom, connection, and fulfillment internally and in your relationships.
Your pain is real, and you don’t have to navigate it alone. I’d be honored to support you on this journey.
I specialize in working with LGBTQ folks, trauma, body and fat liberation, and couples ( kink and CNM friendly).
Do you feel your survival strategies are keeping you from truly thriving? Maybe you find yourself scrolling social media for hours avoiding challenging emotions? Maybe you grew up around addiction or dysfunction and struggle to feel safe in relationships.
Together, we can explore the protective parts of you that have worked hard to keep you safe. By building compassion for these parts and leading from your authentic Self, you can create more freedom, connection, and fulfillment internally and in your relationships.
Your pain is real, and you don’t have to navigate it alone. I’d be honored to support you on this journey.
Home visits are available, in Alameda. I provide a safe haven for you, your teen, child or family, to explore stress, relationship issues, and past traumas that are getting in the way of you experiencing a fulfilling life. My unique and gentle techniques enable you to challenge patterns and behaviors that are limiting joy, satisfaction, and the ability to be calm.. We work at your pace, developing strategies, which will empower you to reach your goals. Together we create a safe environment, where you feel free to shift and change on all levels of being: psychological, emotional, spiritual, physical, and energetic.
Home visits are available, in Alameda. I provide a safe haven for you, your teen, child or family, to explore stress, relationship issues, and past traumas that are getting in the way of you experiencing a fulfilling life. My unique and gentle techniques enable you to challenge patterns and behaviors that are limiting joy, satisfaction, and the ability to be calm.. We work at your pace, developing strategies, which will empower you to reach your goals. Together we create a safe environment, where you feel free to shift and change on all levels of being: psychological, emotional, spiritual, physical, and energetic.
I believe building an authentic human relationship rooted in non-judgement, caring attention, and respect for your unique goals is the key to effective therapy. For me, humor is an essential tool for connection and helps soften the difficult and sometimes painful work of healing. I aim for a balance between deep, transformative reflection and practical changes that can make everyday life feel lighter.
I believe building an authentic human relationship rooted in non-judgement, caring attention, and respect for your unique goals is the key to effective therapy. For me, humor is an essential tool for connection and helps soften the difficult and sometimes painful work of healing. I aim for a balance between deep, transformative reflection and practical changes that can make everyday life feel lighter.
You may be someone who feels pulled in many directions at once: managing anxiety or self-criticism, navigating relationship stress, and striving towards personal goals, all while feeling uncertain about the next chapter of your life. On the outside, look put together, but inside, you feel tense, unsure, or overwhelmed.
I work with adults who want grounded, effective support to understand why certain patterns keep repeating and how to shift them. We focus on what’s happening for you right now — the thoughts, reactions, and behaviors that keep you stuck — and build tools you can use outside therapy.
You may be someone who feels pulled in many directions at once: managing anxiety or self-criticism, navigating relationship stress, and striving towards personal goals, all while feeling uncertain about the next chapter of your life. On the outside, look put together, but inside, you feel tense, unsure, or overwhelmed.
I work with adults who want grounded, effective support to understand why certain patterns keep repeating and how to shift them. We focus on what’s happening for you right now — the thoughts, reactions, and behaviors that keep you stuck — and build tools you can use outside therapy.
My ideal clients are older teens, emerging adults, and adults navigating trauma, burnout, identity development, relationship challenges, or major life transitions. I especially enjoy working with queer and LGBTQIA2+ clients, neurodivergent individuals, couples, and those healing from religious harm, family rejection, chronic shame, or environments where they felt they had to hide parts of themselves to survive. Many come to therapy feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, or stuck in painful patterns and are seeking a supportive space to build self-trust, emotional regulation, and healthier relationships.
My ideal clients are older teens, emerging adults, and adults navigating trauma, burnout, identity development, relationship challenges, or major life transitions. I especially enjoy working with queer and LGBTQIA2+ clients, neurodivergent individuals, couples, and those healing from religious harm, family rejection, chronic shame, or environments where they felt they had to hide parts of themselves to survive. Many come to therapy feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, or stuck in painful patterns and are seeking a supportive space to build self-trust, emotional regulation, and healthier relationships.
Yes To Therapy, Individual, Family & Couples
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, LPCC, LCSW, PMHNP
2 Endorsed
Campbell, CA 95008
At Yes To Therapy, we offer therapy and medication management for individuals across all ages, genders, cultures, and backgrounds. Our goal is to provide a warm, inclusive space where every client feels seen and supported from the moment they arrive. Our diverse team of therapists represents a range of identities and clinical specialties, allowing us to thoughtfully match each person with a provider who aligns with their unique needs and preferences.
At Yes To Therapy, we offer therapy and medication management for individuals across all ages, genders, cultures, and backgrounds. Our goal is to provide a warm, inclusive space where every client feels seen and supported from the moment they arrive. Our diverse team of therapists represents a range of identities and clinical specialties, allowing us to thoughtfully match each person with a provider who aligns with their unique needs and preferences.
I am a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in California since 2006. I was a registered psychologist, counselor, and family mediator in New Zealand before moving to the United States as a professor in marriage and family therapy at San Diego State University. I worked and trained in educational psychology before being immersed in narrative therapy, narrative mediation, and solution-focused therapy in the 1990s. I have worked a lot in schools with children and teens, addressed parenting challenges, helped blended families address unique crises that arise, help clients with separation and divorce.
I am a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in California since 2006. I was a registered psychologist, counselor, and family mediator in New Zealand before moving to the United States as a professor in marriage and family therapy at San Diego State University. I worked and trained in educational psychology before being immersed in narrative therapy, narrative mediation, and solution-focused therapy in the 1990s. I have worked a lot in schools with children and teens, addressed parenting challenges, helped blended families address unique crises that arise, help clients with separation and divorce.
Do you find yourself overthinking, feeling emotionally overwhelmed, or stuck in the same patterns in your relationships? Maybe you struggle with anxiety, self-doubt, or conflict that never seems to fully resolve. Therapy can help you make sense of these experiences and more importantly, change them. In our work together, you’ll gain a deeper understanding of yourself, your emotions, triggers, and the patterns that keep showing up in your life. We’ll look at how your past experiences and current stressors impact the way you think, feel, and respond, especially in relationships. Helping you reach your goals is my priority.
Do you find yourself overthinking, feeling emotionally overwhelmed, or stuck in the same patterns in your relationships? Maybe you struggle with anxiety, self-doubt, or conflict that never seems to fully resolve. Therapy can help you make sense of these experiences and more importantly, change them. In our work together, you’ll gain a deeper understanding of yourself, your emotions, triggers, and the patterns that keep showing up in your life. We’ll look at how your past experiences and current stressors impact the way you think, feel, and respond, especially in relationships. Helping you reach your goals is my priority.
Alanna
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
6 Endorsed
San Francisco, CA 94110
Waitlist for new clients
I help couples and family members navigate toward a secure bond and shared future. It might feel difficult-to-impossible to have open conversations with those you love most. A stressful life transition or grief could be creating distance, when closeness and support are what's needed. Unhelpful communication patterns or harmful coping strategies may be getting in the way.
If your relationship is suffering or stuck, you don't have to struggle with it alone. You can grow the acceptance and authenticity to feed a well-lived life. I bring an encouraging presence, relational style, and humor that enliven the therapeutic experience.
I help couples and family members navigate toward a secure bond and shared future. It might feel difficult-to-impossible to have open conversations with those you love most. A stressful life transition or grief could be creating distance, when closeness and support are what's needed. Unhelpful communication patterns or harmful coping strategies may be getting in the way.
If your relationship is suffering or stuck, you don't have to struggle with it alone. You can grow the acceptance and authenticity to feed a well-lived life. I bring an encouraging presence, relational style, and humor that enliven the therapeutic experience.
Life’s toughest moments often lead us to therapy, especially when we feel broken or stuck. These challenges may arise from personal relationships, life transitions, or systemic oppression. As your therapist, I walk alongside you, discovering beauty in the shadows and guiding you back to your inherent wholeness. I strive to truly understand and connect with each client, fostering a warm, direct, and collaborative environment. My goal is to build a genuine connection, offering honest support as we navigate the path to resolution together
Life’s toughest moments often lead us to therapy, especially when we feel broken or stuck. These challenges may arise from personal relationships, life transitions, or systemic oppression. As your therapist, I walk alongside you, discovering beauty in the shadows and guiding you back to your inherent wholeness. I strive to truly understand and connect with each client, fostering a warm, direct, and collaborative environment. My goal is to build a genuine connection, offering honest support as we navigate the path to resolution together
Kylee Donohue
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, CPC
2 Endorsed
Los Angeles, CA 90039
Waitlist for new clients
I provide a supportive container and direct feedback while exploring issues such as boundaries, relationship with self and others, “being” rather than “doing,” and clarity around your patterns and direction in life. My goal is to meet you exactly where you are. Pulling from a variety of modalities and skills to customize treatment, my approach is tailored to each individual client. I am trained in EMDR, Gottman Level 1 &2, and certified for Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy. Kylee is passionate about working with young professionals who are trying to recover from their perfectionism and discover a deeper sense of self-worth
I provide a supportive container and direct feedback while exploring issues such as boundaries, relationship with self and others, “being” rather than “doing,” and clarity around your patterns and direction in life. My goal is to meet you exactly where you are. Pulling from a variety of modalities and skills to customize treatment, my approach is tailored to each individual client. I am trained in EMDR, Gottman Level 1 &2, and certified for Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy. Kylee is passionate about working with young professionals who are trying to recover from their perfectionism and discover a deeper sense of self-worth
How’s life? Want to talk about it? It can be hard to take the first step in finding a psychotherapist who is a good fit for you but, you’ve already gotten closer by exploring the web. Depression, Anxiety, Stress, and other Mental Health matters can be hard to manage and get in the way of having a peaceful and fulfilling life. If you or your teen/young adult are struggling with your emotional wellbeing, thoughts, feelings, or adjustments to life experiences, we can work together to look at how to make progress and the changes that you need to process some of the current matters you are facing.
How’s life? Want to talk about it? It can be hard to take the first step in finding a psychotherapist who is a good fit for you but, you’ve already gotten closer by exploring the web. Depression, Anxiety, Stress, and other Mental Health matters can be hard to manage and get in the way of having a peaceful and fulfilling life. If you or your teen/young adult are struggling with your emotional wellbeing, thoughts, feelings, or adjustments to life experiences, we can work together to look at how to make progress and the changes that you need to process some of the current matters you are facing.
I'm sex positive, kink aware and easy to talk with.
I work primarily with young adults navigating anxiety, attachment wounds, and the lasting impact of complicated relationships with their mothers. Many of my clients are insightful and capable, yet feel chronically dysregulated, self-critical, or unsure of themselves in relationships.
I’m easy to talk to, present, and gently direct. Therapy with me isn’t an interrogation—I won’t answer your questions with more questions or rush you toward quick fixes. I believe healing happens in a shame-free, attuned relationship where your nervous system feels safe enough to soften.
I'm sex positive, kink aware and easy to talk with.
I work primarily with young adults navigating anxiety, attachment wounds, and the lasting impact of complicated relationships with their mothers. Many of my clients are insightful and capable, yet feel chronically dysregulated, self-critical, or unsure of themselves in relationships.
I’m easy to talk to, present, and gently direct. Therapy with me isn’t an interrogation—I won’t answer your questions with more questions or rush you toward quick fixes. I believe healing happens in a shame-free, attuned relationship where your nervous system feels safe enough to soften.
Life can be tough. Feeling overwhelmed by your thoughts and emotions can make it feel even tougher. Worries can paralyze you or keep you from the life you want. Intrusive obsessive thoughts can lead to cycles of avoidance, reassurance, and compulsive actions that try (but fail) to make things better. You can drown in the low lows of your mood, energy, and motivation. And these challenges can show up in even more unexpected ways, including hair pulling, skin picking, or body dysmorphia. These concerns emerge for children, teens, and adults alike - all of whom simply want a life without mental and emotional suffering.
Life can be tough. Feeling overwhelmed by your thoughts and emotions can make it feel even tougher. Worries can paralyze you or keep you from the life you want. Intrusive obsessive thoughts can lead to cycles of avoidance, reassurance, and compulsive actions that try (but fail) to make things better. You can drown in the low lows of your mood, energy, and motivation. And these challenges can show up in even more unexpected ways, including hair pulling, skin picking, or body dysmorphia. These concerns emerge for children, teens, and adults alike - all of whom simply want a life without mental and emotional suffering.
