Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists in California
“The core of human suffering lies in the resistance to what is.” – John J. Prendergast
Life can move at a relentless pace, leaving little room to slow down, listen inward, and tend to what is asking for care. Therapy offers a grounded, confidential space to pause where we can gently turn toward your experience with honesty, compassion, and curiosity.
I work with individuals and couples navigating anxiety, relational distress, life transitions, and disconnection from self or meaning. Together, we explore the layers of your relational patterns, emotional landscape, and the ways your history lives in your body and nervous system.
“The core of human suffering lies in the resistance to what is.” – John J. Prendergast
Life can move at a relentless pace, leaving little room to slow down, listen inward, and tend to what is asking for care. Therapy offers a grounded, confidential space to pause where we can gently turn toward your experience with honesty, compassion, and curiosity.
I work with individuals and couples navigating anxiety, relational distress, life transitions, and disconnection from self or meaning. Together, we explore the layers of your relational patterns, emotional landscape, and the ways your history lives in your body and nervous system.
I offer support to high-functioning adults who feel stuck despite outward success. They struggle with anxiety, perfectionism, people-pleasing, or burnout. Deep down, they want relief, clarity, and self-trust. They’re ready to explore their inner world, heal past wounds, and live with more ease, integrity, and connection to who they really are.
I offer support to high-functioning adults who feel stuck despite outward success. They struggle with anxiety, perfectionism, people-pleasing, or burnout. Deep down, they want relief, clarity, and self-trust. They’re ready to explore their inner world, heal past wounds, and live with more ease, integrity, and connection to who they really are.
My ideal client would be an individual/client motivated and dedicated to change, who is an active participant with their goals and progress.
My ideal client would be an individual/client motivated and dedicated to change, who is an active participant with their goals and progress.
I'm ENM, Poly, LS/BDSM/ Kink aligned.
Are you longing for a deeper sense of self and struggling to identify or voice your own needs? Falling back into old patterns of thinking or behaving that derails your relationships or trigger diminished feelings of self worth? Are you struggling to connect intimately with your partner and can't find the words to talk it about it without shame, blame or conflict? Do you struggle to feel connected to people in your life, feel isolated, or overly anxious? When trauma or past experiences are the building blocks of unhelpful core beliefs, it's time to get to know and decenter the parts of you that hold you back from being truly self-led
I'm ENM, Poly, LS/BDSM/ Kink aligned.
Are you longing for a deeper sense of self and struggling to identify or voice your own needs? Falling back into old patterns of thinking or behaving that derails your relationships or trigger diminished feelings of self worth? Are you struggling to connect intimately with your partner and can't find the words to talk it about it without shame, blame or conflict? Do you struggle to feel connected to people in your life, feel isolated, or overly anxious? When trauma or past experiences are the building blocks of unhelpful core beliefs, it's time to get to know and decenter the parts of you that hold you back from being truly self-led
In a culture that equates your productivity to your self-worth, it can be a challenge to fully feel the pleasure in taking care of yourself. I reject the cultural beliefs that shame us and try to force us to endure, rather than enjoy. Seeking support is a show of strength, there is no shame in it, and you shouldn’t have to “tough it out” on your own or “just get by”. Whatever it is about your relationships, connections, or experiences with intimacy that brought you here deserves attention. I’m interested in helping you feel more like yourself, more alive, & more at ease in the world.
In a culture that equates your productivity to your self-worth, it can be a challenge to fully feel the pleasure in taking care of yourself. I reject the cultural beliefs that shame us and try to force us to endure, rather than enjoy. Seeking support is a show of strength, there is no shame in it, and you shouldn’t have to “tough it out” on your own or “just get by”. Whatever it is about your relationships, connections, or experiences with intimacy that brought you here deserves attention. I’m interested in helping you feel more like yourself, more alive, & more at ease in the world.
It can be hard to resolve sexual differences like mismatched libidos, kink differences or non-monogamy differences because talking about it can unfortunately lead to arguments.
I am here to help! I'm a therapist turned coach with 20 years of experience. Detecting psychological and relationship patterns is what I do best. I start by assessing the emotional dynamics that are happening and identifying any areas that could use improvement. Then we work together through coaching and supplemental resources to get you to your goals.
It can be hard to resolve sexual differences like mismatched libidos, kink differences or non-monogamy differences because talking about it can unfortunately lead to arguments.
I am here to help! I'm a therapist turned coach with 20 years of experience. Detecting psychological and relationship patterns is what I do best. I start by assessing the emotional dynamics that are happening and identifying any areas that could use improvement. Then we work together through coaching and supplemental resources to get you to your goals.
Are you battling depression, anxiety, trauma, anger, or seeking healthier coping mechanisms for difficult relationships? Do you identify as culturally diverse (e.g. BIPOC, LGBTQIA+, etc.)? Are seeking support tailored to your experiences? Our inclusive group practice is here for you. We're here to navigate your struggles with you as you heal from traumas; embrace change; discover alternate ways of thinking, feeling, behaving, and being; gain insights into how your past impacts your present; finding solace and emotional release in co-created healing spaces; and live the life that aligns with your truest, most liberated self.
Are you battling depression, anxiety, trauma, anger, or seeking healthier coping mechanisms for difficult relationships? Do you identify as culturally diverse (e.g. BIPOC, LGBTQIA+, etc.)? Are seeking support tailored to your experiences? Our inclusive group practice is here for you. We're here to navigate your struggles with you as you heal from traumas; embrace change; discover alternate ways of thinking, feeling, behaving, and being; gain insights into how your past impacts your present; finding solace and emotional release in co-created healing spaces; and live the life that aligns with your truest, most liberated self.
I am in or am familiar with the following populations: poly, queer, kink, pagan, atheist, neurodivergent.
Get out of your own way!
I work with individuals, couples, teens, and tweens using a nonjudgmental and straightforward style. I use a combination of Dialectical Behavior Therapy and psychodynamic therapy in order to help you get from where you are to where you want to be. DBT can be a concrete road map for daily activities and psychodynamic therapy will help you gain the insight into yourself and find the deep strength that will give you resiliency for everything that comes your way.
I have Saturday appointment spots available.
I am in or am familiar with the following populations: poly, queer, kink, pagan, atheist, neurodivergent.
Get out of your own way!
I work with individuals, couples, teens, and tweens using a nonjudgmental and straightforward style. I use a combination of Dialectical Behavior Therapy and psychodynamic therapy in order to help you get from where you are to where you want to be. DBT can be a concrete road map for daily activities and psychodynamic therapy will help you gain the insight into yourself and find the deep strength that will give you resiliency for everything that comes your way.
I have Saturday appointment spots available.
I am trauma focused, a member of the LGBTQ community, KINK/BDSM, poly positive and affirming.
Creativity is at the core of how I support clients. I believe everyone is inherently creative, and for many, creativity is not just a passion, but a vital way of processing experience, especially when it comes to trauma, identity, and complex events. Even if you consider yourself non creative you may be surprised at how deeply humanizing it is.
I am trauma focused, a member of the LGBTQ community, KINK/BDSM, poly positive and affirming.
Creativity is at the core of how I support clients. I believe everyone is inherently creative, and for many, creativity is not just a passion, but a vital way of processing experience, especially when it comes to trauma, identity, and complex events. Even if you consider yourself non creative you may be surprised at how deeply humanizing it is.
I specialize in relationship issues, non-monogamy, kink, sexuality, and trauma, and I offer a warm, engaged, nonjudgmental space where clients can heal old wounds, strengthen self-trust, and create more honest, connected, and fulfilling lives and relationships.
My work goes beyond traditional talk therapy. Depending on your needs, I may integrate EMDR, somatic therapy, Internal Parts Work, mindfulness, guided visualization, and, when appropriate, ketamine-assisted therapy to help you heal and create lasting change.
I specialize in relationship issues, non-monogamy, kink, sexuality, and trauma, and I offer a warm, engaged, nonjudgmental space where clients can heal old wounds, strengthen self-trust, and create more honest, connected, and fulfilling lives and relationships.
My work goes beyond traditional talk therapy. Depending on your needs, I may integrate EMDR, somatic therapy, Internal Parts Work, mindfulness, guided visualization, and, when appropriate, ketamine-assisted therapy to help you heal and create lasting change.
You’re not going crazy—you’re doing the best you can under crazy circumstances.
If you’re reading this, you've already made the first step. You don’t have to have it all figured out. You don’t even have to know exactly what you need yet. You just have to show up.
I offer compassionate, open-minded therapy in Louisiana and California, grounded in the belief that being able to say what’s really on your mind—without judgment—can bring relief and clarity. My goal is to understand the world from your perspective and work alongside you, as a team.
You’re not going crazy—you’re doing the best you can under crazy circumstances.
If you’re reading this, you've already made the first step. You don’t have to have it all figured out. You don’t even have to know exactly what you need yet. You just have to show up.
I offer compassionate, open-minded therapy in Louisiana and California, grounded in the belief that being able to say what’s really on your mind—without judgment—can bring relief and clarity. My goal is to understand the world from your perspective and work alongside you, as a team.
My goal as a therapist is to assist you on your journey of self-awareness and personal discovery. I like to take a here-and-now approach during therapy and I also believe that understanding your present and being able to be fully aware of your thoughts and actions in the moment will help unlock and uncover unresolved issues from your past. I strongly believe in the concept of subjective reality. I enjoy working with a wide variety of clientele and have a special interest in working with young adult females, and individuals and couples in areas of sexual intimacy and general relationship counseling.
My goal as a therapist is to assist you on your journey of self-awareness and personal discovery. I like to take a here-and-now approach during therapy and I also believe that understanding your present and being able to be fully aware of your thoughts and actions in the moment will help unlock and uncover unresolved issues from your past. I strongly believe in the concept of subjective reality. I enjoy working with a wide variety of clientele and have a special interest in working with young adult females, and individuals and couples in areas of sexual intimacy and general relationship counseling.
Welcoming ALL people - including those in LGBTQI+, poly, kink, trans & neuro-diverse communities.
We all get 'stuck' sometimes. As humans, sometimes the road is very rough. But, you don't have to go it alone! To be fully yourself, comfortable in your own skin, enjoying your relationships - these possibilities are in you, no matter how big the obstacles are. I can help! I'm your coach, consultant, and experienced mental health expert. Together we'll build on your strengths and grow your confidence to create lasting change. Warm, caring and knowledgeable...this is a safe, compassionate space to explore the difficult places and experiences in your life. You can find healing and grow!
Welcoming ALL people - including those in LGBTQI+, poly, kink, trans & neuro-diverse communities.
We all get 'stuck' sometimes. As humans, sometimes the road is very rough. But, you don't have to go it alone! To be fully yourself, comfortable in your own skin, enjoying your relationships - these possibilities are in you, no matter how big the obstacles are. I can help! I'm your coach, consultant, and experienced mental health expert. Together we'll build on your strengths and grow your confidence to create lasting change. Warm, caring and knowledgeable...this is a safe, compassionate space to explore the difficult places and experiences in your life. You can find healing and grow!
You are a sexual explorer craving novelty & guidance in genital strokes, sensate mapping, sexual styles, core erotic themes, tantra, kink, & so much more!
Hello, welcome to my page! You must be looking for something delicious ;). My name is Blair & I am both a Somatic Sex Coach and Somatic Experiencing Practitioner. I hold a MA in Clinical Mental Health Counseling: Mindfulness-Based Transpersonal Counseling & I am here to assist you in creating the lustful life that you desire through coaching in Everyday Eroticism. Together, we will get you to where you desire to be in your life erotically. I hope you enjoy the ride. I am a seasoned trauma & pleasure specialist offering touch and "virtual" touch in session. With curiosity and playfulness, you may choose to work with me if...
You are a sexual explorer craving novelty & guidance in genital strokes, sensate mapping, sexual styles, core erotic themes, tantra, kink, & so much more!
Hello, welcome to my page! You must be looking for something delicious ;). My name is Blair & I am both a Somatic Sex Coach and Somatic Experiencing Practitioner. I hold a MA in Clinical Mental Health Counseling: Mindfulness-Based Transpersonal Counseling & I am here to assist you in creating the lustful life that you desire through coaching in Everyday Eroticism. Together, we will get you to where you desire to be in your life erotically. I hope you enjoy the ride. I am a seasoned trauma & pleasure specialist offering touch and "virtual" touch in session. With curiosity and playfulness, you may choose to work with me if...
My therapy is Sex Positive and LBGTQI affirmative.
I offer in-person, outdoor garden sessions (w/ indoor, phone & zoom when needed.) I collaborate with your highest functioning self to support your confused, critical, scared young parts. Your psyche is resilient and thrives on love and therapeutic attention. I laugh a lot with my clients. Though the work of healing can be challenging, my clients usually begin to feel better and keep coming. I work well with creative people and across the spectrums of straight to queer and mono to poly. I have specializations in Psychoanalytic psychotherapy, Mindfulness, Buddhism and Existential psychotherapy and a background in philosophy.
My therapy is Sex Positive and LBGTQI affirmative.
I offer in-person, outdoor garden sessions (w/ indoor, phone & zoom when needed.) I collaborate with your highest functioning self to support your confused, critical, scared young parts. Your psyche is resilient and thrives on love and therapeutic attention. I laugh a lot with my clients. Though the work of healing can be challenging, my clients usually begin to feel better and keep coming. I work well with creative people and across the spectrums of straight to queer and mono to poly. I have specializations in Psychoanalytic psychotherapy, Mindfulness, Buddhism and Existential psychotherapy and a background in philosophy.
Feeling overwhelmed or disconnected? I provide an affirming space to slow down, feel safer in your body, and explore how stress shows up in your life. I work with people of all identities, and I specialize in supporting neurodivergent, queer, and trans folks. My clients are adults navigating stress, anxiety, relationship challenges, trauma, or patterns they want to change. Many feel overwhelmed, disconnected from their bodies, or unsure why certain reactions keep showing up. They want to feel calmer, more grounded, and better able to understand themselves, not just manage symptoms, but feel more at ease in daily life.
Feeling overwhelmed or disconnected? I provide an affirming space to slow down, feel safer in your body, and explore how stress shows up in your life. I work with people of all identities, and I specialize in supporting neurodivergent, queer, and trans folks. My clients are adults navigating stress, anxiety, relationship challenges, trauma, or patterns they want to change. Many feel overwhelmed, disconnected from their bodies, or unsure why certain reactions keep showing up. They want to feel calmer, more grounded, and better able to understand themselves, not just manage symptoms, but feel more at ease in daily life.
My name is Emily (she/her), and I’m a Licensed Clinical Social Worker that provides therapy in California. As your therapist, my goal is to walk alongside you with the understanding that you are the expert in your own life. I offer a warm, non-judgmental space where you can express your full self, and where I'll bring my full self with all of our messy imperfections. Research shows that the quality of the relationship between client and therapist is the strongest predictor for positive therapeutic outcomes, so I always want to make sure folks are comfortable and happy with me as their therapist.
My name is Emily (she/her), and I’m a Licensed Clinical Social Worker that provides therapy in California. As your therapist, my goal is to walk alongside you with the understanding that you are the expert in your own life. I offer a warm, non-judgmental space where you can express your full self, and where I'll bring my full self with all of our messy imperfections. Research shows that the quality of the relationship between client and therapist is the strongest predictor for positive therapeutic outcomes, so I always want to make sure folks are comfortable and happy with me as their therapist.
Let's go on an exploration that will lead to lasting and tangible positive change. It takes a lot of courage to do this, but it is often in the discomfort that we grow. I encourage you to call me for a free consultation and ask any questions you have about me or the therapy. I will want to know about your goals and what you are hoping for in a therapeutic relationship. My approach is eclectic, highlighted by depth psychology and systems thinking. I believe in a holistic and non-linear view of life that endorses compassion, curiosity, and also getting out of our comfort zones. Once there is trust between us, I will lovingly push you.
Let's go on an exploration that will lead to lasting and tangible positive change. It takes a lot of courage to do this, but it is often in the discomfort that we grow. I encourage you to call me for a free consultation and ask any questions you have about me or the therapy. I will want to know about your goals and what you are hoping for in a therapeutic relationship. My approach is eclectic, highlighted by depth psychology and systems thinking. I believe in a holistic and non-linear view of life that endorses compassion, curiosity, and also getting out of our comfort zones. Once there is trust between us, I will lovingly push you.
My mission in life and my personal passion as a Psychologist is to be of service to those navigating life’s most complex and difficult challenges in their day to day lives. That is why I am so excited about your decision to begin therapy. Sharing your life experiences is not made lightly and that is why I am always humbled to be apart of each new journey. We will work collaboratively throughout the process in navigating through the anxiety, depression, self-doubt, and other challenges keeping you from enjoying the life you envision.
My mission in life and my personal passion as a Psychologist is to be of service to those navigating life’s most complex and difficult challenges in their day to day lives. That is why I am so excited about your decision to begin therapy. Sharing your life experiences is not made lightly and that is why I am always humbled to be apart of each new journey. We will work collaboratively throughout the process in navigating through the anxiety, depression, self-doubt, and other challenges keeping you from enjoying the life you envision.
I am passionate about the work that I do and truly believe in the benefits of utilizing DBT skills with my clients in the outpatient setting. I want to help my clients move away from all-or-nothing thinking, find relief from emotional suffering, regain control over powerful emotions, and eventually, not need me anymore.
I am passionate about the work that I do and truly believe in the benefits of utilizing DBT skills with my clients in the outpatient setting. I want to help my clients move away from all-or-nothing thinking, find relief from emotional suffering, regain control over powerful emotions, and eventually, not need me anymore.
