Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists in California
Are you navigating open relationships, polyamory, or kink and finding that the emotional terrain is harder than expected?
I use CBT with a systemic lens — meaning we look at both your thought patterns and the relational dynamics shaping them. Sessions are direct, non-judgmental, and structured around building emotional awareness and communication skills. I specialize in nontraditional dynamics and sexual health. No explaining your lifestyle here.
Are you navigating open relationships, polyamory, or kink and finding that the emotional terrain is harder than expected?
I use CBT with a systemic lens — meaning we look at both your thought patterns and the relational dynamics shaping them. Sessions are direct, non-judgmental, and structured around building emotional awareness and communication skills. I specialize in nontraditional dynamics and sexual health. No explaining your lifestyle here.
CNM/poly, kink, neurodivergent, and LGBTQ+ affirming.
I am a Certified Trauma Professional (CTP) focused on cultivating embodied wisdom and awareness of how relational patterns may shape your felt relationship with yourself and others. I help individuals and couples use acceptance and mindfulness strategies to stay present and move toward valued goals despite difficult thoughts, feelings, or urges.
CNM/poly, kink, neurodivergent, and LGBTQ+ affirming.
I am a Certified Trauma Professional (CTP) focused on cultivating embodied wisdom and awareness of how relational patterns may shape your felt relationship with yourself and others. I help individuals and couples use acceptance and mindfulness strategies to stay present and move toward valued goals despite difficult thoughts, feelings, or urges.
Life can get complicated and there is no handbook on how to handle things like depression, anxiety, addiction and relationship problems. It is important to know two things: 1. you are not alone, 2. challenges are always opportunities to grow and change your life. You are probably here because it's time to "do something different." Let us help guide you through this journey!
Life can get complicated and there is no handbook on how to handle things like depression, anxiety, addiction and relationship problems. It is important to know two things: 1. you are not alone, 2. challenges are always opportunities to grow and change your life. You are probably here because it's time to "do something different." Let us help guide you through this journey!
My training specializes in human sexuality, gender exploration, and kink or ethical non-monogamy curiosity.
Sexual liberation and exploration can help uncover psychosomatic healing and self empowerment. My priority is to offer a nurturing, non-judgmental and collaborative space where I support my clients integrate pleasure and autonomy into their lives. My services include, but aren't limited to, navigating desire discrepancies, processing sexual and relational trauma, releasing shame related to sexuality, supporting parents of LGBTQIA+ children and management of anxiety or depression. I work with individuals, couples, ENM configurations, sex workers, queer, trans or neurodivergent individuals.
My training specializes in human sexuality, gender exploration, and kink or ethical non-monogamy curiosity.
Sexual liberation and exploration can help uncover psychosomatic healing and self empowerment. My priority is to offer a nurturing, non-judgmental and collaborative space where I support my clients integrate pleasure and autonomy into their lives. My services include, but aren't limited to, navigating desire discrepancies, processing sexual and relational trauma, releasing shame related to sexuality, supporting parents of LGBTQIA+ children and management of anxiety or depression. I work with individuals, couples, ENM configurations, sex workers, queer, trans or neurodivergent individuals.
I am in or am familiar with the following populations: poly, queer, kink, pagan, atheist, neurodivergent.
Get out of your own way!
I work with individuals, couples, teens, and tweens using a nonjudgmental and straightforward style. I use a combination of Dialectical Behavior Therapy and psychodynamic therapy in order to help you get from where you are to where you want to be. DBT can be a concrete road map for daily activities and psychodynamic therapy will help you gain the insight into yourself and find the deep strength that will give you resiliency for everything that comes your way.
I have Saturday appointment spots available.
I am in or am familiar with the following populations: poly, queer, kink, pagan, atheist, neurodivergent.
Get out of your own way!
I work with individuals, couples, teens, and tweens using a nonjudgmental and straightforward style. I use a combination of Dialectical Behavior Therapy and psychodynamic therapy in order to help you get from where you are to where you want to be. DBT can be a concrete road map for daily activities and psychodynamic therapy will help you gain the insight into yourself and find the deep strength that will give you resiliency for everything that comes your way.
I have Saturday appointment spots available.
Hello, I'm Kai. I'm a queer & trans/genderqueer mixed-race pilpinx therapist providing telehealth throughout the state of California. I am especially passionate about working with people of color, and love working with those who are qtbipoc, trans, disabled, kinky, swers, nonmonogamous, formerly incarcerated, immigrant, and activists or anarchists.
My educational training was centered around a psychodynamic lens, and I have been particularly drawn toward incorporating relational therapy, liberation psychology, somatic therapy, parts work, ERP, and trauma-focused therapies such as EMDR in my work.
Hello, I'm Kai. I'm a queer & trans/genderqueer mixed-race pilpinx therapist providing telehealth throughout the state of California. I am especially passionate about working with people of color, and love working with those who are qtbipoc, trans, disabled, kinky, swers, nonmonogamous, formerly incarcerated, immigrant, and activists or anarchists.
My educational training was centered around a psychodynamic lens, and I have been particularly drawn toward incorporating relational therapy, liberation psychology, somatic therapy, parts work, ERP, and trauma-focused therapies such as EMDR in my work.
An ideal client would be a person who is interested in improving their relationship to others and themselves. They are interested in centering pleasure and joy into their life so they can have better sex, romantic relationships, and friendships while also improving their own self-image and self esteem.
An ideal client would be a person who is interested in improving their relationship to others and themselves. They are interested in centering pleasure and joy into their life so they can have better sex, romantic relationships, and friendships while also improving their own self-image and self esteem.
I am a Registered Associate Marriage Family Therapist supervised and employed by Susan Levin LMFT 47760. I center agency and humanity in my work with clients. My approach is deeply relational and I want to know what you need to feel safe and seen to co-create our work around your goals. As a biracial, bisexual, genderqueer therapist grounded in liberation and narrative therapy, I see healing as a process of remembering yourself and finding meaning in what you’ve survived. In learning to move with it, not against it we reclaim your voice, agency, and the possibility of living with greater freedom, connection, and truth.
I am a Registered Associate Marriage Family Therapist supervised and employed by Susan Levin LMFT 47760. I center agency and humanity in my work with clients. My approach is deeply relational and I want to know what you need to feel safe and seen to co-create our work around your goals. As a biracial, bisexual, genderqueer therapist grounded in liberation and narrative therapy, I see healing as a process of remembering yourself and finding meaning in what you’ve survived. In learning to move with it, not against it we reclaim your voice, agency, and the possibility of living with greater freedom, connection, and truth.
I am allied with LGBTQIA+ folks and I work from a sex positive perspective.
The foundation of my practice is attunement; the careful, compassionate attention to what is happening in your inner world moment by moment. Healing unfolds through presence, through the quality of energy in the room, and through a therapeutic relationship rooted in safety, curiosity, courage, and respect.
I am allied with LGBTQIA+ folks and I work from a sex positive perspective.
The foundation of my practice is attunement; the careful, compassionate attention to what is happening in your inner world moment by moment. Healing unfolds through presence, through the quality of energy in the room, and through a therapeutic relationship rooted in safety, curiosity, courage, and respect.
My ideal clients are self-aware, growth-oriented individuals who feel ready for more—more alignment, more expression, and more ease. I often work with artists, athletes, entrepreneurs, and leaders who are navigating high performance, creativity, and visibility. Many of my clients are neurodivergent and experience both intensity and excitement for life’s possibilities. They may come in feeling overwhelmed, blocked, or disconnected from themselves or their relationships, while also knowing there is a deeper level of clarity, confidence, and fulfillment available to them.
My ideal clients are self-aware, growth-oriented individuals who feel ready for more—more alignment, more expression, and more ease. I often work with artists, athletes, entrepreneurs, and leaders who are navigating high performance, creativity, and visibility. Many of my clients are neurodivergent and experience both intensity and excitement for life’s possibilities. They may come in feeling overwhelmed, blocked, or disconnected from themselves or their relationships, while also knowing there is a deeper level of clarity, confidence, and fulfillment available to them.
My clients come from diverse backgrounds, seeking a safe, supportive space to explore challenges and grow. I work with individuals, couples, and families navigating trauma, relationship dynamics, and mental health concerns. Each person and family faces unique struggles, including communication, boundaries, and stigma that deserve an individualized approach. Whether healing from trauma or seeking personal development, I offer my clients compassionate, non-judgmental support to help them thrive.
My clients come from diverse backgrounds, seeking a safe, supportive space to explore challenges and grow. I work with individuals, couples, and families navigating trauma, relationship dynamics, and mental health concerns. Each person and family faces unique struggles, including communication, boundaries, and stigma that deserve an individualized approach. Whether healing from trauma or seeking personal development, I offer my clients compassionate, non-judgmental support to help them thrive.
I am passionate about attuning to and embracing all parts of the self and exploring the fullness of your identity, expression, and experience with the therapeutic relationship being at the heart of our work together. My practice intends to create a space of safety and depth as we explore and move through complex emotions and experiences toward your goals throughout this collaborative process. My style is curious, playful, and direct, while you and I use the therapeutic relationship as a laboratory within which to facilitate the meaningful changes that will reconnect you with yourself, with life, and with the people around you.
I am passionate about attuning to and embracing all parts of the self and exploring the fullness of your identity, expression, and experience with the therapeutic relationship being at the heart of our work together. My practice intends to create a space of safety and depth as we explore and move through complex emotions and experiences toward your goals throughout this collaborative process. My style is curious, playful, and direct, while you and I use the therapeutic relationship as a laboratory within which to facilitate the meaningful changes that will reconnect you with yourself, with life, and with the people around you.
I work with a diverse group of clients addressing challenges of identity, sexuality/ kink/fetish, anxiety, intimacy and relationships.
My work aims to help you to dismantle the sex-negativity or social bias that prevents you from moving forward. I am psychodynamic and trauma-informed therapist with experience working with diverse populations. I create a safe and supportive space that acknowledges your unique background and life experience, building your health and strength to allow you to explore and develop paradigms and beliefs to support your goals and aspirations.
I work with a diverse group of clients addressing challenges of identity, sexuality/ kink/fetish, anxiety, intimacy and relationships.
My work aims to help you to dismantle the sex-negativity or social bias that prevents you from moving forward. I am psychodynamic and trauma-informed therapist with experience working with diverse populations. I create a safe and supportive space that acknowledges your unique background and life experience, building your health and strength to allow you to explore and develop paradigms and beliefs to support your goals and aspirations.
Many also navigate kink, BDSM, or ethical non-monogamy and need a space where all of who they are is welcome.
I offer affirming, direct therapy for late diagnosed autistic adults navigating identity, relationships, and emotional regulation. I specialize in kink, BDSM, and ethical non-monogamy, and I bring ten years of lived experience in these communities alongside my clinical training. Fully online, individuals and couples, across California.
Many also navigate kink, BDSM, or ethical non-monogamy and need a space where all of who they are is welcome.
I offer affirming, direct therapy for late diagnosed autistic adults navigating identity, relationships, and emotional regulation. I specialize in kink, BDSM, and ethical non-monogamy, and I bring ten years of lived experience in these communities alongside my clinical training. Fully online, individuals and couples, across California.
Whether you're exploring gender identity, experiencing desire discrepancy or other relationship issues, struggling with body image, or delving into kink, my goal is to create a space where you can speak openly, honestly, and without shame.
Do you feel like yourself when you move through the world, or is something off? Are your relationships supportive and loving, or do you feel invisible to those closest to you? Gender and sexuality are a huge part of what makes us human, and the repression of these identities can cause enormous suffering. The roles and expectations that others have for us can make us feel anxious, depressed, and trapped- but it doesn't have to be that way.
Whether you're exploring gender identity, experiencing desire discrepancy or other relationship issues, struggling with body image, or delving into kink, my goal is to create a space where you can speak openly, honestly, and without shame.
Do you feel like yourself when you move through the world, or is something off? Are your relationships supportive and loving, or do you feel invisible to those closest to you? Gender and sexuality are a huge part of what makes us human, and the repression of these identities can cause enormous suffering. The roles and expectations that others have for us can make us feel anxious, depressed, and trapped- but it doesn't have to be that way.
I am especially passionate about working with queer, trans, sex worker, kink, and non-monogamous communities.
Trauma can leave you feeling disconnected, overwhelmed, or stuck—but healing is possible. I specialize in trauma-focused therapy that supports a sense of safety, offers relief, and fosters lasting transformation. Together, we’ll move at a pace that feels right for you, honoring your experiences while building toward growth.
I am especially passionate about working with queer, trans, sex worker, kink, and non-monogamous communities.
Trauma can leave you feeling disconnected, overwhelmed, or stuck—but healing is possible. I specialize in trauma-focused therapy that supports a sense of safety, offers relief, and fosters lasting transformation. Together, we’ll move at a pace that feels right for you, honoring your experiences while building toward growth.
Therapy looks different for different people. I believe that the most effective form of therapy is one where the therapist and the client can have a collaborative, authentic relationship. I work from a holistic, integral model of therapy. I incorporate a psychoeducational approach into my practice, offering an individualized collection of resources and interventions. I am passionate about facilitating client insight and well-being. It is my privilege to be welcomed into your world and to become a partner in your healing.
Therapy looks different for different people. I believe that the most effective form of therapy is one where the therapist and the client can have a collaborative, authentic relationship. I work from a holistic, integral model of therapy. I incorporate a psychoeducational approach into my practice, offering an individualized collection of resources and interventions. I am passionate about facilitating client insight and well-being. It is my privilege to be welcomed into your world and to become a partner in your healing.
Do you sense that the same patterns keep showing up in your relationships—romantic, family, friendships, work—but can't quite name what's happening? Maybe you feel like you're performing a version of yourself that doesn't match who you really are inside. Or perhaps your relationships look fine on the outside, but something feels off: you're exhausted from managing everyone else's emotions, you struggle to set boundaries, or you avoid conflict until it explodes. You're ready to stop treating symptoms and start understanding the deeper relational patterns that shape everything.
Do you sense that the same patterns keep showing up in your relationships—romantic, family, friendships, work—but can't quite name what's happening? Maybe you feel like you're performing a version of yourself that doesn't match who you really are inside. Or perhaps your relationships look fine on the outside, but something feels off: you're exhausted from managing everyone else's emotions, you struggle to set boundaries, or you avoid conflict until it explodes. You're ready to stop treating symptoms and start understanding the deeper relational patterns that shape everything.
Ashley Ramos, Certified Sex
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CST
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
For couples, I provide support in bridging differences in sexual desire, improving communication, and navigating transitions like ethical non-monogamy or BDSM/ kink dynamics with trust and openness.
Are you feeling disconnected from your body, your desires, or your partner? At Insightful Intimacy Therapy, I specialize in helping individuals and couples rebuild intimacy and explore their relationships. I am ready to support you through the difficult journey of examining relationship patterns, confronting insecurities, and prioritizing your values. I’ll help you address communication breakdowns, set boundaries, and strengthen emotional connections one relationship at a time. Together, we’ll uncover what’s been holding you back, empowering you to engage more fully with yourself and the people who matter most.
For couples, I provide support in bridging differences in sexual desire, improving communication, and navigating transitions like ethical non-monogamy or BDSM/ kink dynamics with trust and openness.
Are you feeling disconnected from your body, your desires, or your partner? At Insightful Intimacy Therapy, I specialize in helping individuals and couples rebuild intimacy and explore their relationships. I am ready to support you through the difficult journey of examining relationship patterns, confronting insecurities, and prioritizing your values. I’ll help you address communication breakdowns, set boundaries, and strengthen emotional connections one relationship at a time. Together, we’ll uncover what’s been holding you back, empowering you to engage more fully with yourself and the people who matter most.
Relationships can be tough to navigate. Many of my clients come in feeling stuck in the same communication loops, unsure how to express needs without conflict, or overwhelmed by the pressure to “fix” things on their own.
Welcome, My name is Katia, and I work at Transformative Therapy Project, Inc under the supervision of Rhonda Nechanicky, LMFT.
Relationships can be tough to navigate. Many of my clients come in feeling stuck in the same communication loops, unsure how to express needs without conflict, or overwhelmed by the pressure to “fix” things on their own.
Welcome, My name is Katia, and I work at Transformative Therapy Project, Inc under the supervision of Rhonda Nechanicky, LMFT.
