Sex Therapists in Vista, CA

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Michelle Dexter
Psychologist, PsyD, NLPCC
Serves Area
Life can be challenging at times, and it can be good to know that someone is on your side. If you are looking for love, but it seems impossible to find, if you are having trouble in your romantic relationship, if you are dealing with a difficult ex-partner, or you are experiencing sexual challenges, my passion is to help you experience your best life.
Life can be challenging at times, and it can be good to know that someone is on your side. If you are looking for love, but it seems impossible to find, if you are having trouble in your romantic relationship, if you are dealing with a difficult ex-partner, or you are experiencing sexual challenges, my passion is to help you experience your best life.
(619) 350-2440 View (619) 350-2440
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Lorraine Swineford
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, EMDR
1 Endorsed
Vista, CA 92081
Hi, there are a lot of great therapists to choose from, but for the moment, you and I have landed on the same page. If your looking for what makes me different, I've been around a few years and have been through a lot. I get it. I am also trained as a trauma therapist and have a specialized training in couples therapy. I work with families, individuals, couples and children. My only goal is help you feel better, I do that through holding space for you during the hard stuff and challenging you to think differently about possible solutions. I am warm and kind, but I will tell it like it is when you need to hear it.
Hi, there are a lot of great therapists to choose from, but for the moment, you and I have landed on the same page. If your looking for what makes me different, I've been around a few years and have been through a lot. I get it. I am also trained as a trauma therapist and have a specialized training in couples therapy. I work with families, individuals, couples and children. My only goal is help you feel better, I do that through holding space for you during the hard stuff and challenging you to think differently about possible solutions. I am warm and kind, but I will tell it like it is when you need to hear it.
(760) 313-6234 View (760) 313-6234
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Treina Nash
Marriage & Family Therapist
Online Only
I often find that an unrecognized power imbalance is at the root of couple's conflict, and I specialize in all aspects of sex addiction recovery.
As a woman of faith, I understand the values and concerns of my Christian clients, and I know the power of God to heal and restore.
I often find that an unrecognized power imbalance is at the root of couple's conflict, and I specialize in all aspects of sex addiction recovery.
As a woman of faith, I understand the values and concerns of my Christian clients, and I know the power of God to heal and restore.
(760) 280-7610 View (760) 280-7610
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Liza Castro
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, #145076
Vista, CA 92083
Most of my clients come to me feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or carrying heavy experiences they’ve tried to push through on their own. Many of whom are military veterans, first responders, survivors of human trafficking, or professionals with highly sensitive roles who need a safe, confidential space to process trauma. They’re often dealing with PTSD, anxiety, flashbacks, or relationship struggles, and they’re ready for real change. I can help by combining EMDR with practical, evidence-based tools to reprocess painful memories so they no longer control your present. You’ll gain clarity, reduce anxiety, rebuild trust in yourself again.
Most of my clients come to me feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or carrying heavy experiences they’ve tried to push through on their own. Many of whom are military veterans, first responders, survivors of human trafficking, or professionals with highly sensitive roles who need a safe, confidential space to process trauma. They’re often dealing with PTSD, anxiety, flashbacks, or relationship struggles, and they’re ready for real change. I can help by combining EMDR with practical, evidence-based tools to reprocess painful memories so they no longer control your present. You’ll gain clarity, reduce anxiety, rebuild trust in yourself again.
(760) 512-8508 View (760) 512-8508
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Veronica Gutierrez
Psychologist, PhD
1 Endorsed
Vista, CA 92081
I am a licensed psychologist in Southern California. I earned my Ph.D. from UC Santa Barbara in 2004. I work with individuals of all ages. I have worked with various communities including the LGBTQ, low-income, and racial/ethnic communities. I speak both English and Spanish. I primarily use Insight Therapy and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to find connections between people’s childhood experiences and their current situations, decisions, behaviors, thoughts, and/or feelings. My goals in therapy are to help individuals find harmony and stability in their lives and move forward in their life paths, finding happiness and success.
I am a licensed psychologist in Southern California. I earned my Ph.D. from UC Santa Barbara in 2004. I work with individuals of all ages. I have worked with various communities including the LGBTQ, low-income, and racial/ethnic communities. I speak both English and Spanish. I primarily use Insight Therapy and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to find connections between people’s childhood experiences and their current situations, decisions, behaviors, thoughts, and/or feelings. My goals in therapy are to help individuals find harmony and stability in their lives and move forward in their life paths, finding happiness and success.
(760) 284-5643 View (760) 284-5643
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Kendra Claire Wilhelm
Marriage & Family Therapist, BS, MA, LMFT
4 Endorsed
Vista, CA 92083
You may understand your patterns and still feel stuck in them, especially in relationships. Many of the women I work with struggle with anxiety, overthinking, or dynamics that leave them feeling disconnected or unsure of themselves. Some notice patterns around self-worth, body image, or a strong inner critic, while others feel the impact of past experiences or trauma. Often, one part understands what’s happening while another feels overwhelmed or reactive. They’re not looking for quick fixes, but for something that helps things truly shift toward a deeper sense of wholeness in mind, body, heart, and soul.
You may understand your patterns and still feel stuck in them, especially in relationships. Many of the women I work with struggle with anxiety, overthinking, or dynamics that leave them feeling disconnected or unsure of themselves. Some notice patterns around self-worth, body image, or a strong inner critic, while others feel the impact of past experiences or trauma. Often, one part understands what’s happening while another feels overwhelmed or reactive. They’re not looking for quick fixes, but for something that helps things truly shift toward a deeper sense of wholeness in mind, body, heart, and soul.
(619) 367-8413 View (619) 367-8413
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Personal Evolution Psychotherapy
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, PhD, LMFT
1 Endorsed
Vista, CA 92084
Is excessive worry or sadness limiting your life? Do you want to feel better and live a life worth living? Helping our clients overcome social anxiety, depression, communication & relationship issues, panic, excessive worry & depression is our primary focus. By using proven therapy methods (We are Dialectical Behavior Therapy - DBT specialists) we will focus on specific problems, solutions, skills & reachable goals. We provide much more than traditional talk therapy & help you get results to help control your emotions & your life. By doing this we can help more quickly.
Is excessive worry or sadness limiting your life? Do you want to feel better and live a life worth living? Helping our clients overcome social anxiety, depression, communication & relationship issues, panic, excessive worry & depression is our primary focus. By using proven therapy methods (We are Dialectical Behavior Therapy - DBT specialists) we will focus on specific problems, solutions, skills & reachable goals. We provide much more than traditional talk therapy & help you get results to help control your emotions & your life. By doing this we can help more quickly.
(619) 787-6676 View (619) 787-6676
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Sue Boyd
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, BCD
8 Endorsed
Vista, CA 92084
Are you a parent who is struggling with your child or teen? Does your child or teen have out of control or really big behaviors? Do they self harm or have suicidal thoughts? Do you want your family back? I can help. I work with parents through a type of therapy called Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) to help them help their children and teens. My team of therapists work directly with the children and teens to help them gain emotional & behavioral control, & I work with parents to help them get their life back. We provide much more than traditional talk therapy & we help you get results!
Are you a parent who is struggling with your child or teen? Does your child or teen have out of control or really big behaviors? Do they self harm or have suicidal thoughts? Do you want your family back? I can help. I work with parents through a type of therapy called Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) to help them help their children and teens. My team of therapists work directly with the children and teens to help them gain emotional & behavioral control, & I work with parents to help them get their life back. We provide much more than traditional talk therapy & we help you get results!
(619) 787-6676 View (619) 787-6676
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Dunya Ellen Holland
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Are you ready to talk about it? I’m an experienced Marriage and Family Therapist with a passion for helping individuals, couples, teens (and their parents!) find the path to peace of mind. If you are not sure about therapy but sensing that something is in the way of you feeling ok, or maybe you know what the problem is but can't seem to find your way, I‘m ready with kindness, compassion and evidence-based practices to help you transform your life and relationships. I invite you to my cozy, judgment free office by the ocean (with parking!) or if you like, we can even talk as we walk along the beautiful Del Mar beach.
Are you ready to talk about it? I’m an experienced Marriage and Family Therapist with a passion for helping individuals, couples, teens (and their parents!) find the path to peace of mind. If you are not sure about therapy but sensing that something is in the way of you feeling ok, or maybe you know what the problem is but can't seem to find your way, I‘m ready with kindness, compassion and evidence-based practices to help you transform your life and relationships. I invite you to my cozy, judgment free office by the ocean (with parking!) or if you like, we can even talk as we walk along the beautiful Del Mar beach.
(858) 703-5288 View (858) 703-5288
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Healing Hearts Counseling Center
Counselor, MS, LPCC
Serves Area
Our overall mission is to promote behavioral health and wellness for our clients to obtain a high quality of life within themselves, their family, and their community. We work with a wide range of emotional and behavioral issues providing services that include assessment, short-term solution focused interventions, consultation with other providers, and crisis intervention. If you are feeling stuck, stressed from life circumstances, or having trouble adjusting to new transitions, then please contact us. We are here for you!
Our overall mission is to promote behavioral health and wellness for our clients to obtain a high quality of life within themselves, their family, and their community. We work with a wide range of emotional and behavioral issues providing services that include assessment, short-term solution focused interventions, consultation with other providers, and crisis intervention. If you are feeling stuck, stressed from life circumstances, or having trouble adjusting to new transitions, then please contact us. We are here for you!
(760) 648-4057 View (760) 648-4057
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Steven T Griggs
Psychologist, PhD
Serves Area
I'm an informal, low-keyed warm fuzzy type. I deal directly with problems, using CBT, emphasizing support/non-judgment. I've completed 15 ebooks. The subjects are Assertiveness, How To Change Children's Behavior (Quickly), How to Assess and Treat ADHD (Children and Adults), Self Esteem, Why Relationships Fail, How to diagnose and Treat Anxiety, Anger Management, Types I and II,, Kids and Divorce, Child Visitation and Self-Esteem, How To Change Teenagers Behavior, The Psychology of Procrastination, The Psychology of Guilt, The Psychology of Forgiveness and Weight Loss (Free), The Psychology of All Addictions and How to Diagnose and Treat Mood Disorders.
I'm an informal, low-keyed warm fuzzy type. I deal directly with problems, using CBT, emphasizing support/non-judgment. I've completed 15 ebooks. The subjects are Assertiveness, How To Change Children's Behavior (Quickly), How to Assess and Treat ADHD (Children and Adults), Self Esteem, Why Relationships Fail, How to diagnose and Treat Anxiety, Anger Management, Types I and II,, Kids and Divorce, Child Visitation and Self-Esteem, How To Change Teenagers Behavior, The Psychology of Procrastination, The Psychology of Guilt, The Psychology of Forgiveness and Weight Loss (Free), The Psychology of All Addictions and How to Diagnose and Treat Mood Disorders.
(760) 746-8355 View (760) 746-8355

More Therapists Nearby

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Sex Therapy San Diego, Dr Silbert RN,CNS,PH.D.
Psychologist, RN, CNS, PhD, FAACS
1 Endorsed
La Jolla, CA 92037
" Sex Therapy, Sex Addiction, Sex Compulsion, Pornography Addiction, Betrayal, Infidelity, Escort Addiction, Happy Endings Addiction, Extramarital Affairs, Secrets, Cheating are Problems that can be corrected.
Cognitive/behavioral/psychodynamic therapy is recognizing and analyzing inner thoughts and feelings for awareness and understanding. Change takes place when one recognizes and deletes the false stories, allowing for expression of the authentic self. The more trustworthy self promotes satisfying interactions in personal, professional and sexual relationships.
" Sex Therapy, Sex Addiction, Sex Compulsion, Pornography Addiction, Betrayal, Infidelity, Escort Addiction, Happy Endings Addiction, Extramarital Affairs, Secrets, Cheating are Problems that can be corrected.
Cognitive/behavioral/psychodynamic therapy is recognizing and analyzing inner thoughts and feelings for awareness and understanding. Change takes place when one recognizes and deletes the false stories, allowing for expression of the authentic self. The more trustworthy self promotes satisfying interactions in personal, professional and sexual relationships.
(858) 863-6986 View (858) 863-6986
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Carly Shaul
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
3 Endorsed
San Diego, CA 92117
I specialize in Anxiety, Sex Therapy, and LGBTQIA2S-affirming care.
You want to learn to be kinder to yourself, process your feelings, put yourself first without guilt, and heal from a past that’s holding you back. You can admit that you’re harder on yourself than you deserve and want this to change. That's where I come in! I help teens, adults, and relationship structures explore their lives in order to improve their communication and strengthen their connections to themselves and their communities. Whether you’re navigating anxiety, neurodivergence, confusion about life, sexual health curiosities, relationship stress, or major life transitions, I’m ready to meet you with warmth and care.
I specialize in Anxiety, Sex Therapy, and LGBTQIA2S-affirming care.
You want to learn to be kinder to yourself, process your feelings, put yourself first without guilt, and heal from a past that’s holding you back. You can admit that you’re harder on yourself than you deserve and want this to change. That's where I come in! I help teens, adults, and relationship structures explore their lives in order to improve their communication and strengthen their connections to themselves and their communities. Whether you’re navigating anxiety, neurodivergence, confusion about life, sexual health curiosities, relationship stress, or major life transitions, I’m ready to meet you with warmth and care.
(619) 792-1536 View (619) 792-1536
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Crystal Schmidt
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MS, CST
Online Only
I provide therapeutic services to individuals and couples looking to improve their sex lives by honoring and accentuating the idiosyncrasies, preferences, and fantasies that make all of us so different.
My work is poly, kink, and LGBTQ+ focused, recognizing the rich tapestry of human sexuality and relationship structures. Using evidence-based practices, I strive to support, encourage, educate, and empower my clients to heal. My role is to listen deeply, offer insights, and collaborate with you to explore new pathways toward life fulfillment and intimacy.
I provide therapeutic services to individuals and couples looking to improve their sex lives by honoring and accentuating the idiosyncrasies, preferences, and fantasies that make all of us so different.
My work is poly, kink, and LGBTQ+ focused, recognizing the rich tapestry of human sexuality and relationship structures. Using evidence-based practices, I strive to support, encourage, educate, and empower my clients to heal. My role is to listen deeply, offer insights, and collaborate with you to explore new pathways toward life fulfillment and intimacy.
(951) 470-2612 View (951) 470-2612
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Christy Stein
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
I am a psychodynamically-grounded, integrative psychotherapist with extensive training and experience in trauma resolution and sex therapy.
Making the decision for change and taking the first step in that direction are acts of courage and creation. Whether you are struggling emotionally or you would just like to examine yourself more deeply, I am here to support you on the path. I work across cultures with individuals and couples on challenges ranging from extreme trauma to addiction to life transitions. You do not have to manage these difficulties alone.
I am a psychodynamically-grounded, integrative psychotherapist with extensive training and experience in trauma resolution and sex therapy.
Making the decision for change and taking the first step in that direction are acts of courage and creation. Whether you are struggling emotionally or you would just like to examine yourself more deeply, I am here to support you on the path. I work across cultures with individuals and couples on challenges ranging from extreme trauma to addiction to life transitions. You do not have to manage these difficulties alone.
(415) 462-4245 View (415) 462-4245
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Robyn Buresh
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
3 Endorsed
San Diego, CA 92127
If you're struggling with desire, intimacy, or feeling disconnected from your sexuality, you're not alone.
Talking about sex can feel vulnerable, especially if you've never had a space where it feels safe to be open. My work is non-judgmental and sex-positive where nothing is off the table. Whether you're exploring your identity, navigating a relationship dynamic like ENM or kink, or trying to reconnect with your body, we can approach it with curiosity and care
If you're struggling with desire, intimacy, or feeling disconnected from your sexuality, you're not alone.
Talking about sex can feel vulnerable, especially if you've never had a space where it feels safe to be open. My work is non-judgmental and sex-positive where nothing is off the table. Whether you're exploring your identity, navigating a relationship dynamic like ENM or kink, or trying to reconnect with your body, we can approach it with curiosity and care
(858) 477-3646 View (858) 477-3646
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Couples Therapy - Atti Moricelli
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
1 Endorsed
Carlsbad, CA 92008
The problem is rarely the argument. It’s the loneliness that grows underneath it. You remember when connection felt effortless — the laughter, the warmth, the sense of being deeply chosen. Now you find yourselves circling the same conflicts or avoiding the conversations that matter most. The distance feels painful and unfamiliar. You wonder when things changed, and whether closeness can be rebuilt. Therapy offers a space to slow the cycle down, understand what’s happening beneath the reactions, and begin rebuilding trust, intimacy, and emotional connection with greater honesty, clarity, and care.
The problem is rarely the argument. It’s the loneliness that grows underneath it. You remember when connection felt effortless — the laughter, the warmth, the sense of being deeply chosen. Now you find yourselves circling the same conflicts or avoiding the conversations that matter most. The distance feels painful and unfamiliar. You wonder when things changed, and whether closeness can be rebuilt. Therapy offers a space to slow the cycle down, understand what’s happening beneath the reactions, and begin rebuilding trust, intimacy, and emotional connection with greater honesty, clarity, and care.
(714) 410-5683 View (714) 410-5683
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Natalie Coates
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
2 Endorsed
San Diego, CA 92130
I integrate discussions about sex into therapy, recognizing its role in emotional connection and relationship satisfaction.
I am a bilingual (Spanish-English) Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who has had the privilege of being immersed in two different cultures and ways of living since childhood. This unique background has broadened my understanding of human behavior and relationships. I am passionate about working with couples and guiding individuals as they navigate relational challenges and foster healthy interactions. I strongly believe that healing and growth are possible through safe and nurturing relationships.
I integrate discussions about sex into therapy, recognizing its role in emotional connection and relationship satisfaction.
I am a bilingual (Spanish-English) Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who has had the privilege of being immersed in two different cultures and ways of living since childhood. This unique background has broadened my understanding of human behavior and relationships. I am passionate about working with couples and guiding individuals as they navigate relational challenges and foster healthy interactions. I strongly believe that healing and growth are possible through safe and nurturing relationships.
(619) 586-6375 View (619) 586-6375
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Misty Johnson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MSW, WGS
5 Endorsed
Serves Area
Sex and intimacy struggles?
I am a sex-positive therapist. I offer deep presence without judgement. I am committed to arrive with authenticity and without agenda. I also specialize in working with the queer community, trans community, kink community, as well as working with poly, polyamory, and ethically non-monogamous ( ENM ) folks. I also support psychedelic integration work.
Sex and intimacy struggles?
I am a sex-positive therapist. I offer deep presence without judgement. I am committed to arrive with authenticity and without agenda. I also specialize in working with the queer community, trans community, kink community, as well as working with poly, polyamory, and ethically non-monogamous ( ENM ) folks. I also support psychedelic integration work.
(408) 583-5606 View (408) 583-5606
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Affirming Therapy Center
Marriage & Family Therapist
San Diego, CA 92123
Our team is kink-aware, sex-positive, and trained in sexual health, trauma, and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT).
Affirming Therapy Center (ATC) offers therapy for individuals and couples seeking clarity, connection, and well-being. You may feel uncertain, anxious, or hesitant to share your desires, identity, or relationship choices—especially if they don’t fit traditional expectations. We help clients navigate intimacy challenges, sexual functioning, mismatched desire, and transitions in their relationships. Our team provides professional, nonjudgmental care for life changes and sexual health, including kink/BDSM, polyamory, ethical non-monogamy (ENM), and sexual identity exploration.
Our team is kink-aware, sex-positive, and trained in sexual health, trauma, and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT).
Affirming Therapy Center (ATC) offers therapy for individuals and couples seeking clarity, connection, and well-being. You may feel uncertain, anxious, or hesitant to share your desires, identity, or relationship choices—especially if they don’t fit traditional expectations. We help clients navigate intimacy challenges, sexual functioning, mismatched desire, and transitions in their relationships. Our team provides professional, nonjudgmental care for life changes and sexual health, including kink/BDSM, polyamory, ethical non-monogamy (ENM), and sexual identity exploration.
(619) 404-5095 View (619) 404-5095

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Sex Therapy
Who is sex therapy for?
Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.

Why do people need sex therapy?
Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.

What happens in sex therapy?
People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.

What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?
Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.