Attachment-based Therapists in Vista, CA

Kendra Claire Wilhelm
Marriage & Family Therapist, BS, MA, LMFT
4 Endorsed
Vista, CA 92083
My approach is trauma-informed and attachment-based, integrating somatic therapy, parts work (Internal Family Systems) and EMDR.
You may understand your patterns and still feel stuck in them, especially in relationships. Many of the brave individuals I work with struggle with anxiety, overthinking, or relationships that leave them feeling disconnected or unsure of themselves. Some notice patterns around self-worth, body image, or a strong inner critic, while others feel the impact of past experiences or trauma. Often, one part understands what’s happening while another feels overwhelmed or reactive. They’re not looking for quick fixes, but for something that helps things truly shift toward a deeper sense of wholeness in mind, body, heart, and soul.
My approach is trauma-informed and attachment-based, integrating somatic therapy, parts work (Internal Family Systems) and EMDR.
You may understand your patterns and still feel stuck in them, especially in relationships. Many of the brave individuals I work with struggle with anxiety, overthinking, or relationships that leave them feeling disconnected or unsure of themselves. Some notice patterns around self-worth, body image, or a strong inner critic, while others feel the impact of past experiences or trauma. Often, one part understands what’s happening while another feels overwhelmed or reactive. They’re not looking for quick fixes, but for something that helps things truly shift toward a deeper sense of wholeness in mind, body, heart, and soul.
(619) 367-8413 View (619) 367-8413
Dr. Behin Abedi
Psychologist, PsyD
1 Endorsed
Vista, CA 92083
I'm a clinical psychologist who is dedicated to empowering and helping people live fuller and more enriching lives. I have a supportive and collaborative treatment approach and adapt the therapeutic process to the unique needs, preferences, and goals of each individual. In doing so, I integrate different treatment modalities and evidence-based practices to help people become unstuck and improve their overall well-being. I'm skilled in treating a variety of presenting issues, including but not limited to anxiety, depression, grief/loss, relationships, career stress/change, self-esteem, identity, and other cultural-related stressors.
I'm a clinical psychologist who is dedicated to empowering and helping people live fuller and more enriching lives. I have a supportive and collaborative treatment approach and adapt the therapeutic process to the unique needs, preferences, and goals of each individual. In doing so, I integrate different treatment modalities and evidence-based practices to help people become unstuck and improve their overall well-being. I'm skilled in treating a variety of presenting issues, including but not limited to anxiety, depression, grief/loss, relationships, career stress/change, self-esteem, identity, and other cultural-related stressors.
(415) 268-8705 View (415) 268-8705
Dora Nayely Valencia
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
4 Endorsed
Online Only
Do you suffer from obsessive, anxious thoughts that make you feel out-of-control? Or maybe you're a parent feeling lost and hopeless on how to parent your child, even though you've tried everything? If you’re struggling to manage your obsessive thoughts or frustrations as a parent, now is the time to connect with a therapist who can help. We’ll work together to create strategies that reduce all that anxiety and stress, so you feel more in control of your life or more effective as a parent. Continue reading to learn how you can start feeling happier and more peaceful with the activities and people that matter the most to you.
Do you suffer from obsessive, anxious thoughts that make you feel out-of-control? Or maybe you're a parent feeling lost and hopeless on how to parent your child, even though you've tried everything? If you’re struggling to manage your obsessive thoughts or frustrations as a parent, now is the time to connect with a therapist who can help. We’ll work together to create strategies that reduce all that anxiety and stress, so you feel more in control of your life or more effective as a parent. Continue reading to learn how you can start feeling happier and more peaceful with the activities and people that matter the most to you.
(442) 253-1168 View (442) 253-1168
Palomar Family Counseling Service
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Vista, CA 92084
As a nonprofit agency, we’re dedicated to strengthening the social and mental well-being of children, youth, adults, and families, in our community. With offices in Escondido, Fallbrook, and Vista, we provide stable, nurturing environments that foster resilience and positive growth. We offer a wide range of therapeutic services designed to meet the unique needs of each individual, couple, or family. Whether you’re seeking support for a specific issue or simply need guidance in navigating life’s complexities, we are here to help.
As a nonprofit agency, we’re dedicated to strengthening the social and mental well-being of children, youth, adults, and families, in our community. With offices in Escondido, Fallbrook, and Vista, we provide stable, nurturing environments that foster resilience and positive growth. We offer a wide range of therapeutic services designed to meet the unique needs of each individual, couple, or family. Whether you’re seeking support for a specific issue or simply need guidance in navigating life’s complexities, we are here to help.
(442) 239-4831 View (442) 239-4831
Reid Kessler
Psychologist, PsyD
9 Endorsed
Vista, CA 92081
Anxiety, depression, relationship struggles, and the weight of past experiences don't just cause pain - they shape how you see yourself and how you show up with the people you love. If you've found yourself caught in the same patterns, wondering why things feel harder than they should, or simply wanting to understand yourself more deeply, psychodynamic therapy offers something most approaches don't: the chance to get at what's actually driving the difficulty, not just manage it. I work with adults, teens, and children in Encinitas and Vista, and I'm currently accepting new patients.
Anxiety, depression, relationship struggles, and the weight of past experiences don't just cause pain - they shape how you see yourself and how you show up with the people you love. If you've found yourself caught in the same patterns, wondering why things feel harder than they should, or simply wanting to understand yourself more deeply, psychodynamic therapy offers something most approaches don't: the chance to get at what's actually driving the difficulty, not just manage it. I work with adults, teens, and children in Encinitas and Vista, and I'm currently accepting new patients.
(760) 571-2425 View (760) 571-2425
Jennifer Bearden
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
2 Endorsed
Vista, CA 92081
EMDR & IFS / parts work for Anxiety & Trauma: Are you often in your head—overthinking, anxious or stuck in “what ifs”— finding it hard to stay present? Does it feel like you’re holding it together on the outside, but internally overwhelmed or exhausted?Maybe you’re navigating a big life transition and finding it harder to focus, make decisions, or feel like yourself. It can feel isolating to put on a brave face while underneath, you are quietly suffering.Over time, this can impact your relationships, sleep, and overall well-being. If you’re here, something in you is ready for change—ready to feel more grounded, clear, and connected.
EMDR & IFS / parts work for Anxiety & Trauma: Are you often in your head—overthinking, anxious or stuck in “what ifs”— finding it hard to stay present? Does it feel like you’re holding it together on the outside, but internally overwhelmed or exhausted?Maybe you’re navigating a big life transition and finding it harder to focus, make decisions, or feel like yourself. It can feel isolating to put on a brave face while underneath, you are quietly suffering.Over time, this can impact your relationships, sleep, and overall well-being. If you’re here, something in you is ready for change—ready to feel more grounded, clear, and connected.
(541) 275-9502 View (541) 275-9502
Margaret Boyd - Therapy For You Counseling Center
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, BCD
Vista, CA 92084
Do you want to see a therapist this week? We answer the phone or call you back quickly! Now accepting new clients with Aetna, Optum, Sharp Health Plan, United Healthcare/UBH and Blue Shield — compassionate therapy for anxiety, depression, stress, teens, and couples in San Diego and across California via telehealth. If you are feeling anxious, overwhelmed, depressed, or struggling in your relationships, you are not alone — and you don’t have to face it by yourself. At Therapy For You Counseling Center, we provide warm, compassionate, evidence-based therapy to help you feel calmer, more hopeful, and more in control of your life.
Do you want to see a therapist this week? We answer the phone or call you back quickly! Now accepting new clients with Aetna, Optum, Sharp Health Plan, United Healthcare/UBH and Blue Shield — compassionate therapy for anxiety, depression, stress, teens, and couples in San Diego and across California via telehealth. If you are feeling anxious, overwhelmed, depressed, or struggling in your relationships, you are not alone — and you don’t have to face it by yourself. At Therapy For You Counseling Center, we provide warm, compassionate, evidence-based therapy to help you feel calmer, more hopeful, and more in control of your life.
(760) 840-3255 View (760) 840-3255
Bethany Ling
Registered Psychological Associate, PsyD
3 Endorsed
Vista, CA 92081
There are times when we act in ways that don’t align with what we truly want or need, and we may not even understand why. You might feel overwhelmed, stressed, or unsure how to express your needs to the people who matter most. Or, perhaps you feel disconnected from yourself, which can make it difficult to have meaningful and close relationships with others. It’s not uncommon for this to bring up feelings like guilt, anger, or not feeling good enough, and other emotions that can be hard to talk about or manage. I work with both children and adults, supporting them gaining deeper self-awareness, and positive connections with others.
There are times when we act in ways that don’t align with what we truly want or need, and we may not even understand why. You might feel overwhelmed, stressed, or unsure how to express your needs to the people who matter most. Or, perhaps you feel disconnected from yourself, which can make it difficult to have meaningful and close relationships with others. It’s not uncommon for this to bring up feelings like guilt, anger, or not feeling good enough, and other emotions that can be hard to talk about or manage. I work with both children and adults, supporting them gaining deeper self-awareness, and positive connections with others.
(442) 347-4136 View (442) 347-4136
Jacob Watson
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, APCC, MA
3 Endorsed
Vista, CA 92081
Life can feel overwhelming at times, maybe you're navigating effects of anxiety, depression, or past trauma or you might be feeling disconnected from your partner or unsure how to manage relationship challenges. If any of this resonates, you're not alone and therapy can be a powerful place to begin finding clarity and direction.
Life can feel overwhelming at times, maybe you're navigating effects of anxiety, depression, or past trauma or you might be feeling disconnected from your partner or unsure how to manage relationship challenges. If any of this resonates, you're not alone and therapy can be a powerful place to begin finding clarity and direction.
(949) 738-5101 View (949) 738-5101
Chelsea Dudley
Psychologist, PsyD
4 Endorsed
Vista, CA 92081
For trauma, I integrate trauma-focused and attachment-based approaches to help you process painful experiences safely.
Are you struggling with the weight of a painful experience that won't let go? Feeling stuck, anxious, or unsure of your direction? Maybe you're a parent wondering if your child's academic or emotional challenges point to something deeper that deserves answers. Whatever brought you here, you don't have to figure it out alone. I'm Dr. Chelsea Dudley, a licensed psychologist and Director of Psychological Testing at Coastal Therapy Group. I help adolescents, young adults, and adults navigate trauma, grief, anxiety, and life transitions using Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) and evidence-based, trauma-informed approaches.
For trauma, I integrate trauma-focused and attachment-based approaches to help you process painful experiences safely.
Are you struggling with the weight of a painful experience that won't let go? Feeling stuck, anxious, or unsure of your direction? Maybe you're a parent wondering if your child's academic or emotional challenges point to something deeper that deserves answers. Whatever brought you here, you don't have to figure it out alone. I'm Dr. Chelsea Dudley, a licensed psychologist and Director of Psychological Testing at Coastal Therapy Group. I help adolescents, young adults, and adults navigate trauma, grief, anxiety, and life transitions using Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) and evidence-based, trauma-informed approaches.
(442) 200-2633 View (442) 200-2633
Austin Bowman
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, AMFT
2 Endorsed
Vista, CA 92083
Do you feel overwhelmed by your emotions, or like you've learned to shut them down just to get through the day? Maybe you're carrying grief that hasn't fully been processed, or past experiences that continue to show up in your relationships, reactions, or sense of self. You may notice emotional shutdown, withdrawal, or feeling disconnected from others. Many of the men and couples I work with are dealing with trauma, grief, emotional regulation, anxiety, depression, or relational distress. Some are trying to understand how their past shapes how they show up, while others want support in building stability, clarity, and connection.
Do you feel overwhelmed by your emotions, or like you've learned to shut them down just to get through the day? Maybe you're carrying grief that hasn't fully been processed, or past experiences that continue to show up in your relationships, reactions, or sense of self. You may notice emotional shutdown, withdrawal, or feeling disconnected from others. Many of the men and couples I work with are dealing with trauma, grief, emotional regulation, anxiety, depression, or relational distress. Some are trying to understand how their past shapes how they show up, while others want support in building stability, clarity, and connection.
(619) 558-5069 View (619) 558-5069
Alicia Catalina Wang
Clinical Social Work/Therapist
Online Only
The tools that you need to heal are already within you. My main approaches are EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) and Mindfulness. Mindfulness invites relaxation into the body while EMDR allows you to process the past without feeling triggered. Many of our present problems such as low self esteem, relationship challenges, anxiety, and depression have deep roots within our past. EMDR works to address the problem from its root by challenging the negative messages that we have received from childhood and replacing them with new positive truths. These truths are then integrated into how we view ourselves and the world.
The tools that you need to heal are already within you. My main approaches are EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) and Mindfulness. Mindfulness invites relaxation into the body while EMDR allows you to process the past without feeling triggered. Many of our present problems such as low self esteem, relationship challenges, anxiety, and depression have deep roots within our past. EMDR works to address the problem from its root by challenging the negative messages that we have received from childhood and replacing them with new positive truths. These truths are then integrated into how we view ourselves and the world.
(626) 470-7733 View (626) 470-7733
Cynthia Casey
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
4 Endorsed
Vista, CA 92083
Through life's journey there are times that we may feel stuck as if there is a part of you that won't allow you to reach your goals? Do you want more from your life or are you finding it hard to get through your day without feeling anxious, angry, sad or overwhelmed? Do you struggle with addictive or compulsive behaviors? Or are you having relationship issues with your loved ones or coworkers? There is hope. I can be an effective resource in helping to you identify and move toward your goals, becoming a happier and healthier you.
Through life's journey there are times that we may feel stuck as if there is a part of you that won't allow you to reach your goals? Do you want more from your life or are you finding it hard to get through your day without feeling anxious, angry, sad or overwhelmed? Do you struggle with addictive or compulsive behaviors? Or are you having relationship issues with your loved ones or coworkers? There is hope. I can be an effective resource in helping to you identify and move toward your goals, becoming a happier and healthier you.
(760) 678-4295 View (760) 678-4295
Catherine Lamme
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
Welcome! Are you feeling tired of the patterns and old stories that impact the development of your vitality and the best version of your life? Does your sense of self feel fractured? Does your body seem to mirror the internal negative thought patterns that seem to block you creating the life you want to live? Do you feel like there are moments that you cannot imagine living in the internal chaos another moment? I am inspired and honored to work with adults who are motivated to heal and release the negative internal stories, especially from trauma, that have dictated their behavior in order to create their own life worth living.
Welcome! Are you feeling tired of the patterns and old stories that impact the development of your vitality and the best version of your life? Does your sense of self feel fractured? Does your body seem to mirror the internal negative thought patterns that seem to block you creating the life you want to live? Do you feel like there are moments that you cannot imagine living in the internal chaos another moment? I am inspired and honored to work with adults who are motivated to heal and release the negative internal stories, especially from trauma, that have dictated their behavior in order to create their own life worth living.
(760) 263-6052 View (760) 263-6052
Lydia Lombardi Good
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
7 Endorsed
Serves Area
Learning to connect deeply with yourself and others is the key to the healthy relationship you are seeking. In my 20 years working in mental health, I have witnessed hundreds of individuals, couples and families experience deep healing after life events that lead to disconnection and discourse. I know the courage it takes to begin therapy with someone new. It would an honor to be a part of your process toward a stronger, more resilient self, relationship and family.
Learning to connect deeply with yourself and others is the key to the healthy relationship you are seeking. In my 20 years working in mental health, I have witnessed hundreds of individuals, couples and families experience deep healing after life events that lead to disconnection and discourse. I know the courage it takes to begin therapy with someone new. It would an honor to be a part of your process toward a stronger, more resilient self, relationship and family.
(760) 957-0332 View (760) 957-0332
Virginia Wilcsek
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
3 Endorsed
Serves Area
Has your world and experiences left you feeling sad, stressed, overwhelmed, alone, hopeless? Sometimes this can lead to depression, anxiety, grief, trauma or thoughts of just not being here. What has happened to you can impact how you feel about yourself, others, feeling lost and confused, or alone. I strive to provide a space to hear you. We will work together to create an approach that you feel best fits your journey. My focus is Trauma, grief and Post-traumatic growth. I work with Military, First Responders, Depression, Anxiety, PTSD, BPD, Narcissistic Abuse Recovery & Treating Adult Children of Emotional Immature Parents.
Has your world and experiences left you feeling sad, stressed, overwhelmed, alone, hopeless? Sometimes this can lead to depression, anxiety, grief, trauma or thoughts of just not being here. What has happened to you can impact how you feel about yourself, others, feeling lost and confused, or alone. I strive to provide a space to hear you. We will work together to create an approach that you feel best fits your journey. My focus is Trauma, grief and Post-traumatic growth. I work with Military, First Responders, Depression, Anxiety, PTSD, BPD, Narcissistic Abuse Recovery & Treating Adult Children of Emotional Immature Parents.
(858) 289-0339 View (858) 289-0339
Ursula Zekas
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Serves Area
Facing life's challenges can often feel overwhelming. Whether you're experiencing pain, uncertainty, or just feeling stuck, I can provide the support and help you need to navigate these struggles. Whether it's your first time considering therapy, or you're already familiar with the process, I'm here to help!
Facing life's challenges can often feel overwhelming. Whether you're experiencing pain, uncertainty, or just feeling stuck, I can provide the support and help you need to navigate these struggles. Whether it's your first time considering therapy, or you're already familiar with the process, I'm here to help!
(760) 280-7957 View (760) 280-7957
Erin Kennedy
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, MA, MEd, LPCC
4 Endorsed
Serves Area
Does it look like you have it all together on the outside, but deep down you feel anxious, exhausted, or empty? It seems like happiness is something "out there" or baked into your next achievement, but when you actually get what you're striving for, the emptiness quickly returns? Or maybe you feel like something is "off" in your life, but you can't pinpoint exactly what it is? As a (recovering) perfectionist myself, I've been there & I get it. I have a passion for helping adults and adolescents deepen their connection to themselves to get to the root of symptoms such as chronic anxiety, perfectionism, & relational instability.
Does it look like you have it all together on the outside, but deep down you feel anxious, exhausted, or empty? It seems like happiness is something "out there" or baked into your next achievement, but when you actually get what you're striving for, the emptiness quickly returns? Or maybe you feel like something is "off" in your life, but you can't pinpoint exactly what it is? As a (recovering) perfectionist myself, I've been there & I get it. I have a passion for helping adults and adolescents deepen their connection to themselves to get to the root of symptoms such as chronic anxiety, perfectionism, & relational instability.
(818) 293-2005 View (818) 293-2005
Madison DeBruin
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
3 Endorsed
Serves Area
I work primarily from an attachment-based and relational approach, and incorporate evidence-based practices such as CBT or ACT.
Hi, I’m Madison, and I’m here to help you navigate life’s challenges with compassion and curiosity—plus a bit of humor when needed. I believe healing happens in safe, supportive relationships, so my goal is to be someone you feel heard and understood by. My approach is warm and collaborative, and I show up for my clients in a way that is both encouraging and challenging—I’ll support you when things feel tough, but I’ll also push you to step out of your comfort zone, learn new things, and grow in meaningful ways. I want to help you feel less stuck and more empowered to move forward in life.
I work primarily from an attachment-based and relational approach, and incorporate evidence-based practices such as CBT or ACT.
Hi, I’m Madison, and I’m here to help you navigate life’s challenges with compassion and curiosity—plus a bit of humor when needed. I believe healing happens in safe, supportive relationships, so my goal is to be someone you feel heard and understood by. My approach is warm and collaborative, and I show up for my clients in a way that is both encouraging and challenging—I’ll support you when things feel tough, but I’ll also push you to step out of your comfort zone, learn new things, and grow in meaningful ways. I want to help you feel less stuck and more empowered to move forward in life.
(562) 263-3993 View (562) 263-3993
Deborah K Berman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Serves Area
My wide range of experience provides me with the ability to approach many situations you may be facing with confidence and knowledge. I want to start where you are and I will respect your goals in the therapeutic process. I understand your need for confidentiality, privacy and trust. I have enjoyed providing extensive work and focusing my continued education on helping those with PTSD (to include military combat related PTSD), chronic illness, chronic pain, relationship problems, life transition issues, mood disorders, and personality disorders.
My wide range of experience provides me with the ability to approach many situations you may be facing with confidence and knowledge. I want to start where you are and I will respect your goals in the therapeutic process. I understand your need for confidentiality, privacy and trust. I have enjoyed providing extensive work and focusing my continued education on helping those with PTSD (to include military combat related PTSD), chronic illness, chronic pain, relationship problems, life transition issues, mood disorders, and personality disorders.
(760) 764-4621 View (760) 764-4621

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