Couples Counseling Therapists in Ventura, CA
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Joshua Perkins
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified
9 Endorsed
Verified
9 Endorsed
Life can be overwhelming. Ongoing problems can leave us frustrated and defeated. Anxiety, depression, trauma, drug and alcohol dependence,
relationship
conflict, or isolation make it even harder to cope. The joy and spirit of life that we once had seems far gone. We may feel like we've been holding it together for weeks, months, or even years. At our lowest we lose perspective and believe things will never change. We don't want to be this way anymore. Life shouldn't feel this hard.
Patsy Wright
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified
Verified
I provide therapy for children, adolescents, adults,
couples
& families.
The path to living the life you want begins where courage and fear meet. When we are low in courage and high in fear we feel unsettled, busied, strained and eventually-void of hope. The thought that life will get better or that we will feel better becomes hijacked by the void. Our day to day begins to feel meaningless. This absence of meaning can be experienced as emptiness, sadness, loneliness, despair and misery. It can also be experienced as restlessness, irritability, avoidance, stomachaches, headaches and illness. These experiences drive our thoughts, beliefs, decisions and behaviors and can lead to mental and physical decline.
Ellen Winkler
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified
Verified
FOR DEPRESSION, ANXIETY, RELATIONSHIPS, ADDICTION, TRAUMA: I blend psychology and spirituality to treat uncomfortable emotions,
relationship
issues, feelings of isolation, the monkey mind of the ego, as well as heavy, stuck energy that needs releasing. Psychodynamic therapy, guided meditation, and shamanic modes of healing can help shift the way you think and feel. As Einstein put it: "No problem can be solved from the same level of consciousness that created it." Using an integrative approach we will connect with your higher self and beyond to experience real transformation and change of consciousness.
Not accepting new clients
Mary Baker
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified
Verified
I have been in the field for the past 12 years and have had the privilege of working with many different communities. I have extensive experience with trauma, depression, anxiety, OCD, identity development (sexual and gender),
relationship
issues, domestic violence, self harm and suicidal ideation. I have worked on a college campus and am well versed with ADHD, Autism and academic issues as well.
Not accepting new clients
Emily Fleck
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT
Verified
Verified
I enjoy supporting women and
couples
through pregnancy, birth, and the parenting journey.
There are many reasons people seek therapy. Most likely, you're here because you're feeling out of balance in some aspect of your life. You may be looking for better ways to cope with depression or anxiety, change patterns that lead to unhealthy behaviors or relationships, or heal from a difficult or traumatic experience. Therapy can help you gain insight about yourself, increase your sense of confidence, or help you explore a new life path with courage and intention. My hope is to provide support, tools, and encouragement to help you find greater balance, authenticity, and overall well-being.
Kira Wiggins
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, RD, CDE, C-IAYT
Verified
3 Endorsed
Verified
3 Endorsed
Are you less than satisfied with who you've become and the life you're living? Many of us struggle with acceptance and love for our bodies and are unsure how to make peace with ourselves and plot a positive path forward. I believe therapy is a collaboration where I meet you wherever you are and we become partners on the path toward your best self. Because mental and emotional distress happens in
relationship
, we begin with the most important
relationship
you will ever have – the one with yourself. The way in which we treat ourselves directly correlates with how we show up in the world and connect with others.
Susan Canchola
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified
Verified
While therapy can be challenging to face, I try to make the process as easy as possible, hopefully even enjoyable. I enjoy working with adult individuals and
couples
who are curious about themselves, introspective/reflective and interested in personal growth and identity development. I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) with 18 years of experience working with individuals/
couples
/families. My training has been heavily focused on helping people work through
relationship
issues and overcome feelings of anxiety, depression and grief/loss. I have also worked extensively w/individuals working through addiction recovery.
Colette M. Smiley
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MFT
Verified
Verified
I have been practicing in Ventura for over 25 years. I specialize in helping people work through difficult areas in their lives, which are often relationships; all sorts of relationships. While marriage can be the most challenging
relationship
anyone will ever experience, it can also be the most rewarding. I help people learn to communicate more effectively and overcome any barriers or traumas that may be interfering with their relationships. I will help you identify how to find more satisfaction in your life and your relationships and how to experience peace and happiness within yourself.
Jennifer Lynn Bartlett
Pre-Licensed Professional, AMFT
Verified
Verified
I have completed her Master’s in Science in Counseling Psychology Degree with an emphasis in Marriage and Family Therapy from California Lutheran University. I am a registered Associate Marriage and Family Therapist and has experience working with families,
couples
, adolescents, LGBTQI+, individual work, intimate
partner
violence, and substance use/abuse, and recovery.
Dr T. Taylor
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified
Verified
I have over ten years of experience working with individuals,
couples
, and families, facing challenges and guiding them through rough times to fortify their resolve. If you need guidance, good therapy, and a viable plan of action for matters such as; depression, anxiety, abandonment, arrested development, sadness, low self-esteem, assertiveness, divorce, seperation, parenting help, grief, as well as many other challenges, then do not hesitate to contact me. I emphasize a warm, compassionate, and positively reinforced approach, that is completely confidential in a pleasant, and safe, environment.
Heidi Allison Dbt Therapist; New Directions Dbt
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, DBT
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
VIDEO THERAPY. DBT & CBT Specialist helping individuals with depression, anxiety, PTSD/trauma, difficulty managing emotions,
relationship
issues, BPD & personality disorders and other issues. (GOLD COAST/BEACON/MEDICAL & MEDICARE provider & private pay). We will work together to help you uncover what is bothering you & improve your coping skills. My approach is strength-based; I believe that everyone is capable of improving their lives, reducing suffering & symptoms. We all have answers within us; sometimes we just need someone to guide us in finding our truth/learning coping skills to improve one's emotional/mental well-being.
Heidi Johnson
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
My training has allowed me to work in a variety of settings and with a diverse group of individuals, families, and
couples
ranging in ethnicity, socioeconomics and age.
Everyone has a past but we can't let it define us. Regardless of the reason(s) that bring you to therapy, I believe you are the expert on your own life so providing you with a healing environment where you feel safe, respected, supported and valued will always be the first goal. I focus on helping clients gain personal insight, identify problematic patterns, improve coping skills, develop feelings of self-acceptance and satisfaction and uncover strengths.
Not accepting new clients
Savannah Eden
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified
2 Endorsed
Verified
2 Endorsed
I strive to cultivate a safe therapeutic
relationship
.
Are you or someone you know a victim of trauma? Have you experienced a loss or are struggling with a difficult life transition? Do you feel disconnected and misunderstood? I specialize in addressing the conflicting emotions and self-doubt that accompany grief/loss, life transitions, and complex trauma. Whatever your story may be, I strive to support families and individuals as they address unresolved trauma, make sense of their past, and move forward to create a healthy, fulfilling life.
Bonnie G Reich
Psychologist, PhD, MPH
Verified
Verified
If you are considering the possibility that life can have more joy and less suffering and you are motivated to change self-defeating patterns...... you have the seeds for growth and we can work together to re-create a life filled with passion, wonder, and vitality. I offer a gentle, accepting therapeutic approach while at the same time focused on practical solutions and strategies. Whether you are 18 and in the grips of an addictive process or 65 and stuck in a bad
relationship
with someone (including yourself), now is the time to create change. And perhaps I can help.
Not accepting new clients
Stephanie Thurston
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified
Verified
Many adults seek therapy when they feel depressed or anxious, experience a change or loss, or have
relationship
or work problems.
Stephanie offers over fifteen years of experience and a safe, supportive environment where children, adolescents, and adults can find genuine support and professional guidance.
When parents see their children struggling (with sadness/anxiety/anger/loneliness/or behavioral problems) and are unsure how to help, they often feel frustrated and helpless. Stephanie offers children and adolescents the opportunity to express themselves, explore their unique strengths and challenges, identify underlying problems, and develop skills needed to manage and overcome those challenges. Working together to help parents learn to better understand and meet the needs of their child and create a family environment where all members can thrive.
Brenda Mercado, MFT
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT
Verified
Verified
Stress is a part of all our lives and manifests in a variety of ways. I provide stress reduction and other counseling modalities for individuals,
couples
and families. For over 30 years, I have worked in a neurological clinic, medical emergency rooms, hospitals, and psychiatric settings. I have a great deal of confidence working in these settings and in physicians and nurse practitioners. With this experience, I have a lot to offer the people who see me. You are welcome to call for a free consultation.
Jenessa B Nye
Marriage & Family Therapist, PsyD, LMFT
Verified
Verified
Dr. Nye is a holistic psychotherapist and has worked extensively with
couples
and individuals. She is interactive, empathetic and directive. Her goal is to help client's find meaning in their pain, gain personal insight, make healthy life decisions and new methods for living. Dr. Nye has a compassionate, yet straightforward approach. Depending on her client's needs she helps them develop understanding regarding the origin of their pain then focuses on solution strategies.
She is trained in EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing). EMDR can be used for trauma, accidents, loss, anxiety, negative beliefs, physical symptoms, and painful memories.
Linda Delgadillo
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified
2 Endorsed
Verified
2 Endorsed
As a marriage and family therapist I will make sure that I provide a safe environment where you feel comfortable enough to express any challenges that you are experiencing at this time. Together we can explore and develop effective strategies to change life situations that can cause anxiety, depression,
relationship
or familiar problems. I enjoy working with moms, moms to be, new moms, any mother who needs that emotional support during motherhood. I am committed to a healthy development of my clients. I am trained in perinatal mood, EMDR, and anxiety disorders.
Matt Ousley
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified
Verified
A 20 year licensed clinician, working with children, families, individuals and
couples
. A cognitive behavioral therapist providing efficient and effective client informed treatment services.
Kylie Wolff
MA
We can all benefit from support and help in areas where we may struggle, feel stuck, or just have a desire to grow in one area of life. I help others to heal from childhood trauma, anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, and work on
relationship
issues, family drama, and much more. I also help those who would like to learn to better become their authentic self, from setting boundaries with others to creating a healthy self-image. I am an empathic person who is passionate about helping people heal in their own lives.
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Couples Counseling Therapists
Does couples counseling work?
Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.
When should a couple seek counseling?
Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.
How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?
The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.
How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?
The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.