Men's Issues Therapists in Valley Center, CA
Taking the plunge and getting into therapy is the first step in trying to change the direction of your life. If you are struggling with life decisions, or recently gone through some difficult life changes and are challenged by anxiety, depression, motivation, self-esteem, or religious paradigm changes, you are not alone.
Taking the plunge and getting into therapy is the first step in trying to change the direction of your life. If you are struggling with life decisions, or recently gone through some difficult life changes and are challenged by anxiety, depression, motivation, self-esteem, or religious paradigm changes, you are not alone.
I believe that we all search for happiness - some people make it seem easy. But we know that isn't true for everyone. Sometimes we are dealt a hand that gets in the way of our true path - childhood issues, bad relationships, addictions, feeling lost in life. I can help you find your true path so that you can pursue your personal happiness.
I believe that we all search for happiness - some people make it seem easy. But we know that isn't true for everyone. Sometimes we are dealt a hand that gets in the way of our true path - childhood issues, bad relationships, addictions, feeling lost in life. I can help you find your true path so that you can pursue your personal happiness.
I work with clients online video with telemedicine HIPPA compliant. I maintain a very successful practice of holistic psychology that addresses the client at all levels; Mental, Emotional, Physical & Spiritual, facilitating healing at the level of causation, not just management and treatment of symptoms. I sought out the most innovative treatments so my clients feel better as soon as possible and can be out-living their lives. I work very well with adolescents and individuals of all ages. I have extensive clinical experience that covers a wide range of problems.
I work with clients online video with telemedicine HIPPA compliant. I maintain a very successful practice of holistic psychology that addresses the client at all levels; Mental, Emotional, Physical & Spiritual, facilitating healing at the level of causation, not just management and treatment of symptoms. I sought out the most innovative treatments so my clients feel better as soon as possible and can be out-living their lives. I work very well with adolescents and individuals of all ages. I have extensive clinical experience that covers a wide range of problems.
Kimberly B Lavender
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, BBS, LMSW-C, MI, TF-CBT, FPE
4 Endorsed
Serves Area
Currently accepting new clients in California and Michigan. I believe in supporting and guiding clients to find their own answers, using a holistic, supportive, and integrated approach that encompasses the mind, body, and spirit. Through personal growth and development, we can learn to make healthy and lasting changes that replenish our positive energy. It is finding our own inner strengths; the power to find our own answers and to rid ourselves of negative self-talk so that we can be at peace with the decisions we make, regardless of unwelcome influence and/or the advice of others, and choosing to live a healthier, happier life.
Currently accepting new clients in California and Michigan. I believe in supporting and guiding clients to find their own answers, using a holistic, supportive, and integrated approach that encompasses the mind, body, and spirit. Through personal growth and development, we can learn to make healthy and lasting changes that replenish our positive energy. It is finding our own inner strengths; the power to find our own answers and to rid ourselves of negative self-talk so that we can be at peace with the decisions we make, regardless of unwelcome influence and/or the advice of others, and choosing to live a healthier, happier life.
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Dr. Jones currently has openings for new clients, and we will call you back within 24 hours. At the Center for Men’s Excellence, Dr. Jones provides therapy to adults, couples, and teens aged 13 and up. He also offers group therapy with men. Common areas of concern for Dr. Jones’ patients include stress and anxiety, relationship difficulties, work-life balance, reproductive/perinatal mental health, trauma, teen development, and depression. His background as a musician along with his extensive travel and dedication to cultural and spiritual exploration all inform his perspective as well as his intuitive attunement with his clients.
Dr. Jones currently has openings for new clients, and we will call you back within 24 hours. At the Center for Men’s Excellence, Dr. Jones provides therapy to adults, couples, and teens aged 13 and up. He also offers group therapy with men. Common areas of concern for Dr. Jones’ patients include stress and anxiety, relationship difficulties, work-life balance, reproductive/perinatal mental health, trauma, teen development, and depression. His background as a musician along with his extensive travel and dedication to cultural and spiritual exploration all inform his perspective as well as his intuitive attunement with his clients.
I'm a licensed psychologist with over 10 years of experience working with anxiety, depression, trauma, men's issues, relationship difficulties, and life transitions.
Anxiety, depression, relationship struggles, and the weight of past experiences don't just cause pain - they shape how you see yourself and how you show up with the people you love. If you've found yourself caught in the same patterns, wondering why things feel harder than they should, or simply wanting to understand yourself more deeply, psychodynamic therapy offers something most approaches don't: the chance to get at what's actually driving the difficulty, not just manage it. I work with adults, teens, and children in Encinitas and Vista, and I'm currently accepting new patients.
I'm a licensed psychologist with over 10 years of experience working with anxiety, depression, trauma, men's issues, relationship difficulties, and life transitions.
Anxiety, depression, relationship struggles, and the weight of past experiences don't just cause pain - they shape how you see yourself and how you show up with the people you love. If you've found yourself caught in the same patterns, wondering why things feel harder than they should, or simply wanting to understand yourself more deeply, psychodynamic therapy offers something most approaches don't: the chance to get at what's actually driving the difficulty, not just manage it. I work with adults, teens, and children in Encinitas and Vista, and I'm currently accepting new patients.
Not every problem can be handled on our own. In these times, it's important to seek the aid of those who have an extensive understanding of overwhelming stress, depression, and anxiety. As a LCSW and psychotherapist, I know healing is possible and happens everyday. I have a passion for mental health and enjoy watching people become the best version of themselves.
Not every problem can be handled on our own. In these times, it's important to seek the aid of those who have an extensive understanding of overwhelming stress, depression, and anxiety. As a LCSW and psychotherapist, I know healing is possible and happens everyday. I have a passion for mental health and enjoy watching people become the best version of themselves.
Men, couples, and veterans who want stronger relationships, greater clarity, and a deeper sense of connection. You may be navigating stress, communication challenges, emotional distance, or life transitions and looking for a place to sort things out without judgment. Many people come to therapy wanting practical support and a better understanding of themselves and their relationships. Therapy offers a space to slow down, reflect, and create meaningful change at your own pace. If you’re curious about what’s possible and ready to take a next step, you don’t have to do it alone. Let’s Keep Moving Forward together.
Men, couples, and veterans who want stronger relationships, greater clarity, and a deeper sense of connection. You may be navigating stress, communication challenges, emotional distance, or life transitions and looking for a place to sort things out without judgment. Many people come to therapy wanting practical support and a better understanding of themselves and their relationships. Therapy offers a space to slow down, reflect, and create meaningful change at your own pace. If you’re curious about what’s possible and ready to take a next step, you don’t have to do it alone. Let’s Keep Moving Forward together.
I finally feel at home with my own private practice, focusing on men's issues, military, sports performance, and early fatherhood.
As a licensed psychologist and former Navy Diver, I provide a direct, evidenced-based space for men, veterans, and high-performers to build lives of genuine Integrity and Purpose. I specialize in working with individuals who feel "stuck," whether they are battling depression, navigating the identity shift of new fatherhood, processing military or high-stress career transitions, or confronting addictive behaviors. I understand the unique social and internal pressures men face today, and I provide a direct, open space where you don’t have to mask your struggles or apologize for your ambition.
I finally feel at home with my own private practice, focusing on men's issues, military, sports performance, and early fatherhood.
As a licensed psychologist and former Navy Diver, I provide a direct, evidenced-based space for men, veterans, and high-performers to build lives of genuine Integrity and Purpose. I specialize in working with individuals who feel "stuck," whether they are battling depression, navigating the identity shift of new fatherhood, processing military or high-stress career transitions, or confronting addictive behaviors. I understand the unique social and internal pressures men face today, and I provide a direct, open space where you don’t have to mask your struggles or apologize for your ambition.
I have been in practice since 2007 and have been featured on ABC, NBC, and KCAL as an expert psychologist. I work primarily with men who have hit “rock bottom” and would like help getting up. These men are often in crisis when we first meet. The issues I address are typically related to unhealthy sexual behaviors, infidelity, broken relationships, drugs/alcohol, dishonesty/lying, financial recklessness, and gambling. My therapy approach is a combination of psychoanalytic, cognitive-behavioral, and the 12-Step recovery model. I also share insight from my own painful but redemptive recovery journey.
I have been in practice since 2007 and have been featured on ABC, NBC, and KCAL as an expert psychologist. I work primarily with men who have hit “rock bottom” and would like help getting up. These men are often in crisis when we first meet. The issues I address are typically related to unhealthy sexual behaviors, infidelity, broken relationships, drugs/alcohol, dishonesty/lying, financial recklessness, and gambling. My therapy approach is a combination of psychoanalytic, cognitive-behavioral, and the 12-Step recovery model. I also share insight from my own painful but redemptive recovery journey.
I believe the basis of a successful psychotherapy experience is a warm, empathic and non-judgmental connection where clients feel understood, supported and accepted. My clinical work focuses on helping people with depression or anxiety issues, chronic or life-threatening illness, & chronic pain. In addition, I enjoy working with older adolescents and young adults who have been frustrated in trying to capitalize on their strengths & achieve their personal & professional goals. Our work may involve issues related to mood, behaviors, education/career, stage-of-life transitions, relationships, & sexuality or sexual orientation.
I believe the basis of a successful psychotherapy experience is a warm, empathic and non-judgmental connection where clients feel understood, supported and accepted. My clinical work focuses on helping people with depression or anxiety issues, chronic or life-threatening illness, & chronic pain. In addition, I enjoy working with older adolescents and young adults who have been frustrated in trying to capitalize on their strengths & achieve their personal & professional goals. Our work may involve issues related to mood, behaviors, education/career, stage-of-life transitions, relationships, & sexuality or sexual orientation.
Sitting at the cross roads of life not knowing which direction to take or perhaps cemented in the very spot where we stand, seems to be where many find themselves today. With the weight of past traumas, present stress and frustrations, and future worries of what is to come sitting upon our shoulders, we attempt to carry even more weight from our families and friends. At some point our shoulders begin to give amongst the burden that cannot be carried alone. We find ourselves in distress feeling hopeless, helpless and broken.
Sitting at the cross roads of life not knowing which direction to take or perhaps cemented in the very spot where we stand, seems to be where many find themselves today. With the weight of past traumas, present stress and frustrations, and future worries of what is to come sitting upon our shoulders, we attempt to carry even more weight from our families and friends. At some point our shoulders begin to give amongst the burden that cannot be carried alone. We find ourselves in distress feeling hopeless, helpless and broken.
I love working with people who know that they want to make a change and are motivated to do so, but don’t know where to start. That’s where I come in. I partner with you to develop tangible solutions to use during and after therapy. I believe in balancing compassion and efficiency, so my therapeutic process tends to be highly focused. Time is valuable and so are our resources. I want to make sure you get the most of our experience together and want you to see the difference that our working relationship can make. I specialize in communication, relationships, depression, and anxiety, so don’t let another day pass. Call me!
I love working with people who know that they want to make a change and are motivated to do so, but don’t know where to start. That’s where I come in. I partner with you to develop tangible solutions to use during and after therapy. I believe in balancing compassion and efficiency, so my therapeutic process tends to be highly focused. Time is valuable and so are our resources. I want to make sure you get the most of our experience together and want you to see the difference that our working relationship can make. I specialize in communication, relationships, depression, and anxiety, so don’t let another day pass. Call me!
A lot of men walk around carrying more than they ever say out loud.
They stay busy. Push through. Keep it moving.
From the outside, it looks like they’ve got it handled.
But underneath?
Stress. Pressure. Frustration. Disconnection.
A constant mental loop that doesn’t shut off.
And the worst part—no one really knows.
If you’re used to carrying everything on your own, therapy probably isn’t your first move. You’ve likely told yourself you should be able to figure it out, push through it, or just deal with it.
That works—until it doesn’t.
A lot of men walk around carrying more than they ever say out loud.
They stay busy. Push through. Keep it moving.
From the outside, it looks like they’ve got it handled.
But underneath?
Stress. Pressure. Frustration. Disconnection.
A constant mental loop that doesn’t shut off.
And the worst part—no one really knows.
If you’re used to carrying everything on your own, therapy probably isn’t your first move. You’ve likely told yourself you should be able to figure it out, push through it, or just deal with it.
That works—until it doesn’t.
Making the decision to seek therapy can be challenging, and the journey may be harder before it gets easier. Opening up about the private, deep aspects of your life—your relationships, your marriage, your family—can be difficult, especially with someone you don’t yet know. You may be grappling with trauma beyond your control, or struggling with the consequences of a decision that caused pain to both others and yourself. You might even be trying to understand who you are now and how to become the person you want to be, but feeling unsure of where to start. Whatever you're facing, seek therapy, no one should do this alone.
Making the decision to seek therapy can be challenging, and the journey may be harder before it gets easier. Opening up about the private, deep aspects of your life—your relationships, your marriage, your family—can be difficult, especially with someone you don’t yet know. You may be grappling with trauma beyond your control, or struggling with the consequences of a decision that caused pain to both others and yourself. You might even be trying to understand who you are now and how to become the person you want to be, but feeling unsure of where to start. Whatever you're facing, seek therapy, no one should do this alone.
Life can feel overwhelming at times, maybe you're navigating effects of anxiety, depression, or past trauma or you might be feeling disconnected from your partner or unsure how to manage relationship challenges. If any of this resonates, you're not alone and therapy can be a powerful place to begin finding clarity and direction.
Life can feel overwhelming at times, maybe you're navigating effects of anxiety, depression, or past trauma or you might be feeling disconnected from your partner or unsure how to manage relationship challenges. If any of this resonates, you're not alone and therapy can be a powerful place to begin finding clarity and direction.
The strongest person is the one who asks for help when they are stuck or overwhelmed. Working together we can find the steps and strategies to overcome life's challenges and live our most successful, best lives.
The strongest person is the one who asks for help when they are stuck or overwhelmed. Working together we can find the steps and strategies to overcome life's challenges and live our most successful, best lives.
I offer the opportunity to develop insight into your emotional patterns, connect with your values and develop skills to achieve the outcomes you want. I approach therapy with empathy, compassion and a down-to-earth style. I use your reason for coming to therapy to foster value-based action in your life. I have a specific interest in working with a variety of relationships including ethical non monogamy as well as men and older adults.
I offer the opportunity to develop insight into your emotional patterns, connect with your values and develop skills to achieve the outcomes you want. I approach therapy with empathy, compassion and a down-to-earth style. I use your reason for coming to therapy to foster value-based action in your life. I have a specific interest in working with a variety of relationships including ethical non monogamy as well as men and older adults.
I work in an open, non-judgmental, and friendly way to help people find a sense of wholeness and peace in their lives. With a background in psychotherapy, spiritual counseling, meditation, and mindfulness, my work focuses on a persons inner strength. I work with individuals, couples, and families on areas ranging from life decisions, self-inquiry, spirituality, relationships and sexuality.
I work in an open, non-judgmental, and friendly way to help people find a sense of wholeness and peace in their lives. With a background in psychotherapy, spiritual counseling, meditation, and mindfulness, my work focuses on a persons inner strength. I work with individuals, couples, and families on areas ranging from life decisions, self-inquiry, spirituality, relationships and sexuality.
I am Dr. Carmelo Isales, a psychotherapist, specializing in marital and family dynamics, and founder of Prism Family Counseling INC. I am aware of what it means to lose, to rebuild, and to transform pain into self-worth. I have learned through 20 years of practice, that the strength of treatment usually involves the discovery of parental wounds and its impact on current family functioning. I specifically use a safe triadic approach with mother, children, and father together if available. I can also use the same approaches in individual sessions to promote the release of traumatic distress.
I am Dr. Carmelo Isales, a psychotherapist, specializing in marital and family dynamics, and founder of Prism Family Counseling INC. I am aware of what it means to lose, to rebuild, and to transform pain into self-worth. I have learned through 20 years of practice, that the strength of treatment usually involves the discovery of parental wounds and its impact on current family functioning. I specifically use a safe triadic approach with mother, children, and father together if available. I can also use the same approaches in individual sessions to promote the release of traumatic distress.
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Men's Issues Therapists
Is therapy for men different than it is for women?
Therapeutic treatments and types are the same for men as they are for women, with the same protocols followed and the same strategies employed. Discussing one’s feelings and emotions is an integral part of most therapies, and some men find doing so more challenging. Therapists can help clients through the process; some specialize in treating men for this reason.
How do you encourage a man to go to therapy?
It’s helpful to express your concern and love for the person while framing therapy as a tool for improving their life. Offering specific examples of how an individual’s behavior affected either himself or others should be done with compassion and with empathy. It may be useful to devise a game plan—breaking the process down into parts, such as finding a therapist, making appointments, and looking into insurance coverage.
How can men prepare for therapy?
Men can prepare for therapy by approaching the process with an open mind, being willing to talk about their challenges, and giving treatment the time to work. Before a session, an individual may want to reflect on how they’ve felt since the last session and what’s happened in their lives. It can be useful for men who struggle to recall their emotional states to write down notes between sessions about their response to a given event or how they were feeling at a particular time.
What should men know about the process of therapy?
One of the most common reasons men don’t seek therapy is the notion that there’s something wrong with them if they do. Men should know that just because they’re seeking therapy doesn’t mean they’re mentally ill or damaged in some way. In the same way people work on their bodies through exercise or a craft through practice, therapy can be a way to improve the mental and emotional skills needed to be productive and effective partners, employees, and people in all realms of life.