Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists in Upland, CA
Katherine (Katie) Boulware
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT, SUDCC 4
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Upland, CA 91786
Ready for something different? Feeling stuck with a problem that you can't seem to overcome? It might be time to get some help but it's hard to share your private life with a stranger. I can provide a warm and safe place to begin the hard work of feeling better. I work with you as an equal to help you understand and begin to change some of your toughest problems. You don't have to stay "stuck" this way. The beginning of something new might seem scary but the results of freedom are well worth the work!
Ready for something different? Feeling stuck with a problem that you can't seem to overcome? It might be time to get some help but it's hard to share your private life with a stranger. I can provide a warm and safe place to begin the hard work of feeling better. I work with you as an equal to help you understand and begin to change some of your toughest problems. You don't have to stay "stuck" this way. The beginning of something new might seem scary but the results of freedom are well worth the work!
Kumusta! I am happy that you are here and ready to grow into the new you! It is time to reclaim your power back and be proud. I primarily focus on mindfulness in the therapy room and helping you learn to trust your intuition to make healthy and positive decisions. I will guide you on how to communicate with others and be emotionally expressive. I utilize a range of resources from activities in the therapy room to ground yourself, couple's activities to strengthen your relationship, family therapy conflict resolutions, positive affirmation work, or assigning homework to do outside of the therapy room to ensure change is happening.
Kumusta! I am happy that you are here and ready to grow into the new you! It is time to reclaim your power back and be proud. I primarily focus on mindfulness in the therapy room and helping you learn to trust your intuition to make healthy and positive decisions. I will guide you on how to communicate with others and be emotionally expressive. I utilize a range of resources from activities in the therapy room to ground yourself, couple's activities to strengthen your relationship, family therapy conflict resolutions, positive affirmation work, or assigning homework to do outside of the therapy room to ensure change is happening.
Hi! I am a licensed Clinical Psychologist specializing in trauma, anxiety disorders, and neurodiverse communities, though my training and experiences have made me comfortable working with a wide number of mental health needs. I am passionate about working alongside clients as they move towards living a life that is more authentic and fulfilled. Starting therapy can feel intimidating. I am so glad that you are taking this step in your mental health journey.
Hi! I am a licensed Clinical Psychologist specializing in trauma, anxiety disorders, and neurodiverse communities, though my training and experiences have made me comfortable working with a wide number of mental health needs. I am passionate about working alongside clients as they move towards living a life that is more authentic and fulfilled. Starting therapy can feel intimidating. I am so glad that you are taking this step in your mental health journey.
Stephanie Goldsmith
Psychologist, PhD, MA
Verified Verified
8 Endorsed
Serves Area
Waitlist for new clients
Initiating counseling can be an intimidating or difficult process and it is extremely important that you feel safe and comfortable with the therapist you choose. I strive to provide a safe and collaborative environment to help you achieve your therapeutic goals and facilitate meaningful change in your life. Although I enjoy working with a variety of issues and concerns, some of my specialty areas include trauma, couples and relationships, eating disorders and body image concerns, self-harm behaviors, identity development, LGBTQI issues, and whole person care.
Initiating counseling can be an intimidating or difficult process and it is extremely important that you feel safe and comfortable with the therapist you choose. I strive to provide a safe and collaborative environment to help you achieve your therapeutic goals and facilitate meaningful change in your life. Although I enjoy working with a variety of issues and concerns, some of my specialty areas include trauma, couples and relationships, eating disorders and body image concerns, self-harm behaviors, identity development, LGBTQI issues, and whole person care.
Andrea DuRant Heitz
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, SAP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Making the decision to call a therapist is scary for most of us. It is usually at a time when we feel vulnerable or things have reached a crisis point. I can help give you objective feedback so that you can understand and make sense of your thoughts and feelings. In therapy you will learn new coping skills that you can use, not just in this incident, but in future ones. You don't have to be alone as you try and figure things out. I believe I can help.
Making the decision to call a therapist is scary for most of us. It is usually at a time when we feel vulnerable or things have reached a crisis point. I can help give you objective feedback so that you can understand and make sense of your thoughts and feelings. In therapy you will learn new coping skills that you can use, not just in this incident, but in future ones. You don't have to be alone as you try and figure things out. I believe I can help.
Hello, my name is Dino Petruzzi and I am a LMFT Licensed in California. I have been a therapist for the past 7 years. My approach to therapy is to be compassionate and non-judgmental with my clients. My focus is on the client and what they need to get out of each session. I would describe my theoretical approach as a cross between humanistic and compassionate inquiry where both the individual and therapist unveil the level of consciousness, mental climate, hidden assumptions, implicit memories, and body states that form the real message that words both express and conceal.
Hello, my name is Dino Petruzzi and I am a LMFT Licensed in California. I have been a therapist for the past 7 years. My approach to therapy is to be compassionate and non-judgmental with my clients. My focus is on the client and what they need to get out of each session. I would describe my theoretical approach as a cross between humanistic and compassionate inquiry where both the individual and therapist unveil the level of consciousness, mental climate, hidden assumptions, implicit memories, and body states that form the real message that words both express and conceal.
Saturdays in person available now! Quirky, Creative, or Queer? Let's Navigate Life Together. I specialize in working with individuals who identify as quirky, creative, LGBTQIA+, or those who simply don’t fit into conventional boxes. Whether you're navigating identity exploration, life transitions, or struggling with relationships and self-acceptance, I'm here to help you feel understood, validated, and supported. I approach therapy with an open mind and a dash of humor because growth doesn’t have to be all serious. My practice embraces a judgment-free zone where your authentic self is always welcome.
Saturdays in person available now! Quirky, Creative, or Queer? Let's Navigate Life Together. I specialize in working with individuals who identify as quirky, creative, LGBTQIA+, or those who simply don’t fit into conventional boxes. Whether you're navigating identity exploration, life transitions, or struggling with relationships and self-acceptance, I'm here to help you feel understood, validated, and supported. I approach therapy with an open mind and a dash of humor because growth doesn’t have to be all serious. My practice embraces a judgment-free zone where your authentic self is always welcome.
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I'm a sex-positive therapist who is aware and affirming of: LGBTQIA+, ethical non-monogamy, and kink.
Imagine being in a space that feels open, accepting, and free of judgment—where you can show up as your full self without ever needing to censor or adjust who you are. I understand how challenging it can be to find a therapeutic environment where you truly feel like you belong, and it’s deeply meaningful to witness the relief clients experience when they’re able to engage authentically in the therapeutic journey. My practice primarily focuses on supporting individuals navigating sex, sexuality-related concerns, as well as Neurodiverse clients. I have completed and continue to pursue specialized training and education in Sex Therapy.
I'm a sex-positive therapist who is aware and affirming of: LGBTQIA+, ethical non-monogamy, and kink.
Imagine being in a space that feels open, accepting, and free of judgment—where you can show up as your full self without ever needing to censor or adjust who you are. I understand how challenging it can be to find a therapeutic environment where you truly feel like you belong, and it’s deeply meaningful to witness the relief clients experience when they’re able to engage authentically in the therapeutic journey. My practice primarily focuses on supporting individuals navigating sex, sexuality-related concerns, as well as Neurodiverse clients. I have completed and continue to pursue specialized training and education in Sex Therapy.
I have over 30 years of experience in the field of mental health, helping people from age 0 - 90 plus, My passion is for helping those who have had sexual trauma, childhood abuse, etc, as well as I am sex positive, kink positive, open, friendly and caring.
My ideal client is someone who is willing to empty their mental cup and be prepared to do some good, productive work on the issues that cause them to continue living lives that are barely functioning. I am NOT the expert of anyone's lives; however, I can offer insight into the experiences that have molded me to become the person I am today. I am extremely transparent, not easily offended, and willing to do the hard work, alongside my clients to help them take the reign of their lives back.
I have over 30 years of experience in the field of mental health, helping people from age 0 - 90 plus, My passion is for helping those who have had sexual trauma, childhood abuse, etc, as well as I am sex positive, kink positive, open, friendly and caring.
My ideal client is someone who is willing to empty their mental cup and be prepared to do some good, productive work on the issues that cause them to continue living lives that are barely functioning. I am NOT the expert of anyone's lives; however, I can offer insight into the experiences that have molded me to become the person I am today. I am extremely transparent, not easily offended, and willing to do the hard work, alongside my clients to help them take the reign of their lives back.
Crystal Osborn
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT, CSCT, CST
Verified Verified
Rancho Cucamonga, CA 91730
Crystal is in the process of getting Kink Certified and CNM/ENM Certified.
My ideal client would be an individual/client motivated and dedicated to change, who is an active participant with their goals and progress.
Crystal is in the process of getting Kink Certified and CNM/ENM Certified.
My ideal client would be an individual/client motivated and dedicated to change, who is an active participant with their goals and progress.
Stacey Jackson-Roberts
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Pasadena, CA 91107
This includes queer and trans individuals, parents and partners of LGBTQ+ individuals, practitioners of ethical non-monogamy, and those involved in kink.
I offer therapy to individuals exploring various aspects of gender (transgender, cisgender, and gender diverse) and sexuality (LGBTQ+, ENM/Poly) as well as general mental health. My goal is to create a supportive environment where we can tackle challenges related to sexuality, relationships, personal growth, and overall mental health. Together, we’ll engage in empathetic, nonjudgmental conversations to identify areas for growth and celebrate your achievements. I’ll customize our sessions using diverse therapeutic techniques to meet your unique needs, values, and goals, helping you define your journey in life and relationships.
This includes queer and trans individuals, parents and partners of LGBTQ+ individuals, practitioners of ethical non-monogamy, and those involved in kink.
I offer therapy to individuals exploring various aspects of gender (transgender, cisgender, and gender diverse) and sexuality (LGBTQ+, ENM/Poly) as well as general mental health. My goal is to create a supportive environment where we can tackle challenges related to sexuality, relationships, personal growth, and overall mental health. Together, we’ll engage in empathetic, nonjudgmental conversations to identify areas for growth and celebrate your achievements. I’ll customize our sessions using diverse therapeutic techniques to meet your unique needs, values, and goals, helping you define your journey in life and relationships.
Carrie Smolen
Associate Marriage & Family Therapist, AMFT, MS
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Online Only
My background has lent itself to a specialty in working with sex and relationships (LGBTQ, kink, and non-traditional relationship structure affirming), pregnancy, postpartum, new parents, challenging family dynamics, entertainment industry professionals, eating orders and disordered eating, body image struggles, anxiety, depression, and teens.
Relationships are hard. It’s a cliché for a reason, and an understatement at that. Even relationships that are generally very strong and loving take a lot of work and energy to maintain. My intention in session with you, whether as a couple, family, or other intimate unit, is to help facilitate communication in a way that helps you work toward shared goals and a more harmonious dynamic. I hope to create a collaborative environment in which you, both each and collectively, feel attentively listened to and emotionally held. I want to help you get on and stay on the same page, even when your perspectives feel misaligned.
My background has lent itself to a specialty in working with sex and relationships (LGBTQ, kink, and non-traditional relationship structure affirming), pregnancy, postpartum, new parents, challenging family dynamics, entertainment industry professionals, eating orders and disordered eating, body image struggles, anxiety, depression, and teens.
Relationships are hard. It’s a cliché for a reason, and an understatement at that. Even relationships that are generally very strong and loving take a lot of work and energy to maintain. My intention in session with you, whether as a couple, family, or other intimate unit, is to help facilitate communication in a way that helps you work toward shared goals and a more harmonious dynamic. I hope to create a collaborative environment in which you, both each and collectively, feel attentively listened to and emotionally held. I want to help you get on and stay on the same page, even when your perspectives feel misaligned.
My name is Maria (she/her) and I am a queer, neurodivergent, first-generation Filipinx therapist who specializes in the beautifully complex parts of the human experience: sex and kink, decolonial healing, shadow work, and couples work.
My work is deeply rooted in social justice, sex-positivity, the mind-body connection, and collective liberation. With these systemic intersections in mind, I understand that there is no "one-size fits all" for therapy, thus making sure your healing is tailored to your unique circumstances is of utmost importance to me.
My name is Maria (she/her) and I am a queer, neurodivergent, first-generation Filipinx therapist who specializes in the beautifully complex parts of the human experience: sex and kink, decolonial healing, shadow work, and couples work.
My work is deeply rooted in social justice, sex-positivity, the mind-body connection, and collective liberation. With these systemic intersections in mind, I understand that there is no "one-size fits all" for therapy, thus making sure your healing is tailored to your unique circumstances is of utmost importance to me.
As a member of the LGBTQ community and a kink identified therapist with over 15 years of study and work in sexual health, I am familiar with the thriving spectrums of Gender, Sexual, and Relationship Diversity (GSRD) and the many ways in which love can be both offered and received in relationships.
We can work together to unveil your journey of sexual exploration. Whether you are just starting to explore kink, you are seeking to fine-tune a D/s relationship (including pet or age play), you are navigating the challenges and joys of nonmonogamy, or you simply want to better understand your own eroticism, I offer a safe space for intentional development.
As a member of the LGBTQ community and a kink identified therapist with over 15 years of study and work in sexual health, I am familiar with the thriving spectrums of Gender, Sexual, and Relationship Diversity (GSRD) and the many ways in which love can be both offered and received in relationships.
We can work together to unveil your journey of sexual exploration. Whether you are just starting to explore kink, you are seeking to fine-tune a D/s relationship (including pet or age play), you are navigating the challenges and joys of nonmonogamy, or you simply want to better understand your own eroticism, I offer a safe space for intentional development.
I offer kink, poly, & neurodivergent-friendly virtual sessions as a therapist at Wombat MHS.
Are you tired of bad "dates" with therapists, finding yourself explaining basic parts of your identity and feeling like therapy's going nowhere because of it? Maybe you're kinky, disabled, BIPOC, neurodivergent, queer, non-monogamous, all of the above, or don't subscribe to labels. It's time to alter the narrative towards solidifying, expanding, and affirming those identities instead of breaking down, minimizing, or ignoring them.
I offer kink, poly, & neurodivergent-friendly virtual sessions as a therapist at Wombat MHS.
Are you tired of bad "dates" with therapists, finding yourself explaining basic parts of your identity and feeling like therapy's going nowhere because of it? Maybe you're kinky, disabled, BIPOC, neurodivergent, queer, non-monogamous, all of the above, or don't subscribe to labels. It's time to alter the narrative towards solidifying, expanding, and affirming those identities instead of breaking down, minimizing, or ignoring them.
Kathlyn P Perez-Stable
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
If you are looking for authentic support for sexuality ( kink/fetish, leather) relationship support (non-traditional, vanilla/non-vanilla) divorce, LGBTQIA+ relationships, recovery from substance use disorder, manage anxiety, treat depression, experience deeper personal growth, increase self-esteem, or simply wanting to explore who you are and how you work, I'm here to provide you with the support you are seeking.
I am sober, queer, and in a power-exchange lesbian marriage. I have taught and worked within kink/leather communities throughout California and nationally and I integrate these lived experiences with clinical expertise to work with you toward the resolution of the challenges holding you back. I use a variety of therapeutic models to address specific needs.
If you are looking for authentic support for sexuality ( kink/fetish, leather) relationship support (non-traditional, vanilla/non-vanilla) divorce, LGBTQIA+ relationships, recovery from substance use disorder, manage anxiety, treat depression, experience deeper personal growth, increase self-esteem, or simply wanting to explore who you are and how you work, I'm here to provide you with the support you are seeking.
I am sober, queer, and in a power-exchange lesbian marriage. I have taught and worked within kink/leather communities throughout California and nationally and I integrate these lived experiences with clinical expertise to work with you toward the resolution of the challenges holding you back. I use a variety of therapeutic models to address specific needs.
Nicole DeSimone, LMFT - Relationship Therapist
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Fullerton, CA 92835
My practice is LGBTQ+ , poly/ENM and kink affirming.
If you want to improve the relationships in your life, you have come to the right place. If you are coming here as a couple, we will collaborate to create a common love language uniquely tailored to your shared vision of partnership. If you are here on your own, we will explore your life on a deeper to level to facilitate growth and understanding. You will feel supported to align with your core values as you navigate the dating world, partnership, family, friendships and the workplace. In working through a relational lens, we are able to reduce symptoms connected with anxiety, depression, life transitions and relationship distress.
My practice is LGBTQ+ , poly/ENM and kink affirming.
If you want to improve the relationships in your life, you have come to the right place. If you are coming here as a couple, we will collaborate to create a common love language uniquely tailored to your shared vision of partnership. If you are here on your own, we will explore your life on a deeper to level to facilitate growth and understanding. You will feel supported to align with your core values as you navigate the dating world, partnership, family, friendships and the workplace. In working through a relational lens, we are able to reduce symptoms connected with anxiety, depression, life transitions and relationship distress.
You deserve to heal from the painful experiences in your past! I specialize in working with people who are survivors of attachment trauma, such as childhood abuse or sexual assault, or are adult children of alcoholics and dysfunctional families. I help clients with issues of post-traumatic stress disorder, depression, anxiety, low self-esteem, codependency, dissociation, body image and eating concerns, and more. I'm also a sex-positive therapist who is passionate about helping clients with issues regarding sexuality and sexual identity. I love helping people develop a healthier relationship with themselves, as well as with others.
You deserve to heal from the painful experiences in your past! I specialize in working with people who are survivors of attachment trauma, such as childhood abuse or sexual assault, or are adult children of alcoholics and dysfunctional families. I help clients with issues of post-traumatic stress disorder, depression, anxiety, low self-esteem, codependency, dissociation, body image and eating concerns, and more. I'm also a sex-positive therapist who is passionate about helping clients with issues regarding sexuality and sexual identity. I love helping people develop a healthier relationship with themselves, as well as with others.
My practice is kink, queer, trans, monogamy, poly, open relationship, RA, neurodivergent, and quirk friendly.
I support clients with many things, including: Strengthening emotional regulation & self soothing skills, increasing clarity of whether non-monogamy is a good fit for you, reconciling diverging desires in existing relationships, improving conflict resolution skills, navigating the coming out process, & generally improving communication skills.
My practice is kink, queer, trans, monogamy, poly, open relationship, RA, neurodivergent, and quirk friendly.
I support clients with many things, including: Strengthening emotional regulation & self soothing skills, increasing clarity of whether non-monogamy is a good fit for you, reconciling diverging desires in existing relationships, improving conflict resolution skills, navigating the coming out process, & generally improving communication skills.
Joanna has been in the field since 2011, her practice is centered on working with BIPOC and queer, trans/gender expansive folx; she is sex and kink positive.
Joanna's therapeutic style is primarily rooted in Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and a Systems Approach. With better understanding the origins of one's thoughts and behaviors is impacted by one's past and informs our present. With increased self-awareness comes the power to change how we experience life.
Joanna has been in the field since 2011, her practice is centered on working with BIPOC and queer, trans/gender expansive folx; she is sex and kink positive.
Joanna's therapeutic style is primarily rooted in Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, and a Systems Approach. With better understanding the origins of one's thoughts and behaviors is impacted by one's past and informs our present. With increased self-awareness comes the power to change how we experience life.
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Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists
Why might an individual want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
A sex-positive or kinky individual may want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist because the client may feel safer and more supported discussing their experiences and challenges. A therapist who identifies as kink-friendly will have experience with clients having diverse sexual preferences and will likely be nonjudgmental and supportive about issues brought to the table. It is important to note that sex-positive, kink-allied individuals may find equal success with therapists who do not have such specialized knowledge and background. The most important factor in the success of therapy is for the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond.
Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in sex-positive, kink-allied treatment?
Generally, no. There are limited training programs and unofficial accreditations that therapists can pursue, but a therapist’s expertise will ultimately come from their previous experience with similar clients, their engagement with organizations that promote sex positivity or kink-allied lifestyles, and the importance they place on safety and cultural sensitivity.
How can individuals recognize a good sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
An experienced therapist is able to help clients explore their sexual identity and expression and relieve any discomfort or stigma attached to discussing such matters and the client’s overall challenges. A therapist who is sex-positive and kink-allied is able to create an environment that honors a client’s experience and sexual preferences. To recognize a good therapist, clients can simply ask directly about topics and issues important to them and gauge their comfort level and connection with a clinician based on the responses.
Can clients benefit from having a therapist with a focus on sex positivity and alternative sexual lifestyles?
Some individuals may feel most comfortable knowing that the clinician they’re working with has a commitment to creating an atmosphere of sex positivity and has experience with relationship diversity and alternative relationship structures. Working with a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist may help clients respect their own challenges and improve identity-affirming treatment.