Open Relationships Non-Monogamy Therapists in Upland, CA
I love working with individuals who are: artists, creatives, and those with unconventional careers or passions; members of the LGBTQIA+ community or anyone questioning their identity ; those in diverse relationship structures, like CNM or polyamory, and those facing life transitions.
Saturdays in person available now! Quirky, Creative, or Queer? Let's Navigate Life Together. I specialize in working with individuals who identify as quirky, creative, LGBTQIA+, or those who simply don’t fit into conventional boxes. Whether you're navigating identity exploration, life transitions, or struggling with relationships and self-acceptance, I'm here to help you feel understood, validated, and supported. I approach therapy with an open mind and a dash of humor because growth doesn’t have to be all serious. My practice embraces a judgment-free zone where your authentic self is always welcome.
I love working with individuals who are: artists, creatives, and those with unconventional careers or passions; members of the LGBTQIA+ community or anyone questioning their identity ; those in diverse relationship structures, like CNM or polyamory, and those facing life transitions.
Saturdays in person available now! Quirky, Creative, or Queer? Let's Navigate Life Together. I specialize in working with individuals who identify as quirky, creative, LGBTQIA+, or those who simply don’t fit into conventional boxes. Whether you're navigating identity exploration, life transitions, or struggling with relationships and self-acceptance, I'm here to help you feel understood, validated, and supported. I approach therapy with an open mind and a dash of humor because growth doesn’t have to be all serious. My practice embraces a judgment-free zone where your authentic self is always welcome.
(Mysti) Michelle Pruett
Pastoral Counselor, PhD, MA, MMsc, BA, BMsc
Upland, CA 91784
Waitlist for new clients
My ideal client is one who has a metaphysical world view or has an interest in Jungian Analysis / Depth Work / Dream Analysis / Alchemy / Mysticism/ Faith Based paradigms and would like guidance in discerning their personal experiences with synchronicity, dreamscape, archetypal relationship dynamics, metaphysics, or other aspects of their unique individuation journey. I tend to work with artists, teachers, students, writers, musicians, and other mental health providers who are seeking a psycho-spiritual lens that is tempered by a blending of metaphysics and science so that protocols stay evidence based and backed by research.
My ideal client is one who has a metaphysical world view or has an interest in Jungian Analysis / Depth Work / Dream Analysis / Alchemy / Mysticism/ Faith Based paradigms and would like guidance in discerning their personal experiences with synchronicity, dreamscape, archetypal relationship dynamics, metaphysics, or other aspects of their unique individuation journey. I tend to work with artists, teachers, students, writers, musicians, and other mental health providers who are seeking a psycho-spiritual lens that is tempered by a blending of metaphysics and science so that protocols stay evidence based and backed by research.
Katherine (Katie) Boulware
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT, SUDCC 4
1 Endorsed
Upland, CA 91786
Ready for something different? Feeling stuck with a problem that you can't seem to overcome? It might be time to get some help but it's hard to share your private life with a stranger. I can provide a warm and safe place to begin the hard work of feeling better. I work with you as an equal to help you understand and begin to change some of your toughest problems. You don't have to stay "stuck" this way. The beginning of something new might seem scary but the results of freedom are well worth the work!
Ready for something different? Feeling stuck with a problem that you can't seem to overcome? It might be time to get some help but it's hard to share your private life with a stranger. I can provide a warm and safe place to begin the hard work of feeling better. I work with you as an equal to help you understand and begin to change some of your toughest problems. You don't have to stay "stuck" this way. The beginning of something new might seem scary but the results of freedom are well worth the work!
¡Hola! I'm a bilingual (English/Spanish) Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist based in sunny California. At Riding the Wave Therapy I bring over eight years of diverse experience in the mental health field to guide you on a journey towards emotional well-being, stronger connections, and becoming the best version of yourself! Whether you're navigating the ebbs and flows of your relationship in couples therapy or addressing individual mental health concerns, I'm here to guide you through life transitions, finding greater intimacy with your partner, and improving communication skills.
¡Hola! I'm a bilingual (English/Spanish) Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist based in sunny California. At Riding the Wave Therapy I bring over eight years of diverse experience in the mental health field to guide you on a journey towards emotional well-being, stronger connections, and becoming the best version of yourself! Whether you're navigating the ebbs and flows of your relationship in couples therapy or addressing individual mental health concerns, I'm here to guide you through life transitions, finding greater intimacy with your partner, and improving communication skills.
Kumusta! I am happy that you are here and ready to grow into the new you! It is time to reclaim your power back and be proud. I primarily focus on mindfulness in the therapy room and helping you learn to trust your intuition to make healthy and positive decisions. I will guide you on how to communicate with others and be emotionally expressive. I utilize a range of resources from activities in the therapy room to ground yourself, couple's activities to strengthen your relationship, family therapy conflict resolutions, positive affirmation work, or assigning homework to do outside of the therapy room to ensure change is happening.
Kumusta! I am happy that you are here and ready to grow into the new you! It is time to reclaim your power back and be proud. I primarily focus on mindfulness in the therapy room and helping you learn to trust your intuition to make healthy and positive decisions. I will guide you on how to communicate with others and be emotionally expressive. I utilize a range of resources from activities in the therapy room to ground yourself, couple's activities to strengthen your relationship, family therapy conflict resolutions, positive affirmation work, or assigning homework to do outside of the therapy room to ensure change is happening.
Be Authentic Family Therapy (Michele Putini)
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
2 Endorsed
Upland, CA 91786
Feeling unseen, not heard, alone & isolated and missing the connection with others? If you are feeling lost/disconnected and unable to be fully authentic in your own life, you're not alone. I can help. When I felt alone & hopeless & disconnected, I turned to therapy & it profoundly changed my life. I became a therapist to help empower those that feel hopeless, alone & scared, gain confidence, strength & self-worth. If you're tired, frustrated & need change, let me guide you to discover your power, your personal truth. Asking for help is a sign of strength. Be brave, be YOU. Call for free consult. You matter. Let's find hope.
Feeling unseen, not heard, alone & isolated and missing the connection with others? If you are feeling lost/disconnected and unable to be fully authentic in your own life, you're not alone. I can help. When I felt alone & hopeless & disconnected, I turned to therapy & it profoundly changed my life. I became a therapist to help empower those that feel hopeless, alone & scared, gain confidence, strength & self-worth. If you're tired, frustrated & need change, let me guide you to discover your power, your personal truth. Asking for help is a sign of strength. Be brave, be YOU. Call for free consult. You matter. Let's find hope.
Welcome. I am truly glad that you are here. You are taking the first step to begin your self-discovery journey. Life can sometimes be challenging and in those times, show up for yourself and allow me to accompany you. Together we will discover your inner resiliency and work collaboratively to work on your goals, whatever they may be.
Welcome. I am truly glad that you are here. You are taking the first step to begin your self-discovery journey. Life can sometimes be challenging and in those times, show up for yourself and allow me to accompany you. Together we will discover your inner resiliency and work collaboratively to work on your goals, whatever they may be.
My goal is to restore health, well-being, and purpose, and to facilitate connection between clients and their loved ones. I believe that problems arise when people become disconnected from themselves and others. They become stuck in patterns of fear and anxious clinging, detachment and avoidance, disappointment and anger. The unpleasant residue of old traumas, disappointments, and losses interferes with people's success and joy in life. I help people release old patterns and reconnect to their life energy so they can enjoy healthy functioning, experience lovingkindness for self and others, and remember their life purpose.
My goal is to restore health, well-being, and purpose, and to facilitate connection between clients and their loved ones. I believe that problems arise when people become disconnected from themselves and others. They become stuck in patterns of fear and anxious clinging, detachment and avoidance, disappointment and anger. The unpleasant residue of old traumas, disappointments, and losses interferes with people's success and joy in life. I help people release old patterns and reconnect to their life energy so they can enjoy healthy functioning, experience lovingkindness for self and others, and remember their life purpose.
Hello, my name is Dino Petruzzi and I am a LMFT Licensed in California. I have been a therapist for the past 7 years. My approach to therapy is to be compassionate and non-judgmental with my clients. My focus is on the client and what they need to get out of each session. I would describe my theoretical approach as a cross between humanistic and compassionate inquiry where both the individual and therapist unveil the level of consciousness, mental climate, hidden assumptions, implicit memories, and body states that form the real message that words both express and conceal.
Hello, my name is Dino Petruzzi and I am a LMFT Licensed in California. I have been a therapist for the past 7 years. My approach to therapy is to be compassionate and non-judgmental with my clients. My focus is on the client and what they need to get out of each session. I would describe my theoretical approach as a cross between humanistic and compassionate inquiry where both the individual and therapist unveil the level of consciousness, mental climate, hidden assumptions, implicit memories, and body states that form the real message that words both express and conceal.
Hello, I am Adam Colson, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and Therapist. I have worked with people of all ages, from children as young as 10 to adults as old as 65. I am 60 years old, so I've lived long enough to help many people and to see a lot of what life can offer us, both positive and negative. I am a straight man, married, and have over 10 years of clinical social work and therapy experience.
Hello, I am Adam Colson, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and Therapist. I have worked with people of all ages, from children as young as 10 to adults as old as 65. I am 60 years old, so I've lived long enough to help many people and to see a lot of what life can offer us, both positive and negative. I am a straight man, married, and have over 10 years of clinical social work and therapy experience.
Making the decision to call a therapist is scary for most of us. It is usually at a time when we feel vulnerable or things have reached a crisis point. I can help give you objective feedback so that you can understand and make sense of your thoughts and feelings. In therapy you will learn new coping skills that you can use, not just in this incident, but in future ones. You don't have to be alone as you try and figure things out. I believe I can help.
Making the decision to call a therapist is scary for most of us. It is usually at a time when we feel vulnerable or things have reached a crisis point. I can help give you objective feedback so that you can understand and make sense of your thoughts and feelings. In therapy you will learn new coping skills that you can use, not just in this incident, but in future ones. You don't have to be alone as you try and figure things out. I believe I can help.
Initiating counseling can be an intimidating or difficult process and it is extremely important that you feel safe and comfortable with the therapist you choose. I strive to provide a safe and collaborative environment to help you achieve your therapeutic goals and facilitate meaningful change in your life. Although I enjoy working with a variety of issues and concerns, some of my specialty areas include trauma, couples and relationships, eating disorders and body image concerns, self-harm behaviors, identity development, LGBTQI issues, and whole person care.
Initiating counseling can be an intimidating or difficult process and it is extremely important that you feel safe and comfortable with the therapist you choose. I strive to provide a safe and collaborative environment to help you achieve your therapeutic goals and facilitate meaningful change in your life. Although I enjoy working with a variety of issues and concerns, some of my specialty areas include trauma, couples and relationships, eating disorders and body image concerns, self-harm behaviors, identity development, LGBTQI issues, and whole person care.
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Expertise with couples and relationships, intimacy, trust, sexuality, open relationships, polyamory, life style, LGBTQIA+ & Kink.
When we change ourselves we create change in our life and relationships. Therapy is a journey of self discovery to develop intimacy and create meaning in life and relationships. Gain new perspectives expand freedom and fulfillment. Through exploration of your past and present I will help you develop nurturing relationships with others and with your empathetic genuine self; connect with playfulness and creativity; understand repetition in your life; discover the unconscious role in your decisions ; experience intimacy and alleviate depression and anxiety as we transform suffering into growth. More at https://www.shirshanunpsyd.com
Expertise with couples and relationships, intimacy, trust, sexuality, open relationships, polyamory, life style, LGBTQIA+ & Kink.
When we change ourselves we create change in our life and relationships. Therapy is a journey of self discovery to develop intimacy and create meaning in life and relationships. Gain new perspectives expand freedom and fulfillment. Through exploration of your past and present I will help you develop nurturing relationships with others and with your empathetic genuine self; connect with playfulness and creativity; understand repetition in your life; discover the unconscious role in your decisions ; experience intimacy and alleviate depression and anxiety as we transform suffering into growth. More at https://www.shirshanunpsyd.com
I specialize in clients who are racial/ethnic minorities, queer, transgender, and/or practice consensual non-monogamy/ polyamory.
I am a relational-cultural therapist, which means that I view relationships as central to our growth, honor my client's cultural identities, and explore how "isms" (e.g., racism, sexism, etc.) impact my clients. I view therapy as a collaboration in which we work together to address your concerns as well as help you live a life of meaning.
I specialize in clients who are racial/ethnic minorities, queer, transgender, and/or practice consensual non-monogamy/ polyamory.
I am a relational-cultural therapist, which means that I view relationships as central to our growth, honor my client's cultural identities, and explore how "isms" (e.g., racism, sexism, etc.) impact my clients. I view therapy as a collaboration in which we work together to address your concerns as well as help you live a life of meaning.
I specialize in LGBTQ affirmative therapy and work with alternative relationship styles such as ENM and polyamory.
I am passionate about working with queer/LGBTQIA+ people, those in ENM or polyamorous relationships, and couples. As a relational therapist, I believe healing happens through connection. The experiences we carry from our past shape our present, often in ways we don’t intend. I provide a supportive, nonjudgmental space where clients can explore their past, present, and future, make sense of relationship patterns, and gain deeper self-understanding. My approach is warm, direct, and engaged—I actively participate in the therapy process, helping clients recognize the dynamics that may be keeping them stuck.
I specialize in LGBTQ affirmative therapy and work with alternative relationship styles such as ENM and polyamory.
I am passionate about working with queer/LGBTQIA+ people, those in ENM or polyamorous relationships, and couples. As a relational therapist, I believe healing happens through connection. The experiences we carry from our past shape our present, often in ways we don’t intend. I provide a supportive, nonjudgmental space where clients can explore their past, present, and future, make sense of relationship patterns, and gain deeper self-understanding. My approach is warm, direct, and engaged—I actively participate in the therapy process, helping clients recognize the dynamics that may be keeping them stuck.
Together, we design a counseling format that best matches the way a client experiences the world, whether that's through a neurodivergent lens, relationship counseling for ethical nonmonogamy/ polyamory, or parts work with DID alters.
No matter where you are in your journey, I am here for you with judgement-free, support. Whether you have a specific goal or just feel lost and don’t know what you need yet, we can start wherever you are. I am comfortable sitting with you in your darkest spaces, celebrating your victories, sifting through overwhelm when everything feels like chaos, and everything in-between. As a transmasculine and autistic person, I deeply understand the importance of creating a safe and affirming space to explore your identity and navigate life's complexities. Together, we can find what works best for you, no matter what that looks like.
Together, we design a counseling format that best matches the way a client experiences the world, whether that's through a neurodivergent lens, relationship counseling for ethical nonmonogamy/ polyamory, or parts work with DID alters.
No matter where you are in your journey, I am here for you with judgement-free, support. Whether you have a specific goal or just feel lost and don’t know what you need yet, we can start wherever you are. I am comfortable sitting with you in your darkest spaces, celebrating your victories, sifting through overwhelm when everything feels like chaos, and everything in-between. As a transmasculine and autistic person, I deeply understand the importance of creating a safe and affirming space to explore your identity and navigate life's complexities. Together, we can find what works best for you, no matter what that looks like.
I specialize in working with relationships and their challenges, mood and anxiety issues, complex and/or attachment trauma, and non-traditional relationships and sexualities (eg: polyamory, kink).
My clients are sophisticated, insightful, and curious about themselves and others. Yet they may have found themselves feeling chronically depressed, anxious, or lost in life, and they might struggle with long-term patterns in their lives and relationships that they just can’t seem to change. Perhaps they have struggled with trauma or other experiences, thoughts, and feelings they fear nobody would understand. I enjoy working with people who desire not just new insights into their mind, but also a new way of experiencing themselves and others.
I specialize in working with relationships and their challenges, mood and anxiety issues, complex and/or attachment trauma, and non-traditional relationships and sexualities (eg: polyamory, kink).
My clients are sophisticated, insightful, and curious about themselves and others. Yet they may have found themselves feeling chronically depressed, anxious, or lost in life, and they might struggle with long-term patterns in their lives and relationships that they just can’t seem to change. Perhaps they have struggled with trauma or other experiences, thoughts, and feelings they fear nobody would understand. I enjoy working with people who desire not just new insights into their mind, but also a new way of experiencing themselves and others.
I work with cnm/ polyamory, kink, BIPOC, 2sLGBTQIA+ communities.
I specialize in supporting client's to heal their childhood trauma, set boundaries, build coping skills & practice self love. I specialize in helping couples understand each other better, improve their communication, & increase their vulnerability and intimacy. As a sex therapist I help couples transition from monogamy to non monogamy, communicate about jealousy, & set expectations. I specialize in helping those with Adhd increase focus, manage their time more effectively, & create systems to improve their quality of life. I specialize in supporting Neurodiverse client's to increase their EQ, awareness, & improve social connections.
I work with cnm/ polyamory, kink, BIPOC, 2sLGBTQIA+ communities.
I specialize in supporting client's to heal their childhood trauma, set boundaries, build coping skills & practice self love. I specialize in helping couples understand each other better, improve their communication, & increase their vulnerability and intimacy. As a sex therapist I help couples transition from monogamy to non monogamy, communicate about jealousy, & set expectations. I specialize in helping those with Adhd increase focus, manage their time more effectively, & create systems to improve their quality of life. I specialize in supporting Neurodiverse client's to increase their EQ, awareness, & improve social connections.
I work with LGBTQIA+ folx, as well as many who practice a variety of relationship structures from intentional monogamy to Consensual non-monogamy (CNM) and polyamory.
Are you curious about poly/CNM or having an open relationship and feeling anxious/excited but don't know where to begin? Are you dealing with NRE, broken trust, communication issues, primal panic or just straight up overwhelmed?
Are you exploring your sexuality, navigating baby queerness and feeling like an imposter in the alphabet mafia? Are you curious about your attachment style and how it is impacting relationships? Are you ready to break cycles of codependency and stop dating abusive partners? Are you ready to love how you want to love and most importantly, learn to love all parts of yourself and live a life without shame?
I work with LGBTQIA+ folx, as well as many who practice a variety of relationship structures from intentional monogamy to Consensual non-monogamy (CNM) and polyamory.
Are you curious about poly/CNM or having an open relationship and feeling anxious/excited but don't know where to begin? Are you dealing with NRE, broken trust, communication issues, primal panic or just straight up overwhelmed?
Are you exploring your sexuality, navigating baby queerness and feeling like an imposter in the alphabet mafia? Are you curious about your attachment style and how it is impacting relationships? Are you ready to break cycles of codependency and stop dating abusive partners? Are you ready to love how you want to love and most importantly, learn to love all parts of yourself and live a life without shame?
Maybe you're considering opening your relationship, or wondering if consensual non-monogamy or polyamory might be a better fit but don’t know where to start, and you're feeling excited, scared, and conflicted.
I help individuals and couples move from survival to deeper connection, joy, and self-trust. Clients often explore identity, heal attachment wounds, and break old patterns. I also support couples transitioning from monogamy to consensual non-monogamy or polyamory, building clarity, communication, and trust.
Maybe you're considering opening your relationship, or wondering if consensual non-monogamy or polyamory might be a better fit but don’t know where to start, and you're feeling excited, scared, and conflicted.
I help individuals and couples move from survival to deeper connection, joy, and self-trust. Clients often explore identity, heal attachment wounds, and break old patterns. I also support couples transitioning from monogamy to consensual non-monogamy or polyamory, building clarity, communication, and trust.
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Open Relationships Non-Monogamy Therapists
Why might an individual want to see a therapist specializing in open relationships and consensual non-monogamy?
A client seeking help with an open or consensually non-monogamous relationship will prefer to talk with a professional whom they can count on to be nonjudgmental. Talking with a supportive therapist may on its own help relieve some of the stigma and challenges partners face. That said, the most important factor in the success of any type of therapy is the ability of the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond. For this reason, an individual or couple could find success with a therapist who does not specialize in non-monogamous relationships but with whom they can build trust.
When should open or consensually non-monogamous partners seek counseling?
Like other couples, polyamorous partners typically seek counseling when they face relationship challenges they can’t solve themselves. In non-monogamous relationships, this could include breaches of trust, including infidelity; unclear rules or violations of boundaries; jealousy of outside partners; the stress of juggling the needs of multiple partners; or the effect of high partner turnover on children. Like those of other couples, polyamorous bonds can be threatened by increasingly frequent arguments, poor or dysfunctional communication, diminished emotional or physical intimacy, or the feeling that something is wrong, even if they don’t know what it is.
Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in open relationships and consensual non-monogamy?
No, but individuals seeking help with non-monogamous relationships would most likely consult a licensed professional with specific training in couples counseling or couples therapy. Couples counseling and couples therapy both involve teaching concrete strategies to navigate conflict in relationships. A good therapist can engage both partners as they explain these approaches but can also work with a single partner.
How long does therapy for consensually non-monogamous couples typically last?
Couples therapy for any type of couple, tends to be relatively time-limited, lasting around 12 weeks on average. A good therapist will tailor sessions to the individual partners’ emotions and sometimes their past, along with patterns found to be repeating in the relationship. In many cases, clients should expect their therapist to assign “homework” between weekly sessions.