Couples Counseling Therapists in Thousand Oaks, CA
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Susie Cobb
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA
Verified
2 Endorsed
Verified
2 Endorsed
Parenthood can cause an enormous burden on a couple’s
relationship
and ultimately the family.
Parenthood brings with it some of the most beautiful and trying times in one’s life. Small moments, big feelings and an ever changing horizon of milestones and laughter are the hallmarks of parenthood. But what about the moments of sadness, worry and loss of identity that parents often feel? Who holds the mother and father as they watch their child walk through new and sometimes scary beginnings? How do
couples
stay connected to one another while navigating the endless list of new tasks that parenthood comes with? And how do you coparent when tensions run high amidst split families?
Philip Kufek
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified
Verified
I work collaboratively with adults, teens, and
couples
, in an outpatient setting.
When we think about all the pain and suffering we endure during our lifetime, how much of it is necessary, and how much of it is avoidable? It is my belief that most individuals have the power to drastically change their own circumstances; yet we may falter by falling victim to our old routines and habits. The therapeutic journey is about questioning these automatic responses, while empowering you to take the steps needed to create long-lasting change. “Between stimulus and response there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.” - Viktor Frankl
Elizabeth Payne
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, LPCC
Verified
Verified
She's worked in a variety of mental health settings, including clinics, school settings, and has experience providing individual therapy, family therapy,
couples
therapy, and facilitating group therapy.
Elizabeth Payne is a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor (LPCC) who provides therapy in the state of California. She is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) in New York and a National Certified Counselor (NCC) with the National Board for Certified Counselors. She has over 5 years of experience working with children, adolescents, and adults who are coping with a range of challenges, including anxiety, life transitions, depression, substance abuse, and trauma. Elizabeth works with clients to help them find clarity, develop self-acceptance and inner strength, learning healthy coping skills to live the best life.
Fred Harlan
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, MA, MFTI
Verified
Verified
If you and your
partner
are having difficulties in trying to have a child you are not alone.
Are you missing the passion in your
relationship
? Does it seem like you and your significant other just can't communicate and you keep having the same arguments? Do you feel more like roommates than a couple? Are you finding it difficult to trust or has your trust been broken? Wondering whether the two of you are going to make it? I help
couples
re-establish the connection that brought them together, improve communication, increasing trust and acceptance, and creating lasting strategies to stay together.
Edmon Artinyan
Psychologist, Psy D
Verified
7 Endorsed
Verified
7 Endorsed
I am a licensed clinical psychologist at Lifespan who specializes in psychological evaluations for attention, learning and memory problems in adults, as well as the treatment of insomnia. I have worked with individuals with a wide range of emotional and interpersonal issues including depression, anxiety, panic, and
relationship
distress. I have many years of experience providing achievement, psychodiagnostic, and neuropsychological testing to adults. I also specialize in pre-surgical evaluations for bariatric, spinal cord stimulation, and breast augmentation surgeries.
Alexandria Schuller
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
Verified
Verified
Asking for help is not easy, but it is a step in the right direction. To admit you need help is strength in itself. As a team, I hope we can create progress that will aid your healing journey. Whether it's childhood trauma,
relationship
issues, or daily life stressors, I am here to process whatever is needed for your stage of life. I hope to offer a safe and non-judgmental space for those looking to learn about themselves.
Jennifer Haigh
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified
Verified
Thank you for visiting my profile, I am so glad you are here! I welcome clients of all ages – kids, teens, parents, families,
couples
, and adults – who are brave enough to seek support and who are committed to their well-being. Whether you are dealing with
relationship
conflicts, anxiety, mood disorders, substance use, loss, trauma and/or life transitions big or small, I am grounded in the belief that everyone can flourish to their fullest potential, and everyone has the power to rewrite their own story.
Not accepting new clients
Jordan Kuch
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified
Verified
I am passionate about building a
relationship
with my clients that promotes safety and have found that in a nurturing environment, growth can develop organically and bring about positive change.
I have worked in a variety of settings such as outpatient programs for substance use, residential treatment centers, non profit organizations, and a psychiatric hospital. I am passionate about working with individuals,
couples
and families experiencing various life stressors, relational problems, anxiety, depression, transitions, trauma, personal growth challenges etc. My overarching mission is to help clients reach their goals and work towards healing.
Sara Hulan
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified
Verified
Are you walking on eggshells? Do you even know how to say what you are feeling? Are you looking for connection and only finding disconnection? Does it seem like you are haunted by the past? Sometimes depression and anxiety tell you how you should feel. Sometimes your history likes to persuade you to believe that it knows best. It can cloud your view of goals and motivation. It may want you to believe everything that it is saying. Even when your mind knows better, your heart tells you to follow your fears. Let's learn to stand up and speak your truth. What do you really want from your life, your
relationship
, your direction?
Erica Mesa
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified
Verified
We provide a safe space for you to feel comfortable sharing your life experiences and build a positive therapeutic
relationship
.
Asking someone for help takes a lot of courage. It is incredibly difficult when you are feeling sad, stressed, overwhelmed and nervous. You may be experiencing many sleepless nights, restlessness, or past trauma come up. I assure you that you are not alone in feeling this way and I am here to support you. In my healing sessions, I bring a strength-based and humanistic approach to help you feel confident about yourself. My goal is to not only help you heal and move forward by being compassionate and gentle to yourself, but also to help you learn lifelong skills that you can use.
Cameron White
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified
Verified
I do see many
couples
, but also enjoy providing a healing environment for individuals to explore and express problems within their relationships.
People can feel stuck only to repeat bad habits that keep them from goals and dreams. These patterns are usually what keep us stuck and frustrated. Change is possible and achievable! I join my clients on their journey to help them become encouraged and find ways to reconnect to themselves as well as others around them. A focus in my practice is helping clients to feel heard and understood as well as guiding them in making attainable goals that will enhance and enrich their quality of life. Working as a team, we will look at many aspects of the patterns in your life that may be harmful, ineffective, or simply unhelpful.
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Cheryl Beatrice
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
Relationship
issues? Trouble communicating? Anger? Depression? Anxiety? Low self-esteem? Sometimes we need help from a professional to cope with life's challenges. I don't use a "cookie-cutter" approach to psychotherapy. I tailor my approach to meet my client's needs. My goal is to help you develop life-changing habits to help you cope with life's obstacles. I will create a warm, supportive environment where we can work together to identify strengths and areas for growth/ development to reach your fullest potential, enhance relationships, build effective communication skills, or finding your way back to yourself and others.
Natalie Yeschin
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCS
Verified
Verified
My professional orientation is primarily an interpersonal approach to supporting Individuals,
Couples
and Families in removing obstacles that are preventing their interpersonal/intrapersonal success.
I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with a Post Master's Certificate in Advanced Clinical Social Work Practice. I have worked in private practice for the past 18 years, specializing in Structured Assessments and ongoing Individual,
Couples
and Family Therapy with individuals and families who sustain a variety of neurological and learning challenges.
Jennifer Miner
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified
Verified
I have been practicing for the past 9 years serving children, teens, adults, families and
couples
in private practices, community mental health DMH agencies and behavioral/mental health through hospital based insurance.
Healing, balance, and support are essentials that we all need and look for on our journey through life. Through the therapy process, my goal is to learn about your unique perspective while assisting you to make the shifts you are seeking while providing warmth and compassion. My own journey has allowed me to appreciate the experience of making changes and healing that comes from the therapeutic process.
Waitlist for new clients
Sarah Nelson
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT, APCC
Verified
Verified
I serve a wide range of clients, including teens,
couples
, adults, and families.
Hi! I’m Sarah Nelson and I’m an Associate Marriage and Family Therapist and an Associate Professional Clinical Counselor. I’m happy for the chance to take part in your healing journey and my hope is to be a warm and uplifting presence throughout this process. I have a holistic, client-centered approach to therapy, where I work collaboratively with clients to address the mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual scars that may be present. I am trained in Brainspotting, and I actively use CBT, DBT, ACT, Seeking Safety, Family Systems, & Mindfulness in session and throughout treatment.
Jeffrey Millstone
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified
Verified
Above all, "Therapy must be useful". That means that in addition to overcoming issues related to depression, anxiety and troubled relationships, skills are developed and applied to life's challenges. These skills include increased self awareness, handling adversity and developing and applying the skills necessary to achieve a gratifying and fulfilling life. In addition to Individual,
Couples
, and Family sessions in the office, Video Therapy over the internet thru a HIPPA compliant platform which maintains confidentiality can be arranged.
Waitlist for new clients
Dr. Edna Jimenez
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified
Verified
I have almost thirty years of experience helping people who are struggling with issues related to depression, anxiety, and
relationship
problems.
** I currently do not have any openings. You can leave a message with your information and if you would like to be placed on a waitlist.** Welcome to my practice. It can be hard to make that call to a psychologist but you owe it to yourself if you are struggling in your life. You don't have to struggle alone. I can help by providing you with a positive and safe place to help you process your feelings. Our goal is to discover what is blocking you from living to your full potential and making positive changes.
Steven Russell Hobbs
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, MA, LMFT
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
Relationships are a dominant presence in our lives; we are meant to be relational. The relationships we remember from the past, experience in the present, and anticipate in the future are perhaps the most influential force in shaping who we are. I believe there are three types of relationships that therapy can foster health in - a person's
relationship
with himself or herself, a person's
relationship
with other people, and, for people of faith, a person's
relationship
with God. There is perhaps no better gift that could be received than a healthier
relationship
in these areas.
La Cresheia Lee
Marriage & Family Therapist
Verified
Verified
La Cresheia Lee, MA MFT, LMFT I am a marriage and family therapist licensed in California, with over 12 years of experience (combined licensed and intern hours), and I hold BA degrees in Psychology and Africana Studies. I have worked with diverse clients experiencing a wide range of concerns, including depression, anxiety,
relationship
issues, cultural & racial identity, stress management, and grief and loss. I have also helped many clients who have experienced emotional, physical, and sexual abuse, and those struggling with suicide ideation and co-occurring disorders.
Greg Daven
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified
Verified
Struggling with infidelity, trust issues, internet addiction, & wondering whether to continue with your
relationship
? My unique approach to
couples counseling
can help you sort through all of the chaos.
You are a good person. You are authentic, open, honest, and vulnerable. However, there is someone in your life who takes advantage of your good nature and makes your life a living Hell. While you are open and honest, they respond with secrecy, lies, and often blame you for creating your own stress. I am here to help you sort through all of the chaos and create some peace in your life. Call me and we can discuss how I can help you create appropriate boundaries, and/or start the process of finding another human who will treat you in the same caring way that you treat others. I have evening hours (after 530pm) for people who work days.
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Couples Counseling Therapists
Does couples counseling work?
Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.
When should a couple seek counseling?
Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.
How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?
The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.
How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?
The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.