Emotionally Focused Therapists in Sunnyvale, CA

SF Bay Therapist Group
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, LCSW
Not Verified Not Verified
1 Endorsed
Sunnyvale, CA 94087
Hello, We are a diverse group of therapists for the diverse and unique children, adults and couples of the California bay area. We create supportive and confidential environment for clients wanting to improve their mental health conditions of Anxiety, ADHD, PTSD/ trauma, depression and relational issues with treatment through Mindfulness based CBT, DBT, Psychodynamic, Narrative, EMDR, EFT, Imago and Solution Focused therapy modalities, to name few. Please, visit us on www.sfbaytherapistgroup.com to read more about our treatments, therapists and client services.
Hello, We are a diverse group of therapists for the diverse and unique children, adults and couples of the California bay area. We create supportive and confidential environment for clients wanting to improve their mental health conditions of Anxiety, ADHD, PTSD/ trauma, depression and relational issues with treatment through Mindfulness based CBT, DBT, Psychodynamic, Narrative, EMDR, EFT, Imago and Solution Focused therapy modalities, to name few. Please, visit us on www.sfbaytherapistgroup.com to read more about our treatments, therapists and client services.
(650) 535-8182 View (650) 535-8182
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Rose Kormanyos
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, IMFT
Verified Verified
12 Endorsed
Sunnyvale, CA 94086  (Online Only)
I use the evidence-based model of Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT).
On paper, your life is great. You worked your ass off in school, rocked your degree, and you're killing it at your job. But over time, tension has been growing in your relationship. Now, you and your partner keep having the same painful argument over and over again. You're an expert at solving problems, but the more you try to fix this, the worse it seems to get. You're reluctant to admit it, but you are feeling more lost than ever. You worry that you'll never find your way back to the love, laughter, and levity that you and your partner used to share.
I use the evidence-based model of Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT).
On paper, your life is great. You worked your ass off in school, rocked your degree, and you're killing it at your job. But over time, tension has been growing in your relationship. Now, you and your partner keep having the same painful argument over and over again. You're an expert at solving problems, but the more you try to fix this, the worse it seems to get. You're reluctant to admit it, but you are feeling more lost than ever. You worry that you'll never find your way back to the love, laughter, and levity that you and your partner used to share.
(513) 434-3298 View (513) 434-3298
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Iris Cohen
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Sunnyvale, CA 94087
My focus is on easing your stress, worries, and challenges that you are facing. Together we will work on finding better ways to communicate at home and at work. I am offering tele-therapy through video and/or phone to all who want to be seen.I enjoy working with couples and individuals. When dealing with negative thoughts, I work on finding more coping thoughts, while using different approaches, such as CBT (cognitive behavioral therapy), DBT (dialectical behavioral therapy), and family systems. With couples I often use EFT (emotional focus therapy). My therapy style is nurturing and empowering. Your happiness is my first priority!
My focus is on easing your stress, worries, and challenges that you are facing. Together we will work on finding better ways to communicate at home and at work. I am offering tele-therapy through video and/or phone to all who want to be seen.I enjoy working with couples and individuals. When dealing with negative thoughts, I work on finding more coping thoughts, while using different approaches, such as CBT (cognitive behavioral therapy), DBT (dialectical behavioral therapy), and family systems. With couples I often use EFT (emotional focus therapy). My therapy style is nurturing and empowering. Your happiness is my first priority!
(408) 637-5688 View (408) 637-5688
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TheraVie Wellness - Dr. Rashmi Chidanand Bosel
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Sunnyvale, CA 94089
Welcome to Life Empowerment! Would you like to experience more satisfaction and meaning in Life? I offer counseling, coaching, and consulting services for personal/professional well-being in Life. I am best-suited for those interested in a coaching-style of therapy (i.e. strength-based, solution-focused, body-oriented, attachment-informed (EFT), ACT/CBT/DBT, and Mindfulness-based approaches) with a touch of curious playfulness. What this means is: I am your compassionate collaborator on your healing journey in Life -"la Vie"!
Welcome to Life Empowerment! Would you like to experience more satisfaction and meaning in Life? I offer counseling, coaching, and consulting services for personal/professional well-being in Life. I am best-suited for those interested in a coaching-style of therapy (i.e. strength-based, solution-focused, body-oriented, attachment-informed (EFT), ACT/CBT/DBT, and Mindfulness-based approaches) with a touch of curious playfulness. What this means is: I am your compassionate collaborator on your healing journey in Life -"la Vie"!
(650) 409-3251 View (650) 409-3251
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Aida Muller
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Sunnyvale, CA 94086
I specialize in treating Individuals and in Couples' treatment using Gottman & EFT result driven methods.
If you or someone you care about are going through a difficult time and need help, guidance, and support, or feeling anxious, stuck, depressed, confused or lost, then give me a call. It is not always easy to ask for help and for what you need, particularly when you don't know the therapist and at times don't know what you need or can't put it into words. It takes courage and strength to make this first step and reach out to ask for help. I am a licensed, seasoned, compassionate psychotherapist, and I would be honored to work with you, so you don't have to do it all alone.
I specialize in treating Individuals and in Couples' treatment using Gottman & EFT result driven methods.
If you or someone you care about are going through a difficult time and need help, guidance, and support, or feeling anxious, stuck, depressed, confused or lost, then give me a call. It is not always easy to ask for help and for what you need, particularly when you don't know the therapist and at times don't know what you need or can't put it into words. It takes courage and strength to make this first step and reach out to ask for help. I am a licensed, seasoned, compassionate psychotherapist, and I would be honored to work with you, so you don't have to do it all alone.
(408) 457-0411 View (408) 457-0411
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Irit Broner
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Sunnyvale, CA 94087
I use evidence-based therapy approaches such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT), and Emotional Focus Therapy (EFT).
Welcome, I am offering you a safe place to explore your thoughts and feelings and learn new ways to cope with life challenges. I am a bilingual therapist providing therapy in both English and Hebrew. I provide psychotherapy to individuals, families, couples, and children. My approach to therapy is humanistic based on empathy, acceptance, and collaboration.
I use evidence-based therapy approaches such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT), and Emotional Focus Therapy (EFT).
Welcome, I am offering you a safe place to explore your thoughts and feelings and learn new ways to cope with life challenges. I am a bilingual therapist providing therapy in both English and Hebrew. I provide psychotherapy to individuals, families, couples, and children. My approach to therapy is humanistic based on empathy, acceptance, and collaboration.
(209) 340-9538 View (209) 340-9538
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Bev Jewell Aasect Certified Sex Therapist
Counselor, LPCC
Verified Verified
Sunnyvale, CA 94087  (Online Only)
I incorporate the Gottman Method for Couples Therapy and Emotionally Focused Therapy techniques for increased closeness.
Are you experiencing: relationship issues, feeling overwhelmed, or stuck? Perhaps you are in a Neuro-Diverse relationship (you're wired differently) and stuggle to understand each other and get your needs met? Do you want to learn better commuication and problem-solving skills? Maybe you want a more fulfilling sex life - solo, or with your partner. There are many things that affect us and our sexuality over time - stress, age, life events, hormone changes... I can help you navigate these areas to find the answers you're looking for and get you to a better place!
I incorporate the Gottman Method for Couples Therapy and Emotionally Focused Therapy techniques for increased closeness.
Are you experiencing: relationship issues, feeling overwhelmed, or stuck? Perhaps you are in a Neuro-Diverse relationship (you're wired differently) and stuggle to understand each other and get your needs met? Do you want to learn better commuication and problem-solving skills? Maybe you want a more fulfilling sex life - solo, or with your partner. There are many things that affect us and our sexuality over time - stress, age, life events, hormone changes... I can help you navigate these areas to find the answers you're looking for and get you to a better place!
(442) 254-0043 View (442) 254-0043
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Peter Shum
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, LPCC
Verified Verified
Sunnyvale, CA 94086
Waitlist for new clients
I incorporate evidence-based practices in my clinical work and I use Emotionally Focused Therapy especially for couples.
Our world today is full of challenges. Many stressors in life knock us off balance, and we feel overwhelmed, distressed, sometimes angry, sad and lonely. But you do not need to face the challenges alone. I am passionate to help people regain the balance by being more attuned to themselves - their identities, emotions, and physical needs. I work collaboratively with my clients to explore and identify ways to meet their goals, and provide tools and interventions as fitting. Most importantly, I walk alongside them in their journey to attain health and growth.
I incorporate evidence-based practices in my clinical work and I use Emotionally Focused Therapy especially for couples.
Our world today is full of challenges. Many stressors in life knock us off balance, and we feel overwhelmed, distressed, sometimes angry, sad and lonely. But you do not need to face the challenges alone. I am passionate to help people regain the balance by being more attuned to themselves - their identities, emotions, and physical needs. I work collaboratively with my clients to explore and identify ways to meet their goals, and provide tools and interventions as fitting. Most importantly, I walk alongside them in their journey to attain health and growth.
(408) 889-7589 View (408) 889-7589
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Mindful Relationships Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Sunnyvale, CA 94085  (Online Only)
Through evidence-based approaches, such as EMDR, IFS (internal family systems) or EFT (emotion focused therapy), we support individuals and couples navigate and process through whatever is keeping them stuck in unpreferred places.
At Mindful Relationships Therapy, we specialize in working with individuals and couples who are experiencing relationship issues or symptoms of panic, anxiety, depression, and/or PTSD. We specialize in clients who have a history of trauma, whether it was physical or emotional neglect/abuse during childhood or a recent trauma experienced as an adult. We are also inspired to support clients who identify as POC (person of color) and/or are in cross cultural relationships.
Through evidence-based approaches, such as EMDR, IFS (internal family systems) or EFT (emotion focused therapy), we support individuals and couples navigate and process through whatever is keeping them stuck in unpreferred places.
At Mindful Relationships Therapy, we specialize in working with individuals and couples who are experiencing relationship issues or symptoms of panic, anxiety, depression, and/or PTSD. We specialize in clients who have a history of trauma, whether it was physical or emotional neglect/abuse during childhood or a recent trauma experienced as an adult. We are also inspired to support clients who identify as POC (person of color) and/or are in cross cultural relationships.
(512) 270-5142 View (512) 270-5142
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Shannon Frank-Richter
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, LPCC, NCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Sunnyvale, CA 94086  (Online Only)
Your needs determine the treatment modality, from CBT to EFT, and I am passionate about the integration of nature in treating anxious and depressive symptoms.
Do you struggle with feeling misunderstood or like an outlier among others? I'm a dually licensed California therapist who treats individuals, couples, and families, especially those with autism, unprocessed past trauma, or relational stress. My expansive experience enhances the empathy, relatability, dignity, skill, and understanding desired in a therapist. It's important that you feel that your therapist is a good fit for you, so if you're seeking a seasoned therapist in these relatable life conditions, please connect with me for a free consultation. I provide convenient telehealth via a HIPAA compliant video conferencing format.
Your needs determine the treatment modality, from CBT to EFT, and I am passionate about the integration of nature in treating anxious and depressive symptoms.
Do you struggle with feeling misunderstood or like an outlier among others? I'm a dually licensed California therapist who treats individuals, couples, and families, especially those with autism, unprocessed past trauma, or relational stress. My expansive experience enhances the empathy, relatability, dignity, skill, and understanding desired in a therapist. It's important that you feel that your therapist is a good fit for you, so if you're seeking a seasoned therapist in these relatable life conditions, please connect with me for a free consultation. I provide convenient telehealth via a HIPAA compliant video conferencing format.
(408) 617-8994 View (408) 617-8994
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Rebekah Gong
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MSW
Verified Verified
Sunnyvale, CA 94086  (Online Only)
Specially trained in relationship (EFT) & sex therapy, and cutting-edge transformative trauma interventions (IFS, EMDR, Somatic Therapy).
Dear fellow traveler, do you want to find calm amidst anxiety and stress, claim inner peace from past wounds, rekindle love and affection with your partner(s), seek peace with food, discover pleasure with your body, or get more clarity and acceptance about who you are? As a seasoned trauma/ relationship/ sex specialist, I help highly motivated humans like you to create the life you've been waiting for. Together, we navigate the challenges you face, not only transforming your life, but also breaking generational cycles, and fostering healing for future generations (if you choose to have them).
Specially trained in relationship (EFT) & sex therapy, and cutting-edge transformative trauma interventions (IFS, EMDR, Somatic Therapy).
Dear fellow traveler, do you want to find calm amidst anxiety and stress, claim inner peace from past wounds, rekindle love and affection with your partner(s), seek peace with food, discover pleasure with your body, or get more clarity and acceptance about who you are? As a seasoned trauma/ relationship/ sex specialist, I help highly motivated humans like you to create the life you've been waiting for. Together, we navigate the challenges you face, not only transforming your life, but also breaking generational cycles, and fostering healing for future generations (if you choose to have them).
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Lushi Zhang
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Sunnyvale, CA 94086
As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker/psychotherapist with more than 12 years experiences providing psychotherapy services to hundreds of clients, I have mastered effective evidence-based interventions including EFT, EFIT, ACT, DBT, EMDR, Solution-focused, Gottman Method.
Are you feeling stuck? Maybe you’re facing a lot of stress, Maybe you’re struggling with your relationship, Maybe your anxiety and depression gets really unbearable, Maybe what happened in the past is still haunting you. It’s really overwhelming that you have tried so hard but couldn’t get out of the darkness. If this is you, you're in the right place. I am here to listen and help! I believe that everyone can change and grow even during the times you feel helpless and hopeless. I have witnessed powerful healing and growth in my presence.
As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker/psychotherapist with more than 12 years experiences providing psychotherapy services to hundreds of clients, I have mastered effective evidence-based interventions including EFT, EFIT, ACT, DBT, EMDR, Solution-focused, Gottman Method.
Are you feeling stuck? Maybe you’re facing a lot of stress, Maybe you’re struggling with your relationship, Maybe your anxiety and depression gets really unbearable, Maybe what happened in the past is still haunting you. It’s really overwhelming that you have tried so hard but couldn’t get out of the darkness. If this is you, you're in the right place. I am here to listen and help! I believe that everyone can change and grow even during the times you feel helpless and hopeless. I have witnessed powerful healing and growth in my presence.
(408) 665-7651 View (408) 665-7651
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Charity Hernandez
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Sunnyvale, CA 94086  (Online Only)
Do you struggle with anxiety, depression, pressure from today's society? Maybe feeling overwhelmed, stressed out, struggling with how to help yourself daily? My therapeutic approach is tailored to your unique journey, placing emphasis on creating a safe environment that encourages open and sincere dialogue. I work with Adolescents, Teens, and women who struggle with Depression, Anxiety, PTSD, and Chronic pain & illnesses by introducing strategies and tools designed for you and with you. I will help inspire you to face challenges head-on and grow stronger by equipping you with practical tools to use to help you mange daily life.
Do you struggle with anxiety, depression, pressure from today's society? Maybe feeling overwhelmed, stressed out, struggling with how to help yourself daily? My therapeutic approach is tailored to your unique journey, placing emphasis on creating a safe environment that encourages open and sincere dialogue. I work with Adolescents, Teens, and women who struggle with Depression, Anxiety, PTSD, and Chronic pain & illnesses by introducing strategies and tools designed for you and with you. I will help inspire you to face challenges head-on and grow stronger by equipping you with practical tools to use to help you mange daily life.
(909) 743-5156 View (909) 743-5156
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Krista Andreana Yapp-Cooper
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, RYT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Sunnyvale, CA 94089  (Online Only)
Currenly seeing telehealth clients only. I am passionate about individuals and couples who are searching to find their true and whole, authentic self. Through Mindfulness-Based Approaches, Experiential Practices, Yoga Therapy and other Holistic modalities; I empower individuals and couples to live their true authentic self from the inside out and outside in. Various Specialties Include: Anxiety, Depression, Relationship Changes/Challenges, Identity Issues, Life Transitions, Low Self-Esteem, Loss of Self, Shame, Vulnerability, Communication and Connection Issues, Trust Issues, Deepening Relationships,and Perinatal Mental Health.
Currenly seeing telehealth clients only. I am passionate about individuals and couples who are searching to find their true and whole, authentic self. Through Mindfulness-Based Approaches, Experiential Practices, Yoga Therapy and other Holistic modalities; I empower individuals and couples to live their true authentic self from the inside out and outside in. Various Specialties Include: Anxiety, Depression, Relationship Changes/Challenges, Identity Issues, Life Transitions, Low Self-Esteem, Loss of Self, Shame, Vulnerability, Communication and Connection Issues, Trust Issues, Deepening Relationships,and Perinatal Mental Health.
(408) 692-9599 View (408) 692-9599
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Louis Yeng-lo Lee
Associate Marriage & Family Therapist, AMFT
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Sunnyvale, CA 94086  (Online Only)
No one has a perfect childhood. Early stressors, abuse, and neglect can continue to have profound effects on all of us and can manifest as depression, anxiety, anger, and low-self esteem. As we continue through life, enduring pain and distress, we often learn to suppress our emotions and neglect our needs in order to get by. My goal in therapy is to provide a supportive space that belongs to you, in which you may share as much as you are willing and at a pace that you are comfortable with. While working together, I aim to help you undo old ways of being and to help you begin fostering a more compassionate relationship with yourself.
No one has a perfect childhood. Early stressors, abuse, and neglect can continue to have profound effects on all of us and can manifest as depression, anxiety, anger, and low-self esteem. As we continue through life, enduring pain and distress, we often learn to suppress our emotions and neglect our needs in order to get by. My goal in therapy is to provide a supportive space that belongs to you, in which you may share as much as you are willing and at a pace that you are comfortable with. While working together, I aim to help you undo old ways of being and to help you begin fostering a more compassionate relationship with yourself.
(714) 640-6068 View (714) 640-6068
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Ellen Hersam
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Sunnyvale, CA 94089  (Online Only)
It takes great courage to recognize when you need help and even more to ask for it. Even the strongest and most healthy need a trusted mentor, healer, and guide in their life at some point. Do you find yourself asking questions about sex, sexual health, sexual relationships, or intimacy within your relationship? Do you feel you have a place to ask and explore sexual topics and understand your sexual body? Understanding this part of yourself is an important part of your ability to relate and interact with yourself AND to connect, relate, and interact with others throughout your life. Here is a space for you.
It takes great courage to recognize when you need help and even more to ask for it. Even the strongest and most healthy need a trusted mentor, healer, and guide in their life at some point. Do you find yourself asking questions about sex, sexual health, sexual relationships, or intimacy within your relationship? Do you feel you have a place to ask and explore sexual topics and understand your sexual body? Understanding this part of yourself is an important part of your ability to relate and interact with yourself AND to connect, relate, and interact with others throughout your life. Here is a space for you.
(408) 547-2354 View (408) 547-2354
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Itzuri Angela Hurtado
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Sunnyvale, CA 94085
I am a Bilingual Mental health therapist with more than 10 years of experience providing services in English and Spanish. Currently providing affordable, engaging, multi-cultural services in California. Services are tailored to a busy lifestyle through the flexibility of both online and in-person sessions available at your discretion. Specializing in children, teens, families, couples, and adults who are struggling with depression, substance use, anxiety, ADHD, suicidal thoughts, self-harm behaviors, trauma, abuse and neglect, relational problems, anger, autism, and severe mental health.
I am a Bilingual Mental health therapist with more than 10 years of experience providing services in English and Spanish. Currently providing affordable, engaging, multi-cultural services in California. Services are tailored to a busy lifestyle through the flexibility of both online and in-person sessions available at your discretion. Specializing in children, teens, families, couples, and adults who are struggling with depression, substance use, anxiety, ADHD, suicidal thoughts, self-harm behaviors, trauma, abuse and neglect, relational problems, anger, autism, and severe mental health.
(650) 459-4517 View (650) 459-4517
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Liana Kostandyan
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Sunnyvale, CA 94087
Have you ever asked yourself if a positive change can happen when you can’t see the light at the end of the tunnel? I will say, “Yes, it can!” I am a psychotherapist specializing in treatment for depressive disorders, PTSD, anxiety, impulse control, grief, trauma, and substance use disorders in adolescents and adults. My practice focuses on targeting ineffective behaviors, habits, and beliefs that affect activities of daily functioning. I meet my clients where they are and help them learn how to cope effectively with life stressors to building healthier relationships with themselves and their loved ones.
Have you ever asked yourself if a positive change can happen when you can’t see the light at the end of the tunnel? I will say, “Yes, it can!” I am a psychotherapist specializing in treatment for depressive disorders, PTSD, anxiety, impulse control, grief, trauma, and substance use disorders in adolescents and adults. My practice focuses on targeting ineffective behaviors, habits, and beliefs that affect activities of daily functioning. I meet my clients where they are and help them learn how to cope effectively with life stressors to building healthier relationships with themselves and their loved ones.
(650) 297-0589 View (650) 297-0589
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Laihin J Cheung, Psychotherapy & Consultation
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Sunnyvale, CA 94087
I am a solution focused therapist. You will feel the relief of stresses in life after a few sessions. You would get better understanding of yourself, better coping problem solving skills to rebuild balance in life. My years of clinical experiences have propelled me to believe that most of the emotional and behavioral issues are trauma based that led me to inventing my trauma cleansing technique which is so powerful that it removes your trauma energy and the trauma images in minutes, you feel the difference in your mind body instantly. You are free from the trap of mental suffeinings. Please read the Google comments.
I am a solution focused therapist. You will feel the relief of stresses in life after a few sessions. You would get better understanding of yourself, better coping problem solving skills to rebuild balance in life. My years of clinical experiences have propelled me to believe that most of the emotional and behavioral issues are trauma based that led me to inventing my trauma cleansing technique which is so powerful that it removes your trauma energy and the trauma images in minutes, you feel the difference in your mind body instantly. You are free from the trap of mental suffeinings. Please read the Google comments.
(408) 560-3564 View (408) 560-3564
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Lucinda Ugarte
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MS, AMFT
Verified Verified
Sunnyvale, CA 94086  (Online Only)
Currently accepting new clients online. I enjoy bringing adaptability, flexibility, and curiosity to therapy sessions, as well as providing a safe, nurturing, and collaborative space for the development of tools to use for a lifetime. I use an integrative approach to therapy, borrowing from a diverse range of interventions and methods to provide a personalized experience for each client based on their needs, styles, and goals. Knowing, accepting, and nurturing ourselves can only be of benefit to finding the stability in the shifts and changes that life brings, as well as managing our mental health and strengthening relationships.
Currently accepting new clients online. I enjoy bringing adaptability, flexibility, and curiosity to therapy sessions, as well as providing a safe, nurturing, and collaborative space for the development of tools to use for a lifetime. I use an integrative approach to therapy, borrowing from a diverse range of interventions and methods to provide a personalized experience for each client based on their needs, styles, and goals. Knowing, accepting, and nurturing ourselves can only be of benefit to finding the stability in the shifts and changes that life brings, as well as managing our mental health and strengthening relationships.
(408) 669-3719 View (408) 669-3719
Emotionally Focused Therapists

Who is emotionally focused therapy for?

Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.

Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?

People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.

What happens in emotionally focused therapy?

Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.

What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?

EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.