Teletherapy for Simi Valley, CA

Hello! Do you feel overwhelmed in your current situation? If you are seeking support and someone that can give you the necessary tools to improve your situation, then I can help. I work with people with gender identity issues, depression, anxiety, relationship difficulties, addiction, neurodiversity and family of origin trauma and/or abuse. I look forward to hearing your story and assisting with creating positive change in your life! I accept Venmo and Zelle for payment (I am NOT on any insurance panels, but I do provide super bills). I am currently accepting new clients!

You don't even recognize the person sleeping next to you. You feel so desperate and alone. All you want is to feel the way you felt on your wedding day. You want to know that you have a partner by your side that you can actually rely on. It feels like you are so far away from where you really want to be that you just don't know what to do next. You can't remember the last time you had a real kiss. Not one of those pecks on the lips but a real kiss. Sex and intimacy feels so distant from you. It's so hard to feel like wanting to touch him let alone have sex.

You know how much anxiety holds you back. Others seem to have it all figured out, but you don't see how you can get there. Knocking out daily tasks is daunting enough, not to mention pursuing bigger and better things. It's not that you don't know your fears are not necessarily proportionate. You've probably read so many self-help books or watched countless influencers talk about your struggles. It seems like you are the only person that understands how you feel. You want anxiety to stop, but no one seems to know how to help.

You want to appear successful and like you have it "all together" but deep down are struggling to feel confident in who you are or effectively cope with daily stressors. You may be fed up with feeling unimportant and overthinking everything. You might not even remember a time things didn't feel this way. One thing you do know is that you're ready for change. You're ready to live your life confidently without questioning every decision you make. You're ready to start putting yourself first without feeling guilty. Most of all, you're ready to love yourself and take control of your life again.

Being in practice for over 20 years, I have worked with individuals of all ages, couples, and families in various settings. I approach my work with clients from a place of genuine courtesy and understanding. During these uncertain times due to the COVID virus, many clients are experiencing times of depression, anxiety, isolation, and distress. I aim to provide a safe space where we can discuss the challenges getting in the way of achieving one's goals, and creating a sustainable support system for lasting changes in one's life.

I believe that you are the best parent for your child and that even the best parents need help sometimes. My clinical approach will give you the tools you need to support your children long-term.

Hi, I'm Jeffrey Spike, AKA Spike the Psych. Unlike several Tele-Health providers who overcharge, I'm certified, I charge less, and I'm excellent at what I do. I've been a licensed educational psychologist since 2012, while working full time for LAUSD since 2005. I was the recipient of the Los Angeles Association of School Psychologists Outstanding Psychologist of the Year award. With 20 years of experience, I have successfully identified the primary strengths and needs of students with Autism, ADHD, learning disabilities, emotional and behavior difficulties; and I get them the accommodations and support they deserve for success.

I specialize in helping people from all walks of life examine where they are headed, why they are headed that way, and how to change their direction for the better. Whether you need an unbiased ear to hear your concerns or you’d like to work through past traumas to reach a happier, healthier future, I am here to assist you. Are you searching for ways to advocate for yourself in high-pressure settings? Need assistance in building your self esteem? Searching for support as the parent of a special needs child? Or looking for a Christian therapist for support for your spiritual growth? I can help Call or Text 805-285-3313

Parenting can be tough. You may find your mind filled with worries and self-doubt. “Am I repeating the same mistakes my parents made?” “I’m tired of the yelling, but what else am I supposed to do?” If these thoughts seem all too familiar, it may be time to get your child and yourself some support. All you want is for your child to feel confident, have good friends, and succeed in life, but this feels so far away. . In therapy, your child will learn to recognize their strengths, develop new skills, and learn ways to cope with difficult emotions.

There are times when you feel as though you have tried everything and it's difficult to see the light at the end of the tunnel. Going through that tunnel alone can be extremely scary and anxiety provoking. Facing those challenges may be painful and going though all the different emotions are overwhelming. Therapy can be a safe space for individuals to learn how to identify, process and heal from their past. It can be difficult to heal from the past without the proper tools, therefore prioritizing the importance of individualizing this journey to your specific needs is one of the most important aspects of starting therapy.

Maybe you’ve been asking yourself, “Am I broken?” “What’s wrong with me?” You’re stuck between unbearable emotions and trying to maintain control…But it’s not working. You're likely having overpowering emotions of intense anxiety, depression, or rage. Holding on to trauma is crippling. When left unattended it can start tearing away at your physical, emotional, relational, and spiritual life. Are you or your spouse experiencing these feelings based on current or past trauma from childhood, adolescence, or adulthood? I invite you to a safe space where you can feel at ease to begin looking at where these difficulties began.

Is your child struggling in school, anxious, can't focus or seems depressed? Dr. Shiro Torquato specializes in PSYCHOLOGICAL ASSESSMENTS and EDUCATIONAL CONSULTATIONS for children and teens. If your child is getting poor grades, having difficulty paying attention, or can't make friends, a psychological assessment could reveal the source of these issues. The results of this assessment will suggest interventions to help your child be happier and more successful. Dr. Torquato performs a comprehensive evaluation of your child's learning, cognitive abilities, social/emotional functioning and behavior to determine the core problems and make recommendations to help your child succeed at home and school.

You no longer know who you are or what you want in life. You constantly feel as though something is missing, or you’re just going through the motions. You may be in a toxic relationship, romantic or otherwise. You may be stuck at a dead-end job, not know where to go career wise, or maybe you aren’t sure if school is right for you. You constantly are told what to do, who to be, and have difficulty speaking and choosing for yourself. Or perhaps you have to do everything. You have no support and feel as though you are juggling a million things with no help in sight. Don’t worry, you’re not alone.

Anxiety from the day-to-day life stressors of balancing work, school, family, and social responsibilities can be overwhelming. Suffering from reoccurring thoughts of traumatic events & experiences causes unwanted shame, guilt, and suffering. Struggling to maintain or enhance your relationship with a life partner to enjoy a sustainable trustworthy commitment can feel like a burden. You can recover from the stress of anxiety, and heal from your trauma or build a sound relationship house by developing healthy mindfulness-based solutions to your problems.

You feel unmotivated. You feel stuck. Your life feels like a lukewarm bath; not warm enough to get comfortable, not cold enough to make you want to get out. The monotony of your story feels alienating, and you can see it affecting your relationships, your job, and even how you view yourself. Within you is a desire to discover an authentic and passionate journey, one where you look back at the story of your life and say “That was my life, and it was an amazing one.” Now is the time to start that journey.

Are you feeling alone with struggles and challenges in your life? You are feeling limited in your abilities to cope with worry and overwhelmed with things outside your control. There is a feeling of hopelessness and uncertainty of which direction to take. Whether you are going through a big change or you are having difficulty understanding your emotions, you do not need to do this alone. I welcome you into a safe space, where you can feel comfortable to share your thoughts and feelings

Taking the first steps to making positive changes can often be one of the hardest parts of your journey. Struggling with feelings of depression, anxiety, and low self esteem can often make you feel out of control of your own life, disconnected from others, and feeling aimless of where to begin. I am passionate about working with teens and families, and creating a safe environment to increase awareness of areas in our life that need more care and attention. It is my goal to develop a sense of safety and security with you as we embark on this journey as a team to develop a deeper understanding of your experiences.

Life can bring about many unexpected situations and moments. It may even seem like you are having a difficult time navigating through all the stressors and worries. You haven’t felt like yourself lately, and it’s begun to feel like a lone battle. It’s begun to become increasingly difficult for you to try to remain strong. You’ve noticed that you have been feeling off for some time, and don’t really know how to work through it. The advice you’re receiving from others isn’t being as helpful as it once was. There are moments where maybe you’re too hard on yourself, wishing you could feel more confident. You’d like to feel understood.

The stresses of life along with your own internal struggles can sometimes be overwhelming. You or your child may feel that you’ve done everything you can to work through difficult events or emotions but still find yourself struggling. Your experiences and emotions may be affecting you internally or may be affecting your relationships, work, or school activities. Whatever you’re going through, there are solutions and hope for a happier life. I believe that you or your child can discover the root of your struggles and are capable of overcoming hardships.