Narcissistic Personality (NPD) Therapists in Simi Valley, CA

Codependency, Narcissistic Abuse, Estrangement
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Online Only
I'm here to draw on my professional & personal experiences, provide compassionate support, and work with you collaboratively, so you can overcome anxiety, depression, and any underlying trauma, and let go of toxic, codependent, or narcissistic relationships once & for all.
My name is Sherry Gaba, & I've helped thousands of people overcome anxiety, depression, trauma, codependency, toxic relationships and adult child or parental estrangement. I am a licensed psychotherapist offering teletherapy throughout the country. I am accepting new clients. You'll learn how to identify and soothe the parts of you that cling, fawn, or lose yourself in relationships. Reclaim your boundaries & self-worth, heal the inner child's fear of abandonment, release the shame that keeps you people-pleasing, build emotional safety, trust in yourself again, & heal the wounds of codependency & toxic relationship cycles.
I'm here to draw on my professional & personal experiences, provide compassionate support, and work with you collaboratively, so you can overcome anxiety, depression, and any underlying trauma, and let go of toxic, codependent, or narcissistic relationships once & for all.
My name is Sherry Gaba, & I've helped thousands of people overcome anxiety, depression, trauma, codependency, toxic relationships and adult child or parental estrangement. I am a licensed psychotherapist offering teletherapy throughout the country. I am accepting new clients. You'll learn how to identify and soothe the parts of you that cling, fawn, or lose yourself in relationships. Reclaim your boundaries & self-worth, heal the inner child's fear of abandonment, release the shame that keeps you people-pleasing, build emotional safety, trust in yourself again, & heal the wounds of codependency & toxic relationship cycles.
(818) 514-7169 View (818) 514-7169
Roger William Coger
Psychologist, PhD, P, H, D
Online Only
I have a wide range of training and experience working to help people with depression, anxiety, and problems with attention, concentration, and organization. This includes children with learning and behavior problems and adults with social interaction difficulties. Soldiers Project to treat soldiers returning from deployment, with deployment related problems, and their families. My primary goal is to aid people in finding their way to a happier life by identifying emotional and cognitive barriers.
I have a wide range of training and experience working to help people with depression, anxiety, and problems with attention, concentration, and organization. This includes children with learning and behavior problems and adults with social interaction difficulties. Soldiers Project to treat soldiers returning from deployment, with deployment related problems, and their families. My primary goal is to aid people in finding their way to a happier life by identifying emotional and cognitive barriers.
(805) 526-4444 View (805) 526-4444
Kristie Meyer
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
1 Endorsed
Online Only
I work with anxiety and depression, trauma, marital and family conflict, narcissistic abuse, grief and loss, sexuality and sexual orientation issues, and finding passion and meaning in life.
Do you feel like you are not living your life to its fullest? The decision to seek therapy often comes after a painful process of self-evaluation. The realization that your life may be lacking in vitality can be upsetting, however this can be the start of opening yourself to the emergence of something new, creative and more hopeful. I have experienced that when we choose to embrace our suffering willingly and openly, we can open the portals of personal transformation. I am trained to facilitate this process of change to help you find greater meaning in your life.
I work with anxiety and depression, trauma, marital and family conflict, narcissistic abuse, grief and loss, sexuality and sexual orientation issues, and finding passion and meaning in life.
Do you feel like you are not living your life to its fullest? The decision to seek therapy often comes after a painful process of self-evaluation. The realization that your life may be lacking in vitality can be upsetting, however this can be the start of opening yourself to the emergence of something new, creative and more hopeful. I have experienced that when we choose to embrace our suffering willingly and openly, we can open the portals of personal transformation. I am trained to facilitate this process of change to help you find greater meaning in your life.
(714) 804-0905 View (714) 804-0905
Laurel Drake Fraser
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Online Only
It is my passion and privilege to assist my clients in feeling alive, connected and at peace in their relationships and within themselves. Every day I hear clients say that our work has truly transformed their lives - that they are no longer triggered by old patterns, that their confidence and happiness is greater than they have ever experienced. Changes such as these are possible through a collaborative exploration of past and present issues in an atmosphere of safety, compassion and respect - respect for the individual and respect for the mind's ability to heal.
It is my passion and privilege to assist my clients in feeling alive, connected and at peace in their relationships and within themselves. Every day I hear clients say that our work has truly transformed their lives - that they are no longer triggered by old patterns, that their confidence and happiness is greater than they have ever experienced. Changes such as these are possible through a collaborative exploration of past and present issues in an atmosphere of safety, compassion and respect - respect for the individual and respect for the mind's ability to heal.
(805) 995-4643 View (805) 995-4643
Debbie Ciulla
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, RPT
12 Endorsed
Simi Valley, CA 93063
If you are navigating the challenges of depression, anxiety, OCD or the complex emotions that arise from interacting with individuals exhibiting Narcissistic behaviors, I may be the therapist for you.
One of the goals will be to facilitate healing and restoration in your life by utilizing Somatic Therapy, Experiential Therapy, Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Trauma Resiliency Model (TRM), Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (TF-CBT) and play therapy.
If you are navigating the challenges of depression, anxiety, OCD or the complex emotions that arise from interacting with individuals exhibiting Narcissistic behaviors, I may be the therapist for you.
One of the goals will be to facilitate healing and restoration in your life by utilizing Somatic Therapy, Experiential Therapy, Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Trauma Resiliency Model (TRM), Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (TF-CBT) and play therapy.
(805) 422-7797 View (805) 422-7797
Jennifer Kadin
Psychologist, Psy D
4 Endorsed
Online Only
I am a licensed clinical and Forensic Psychologist for the past 9 years. I currently work at Family Psychological Services providing psychological evaluations and testing in children, adolscents and adults for attention, learning and memory problems. I specialize in individual, family, and couples’ therapy for all ages and utilizes cognitive -behavioral as well as solution focused, psychodynamic, and object relations interventions. I also have many years of experience with risk assessment and psychological testing for children, adolescents, and adults and is a skilled diagnostician and treatment planner.
I am a licensed clinical and Forensic Psychologist for the past 9 years. I currently work at Family Psychological Services providing psychological evaluations and testing in children, adolscents and adults for attention, learning and memory problems. I specialize in individual, family, and couples’ therapy for all ages and utilizes cognitive -behavioral as well as solution focused, psychodynamic, and object relations interventions. I also have many years of experience with risk assessment and psychological testing for children, adolescents, and adults and is a skilled diagnostician and treatment planner.
(747) 322-4420 View (747) 322-4420
Kristie Taise
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT, APCC
7 Endorsed
Serves Area
Are you feeling confused, stuck, or overwhelmed by life experiences? At times, it can be hard to see the full picture when you’re inside the frame. My goal is to create a safe, supportive space where compassion and curiosity guide our work together. In this space, we’ll explore your relationships, patterns of thinking and feeling, and the meanings behind them to help you find new ways of understanding yourself and coping with life’s challenges.
Are you feeling confused, stuck, or overwhelmed by life experiences? At times, it can be hard to see the full picture when you’re inside the frame. My goal is to create a safe, supportive space where compassion and curiosity guide our work together. In this space, we’ll explore your relationships, patterns of thinking and feeling, and the meanings behind them to help you find new ways of understanding yourself and coping with life’s challenges.
(820) 732-0601 View (820) 732-0601
Merceydes Morassi
Counselor, MS, BCBA, LPCC, LMHC
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
I’m not your typical counselor! I am a board certified behavior analyst which means that I am an expert in identifying the source of a problem and developing effective solutions for fixing it. I am also holistic in my approach; I believe that our mental health is directly related to our physical health and I believe nearly all problems can be solved without medication. As a therapist, I spend very little time discussing the past as my focus is on the current behavioral patterns that perpetuate the problem. I teach my clients how to recognize and correct these patterns. And I do it all with a pinch of humor and sarcasm ;)
I’m not your typical counselor! I am a board certified behavior analyst which means that I am an expert in identifying the source of a problem and developing effective solutions for fixing it. I am also holistic in my approach; I believe that our mental health is directly related to our physical health and I believe nearly all problems can be solved without medication. As a therapist, I spend very little time discussing the past as my focus is on the current behavioral patterns that perpetuate the problem. I teach my clients how to recognize and correct these patterns. And I do it all with a pinch of humor and sarcasm ;)
(954) 335-6483 View (954) 335-6483
Narcissistic Abuse & Family Estrangement
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Online Only
My name is Sherry Gaba, & I've helped thousands of people overcome anxiety, depression, trauma, codependency, parental or adult children estrangement or narcissistic relationships.
I know how difficult it can be to work through childhood & relationship trauma.When our relationships are suffering, the rest of our lives suffer too. This is NOT a life sentence. You can heal the past, reclaim control of the present, & move forward confidently into the future! I am here to help you transcend trauma and become the person you are meant to be!
My name is Sherry Gaba, & I've helped thousands of people overcome anxiety, depression, trauma, codependency, parental or adult children estrangement or narcissistic relationships.
I know how difficult it can be to work through childhood & relationship trauma.When our relationships are suffering, the rest of our lives suffer too. This is NOT a life sentence. You can heal the past, reclaim control of the present, & move forward confidently into the future! I am here to help you transcend trauma and become the person you are meant to be!
(818) 275-0993 View (818) 275-0993

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Margaret T. Ben Hafsi
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Online Only
I help with: Personal Growth and Self-Esteem, improving self-confidence, overcoming depression or anxiety, understanding relationships, learning to communicate more effectively, healing from trauma, processing emotions, narcissistic abuse and recovery, complex childhood trauma (CPTSD), burnout, work-related stress, and making space to gain insight.
Being human is challenging. Even if things look okay on the outside, we often don't feel so wonderful on the inside. Many of us spend time replaying past events, imagining future events, and worrying about all of the above. If you want to explore the underlying causes of what's bothering you, come into alignment with yourself, and live in harmony with your deepest true values, then you are an excellent candidate for therapy. Therapy does take work, and I'm here to support you and help you stay motivated and curious during your personal path to healing.
I help with: Personal Growth and Self-Esteem, improving self-confidence, overcoming depression or anxiety, understanding relationships, learning to communicate more effectively, healing from trauma, processing emotions, narcissistic abuse and recovery, complex childhood trauma (CPTSD), burnout, work-related stress, and making space to gain insight.
Being human is challenging. Even if things look okay on the outside, we often don't feel so wonderful on the inside. Many of us spend time replaying past events, imagining future events, and worrying about all of the above. If you want to explore the underlying causes of what's bothering you, come into alignment with yourself, and live in harmony with your deepest true values, then you are an excellent candidate for therapy. Therapy does take work, and I'm here to support you and help you stay motivated and curious during your personal path to healing.
(323) 395-0036 View (323) 395-0036
Taylor Miranda
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
2 Endorsed
Online Only
I hope this message finds you well! I want to give an applaud to you for taking the first step and looking into finding a therapist. I look forward to possibly being part of your journey toward healing and growth as your Therapist. I am genuinely passionate about helping you achieve your goals and creating a space where you feel seen, heard, and supported. Whether you're navigating through the complexities of relationships, dealing with challenges like trauma, grief, anxiety, or simply seeking personal development, I'm here for you every step of the way.
I hope this message finds you well! I want to give an applaud to you for taking the first step and looking into finding a therapist. I look forward to possibly being part of your journey toward healing and growth as your Therapist. I am genuinely passionate about helping you achieve your goals and creating a space where you feel seen, heard, and supported. Whether you're navigating through the complexities of relationships, dealing with challenges like trauma, grief, anxiety, or simply seeking personal development, I'm here for you every step of the way.
(657) 300-4875 View (657) 300-4875
Dr. Susie King
Psychologist, PsyD
1 Endorsed
Online Only
I work with individuals experiencing and recovering from narcissistic abuse.
I understand the complex trauma of narcissistic relationships. I will help you learn to recognize the manipulative patterns, assert your boundaries, process the grief, and find a way forward regardless of whether you stay or go. I will help you rebuild confidence and find yourself again, stronger and wiser than you were before.
I work with individuals experiencing and recovering from narcissistic abuse.
I understand the complex trauma of narcissistic relationships. I will help you learn to recognize the manipulative patterns, assert your boundaries, process the grief, and find a way forward regardless of whether you stay or go. I will help you rebuild confidence and find yourself again, stronger and wiser than you were before.
(805) 608-2326 View (805) 608-2326
Maja Wood Radevich
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Serves Area
My areas of focus include narcissistic abuse, life transitions (midlife "crisis," empty nest, divorce, career change) depression, anxiety, creativity, finding meaning and purpose.
I work from a strength-based, humanistic approach, while utilizing evidence-based tools and strategies from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT). This creates a warm and supportive environment from which to work and, at the same time, provides concrete, practical steps to help you move forward
My areas of focus include narcissistic abuse, life transitions (midlife "crisis," empty nest, divorce, career change) depression, anxiety, creativity, finding meaning and purpose.
I work from a strength-based, humanistic approach, while utilizing evidence-based tools and strategies from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT). This creates a warm and supportive environment from which to work and, at the same time, provides concrete, practical steps to help you move forward
(707) 388-3658 View (707) 388-3658
Meridian Counseling: Individual and Family Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
1 Endorsed
Los Angeles, CA 90064
Life can get complicated and there is no handbook on how to handle things like depression, anxiety, addiction and relationship problems. It is important to know two things: 1. you are not alone, 2. challenges are always opportunities to grow and change your life. You are probably here because it's time to "do something different." Let us help guide you through this journey!
Life can get complicated and there is no handbook on how to handle things like depression, anxiety, addiction and relationship problems. It is important to know two things: 1. you are not alone, 2. challenges are always opportunities to grow and change your life. You are probably here because it's time to "do something different." Let us help guide you through this journey!
(424) 327-9198 View (424) 327-9198
Dr. Isabell Springer
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Online Only
I am an expert in Narcissistic Abuse and the founder of a revolutionary new mental health app called SHiFT.
With Isabell’s help, I experienced profound healing and growth beyond my wildest imagination. In every session, I received absolute presence and compassion—no note taking, no distractions, no judgment, pure being in the Now. I sought out her help when I was going through an awfully painful breakup. What would have taken traditional therapists several years, Isabell helped me dissolve in just 10 weeks. What an amazingly liberating experience. I came out of this counseling as a strong, independent woman bursting with a love for life. - Female Client, 43
I am an expert in Narcissistic Abuse and the founder of a revolutionary new mental health app called SHiFT.
With Isabell’s help, I experienced profound healing and growth beyond my wildest imagination. In every session, I received absolute presence and compassion—no note taking, no distractions, no judgment, pure being in the Now. I sought out her help when I was going through an awfully painful breakup. What would have taken traditional therapists several years, Isabell helped me dissolve in just 10 weeks. What an amazingly liberating experience. I came out of this counseling as a strong, independent woman bursting with a love for life. - Female Client, 43
(352) 604-4861 View (352) 604-4861
Tracy Santomarco
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, #118841
5 Endorsed
Online Only
Healing from narcissistic abuse is exhausting.
I am a trauma-focused therapist & utilize EMDR, Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy, & somatic therapies to help uncover barriers to healing & set goals for what you envision for your future. I work with narcissistic abuse recovery, reducing anxiety & depression, navigating complex relationships, and rediscovering a sense of purpose.
Healing from narcissistic abuse is exhausting.
I am a trauma-focused therapist & utilize EMDR, Ketamine-Assisted Psychotherapy, & somatic therapies to help uncover barriers to healing & set goals for what you envision for your future. I work with narcissistic abuse recovery, reducing anxiety & depression, navigating complex relationships, and rediscovering a sense of purpose.
(424) 302-5444 View (424) 302-5444
Dr. Lyndsay Elliott, Inc.
Psychologist, PsyD
Online Only
They come to therapy navigating anxiety, depression, narcissistic abuse recovery, relationship issues, infidelity, and major life transitions.
With over 20 years of experience, I specialize in narcissistic abuse recovery, anxiety, depression, relationships, and personal development. I have particular expertise in helping clients heal from relationships involving narcissistic personality traits and manage challenging family dynamics.
They come to therapy navigating anxiety, depression, narcissistic abuse recovery, relationship issues, infidelity, and major life transitions.
With over 20 years of experience, I specialize in narcissistic abuse recovery, anxiety, depression, relationships, and personal development. I have particular expertise in helping clients heal from relationships involving narcissistic personality traits and manage challenging family dynamics.
(949) 575-8364 View (949) 575-8364
Ericka Franklin
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate
1 Endorsed
Venice, CA 90291
Ramani Durvasula, I now work extensively with clients navigating narcissistic abuse and coercive control, including those involved in post‑separation conflict.
I am also attuned to diversity and culture; my clients typically identify as Neurodivergent, BIPOC and LGBTQ+. Because of your background, we may also cover topics like anxiety, grief, loneliness, CPTSD (Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder), and self discovery.
Ramani Durvasula, I now work extensively with clients navigating narcissistic abuse and coercive control, including those involved in post‑separation conflict.
I am also attuned to diversity and culture; my clients typically identify as Neurodivergent, BIPOC and LGBTQ+. Because of your background, we may also cover topics like anxiety, grief, loneliness, CPTSD (Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder), and self discovery.
(310) 340-7530 View (310) 340-7530
Scott D. Altamirano (Los Angeles)
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Online Only
You're in the chaos right now - relationship just ended, porn use spiraling, recovering from a narcissistic ex, or stuck in anxious-avoidant dating patterns.
I'm attachment-focused and heavy on psychoeducation and grief work. My approach is direct and unfiltered - I love dark humor, don't shy from awkward topics, and I'm not here to tiptoe around what needs to be said. I'm a gay, liberal, Hispanic, male veteran who is ready to help you figure out your situation.
You're in the chaos right now - relationship just ended, porn use spiraling, recovering from a narcissistic ex, or stuck in anxious-avoidant dating patterns.
I'm attachment-focused and heavy on psychoeducation and grief work. My approach is direct and unfiltered - I love dark humor, don't shy from awkward topics, and I'm not here to tiptoe around what needs to be said. I'm a gay, liberal, Hispanic, male veteran who is ready to help you figure out your situation.
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Brad Gilmore
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
3 Endorsed
Los Angeles, CA 90048
Brad has helped individuals deepen their awareness of self for many years. Particularly interested in conflicts which impede one's ability to have successful relationships, achieve one's goals or finally gain some clarity into why certain patterns persist in one's life, Brad carefully explores the origin of the problem and how it impacts his clients in present day.
Brad has helped individuals deepen their awareness of self for many years. Particularly interested in conflicts which impede one's ability to have successful relationships, achieve one's goals or finally gain some clarity into why certain patterns persist in one's life, Brad carefully explores the origin of the problem and how it impacts his clients in present day.
(323) 604-1069 View (323) 604-1069

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Narcissistic Personality (NPD) Therapists
What type of therapy is best for narcissistic personality disorder?
Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is best treated with talk therapy, which could involve cognitive behavioral therapy, dialectical behavior therapy, schema therapy, gestalt therapy, or similar approaches. A therapist will help a patient uncover the feelings that may drive their behavior and discover how to engage with themselves and those around them with greater empathy and understanding, fewer demands, and less defensiveness, with the goal of developing a more authentic sense of self that enables healthier relationships.

How do therapists treat NPD?
By developing a strong therapeutic relationship, and continually focusing patients on relationships, community, and connection, a therapist, through talk therapy, may be able to help someone with NPD change. In sessions, a therapist will help an individual achieve relief from their current stressors, including the treatment of co-occurring conditions such as anxiety or depression. A therapist may also help an individual to recognize unhealthy coping mechanisms, learn new ways of interacting with others, and eventually become able to feel and display empathy.

Can a narcissist be cured with therapy?
Therapy can be effective. After a serious setback or great loss, someone with NPD may be forced to recognize that they are not immune to life’s challenges. That can spur feelings of melancholy and depression that lead them to seek professional help. Once an individual decides to seek help, they have already taken a step that the majority of those with NPD never will. Still, people with NPD often quit therapy as they naturally resist feeling vulnerable, being challenged, or admitting to flaws.

How can you get narcissistic personality disorder treatment for someone?
It is notoriously difficult to convince someone with NPD to seek help. With their feelings of superiority, they may be unlikely to recognize or acknowledge that they have a problem, or that their problem is narcissism. Sometimes, they are aware that they are arrogant and that others resent them but they don’t see it as a problem because they are convinced of their superiority. People with NPD have trouble maintaining relationships, but family members and others who do feel close to them, and whose presence they value, may be able to encourage them to seek therapy.