Couples Counseling Therapists in Simi Valley, CA

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Jarah Haley Trenier
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, Trenier
Verified
7 Endorsed
Verified
7 Endorsed
Maybe you’ve been asking yourself, “Am I broken?” “What’s wrong with me?” You’re stuck between unbearable emotions and trying to maintain control…But it’s not working. You're likely having overpowering emotions of intense anxiety, depression, or rage. Holding on to trauma is crippling. When left unattended it can start tearing away at your physical, emotional, relational, and spiritual life. Are you or your spouse experiencing these feelings based on current or past trauma from childhood, adolescence, or adulthood? I invite you to a safe space where you can feel at ease to begin looking at where these difficulties began.
(805) 303-5251 x1
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Simi Valley, CA 93063
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Jennifer Su'apa'ia
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified
Verified
Whether you or you child are dealing with anxiety, depression, relationship issues, or other concerns, I am here to help.
I have been working in the Mental Health field for about 15 years where I gained valuable experience working in various settings, including clinics, schools, and private practices. My approach to therapy is client-centered, meaning that I work collaboratively with my clients to identify their unique goals and needs. I believe that each person has their own journey, and my role as a therapist is to help them navigate it. I provide a safe and non-judgmental space for my clients to express themselves freely and work towards healing and growth.
(805) 472-6154
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Simi Valley, CA 93065
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Edgar Cruz
Marriage & Family Therapist
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
You may be feeling confused or lost, and are searching for answers and ways to manage what you are experiencing right now. You are hoping to find someone that can create a safe space to process your thoughts and feelings. Someone that may help you feel less alone and accompany you in your journey towards finding answers. The sadness, worries, fears, and hopelessness may seem so daunting and you feel like there is no end in sight. You are here because you are ready to address these and the impact they have on your relationship with yourself, partner , child, or family.
(805) 329-3658
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Simi Valley, CA 93063
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Oreet Daniella Schrader
Marriage & Family Therapist, PsyD, LMFT
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
I enjoy working with young adults, couples and families.
Are you feeling overwhelmed? Are you feeling depressed or anxious? Are you struggling to gain control in life? Perhaps you are trying to manage a better relationship with food. Or it could be a daily challenge to maintain your sobriety. Maybe you find yourself in a relationship that lacks the sexual intimacy you crave. I have successfully helped many people like you overcome the obstacles that keep them trapped in cycles that are ineffective. I provide a safe and empathetic environment in which you can discuss things that are painful, challenging and personal.
(818) 435-8363
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Simi Valley, CA 93065
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Dr. Jonathan Bilal Abdullah
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, EdD, AMFT
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
My approach is multicultural mindfulness-based cognitive behavioral therapy, Gottman’s couples counseling & Narrative family therapy.
Anxiety from the day-to-day life stressors of balancing work, school, family, and social responsibilities can be overwhelming. Suffering from reoccurring thoughts of traumatic events & experiences causes unwanted shame, guilt, and suffering. Struggling to maintain or enhance your relationship with a life partner to enjoy a sustainable trustworthy commitment can feel like a burden. You can recover from the stress of anxiety, and heal from your trauma or build a sound relationship house by developing healthy mindfulness-based solutions to your problems.
(805) 219-7098
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Simi Valley, CA 93063
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Brendan J Nierenberg
Marriage & Family Therapist, PsyD, LMFT
Verified
Verified
I have been very fortunate to work with a wide range of populations including traumatic brain injury, substance abuse, eating disorders, couples and relationship issues, gender identity issues, borderline personality disorder, and men's issues.
It takes a great amount of courage to be seeking a therapist as you are doing right now. You have made the choice to seek out help, and for that, I can say you are already on your journey of healing. In a session with me, you will find acceptance, understanding, and compassion with any challenge you are facing. No matter what your goal is, you don't have to do it alone.
(805) 243-1580
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Simi Valley, CA 93065
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Danielle Walker
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified
Verified
Hi, there! I know looking for a therapist is often a task filled with a mix of emotions, and a test of patience, but you've made it! Thank you for being here! I have worked with a variety of therapeutic needs which include anxiety, depression, anger, grief/loss, ocd, bipolar, adhd, schizophrenia, ptsd, c-ptsd, child/adolescent/teen concerns, eating disorders, substance use, self harm, parenting, life transitions, family concerns, relationship concerns, identity work, inner child work, etc. Often, clients are looking for relief, understanding, and action. Yes, you can get there.
(747) 298-7220
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Simi Valley, CA 93063
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Tom Reyes
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified
5 Endorsed
Verified
5 Endorsed
I'm looking forward to meeting with you and creating that therapeutic relationship .
My ideal client is focused on personal growth and healing. My goal is to be a guide through our life's experiences and adventures. Through our sessions we come to realization about life and the choices we make and how to be confident in our decisions. Throughout this journey you will learn techniques and set goals to improve overall well-being.
(805) 549-4446
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Simi Valley, CA 93065
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Ellen Zuravel
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
OVERWHELMED? In this Post-pandemic world it is the "new normal" to feel anxious, depressed, fearful and at times, hopeless. Are depression, anxiety, worry, fear getting in your way of being the best that you know you can be? Have you tried everything you can think of and still distressed! I CAN HELP!! My 25+ years of professional experience, enhanced by my personal life experiences including multiple losses, as well as recent significant loss During the pandemic, I worked successfully with numerous families, couples and individuals to help stabilize and cope ; I continue to help with current life transitions.
(661) 475-5031
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Simi Valley, CA 93063
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Natalie Anne Bologna
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified
3 Endorsed
Verified
3 Endorsed
You want to understand why you’re stuck, but more so, you want to learn how to move through it and grow. The hardest part is reaching out for someone to care – to find that you’re not alone in your pain and fear. The answers might seem far away and you can’t see the light at the end of the tunnel, wrestling with beasts of sadness, anxiousness, hopelessness, fear. Whether your relationship with your partner or child feels distant, or your view of yourself, your body, or your future seem bleak – you're ready to be un-stuck.
(805) 209-0392 x2
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Simi Valley, CA 93063
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Joe Collins
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified
Verified
I also work with couples and families to improve communication, lessen conflict and create healthy family dynamics.
It's time to INVEST in yourself! My passion is walking with people through life's victories and difficulties. With a combined 25 years of pastoral counseling and clinical experience, I take a holistic, collaborative, and strength-based approach to counseling. I believe everyone can change and grow.
(805) 669-9597
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Simi Valley, CA 93065
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Wendy Jones
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
Hello! Do you feel overwhelmed in your current situation? If you are seeking support and someone that can give you the necessary tools to improve your situation, then I can help. I work with people with gender identity issues, depression, anxiety, relationship difficulties, addiction, neurodiversity and family of origin trauma and/or abuse. I look forward to hearing your story and assisting with creating positive change in your life! I accept Venmo and Zelle for payment (I am NOT on any insurance panels, but I do provide super bills). I am currently accepting new clients!
(805) 719-7526
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Simi Valley, CA 93065
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Bernie-Bernadine M Gleason
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
I have helped clients who suffer from trauma using AF-EMDR (Attachment-Focused: Eye Movement Desensitization & Reprocessing); TRM (Trauma Resiliency Model) & couples (Emotionally Focused Therapy).
Is sharing your life with a stranger comfortable for you? It's not easy for anyone and yet from my own experience and from the testimony of others (clients/friends/family), therapy has proven to be a positive life-changing experience that I would want for you. I count it a privilege to be invited into your life and heart and I wouldn't take that lightly. My goals are to make therapy a "safe place" by welcoming you with empathy, validation, affirmation, assistance and tender care (the way we all want to be treated). Maybe you're suffering from trauma or loss or hurt or...please give me an opportunity to work with you to make your life a new and safe place. I also offer faith-based counseling.
(661) 276-8826
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Simi Valley, CA 93062
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Cinthia Ferreira-Miller
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified
8 Endorsed
Verified
8 Endorsed
Whether this be for yourself, your child/teen, your family, or your relationship , I would like to help.
Life can bring about many unexpected situations and moments. It may even seem like you are having a difficult time navigating through all the stressors and worries. You haven’t felt like yourself lately, and it’s begun to feel like a lone battle. It’s begun to become increasingly difficult for you to try to remain strong. You’ve noticed that you have been feeling off for some time, and don’t really know how to work through it. The advice you’re receiving from others isn’t being as helpful as it once was. There are moments where maybe you’re too hard on yourself, wishing you could feel more confident. You’d like to feel understood.
(805) 410-9464
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Simi Valley, CA 93063
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Melissa Sanderson
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS LMFT
Verified
2 Endorsed
Verified
2 Endorsed
I work w/adolescents, adults, couples , and families.
I am trained in providing evidence-based treatment for anxiety, depression, mood changes, and other mental health difficulties, including addiction and dual diagnoses and often work w/clients who are struggling in their relationships and dealing with difficult life events. I have a specialization in family mediation, as it pertains to varied nuclear family structures, which may include the family court system. I am passionate about providing a comprehensive, multi-culturally competent, and LGBTQ+ affirming environment. I enjoy working with COUPLES & FAMILIES (high conflict or otherwise), including Discernment Couples Therapy.
(805) 947-0770
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Simi Valley, CA 93063
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Not accepting new clients
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Gina Found
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified
2 Endorsed
Verified
2 Endorsed
I work primarily with individuals who want to feel more secure in who they are, and couples who want to feel more connected to each other.
My practice is fully virtual, so you can get your you-time from the comfort of your home, car, or even while out for a walk. I'm honored to provide comfort in difficult times, and I love seeing my clients grow and evolve. If you'd like to have a down-to-earth and skilled therapist to collaborate with, I'm here for you. If you'd like to become an empowered agent of transformation in your life, there is a path to get there. Feel more peace, learn ways to cope, identify your authentic voice. Discover a deeper sense of meaning and purpose, and it will change everything.
(213) 260-0711
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Simi Valley, CA 93062
Not accepting new clients
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Emma Rose Pallone
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified
Verified
I have a experience working with individuals who have endured trauma, addiction, anxiety, depression and relationship issues. I enjoy working with clients coming from a diverse range of backgrounds and am passionate about helping my clients achieve growth and healing as I support them through their process of transformation.
(805) 678-8075
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Simi Valley, CA 93065
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Jaayda Ellingham
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified
2 Endorsed
Verified
2 Endorsed
I invite you to begin this journey with me, to learn the tools to cultivate a deeper sense of connection, and thereby change your relationship to self and the world around you.
Whether you're struggling with anxiety or depression, or feel you've hit a wall to progress, these states can create stress and disconnection, making personal fulfillment in career and relationships challenging. As we understand that physical exercise builds and strengthens our physical endurance, psychotherapy is a process of building and strengthening the mind's capacity to endure and respond. The therapeutic process is rooted in connection, transparency, and authenticity. I work from a collaborative and mindfulness approach to help guide my clients in understanding the relationship between their thoughts, feelings, and actions to effect change.
(747) 229-0207
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Simi Valley, CA 93065
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Melissa Ramirez-Pavano
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified
Verified
Welcome! I am a bilingual (English/Spanish) licensed psychologist and Certified Clinical Trauma Professional who provides individual telehealth mental health services for older adolescents (16+), young adults, and adults experiencing depression, stress, and anxiety due to history of trauma, chronic health conditions, relationship issues, work stress/ burnout, current events, family/generational issues, and racism. Unresolved stress and trauma can wreak havoc on your physical and mental health, as well as your relationships. Together in therapy, we will work on finding meaning, strength, and building resiliency.
(805) 429-8605
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Simi Valley, CA 93065
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Dr. Donna Novak
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified
3 Endorsed
Verified
3 Endorsed
You want to feel heard and for your partner to know how much you try.
You don't even recognize the person sleeping next to you. You feel so desperate and alone. All you want is to feel the way you felt on your wedding day. You want to know that you have a partner by your side that you can actually rely on. It feels like you are so far away from where you really want to be that you just don't know what to do next. You can't remember the last time you had a real kiss. Not one of those pecks on the lips but a real kiss. Sex and intimacy feels so distant from you. It's so hard to feel like wanting to touch him let alone have sex.
(805) 322-7963
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Simi Valley, CA 93063
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Couples Counseling Therapists

Does couples counseling work?

Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.

When should a couple seek counseling?

Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.

How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?

The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.

How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?

The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.