Co-Parenting Counseling Therapists in Santee, CA

Ariane Smith
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Online Only
Hi, my name is Ariane Willis-Smith, and I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) operating out of San Diego, California and utilizing a telehealth platform. I work with a wide range of ages, from young adults to middle-aged, specializing in anxiety, stress, relationship and work difficulties utilizing Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Solution Focused Therapy to help improve overall feeling and functioning. I work collaboratively with my clients to find solutions that are right for them and sustainable skills to improve overall functioning, self-care, communication, and mood.
Hi, my name is Ariane Willis-Smith, and I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) operating out of San Diego, California and utilizing a telehealth platform. I work with a wide range of ages, from young adults to middle-aged, specializing in anxiety, stress, relationship and work difficulties utilizing Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Solution Focused Therapy to help improve overall feeling and functioning. I work collaboratively with my clients to find solutions that are right for them and sustainable skills to improve overall functioning, self-care, communication, and mood.
(949) 537-2764 View (949) 537-2764
Dale Coleman
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Online Only
I offer a therapeutic space for anyone seeking support, healing, and growth. I work with couples, adults, and teens. Instead of focusing only on presenting symptoms and coping strategies, I explore the roots of your struggles so we can create long-lasting change. I use Emotionally Focused Therapy with couples wanting to strengthen their relationship and Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing to treat trauma. Both models offer structured, research-backed pathways to healing.
I offer a therapeutic space for anyone seeking support, healing, and growth. I work with couples, adults, and teens. Instead of focusing only on presenting symptoms and coping strategies, I explore the roots of your struggles so we can create long-lasting change. I use Emotionally Focused Therapy with couples wanting to strengthen their relationship and Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing to treat trauma. Both models offer structured, research-backed pathways to healing.
(619) 651-9850 View (619) 651-9850
Rosie Pappas
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
2 Endorsed
Santee, CA 92071
Do you feel your survival strategies are keeping you from truly thriving? Maybe you find yourself scrolling social media for hours avoiding challenging emotions? Maybe you grew up around addiction or dysfunction and struggle to feel safe in relationships. Together, we can explore the protective parts of you that have worked hard to keep you safe. By building compassion for these parts and leading from your authentic Self, you can create more freedom, connection, and fulfillment internally and in your relationships. Your pain is real, and you don’t have to navigate it alone. I’d be honored to support you on this journey.
Do you feel your survival strategies are keeping you from truly thriving? Maybe you find yourself scrolling social media for hours avoiding challenging emotions? Maybe you grew up around addiction or dysfunction and struggle to feel safe in relationships. Together, we can explore the protective parts of you that have worked hard to keep you safe. By building compassion for these parts and leading from your authentic Self, you can create more freedom, connection, and fulfillment internally and in your relationships. Your pain is real, and you don’t have to navigate it alone. I’d be honored to support you on this journey.
(442) 249-8648 View (442) 249-8648
Accepting Me Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Online Only
The population I generally provide services for struggle with the following issues and symptoms: depression, anxiety, anger management, relationship issues/conflicts, social/peer challenges, parenting difficulties, LGBTQ challenges, trauma, parent-child conflicts, behavioral problems, adjustment issues, mood disregulation, grief & loss. Most clients, like everyone in life, are looking for relief from difficult situations and troubling symptoms, a sense of comfort within their own skin. They have the desire towards alleviating their distress and looking for professional help.
The population I generally provide services for struggle with the following issues and symptoms: depression, anxiety, anger management, relationship issues/conflicts, social/peer challenges, parenting difficulties, LGBTQ challenges, trauma, parent-child conflicts, behavioral problems, adjustment issues, mood disregulation, grief & loss. Most clients, like everyone in life, are looking for relief from difficult situations and troubling symptoms, a sense of comfort within their own skin. They have the desire towards alleviating their distress and looking for professional help.
(619) 305-0780 View (619) 305-0780
Balanced Life Therapy Center, LMFT
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
3 Endorsed
Serves Area
Just being human can be hard, and with all that is expected of us in this life, it can seem almost impossible at times. The external world can feel overwhelming and unsafe and our internal world can feel chaotic and just as unsafe. At the heart of any therapeutic approach is the attempt to find peace within so we can learn to be at peace with what is beyond our control. At Balanced Life Therapy Center, our clinicians are trained, each in their own preferred approach to healing, to support the inner world of their clients and help them get connected to the power they hold to move towards the life they desire.
Just being human can be hard, and with all that is expected of us in this life, it can seem almost impossible at times. The external world can feel overwhelming and unsafe and our internal world can feel chaotic and just as unsafe. At the heart of any therapeutic approach is the attempt to find peace within so we can learn to be at peace with what is beyond our control. At Balanced Life Therapy Center, our clinicians are trained, each in their own preferred approach to healing, to support the inner world of their clients and help them get connected to the power they hold to move towards the life they desire.
(619) 382-2873 View (619) 382-2873
Samantha Lopez
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Serves Area
At The Therapy Innovation, we believe every person’s journey is unique. We begin by truly listening—understanding where you are and the challenges you’re facing. From there, we walk alongside you to create a plan that feels right for your journey, celebrating every step forward—no matter how small. In our welcoming and safe space, whether in-person or virtual, you’ll find understanding, support, and flexibility that fits your life and your needs, including evening and weekend appointments.
At The Therapy Innovation, we believe every person’s journey is unique. We begin by truly listening—understanding where you are and the challenges you’re facing. From there, we walk alongside you to create a plan that feels right for your journey, celebrating every step forward—no matter how small. In our welcoming and safe space, whether in-person or virtual, you’ll find understanding, support, and flexibility that fits your life and your needs, including evening and weekend appointments.
(619) 768-2911 View (619) 768-2911
Adam Moore
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Serves Area
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) in San Diego, California who has been working in the field of psychology since 2013. I have experience working in residential, schools, outpatient, and crisis settings as well as work now in my own private practice with clients experiencing depression, anxiety, panic attacks, addiction, relationship issues, parenting problems, social concerns, life transitions, grief/loss, trauma, abuse, crisis situations, and general adjustment issues. I have diagnosed and helped clients work through most of the disorders listed in the DSM-5.
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) in San Diego, California who has been working in the field of psychology since 2013. I have experience working in residential, schools, outpatient, and crisis settings as well as work now in my own private practice with clients experiencing depression, anxiety, panic attacks, addiction, relationship issues, parenting problems, social concerns, life transitions, grief/loss, trauma, abuse, crisis situations, and general adjustment issues. I have diagnosed and helped clients work through most of the disorders listed in the DSM-5.
(619) 345-5939 View (619) 345-5939
Peterkai Fischetti
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Online Only
Hi there, I'm Peterkai! My passion is helping people overcome self-limiting thoughts, beliefs, and behaviors. I enjoy working with individuals, couples, and families using a strengths-based, collaborative approach.
Hi there, I'm Peterkai! My passion is helping people overcome self-limiting thoughts, beliefs, and behaviors. I enjoy working with individuals, couples, and families using a strengths-based, collaborative approach.
(619) 604-5562 View (619) 604-5562
Amy Lynn Kabler
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Online Only
Does your self esteem need a boost? Are you struggling with anxiety, depression, or trauma? Do you have a teen struggling with their mood, which may be affecting their learning or relationships? You may need some support for yourself, your primary relationship, or your family. Everyone needs a little extra help sometimes. There is joy in the solving and you are already on your way.
Does your self esteem need a boost? Are you struggling with anxiety, depression, or trauma? Do you have a teen struggling with their mood, which may be affecting their learning or relationships? You may need some support for yourself, your primary relationship, or your family. Everyone needs a little extra help sometimes. There is joy in the solving and you are already on your way.
(619) 937-2818 View (619) 937-2818
Peggy J Cohen
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Sometimes changes in life aren't what you expected, or weren't expected at all. No matter what you are going through, you are likely experiencing uncertainty. There is hope. I have over 40 years of experience working with children and adults. My aim is to collaborate with you regarding your priorities for treatment in order to help you in setting goals for your mental health that you can achieve.
Sometimes changes in life aren't what you expected, or weren't expected at all. No matter what you are going through, you are likely experiencing uncertainty. There is hope. I have over 40 years of experience working with children and adults. My aim is to collaborate with you regarding your priorities for treatment in order to help you in setting goals for your mental health that you can achieve.
(619) 396-2744 View (619) 396-2744
Stacie Redmond
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Online Only
Hey there, I’m Stacie! I consider it a huge privilege and honor to get to do therapy work with folks, and I approach sessions with compassion, curiosity, and deep respect for my clients. I understand the vulnerability it takes to show up, even when the work is hard. I want to provide a space to allow for healing and exploration to happen naturally, and at your own pace. Therapy works best when you feel seen, heard, and understood, and my intention is to create that connection with my clients from the beginning!
Hey there, I’m Stacie! I consider it a huge privilege and honor to get to do therapy work with folks, and I approach sessions with compassion, curiosity, and deep respect for my clients. I understand the vulnerability it takes to show up, even when the work is hard. I want to provide a space to allow for healing and exploration to happen naturally, and at your own pace. Therapy works best when you feel seen, heard, and understood, and my intention is to create that connection with my clients from the beginning!
(949) 832-6759 View (949) 832-6759

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Cynthia Casey
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
4 Endorsed
Vista, CA 92083
Through life's journey there are times that we may feel stuck as if there is a part of you that won't allow you to reach your goals? Do you want more from your life or are you finding it hard to get through your day without feeling anxious, angry, sad or overwhelmed? Do you struggle with addictive or compulsive behaviors? Or are you having relationship issues with your loved ones or coworkers? There is hope. I can be an effective resource in helping to you identify and move toward your goals, becoming a happier and healthier you.
Through life's journey there are times that we may feel stuck as if there is a part of you that won't allow you to reach your goals? Do you want more from your life or are you finding it hard to get through your day without feeling anxious, angry, sad or overwhelmed? Do you struggle with addictive or compulsive behaviors? Or are you having relationship issues with your loved ones or coworkers? There is hope. I can be an effective resource in helping to you identify and move toward your goals, becoming a happier and healthier you.
(760) 678-4295 View (760) 678-4295
Dora Nayely Valencia
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
4 Endorsed
Online Only
Do you suffer from obsessive, anxious thoughts that make you feel out-of-control? Or maybe you're a parent feeling lost and hopeless on how to parent your child, even though you've tried everything? If you’re struggling to manage your obsessive thoughts or frustrations as a parent, now is the time to connect with a therapist who can help. We’ll work together to create strategies that reduce all that anxiety and stress, so you feel more in control of your life or more effective as a parent. Continue reading to learn how you can start feeling happier and more peaceful with the activities and people that matter the most to you.
Do you suffer from obsessive, anxious thoughts that make you feel out-of-control? Or maybe you're a parent feeling lost and hopeless on how to parent your child, even though you've tried everything? If you’re struggling to manage your obsessive thoughts or frustrations as a parent, now is the time to connect with a therapist who can help. We’ll work together to create strategies that reduce all that anxiety and stress, so you feel more in control of your life or more effective as a parent. Continue reading to learn how you can start feeling happier and more peaceful with the activities and people that matter the most to you.
(442) 253-1168 View (442) 253-1168
Maria Aurora San Pedro
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
2 Endorsed
San Marcos, CA 92078
Hi there, my name is Aurora San Pedro and I am a licensed marriage and family therapist in the state of CA. Challenges are inevitable and being able to move beyond them requires effort to find what works best for you. Our minds are like a GARDEN. What we choose to nourish, will grow and what will grow will lead to our actions and behaviors. I am here to help you plant (replant) seeds that will help you live the life you truly want to have. When experiencing hardship, the resilience, courage and strength it takes to prioritize your needs can be challenging. I want to provide reassurance that you are not alone in getting there.
Hi there, my name is Aurora San Pedro and I am a licensed marriage and family therapist in the state of CA. Challenges are inevitable and being able to move beyond them requires effort to find what works best for you. Our minds are like a GARDEN. What we choose to nourish, will grow and what will grow will lead to our actions and behaviors. I am here to help you plant (replant) seeds that will help you live the life you truly want to have. When experiencing hardship, the resilience, courage and strength it takes to prioritize your needs can be challenging. I want to provide reassurance that you are not alone in getting there.
(760) 388-9035 View (760) 388-9035
Jennifer Leigh Bernhoft
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT
Online Only
It is my belief that offering my clients a nonjudgemental, warm, and safe platform is priority. I feel that safety with a clinician can facilitate comfortability, which lends to growth throughout the therapeutic process. I value building connections with my clients and offer an unconditional positive regard. I place initial focus on identification of contributing factors to symptoms and behaviors. Additional attention is placed on assimilation of healthy coping strategies and altering of maladaptive thoughts.
It is my belief that offering my clients a nonjudgemental, warm, and safe platform is priority. I feel that safety with a clinician can facilitate comfortability, which lends to growth throughout the therapeutic process. I value building connections with my clients and offer an unconditional positive regard. I place initial focus on identification of contributing factors to symptoms and behaviors. Additional attention is placed on assimilation of healthy coping strategies and altering of maladaptive thoughts.
(424) 383-8426 View (424) 383-8426
Janelle Nelson
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, EMDR, SEP
Serves Area
Hello! We are Wholeness Collective Therapy Group. Specialists in EMDR and Somatic (body oriented) trauma therapies. We work to help heal attachment wounds, relational patterns, grief, depression, and chronic anxiety. Deep, lasting healing is possible! By blending together body-centered approaches with compassionate talk therapy, we support individuals restore a greater sense of safety, connection, and freedom in daily life. We honor the whole person—mind, body, emotions, and spirit—and believe true healing emerges from reconnecting with all parts of ourselves and fostering secure, authentic relationships with others.
Hello! We are Wholeness Collective Therapy Group. Specialists in EMDR and Somatic (body oriented) trauma therapies. We work to help heal attachment wounds, relational patterns, grief, depression, and chronic anxiety. Deep, lasting healing is possible! By blending together body-centered approaches with compassionate talk therapy, we support individuals restore a greater sense of safety, connection, and freedom in daily life. We honor the whole person—mind, body, emotions, and spirit—and believe true healing emerges from reconnecting with all parts of ourselves and fostering secure, authentic relationships with others.
(760) 790-4031 View (760) 790-4031
Ida Khamesy
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
1 Endorsed
Online Only
On the outside, you look like you have it all together, but inside, you may feel exhausted from overthinking, people-pleasing, perfectionism, or constantly carrying the emotional weight of everyone around you. I help high-functioning adults struggling with anxiety, perfectionism, burnout, and difficult relationship patterns. Many of my clients are accomplished in their careers and responsibilities, yet privately feel overwhelmed, emotionally drained, or stuck in cycles of self-doubt, guilt, and overthinking.
On the outside, you look like you have it all together, but inside, you may feel exhausted from overthinking, people-pleasing, perfectionism, or constantly carrying the emotional weight of everyone around you. I help high-functioning adults struggling with anxiety, perfectionism, burnout, and difficult relationship patterns. Many of my clients are accomplished in their careers and responsibilities, yet privately feel overwhelmed, emotionally drained, or stuck in cycles of self-doubt, guilt, and overthinking.
(949) 835-4458 View (949) 835-4458
Kim Jones
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MFT
1 Endorsed
San Diego, CA 92127
Something brought you here today — maybe anxiety that won't quiet down, stress that's become your baseline, or a season of life that feels harder than you expected. Perhaps past experiences or relationship dynamics are holding you back. I offer warm, trauma-informed therapy for adults, teens, and couples in San Diego and throughout California. Whatever you're carrying, you don't have to navigate this alone. Together, we'll slow down, make sense of what you're carrying, and find practical ways to help you feel more grounded, confident, and like yourself again.
Something brought you here today — maybe anxiety that won't quiet down, stress that's become your baseline, or a season of life that feels harder than you expected. Perhaps past experiences or relationship dynamics are holding you back. I offer warm, trauma-informed therapy for adults, teens, and couples in San Diego and throughout California. Whatever you're carrying, you don't have to navigate this alone. Together, we'll slow down, make sense of what you're carrying, and find practical ways to help you feel more grounded, confident, and like yourself again.
(858) 204-2599 View (858) 204-2599
Kimberly Bailey
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MBA, MS, AMFT
1 Endorsed
San Diego, CA 92123
Hello and welcome! I am an Associate Marriage and Family Therapist who is compassionate, insightful and intuitive about people and their issues. As a therapist, I am passionate about helping individuals, couples and families navigate the challenges of life, and achieve their goals for mental health and wellness. I realize seeking therapy can be a difficult decision, and I commend you for taking the step towards improving your emotional well-being. My approach to therapy is warm, empathetic, and non-judgmental. I strive to create a safe and supportive environment where you can feel comfortable sharing your thoughts.
Hello and welcome! I am an Associate Marriage and Family Therapist who is compassionate, insightful and intuitive about people and their issues. As a therapist, I am passionate about helping individuals, couples and families navigate the challenges of life, and achieve their goals for mental health and wellness. I realize seeking therapy can be a difficult decision, and I commend you for taking the step towards improving your emotional well-being. My approach to therapy is warm, empathetic, and non-judgmental. I strive to create a safe and supportive environment where you can feel comfortable sharing your thoughts.
(619) 450-1287 View (619) 450-1287
Dr. Ed Callahan
Marriage & Family Therapist, Ph.D., LMFT
Online Only
Are you the parent of a neurodivergent teen or young adult — exhausted, second-guessed, and worn down by advice that doesn't fit your kid? Or an adult who has recently recognized yourself in autism or ADHD and is working out what it means? Maybe you're navigating anxiety, grief, trauma, or a relationship that no longer feels connected. You want clarity, calmer communication, and lasting change at home and within yourself. Hi, I am Dr. Ed Callahan, a Ph.D.-level Marriage & Family Therapist with over 34 years of experience working with individuals, couples, teens, young adults, and families.
Are you the parent of a neurodivergent teen or young adult — exhausted, second-guessed, and worn down by advice that doesn't fit your kid? Or an adult who has recently recognized yourself in autism or ADHD and is working out what it means? Maybe you're navigating anxiety, grief, trauma, or a relationship that no longer feels connected. You want clarity, calmer communication, and lasting change at home and within yourself. Hi, I am Dr. Ed Callahan, a Ph.D.-level Marriage & Family Therapist with over 34 years of experience working with individuals, couples, teens, young adults, and families.
(918) 393-3691 View (918) 393-3691

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FAQ - Co-Parenting Counseling
What happens in co-parenting counseling?
Co-parenting usually refers to the shared responsibility of raising a child after parents separate or divorce. Even when both parents want what is best for their child, co-parenting can bring stress, conflict, and major adjustment for the whole family. In co-parenting counseling, a therapist helps parents work through these challenges. Common topics in co-parenting counseling include communication difficulties, parenting differences, and their child’s well-being. In many cases, co-parents attend counseling sessions together, allowing the counselor to help them practice communication and problem-solving in “real-time”. Depending on the situation, one or both parents may also meet individually with the therapist before or during the counseling process.

How do I know if co-parenting counseling is right for our situation?
In most cases, co-parenting counseling is voluntarily sought by parents; however, it may also be court-ordered in certain family law cases. When counseling is not required, there is no single sign that a family “needs” it. Some parents begin counseling early to help everyone adjust to new roles, routines, and expectations before any more significant conflict emerges. Counseling may be especially helpful, however, when parents are dealing with ongoing communication problems, repeated disagreements about parenting decisions, or difficulty helping a child adjust between homes. If the same issues keep coming up despite your efforts to resolve them, co-parenting counseling can offer a more structured and supportive way to move forward.

Do both parents have to agree to attend co-parenting counseling?
If co-parenting counseling is court-ordered, it may be required that both parents attend counseling for an allotted amount of time. However, for those voluntarily seeking co-parenting counseling, it is up to you and your counselor to decide who will attend sessions. Many therapists encourage both parents to attend sessions, but if one parent is particularly reluctant, unavailable, or if there are safety concerns, one parent may choose to attend counseling on their own. Individual support can still help a parent improve their own communication skills, set boundaries, and respond to co-parenting challenges more effectively.

How do I bring up co-parenting counseling to a reluctant co-parent?
It can help to frame co-parenting counseling around your child’s well-being, rather than blame or criticism toward the co-parent. For example, you might say that you want to create more consistency for the child across households or help the child navigate school challenges in a more effective way. Timing also matters when bringing up the topic of counseling. It is usually best not to raise the idea during an argument or moment of high tension. Instead, choose a calm time, and offer the other parent a say in choosing the therapist, scheduling sessions, or deciding what goals to focus on in sessions.