Narcissistic Personality (NPD) Therapists in Santa Rosa, CA
My areas of focus include narcissistic abuse, life transitions (midlife "crisis," empty nest, divorce, career change) depression, anxiety, creativity, finding meaning and purpose.
I work from a strength-based, humanistic approach, while utilizing evidence-based tools and strategies from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT). This creates a warm and supportive environment from which to work and, at the same time, provides concrete, practical steps to help you move forward
My areas of focus include narcissistic abuse, life transitions (midlife "crisis," empty nest, divorce, career change) depression, anxiety, creativity, finding meaning and purpose.
I work from a strength-based, humanistic approach, while utilizing evidence-based tools and strategies from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT). This creates a warm and supportive environment from which to work and, at the same time, provides concrete, practical steps to help you move forward
Whether borderline, narcissistic or simply toxic, wounded and self-centered parents create wounded children.
We can spend our whole life looking for what we didn't get in our childhood. Attract partners who are carbon copies. Perceive other people's innocent remarks as attacking or critical. Maybe we're never quite satisfied with the attention we receive. Or no amount of success is enough.
Whether borderline, narcissistic or simply toxic, wounded and self-centered parents create wounded children.
We can spend our whole life looking for what we didn't get in our childhood. Attract partners who are carbon copies. Perceive other people's innocent remarks as attacking or critical. Maybe we're never quite satisfied with the attention we receive. Or no amount of success is enough.
Sometimes looking for what you need is harder than you thought. Our Keystone team provides services that meet people in the different stages in their lives and goes along side you through your own self-determined growth process.
Sometimes looking for what you need is harder than you thought. Our Keystone team provides services that meet people in the different stages in their lives and goes along side you through your own self-determined growth process.
I believe we all have multiple aspects to our personalities shaped by our years of living. Together, we look at how past experiences influence one's current choices and feelings. Sometimes it can be difficult to regulate all of these feelings, which can affect relationships, parenting and self esteem. I provide a safe, nurturing therapeutic place to explore these issues, and help restore happiness to one's life.
I believe we all have multiple aspects to our personalities shaped by our years of living. Together, we look at how past experiences influence one's current choices and feelings. Sometimes it can be difficult to regulate all of these feelings, which can affect relationships, parenting and self esteem. I provide a safe, nurturing therapeutic place to explore these issues, and help restore happiness to one's life.
Each of us is unique. We all come from different backgrounds and cultures. People suffer in different ways and pain can manifest itself through our mental health in various forms such as depression, anxiety, and a myriad of physical and health problems. My goal is to help you make positive changes in your life in order to become the person you aspire to be. I believe no matter how challenging the process, we need to be content and be our authentic selves. In order to do this, we need to explore our struggles and gain insight and make positive change in our lives.
Each of us is unique. We all come from different backgrounds and cultures. People suffer in different ways and pain can manifest itself through our mental health in various forms such as depression, anxiety, and a myriad of physical and health problems. My goal is to help you make positive changes in your life in order to become the person you aspire to be. I believe no matter how challenging the process, we need to be content and be our authentic selves. In order to do this, we need to explore our struggles and gain insight and make positive change in our lives.
I specialize in therapy for leadership growth, development and transformation. When a business asks me to help them with a specific problem, (leadership development, team building, communication, coaching) I have found that businesses are not trained to ask or answer the question why do we keep looking for solutions to problems that do not exist !
I developed The Change Advantage tm program to help provide the solutions for organizations, businesses and leaders to create an environment of generative and lasting change.
I specialize in therapy for leadership growth, development and transformation. When a business asks me to help them with a specific problem, (leadership development, team building, communication, coaching) I have found that businesses are not trained to ask or answer the question why do we keep looking for solutions to problems that do not exist !
I developed The Change Advantage tm program to help provide the solutions for organizations, businesses and leaders to create an environment of generative and lasting change.
In over 20 years of experience as a therapist, I have found myself more and more engaged and passionate about my work and the possibilities of change,enrichment, healing and transformation that can occur for a person as they meaningfully grapple with the various problems and suffering they find themselves in. For each person the journey of finding their way through will be unique, shaped by their experiences and their own deep sense of what is true for them and about them. I bring to my practice a deep commitment to serve to the best of my ability.
In over 20 years of experience as a therapist, I have found myself more and more engaged and passionate about my work and the possibilities of change,enrichment, healing and transformation that can occur for a person as they meaningfully grapple with the various problems and suffering they find themselves in. For each person the journey of finding their way through will be unique, shaped by their experiences and their own deep sense of what is true for them and about them. I bring to my practice a deep commitment to serve to the best of my ability.
Even the children of dedicated, responsible parents can develop behavioral or emotional problems as they move through childhood and adolescence. Sometimes the acting out or other worrisome behaviors occur only at home. Other times, the difficulties erupt at school. Or both. Perhaps what you or the school has tried isn't working. You may be blaming yourself even though it is not your fault. At these times, an experienced child therapist can help you and your family get back on track.
Even the children of dedicated, responsible parents can develop behavioral or emotional problems as they move through childhood and adolescence. Sometimes the acting out or other worrisome behaviors occur only at home. Other times, the difficulties erupt at school. Or both. Perhaps what you or the school has tried isn't working. You may be blaming yourself even though it is not your fault. At these times, an experienced child therapist can help you and your family get back on track.
Is your anxiety getting in the way of you having consistent and meaningful relationships? Do people say you're too much? Do you sometimes feel like a child inside an adult body, too scared to share who you really are? Are you sick of the cycle of excitement and rejection? Do you find yourself feeling empty, angry or constantly irritated? My approach is collaborative and client-centered, reaching down deep to the core of who you are. Together we will peel back the obstacles that are keeping you from love and being all that you are meant to be. Come home, get some relief find a place to rest your heart.
Is your anxiety getting in the way of you having consistent and meaningful relationships? Do people say you're too much? Do you sometimes feel like a child inside an adult body, too scared to share who you really are? Are you sick of the cycle of excitement and rejection? Do you find yourself feeling empty, angry or constantly irritated? My approach is collaborative and client-centered, reaching down deep to the core of who you are. Together we will peel back the obstacles that are keeping you from love and being all that you are meant to be. Come home, get some relief find a place to rest your heart.
Whatever I have to say about myself, our work is about you! It's about you having a safe, contained, confidential relationship with me. It's about you bringing your concerns for our consideration. I've been in private practice for more than forty years as a Jungian analyst. I work primarily with individuals. In addition to working with conscious relational material, I have been trained to work with unconscious material, dreams, daydreams, symptoms of all kinds to identify patterns that are not working and to discover with you new possibilities.
Whatever I have to say about myself, our work is about you! It's about you having a safe, contained, confidential relationship with me. It's about you bringing your concerns for our consideration. I've been in private practice for more than forty years as a Jungian analyst. I work primarily with individuals. In addition to working with conscious relational material, I have been trained to work with unconscious material, dreams, daydreams, symptoms of all kinds to identify patterns that are not working and to discover with you new possibilities.
Whatever is troubling you, anxiety or depression, a personal crisis or loss, difficulties with a partner or concern about a child's behavior - relief is possible. I work with individuals, children, teens, adults, couples and families, and treat a wide range of the human experience, including anxiety, depression, grief, PTSD, panic attacks, borderline personality disorder, bi-polar conditions and anger management. My approach is character analytic which offers an opportunity for clients to experience a wider range of feelings, resulting in more energy and an ability to move through life's difficulties and experience life's pleasures.
Whatever is troubling you, anxiety or depression, a personal crisis or loss, difficulties with a partner or concern about a child's behavior - relief is possible. I work with individuals, children, teens, adults, couples and families, and treat a wide range of the human experience, including anxiety, depression, grief, PTSD, panic attacks, borderline personality disorder, bi-polar conditions and anger management. My approach is character analytic which offers an opportunity for clients to experience a wider range of feelings, resulting in more energy and an ability to move through life's difficulties and experience life's pleasures.
Has regular talk therapy fallen short of addressing your needs? Are you wanting to let go of the past? Do you struggle with memories or images of past traumatic events such as physical or sexual abuse? Do you act out in ways or have an addiction that causes you more conflict in your relationships, leading to more guilt or shame? Do you have chronic anxiety, depression, anger, or physical pain? We all have an instinct that either pulls us back towards what will heal us or what will harm us. I specialize in working with people who have unresolved or complex trauma. Would you like to be free from the past?
Has regular talk therapy fallen short of addressing your needs? Are you wanting to let go of the past? Do you struggle with memories or images of past traumatic events such as physical or sexual abuse? Do you act out in ways or have an addiction that causes you more conflict in your relationships, leading to more guilt or shame? Do you have chronic anxiety, depression, anger, or physical pain? We all have an instinct that either pulls us back towards what will heal us or what will harm us. I specialize in working with people who have unresolved or complex trauma. Would you like to be free from the past?
Welcome to the inner work! What happens in a therapy room, of course, has to do with the challenges one has brought, but also in raising a person's awareness about their powerful capacity to heal, navigate, and thrive in this world. I have 28 years of experience as a teacher, compassionate intuit, and psychotherapist which assists me strongly as a guide who can hold space for people from many different cultures, and walks of life, as they step into their truth.
Welcome to the inner work! What happens in a therapy room, of course, has to do with the challenges one has brought, but also in raising a person's awareness about their powerful capacity to heal, navigate, and thrive in this world. I have 28 years of experience as a teacher, compassionate intuit, and psychotherapist which assists me strongly as a guide who can hold space for people from many different cultures, and walks of life, as they step into their truth.
We've all experienced times of confusion, anger, and sadness, wanting for a safe and accepting space to navigate life's challenges. I'm dedicated to providing that place for you, helping you heal the parts that may feel lost and overwhelmed. As a compassionate straightforward Licensed Therapist, I specialize in EMDR, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Parts and Attachment Work. Together, we'll build the tool box you need for emotion regulation, fulfilling relationships, and to managing life's ups and downs with resilience.
We've all experienced times of confusion, anger, and sadness, wanting for a safe and accepting space to navigate life's challenges. I'm dedicated to providing that place for you, helping you heal the parts that may feel lost and overwhelmed. As a compassionate straightforward Licensed Therapist, I specialize in EMDR, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Parts and Attachment Work. Together, we'll build the tool box you need for emotion regulation, fulfilling relationships, and to managing life's ups and downs with resilience.
In my practice, I attempt to address suffering: what makes us suffer, how we suffer, and how suffering can be alleviated. I enjoy working with clients who are struggling with life issues and are not afraid to take on the suffering consciously, with my support, in order to transform their lives. I specialize in the treatment of addictions of all kinds, but primarily chemical, co-dependency, sex and romance, and gambling. I also specialize in the treatment of trauma/PTSD, both from current life situations and from childhood experiences.
In my practice, I attempt to address suffering: what makes us suffer, how we suffer, and how suffering can be alleviated. I enjoy working with clients who are struggling with life issues and are not afraid to take on the suffering consciously, with my support, in order to transform their lives. I specialize in the treatment of addictions of all kinds, but primarily chemical, co-dependency, sex and romance, and gambling. I also specialize in the treatment of trauma/PTSD, both from current life situations and from childhood experiences.
I work with adults who feel stuck in repetitive patterns—such as substance use, compulsive behaviors, or difficult relationships—that often trace back to early relational trauma or attachment wounds. Many of my clients grew up in emotionally unsafe, chaotic, or unpredictable family systems and learned coping strategies that once helped them survive, but now feel limiting or painful.
My approach is trauma-informed, attachment-oriented, and grounded in family systems work. Together, we explore how past relationships shape present behaviors, increase emotional regulation, and build healthier ways of relating to yourself and others. The
I work with adults who feel stuck in repetitive patterns—such as substance use, compulsive behaviors, or difficult relationships—that often trace back to early relational trauma or attachment wounds. Many of my clients grew up in emotionally unsafe, chaotic, or unpredictable family systems and learned coping strategies that once helped them survive, but now feel limiting or painful.
My approach is trauma-informed, attachment-oriented, and grounded in family systems work. Together, we explore how past relationships shape present behaviors, increase emotional regulation, and build healthier ways of relating to yourself and others. The
My ideal client seeks true independence and differentiation in every relationship; desires emotional freedom from problems of self worth, and wants to gain strengths in living up to their potential across the lifespan. They are open to a therapeutic relationship based on honesty, vulnerability, decency, warmth, and humor.
My ideal client seeks true independence and differentiation in every relationship; desires emotional freedom from problems of self worth, and wants to gain strengths in living up to their potential across the lifespan. They are open to a therapeutic relationship based on honesty, vulnerability, decency, warmth, and humor.
I'm glad you reached out. My name is Deane, and it's my honor to meet you.
Based in the Greater Bay Area in California, I've lived in Berkeley, Oakland, Sonoma County, Los Angeles County, Japan, and Edinburgh. Currently a clinical mental health counselor trainee with Family and Children's Counseling Services (also known as Heal Play Love), I am under the capable supervision of Melissa Haynes (MA, LMFT). We are a client-first practice above all, which means I'm here to learn how you tell me what you need from me. If I cannot help you, I know there is someone here who speaks your unique language and can help.
I'm glad you reached out. My name is Deane, and it's my honor to meet you.
Based in the Greater Bay Area in California, I've lived in Berkeley, Oakland, Sonoma County, Los Angeles County, Japan, and Edinburgh. Currently a clinical mental health counselor trainee with Family and Children's Counseling Services (also known as Heal Play Love), I am under the capable supervision of Melissa Haynes (MA, LMFT). We are a client-first practice above all, which means I'm here to learn how you tell me what you need from me. If I cannot help you, I know there is someone here who speaks your unique language and can help.
Perhaps you are having difficulties in your primary relationships, perhaps there are stressors at work, perhaps you face a great choice and several obstacles are hindering your clarity and peace. I have been honored to witness individuals and couples overcome many barriers that initially seemed insurmountable. Based on the lived experience of those I work with I believe that a full, happy, and peaceful life is within reach for everyone who seeks it.
Perhaps you are having difficulties in your primary relationships, perhaps there are stressors at work, perhaps you face a great choice and several obstacles are hindering your clarity and peace. I have been honored to witness individuals and couples overcome many barriers that initially seemed insurmountable. Based on the lived experience of those I work with I believe that a full, happy, and peaceful life is within reach for everyone who seeks it.
I hold to the belief that all people have the potential to achieve healing and growth. As a practitioner, I take a supportive role as clients determine and strive towards their mental and emotional health goals. I believe my empathy and my non-judgmental, conversational style help form productive therapeutic relationships. In this safe place, difficult issues can be explored. I’m comfortable supporting people from varied age, sexual orientation and genders as well as diverse ethic and cultural backgrounds. I feel passionate about supporting people from groups that have been marginalized in Western society. My pronouns are She/Her
I hold to the belief that all people have the potential to achieve healing and growth. As a practitioner, I take a supportive role as clients determine and strive towards their mental and emotional health goals. I believe my empathy and my non-judgmental, conversational style help form productive therapeutic relationships. In this safe place, difficult issues can be explored. I’m comfortable supporting people from varied age, sexual orientation and genders as well as diverse ethic and cultural backgrounds. I feel passionate about supporting people from groups that have been marginalized in Western society. My pronouns are She/Her
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What type of therapy is best for narcissistic personality disorder?
Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is best treated with talk therapy, which could involve cognitive behavioral therapy, dialectical behavior therapy, schema therapy, gestalt therapy, or similar approaches. A therapist will help a patient uncover the feelings that may drive their behavior and discover how to engage with themselves and those around them with greater empathy and understanding, fewer demands, and less defensiveness, with the goal of developing a more authentic sense of self that enables healthier relationships.
How do therapists treat NPD?
By developing a strong therapeutic relationship, and continually focusing patients on relationships, community, and connection, a therapist, through talk therapy, may be able to help someone with NPD change. In sessions, a therapist will help an individual achieve relief from their current stressors, including the treatment of co-occurring conditions such as anxiety or depression. A therapist may also help an individual to recognize unhealthy coping mechanisms, learn new ways of interacting with others, and eventually become able to feel and display empathy.
Can a narcissist be cured with therapy?
Therapy can be effective. After a serious setback or great loss, someone with NPD may be forced to recognize that they are not immune to life’s challenges. That can spur feelings of melancholy and depression that lead them to seek professional help. Once an individual decides to seek help, they have already taken a step that the majority of those with NPD never will. Still, people with NPD often quit therapy as they naturally resist feeling vulnerable, being challenged, or admitting to flaws.
How can you get narcissistic personality disorder treatment for someone?
It is notoriously difficult to convince someone with NPD to seek help. With their feelings of superiority, they may be unlikely to recognize or acknowledge that they have a problem, or that their problem is narcissism. Sometimes, they are aware that they are arrogant and that others resent them but they don’t see it as a problem because they are convinced of their superiority. People with NPD have trouble maintaining relationships, but family members and others who do feel close to them, and whose presence they value, may be able to encourage them to seek therapy.