Men's Issues Therapists in Santa Rosa, CA
Therapy for Men’s Issues: You’ve kept a lot bottled up for years, and now it feels like chaos inside—like a dumpster fire you don’t know how to control. Your thoughts race, you lash out, or you shut people out. There’s bad stuff from your past you’ve never dealt with and aren’t sure how to. You've tried focusing on work, distractions, or numbing out, but none of it lasts. Insecurities have crept in, especially in relationships—worries about trust or if they’ll stick around. People say you have rough edges, like there’s a wall up. But deep down, you want more—better connections, real trust. You’re ready to start untangling the mess.
Therapy for Men’s Issues: You’ve kept a lot bottled up for years, and now it feels like chaos inside—like a dumpster fire you don’t know how to control. Your thoughts race, you lash out, or you shut people out. There’s bad stuff from your past you’ve never dealt with and aren’t sure how to. You've tried focusing on work, distractions, or numbing out, but none of it lasts. Insecurities have crept in, especially in relationships—worries about trust or if they’ll stick around. People say you have rough edges, like there’s a wall up. But deep down, you want more—better connections, real trust. You’re ready to start untangling the mess.
As an uncritical witness to my clients’ lives, I offer the necessary support, reflection and guidance for clients to access the parts within themselves that are needed for change. Having someone truly witness your life can mean the difference between just feeling bogged down and stuck, and actually experiencing growth and seeing change take place in your life. I have been providing psychotherapy to teens, adults, couples and families for 25 years, and in private practice for the last 15 years. And, in that time, I have seen the collaboration between therapist and client create remarkable change.
As an uncritical witness to my clients’ lives, I offer the necessary support, reflection and guidance for clients to access the parts within themselves that are needed for change. Having someone truly witness your life can mean the difference between just feeling bogged down and stuck, and actually experiencing growth and seeing change take place in your life. I have been providing psychotherapy to teens, adults, couples and families for 25 years, and in private practice for the last 15 years. And, in that time, I have seen the collaboration between therapist and client create remarkable change.
Greg Kirnos Boccieri
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Santa Rosa, CA 95405
I work with people who are in need of a safe and supportive environment to figure out and pursue their life goals. They want to understand how to bring movement to the stuck and repeating aspects of their lives.
I work with people who are in need of a safe and supportive environment to figure out and pursue their life goals. They want to understand how to bring movement to the stuck and repeating aspects of their lives.
James K Baker
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MFT
Verified Verified
10 Endorsed
Santa Rosa, CA 95401
Many of my clients are strong, capable individuals who still find themselves struggling. They may have trouble expressing their emotions, which affects decision-making, asserting their needs, or setting healthy boundaries. This often leads to feeling disconnected—from themselves, their relationships, and the world around them. Some think their problems aren’t "big enough" to ask for help and feel guilty about seeking support, while others believe they should be able to handle everything on their own. Does this resonate with you?
Many of my clients are strong, capable individuals who still find themselves struggling. They may have trouble expressing their emotions, which affects decision-making, asserting their needs, or setting healthy boundaries. This often leads to feeling disconnected—from themselves, their relationships, and the world around them. Some think their problems aren’t "big enough" to ask for help and feel guilty about seeking support, while others believe they should be able to handle everything on their own. Does this resonate with you?
Milton Woolley, MFT
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, MFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Santa Rosa, CA 95404
Individuals desirous to discover the deeper self that resides within. Persons committed to growing beyond the history that stunts curiosity and a sense of purpose in life. People with enough life experience to know that life requires introspection, discomfort at times and build the capacity to appreciate personal and psychological accomplishment. Couples that want to build a better relationship by solving problems from the foundation of love that brought them together. Men who have reached mid-life and seek to live fully the next part of life . People who will invest the time and money it takes for positive change.
Individuals desirous to discover the deeper self that resides within. Persons committed to growing beyond the history that stunts curiosity and a sense of purpose in life. People with enough life experience to know that life requires introspection, discomfort at times and build the capacity to appreciate personal and psychological accomplishment. Couples that want to build a better relationship by solving problems from the foundation of love that brought them together. Men who have reached mid-life and seek to live fully the next part of life . People who will invest the time and money it takes for positive change.
Between my life experience and my years of clinical work, I bring a broad depth of knowledge to my work as a therapist. This helps me to better understand and help my clients with the dilemmas they bring. I combine a non-shaming atmosphere with careful listening, and then bring forth tools and knowledge for them to use in their life outside the therapy room.
Between my life experience and my years of clinical work, I bring a broad depth of knowledge to my work as a therapist. This helps me to better understand and help my clients with the dilemmas they bring. I combine a non-shaming atmosphere with careful listening, and then bring forth tools and knowledge for them to use in their life outside the therapy room.
Adam Shemper, MFT: Awaken Relationship
Marriage & Family Therapist, MJ, MA, MFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Santa Rosa, CA 95401
I collaborate with individuals and couples to change old, destructive patterns into mutually beneficial ways of relating. With presence, curiosity & humor, I offer a healing relationship as the path toward greater self-acceptance, fulfillment & freedom. I help you ground in your innate capacity to feel more in charge of your life, which includes being able to identify and express your feelings, needs & desires. My practice is oriented toward: emotional experience; people in the midst of life transitions, including new parents and parents of older children; those experiencing grief; & individuals who have previously been in therapy.
I collaborate with individuals and couples to change old, destructive patterns into mutually beneficial ways of relating. With presence, curiosity & humor, I offer a healing relationship as the path toward greater self-acceptance, fulfillment & freedom. I help you ground in your innate capacity to feel more in charge of your life, which includes being able to identify and express your feelings, needs & desires. My practice is oriented toward: emotional experience; people in the midst of life transitions, including new parents and parents of older children; those experiencing grief; & individuals who have previously been in therapy.
I believe that being understood by someone who is compassionate and knowledgeable is essential to becoming the best person we can be. We can be our own worst critics and sometimes it helps to have someone experienced alongside us in our journey. I am a clinical psychologist with over 20 years of experience in working with teens and adults who have a wide range of issues. I specialize in treating issues related to addiction and substance abuse.
I believe that being understood by someone who is compassionate and knowledgeable is essential to becoming the best person we can be. We can be our own worst critics and sometimes it helps to have someone experienced alongside us in our journey. I am a clinical psychologist with over 20 years of experience in working with teens and adults who have a wide range of issues. I specialize in treating issues related to addiction and substance abuse.
Whether you’re navigating a life transition, troubleshooting relationship dynamics, exploring questions about existence or tending to pain and sadness, our sessions together are aimed at helping you see more clearly and act more courageously.
Whether you’re navigating a life transition, troubleshooting relationship dynamics, exploring questions about existence or tending to pain and sadness, our sessions together are aimed at helping you see more clearly and act more courageously.
Let me help you to lean into being the best version of yourself. Individuals, including adults and teens, and couples come to my practice with a wide range of problem areas of their lives including anxiety, depression, anger, relationship dynamics, parenting, ADHD, and learning differences. I will work with you at your pace with empathy, respect, humor, and evidence-based techniques to help you develop the tools and perspectives you need to make the changes you want to lead a more satisfying life.
Let me help you to lean into being the best version of yourself. Individuals, including adults and teens, and couples come to my practice with a wide range of problem areas of their lives including anxiety, depression, anger, relationship dynamics, parenting, ADHD, and learning differences. I will work with you at your pace with empathy, respect, humor, and evidence-based techniques to help you develop the tools and perspectives you need to make the changes you want to lead a more satisfying life.
Gregory Michael Tilden
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
15 Endorsed
Santa Rosa, CA 95404
Are you especially hard on yourself, finding it difficult to prioritize your own needs? Or perhaps you are striving to express your voice and find a deeper sense of confidence and belonging. If you find yourself feeling unmotivated, directionless, or unclear about your purpose, it would be my honor to hold space for you. I also have a particular knack with helping adolescents who are acting out or struggling with school, relationships, or mental health.
Are you especially hard on yourself, finding it difficult to prioritize your own needs? Or perhaps you are striving to express your voice and find a deeper sense of confidence and belonging. If you find yourself feeling unmotivated, directionless, or unclear about your purpose, it would be my honor to hold space for you. I also have a particular knack with helping adolescents who are acting out or struggling with school, relationships, or mental health.
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I offer compassionate, down-to-earth support with a style that is interactive and personable. My commitment is to help clarify and bring awareness to emotions, memories, relationships, and other life issues. Sessions with me can range from problem-solving counseling to depth-oriented psychotherapy. Currently my preference is working with individuals who are interested in a deeper level of self-exploration through ongoing weekly therapy sessions.
I offer compassionate, down-to-earth support with a style that is interactive and personable. My commitment is to help clarify and bring awareness to emotions, memories, relationships, and other life issues. Sessions with me can range from problem-solving counseling to depth-oriented psychotherapy. Currently my preference is working with individuals who are interested in a deeper level of self-exploration through ongoing weekly therapy sessions.
Doug Silberstein Marriage And Family Therapist
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MFT
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Santa Rosa, CA 95401
Waitlist for new clients
Do you want a more gratifying relationship? I work with couples to help them shift out of adversarial, polarized and/or disconnected states into more supportive, collaborative and connected experiences in relationship. Do you want a more fulfilling existence - one in which you feel freer, more empowered, more self-aligned? I work with individuals to help them more effectively address internal obstacles that interfere with greater vitality and well-being. Are you a parent simply looking for support to better deal with parenting challenges? I work with parents to develop helpful ways of nurturing their child's healthy development.
Do you want a more gratifying relationship? I work with couples to help them shift out of adversarial, polarized and/or disconnected states into more supportive, collaborative and connected experiences in relationship. Do you want a more fulfilling existence - one in which you feel freer, more empowered, more self-aligned? I work with individuals to help them more effectively address internal obstacles that interfere with greater vitality and well-being. Are you a parent simply looking for support to better deal with parenting challenges? I work with parents to develop helpful ways of nurturing their child's healthy development.
Jeremy Berlin Therapist And Transformational Coach
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, APCC
Verified Verified
Santa Rosa, CA 95409
Does your anxiety & anger keep getting in the way? Worried you are losing your relationship? Want to build true confidence & authentic connection with others? Feeling burnt-out by constant pressure to achieve or meet others' expectations? You strive for a fulfilling life, yet at times you find yourself exhausted, held back & unable to deal; you find yourself escaping into work, a bottle, with food or porn. Gain the skills needed in order to not just get by, but to truly thrive. If you want to live your best life with less stress, more direction, & a life aligned with your true values, let's work together!
Does your anxiety & anger keep getting in the way? Worried you are losing your relationship? Want to build true confidence & authentic connection with others? Feeling burnt-out by constant pressure to achieve or meet others' expectations? You strive for a fulfilling life, yet at times you find yourself exhausted, held back & unable to deal; you find yourself escaping into work, a bottle, with food or porn. Gain the skills needed in order to not just get by, but to truly thrive. If you want to live your best life with less stress, more direction, & a life aligned with your true values, let's work together!
Ben Schwarcz
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MFT, ACP-EFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Santa Rosa, CA 95401
Therapy should be an uplifting, inspiring and transformational experience! I have extensive training and experience using EFT Tapping for releasing traumas, negative emotions, and negative subconscious programming that holds you back in life. My main areas of focus are Trauma release, and Peak Performance Coaching, specializing in working with Entrepreneurs to reduce anxiety and self-limiting beliefs that cause stress and block creativity. Offering both short-term solution oriented therapy as well as life coaching and long-term therapy, depending on your goals and needs. I am also an EFT trainer for psychotherapists through the Association for Comprehensive Energy Psychology.
Therapy should be an uplifting, inspiring and transformational experience! I have extensive training and experience using EFT Tapping for releasing traumas, negative emotions, and negative subconscious programming that holds you back in life. My main areas of focus are Trauma release, and Peak Performance Coaching, specializing in working with Entrepreneurs to reduce anxiety and self-limiting beliefs that cause stress and block creativity. Offering both short-term solution oriented therapy as well as life coaching and long-term therapy, depending on your goals and needs. I am also an EFT trainer for psychotherapists through the Association for Comprehensive Energy Psychology.
I believe that connection is our greatest human strength and that facilitating an understanding and pattern of safe connection to self and others is the primary work of therapy. I work relationally with my clients to provide a safe, stable, caring space where you can explore your life, your thoughts, your feelings and your needs. This form of exploration can help you move to see yourself with less judgment, more empathy, more self love and a deeper sense of understanding. When we operate from this place within ourselves, we are better able to make choices and decisions that result in less suffering.
I believe that connection is our greatest human strength and that facilitating an understanding and pattern of safe connection to self and others is the primary work of therapy. I work relationally with my clients to provide a safe, stable, caring space where you can explore your life, your thoughts, your feelings and your needs. This form of exploration can help you move to see yourself with less judgment, more empathy, more self love and a deeper sense of understanding. When we operate from this place within ourselves, we are better able to make choices and decisions that result in less suffering.
Diane Gleim
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CST, CST-S
Verified Verified
15 Endorsed
Santa Rosa, CA 95401
Sexual issues can - and do - happen to anyone at any age. Perhaps there is an aspect of your sexuality that is confusing to you. Perhaps you struggle to experience the pleasure of sexuality and eroticism. Perhaps you or your partner have a sexual dysfunction like painful intercourse or erectile dysfunction. Perhaps you are in a low sex/no sex relationship. Or perhaps you're reeling from learning of your partner's betrayal. In our shame-based culture, these are difficult issues to talk about. I am here to help. After all, everyone has the right to a healthy and satisfying sex life.
Sexual issues can - and do - happen to anyone at any age. Perhaps there is an aspect of your sexuality that is confusing to you. Perhaps you struggle to experience the pleasure of sexuality and eroticism. Perhaps you or your partner have a sexual dysfunction like painful intercourse or erectile dysfunction. Perhaps you are in a low sex/no sex relationship. Or perhaps you're reeling from learning of your partner's betrayal. In our shame-based culture, these are difficult issues to talk about. I am here to help. After all, everyone has the right to a healthy and satisfying sex life.
Anxious? Depressed? Stuck? Relationship Problems? Loss of life meaning, purpose or direction? Welcome to my practice! In looking to address important problems, you are taking a crucial step. Finding the right therapist is essential. I am a certified Jungian Analyst and trained psychologist. If you have questions, call for a 15 minute phone consultation at no charge. I am here to help! In a confidential, caring and supportive environment, I aim to restore the whole person to health - mind, body, and spirit.
Anxious? Depressed? Stuck? Relationship Problems? Loss of life meaning, purpose or direction? Welcome to my practice! In looking to address important problems, you are taking a crucial step. Finding the right therapist is essential. I am a certified Jungian Analyst and trained psychologist. If you have questions, call for a 15 minute phone consultation at no charge. I am here to help! In a confidential, caring and supportive environment, I aim to restore the whole person to health - mind, body, and spirit.
Tatra de la Rosa
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MFT
Verified Verified
10 Endorsed
Santa Rosa, CA 95401
I love working as a therapist and find that I am deeply fulfilled working with clients on any of life's many complexities. I am an active and engaged therapist who seeks to truly understand and connect with each of my clients, regardless of whatever challenges and conflicts they are facing and attempting to resolve. My purpose as a therapist is best served when I am being myself: straightforward and direct, curious and compassionate, and deeply engaged and connected. The primary focus of my work is with couples and individuals of any sexual orientation and relationship style.
I love working as a therapist and find that I am deeply fulfilled working with clients on any of life's many complexities. I am an active and engaged therapist who seeks to truly understand and connect with each of my clients, regardless of whatever challenges and conflicts they are facing and attempting to resolve. My purpose as a therapist is best served when I am being myself: straightforward and direct, curious and compassionate, and deeply engaged and connected. The primary focus of my work is with couples and individuals of any sexual orientation and relationship style.
Mojo Tchudi
Pre-Licensed Professional, APCC
Verified Verified
Santa Rosa, CA 95404
Waitlist for new clients
As your therapist, I'm here to create a safe, supportive, and unapologetically affirming space - whether you identify as neurodivergent, transgender, non-binary, or part of the LGBTQ+ community. My role is to empower you to tell your story on your own terms, honoring the unique resilience you've forged through life's challenges. I understand the importance of providing a judgment-free environment where you can openly explore your identity and experiences without fear of discrimination or invalidation. My aim is to be a collaborative partner in your healing journey, guiding you with compassion and respect every step of the way.
As your therapist, I'm here to create a safe, supportive, and unapologetically affirming space - whether you identify as neurodivergent, transgender, non-binary, or part of the LGBTQ+ community. My role is to empower you to tell your story on your own terms, honoring the unique resilience you've forged through life's challenges. I understand the importance of providing a judgment-free environment where you can openly explore your identity and experiences without fear of discrimination or invalidation. My aim is to be a collaborative partner in your healing journey, guiding you with compassion and respect every step of the way.
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Is therapy for men different than it is for women?
Therapeutic treatments and types are the same for men as they are for women, with the same protocols followed and the same strategies employed. Discussing one’s feelings and emotions is an integral part of most therapies, and some men find doing so more challenging. Therapists can help clients through the process; some specialize in treating men for this reason.
How do you encourage a man to go to therapy?
It’s helpful to express your concern and love for the person while framing therapy as a tool for improving their life. Offering specific examples of how an individual’s behavior affected either himself or others should be done with compassion and with empathy. It may be useful to devise a game plan—breaking the process down into parts, such as finding a therapist, making appointments, and looking into insurance coverage.
How can men prepare for therapy?
Men can prepare for therapy by approaching the process with an open mind, being willing to talk about their challenges, and giving treatment the time to work. Before a session, an individual may want to reflect on how they’ve felt since the last session and what’s happened in their lives. It can be useful for men who struggle to recall their emotional states to write down notes between sessions about their response to a given event or how they were feeling at a particular time.
What should men know about the process of therapy?
One of the most common reasons men don’t seek therapy is the notion that there’s something wrong with them if they do. Men should know that just because they’re seeking therapy doesn’t mean they’re mentally ill or damaged in some way. In the same way people work on their bodies through exercise or a craft through practice, therapy can be a way to improve the mental and emotional skills needed to be productive and effective partners, employees, and people in all realms of life.