Lesbian Therapists in Santa Monica, CA
Would you like to reduce your suffering? Would you like freedom from destructive patterns of behavior? ------When we look deeply at ourselves...when we take the time to take care of ourselves with mindfulness and compassion, we begin to understand balance. I am committed to helping you learn how to stop living with self-sabotaging thoughts and behavior, to cultivate a life of emotional balance, deepen your connection with loved ones, resolve trauma and conflict, process grief and loss and become your best self.
Would you like to reduce your suffering? Would you like freedom from destructive patterns of behavior? ------When we look deeply at ourselves...when we take the time to take care of ourselves with mindfulness and compassion, we begin to understand balance. I am committed to helping you learn how to stop living with self-sabotaging thoughts and behavior, to cultivate a life of emotional balance, deepen your connection with loved ones, resolve trauma and conflict, process grief and loss and become your best self.
Many of my clients arrive at a crossroads — navigating a major life transition, stepping down from a higher level of care, or feeling stuck despite having done "all the right things." I work with adults facing trauma, mood disorders, and the weight of experiences that are hard to put into words. I also offer Collaborative Therapeutic Assessment — a powerful tool for those just starting therapy or feeling stalled — turning psychological testing into a shared, insight-driven experience rather than just a report.
Many of my clients arrive at a crossroads — navigating a major life transition, stepping down from a higher level of care, or feeling stuck despite having done "all the right things." I work with adults facing trauma, mood disorders, and the weight of experiences that are hard to put into words. I also offer Collaborative Therapeutic Assessment — a powerful tool for those just starting therapy or feeling stalled — turning psychological testing into a shared, insight-driven experience rather than just a report.
Rediscover Joy and Connection in Your Intimate Relationship
Intimacy and sex shouldn’t feel like a burden. Yet, when “Date Night” appears on the calendar, it stirs a wave of conflicting emotions. You look forward to the laughter, the beautiful ambiance, and the enjoyable meal with your partner—but the thought of what might follow fills you with anxiety. Instead of excitement, the idea of intimacy feels heavy, like something you’d rather avoid. Even watching movie scenes depicting closeness can spark discomfort. You might feel guilt, frustration, or a sense of failure as a partner, and this weight is becoming harder to carry.
Rediscover Joy and Connection in Your Intimate Relationship
Intimacy and sex shouldn’t feel like a burden. Yet, when “Date Night” appears on the calendar, it stirs a wave of conflicting emotions. You look forward to the laughter, the beautiful ambiance, and the enjoyable meal with your partner—but the thought of what might follow fills you with anxiety. Instead of excitement, the idea of intimacy feels heavy, like something you’d rather avoid. Even watching movie scenes depicting closeness can spark discomfort. You might feel guilt, frustration, or a sense of failure as a partner, and this weight is becoming harder to carry.
You may be afraid that your pain, loneliness, or turmoil will never end. I can help relieve troublesome problems such as depression, anxiety, PTSD, and relationships with chronic conflict or painful distance. You may have tried therapy in the past, hoping that your life would improve. Maybe it helped, but eventually, you found yourself right back where you were feeling even more despair. If you’re stuck and discouraged, I want you to know that there is a way out. You might doubt that you can have a more peaceful and fulfilling life. However, the deep healing system I offer is highly effective. All you have to do is give it a try.
You may be afraid that your pain, loneliness, or turmoil will never end. I can help relieve troublesome problems such as depression, anxiety, PTSD, and relationships with chronic conflict or painful distance. You may have tried therapy in the past, hoping that your life would improve. Maybe it helped, but eventually, you found yourself right back where you were feeling even more despair. If you’re stuck and discouraged, I want you to know that there is a way out. You might doubt that you can have a more peaceful and fulfilling life. However, the deep healing system I offer is highly effective. All you have to do is give it a try.
My practice is devoted to working with adults, adolescents and couples to help them deal with difficulties in their relationships and in their personal lives. I am a licensed Clinical Psychologist, and I am continually honored and intrigued by being able to help people in their lives. I received my degrees (Summa Cum Laude) from Washington University, and my doctorate in Psychology is from CSPP. In addition to my years of work in private practice, my experience includes years of intensive supervised client counseling, and now I am a supervisor at a well established clinic, in addition to my practice.
My practice is devoted to working with adults, adolescents and couples to help them deal with difficulties in their relationships and in their personal lives. I am a licensed Clinical Psychologist, and I am continually honored and intrigued by being able to help people in their lives. I received my degrees (Summa Cum Laude) from Washington University, and my doctorate in Psychology is from CSPP. In addition to my years of work in private practice, my experience includes years of intensive supervised client counseling, and now I am a supervisor at a well established clinic, in addition to my practice.
You're the woman who has it together on the outside. The business, the family, the full life. But internally you're exhausted, scattered, and wondering why the things that work for everyone else don't seem to work for you. You're wired differently, carrying more than most, and possibly navigating hormonal shifts that nobody talks about honestly. You've probably tried therapy before. You're not here for slow. You want something that actually moves the needle, and fast. You're ready for deeper, faster results and a therapist who genuinely gets the specific weight you carry.
You're the woman who has it together on the outside. The business, the family, the full life. But internally you're exhausted, scattered, and wondering why the things that work for everyone else don't seem to work for you. You're wired differently, carrying more than most, and possibly navigating hormonal shifts that nobody talks about honestly. You've probably tried therapy before. You're not here for slow. You want something that actually moves the needle, and fast. You're ready for deeper, faster results and a therapist who genuinely gets the specific weight you carry.
I am a licensed Marriage and Family therapist with over 32 years experience helping clients through life transitions. I bring good judgment and experience to the challenges that accompany such transitions and personal crises. I am a problem-solver and specialize in periods of change so that you are at your best as you work to achieve your goals. If you are seeking supportive, safe and productive therapy for yourself or someone in your family, I am ready to meet, talk and help. My practice focuses on transitions facing adults, adolescents, and children, as well as working with families and teams.
I am a licensed Marriage and Family therapist with over 32 years experience helping clients through life transitions. I bring good judgment and experience to the challenges that accompany such transitions and personal crises. I am a problem-solver and specialize in periods of change so that you are at your best as you work to achieve your goals. If you are seeking supportive, safe and productive therapy for yourself or someone in your family, I am ready to meet, talk and help. My practice focuses on transitions facing adults, adolescents, and children, as well as working with families and teams.
When I begin a session with a new client, I want to present myself as a real person. I want to create a situation where the client feels comfortable being him/herself and communicating whatever is going on. I will observe closely, being as present as possible. I will listen carefully and respond when appropriate. I may ask questions or make interpretations about what we talk about, but most importantly I want the client to feel free to say whatever is on his/her mind. I want to establish a trusting relationship so we can begin to work on this person’s issues.
When I begin a session with a new client, I want to present myself as a real person. I want to create a situation where the client feels comfortable being him/herself and communicating whatever is going on. I will observe closely, being as present as possible. I will listen carefully and respond when appropriate. I may ask questions or make interpretations about what we talk about, but most importantly I want the client to feel free to say whatever is on his/her mind. I want to establish a trusting relationship so we can begin to work on this person’s issues.
Integrate- Wilhelmina De Castro, LCSW
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
2 Endorsed
Santa Monica, CA 90401
Integrate /ˈin(t)əˌɡrāt/: to become whole Modern day life is not for the faint of heart. Thinking clearly and finding sustainable peace and harmony often seems impossible. This often leads to anxiety, depression, decreased self worth, increased self criticism, loneliness and addiction and feeling stuck. Many times we are left with a feeling of being fragmented and broken and needing to be “fixed”. At Integrate, we have the unwavering belief that we are already whole. We believe that every person has profound “inner healing intelligence” that can be cultivated to help a person heal, thrive and connect.
Integrate /ˈin(t)əˌɡrāt/: to become whole Modern day life is not for the faint of heart. Thinking clearly and finding sustainable peace and harmony often seems impossible. This often leads to anxiety, depression, decreased self worth, increased self criticism, loneliness and addiction and feeling stuck. Many times we are left with a feeling of being fragmented and broken and needing to be “fixed”. At Integrate, we have the unwavering belief that we are already whole. We believe that every person has profound “inner healing intelligence” that can be cultivated to help a person heal, thrive and connect.
The most important thing in working together is building the foundation of a trusting relationship, where you can feel safe to talk openly. You know your life better than anyone else does. Therefore, we will hold great respect for your self-wisdom. Together with my professional knowledge and experience, we can work to help you discover how to live life in a way that is most fitting for you. NOTE: a professional relationship will not be formed until we both agree to do so, and only during/after an initial meeting. Any prior contact is for informational purposes only.
The most important thing in working together is building the foundation of a trusting relationship, where you can feel safe to talk openly. You know your life better than anyone else does. Therefore, we will hold great respect for your self-wisdom. Together with my professional knowledge and experience, we can work to help you discover how to live life in a way that is most fitting for you. NOTE: a professional relationship will not be formed until we both agree to do so, and only during/after an initial meeting. Any prior contact is for informational purposes only.
EMDR Collective, Founder Dawn Delgado, CEDS, EMDR
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CEDS-S, EMDR
Online Only
I believe in your ability to create a fabulous, adventurous, and fulfilling life. If fear, anxiety, depression, past traumas or blocks are in the way, we can help. My name is Dawn Delgado and I founded EMDR Collective after 20+ years of developing treatment centers, teaching, training, presenting, and advocating for optimal mental health. I am a Certified Eating Disorder Specialist, and an EMDR Certified Trauma Specialist who is well equipped to manage high profile cases. I have hand picked the EMDR Collective therapists to provide compassionate, effective wellness services to you and your loved ones.
I believe in your ability to create a fabulous, adventurous, and fulfilling life. If fear, anxiety, depression, past traumas or blocks are in the way, we can help. My name is Dawn Delgado and I founded EMDR Collective after 20+ years of developing treatment centers, teaching, training, presenting, and advocating for optimal mental health. I am a Certified Eating Disorder Specialist, and an EMDR Certified Trauma Specialist who is well equipped to manage high profile cases. I have hand picked the EMDR Collective therapists to provide compassionate, effective wellness services to you and your loved ones.
We have all had times where we are struggling, feel low or "off", may not even have a real "reason" why these feelings are coming up for us. Or those times where an event, situation, loss, change in our daily functioning has lead us to not feel that we have the right skills to live our best lives and we just don't know what to do. Therapy is an answer for someone who wants to explore these feelings, to work through the difficult times and to learn about oneself in an unbiased, non-judgmental environment.
We have all had times where we are struggling, feel low or "off", may not even have a real "reason" why these feelings are coming up for us. Or those times where an event, situation, loss, change in our daily functioning has lead us to not feel that we have the right skills to live our best lives and we just don't know what to do. Therapy is an answer for someone who wants to explore these feelings, to work through the difficult times and to learn about oneself in an unbiased, non-judgmental environment.
The therapeutic process has the ability to transform. I am living proof of this. At my lowest point, I was anxious, depressed, suicidal, and trapped in addictions. With the help of a skilled therapist, I was able to come out of this darkness - inspiring me to leave the business world in order to help others who are suffering. I believe that everyone deserves a fighting chance to overcome trauma and abuse and live a rich, full, and satisfying life. I believe that we can change and grow at any time in our lives. I believe in the beauty, resiliency, and strength of the human spirit. I believe that we are all worthy and capable of love.
The therapeutic process has the ability to transform. I am living proof of this. At my lowest point, I was anxious, depressed, suicidal, and trapped in addictions. With the help of a skilled therapist, I was able to come out of this darkness - inspiring me to leave the business world in order to help others who are suffering. I believe that everyone deserves a fighting chance to overcome trauma and abuse and live a rich, full, and satisfying life. I believe that we can change and grow at any time in our lives. I believe in the beauty, resiliency, and strength of the human spirit. I believe that we are all worthy and capable of love.
Are you struggling with DEPRESSION or ANXIETY? Is your RELATIONSHIP stuck in negative patterns?Is SUBSTANCE USE getting in your way, or you're needing extra support in RECOVERY? Are you going through a stressful LIFE TRANSITION? If you answered "yes" to any these questions, or even "maybe", I might be the help you are looking for. I've been told by my clients that I take a more active, direct approach to therapy, and I believe humor is a great healer. It is my 1st job to help you feel accepted, and listened to. I want to help you achieve your therapeutic goals by learning about what motivates you as a unique individual.
Are you struggling with DEPRESSION or ANXIETY? Is your RELATIONSHIP stuck in negative patterns?Is SUBSTANCE USE getting in your way, or you're needing extra support in RECOVERY? Are you going through a stressful LIFE TRANSITION? If you answered "yes" to any these questions, or even "maybe", I might be the help you are looking for. I've been told by my clients that I take a more active, direct approach to therapy, and I believe humor is a great healer. It is my 1st job to help you feel accepted, and listened to. I want to help you achieve your therapeutic goals by learning about what motivates you as a unique individual.
Life often presents crossroads we need help to navigate. Relationships bring happiness but also create longing and loneliness. They can preoccupy us and destroy our sense of safety and self-respect. I can help if you're stuck, overwhelmed, afraid, or lost, or are unable to make decisions or life changes, have irresolvable conflicts or unmet needs, feel devalued, or seek guidance with codependency, trauma, communication, intimacy, or self-esteem. You'll gain awareness in your first session and quickly see changes in handling emotions, conflict, and boundaries. You'll find solutions, empowerment, and an improved sense of well-being.
Life often presents crossroads we need help to navigate. Relationships bring happiness but also create longing and loneliness. They can preoccupy us and destroy our sense of safety and self-respect. I can help if you're stuck, overwhelmed, afraid, or lost, or are unable to make decisions or life changes, have irresolvable conflicts or unmet needs, feel devalued, or seek guidance with codependency, trauma, communication, intimacy, or self-esteem. You'll gain awareness in your first session and quickly see changes in handling emotions, conflict, and boundaries. You'll find solutions, empowerment, and an improved sense of well-being.
I am a psychologist specializing in personal growth and meeting life challenges head-on in a sensitive and meaningful way. After thirty years, I have learned a lot helping others navigate challenging circumstances. I work in a collaborative manner in order for you to get to a 'better' place and more effectively manage your life.
I have gained experience by helping others navigate challenges related to building families. I work with patients exploring 'good' solutions to this heart-rending process. I see patients confronting personal challenges to live their best lives. Open to a gratis 15-minute pre-consultation session.
I am a psychologist specializing in personal growth and meeting life challenges head-on in a sensitive and meaningful way. After thirty years, I have learned a lot helping others navigate challenging circumstances. I work in a collaborative manner in order for you to get to a 'better' place and more effectively manage your life.
I have gained experience by helping others navigate challenges related to building families. I work with patients exploring 'good' solutions to this heart-rending process. I see patients confronting personal challenges to live their best lives. Open to a gratis 15-minute pre-consultation session.
Ira Israel, Licensed Counselor and
Licensed Mental Health Counselor, LPCC, LMFT
6 Endorsed
Santa Monica, CA 90403
Maybe you're the one everyone else calls when their life falls apart, and no one has asked lately how you're doing. Maybe the anxiety has gotten louder than you can manage alone, or the relationship has gone quiet in a way that scares you more than fighting would. Maybe you've done the work — therapy before, books, meditation apps — and you're still stuck, and you're tired of being your own project.
I work with people navigating anxiety, depression, and relationships that have stopped making sense — often people who are used to being the competent one, the one who holds things together for everyone else.
Maybe you're the one everyone else calls when their life falls apart, and no one has asked lately how you're doing. Maybe the anxiety has gotten louder than you can manage alone, or the relationship has gone quiet in a way that scares you more than fighting would. Maybe you've done the work — therapy before, books, meditation apps — and you're still stuck, and you're tired of being your own project.
I work with people navigating anxiety, depression, and relationships that have stopped making sense — often people who are used to being the competent one, the one who holds things together for everyone else.
Drawing from recent developments in neuroscience, I utilize a variety of modalities to help people re-connect with themselves and others. As a certified Imago Relationship Therapist, I specialize in helping couples re-build safety, improve communication, and decrease tension. I also integrate Internal Family Systems (IFS), a powerful approach that helps clients understand the different "parts" of themselves and lead from a place of calm, compassionate Self. Whether you're seeking individual growth or working to transform your relationship, healing is possible. Please feel free to call for a free consultation.
Drawing from recent developments in neuroscience, I utilize a variety of modalities to help people re-connect with themselves and others. As a certified Imago Relationship Therapist, I specialize in helping couples re-build safety, improve communication, and decrease tension. I also integrate Internal Family Systems (IFS), a powerful approach that helps clients understand the different "parts" of themselves and lead from a place of calm, compassionate Self. Whether you're seeking individual growth or working to transform your relationship, healing is possible. Please feel free to call for a free consultation.
Monica Farassat, Psy.D.
Marriage & Family Therapist, PsyD, LMFT, CGP
4 Endorsed
Santa Monica, CA 90403
Many people shy away from asking for help when in emotional and psychological pain. It is not easy to ask for help. Perhaps there are feelings of shame underlying the recognition of one's vulnerability. But in essence these are the times that important and life-altering changes can occur. I am invested in establishing a safe, supportive, and truthful interaction with you towards improving your life, your choices, and your relationships, & have over 25 years of experience as proof. The concerns that I have worked with extensively include depression, anxiety, grief, life transitions, substance-abuse, adjustment, crisis intervention, & individuation.
Many people shy away from asking for help when in emotional and psychological pain. It is not easy to ask for help. Perhaps there are feelings of shame underlying the recognition of one's vulnerability. But in essence these are the times that important and life-altering changes can occur. I am invested in establishing a safe, supportive, and truthful interaction with you towards improving your life, your choices, and your relationships, & have over 25 years of experience as proof. The concerns that I have worked with extensively include depression, anxiety, grief, life transitions, substance-abuse, adjustment, crisis intervention, & individuation.
You're exhausted — not just tired, but the kind of worn down that doesn't go away. You've been putting yourself last for a long time. Trying to be understanding, flexible, "easy." And somehow, it still leaves you feeling unseen, overwhelmed, or like it’s never enough.
Now you're at a point where something has to change. You realize you can't keep doing this the same way.
I work with women who feel stuck between caring about others and losing themselves in the process. Who struggle with guilt, boundaries, and constantly questioning their own needs.
You're exhausted — not just tired, but the kind of worn down that doesn't go away. You've been putting yourself last for a long time. Trying to be understanding, flexible, "easy." And somehow, it still leaves you feeling unseen, overwhelmed, or like it’s never enough.
Now you're at a point where something has to change. You realize you can't keep doing this the same way.
I work with women who feel stuck between caring about others and losing themselves in the process. Who struggle with guilt, boundaries, and constantly questioning their own needs.
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