Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists in San Marcos, CA

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Mighty Marigold Counseling
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, LPCC, PMH-C
6 Endorsed
Online Only
I see people for a variety of reasons including life transitions, perinatal mental health, OCD, anxiety, grief and loss, depression, stress, parenting, relationships, career issues and existential dread of the current state of the world. Anyone is welcome to inquire about counseling with me regardless of lifestyle, age, relationship status, belief system, ability, identity, unavailable childcare, life experience or thoughts on counseling. Whoever you are and wherever you’ve come from, I want you to feel welcomed here.
I see people for a variety of reasons including life transitions, perinatal mental health, OCD, anxiety, grief and loss, depression, stress, parenting, relationships, career issues and existential dread of the current state of the world. Anyone is welcome to inquire about counseling with me regardless of lifestyle, age, relationship status, belief system, ability, identity, unavailable childcare, life experience or thoughts on counseling. Whoever you are and wherever you’ve come from, I want you to feel welcomed here.
(760) 313-9281 View (760) 313-9281
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Kirra Walsh
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
1 Endorsed
San Marcos, CA 92069
Are you feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or uncertain about your next steps? Whether you're navigating anxiety, depression, life transitions, identity exploration, or relationship challenges, I’m here to help. I provide a supportive and collaborative space where you can feel safe to explore, heal, and grow—at your own pace and in your own way. I work with adolescents, adults, couples, and families using a strengths-based, trauma-informed approach. I tailor each session to your unique goals, preferences, and strengths.
Are you feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or uncertain about your next steps? Whether you're navigating anxiety, depression, life transitions, identity exploration, or relationship challenges, I’m here to help. I provide a supportive and collaborative space where you can feel safe to explore, heal, and grow—at your own pace and in your own way. I work with adolescents, adults, couples, and families using a strengths-based, trauma-informed approach. I tailor each session to your unique goals, preferences, and strengths.
(760) 309-6452 View (760) 309-6452
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Ashley Azin
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MS, LMFT
San Marcos, CA 92069
You are here because you are hurting and want to heal. Healing is possible and you deserve love and acceptance for just being you- your full authentic self. I have been treating anxiety, depression, identity, codependency, eating disorders, low self esteem and relationships issues in children, teens and adults since 2007. My therapeutic style is often more directive, as I see myself as a part of your therapeutic process-not a quiet observer. I use a balance of cognitive behavioral therapy techniques and exploring how your childhood shaped your current thoughts and behaviors.
You are here because you are hurting and want to heal. Healing is possible and you deserve love and acceptance for just being you- your full authentic self. I have been treating anxiety, depression, identity, codependency, eating disorders, low self esteem and relationships issues in children, teens and adults since 2007. My therapeutic style is often more directive, as I see myself as a part of your therapeutic process-not a quiet observer. I use a balance of cognitive behavioral therapy techniques and exploring how your childhood shaped your current thoughts and behaviors.
(858) 386-7502 View (858) 386-7502
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Therapeutic and Wellness Solution Center
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, AMFT, CST
San Marcos, CA 92069
Do you find yourself thinking "I need to see a therapist." Then realize that you have been thinking this for months but haven't been able to make an appointment because you're just too busy and overwhelmed. Do you look at your spouse and think where did the spark go? Can you remember the last time that you were happy and enjoyed any aspect of your day? Or are you done with watching your child struggle with social skills, feelings of anxiety or accepting "no" as an answer. Then its time to give us a call and start making the improvements and changes you want in your life.
Do you find yourself thinking "I need to see a therapist." Then realize that you have been thinking this for months but haven't been able to make an appointment because you're just too busy and overwhelmed. Do you look at your spouse and think where did the spark go? Can you remember the last time that you were happy and enjoyed any aspect of your day? Or are you done with watching your child struggle with social skills, feelings of anxiety or accepting "no" as an answer. Then its time to give us a call and start making the improvements and changes you want in your life.
(442) 244-2733 View (442) 244-2733
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Lindsey Schmidt
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
1 Endorsed
Online Only
I am a collaborative, creative, and empathetic therapist. I believe that in order to effectively meet your goals; sessions should be personalized based on your individual needs. I believe that the key to personal growth & success is to find balance and inner happiness within ourselves. As a therapist, my role is to provide a nurturing environment allowing the opportunity for self-exploration and growth. My style is direct yet holistic as I belief that the mind/body/emotions are all interconnected. If this approach aligns with your goals for therapy, I would love to connect with you and help you along your journey to better health.
I am a collaborative, creative, and empathetic therapist. I believe that in order to effectively meet your goals; sessions should be personalized based on your individual needs. I believe that the key to personal growth & success is to find balance and inner happiness within ourselves. As a therapist, my role is to provide a nurturing environment allowing the opportunity for self-exploration and growth. My style is direct yet holistic as I belief that the mind/body/emotions are all interconnected. If this approach aligns with your goals for therapy, I would love to connect with you and help you along your journey to better health.
(619) 916-4983 View (619) 916-4983
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Taylor Washington
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
2 Endorsed
Online Only
You may be navigating overwhelm, grief, depression, trauma, narcissistic abuse recovery, uncertainty, or a sense of disconnection on your journey toward feeling more whole. I believe therapy is not about fixing or rushing healing, but about learning to be with yourself more honestly and compassionately. At your pace, we explore emotions, the nervous system, and your personal story to cultivate grounding, insight, and connection. I strive to offer a space where you feel seen, heard, and safe to heal, explore meaning, and reconnect with hope and purpose.
You may be navigating overwhelm, grief, depression, trauma, narcissistic abuse recovery, uncertainty, or a sense of disconnection on your journey toward feeling more whole. I believe therapy is not about fixing or rushing healing, but about learning to be with yourself more honestly and compassionately. At your pace, we explore emotions, the nervous system, and your personal story to cultivate grounding, insight, and connection. I strive to offer a space where you feel seen, heard, and safe to heal, explore meaning, and reconnect with hope and purpose.
(760) 474-3545 View (760) 474-3545
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David B Lavenau
Psychologist, PsyD
San Marcos, CA 92069
I work best with clients who are open to understanding the issues which contribute to their struggles. Sometimes these are transitional situations, like a relationship break-up, loss of a job, or moving out on ones own. Other times these issues are related to underlying trauma or chronic life situations which contribute to ongoing suffering and pain. Being insightful and curious about oneself often leads to healing—of depression, anxiety, trauma, addiction, and relational and intimacy issues. My goal is to provide a therapeutic relationship which helps hold fears, sadness, and anger as we progress along the journey together.
I work best with clients who are open to understanding the issues which contribute to their struggles. Sometimes these are transitional situations, like a relationship break-up, loss of a job, or moving out on ones own. Other times these issues are related to underlying trauma or chronic life situations which contribute to ongoing suffering and pain. Being insightful and curious about oneself often leads to healing—of depression, anxiety, trauma, addiction, and relational and intimacy issues. My goal is to provide a therapeutic relationship which helps hold fears, sadness, and anger as we progress along the journey together.
(442) 245-5681 View (442) 245-5681
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Anna Menniti
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
San Marcos, CA 92078
In times of transitions like getting married, having kids, getting divorced or changing careers, the wounds you thought were dealt with, can unexpectedly resurface. Past trauma (large or small) may have always been in the background unknowingly affecting every decision you ever made. Unresolved trauma can manifest as issues around self-esteem, depression, anxiety, or a pattern of choosing the wrong partner, or a job that makes you feel stuck. Maybe it manifests in the feeling of longing for something you don't have, even when you feel like you have it all.
In times of transitions like getting married, having kids, getting divorced or changing careers, the wounds you thought were dealt with, can unexpectedly resurface. Past trauma (large or small) may have always been in the background unknowingly affecting every decision you ever made. Unresolved trauma can manifest as issues around self-esteem, depression, anxiety, or a pattern of choosing the wrong partner, or a job that makes you feel stuck. Maybe it manifests in the feeling of longing for something you don't have, even when you feel like you have it all.
(760) 227-5264 View (760) 227-5264
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Kate-Robin Shuart Piper
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Serves Area
Welcome - I'm Kate-Robin a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) based in San Diego California. I see clients in my office and also provide therapy to clients living throughout the state via telehealth. I specialize in helping individuals authentically express themselves in various relationships—friendships, partnerships, family, work, and community. I create a safe space to explore identities, navigate emotions, and heal inter-generational wounds, fostering deep self-awareness and more meaningful connections.
Welcome - I'm Kate-Robin a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) based in San Diego California. I see clients in my office and also provide therapy to clients living throughout the state via telehealth. I specialize in helping individuals authentically express themselves in various relationships—friendships, partnerships, family, work, and community. I create a safe space to explore identities, navigate emotions, and heal inter-generational wounds, fostering deep self-awareness and more meaningful connections.
(559) 245-1739 View (559) 245-1739
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All Things Considered Counseling Services
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, BCC
Serves Area
I am deeply familiar with the polyamory and kink communities, and similar alternative lifestyle communities.
Hi, I’m Anitalyn (like Anita and Lyn put together into one word). I’m so glad you stopped by! I specialize in helping people cope with major life stressors, and even minor life stressors. Adjustment on any level can be really hard. My clients should leave my session feeling better about themselves and their lives, even if sometimes that means having to think about things in a way that can be hard. No matter what, every client should always feel valued and worthy. My style as a therapist is very down-to-earth, very focused on honoring the person you already are. Each session will very likely also include a poodle.
I am deeply familiar with the polyamory and kink communities, and similar alternative lifestyle communities.
Hi, I’m Anitalyn (like Anita and Lyn put together into one word). I’m so glad you stopped by! I specialize in helping people cope with major life stressors, and even minor life stressors. Adjustment on any level can be really hard. My clients should leave my session feeling better about themselves and their lives, even if sometimes that means having to think about things in a way that can be hard. No matter what, every client should always feel valued and worthy. My style as a therapist is very down-to-earth, very focused on honoring the person you already are. Each session will very likely also include a poodle.
(760) 589-5013 View (760) 589-5013
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Catherine Lamme
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
Welcome! Are you feeling tired of the patterns and old stories that impact the development of your vitality and the best version of your life? Does your sense of self feel fractured? Does your body seem to mirror the internal negative thought patterns that seem to block you creating the life you want to live? Do you feel like there are moments that you cannot imagine living in the internal chaos another moment? I am inspired and honored to work with adults who are motivated to heal and release the negative internal stories, especially from trauma, that have dictated their behavior in order to create their own life worth living.
Welcome! Are you feeling tired of the patterns and old stories that impact the development of your vitality and the best version of your life? Does your sense of self feel fractured? Does your body seem to mirror the internal negative thought patterns that seem to block you creating the life you want to live? Do you feel like there are moments that you cannot imagine living in the internal chaos another moment? I am inspired and honored to work with adults who are motivated to heal and release the negative internal stories, especially from trauma, that have dictated their behavior in order to create their own life worth living.
(760) 263-6052 View (760) 263-6052
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Dr. Ashley Rachael Amundson
Counselor, DBH, MS, LPCC, EMDR
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Are you feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or disconnected from yourself? Healing is not just about talking—it’s about transformation on every level. As an EMDR therapist with a holistic perspective, I blend evidence-based therapy with the deep intuitive power of energy work to help you release trauma, break patterns, and reconnect with your true self. My approach is comprehensive, integrative, and uniquely tailored to you—addressing the mind, body, and spirit for lasting change. Whether you're navigating anxiety, past wounds, or simply seeking a deeper sense of alignment, I create a safe, supportive space where real healing happens.
Are you feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or disconnected from yourself? Healing is not just about talking—it’s about transformation on every level. As an EMDR therapist with a holistic perspective, I blend evidence-based therapy with the deep intuitive power of energy work to help you release trauma, break patterns, and reconnect with your true self. My approach is comprehensive, integrative, and uniquely tailored to you—addressing the mind, body, and spirit for lasting change. Whether you're navigating anxiety, past wounds, or simply seeking a deeper sense of alignment, I create a safe, supportive space where real healing happens.
(619) 614-7625 View (619) 614-7625
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Sonia Diaz
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Online Only
Hello, my name is Sonia Díaz, and I am a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist working with clients all over California via telehealth. It is my passion to support others as they seek to better their lives and bring about wellness in many different areas. My approach is holistic in nature and client-centered. In this way, we can incorporate an integrative and humanistic approach that respects, validates, and supports your individual goals.
Hello, my name is Sonia Díaz, and I am a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist working with clients all over California via telehealth. It is my passion to support others as they seek to better their lives and bring about wellness in many different areas. My approach is holistic in nature and client-centered. In this way, we can incorporate an integrative and humanistic approach that respects, validates, and supports your individual goals.
(650) 789-6294 View (650) 789-6294
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Henry Cuellar
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Online Only
I'm originally from Honduras and have been in the U.S. since I was 11 years old. I've been in the mental health field for over 10 years and I'm passionate about helping individuals in their healing journey. I have extensive experience working in addiction medicine and treating various mental health issues such as anxiety and depression. I enjoy working with clients who are wanting to explore themselves and heal parts of themselves that need healing.
I'm originally from Honduras and have been in the U.S. since I was 11 years old. I've been in the mental health field for over 10 years and I'm passionate about helping individuals in their healing journey. I have extensive experience working in addiction medicine and treating various mental health issues such as anxiety and depression. I enjoy working with clients who are wanting to explore themselves and heal parts of themselves that need healing.
(760) 512-8805 View (760) 512-8805
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Tara Nimry
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, PMH-C
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
My name is Tara Nimry, and I’m a therapist of Asian Pacific Islander descent. I'm a trauma-informed therapist dedicated to creating a safe, inclusive space where your story and identity are honored. I provide culturally responsive care with humility, compassion, and respect—recognizing that healing looks different for everyone. My work is grounded in a deep commitment to supporting clients through the impacts of trauma, whether recent or rooted in the past. Clients often describe me as non-judgmental, compassionate, practical, humorous, quirky, and down-to-earth.
My name is Tara Nimry, and I’m a therapist of Asian Pacific Islander descent. I'm a trauma-informed therapist dedicated to creating a safe, inclusive space where your story and identity are honored. I provide culturally responsive care with humility, compassion, and respect—recognizing that healing looks different for everyone. My work is grounded in a deep commitment to supporting clients through the impacts of trauma, whether recent or rooted in the past. Clients often describe me as non-judgmental, compassionate, practical, humorous, quirky, and down-to-earth.
(760) 280-7334 View (760) 280-7334
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Omar Alhassoon
Psychologist, LCP
Online Only
Are you seeking a therapist who combines warmth and understanding with cutting-edge neuroscience-informed psychotherapy? My approach to therapy is rooted in empathy, compassion, and a genuine desire to understand your unique experiences. I graduated in 2003 from the University of California San Diego with a PhD in Clinical Neuropsychology. My background allows me to offer a blend of support and scientific insight drawing from my own research in neuroscience. I integrate the latest findings into our sessions, providing an understanding of the mind-body connection and how it influences emotions, behaviors, and thoughts.
Are you seeking a therapist who combines warmth and understanding with cutting-edge neuroscience-informed psychotherapy? My approach to therapy is rooted in empathy, compassion, and a genuine desire to understand your unique experiences. I graduated in 2003 from the University of California San Diego with a PhD in Clinical Neuropsychology. My background allows me to offer a blend of support and scientific insight drawing from my own research in neuroscience. I integrate the latest findings into our sessions, providing an understanding of the mind-body connection and how it influences emotions, behaviors, and thoughts.
(619) 330-9481 View (619) 330-9481
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Jenna Suway
Psychologist, PhD
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
I help adolescents and adults navigate difficulties in their lives. Some of the treatment areas in which I work relate to identity (e.g., LGBTQ+ individuals), anxiety, transitions, values, trauma, and mood. My goal is to create an open and safe environment from which to explore, process, and learn. It is an honor to get to know you and to work collaboratively to address whatever brings you to therapy. I look forward to speaking with you.
I help adolescents and adults navigate difficulties in their lives. Some of the treatment areas in which I work relate to identity (e.g., LGBTQ+ individuals), anxiety, transitions, values, trauma, and mood. My goal is to create an open and safe environment from which to explore, process, and learn. It is an honor to get to know you and to work collaboratively to address whatever brings you to therapy. I look forward to speaking with you.
(442) 313-2372 View (442) 313-2372

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Kendell Walker
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, HHP
Del Mar, CA 92014
It’s never just one thing that ails us, it’s never just one thing that heals us. Many times it is easy to forget the path that was walked and the longevity of challenges that had to be worked through. As you begin your healing journey, know that this path requires longevity as well and the patience to honor each step, trusting that consistent effort and compassion for yourself will bring lasting transformation. I believe that the wholeness of the Self, comes from treating the mental, emotional, physical, and energetic bodies collectively. The shadow and forgotten wounds seek resolution as much as the symptoms.
It’s never just one thing that ails us, it’s never just one thing that heals us. Many times it is easy to forget the path that was walked and the longevity of challenges that had to be worked through. As you begin your healing journey, know that this path requires longevity as well and the patience to honor each step, trusting that consistent effort and compassion for yourself will bring lasting transformation. I believe that the wholeness of the Self, comes from treating the mental, emotional, physical, and energetic bodies collectively. The shadow and forgotten wounds seek resolution as much as the symptoms.
(619) 853-3094 View (619) 853-3094
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Olivia Duprez
Pre-Licensed Professional
2 Endorsed
Online Only
I believe that therapy should be an adaptable process tailored to who someone is and what they need. I aim to meet clients with compassion and curiosity, creating an intentional, present, and client-centered space for healing. I am passionate about offering non-judgmental support and helping people live more authentically. I work collaboratively with clients to explore their uniqueness, build insight, and strengthen relationships. My approach empowers clients through open communication and a deep respect for their lived experiences, encouraging growth that extends beyond the individual.
I believe that therapy should be an adaptable process tailored to who someone is and what they need. I aim to meet clients with compassion and curiosity, creating an intentional, present, and client-centered space for healing. I am passionate about offering non-judgmental support and helping people live more authentically. I work collaboratively with clients to explore their uniqueness, build insight, and strengthen relationships. My approach empowers clients through open communication and a deep respect for their lived experiences, encouraging growth that extends beyond the individual.
(858) 365-9733 View (858) 365-9733
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Joey Alligier
Associate Professional Clinical Counselor, APCC, MSc
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Do you want to learn to love deeper? Need to move through reoccurring bickering? Do you find yourself at the same point over and over again? I'm Joey. I'm a young queer Punjabi who loves building bridges and creating bonds. I specialize in non-traditional relationships and other queer and gay dynamics. I'm a relationship therapist with over 7 years of training in interpersonal connection, conflict resolution, and building strong relationships. All sorts of connection and relationships are at the core of everyday life.
Do you want to learn to love deeper? Need to move through reoccurring bickering? Do you find yourself at the same point over and over again? I'm Joey. I'm a young queer Punjabi who loves building bridges and creating bonds. I specialize in non-traditional relationships and other queer and gay dynamics. I'm a relationship therapist with over 7 years of training in interpersonal connection, conflict resolution, and building strong relationships. All sorts of connection and relationships are at the core of everyday life.
(415) 360-0384 View (415) 360-0384

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Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists
Why might an individual want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
A sex-positive or kinky individual may want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist because the client may feel safer and more supported discussing their experiences and challenges. A therapist who identifies as kink-friendly will have experience with clients having diverse sexual preferences and will likely be nonjudgmental and supportive about issues brought to the table. It is important to note that sex-positive, kink-allied individuals may find equal success with therapists who do not have such specialized knowledge and background. The most important factor in the success of therapy is for the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond.

Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in sex-positive, kink-allied treatment?
Generally, no. There are limited training programs and unofficial accreditations that therapists can pursue, but a therapist’s expertise will ultimately come from their previous experience with similar clients, their engagement with organizations that promote sex positivity or kink-allied lifestyles, and the importance they place on safety and cultural sensitivity.

How can individuals recognize a good sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
An experienced therapist is able to help clients explore their sexual identity and expression and relieve any discomfort or stigma attached to discussing such matters and the client’s overall challenges. A therapist who is sex-positive and kink-allied is able to create an environment that honors a client’s experience and sexual preferences. To recognize a good therapist, clients can simply ask directly about topics and issues important to them and gauge their comfort level and connection with a clinician based on the responses.

Can clients benefit from having a therapist with a focus on sex positivity and alternative sexual lifestyles?
Some individuals may feel most comfortable knowing that the clinician they’re working with has a commitment to creating an atmosphere of sex positivity and has experience with relationship diversity and alternative relationship structures. Working with a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist may help clients respect their own challenges and improve identity-affirming treatment.