Sexual Addiction Therapists in San Lorenzo, CA

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Stevan Gengo
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, MFT, SAP
Online Only
We're artists, leaning into the world & willing our lives. And rapture, an essential feeling, leads us outward to be more truly ‘there’. Heidegger thus interprets Nietzsche’s “will to power:” A strong, full-bodied interest & movement towards the world, before us as a possibility but not always chosen. Poignantly, Heidegger (1961) names a “fallen” state: “Of someone who is intoxicated...he [sic] 'has' something like rapture. But his is not enraptured. The rapture of intoxication [does not raise one] beyond himself. What we are here calling rapture is merely...being 'soused,' something depriv[ing] us of every possible state of being."
We're artists, leaning into the world & willing our lives. And rapture, an essential feeling, leads us outward to be more truly ‘there’. Heidegger thus interprets Nietzsche’s “will to power:” A strong, full-bodied interest & movement towards the world, before us as a possibility but not always chosen. Poignantly, Heidegger (1961) names a “fallen” state: “Of someone who is intoxicated...he [sic] 'has' something like rapture. But his is not enraptured. The rapture of intoxication [does not raise one] beyond himself. What we are here calling rapture is merely...being 'soused,' something depriv[ing] us of every possible state of being."
(415) 818-1346 View (415) 818-1346
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Erik Kahn
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Online Only
Hello, I'm Erik Kahn, a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist 146734. My approach to therapy is compassionate and collaborative, focusing on helping you navigate challenges and rediscover joy in your life. I specialize in relationship issues, stress management, and personal growth, and I'm here to support you in achieving a fulfilling and balanced life.
Hello, I'm Erik Kahn, a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist 146734. My approach to therapy is compassionate and collaborative, focusing on helping you navigate challenges and rediscover joy in your life. I specialize in relationship issues, stress management, and personal growth, and I'm here to support you in achieving a fulfilling and balanced life.
(949) 403-6761 View (949) 403-6761

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John M Kravitz
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, CHT
1 Endorsed
Walnut Creek, CA 94597
Choosing a therapist from all of these listings may seem overwhelming. Well, look no further, because I can help you. I offer individuals and couples a safe, non-judgmental environment to reduce your anxiety, heal old wounds, strengthen your relationships, manage life transitions, or reduce disruptive behaviors, infidelities or addictions getting in the way of you living your best life. Individual and group therapy options are available (discreet small group therapy offered for problematic sexual behaviors ). Please contact me, and we will create an individual plan for you to start making your tomorrow a little brighter.
Choosing a therapist from all of these listings may seem overwhelming. Well, look no further, because I can help you. I offer individuals and couples a safe, non-judgmental environment to reduce your anxiety, heal old wounds, strengthen your relationships, manage life transitions, or reduce disruptive behaviors, infidelities or addictions getting in the way of you living your best life. Individual and group therapy options are available (discreet small group therapy offered for problematic sexual behaviors ). Please contact me, and we will create an individual plan for you to start making your tomorrow a little brighter.
(925) 391-2705 View (925) 391-2705
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Tara Talon Daniels
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
1 Endorsed
Online Only
We learn patterns and behaviors early on that help us cope with life's challenges. Sometimes, these tools stop working or become unhelpful. I want to help you recreate your toolbox. Whatever you are dealing with, I provide a safe space for you to be able to deepen and internally investigate so we can mindfully take on your complex problems. If you are dealing with relationship issues, codependency, addiction, anxiety, I approach all with curiosity. My goal is to have you leave therapy feeling heard, understood, and empowered to make new choices that work for you.
We learn patterns and behaviors early on that help us cope with life's challenges. Sometimes, these tools stop working or become unhelpful. I want to help you recreate your toolbox. Whatever you are dealing with, I provide a safe space for you to be able to deepen and internally investigate so we can mindfully take on your complex problems. If you are dealing with relationship issues, codependency, addiction, anxiety, I approach all with curiosity. My goal is to have you leave therapy feeling heard, understood, and empowered to make new choices that work for you.
(510) 447-1437 View (510) 447-1437
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Nicole Otis
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CSAT
Online Only
Are you struggling with pornography or sexual compulsivity? Is secrecy, broken trust or loss of intimacy hurting your relationship? Or maybe you’re not in crisis, but you know your marriage could be stronger, more connected, more alive? You’re not alone–we have been through these issues personally and know what it’s like. I’m a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT), and Hunter is a Certified Mentor Coach in long-term recovery. Together, we help men break free (porn, sexting, affairs, prostitution, etc) and we help couples rebuild trust and real intimacy.
Are you struggling with pornography or sexual compulsivity? Is secrecy, broken trust or loss of intimacy hurting your relationship? Or maybe you’re not in crisis, but you know your marriage could be stronger, more connected, more alive? You’re not alone–we have been through these issues personally and know what it’s like. I’m a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT), and Hunter is a Certified Mentor Coach in long-term recovery. Together, we help men break free (porn, sexting, affairs, prostitution, etc) and we help couples rebuild trust and real intimacy.
(952) 260-4855 View (952) 260-4855
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Vernon Lee
Psychologist, PhD, CSAT-S
Online Only
In a field with very few recognized experts, Dr. Lee is an acknowledged professional in the assessment and treatment of persons with addictive sexual disorders and domestic violence.Clients come to us for professional and compassionate guidance in creating the most appropriate treatment plan for their success.
In a field with very few recognized experts, Dr. Lee is an acknowledged professional in the assessment and treatment of persons with addictive sexual disorders and domestic violence.Clients come to us for professional and compassionate guidance in creating the most appropriate treatment plan for their success.
(415) 842-4206 View (415) 842-4206
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Mike Zukowski
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CSAT, CMAT
13 Endorsed
Serves Area
If you are looking for help in relationship/individual recovery (intimacy issues, betrayal, affairs and sexual addiction), let's talk about how you can take your first step to a better place.
If you are a man facing problems filled with pain, fear, loneliness or failure- affair/addiction/past negative experiences caused you to doubt yourself, damaging the ones you love. Contact me. Don't allow the past to control your future. You don't have to do this alone. Email me to discover new strategies to work through stress and pain and find your best self again.
If you are looking for help in relationship/individual recovery (intimacy issues, betrayal, affairs and sexual addiction), let's talk about how you can take your first step to a better place.
If you are a man facing problems filled with pain, fear, loneliness or failure- affair/addiction/past negative experiences caused you to doubt yourself, damaging the ones you love. Contact me. Don't allow the past to control your future. You don't have to do this alone. Email me to discover new strategies to work through stress and pain and find your best self again.
(408) 217-6548 View (408) 217-6548
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Laurén O'Brien
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Are you struggling with anxiety/overwhelm, relationship challenges, or difficulties with intimacy that result in anxiety, shame, or difficulties in relationships? You are successful in so many ways, but somewhere along the way your relationship to yourself and/or others began to suffer. I support clients as they explore how these patterns developed, build self-trust, reduce distressing thoughts and behaviors, and create more fulfilling relationships. As a psychotherapist and sex therapist, I provide care that honors the connection between mental, emotional, relational, and sexual well-being. You don’t have to figure this out alone.
Are you struggling with anxiety/overwhelm, relationship challenges, or difficulties with intimacy that result in anxiety, shame, or difficulties in relationships? You are successful in so many ways, but somewhere along the way your relationship to yourself and/or others began to suffer. I support clients as they explore how these patterns developed, build self-trust, reduce distressing thoughts and behaviors, and create more fulfilling relationships. As a psychotherapist and sex therapist, I provide care that honors the connection between mental, emotional, relational, and sexual well-being. You don’t have to figure this out alone.
(831) 298-8575 View (831) 298-8575
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Robert Schnitzius
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, CSAT
Berkeley, CA 94704
I specialize in helping individuals and couples transform obsessive thoughts, harmful/addictive behaviors (especially sex addiction and/or porn addiction), and unhealthy patterns into a serene, fulfilling life with repaired, satisfying relationships. Therapy can actually be fun! Especially as one establishes more fulfilling ways of being with oneself and others, and learns to hear, trust and act upon one's own inner guidance. Changing old, limiting patterns takes courage, and having a therapist with the right blend of compassion, insight and humor can be a valuable ally on the road to transformation.
I specialize in helping individuals and couples transform obsessive thoughts, harmful/addictive behaviors (especially sex addiction and/or porn addiction), and unhealthy patterns into a serene, fulfilling life with repaired, satisfying relationships. Therapy can actually be fun! Especially as one establishes more fulfilling ways of being with oneself and others, and learns to hear, trust and act upon one's own inner guidance. Changing old, limiting patterns takes courage, and having a therapist with the right blend of compassion, insight and humor can be a valuable ally on the road to transformation.
(510) 343-7391 View (510) 343-7391
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Greg Binns
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Online Only
I provide a reliable space for talking about what affects you most deeply in your love, work, creative and spiritual life. I will help you develop pragmatic approaches to achieving greater fulfillment and less distress. As we develop a complete picture of your internal and interpersonal life, our dialogue will afford you a deeper understanding of how you function with others and how you create meaning for yourself. I regard each person's therapy as unique. We will work together to set the goals, pace, and content of your treatment, as well as examining the nature of our working relationship.
I provide a reliable space for talking about what affects you most deeply in your love, work, creative and spiritual life. I will help you develop pragmatic approaches to achieving greater fulfillment and less distress. As we develop a complete picture of your internal and interpersonal life, our dialogue will afford you a deeper understanding of how you function with others and how you create meaning for yourself. I regard each person's therapy as unique. We will work together to set the goals, pace, and content of your treatment, as well as examining the nature of our working relationship.
(323) 312-3762 View (323) 312-3762
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Dr. Magen Todd
Psychologist, MA, PhD, CSAT
Serves Area
I have extensive experience working with individuals recovering from sexual addiction as well as partners of sex addicts.
Relationships can be a source of our greatest joy and deepest pain. Perhaps much of your relationship feels strong and connected, yet something isn’t working sexually. Others may feel stuck repeating the same argument without resolution. I help couples navigate these challenges, rebuilding communication, trust, and intimacy. Alongside couples work, I support individuals recovering from trauma, including the deep rupture of betrayal trauma. Together, we make sense of the shock, grief, and loss of safety that can occur when someone you love violates your trust. I am committed to providing a safe, judgement-free space to heal and grow.
I have extensive experience working with individuals recovering from sexual addiction as well as partners of sex addicts.
Relationships can be a source of our greatest joy and deepest pain. Perhaps much of your relationship feels strong and connected, yet something isn’t working sexually. Others may feel stuck repeating the same argument without resolution. I help couples navigate these challenges, rebuilding communication, trust, and intimacy. Alongside couples work, I support individuals recovering from trauma, including the deep rupture of betrayal trauma. Together, we make sense of the shock, grief, and loss of safety that can occur when someone you love violates your trust. I am committed to providing a safe, judgement-free space to heal and grow.
(530) 444-8830 View (530) 444-8830
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Angelica Leanne Carlsen
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MSW
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Feeling anxious, empty, trapped, or stuck in a pattern that feels impossible to break? Often, our current struggles signify deeper wounds that, when nurtured, can bring profound healing and empowerment. I believe every individual has inherent purpose and value and my goal is to help you align with yours—whether through clarifying values, making behavioral changes, or shifting thought patterns. My approach is strengths-based and nonjudgmental. I understand that healing is a deeply personal journey, and I work collaboratively with you to ensure that you feel understood and supported.
Feeling anxious, empty, trapped, or stuck in a pattern that feels impossible to break? Often, our current struggles signify deeper wounds that, when nurtured, can bring profound healing and empowerment. I believe every individual has inherent purpose and value and my goal is to help you align with yours—whether through clarifying values, making behavioral changes, or shifting thought patterns. My approach is strengths-based and nonjudgmental. I understand that healing is a deeply personal journey, and I work collaboratively with you to ensure that you feel understood and supported.
(415) 853-9789 View (415) 853-9789
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Don Diva
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT, CSAT, CMAT
6 Endorsed
Serves Area
I'm best suited to treat relationship problems, depression, father wounds, men with sexual addiction and grief/loss issues.
Are you stuck in unhealthy relationship patterns? Are you coping with the stress of life in destructive ways- by bottling up your feelings or acting out through addiction or in toxic relationships? You do not have to struggle alone. During the different stages of our lives, our relationships, and our family life cycle, we can get stuck in certain places. As your therapist we would work together to help you find what you need so that you can move through these stuck places, experience healthier relationships, find hope and be free from destructive behaviors.
I'm best suited to treat relationship problems, depression, father wounds, men with sexual addiction and grief/loss issues.
Are you stuck in unhealthy relationship patterns? Are you coping with the stress of life in destructive ways- by bottling up your feelings or acting out through addiction or in toxic relationships? You do not have to struggle alone. During the different stages of our lives, our relationships, and our family life cycle, we can get stuck in certain places. As your therapist we would work together to help you find what you need so that you can move through these stuck places, experience healthier relationships, find hope and be free from destructive behaviors.
(562) 508-0059 View (562) 508-0059
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Men's Issues - Dr. Dean
Psychologist, PsyD, QME, Author
Serves Area
I have been in practice since 2007 and have been featured on ABC, NBC, and KCAL as an expert psychologist. I work primarily with men who have hit “rock bottom” and would like help getting up. These men are often in crisis when we first meet. The issues I address are typically related to unhealthy sexual behaviors, infidelity, broken relationships, drugs/alcohol, dishonesty/lying, financial recklessness, and gambling. My therapy approach is a combination of psychoanalytic, cognitive-behavioral, and the 12-Step recovery model. I also share insight from my own painful but redemptive recovery journey.
I have been in practice since 2007 and have been featured on ABC, NBC, and KCAL as an expert psychologist. I work primarily with men who have hit “rock bottom” and would like help getting up. These men are often in crisis when we first meet. The issues I address are typically related to unhealthy sexual behaviors, infidelity, broken relationships, drugs/alcohol, dishonesty/lying, financial recklessness, and gambling. My therapy approach is a combination of psychoanalytic, cognitive-behavioral, and the 12-Step recovery model. I also share insight from my own painful but redemptive recovery journey.
(310) 409-1297 View (310) 409-1297
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Russell Beebe
Licensed Professional Counselor, LCMHC, CSAT
Online Only
Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT) helping men struggling with sexual addiction and/or porn addiction stop their compulsive sexual behavior and live healthy productive lives.
I specialize in helping men overcome porn addiction, sexual addiction, and compulsive sexual behavior through a structured, supportive recovery coaching program.
Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT) helping men struggling with sexual addiction and/or porn addiction stop their compulsive sexual behavior and live healthy productive lives.
I specialize in helping men overcome porn addiction, sexual addiction, and compulsive sexual behavior through a structured, supportive recovery coaching program.
(657) 888-0784 View (657) 888-0784
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Men's Issues - Dr. Dean
Psychologist, PsyD, QME, Author
San Jose, CA 95113
I have been in practice since 2007 and have been featured on ABC, NBC, and KCAL as an expert psychologist. I work primarily with men who have hit “rock bottom” and would like help getting up. These men are often in crisis when we first meet. The issues I address are typically related to unhealthy sexual behaviors, infidelity, broken relationships, drugs/alcohol, dishonesty/lying, financial recklessness, and gambling. My therapy approach is a combination of psychoanalytic, cognitive-behavioral, and the 12-Step recovery model. I also share insight from my own painful but redemptive recovery journey.
I have been in practice since 2007 and have been featured on ABC, NBC, and KCAL as an expert psychologist. I work primarily with men who have hit “rock bottom” and would like help getting up. These men are often in crisis when we first meet. The issues I address are typically related to unhealthy sexual behaviors, infidelity, broken relationships, drugs/alcohol, dishonesty/lying, financial recklessness, and gambling. My therapy approach is a combination of psychoanalytic, cognitive-behavioral, and the 12-Step recovery model. I also share insight from my own painful but redemptive recovery journey.
(408) 762-4288 View (408) 762-4288
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Brian La Roy Jones
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Are you tired of feeling rejected, lonely, confused, anxious, depressed, or just plain stuck? If so, then I can show you how you can experience feeling connected, peaceful, empowered, energized, and feeling good. I'm not in the “symptom reduction” business – like most therapists. Whether you're a teen, adult, or couple, my focus is helping clients just like you experience MORE. Picture experiencing not just less of something but more...hope, love, self-control, happiness, fulfillment, freedom, confidence, affection, compassion, trust, acceptance, validation, and feeling understood.
Are you tired of feeling rejected, lonely, confused, anxious, depressed, or just plain stuck? If so, then I can show you how you can experience feeling connected, peaceful, empowered, energized, and feeling good. I'm not in the “symptom reduction” business – like most therapists. Whether you're a teen, adult, or couple, my focus is helping clients just like you experience MORE. Picture experiencing not just less of something but more...hope, love, self-control, happiness, fulfillment, freedom, confidence, affection, compassion, trust, acceptance, validation, and feeling understood.
(510) 288-7652 View (510) 288-7652
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Joe Saavedra
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CSAT, CMAT, CCTP, SATP
1 Endorsed
Online Only
As a Certified Sexual Addiction Therapist (CSAT), I hold extensive expertise in treating those affected by compulsive sexual behavior having gone through my own recovery journey from sex, porn, and relationship addiction.
As a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT) and Certified Clinical Trauma Professional (CCTP) trained in IFS, I am absolutely passionate about helping those impacted by sexual integrity issues. I work with "addicted parts" using individual, couple, and group therapy modalities. I am quite aware of relational trauma that partners of sex, porn, and relationship addicts experience, and I compassionately work to guide addicted parts through isolating and shame-filled experiences. My role is to help reduce this shame and systematically get to the root of the addictive and compulsive behaviors that have led to intimacy disorder issues.
As a Certified Sexual Addiction Therapist (CSAT), I hold extensive expertise in treating those affected by compulsive sexual behavior having gone through my own recovery journey from sex, porn, and relationship addiction.
As a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT) and Certified Clinical Trauma Professional (CCTP) trained in IFS, I am absolutely passionate about helping those impacted by sexual integrity issues. I work with "addicted parts" using individual, couple, and group therapy modalities. I am quite aware of relational trauma that partners of sex, porn, and relationship addicts experience, and I compassionately work to guide addicted parts through isolating and shame-filled experiences. My role is to help reduce this shame and systematically get to the root of the addictive and compulsive behaviors that have led to intimacy disorder issues.
(657) 534-7146 View (657) 534-7146
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Jeff McIntosh
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT
Brentwood, CA 94513
I have been providing professional therapeutic services to a wide range of individuals, couples, and families for over 20 years. My current specialized areas of interest are life transitions, mindfulness with teens, trauma healing using EMDR, and recovery from sexual abuse and addiction.
I have been providing professional therapeutic services to a wide range of individuals, couples, and families for over 20 years. My current specialized areas of interest are life transitions, mindfulness with teens, trauma healing using EMDR, and recovery from sexual abuse and addiction.
(925) 241-5200 View (925) 241-5200
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Janet E Akyol
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CSAT, CPTT, CMAT
7 Endorsed
Online Only
Telehealth appointments via confidential, HIPAA-compliant system. Experienced therapist helping clients with intimacy disorders, betrayal trauma, behavioral addictions, trauma and couples therapy. Therapy can help you to make the changes you want, support you toward becoming the person you strive to be, and encourage you to live the life you choose. There is hope, there is help, there are options.
Telehealth appointments via confidential, HIPAA-compliant system. Experienced therapist helping clients with intimacy disorders, betrayal trauma, behavioral addictions, trauma and couples therapy. Therapy can help you to make the changes you want, support you toward becoming the person you strive to be, and encourage you to live the life you choose. There is hope, there is help, there are options.
(408) 872-9630 View (408) 872-9630

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Sexual Addiction Therapists
When should someone seek treatment for sex addiction?
People should seek treatment for sex addiction if they cannot control their sexual thoughts or behaviours to the point that it disrupts their ability to function in daily life, for example by threatening their finances, career, or relationships. This may include spending an excessive amount of time obsessing over sex, planning sex, watching pornography, or masturbating, as well as consistently engaging in risky sexual activities, using sex to escape distressing feelings, or attempting yet failing to control sexual behavior.

What are the most common treatment options for sex addiction?
Psychotherapy is the most common treatment for sex addiction; therapy helps patients better understand their compulsive thoughts and behaviors and develop strategies to manage their desires. Therapy may be supplemented by medications, such as antidepressants, mood stabilizers, anti-androgens, and the alcohol and substance use medication Naltrexone, as well as support groups, such as 12-step programs.

How long does therapy take for sex addiction?
Recovering from compulsive behavior takes time and effort. There’s no precise timeline for treatment, but research suggests 12 therapy sessions may be enough to see change. Treatment for sexual compulsions requires honesty in therapy, a commitment to understanding triggers and developing coping skills, and potential lifestyle changes such as cutting out alcohol or drugs.

What if sex addiction is left untreated?
Compulsive sexual behavior can have serious repercussions if left unaddressed. For example, if sexual obsessions consume the vast majority of a person’s time, they may lose their job. If they can’t stop paying for sex, their finances may suffer. If they’re dishonest in their relationships, their partner may leave them. If they consistently feel shame, they may struggle with anxiety, depression, or loneliness. Therapy can help people develop the tools to manage sexual thoughts and behaviors that feel uncontrollable.