Men's Issues Therapists in San Lorenzo, CA
Laura Goossens
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
3 Endorsed
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
My practice & sliding scale spots are full. Please message for waitlist. Talk Less; Change More. Hello, I'm Laura. I'm passionate about helping people improve their Present by addressing their Past. People describe my style as collaborative, warm, direct, goal-focused, thorough, & patient. I help clients in their work toward self-esteem, healthy relationships, grounded communication, stress management, improved mood, and access to services/resources. Communities I belong to and serve: disabled/chronic illness, sex positive, kink/polyam/alt lifestyle, genderqueer, fat positive, and neurodivergent folks. Free 30-minute video consult.
My practice & sliding scale spots are full. Please message for waitlist. Talk Less; Change More. Hello, I'm Laura. I'm passionate about helping people improve their Present by addressing their Past. People describe my style as collaborative, warm, direct, goal-focused, thorough, & patient. I help clients in their work toward self-esteem, healthy relationships, grounded communication, stress management, improved mood, and access to services/resources. Communities I belong to and serve: disabled/chronic illness, sex positive, kink/polyam/alt lifestyle, genderqueer, fat positive, and neurodivergent folks. Free 30-minute video consult.
Hello, I'm Erik Kahn, a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist 146734. My approach to therapy is compassionate and collaborative, focusing on helping you navigate challenges and rediscover joy in your life. I specialize in relationship issues, stress management, and personal growth, and I'm here to support you in achieving a fulfilling and balanced life.
Hello, I'm Erik Kahn, a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist 146734. My approach to therapy is compassionate and collaborative, focusing on helping you navigate challenges and rediscover joy in your life. I specialize in relationship issues, stress management, and personal growth, and I'm here to support you in achieving a fulfilling and balanced life.
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You may be an artist. You may be an academic. You may be an activist. I have been all three of these, and I speak their languages: of creativity, intellectual enlivenment, and social justice. And right now, in this time of upheaval and unrest, you may be hurting--feeling lost, adrift, burned out, under- or over-stimulated, or simply sad. I am here to connect with you. To listen compassionately. To make space for you to better hear yourself, and to encourage linkages, mentalizations, and trauma metabolizations that will allow you to better listen to the rhythms of your body and use your own mind. I offer you my mind in this pursuit.
You may be an artist. You may be an academic. You may be an activist. I have been all three of these, and I speak their languages: of creativity, intellectual enlivenment, and social justice. And right now, in this time of upheaval and unrest, you may be hurting--feeling lost, adrift, burned out, under- or over-stimulated, or simply sad. I am here to connect with you. To listen compassionately. To make space for you to better hear yourself, and to encourage linkages, mentalizations, and trauma metabolizations that will allow you to better listen to the rhythms of your body and use your own mind. I offer you my mind in this pursuit.
Ariel G - Couples & Relationship
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
12 Endorsed
Oakland, CA 94610
When it comes to your relationships, you often find yourself doing verbal somersaults around difficult conversations, exhausting yourself to keep the peace. In those moments, a part of you is working incredibly hard to prevent things from falling apart, relying on an old rule that connection is maintained by leaving yourself out. But later on, another part rushes in feeling angry and resentful that you didn't say what you actually felt. Whether you are trapped in this loop or navigating a breakup it caused, you're left feeling further from yourself than ever.
When it comes to your relationships, you often find yourself doing verbal somersaults around difficult conversations, exhausting yourself to keep the peace. In those moments, a part of you is working incredibly hard to prevent things from falling apart, relying on an old rule that connection is maintained by leaving yourself out. But later on, another part rushes in feeling angry and resentful that you didn't say what you actually felt. Whether you are trapped in this loop or navigating a breakup it caused, you're left feeling further from yourself than ever.
Kevin
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, MS, LPCC
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
Maybe you've been feeling stuck: caught in a loop of overthinking, anxiety, or low mood. Perhaps you're going through a big life change, like struggling with school or work, or feeling overwhelmed and disconnected from the things you used to enjoy. Whatever you're facing, you're not alone and support is available.
I’m a therapist who works with people navigating stress, anxiety, depression, life transitions, and the effects of trauma. I also specialize in working with individuals who think and experience the world differently, including those who are neurodivergent or on the autism spectrum.
Maybe you've been feeling stuck: caught in a loop of overthinking, anxiety, or low mood. Perhaps you're going through a big life change, like struggling with school or work, or feeling overwhelmed and disconnected from the things you used to enjoy. Whatever you're facing, you're not alone and support is available.
I’m a therapist who works with people navigating stress, anxiety, depression, life transitions, and the effects of trauma. I also specialize in working with individuals who think and experience the world differently, including those who are neurodivergent or on the autism spectrum.
You're at a point where the usual answers aren't working anymore. Maybe something has cracked open — a loss, a relationship ending, a faith that no longer holds, a life that no longer fits. Maybe you've carried something heavy for so long you've forgotten what it feels like to put it down. You're not looking for a quick fix. You want to be genuinely understood. You're ready to look honestly at your patterns, your grief, your longings. You may be navigating a major transition or spiritual crisis. You want a space where your culture, spirituality, body, and psychology are all welcome.
You're at a point where the usual answers aren't working anymore. Maybe something has cracked open — a loss, a relationship ending, a faith that no longer holds, a life that no longer fits. Maybe you've carried something heavy for so long you've forgotten what it feels like to put it down. You're not looking for a quick fix. You want to be genuinely understood. You're ready to look honestly at your patterns, your grief, your longings. You may be navigating a major transition or spiritual crisis. You want a space where your culture, spirituality, body, and psychology are all welcome.
Welcome. Virtual and in person sessions available. My individual and couple clients are motivated for change, open to self-exploration, and committed to growth. They value empathy, trust, and collaboration, seeking a safe space to express themselves without judgment. Their goals include gaining insight into their difficulties, developing coping skills, and fostering personal growth. They want to overcome obstacles, heal past wounds, and/or to find greater happiness and fulfillment in their lives.
Welcome. Virtual and in person sessions available. My individual and couple clients are motivated for change, open to self-exploration, and committed to growth. They value empathy, trust, and collaboration, seeking a safe space to express themselves without judgment. Their goals include gaining insight into their difficulties, developing coping skills, and fostering personal growth. They want to overcome obstacles, heal past wounds, and/or to find greater happiness and fulfillment in their lives.
I welcome a variety of clients, primarily working with adults, couples, and families. Clients describe me as warm, caring, and direct. My practice focuses on the treatment of trauma, PTSD, Complex PTSD, depression, anxiety, and relational difficulties.
I welcome a variety of clients, primarily working with adults, couples, and families. Clients describe me as warm, caring, and direct. My practice focuses on the treatment of trauma, PTSD, Complex PTSD, depression, anxiety, and relational difficulties.
Many men have learned to carry stress silently, stay strong no matter what, and push through without ever having a real space to process what they’re feeling. Over time, that pressure can show up as anxiety, relationship conflict, irritability, disconnection, or feeling stuck without knowing why. Therapy can be a place where you no longer have to figure it all out alone.
Many men have learned to carry stress silently, stay strong no matter what, and push through without ever having a real space to process what they’re feeling. Over time, that pressure can show up as anxiety, relationship conflict, irritability, disconnection, or feeling stuck without knowing why. Therapy can be a place where you no longer have to figure it all out alone.
Perhaps you, like so many today, are experiencing increased anxiety and/or depression, or are experiencing strained relationships. Or perhaps old dysfunctional coping habits have worsened and made you feel stuck. Whatever you are dealing with, I will assist you through a process that will lead to more emotional control, more connectedness and more self compassion. I do follow the tenet that "life must be understood backwards, but lived forwards" (Soren Kierkegaard). We will work with current issues with the focus on improved well being, but will examine past patterns to help guide our work forward to growth and change.
Perhaps you, like so many today, are experiencing increased anxiety and/or depression, or are experiencing strained relationships. Or perhaps old dysfunctional coping habits have worsened and made you feel stuck. Whatever you are dealing with, I will assist you through a process that will lead to more emotional control, more connectedness and more self compassion. I do follow the tenet that "life must be understood backwards, but lived forwards" (Soren Kierkegaard). We will work with current issues with the focus on improved well being, but will examine past patterns to help guide our work forward to growth and change.
The clients I work with are typically capable, driven professionals (often working in tech), who feels stuck in patterns they can intellectually understand but haven’t been able to change. They may struggle with overthinking, anxiety, procrastination, workaholism, or relationship strain, and feel frustrated that insight alone hasn’t translated into action. What they want is clarity, momentum, and relief—not by avoiding discomfort, but by building skills and changing how they think, respond, and operate day to day. Their goal is to feel more relaxed and confident, build healthy relationships, and to create a more fulfilling life.
The clients I work with are typically capable, driven professionals (often working in tech), who feels stuck in patterns they can intellectually understand but haven’t been able to change. They may struggle with overthinking, anxiety, procrastination, workaholism, or relationship strain, and feel frustrated that insight alone hasn’t translated into action. What they want is clarity, momentum, and relief—not by avoiding discomfort, but by building skills and changing how they think, respond, and operate day to day. Their goal is to feel more relaxed and confident, build healthy relationships, and to create a more fulfilling life.
My specialties include complex trauma, childhood abuse/neglect, borderline personality disorder, healing from abusive relationships, codependency & boundaries, substance use disorders, masculinity & men's issues, grief & loss, spirituality, mindfulness, & cultural minority issues such as family conflict, intergenerational trauma, cultural identity & racism.
I specialize in complex trauma. People with abusive/neglectful parents or partners or who grew up in unsafe & unstable environments can develop issues with trusting themselves, have difficulty maintaining relationships, people please & deprioritize their own needs, are uncomfortable with vulnerability, struggle with an inner critic, vacillate between depression & anxiety, lack a solid sense of identity, or feel a sense of emptiness when their lives seem great on paper. I take an evidence-based approach to help build insight, boundaries, self-compassion & acceptance to free themselves & live more fulfilling lives based on intention.
My specialties include complex trauma, childhood abuse/neglect, borderline personality disorder, healing from abusive relationships, codependency & boundaries, substance use disorders, masculinity & men's issues, grief & loss, spirituality, mindfulness, & cultural minority issues such as family conflict, intergenerational trauma, cultural identity & racism.
I specialize in complex trauma. People with abusive/neglectful parents or partners or who grew up in unsafe & unstable environments can develop issues with trusting themselves, have difficulty maintaining relationships, people please & deprioritize their own needs, are uncomfortable with vulnerability, struggle with an inner critic, vacillate between depression & anxiety, lack a solid sense of identity, or feel a sense of emptiness when their lives seem great on paper. I take an evidence-based approach to help build insight, boundaries, self-compassion & acceptance to free themselves & live more fulfilling lives based on intention.
Accepting NEW clients! I am deeply motivated to contribute to the underrepresented number of male therapists available to support men and men of color. As an Associated Clinical Social Worker with 15 years of community-based experience, I have dedicated myself to working with at-risk children/teens and system-impacted families in underserved communities. I firmly believe that with the right attitude, willingness, and a seed of faith, we can effectively navigate our trials. My approach to therapy is deeply personalized and rooted in integrity and human connection.
Accepting NEW clients! I am deeply motivated to contribute to the underrepresented number of male therapists available to support men and men of color. As an Associated Clinical Social Worker with 15 years of community-based experience, I have dedicated myself to working with at-risk children/teens and system-impacted families in underserved communities. I firmly believe that with the right attitude, willingness, and a seed of faith, we can effectively navigate our trials. My approach to therapy is deeply personalized and rooted in integrity and human connection.
You are a high-performing man carrying quiet burdens—self-doubt, chronic stress, relationship strain, or the fear that you are one misstep away from falling apart. You are successful on paper yet struggle to slow down, feel connected, or trust yourself. You want relief, clarity, and a more grounded way of leading your life. Most of all, you want to feel whole again. Together, we uncover the patterns driving your struggles and help you build an aligned, authentic, and sustainable path forward.
You are a high-performing man carrying quiet burdens—self-doubt, chronic stress, relationship strain, or the fear that you are one misstep away from falling apart. You are successful on paper yet struggle to slow down, feel connected, or trust yourself. You want relief, clarity, and a more grounded way of leading your life. Most of all, you want to feel whole again. Together, we uncover the patterns driving your struggles and help you build an aligned, authentic, and sustainable path forward.
Do you struggle with feeling like you belong? Are you carrying hurts and wounds from your family of origin or other close relationships? Do you wonder about your purpose and the meaning of your life? Or maybe you have worked hard on yourself throughout your life, but still struggle to connect with others or lead a life that has intention and meaning. I would be happy to meet with you and hear more about your situation and what you believe is blocking you. Together we can explore what holds you back and create a plan to engage your life in a way that feels more purpose driven and connected to your unique soul.
Do you struggle with feeling like you belong? Are you carrying hurts and wounds from your family of origin or other close relationships? Do you wonder about your purpose and the meaning of your life? Or maybe you have worked hard on yourself throughout your life, but still struggle to connect with others or lead a life that has intention and meaning. I would be happy to meet with you and hear more about your situation and what you believe is blocking you. Together we can explore what holds you back and create a plan to engage your life in a way that feels more purpose driven and connected to your unique soul.
As the world becomes more complex, we can often feel like we are falling behind. New technologies, the state of the world, and the ways in which we communicate with one another all pose new challenges in our lives. My goal is to support you in identifying the pressure points in your life as we define what healing looks like to you. I work with adults of all ages who are feeling stuck in their relationship patterns or who are navigating life transitions and the anxiety and worry these transitions uncover.
As the world becomes more complex, we can often feel like we are falling behind. New technologies, the state of the world, and the ways in which we communicate with one another all pose new challenges in our lives. My goal is to support you in identifying the pressure points in your life as we define what healing looks like to you. I work with adults of all ages who are feeling stuck in their relationship patterns or who are navigating life transitions and the anxiety and worry these transitions uncover.
I specialize in anxiety, depression, addiction, trauma, men's issues, sports psychology, and young adult mental health.
Have you checked every box society said would make you happy — the career, the title, the relationships — yet find yourself quietly wondering, "Is this really it?" You're not alone. Many people I work with arrive feeling exhausted, uninspired, and hungry for something more meaningful.
Whether you're navigating loss, relationship strain, a career crossroads, or destructive patterns holding you back, I'd love to walk alongside you. My approach is warm but direct — I'll respect your story and help you build a life rooted in your values, goals, and vision of what's possible. individual, couples and family therapy are available.
I specialize in anxiety, depression, addiction, trauma, men's issues, sports psychology, and young adult mental health.
Have you checked every box society said would make you happy — the career, the title, the relationships — yet find yourself quietly wondering, "Is this really it?" You're not alone. Many people I work with arrive feeling exhausted, uninspired, and hungry for something more meaningful.
Whether you're navigating loss, relationship strain, a career crossroads, or destructive patterns holding you back, I'd love to walk alongside you. My approach is warm but direct — I'll respect your story and help you build a life rooted in your values, goals, and vision of what's possible. individual, couples and family therapy are available.
My areas of focus include anxiety, depression, substance use, couples, trauma, life transitions, men's issues, personal & professional relationships, and Veteran needs.
I view therapy as a unique relationship between the therapist and the client. Therapy is a process that fosters acceptance and change of the challenges people face and helps provide clarity. My goal is to help create a safe place to explore thoughts, feelings, and experiences that cause you pain, which may lead to difficulties in relationships, work, and/or daily life. Through this process we will create goals and a plan to reach your specific goals. My approach is genuine, compassionate, and non-judgmental. As a therapist, I bring over 20 years of experience working with individuals from many walks of life.
My areas of focus include anxiety, depression, substance use, couples, trauma, life transitions, men's issues, personal & professional relationships, and Veteran needs.
I view therapy as a unique relationship between the therapist and the client. Therapy is a process that fosters acceptance and change of the challenges people face and helps provide clarity. My goal is to help create a safe place to explore thoughts, feelings, and experiences that cause you pain, which may lead to difficulties in relationships, work, and/or daily life. Through this process we will create goals and a plan to reach your specific goals. My approach is genuine, compassionate, and non-judgmental. As a therapist, I bring over 20 years of experience working with individuals from many walks of life.
Hi! Im Meaghan, I’m a somatic and attachment-focused therapist with 14+ years of experience helping individuals, teens, and families heal from anxiety, trauma, depression, grief, and more. I work holistically — not just with your thoughts and feelings, but with your body and nervous system — the place where trauma and past experiences is stored. If you feel stuck, maybe you seem fine from the outside, but you're still repeating the same patterns, somatic therapy might be the missing piece. Let’s connect and see if it’s a good fit!
Hi! Im Meaghan, I’m a somatic and attachment-focused therapist with 14+ years of experience helping individuals, teens, and families heal from anxiety, trauma, depression, grief, and more. I work holistically — not just with your thoughts and feelings, but with your body and nervous system — the place where trauma and past experiences is stored. If you feel stuck, maybe you seem fine from the outside, but you're still repeating the same patterns, somatic therapy might be the missing piece. Let’s connect and see if it’s a good fit!
Many thoughtful and capable people, especially men, find themselves stuck in relationship patterns they don’t fully understand. You may be here because conflict with a partner keeps repeating, or because an important relationship no longer feels stable. Others come during a period of reflection, wanting to take stock of where they are in life and decide what comes next. Whether you are seeking individual therapy or couples therapy, this can be a place to slow down, gain clarity, and begin moving forward.
Many thoughtful and capable people, especially men, find themselves stuck in relationship patterns they don’t fully understand. You may be here because conflict with a partner keeps repeating, or because an important relationship no longer feels stable. Others come during a period of reflection, wanting to take stock of where they are in life and decide what comes next. Whether you are seeking individual therapy or couples therapy, this can be a place to slow down, gain clarity, and begin moving forward.
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Men's Issues Therapists
Is therapy for men different than it is for women?
Therapeutic treatments and types are the same for men as they are for women, with the same protocols followed and the same strategies employed. Discussing one’s feelings and emotions is an integral part of most therapies, and some men find doing so more challenging. Therapists can help clients through the process; some specialize in treating men for this reason.
How do you encourage a man to go to therapy?
It’s helpful to express your concern and love for the person while framing therapy as a tool for improving their life. Offering specific examples of how an individual’s behavior affected either himself or others should be done with compassion and with empathy. It may be useful to devise a game plan—breaking the process down into parts, such as finding a therapist, making appointments, and looking into insurance coverage.
How can men prepare for therapy?
Men can prepare for therapy by approaching the process with an open mind, being willing to talk about their challenges, and giving treatment the time to work. Before a session, an individual may want to reflect on how they’ve felt since the last session and what’s happened in their lives. It can be useful for men who struggle to recall their emotional states to write down notes between sessions about their response to a given event or how they were feeling at a particular time.
What should men know about the process of therapy?
One of the most common reasons men don’t seek therapy is the notion that there’s something wrong with them if they do. Men should know that just because they’re seeking therapy doesn’t mean they’re mentally ill or damaged in some way. In the same way people work on their bodies through exercise or a craft through practice, therapy can be a way to improve the mental and emotional skills needed to be productive and effective partners, employees, and people in all realms of life.