Sex Therapists in San Jose, CA

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Lauren Consul
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, JD
13 Endorsed
Online Only
If you're facing challenges or exploring issues around sex, infidelity, non-monogamy, or feeling disconnected in your relationship, you're not alone.
My expertise is helping people, like you, have more satisfying and secure sex and relationships. As an AASECT certified sex therapist nothing is off-limits for discussion. This is a safe place. I also have advanced training in Emotionally Focused therapy. Together we will identify and address the underlying issues and create a plan to move forward.
If you're facing challenges or exploring issues around sex, infidelity, non-monogamy, or feeling disconnected in your relationship, you're not alone.
My expertise is helping people, like you, have more satisfying and secure sex and relationships. As an AASECT certified sex therapist nothing is off-limits for discussion. This is a safe place. I also have advanced training in Emotionally Focused therapy. Together we will identify and address the underlying issues and create a plan to move forward.
(562) 247-3114 View (562) 247-3114
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Amanda Walters
Psychologist, PsyD
8 Endorsed
Online Only
I specialize in sex therapy, which means that I enjoy working with individuals and people in relationships who may be struggling with any sex-related issues.
A lot of people struggle with some aspect of their sexuality, but they may find it difficult to talk about their problems, fears, or concerns with anyone. I am very open to hearing whatever is going on in your life and I'm not afraid to talk about sex. As a sex therapist, I know a lot about sex and sexuality and I can use this knowledge to help!
I specialize in sex therapy, which means that I enjoy working with individuals and people in relationships who may be struggling with any sex-related issues.
A lot of people struggle with some aspect of their sexuality, but they may find it difficult to talk about their problems, fears, or concerns with anyone. I am very open to hearing whatever is going on in your life and I'm not afraid to talk about sex. As a sex therapist, I know a lot about sex and sexuality and I can use this knowledge to help!
(408) 317-1302 View (408) 317-1302
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Misty Johnson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MSW, WGS
6 Endorsed
San Jose, CA 95126
Sex and intimacy struggles?
I am a sex-positive therapist. I offer deep presence without judgement. I am committed to arrive with authenticity and without agenda. I also specialize in working with the queer community, trans community, kink community, as well as working with poly, polyamory, and ethically non-monogamous ( ENM ) folks. I also support psychedelic integration work.
Sex and intimacy struggles?
I am a sex-positive therapist. I offer deep presence without judgement. I am committed to arrive with authenticity and without agenda. I also specialize in working with the queer community, trans community, kink community, as well as working with poly, polyamory, and ethically non-monogamous ( ENM ) folks. I also support psychedelic integration work.
(408) 583-5606 View (408) 583-5606
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Kate Sutton
Psychologist, PhD
1 Endorsed
San Jose, CA 95120
Let’s talk about sex and relationships!
I am passionate about working with sexual & relationship difficulties because they are so important to life satisfaction. I provide a safe and welcoming space to discuss anything from sexual/relationship issues postpartum, to gender dysphoria, making good sex great, erectile problems, pain during sex, kink, or disturbing sexual interests.
Let’s talk about sex and relationships!
I am passionate about working with sexual & relationship difficulties because they are so important to life satisfaction. I provide a safe and welcoming space to discuss anything from sexual/relationship issues postpartum, to gender dysphoria, making good sex great, erectile problems, pain during sex, kink, or disturbing sexual interests.
(510) 513-4410 View (510) 513-4410
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Dr. Gabe Veas
Marriage & Family Therapist, EdD, MA, LMFT, ABS
Online Only
My name is Dr. Gabe Veas, and I find joy in helping individuals, couples, and families pursue their mental health goals in a non-blaming and non-shaming manner. My primary work has assisted clients in exploring their identities by dynamically utilizing online psychotherapy. I incorporated photos, music, and art into the treatment to help clients deconstruct their narratives. I am committed to lifelong learning by holding membership with several professional groups, including the American Association for Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists, which assists me in helping clients experience sexual health, freedom, and healing.
My name is Dr. Gabe Veas, and I find joy in helping individuals, couples, and families pursue their mental health goals in a non-blaming and non-shaming manner. My primary work has assisted clients in exploring their identities by dynamically utilizing online psychotherapy. I incorporated photos, music, and art into the treatment to help clients deconstruct their narratives. I am committed to lifelong learning by holding membership with several professional groups, including the American Association for Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists, which assists me in helping clients experience sexual health, freedom, and healing.
(760) 756-4183 View (760) 756-4183
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Bryna Barsky
Psychologist, PhD
1 Endorsed
Online Only
I also specialize in sex therapy and help couples and individuals struggling with: low desire, desire discrepancy, sexual trauma, difficulty with arousal/orgasm, painful sex, inability to accomplish penetration, and erection/ejaculation problems.
Welcome to my practice. I have over 30 years of experience providing therapy to individuals and couples from very diverse backgrounds with regards to ethnicity, religion, age, country of origin, and sexual orientation. The therapy I do tends to be short-term, "here-and-now" focused, goal oriented, and skills based. I believe my clients want to change their behaviors, and not just "talk" about what's going wrong. My therapeutic style is collaborative, non-judgmental, warm and compassionate. I'm not a "one size fits all" therapist because every client is unique. I offer a Good Faith Estimate at the client's request.
I also specialize in sex therapy and help couples and individuals struggling with: low desire, desire discrepancy, sexual trauma, difficulty with arousal/orgasm, painful sex, inability to accomplish penetration, and erection/ejaculation problems.
Welcome to my practice. I have over 30 years of experience providing therapy to individuals and couples from very diverse backgrounds with regards to ethnicity, religion, age, country of origin, and sexual orientation. The therapy I do tends to be short-term, "here-and-now" focused, goal oriented, and skills based. I believe my clients want to change their behaviors, and not just "talk" about what's going wrong. My therapeutic style is collaborative, non-judgmental, warm and compassionate. I'm not a "one size fits all" therapist because every client is unique. I offer a Good Faith Estimate at the client's request.
(510) 730-3704 View (510) 730-3704
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Liz Dietrich
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
San Jose, CA 95112
I offer EMDR, Sex Therapy, EFT for Couples, and psychodynamic process groups, all from a relational, psychodynamic orientation.
I love working with clients who are curious about what more there is to experience in this life, who are ready to do the work of diving within in order to heal past wounds and create a life that they truly love. Sometimes trauma, relationship problems, work, or other life circumstances can result in our lives shrinking. We can become fearful or lose touch with what it is that we love, prioritizing other things. I'm committed to walking with you while you get back to yourself by processing all that you've been through.
I offer EMDR, Sex Therapy, EFT for Couples, and psychodynamic process groups, all from a relational, psychodynamic orientation.
I love working with clients who are curious about what more there is to experience in this life, who are ready to do the work of diving within in order to heal past wounds and create a life that they truly love. Sometimes trauma, relationship problems, work, or other life circumstances can result in our lives shrinking. We can become fearful or lose touch with what it is that we love, prioritizing other things. I'm committed to walking with you while you get back to yourself by processing all that you've been through.
(650) 664-3116 View (650) 664-3116
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Andrea Stocker
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
1 Endorsed
Online Only
I am specializing in Sex therapy and Eating disorders.
The only way to make sense out of change is to plunge into it, move with it, and join the dance -Alan Watts I am here to help you, this is your time. Whether you need someone to vent to, someone to help you set goals, or coping skills, I am here to help you. I have a very easy going approach that makes me easy to talk to and open up to. I also have a variety of lived experience that helps me connect with you. I want you to be comfortable and I cater my sessions to you.
I am specializing in Sex therapy and Eating disorders.
The only way to make sense out of change is to plunge into it, move with it, and join the dance -Alan Watts I am here to help you, this is your time. Whether you need someone to vent to, someone to help you set goals, or coping skills, I am here to help you. I have a very easy going approach that makes me easy to talk to and open up to. I also have a variety of lived experience that helps me connect with you. I want you to be comfortable and I cater my sessions to you.
(760) 350-1647 View (760) 350-1647
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Nina Marikian
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Emotional disconnection, infidelity, sex related issues.
I specialize in helping individuals and couples navigate emotional and sexual challenges with a focus on trauma-informed care, attachment-based therapy, and sex therapy. I often work with clients on issues related to communication issues, high conflict, emotional disconnection, sexual dysfunction, desire discrepancy, infidelity, and more.
Emotional disconnection, infidelity, sex related issues.
I specialize in helping individuals and couples navigate emotional and sexual challenges with a focus on trauma-informed care, attachment-based therapy, and sex therapy. I often work with clients on issues related to communication issues, high conflict, emotional disconnection, sexual dysfunction, desire discrepancy, infidelity, and more.
(424) 622-8124 View (424) 622-8124
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Jose Pinal
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CST
3 Endorsed
Serves Area
Providing individual therapy and couple's therapy, I address complex issues related to sex, sexuality, mismatched sexual desires, and sexual dysfunctions.
I'm a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist based in California and a certified Sex Therapist by the American Association of Sexuality Educators Counselors and Therapists. Also, I'm furthering my expertise in Emotionally Focused Therapy, aspiring to gain certification from The International Centre for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy.
Providing individual therapy and couple's therapy, I address complex issues related to sex, sexuality, mismatched sexual desires, and sexual dysfunctions.
I'm a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist based in California and a certified Sex Therapist by the American Association of Sexuality Educators Counselors and Therapists. Also, I'm furthering my expertise in Emotionally Focused Therapy, aspiring to gain certification from The International Centre for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy.
(209) 219-2306 View (209) 219-2306
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You Rule Therapy | sex, drugs + therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CST
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
You Rule Therapy (YRT) offers treatment from a Harm Reduction perspective that allows you to: set short and long-term goals regarding substance use; learn about the substances that you would like to change your relationship to; design a plan to change the way you use substances; explore sex- and drug- linked behavior.
Cynthia and the team of YRT Associates at specialize in substance use harm reduction, sex therapy, and treating compulsive/"out of control" sexual behavior. We enthusiastically welcome clients across gender and sexuality spectrums, as well as those who engage in consensual sexual behaviors including, but not limited to, kink and polyamory.
You Rule Therapy (YRT) offers treatment from a Harm Reduction perspective that allows you to: set short and long-term goals regarding substance use; learn about the substances that you would like to change your relationship to; design a plan to change the way you use substances; explore sex- and drug- linked behavior.
Cynthia and the team of YRT Associates at specialize in substance use harm reduction, sex therapy, and treating compulsive/"out of control" sexual behavior. We enthusiastically welcome clients across gender and sexuality spectrums, as well as those who engage in consensual sexual behaviors including, but not limited to, kink and polyamory.
(415) 997-2448 View (415) 997-2448
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Sexual Addiction Sex Misbehavior Infidelity Expert
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, SOTS
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Main issues I help clients with is needing an experienced clinical expert with 27 years in correcting the thinking and behaviors of infidelity cheating, paid sex, "seeking arrangements", and countless other types of sexual addiction type behaviors so that destructive choices are not repeated.
I will help you protect the life you love from these self destructive choices. Sexual addiction elite level expert 28 years 45k hours sexual misbehavior specialist psychotherapy provided. You and I will use evidence based research oriented methods on the Infidelity Cheating Affairs, Prostitution, Seeking Arrangements, Sugar Daddy, Strip Clubs, Massage Parlors, OnlyFans, Certified Specialist. I created government funded sexual misbehavior programs utilizing highly effective clinical models and use the most up to date understandings to change distorted thinking and end these misbehaviors, heal your relationships, and enjoy your life.
Main issues I help clients with is needing an experienced clinical expert with 27 years in correcting the thinking and behaviors of infidelity cheating, paid sex, "seeking arrangements", and countless other types of sexual addiction type behaviors so that destructive choices are not repeated.
I will help you protect the life you love from these self destructive choices. Sexual addiction elite level expert 28 years 45k hours sexual misbehavior specialist psychotherapy provided. You and I will use evidence based research oriented methods on the Infidelity Cheating Affairs, Prostitution, Seeking Arrangements, Sugar Daddy, Strip Clubs, Massage Parlors, OnlyFans, Certified Specialist. I created government funded sexual misbehavior programs utilizing highly effective clinical models and use the most up to date understandings to change distorted thinking and end these misbehaviors, heal your relationships, and enjoy your life.
(415) 639-5474 View (415) 639-5474
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Dr. Ellen Hersam
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, CST
4 Endorsed
Serves Area
Do you find yourself asking questions about sex, sexual health, sexual relationships, or intimacy?
As a person-centered therapist, I consider each individual, couple, family and their insights and life experiences unique. Working together, I use a variety of therapeutic techniques that invite solution-focused results and incorporate the strengths of my clients. This is a team effort to self-exploration, discovery, and finding hope and optimism in life.
Do you find yourself asking questions about sex, sexual health, sexual relationships, or intimacy?
As a person-centered therapist, I consider each individual, couple, family and their insights and life experiences unique. Working together, I use a variety of therapeutic techniques that invite solution-focused results and incorporate the strengths of my clients. This is a team effort to self-exploration, discovery, and finding hope and optimism in life.
(408) 547-2354 View (408) 547-2354
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Stacie Papineau
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, PhD, LPCC, SEP
Online Only
Sex and intimacy can be difficult to discuss and can result in patterns of pressure and rejection.
You deserve to feel connection, and be satisfied. Sex therapy does that. Therapy can help you show up, break down and rebuild yourself at your pace. It's not always easy, but I can support you to recognize your strengths and gain insight to help improve your sex life and relationships. I have clinical experience with sexual and gender minorities.
Sex and intimacy can be difficult to discuss and can result in patterns of pressure and rejection.
You deserve to feel connection, and be satisfied. Sex therapy does that. Therapy can help you show up, break down and rebuild yourself at your pace. It's not always easy, but I can support you to recognize your strengths and gain insight to help improve your sex life and relationships. I have clinical experience with sexual and gender minorities.
(619) 329-8147 View (619) 329-8147
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Michelle Cherry
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, LPCC
Serves Area
Waitlist for new clients
As a Sex and Relationship Therapist, I support people with their Relationships & Marriages, Sexual Intimacy issues, and Infidelity.
I bring over 15 years of clinical experience to my work. I am trained in EFT, Gottman, Sex Therapy, DBT, and ACT. I teach skills where needed, but also do more depth based work on the origins of adaptations that may no longer be serving you. I have a Sexual Health Certificate in Sex Therapy from University of Michigan.
As a Sex and Relationship Therapist, I support people with their Relationships & Marriages, Sexual Intimacy issues, and Infidelity.
I bring over 15 years of clinical experience to my work. I am trained in EFT, Gottman, Sex Therapy, DBT, and ACT. I teach skills where needed, but also do more depth based work on the origins of adaptations that may no longer be serving you. I have a Sexual Health Certificate in Sex Therapy from University of Michigan.
(408) 539-7634 View (408) 539-7634
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Bella Vida Therapy with Molly Papp
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CSAT, MS, MPH
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
If it's hard to get close to people, you have been shockingly betrayed, or you feel you have an unhealthy relationship with sex, I can help you.
I am a Certified Sex Addiction Counselor, CSAT. I treat sex and porn addicts and am a partner-informed trauma therapist. I also treat all forms of sexual dysfunction, using helpful homework for individuals or couples.
If it's hard to get close to people, you have been shockingly betrayed, or you feel you have an unhealthy relationship with sex, I can help you.
I am a Certified Sex Addiction Counselor, CSAT. I treat sex and porn addicts and am a partner-informed trauma therapist. I also treat all forms of sexual dysfunction, using helpful homework for individuals or couples.
(562) 379-6774 View (562) 379-6774
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Holly Osment
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, LPCC, CST
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
As a certified sex therapist, I use a sex-positive, inclusive approach with these issues.
Life is complex at all ages, but we know that...right? Yet knowing this does not necessarily help or give us direction. In my work, I try to help guide people through this murky life, examine choices and explore options, personal history, and experience. I have a deep respect for my clients, for their wisdom and their struggles. I provide an encouraging and non-judgmental space to look at each unique concern and situation. I often explore the role of meaning and choice in our lives, and how both powerfully (but often invisibly) affect how we live our days.
As a certified sex therapist, I use a sex-positive, inclusive approach with these issues.
Life is complex at all ages, but we know that...right? Yet knowing this does not necessarily help or give us direction. In my work, I try to help guide people through this murky life, examine choices and explore options, personal history, and experience. I have a deep respect for my clients, for their wisdom and their struggles. I provide an encouraging and non-judgmental space to look at each unique concern and situation. I often explore the role of meaning and choice in our lives, and how both powerfully (but often invisibly) affect how we live our days.
(408) 550-5101 View (408) 550-5101
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Ryan Noble
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
I also specialize in providing sex therapy and couples therapy.
Everyone has the potential for growth, healing, and self-discovery. Throughout my work as a therapist, I’ve had the privilege of supporting individuals, couples, and families from diverse backgrounds and experiences. I have witnessed the resilience in each person and seen how therapy can help people channel their unique strengths, resources, and insights to make positive changes. In the therapeutic relationship, I aim to create a safe and supportive environment that empowers those I work with to explore their emotions and experiences and work towards developing greater self-awareness, self-acceptance, and self-confidence.
I also specialize in providing sex therapy and couples therapy.
Everyone has the potential for growth, healing, and self-discovery. Throughout my work as a therapist, I’ve had the privilege of supporting individuals, couples, and families from diverse backgrounds and experiences. I have witnessed the resilience in each person and seen how therapy can help people channel their unique strengths, resources, and insights to make positive changes. In the therapeutic relationship, I aim to create a safe and supportive environment that empowers those I work with to explore their emotions and experiences and work towards developing greater self-awareness, self-acceptance, and self-confidence.
(415) 941-3496 View (415) 941-3496
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Cynthia Haartman: Psychotherapy, EMDR, Sex Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CST
13 Endorsed
Online Only
I am a Certified Sex Therapist, and also Certified in EMDR Therapy.
As an EMDR certified clinician, I am passionate about applying the benefits of EMDR therapy and EMDR intensive programs with clients who are motivated to live without disturbance from their past. I work with anxiety, fear, trauma, and getting past stuck thoughts/negative beliefs. I offer evidence-based therapy for clients, virtually throughout California.
I am a Certified Sex Therapist, and also Certified in EMDR Therapy.
As an EMDR certified clinician, I am passionate about applying the benefits of EMDR therapy and EMDR intensive programs with clients who are motivated to live without disturbance from their past. I work with anxiety, fear, trauma, and getting past stuck thoughts/negative beliefs. I offer evidence-based therapy for clients, virtually throughout California.
(408) 478-3890 View (408) 478-3890
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Lakshmi Jaiprakash
Associate Professional Clinical Counselor, APCC
1 Endorsed
Online Only
I'm an EMDR sex and trauma, couples and women's therapist, who also works from intuitive and somatic lenses.
I specialize in a whole bunch of things. Exploring relational concerns, sex/intimacy, sexuality, alternative relationships (open/poly/non-monogamous), kink/BDSM, sexual shame, sexual abuse/assault is my primary specialty, with individuals or couples/partnerships. I also specialize in trauma therapy and am trained in trauma treatments like EMDR.
I'm an EMDR sex and trauma, couples and women's therapist, who also works from intuitive and somatic lenses.
I specialize in a whole bunch of things. Exploring relational concerns, sex/intimacy, sexuality, alternative relationships (open/poly/non-monogamous), kink/BDSM, sexual shame, sexual abuse/assault is my primary specialty, with individuals or couples/partnerships. I also specialize in trauma therapy and am trained in trauma treatments like EMDR.
(760) 274-0469 View (760) 274-0469

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Sex Therapy

Who is sex therapy for?

Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.

Why do people need sex therapy?

Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.

What happens in sex therapy?

People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.

What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?

Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.