Infidelity Therapists in San Jose, CA
The issues I address are typically related to unhealthy sexual behaviors, infidelity, broken relationships, drugs/alcohol, dishonesty/lying, financial recklessness, and gambling.
My goal for each man I work with is to provide hope and support while facilitating the recovery process. This usually requires us to dig deep and figure out why we engage in destructive behaviors. It also requires us to develop a treatment plan that specifically targets the maladaptive behaviors and reduces the chance of relapse.
The issues I address are typically related to unhealthy sexual behaviors, infidelity, broken relationships, drugs/alcohol, dishonesty/lying, financial recklessness, and gambling.
My goal for each man I work with is to provide hope and support while facilitating the recovery process. This usually requires us to dig deep and figure out why we engage in destructive behaviors. It also requires us to develop a treatment plan that specifically targets the maladaptive behaviors and reduces the chance of relapse.
AVAILABLE ONLINE AND IN PERSON. I specialize in couples therapy/marriage counseling. When working with you as a couple (or individually) I help you build closeness and connection; recover from an affair; give you practical tools to improve your communication and understand what guides your emotions and reactions; work through anxiety, depression, and ADHD within the relationship; resolve blended family issues; provide support during and after a divorce and while you are going through major life transitions. If your goal is to reconnect, repair and strengthen your relationship - you have come to the right place - I can help.
AVAILABLE ONLINE AND IN PERSON. I specialize in couples therapy/marriage counseling. When working with you as a couple (or individually) I help you build closeness and connection; recover from an affair; give you practical tools to improve your communication and understand what guides your emotions and reactions; work through anxiety, depression, and ADHD within the relationship; resolve blended family issues; provide support during and after a divorce and while you are going through major life transitions. If your goal is to reconnect, repair and strengthen your relationship - you have come to the right place - I can help.
Desire discrepancy, intimacy shutdown, sexual shame, infidelity recovery, and sexual exploration are the focus here.
Something has shifted in your relationship and neither of you knows how to talk about it. Maybe desire has dried up on one or both sides. Maybe sex has been something to avoid, perform, or dread. Maybe an affair has blown everything open and you're not sure if there's anything left to save. Or maybe you've been living with erectile unreliability, pain during sex, anxiety around sex and never had a space to actually address it.
This kind of work requires specialization. Not every therapist is trained for it. This practice is build around exactly these conversations, and after thousands of them, the difference in care shows.
Desire discrepancy, intimacy shutdown, sexual shame, infidelity recovery, and sexual exploration are the focus here.
Something has shifted in your relationship and neither of you knows how to talk about it. Maybe desire has dried up on one or both sides. Maybe sex has been something to avoid, perform, or dread. Maybe an affair has blown everything open and you're not sure if there's anything left to save. Or maybe you've been living with erectile unreliability, pain during sex, anxiety around sex and never had a space to actually address it.
This kind of work requires specialization. Not every therapist is trained for it. This practice is build around exactly these conversations, and after thousands of them, the difference in care shows.
Together, we help men break free (porn, sexting, affairs, prostitution, etc) and we help couples rebuild trust and real intimacy.
We specialize in helping men overcome sexual compulsivity and helping couples restore emotional, physical, and sexual intimacy, creating strong and fulfilling relationships. Through 1on1 therapy and our accelerated coaching programs, we provide the practical skills and ongoing support you need for long term healing.
Together, we help men break free (porn, sexting, affairs, prostitution, etc) and we help couples rebuild trust and real intimacy.
We specialize in helping men overcome sexual compulsivity and helping couples restore emotional, physical, and sexual intimacy, creating strong and fulfilling relationships. Through 1on1 therapy and our accelerated coaching programs, we provide the practical skills and ongoing support you need for long term healing.
I treat couples, sex/ infidelity, substance use/abuse, mood disorders, grief and loss, silicon valley stress, life struggles.
Regarding substance use, I believe that there is not one way to recover but rather multiple paths. My goal is to reduce human suffering. You are invited to come to therapy as you are. Regardless of whether you want to stop using or not, you are in the right place.
I treat couples, sex/ infidelity, substance use/abuse, mood disorders, grief and loss, silicon valley stress, life struggles.
Regarding substance use, I believe that there is not one way to recover but rather multiple paths. My goal is to reduce human suffering. You are invited to come to therapy as you are. Regardless of whether you want to stop using or not, you are in the right place.
Working with infidelity, depression & emotional regulation requires moving beyond "what happened" into the realm of "what did this bring up in me
People seeking therapy want change. Change that reflects their values and brings out their best.
Feeling stuck can be a catalyst for exploration.
We will work on micro-habits that aid your body's natural "feel-good" response. We will discuss what lights you up (or used to). We will discuss how to work with your inner critic.
Working with infidelity, depression & emotional regulation requires moving beyond "what happened" into the realm of "what did this bring up in me
People seeking therapy want change. Change that reflects their values and brings out their best.
Feeling stuck can be a catalyst for exploration.
We will work on micro-habits that aid your body's natural "feel-good" response. We will discuss what lights you up (or used to). We will discuss how to work with your inner critic.
I support individuals in breaking free from addiction and help couples create safety and rebuild trust in their relationship after betrayal.
I offer a structured treatment for sex/porn addiction and betrayal recovery. I work with individuals and couples. I work with people at all stages of the recovery process. I also have a recovery group for men.
I support individuals in breaking free from addiction and help couples create safety and rebuild trust in their relationship after betrayal.
I offer a structured treatment for sex/porn addiction and betrayal recovery. I work with individuals and couples. I work with people at all stages of the recovery process. I also have a recovery group for men.
Hello, and welcome! I am an individual therapist and I specialize in helping individuals working through difficult trauma, ADHD, sex therapy issues, complex relationship issues, and the impacts of Narcissistic Personality Disorder on relationships. I work closely with individuals struggling with different forms of mental disorders and help my clients forge a new path forward toward healing and wholeness. My passion is in therapy, and I am humbled and grateful when people invite me to play a meaningful role in their lives.
Hello, and welcome! I am an individual therapist and I specialize in helping individuals working through difficult trauma, ADHD, sex therapy issues, complex relationship issues, and the impacts of Narcissistic Personality Disorder on relationships. I work closely with individuals struggling with different forms of mental disorders and help my clients forge a new path forward toward healing and wholeness. My passion is in therapy, and I am humbled and grateful when people invite me to play a meaningful role in their lives.
Whether you are on the verge of separation or looking to improve your stable relationship, our therapists can support you in rediscovering the relationship you deserve. As devoted couples therapists, we specialize in the Gottman Method, an evidence-based approach designed to strengthen and heal relationships. With a deep passion for guiding couples through their challenges, we create a supportive, non-judgmental space where both partners can feel heard and understood.
Whether you are on the verge of separation or looking to improve your stable relationship, our therapists can support you in rediscovering the relationship you deserve. As devoted couples therapists, we specialize in the Gottman Method, an evidence-based approach designed to strengthen and heal relationships. With a deep passion for guiding couples through their challenges, we create a supportive, non-judgmental space where both partners can feel heard and understood.
Whether you’re reeling from infidelity, struggling with sexual issues, or feeling constantly on edge, the weight of dysregulation can be isolating.
I help you move from "shutdown" to connection. We’ll transform your nervous system from a state of threat to one of safety. You’ll gain somatic tools to stay present, communicate your deepest needs, and work to build secure attachment. Whether healing trauma or deepening intimacy, I'll help you build relationships that are rooted in regulation and trust.
Whether you’re reeling from infidelity, struggling with sexual issues, or feeling constantly on edge, the weight of dysregulation can be isolating.
I help you move from "shutdown" to connection. We’ll transform your nervous system from a state of threat to one of safety. You’ll gain somatic tools to stay present, communicate your deepest needs, and work to build secure attachment. Whether healing trauma or deepening intimacy, I'll help you build relationships that are rooted in regulation and trust.
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist specializing in helping couples strengthen their relationships. I utilize the Gottman Method, a research-based approach designed to enhance communication, resolve conflict, and build lasting intimacy. My goal is to help couples not only repair but thrive in their emotional connection. Alongside this, I incorporate a person-centered approach with mindfulness techniques, ensuring that I am fully present in our sessions. This creates a safe, supportive, and non-judgmental space where you can feel comfortable exploring your concerns and working toward growth.
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist specializing in helping couples strengthen their relationships. I utilize the Gottman Method, a research-based approach designed to enhance communication, resolve conflict, and build lasting intimacy. My goal is to help couples not only repair but thrive in their emotional connection. Alongside this, I incorporate a person-centered approach with mindfulness techniques, ensuring that I am fully present in our sessions. This creates a safe, supportive, and non-judgmental space where you can feel comfortable exploring your concerns and working toward growth.
Jennifer Atkins, Infidelity and Grief Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate
6 Endorsed
Serves Area
I understand the piercing pain and trauma that stems from sexual or emotional betrayal.
My approach to psychotherapy is relational and somatic. Through our relationship, we can explore the patterns and habits which you bring to all of your other relationships. Together we will think about the source of your distress and ways to reach greater equanimity. People of all ages, identities and backgrounds are very welcome.
I understand the piercing pain and trauma that stems from sexual or emotional betrayal.
My approach to psychotherapy is relational and somatic. Through our relationship, we can explore the patterns and habits which you bring to all of your other relationships. Together we will think about the source of your distress and ways to reach greater equanimity. People of all ages, identities and backgrounds are very welcome.
I am a CSAT (certified sexual addiction therapist) and a CPTT (certified partner trauma therapist treating betrayal), and I am also trained in EMDR and IFS, two of the most powerful therapies available.
As a woman of faith, I understand the values and concerns of my Christian clients, and I know the power of God to heal and restore.
I am a CSAT (certified sexual addiction therapist) and a CPTT (certified partner trauma therapist treating betrayal), and I am also trained in EMDR and IFS, two of the most powerful therapies available.
As a woman of faith, I understand the values and concerns of my Christian clients, and I know the power of God to heal and restore.
I help couples after infidelity, affairs, betrayal trauma, secrecy, and broken trust.
My approach is direct, psychodynamic, attachment-based, and relational. I am not passive in the room.
We look at what happened, what it means, why it happened, without turning that into an excuse, and what has to change now.
The goal is to slow the crisis down enough for honesty, clarity, and real repair to become possible.
I help couples after infidelity, affairs, betrayal trauma, secrecy, and broken trust.
My approach is direct, psychodynamic, attachment-based, and relational. I am not passive in the room.
We look at what happened, what it means, why it happened, without turning that into an excuse, and what has to change now.
The goal is to slow the crisis down enough for honesty, clarity, and real repair to become possible.
The issues I address are typically related to unhealthy sexual behaviors, infidelity, broken relationships, drugs/alcohol, dishonesty/lying, financial recklessness, and gambling.
My goal for each man I work with is to provide hope and support while facilitating the recovery process. This usually requires us to dig deep and figure out why we engage in destructive behaviors. It also requires us to develop a treatment plan that specifically targets the maladaptive behaviors and reduces the chance of relapse.
The issues I address are typically related to unhealthy sexual behaviors, infidelity, broken relationships, drugs/alcohol, dishonesty/lying, financial recklessness, and gambling.
My goal for each man I work with is to provide hope and support while facilitating the recovery process. This usually requires us to dig deep and figure out why we engage in destructive behaviors. It also requires us to develop a treatment plan that specifically targets the maladaptive behaviors and reduces the chance of relapse.
Specialized therapy for Infidelity, OCD, Gambling Recovery, Anxiety, and Depression.
With more than a decade of clinical experience, I help individuals, couples, and families work through OCD, depression, infidelity, problem gambling, parenting, and more. I use evidence-based therapies to help you gain clarity, build resilience, and create real change. I accept most major insurances and offer services in English and Spanish.
Specialized therapy for Infidelity, OCD, Gambling Recovery, Anxiety, and Depression.
With more than a decade of clinical experience, I help individuals, couples, and families work through OCD, depression, infidelity, problem gambling, parenting, and more. I use evidence-based therapies to help you gain clarity, build resilience, and create real change. I accept most major insurances and offer services in English and Spanish.
Dr. Liz Jenkins, LMFT, CLC, CTMH
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CLC, CTMH
1 Endorsed
Online Only
If you're here, it's likely because you're at a pivotal moment in your relationship or life. Perhaps your marriage feels stagnant, or communication with your partner has become a series of misunderstandings. Maybe you're wrestling with individual issues like career stress, anxiety, or emotional well-being that are trickling into your relationships. You're not just seeking short-term fixes; you're searching for lasting change and a more fulfilling life. You want to understand your relationship strengths and gaps, repair what's been damaged, and build a happier, stronger future.
If you're here, it's likely because you're at a pivotal moment in your relationship or life. Perhaps your marriage feels stagnant, or communication with your partner has become a series of misunderstandings. Maybe you're wrestling with individual issues like career stress, anxiety, or emotional well-being that are trickling into your relationships. You're not just seeking short-term fixes; you're searching for lasting change and a more fulfilling life. You want to understand your relationship strengths and gaps, repair what's been damaged, and build a happier, stronger future.
Navigating the painful aftermath of a betrayal, toxic relational dynamics, or a situation that left you feeling fundamentally weakened or invalidated can make it hard to see a way forward.
Using a strengths-based, solution-focused framework, we will identify immediate, practical tools to help you manage your symptoms. At the same time, we will gently look at the bigger picture to understand how your upbringing, past experiences, and family relationship patterns influence your current life.
Navigating the painful aftermath of a betrayal, toxic relational dynamics, or a situation that left you feeling fundamentally weakened or invalidated can make it hard to see a way forward.
Using a strengths-based, solution-focused framework, we will identify immediate, practical tools to help you manage your symptoms. At the same time, we will gently look at the bigger picture to understand how your upbringing, past experiences, and family relationship patterns influence your current life.
I work with couples, parents, and families navigating relationships under strain, partners stuck in patterns of distance, tension, or repeated conflict; parents co-parenting through separation or divorce; and families whose lives now include the family court system. They are often thoughtful, capable people who function well in many areas, yet feel discouraged about why relationships feel harder than they should. They want more than tools or techniques; they want to understand what's happening beneath the surface and rebuild something honest, secure, and sustaining.
I work with couples, parents, and families navigating relationships under strain, partners stuck in patterns of distance, tension, or repeated conflict; parents co-parenting through separation or divorce; and families whose lives now include the family court system. They are often thoughtful, capable people who function well in many areas, yet feel discouraged about why relationships feel harder than they should. They want more than tools or techniques; they want to understand what's happening beneath the surface and rebuild something honest, secure, and sustaining.
Sexual Addiction Sex Misbehavior Infidelity Expert
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, SOTS
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Evidence based research oriented methods on Infidelity, Prostitution, Seeking Arrangements Sugar Daddy, Strip Clubs, Massage Parlors, OnlyFans, Certified Specialist.
My preeminent expert status had "The Adam Friedland Show” put me on 1st episode of 2nd season re: sexual addiction behaviors, was interviewed by Rolling Stone Magazine on "virtual companions", and XM Radio on issue of paid infidelity. I enjoy being go to clinician and thought leader on high functioning men acting out sexual misbehaviors such as Infidelity
Evidence based research oriented methods on Infidelity, Prostitution, Seeking Arrangements Sugar Daddy, Strip Clubs, Massage Parlors, OnlyFans, Certified Specialist.
My preeminent expert status had "The Adam Friedland Show” put me on 1st episode of 2nd season re: sexual addiction behaviors, was interviewed by Rolling Stone Magazine on "virtual companions", and XM Radio on issue of paid infidelity. I enjoy being go to clinician and thought leader on high functioning men acting out sexual misbehaviors such as Infidelity
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Infidelity Therapists
How does therapy for infidelity work?
A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.
How long does therapy for infidelity take?
Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.
How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?
When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.
How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?
Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.