Male Therapists in Cambrian Park, San Jose, CA

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Anthony Medaro
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, BCD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Cambrian Park, San Jose, CA 95124
In addition, I like to provide concrete skills such as assertiveness and stress management to utilize in effecting change.
The most common issues that people seek help with include: feelings of sadness or depression, excessive worry, fear or anxiety, drug and alcohol abuse, codependency, enhancing and fine tuning one’s recovery program, relationship issues, grief and loss of a loved one, surviving trauma, life change or transition decisions, cyber addiction, dealing with other’s substance abuse, social anxiety and conflict at work.
In addition, I like to provide concrete skills such as assertiveness and stress management to utilize in effecting change.
The most common issues that people seek help with include: feelings of sadness or depression, excessive worry, fear or anxiety, drug and alcohol abuse, codependency, enhancing and fine tuning one’s recovery program, relationship issues, grief and loss of a loved one, surviving trauma, life change or transition decisions, cyber addiction, dealing with other’s substance abuse, social anxiety and conflict at work.
(408) 762-5993 View (408) 762-5993
Photo of Armando Francisco Luna-Medina, MA, AMFT, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate
Armando Francisco Luna-Medina
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Cambrian Park, San Jose, CA 95124
I will not make de mands of you or make judgments; nor will I take the compass and lead the way.
People do not exist in a vacuum. The person you are today is a collage of various influences and experiences. These influences range from relationships with family and friends, community, religion, spiritual beliefs, socioeconomic backgrounds, education, and the culture in which you were raised. What brought you in today does not solely define you and it may not be the root of your pain. Through therapy, we have the potential to move beneath the surface and go deeper into the roots of your struggles to help you develop a greater understanding of what troubles you.
I will not make de mands of you or make judgments; nor will I take the compass and lead the way.
People do not exist in a vacuum. The person you are today is a collage of various influences and experiences. These influences range from relationships with family and friends, community, religion, spiritual beliefs, socioeconomic backgrounds, education, and the culture in which you were raised. What brought you in today does not solely define you and it may not be the root of your pain. Through therapy, we have the potential to move beneath the surface and go deeper into the roots of your struggles to help you develop a greater understanding of what troubles you.
(408) 703-6774 View (408) 703-6774
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Ed Gresick
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CSAT, LAADC, EMDR(C), CSOTP
Verified Verified
Cambrian Park, San Jose, CA 95124
I effectively use CBT, EMDR and FSAP in treating addictions and in helping clients resolve many underlying issues.
My ideal client is motivated to engage in the change process and is willing to follow suggestions and direction that will result in real second order change that is truly life changing. I am uniquely qualified in treating various addictions including alcohol and drug abuse, sex addictions and compulsive behaviors, problem gambling and the many underlying issues involved. I am very effective in getting to and helping my clients resolve the root causes of their addictions. I am very effective in helping clients resolve addiction related issues including self-esteem, codependency, anxiety, anger and trauma using CBT, EMDR and FSAP.
I effectively use CBT, EMDR and FSAP in treating addictions and in helping clients resolve many underlying issues.
My ideal client is motivated to engage in the change process and is willing to follow suggestions and direction that will result in real second order change that is truly life changing. I am uniquely qualified in treating various addictions including alcohol and drug abuse, sex addictions and compulsive behaviors, problem gambling and the many underlying issues involved. I am very effective in getting to and helping my clients resolve the root causes of their addictions. I am very effective in helping clients resolve addiction related issues including self-esteem, codependency, anxiety, anger and trauma using CBT, EMDR and FSAP.
(408) 498-5610 View (408) 498-5610
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Anxiety Treatment Services
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Cambrian Park, San Jose, CA 95124
Dr. Dufford received specialized training and experience in treating anxiety disorders at the Anxiety Treatment Center with Dr. Bourne, author of The Anxiety and Phobia Workbook. Since 1993 Dr. Dufford is director of Anxiety Treatment Services treating Generalized Anxiety, OCD, PTSD, Panic Attacks, Agoraphobia, Specific Phobias, Social Anxiety and related issues: addiction, anger, depression, Trichotillo mania/Excoriation, relationships, sleep/insomnia, grief and self-esteem. He is a professional member of the California Psychological Association, Obsessive Compulsive Foundation and EMDR International Association. Dr. Dufford is certified as a Cognitive-Behavioral Therapist, Clinical Hypnotherapist, Expert in Traumatic Stress and Addictions Counselor.
Dr. Dufford received specialized training and experience in treating anxiety disorders at the Anxiety Treatment Center with Dr. Bourne, author of The Anxiety and Phobia Workbook. Since 1993 Dr. Dufford is director of Anxiety Treatment Services treating Generalized Anxiety, OCD, PTSD, Panic Attacks, Agoraphobia, Specific Phobias, Social Anxiety and related issues: addiction, anger, depression, Trichotillo mania/Excoriation, relationships, sleep/insomnia, grief and self-esteem. He is a professional member of the California Psychological Association, Obsessive Compulsive Foundation and EMDR International Association. Dr. Dufford is certified as a Cognitive-Behavioral Therapist, Clinical Hypnotherapist, Expert in Traumatic Stress and Addictions Counselor.
(408) 384-9838 View (408) 384-9838
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Joshua Leung
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Cambrian Park, San Jose, CA 95124
I also specialize in working with young adults who struggle with anxiety, depression, stress management, relationship issues, and life transitions.
Are you burnt out, running on fumes, or wondering if there could be more to life than the stress and anxiety you’re currently experiencing? Do you often feel overwhelmed by your emotions, struggling to find balance and peace? Or maybe you wish to build stronger, more meaningful relationships but find something is holding you back? If these questions resonate with you, you’re not alone, and you don’t need to walk through life alone. In our work together, I will walk alongside you, at your pace and in a safe space, to understand your unique life story, identify your strengths, and work on ways to feel in control of your life again.
I also specialize in working with young adults who struggle with anxiety, depression, stress management, relationship issues, and life transitions.
Are you burnt out, running on fumes, or wondering if there could be more to life than the stress and anxiety you’re currently experiencing? Do you often feel overwhelmed by your emotions, struggling to find balance and peace? Or maybe you wish to build stronger, more meaningful relationships but find something is holding you back? If these questions resonate with you, you’re not alone, and you don’t need to walk through life alone. In our work together, I will walk alongside you, at your pace and in a safe space, to understand your unique life story, identify your strengths, and work on ways to feel in control of your life again.
(669) 305-7150 View (669) 305-7150
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Alex Lerza
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CSAT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Cambrian Park, San Jose, CA 95124  (Online Only)
This is the last time. I can stop anytime. It's not like I'm the only one who does this. If you, your partner or child has said these words you are not alone. My clients select me because I offer practical tools to stop compulsive behaviors, have hundreds of hours of training in sexual addiction, can treat the underlying issues with scientifically validated techniques and have an approach that is compassionate and relational. I take a holistic approach that integrates addict, partner and couples therapy which is critical to lasting change. Check out my website for more info: alexlerza.com
This is the last time. I can stop anytime. It's not like I'm the only one who does this. If you, your partner or child has said these words you are not alone. My clients select me because I offer practical tools to stop compulsive behaviors, have hundreds of hours of training in sexual addiction, can treat the underlying issues with scientifically validated techniques and have an approach that is compassionate and relational. I take a holistic approach that integrates addict, partner and couples therapy which is critical to lasting change. Check out my website for more info: alexlerza.com
(408) 610-1356 View (408) 610-1356
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Benjamin Raskin
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Verified Verified
Cambrian Park, San Jose, CA 95124  (Online Only)
I provide individual therapy to treat pornography/sexual addiction, anxiety, depression, impulse control, and other symptoms. I provide couples therapy for infidelity, adjustment issues, and other relationship struggles. I am currently accepting new clients. I offer free consultation.
I provide individual therapy to treat pornography/sexual addiction, anxiety, depression, impulse control, and other symptoms. I provide couples therapy for infidelity, adjustment issues, and other relationship struggles. I am currently accepting new clients. I offer free consultation.
(669) 219-2306 View (669) 219-2306
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Harry Motro - Autism + Couples
Marriage & Family Therapist, PsyD, LMFT, PC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Cambrian Park, San Jose, CA 95124
Need a therapist who specializes in Neurodiverse COUPLES? Struggling with the intersection of autism, ADHD and your relationship? I always start with a focus on strengths, believe autism is a difference (not a disease), and use a trauma-informed approach. No matter your neuro-type, everyone must grow and change in a relationship. I'd love to help you figure out how. I also offer in-depth assessments for autism and ADHD (see www.adult-autism-assessment.com).
Need a therapist who specializes in Neurodiverse COUPLES? Struggling with the intersection of autism, ADHD and your relationship? I always start with a focus on strengths, believe autism is a difference (not a disease), and use a trauma-informed approach. No matter your neuro-type, everyone must grow and change in a relationship. I'd love to help you figure out how. I also offer in-depth assessments for autism and ADHD (see www.adult-autism-assessment.com).
(408) 824-7367 View (408) 824-7367
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Douglas Drucker
Psychologist, PhD, QME
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Cambrian Park, San Jose, CA 95124
I work with adults in a private practice setting specializing in pain managagement and health psychology. I offer biofeedback, EMDR, treatment for mood disorders and PTSD. I am on staff at El Camino Hospital and accept insurance and Medicare. I am a qualified medical evaluator and provide forensic evaluations for surgical screenings and for legal settings.
I work with adults in a private practice setting specializing in pain managagement and health psychology. I offer biofeedback, EMDR, treatment for mood disorders and PTSD. I am on staff at El Camino Hospital and accept insurance and Medicare. I am a qualified medical evaluator and provide forensic evaluations for surgical screenings and for legal settings.
(408) 215-9454 View (408) 215-9454
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Forest Benedict
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Cambrian Park, San Jose, CA 95124  (Online Only)
Are you feeling lost, overwhelmed, or anxious in your daily life? Is the emotional pain you’re carrying making it difficult to connect with yourself and others? Have your coping strategies led to more suffering, leaving you stuck in patterns of self-criticism, self-doubt, and fear? If so, seeking help is the first step toward healing. Together, we can explore these challenges and work towards finding clarity, connection, and a renewed sense of self. You don’t need to navigate this alone.
Are you feeling lost, overwhelmed, or anxious in your daily life? Is the emotional pain you’re carrying making it difficult to connect with yourself and others? Have your coping strategies led to more suffering, leaving you stuck in patterns of self-criticism, self-doubt, and fear? If so, seeking help is the first step toward healing. Together, we can explore these challenges and work towards finding clarity, connection, and a renewed sense of self. You don’t need to navigate this alone.
(916) 702-3528 View (916) 702-3528
Photo of Clint Gaver, LPCC, MA, Marriage & Family Therapist
Clint Gaver
Marriage & Family Therapist, LPCC, MA
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Cambrian Park, San Jose, CA 95124  (Online Only)
I've worked through many similar problems myself and can connect with most populations: I teach clients how to heal from within.
You want to feel better, but life has shown up, and now you feel depressed, anxious, lonely, or angry. Has your self-esteem dropped? Are you struggling in your relationships? Do you: Berate yourself? Use drugs, alcohol, or other compulsive behaviors to cope with life? Do you have unresolved grief, trauma, or shame? Do you believe the lies your inner critic tells you? If YES, you've found the right place to transform your life. I provide a safe, compassionate, and nonjudgmental setting, using evidence-based theories that fit your situation. "Thank you Clint! I have finally taken control of my emotions and like myself today" -Kim.
I've worked through many similar problems myself and can connect with most populations: I teach clients how to heal from within.
You want to feel better, but life has shown up, and now you feel depressed, anxious, lonely, or angry. Has your self-esteem dropped? Are you struggling in your relationships? Do you: Berate yourself? Use drugs, alcohol, or other compulsive behaviors to cope with life? Do you have unresolved grief, trauma, or shame? Do you believe the lies your inner critic tells you? If YES, you've found the right place to transform your life. I provide a safe, compassionate, and nonjudgmental setting, using evidence-based theories that fit your situation. "Thank you Clint! I have finally taken control of my emotions and like myself today" -Kim.
(408) 981-4700 View (408) 981-4700
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Donald Bender
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Cambrian Park, San Jose, CA 95124
I have been doing individual and couple therapy for over thirty years. I use a variety of therapeutic approaches, always choosing the one that best suits the client's immediate needs. These modalities range from psychodynamic and cognitive-behavioral to narrative and existential. There is even some dream and hypnotherapy added when helpful. In addition to my clinical practice, I have extensive forensic psychology experience, including resolving workplace disputes, custody issues, and trial consulting. My goal is to help clients find meaningful solutions to challenging life problems.
I have been doing individual and couple therapy for over thirty years. I use a variety of therapeutic approaches, always choosing the one that best suits the client's immediate needs. These modalities range from psychodynamic and cognitive-behavioral to narrative and existential. There is even some dream and hypnotherapy added when helpful. In addition to my clinical practice, I have extensive forensic psychology experience, including resolving workplace disputes, custody issues, and trial consulting. My goal is to help clients find meaningful solutions to challenging life problems.
(408) 878-1791 View (408) 878-1791
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Dr. Invia A. Betjoseph
Marriage & Family Therapist, PsyD, LMFT, CSAT, CPTT
Verified Verified
12 Endorsed
Cambrian Park, San Jose, CA 95124  (Online Only)
Do you find yourself making excuses for your secret, compulsive sexual behaviors, thinking that you can stop at any time? You may think that watching porn is not a big deal, because "Everybody does it." The truth is you have been saying, "This is the last time" for years now, and if you are in a committed relationship, then your partner is feeling angry, betrayed and confused. Problematic sexual behaviors can leave you feeling shame and guilt fraught with fear and anxiety. For 15 years, by creating a safe and confidential environment, using specific tools, I have helped distressed people move past their damaging choices and heal.
Do you find yourself making excuses for your secret, compulsive sexual behaviors, thinking that you can stop at any time? You may think that watching porn is not a big deal, because "Everybody does it." The truth is you have been saying, "This is the last time" for years now, and if you are in a committed relationship, then your partner is feeling angry, betrayed and confused. Problematic sexual behaviors can leave you feeling shame and guilt fraught with fear and anxiety. For 15 years, by creating a safe and confidential environment, using specific tools, I have helped distressed people move past their damaging choices and heal.
(408) 809-1063 View (408) 809-1063
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Michael Hwang
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Cambrian Park, San Jose, CA 95124
I grew up in an environment full of tension and abuse and often felt labeled the family's black sheep. To escape, I withdrew and shut out the world. Decades later, I found my way to therapy. It was an overwhelming process to get started. But I persevered because I needed a way out of my pain. Slowly through therapy, I became someone that I respected and felt more connected to myself and others. I can now say that I live a more balanced and hopeful life.
I grew up in an environment full of tension and abuse and often felt labeled the family's black sheep. To escape, I withdrew and shut out the world. Decades later, I found my way to therapy. It was an overwhelming process to get started. But I persevered because I needed a way out of my pain. Slowly through therapy, I became someone that I respected and felt more connected to myself and others. I can now say that I live a more balanced and hopeful life.
(408) 668-1985 View (408) 668-1985
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Ruben Gabriel Colon
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Cambrian Park, San Jose, CA 95124  (Online Only)
Could my therapist skill set be the perfect match for your therapy needs? I have worked as a social worker for the past 23 years and 14 of those years as a therapist. I have served children, youth and adults in various settings such as adoption and foster care; child welfare services; outpatient mental health and services for developmentally disabled individuals. Over the years, I have developed a passion for helping individuals heal from trauma, adjust to major life transitions and foster a healthy sense of identity. I am committed making sure the plan for treatment is centered on the goals and needs that we develop together.
Could my therapist skill set be the perfect match for your therapy needs? I have worked as a social worker for the past 23 years and 14 of those years as a therapist. I have served children, youth and adults in various settings such as adoption and foster care; child welfare services; outpatient mental health and services for developmentally disabled individuals. Over the years, I have developed a passion for helping individuals heal from trauma, adjust to major life transitions and foster a healthy sense of identity. I am committed making sure the plan for treatment is centered on the goals and needs that we develop together.
(855) 731-7060 View (855) 731-7060
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Rafael Gomez
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Cambrian Park, San Jose, CA 95118
My aim is to create a safe space for you to openly explore and address your difficulties in a manner that is congruent with your values and background.
Welcome! My name is Rafael Gomez, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) based out of Los Angeles, California. I specialize in the treatment of men who are struggling with anxiety, trauma, and relationship issues. In addition to my individual work with men, I have extensive experience working with adolescents and children with their caregivers, specifically around the healing of trauma. I utilize Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) in my work with individual clients, and a dyadic/family approach when working with adolescents and children.
My aim is to create a safe space for you to openly explore and address your difficulties in a manner that is congruent with your values and background.
Welcome! My name is Rafael Gomez, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) based out of Los Angeles, California. I specialize in the treatment of men who are struggling with anxiety, trauma, and relationship issues. In addition to my individual work with men, I have extensive experience working with adolescents and children with their caregivers, specifically around the healing of trauma. I utilize Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) in my work with individual clients, and a dyadic/family approach when working with adolescents and children.
(323) 473-9317 View (323) 473-9317
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Scott Henrywestwood Licensed
Drug & Alcohol Counselor, MA, LAADC, NCAC-II, SAP, IS-E
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Cambrian Park, San Jose, CA 95124
I'm an Intervention Specialist - Endorsed, Wo men Treatment Specialist - Endorsed, DOT qualified SAP.
Accepting New Clients - My goal is to provide clients with safe, effective, comprehensive, and life-changing counseling-therapy. I use both time tested and cutting-edge methods to break the cycle of poor behaviors. I never suggest to a client to do something that I have not tried myself. I assist the client to stay abstinent from negative behaviors for the long-term, stabilize mental health, and to restore relationships. I enjoy being able to guide a client through the changes they want to make on their life journey. I witness extraordinary miracles daily. Please consider allowing me to help you. Call/text me direct 408 203 0964
I'm an Intervention Specialist - Endorsed, Wo men Treatment Specialist - Endorsed, DOT qualified SAP.
Accepting New Clients - My goal is to provide clients with safe, effective, comprehensive, and life-changing counseling-therapy. I use both time tested and cutting-edge methods to break the cycle of poor behaviors. I never suggest to a client to do something that I have not tried myself. I assist the client to stay abstinent from negative behaviors for the long-term, stabilize mental health, and to restore relationships. I enjoy being able to guide a client through the changes they want to make on their life journey. I witness extraordinary miracles daily. Please consider allowing me to help you. Call/text me direct 408 203 0964
(408) 409-8277 View (408) 409-8277
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Keith Britany
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Cambrian Park, San Jose, CA 95124
Therapy will help you, your family, and your children to resolve matters in the healthiest manner possible.
Are you seeking counseling for you, your teen, or your family? Considering divorce or developing your will or trust & need support? My name is Keith Britany, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. Private practice offices in Los Gatos & Santa Cruz, CA. My goal is assisting you in identifying your strengths, needs & concerns and find ways to use those strengths to build a better outcome for you and those in your life. Keith Britany LMFT, Helping Individuals and Families Live Healthier Lives. Services include: Therapy, Mediation, Collaborative Trusts and Estates, Collaborative Divorce & Communication Coaching. 831-566-3728, www.therapy-and-coaching.com
Therapy will help you, your family, and your children to resolve matters in the healthiest manner possible.
Are you seeking counseling for you, your teen, or your family? Considering divorce or developing your will or trust & need support? My name is Keith Britany, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. Private practice offices in Los Gatos & Santa Cruz, CA. My goal is assisting you in identifying your strengths, needs & concerns and find ways to use those strengths to build a better outcome for you and those in your life. Keith Britany LMFT, Helping Individuals and Families Live Healthier Lives. Services include: Therapy, Mediation, Collaborative Trusts and Estates, Collaborative Divorce & Communication Coaching. 831-566-3728, www.therapy-and-coaching.com
(831) 566-3728 View (831) 566-3728
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Terrance Mclarnan
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT
Verified Verified
Cambrian Park, San Jose, CA 95118
In a way, life is a puzzle. With many pieces to choose from, we try to find those pieces that fit smoothly together. However, life becomes troubling when what we have chosen doesn't fit and the same problems seem to occur in one situation after another, making life seem even more frustrating and confusing. I am trained as both an artist and a psychotherapist and work in a collaborative style. After 20 years of experience, I bring a little humor and grace while learning to think creatively to move through the maze of life, it is an exciting possibility.
In a way, life is a puzzle. With many pieces to choose from, we try to find those pieces that fit smoothly together. However, life becomes troubling when what we have chosen doesn't fit and the same problems seem to occur in one situation after another, making life seem even more frustrating and confusing. I am trained as both an artist and a psychotherapist and work in a collaborative style. After 20 years of experience, I bring a little humor and grace while learning to think creatively to move through the maze of life, it is an exciting possibility.
(408) 659-8144 View (408) 659-8144
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Paul Marcille
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Cambrian Park, San Jose, CA 95124
He is an experienced educator, manager and clinician and serves on the board of advisers of several non-profit agencies.
Dr. Marcille is a licensed psychologist with 35 years experience working as a therapist and university professor and administrator. Past president of the California and Santa Clara Psychological Associations and former Professor & Program Director at Palo Alto University, Dr. Marcille works with adolescents and adults helping them to achieve educational, professional and personal success. He is the former Dean of the American University of Paris and enjoys working with clients from international backgrounds. He uses evidence based therapeutic practices with a primarily cognitive behavioral focus and is very pragmatic.
He is an experienced educator, manager and clinician and serves on the board of advisers of several non-profit agencies.
Dr. Marcille is a licensed psychologist with 35 years experience working as a therapist and university professor and administrator. Past president of the California and Santa Clara Psychological Associations and former Professor & Program Director at Palo Alto University, Dr. Marcille works with adolescents and adults helping them to achieve educational, professional and personal success. He is the former Dean of the American University of Paris and enjoys working with clients from international backgrounds. He uses evidence based therapeutic practices with a primarily cognitive behavioral focus and is very pragmatic.
(408) 676-9994 View (408) 676-9994
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Male Therapists

As a man, why might I want to see a male therapist?

There are many reasons a man might wish to work with a male therapist, including a degree of shared identity, which may help client and therapist connect to each other and allow for a more free-flowing discussion of issues that can be deeply personal. Some men may feel more comfortable talking to a male therapist about relationship concerns, the pressures they feel around the roles society and family place on men, career or job challenges, self-esteem, or anger problems. For some men who have not had a male role models in their lives, a good male therapist may be especially helpful.

How can I find out about a therapist’s experience treating men?

Individuals looking for treatment should feel comfortable directly asking a therapist about their history treating men overall and the issues that arise in therapy with men. A good therapist will be happy to discuss such matters as well as their educational background, approach to treatment, and how they think they can aid a prospective client. Prospective clients should also ask what the expectation is for treatment, and what the fee structure is, and whether and which insurance plans are accepted.

Can clients benefit from having a therapist of the same gender?

Therapy is not gender-specific, but some men as well as women feel more comfortable opening up about their experiences and history with a male therapist. An individual may feel that they have to explain less background information and be on the same page more quickly, particularly when discussing gender-specific challenges, in the case of male clients. Some women have prior negative experiences with women that predispose them to prefer working with a male in therapy. That said, a good clinician can transcend most if not all gender concerns. Ultimately, the most important factor in therapy is the connection and trust the client is able to build with the practitioner.

Would a male therapist have specific training in treating men?

Generally, no. There are no certifications for treating men specifically, but there are continuing education classes that therapists may take that focus on treating men as a group. There are many therapists who focus on men and male issues in their treatment and therefore have experience and expertise in this domain.