Secular and Non-Religious Therapists in San Francisco, CA
My name is Karlianne, but you can call me Karlie. I believe that authenticity is a prerequisite for growth and healing, and I invite you to bring your full, unfiltered self into our sessions. As a clinician, I prioritize creating a nonjudgmental, sex-positive, and humor-friendly space where individuals and couples can explore anything and everything holding them back. Together, we can co-create a therapeutic relationship that supports personal growth, emotional development, and deeper connection—whether that means healing from trauma, navigating relational challenges, or reconnecting with yourself or your partner.
My name is Karlianne, but you can call me Karlie. I believe that authenticity is a prerequisite for growth and healing, and I invite you to bring your full, unfiltered self into our sessions. As a clinician, I prioritize creating a nonjudgmental, sex-positive, and humor-friendly space where individuals and couples can explore anything and everything holding them back. Together, we can co-create a therapeutic relationship that supports personal growth, emotional development, and deeper connection—whether that means healing from trauma, navigating relational challenges, or reconnecting with yourself or your partner.
Hi there! I’m Sophie, a relational therapist with professional and personal experience in the startup world. I believe our relationships shape every corner of our lives, including how we see ourselves. I work with individuals and couples who want to understand the “why” behind how they show up and make meaningful change. Many of my clients thrive in fast-paced environments but feel stuck in anxious-avoidant cycles, communication breakdowns, or patterns that leave them feeling disconnected. Together, we focus on building emotional security, strengthening communication, and shifting patterns that no longer serve you.
Hi there! I’m Sophie, a relational therapist with professional and personal experience in the startup world. I believe our relationships shape every corner of our lives, including how we see ourselves. I work with individuals and couples who want to understand the “why” behind how they show up and make meaningful change. Many of my clients thrive in fast-paced environments but feel stuck in anxious-avoidant cycles, communication breakdowns, or patterns that leave them feeling disconnected. Together, we focus on building emotional security, strengthening communication, and shifting patterns that no longer serve you.
Only accepting California telehealth clients at this time.
Anxiety isn’t just in your mind—it lives in your body and relationships, too. You’ve been living with that constant hum of anxiety—racing thoughts, restless nights, and tension that never quite lets go.
On the outside, you’re doing all the things, but inside, you’re tired of overthinking, overgiving, and feeling like it’s never enough. It shows up in your work, your relationships, even in your body.
What you’re really looking for is relief: a calmer mind, a steadier nervous system, and the freedom to show up in your life with more clarity and confidence.
Only accepting California telehealth clients at this time.
Anxiety isn’t just in your mind—it lives in your body and relationships, too. You’ve been living with that constant hum of anxiety—racing thoughts, restless nights, and tension that never quite lets go.
On the outside, you’re doing all the things, but inside, you’re tired of overthinking, overgiving, and feeling like it’s never enough. It shows up in your work, your relationships, even in your body.
What you’re really looking for is relief: a calmer mind, a steadier nervous system, and the freedom to show up in your life with more clarity and confidence.
You may feel stuck in your recurring patterns, whether in relationships, anxiety, depression, or life transitions> Many of the people I work with are thoughtful and self-aware but sense something deeper beneath the surface, shaping their lives. My approach is grounded in depth psychology, exploring unconscious patterns and early relational experiences that influence how we live and connect today. Together we work toward greater self-understanding, emotional freedom, and more authentic relationships.
You may feel stuck in your recurring patterns, whether in relationships, anxiety, depression, or life transitions> Many of the people I work with are thoughtful and self-aware but sense something deeper beneath the surface, shaping their lives. My approach is grounded in depth psychology, exploring unconscious patterns and early relational experiences that influence how we live and connect today. Together we work toward greater self-understanding, emotional freedom, and more authentic relationships.
Karen Chan | Therapy for Asian, Queer & Poly
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
11 Endorsed
San Francisco, CA 94123
Welcome. I specialize in working with Asians, BIPOC, LGBTQ+, and poly individuals & couples navigating anxiety, depression, grief, relational conflicts, intergenerational trauma, or exploring their sexuality, gender, polyamory, or identities. I have liberation & depth orientation, which means I listen deeply, attune to your social and historical context, and give attention to the parts of you that are often overlooked. Together, we’ll explore the root causes and meanings of your symptoms towards creating the life you truly desire.
Welcome. I specialize in working with Asians, BIPOC, LGBTQ+, and poly individuals & couples navigating anxiety, depression, grief, relational conflicts, intergenerational trauma, or exploring their sexuality, gender, polyamory, or identities. I have liberation & depth orientation, which means I listen deeply, attune to your social and historical context, and give attention to the parts of you that are often overlooked. Together, we’ll explore the root causes and meanings of your symptoms towards creating the life you truly desire.
If you have been scrolling Psychology Today endlessly and found yourself on my profile, welcome! I'm Bayley. I am a queer couples therapist, working with LGBTQIA+ couples and relationships. My work is helping couples and relationships navigate communication challenges, intimacy, infidelity, trust building, deeper compassion and understanding, navigating ENM and polyamory (these are just a few rich areas we can tap into!) My work with couples and individuals is deeply relational, trauma-informed, and humanistic. With compassion, and a bit of humor, let’s get to work!
If you have been scrolling Psychology Today endlessly and found yourself on my profile, welcome! I'm Bayley. I am a queer couples therapist, working with LGBTQIA+ couples and relationships. My work is helping couples and relationships navigate communication challenges, intimacy, infidelity, trust building, deeper compassion and understanding, navigating ENM and polyamory (these are just a few rich areas we can tap into!) My work with couples and individuals is deeply relational, trauma-informed, and humanistic. With compassion, and a bit of humor, let’s get to work!
I currently work with adults, preteens, and teenagers. Some of the topics that I support my clients with are: understanding and managing anxiety and depression, difficulties with emotional regulation, relationship challenges, processing adverse childhood experiences and childhood trauma, facilitating ancestral healing and processing intergenerational trauma, and supporting clients through grief and loss. As your therapist, my priority is making sure you feel safe and deeply heard. I will follow your needs and work collaboratively with you to make sure you are getting what you desire from therapy.
I currently work with adults, preteens, and teenagers. Some of the topics that I support my clients with are: understanding and managing anxiety and depression, difficulties with emotional regulation, relationship challenges, processing adverse childhood experiences and childhood trauma, facilitating ancestral healing and processing intergenerational trauma, and supporting clients through grief and loss. As your therapist, my priority is making sure you feel safe and deeply heard. I will follow your needs and work collaboratively with you to make sure you are getting what you desire from therapy.
Are you feeling overwhelmed, stuck on auto-pilot, and unsure of what to do? You don't have to figure it out alone. I help people get unstuck by exploring identity and values, untangling trauma, and moving toward a more grounded life. Clients tell me our sessions feel like a "golden hour" in their day: a calm, compassionate pause that lets warm light shine upon life's shadows. I am queer and am passionate about working with LGBTQ+ individuals and couples/relationships. My work is centered in liberation, providing a space that encourages expression, empowerment, and choice.
Are you feeling overwhelmed, stuck on auto-pilot, and unsure of what to do? You don't have to figure it out alone. I help people get unstuck by exploring identity and values, untangling trauma, and moving toward a more grounded life. Clients tell me our sessions feel like a "golden hour" in their day: a calm, compassionate pause that lets warm light shine upon life's shadows. I am queer and am passionate about working with LGBTQ+ individuals and couples/relationships. My work is centered in liberation, providing a space that encourages expression, empowerment, and choice.
Exploring our identities, improving our relationships, and navigating life's stresses can be challenging and overwhelming. With warmth, collaboration, and action, I can help clients identify harmful patterns and make healthier decisions. This can look like uprooting internalized shame, exploring identities, journeying through transitions, processing trauma and stress, expanding coping skills, building self-compassion, managing depression and anxiety, and better connecting with our selves and our communities. Together, we can create a custom plan that builds upon your unique strengths and empowers you in pursuing your chosen goals!
Exploring our identities, improving our relationships, and navigating life's stresses can be challenging and overwhelming. With warmth, collaboration, and action, I can help clients identify harmful patterns and make healthier decisions. This can look like uprooting internalized shame, exploring identities, journeying through transitions, processing trauma and stress, expanding coping skills, building self-compassion, managing depression and anxiety, and better connecting with our selves and our communities. Together, we can create a custom plan that builds upon your unique strengths and empowers you in pursuing your chosen goals!
Our ideal client is someone who knows they don’t want to keep “powering through,” but also doesn’t want to waste time (or money) cycling through therapists who aren’t the right fit. They might be navigating anxiety (racing thoughts, worry, panic), depression (low mood, numbness, fatigue), chronic stress or burnout, relationship conflict, major life transitions, grief, trauma-related symptoms, or feeling stuck in patterns they can’t explain. They may be a busy professional, a parent, a student, a caregiver, or simply someone who’s tired of carrying it alone. Many are high-functioning on the outside, but internally feel overwhelmed.
Our ideal client is someone who knows they don’t want to keep “powering through,” but also doesn’t want to waste time (or money) cycling through therapists who aren’t the right fit. They might be navigating anxiety (racing thoughts, worry, panic), depression (low mood, numbness, fatigue), chronic stress or burnout, relationship conflict, major life transitions, grief, trauma-related symptoms, or feeling stuck in patterns they can’t explain. They may be a busy professional, a parent, a student, a caregiver, or simply someone who’s tired of carrying it alone. Many are high-functioning on the outside, but internally feel overwhelmed.
Hello! My name is Abby. With curiosity, humor, and warmth, I find joy in supporting clients as they process significant events, establish personal goals, explore meaning and identity, heal from trauma, and cultivate self-compassion. I'm passionate about joining with clients in shedding light on themes and patterns as a means of increasing understanding and self-awareness. I use elements of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT), Depth Psychology, art therapy, trauma-informed approaches, and psychodynamic modalities to provide a holistic and eclectic approach.
Hello! My name is Abby. With curiosity, humor, and warmth, I find joy in supporting clients as they process significant events, establish personal goals, explore meaning and identity, heal from trauma, and cultivate self-compassion. I'm passionate about joining with clients in shedding light on themes and patterns as a means of increasing understanding and self-awareness. I use elements of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT), Depth Psychology, art therapy, trauma-informed approaches, and psychodynamic modalities to provide a holistic and eclectic approach.
Hello and welcome. I am a licensed psychotherapist in California with nearly 15 years of experience providing psychotherapy and consultation services to adults. I take a holistic approach to your therapy, focusing on the treatment and integration of mind, body, and soul.
Hello and welcome. I am a licensed psychotherapist in California with nearly 15 years of experience providing psychotherapy and consultation services to adults. I take a holistic approach to your therapy, focusing on the treatment and integration of mind, body, and soul.
I offer a thoughtful, grounded space to help you better understand what’s happening beneath the surface of your experiences. Many of the people I work with are high-functioning on the outside, yet feel stuck, overwhelmed, or disconnected internally - often repeating patterns they don’t fully understand.
My approach focuses on helping you develop deeper awareness of your patterns, emotions, and relationships - both with yourself and others. Together, we’ll make sense of what’s coming up for you, while also helping you recognize the patterns shaping your experiences and responses.
I offer a thoughtful, grounded space to help you better understand what’s happening beneath the surface of your experiences. Many of the people I work with are high-functioning on the outside, yet feel stuck, overwhelmed, or disconnected internally - often repeating patterns they don’t fully understand.
My approach focuses on helping you develop deeper awareness of your patterns, emotions, and relationships - both with yourself and others. Together, we’ll make sense of what’s coming up for you, while also helping you recognize the patterns shaping your experiences and responses.
Do you worry what others think, have negative self-talk, or feel down, and like something is missing in your life? Have goals or dreams that have gone to the wayside? Or does being on time, and washing the dishes consistently feel almost impossible?
If so, then you may have come to the right place. Thinking of, much less opening up to someone about these challenges can be hard enough, and may be even harder if you’re also concerned that you might be misunderstood, or not getting the best treatment possible because factors like ethnic background, gender identity, or neurodivergence are being considered too little (or too much).
Do you worry what others think, have negative self-talk, or feel down, and like something is missing in your life? Have goals or dreams that have gone to the wayside? Or does being on time, and washing the dishes consistently feel almost impossible?
If so, then you may have come to the right place. Thinking of, much less opening up to someone about these challenges can be hard enough, and may be even harder if you’re also concerned that you might be misunderstood, or not getting the best treatment possible because factors like ethnic background, gender identity, or neurodivergence are being considered too little (or too much).
Bring order to your world with compassion and meaning. You may look like you have it all together, yet inside feel anxious, overwhelmed, or disconnected. Racing thoughts, poor sleep, emotional exhaustion, unsatisfying relationship patterns that don’t change, or the impact medical challenges can leave you feeling drained. You might struggle with boundaries, people-pleasing, or speaking up for yourself. You don’t have to do this alone.
Together, we’ll help you feel grounded, confident, and reconnected to what matters most. Book a free 30-minute consultation.
Bring order to your world with compassion and meaning. You may look like you have it all together, yet inside feel anxious, overwhelmed, or disconnected. Racing thoughts, poor sleep, emotional exhaustion, unsatisfying relationship patterns that don’t change, or the impact medical challenges can leave you feeling drained. You might struggle with boundaries, people-pleasing, or speaking up for yourself. You don’t have to do this alone.
Together, we’ll help you feel grounded, confident, and reconnected to what matters most. Book a free 30-minute consultation.
I specialize in working with teens and adults seeking comprehensive, depth-focused, long-term healing from a variety of mental health challenges. Some of the types of clients I work with are survivors of acute and complex trauma, including abuse and neglect survivors; individuals facing issues with their significant others, including challenges with communication or emotional intimacy; individuals struggling with anxiety or depression; people seeking to better understand their gender or sexuality, or who may be experiencing gender dysphoria.
I specialize in working with teens and adults seeking comprehensive, depth-focused, long-term healing from a variety of mental health challenges. Some of the types of clients I work with are survivors of acute and complex trauma, including abuse and neglect survivors; individuals facing issues with their significant others, including challenges with communication or emotional intimacy; individuals struggling with anxiety or depression; people seeking to better understand their gender or sexuality, or who may be experiencing gender dysphoria.
Khawaja Saad Haye
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, LPCC, CCTP
3 Endorsed
San Francisco, CA 94115
My therapy style is interactive. I am relationship focused and will use humor (as appropriate) to facilitate relaxation and comfort in the therapy space. I will also support you in the moment to understand and attend to your visceral reactions in therapy.
I have been working in private practice for over 6 years. I have worked extensively with higher education students, international students, working professionals and people with acute mental health disorders.
My therapy style is interactive. I am relationship focused and will use humor (as appropriate) to facilitate relaxation and comfort in the therapy space. I will also support you in the moment to understand and attend to your visceral reactions in therapy.
I have been working in private practice for over 6 years. I have worked extensively with higher education students, international students, working professionals and people with acute mental health disorders.
I am currently accepting adult clients in CA and OH. Ideal clients are grieving individuals, therapists seeking their own processing space, people pleasers, HSPs/neurodivergent individuals, music industry professionals, LGBTIQ+ folks, and creatives. Clients who enjoy therapy with me are insight-oriented folks, seeking a consistent, relational space to have a depthful, exploratory and sometimes playful therapeutic work environment. I am not accepting child or family clients at this time.
I am currently accepting adult clients in CA and OH. Ideal clients are grieving individuals, therapists seeking their own processing space, people pleasers, HSPs/neurodivergent individuals, music industry professionals, LGBTIQ+ folks, and creatives. Clients who enjoy therapy with me are insight-oriented folks, seeking a consistent, relational space to have a depthful, exploratory and sometimes playful therapeutic work environment. I am not accepting child or family clients at this time.
Do you want to learn to love deeper? Need to move through reoccurring bickering? Do you find yourself at the same point over and over again? I'm Joey. I'm a young queer Punjabi who loves building bridges and creating bonds. I specialize in non-traditional relationships and other queer and gay dynamics. I'm a relationship therapist with over 7 years of training in interpersonal connection, conflict resolution, and building strong relationships. All sorts of connection and relationships are at the core of everyday life.
Do you want to learn to love deeper? Need to move through reoccurring bickering? Do you find yourself at the same point over and over again? I'm Joey. I'm a young queer Punjabi who loves building bridges and creating bonds. I specialize in non-traditional relationships and other queer and gay dynamics. I'm a relationship therapist with over 7 years of training in interpersonal connection, conflict resolution, and building strong relationships. All sorts of connection and relationships are at the core of everyday life.
I help individuals, couples, & polycules with issues across all types of platonic & intimate relationships – from friends, family, colleagues, communities, to lovers including intimacy and sex. I can help you develop your relational, charismatic, emotional, dating, & erotic skills for the best professional opportunities, relationships, intimacy, and sex possible. I can help you embrace your authentic desires, make dating fun, flirt flawlessly, overcome shame, re/ignite the spark, build confidence, connect to communities, overcome porn addiction, manage open relationships, and go for what you want & stop what you don't.
I help individuals, couples, & polycules with issues across all types of platonic & intimate relationships – from friends, family, colleagues, communities, to lovers including intimacy and sex. I can help you develop your relational, charismatic, emotional, dating, & erotic skills for the best professional opportunities, relationships, intimacy, and sex possible. I can help you embrace your authentic desires, make dating fun, flirt flawlessly, overcome shame, re/ignite the spark, build confidence, connect to communities, overcome porn addiction, manage open relationships, and go for what you want & stop what you don't.
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