Neuro-Linguistic (NLP) Therapists in San Francisco, CA

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Connie Micale
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
1 Endorsed
San Francisco, CA 94123
I am a licensed therapist (conniemicale.com) that brings over 20 years of clinical experience w/ extensive training in a range of therapeutic methods, from foundational psychology to holistic approaches (EMDR, hypnotherapy, NLP, sound therapy, Internal Family Systems, meditation, CBT and more) which supports my unique ability to quickly “get” people in both the patterns of their distress and who they really know themselves to be. My work honors the importance of therapies based on the heart, body, mind and spirit connection, which gets you out of your head & into your heart and body to encourage & instill deep and lasting change.
I am a licensed therapist (conniemicale.com) that brings over 20 years of clinical experience w/ extensive training in a range of therapeutic methods, from foundational psychology to holistic approaches (EMDR, hypnotherapy, NLP, sound therapy, Internal Family Systems, meditation, CBT and more) which supports my unique ability to quickly “get” people in both the patterns of their distress and who they really know themselves to be. My work honors the importance of therapies based on the heart, body, mind and spirit connection, which gets you out of your head & into your heart and body to encourage & instill deep and lasting change.
(415) 254-6565 View (415) 254-6565
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Jeff Wright
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
5 Endorsed
Online Only
FREE 15min phone consultation. Over 20 years experience offering short-term solution focused therapy to individuals and couples. Real Help for Real People Living Real Lives. I offer tools you can use to improve the quality of your life and relationships. People who come to me want to be empowered to make real changes in their life. They’re looking for an engaged ally and a trusted guide and tangible results. Life is short. Time is passing. You’re not here in this life to suffer or waste time struggling with madness, fear and regret - confused, alone, anxious, depressed, defeated, unhappy and upset. You want a better life!
FREE 15min phone consultation. Over 20 years experience offering short-term solution focused therapy to individuals and couples. Real Help for Real People Living Real Lives. I offer tools you can use to improve the quality of your life and relationships. People who come to me want to be empowered to make real changes in their life. They’re looking for an engaged ally and a trusted guide and tangible results. Life is short. Time is passing. You’re not here in this life to suffer or waste time struggling with madness, fear and regret - confused, alone, anxious, depressed, defeated, unhappy and upset. You want a better life!
(415) 936-8250 x203 View (415) 936-8250 x203
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Ask Alison Leigh, PHD, MFT
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, MFT
San Francisco, CA 94111
Licensed Psychologist and Marriage & Family Therapist (CA/TN) with 25+ years of experience. I help individuals and couples heal shame, secrecy, anxiety and depression with a special focus on religious, sexual, and physical trauma. Drawing on bodywork and somatic psychotherapy training, I use mind-body methods to help clients reconnect deeply with themselves and each other. I teach couples to rebuild trust, communicate clearly, and strengthen emotional and sexual intimacy. My work goes beyond talk therapy, integrating somatic and mindfulness-based approaches for lasting change. LGBT, and Alternative lifestyles welcome.
Licensed Psychologist and Marriage & Family Therapist (CA/TN) with 25+ years of experience. I help individuals and couples heal shame, secrecy, anxiety and depression with a special focus on religious, sexual, and physical trauma. Drawing on bodywork and somatic psychotherapy training, I use mind-body methods to help clients reconnect deeply with themselves and each other. I teach couples to rebuild trust, communicate clearly, and strengthen emotional and sexual intimacy. My work goes beyond talk therapy, integrating somatic and mindfulness-based approaches for lasting change. LGBT, and Alternative lifestyles welcome.
(628) 226-1830 View (628) 226-1830
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Dan Gaylinn
Psychologist, PhD, MA, CHT
San Francisco, CA 94109
I welcome you to the crossroads. This is a place where you can learn to live your life to its full potential. Although I have a diverse practice, I specialize in working with adult individuals and couples, helping them find ways to foster safety, strength and inner peace when facing depression, anxiety, and relationship challenges. Whether you are looking for relief from painful confusion, sadness, or worry, or are just looking for more meaningful life experiences and relationships, I welcome you on this journey towards personal growth.
I welcome you to the crossroads. This is a place where you can learn to live your life to its full potential. Although I have a diverse practice, I specialize in working with adult individuals and couples, helping them find ways to foster safety, strength and inner peace when facing depression, anxiety, and relationship challenges. Whether you are looking for relief from painful confusion, sadness, or worry, or are just looking for more meaningful life experiences and relationships, I welcome you on this journey towards personal growth.
(415) 390-2875 View (415) 390-2875
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Debbie Cherry
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
San Francisco, CA 94131
When small disagreements turn into BIG arguments, expert guidance can help you break painful patterns—not just talk about them. I’ve helped 1,000s of couples stop repeating the same fights by learning simple communication tools (even when emotions run high). I work with tech leaders, founders, and couples navigating high stress, parenting, and burnout. Don’t let defensiveness stand between you and your partner. NEW relationship skills grounded in attachment science and proven research are far more effective than rehashing the past. If you’re ready to get back on the same page... Email me to book a complimentary consultation call.
When small disagreements turn into BIG arguments, expert guidance can help you break painful patterns—not just talk about them. I’ve helped 1,000s of couples stop repeating the same fights by learning simple communication tools (even when emotions run high). I work with tech leaders, founders, and couples navigating high stress, parenting, and burnout. Don’t let defensiveness stand between you and your partner. NEW relationship skills grounded in attachment science and proven research are far more effective than rehashing the past. If you’re ready to get back on the same page... Email me to book a complimentary consultation call.
(415) 915-2225 View (415) 915-2225
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Patrizia Nader
Pre-Licensed Professional, AMFT
5 Endorsed
San Francisco, CA 94115
Are you successful on the outside but lonely in your relationships? Do you find yourself in high-conflict dynamics, feeling misunderstood, or repeating patterns you thought you had outgrown? Many of my clients seek me for therapy for anxiety, addiction, trauma, or relationship struggles. Beneath these concerns are often attachment injuries—early relational wounds shaping how safe closeness feels. I specialize in trauma and intergenerational patterns, working with children, teens, adults, and families navigating anxiety, identity, grief, acculturation stress and relational conflict.
Are you successful on the outside but lonely in your relationships? Do you find yourself in high-conflict dynamics, feeling misunderstood, or repeating patterns you thought you had outgrown? Many of my clients seek me for therapy for anxiety, addiction, trauma, or relationship struggles. Beneath these concerns are often attachment injuries—early relational wounds shaping how safe closeness feels. I specialize in trauma and intergenerational patterns, working with children, teens, adults, and families navigating anxiety, identity, grief, acculturation stress and relational conflict.
(415) 843-7423 View (415) 843-7423
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Marcella Shehadeh Mission
Pre-Licensed Professional
San Francisco, CA 94131
I have been studying psychology and working with clients at NLP Marin for over a decade. I'm a Professional Clinical Counselor and Marriage and Family Therapist Trainee at Church St Integral Counseling Center in Noe Valley, San Francisco, supervised by Derek Pehle, PsyD Lic 21361 I work to honor what is and embrace what can be by bringing awareness to the present moment focusing on the here and now, so we might start to engage the structures that are keeping your unwanted experience in place. I work with Individuals and couples seeking support around life transitions, depression, anxiety, ADHD, polyamory, kink, addiction and trauma.
I have been studying psychology and working with clients at NLP Marin for over a decade. I'm a Professional Clinical Counselor and Marriage and Family Therapist Trainee at Church St Integral Counseling Center in Noe Valley, San Francisco, supervised by Derek Pehle, PsyD Lic 21361 I work to honor what is and embrace what can be by bringing awareness to the present moment focusing on the here and now, so we might start to engage the structures that are keeping your unwanted experience in place. I work with Individuals and couples seeking support around life transitions, depression, anxiety, ADHD, polyamory, kink, addiction and trauma.
(415) 373-6223 View (415) 373-6223
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Christopher Vogt
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Online Only
Before becoming a social worker and a therapist, I was a meditator in the Buddhist tradition. I was attracted to Buddhism because it directly addressed the problem of suffering and what to do about it. It offered practices to relieve suffering and promote happiness, which I began to experience the more I practiced. This inspired me to train to become a therapist, through which I learned about many additional forms of suffering and ways to relieve that suffering in myself and others.
Before becoming a social worker and a therapist, I was a meditator in the Buddhist tradition. I was attracted to Buddhism because it directly addressed the problem of suffering and what to do about it. It offered practices to relieve suffering and promote happiness, which I began to experience the more I practiced. This inspired me to train to become a therapist, through which I learned about many additional forms of suffering and ways to relieve that suffering in myself and others.
(415) 942-8381 View (415) 942-8381
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Dr. Josie Valderrama
Psychologist, PsyD, MA
4 Endorsed
San Francisco, CA 94110
My therapy approach focuses on transformation over & above maintenance/symptom management. It is insight-oriented, grounded in intellect & intuition, simultaneously challenging & compassionate. Embracing the dynamic balancing act of life. Perhaps slowing down to soften & be present with uncertainty. Or finding grace after struggle, moving with the rhythms of your unique beingness: body, mind, & spirit. At times, stepping into fear to reclaim empowerment and strength. Present-moment oriented & multidimensional. Iconoclastic, both-and, non-normative lens. For a creative, meaningful & vital life path. Say yes to epistemic flexibility!
My therapy approach focuses on transformation over & above maintenance/symptom management. It is insight-oriented, grounded in intellect & intuition, simultaneously challenging & compassionate. Embracing the dynamic balancing act of life. Perhaps slowing down to soften & be present with uncertainty. Or finding grace after struggle, moving with the rhythms of your unique beingness: body, mind, & spirit. At times, stepping into fear to reclaim empowerment and strength. Present-moment oriented & multidimensional. Iconoclastic, both-and, non-normative lens. For a creative, meaningful & vital life path. Say yes to epistemic flexibility!
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Autumn B. Carlin
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
San Francisco, CA 94131
Are you stuck and unhappy in your relationship? Do you find yourself wanting to have an affair or has there been one? Do you feel like roommates doing it for the kids? Are you in the agonizing loop of should I stay or should I leave? I have helped many individuals and couples transform their relationships- reconnecting or disconnecting in a healthy way.
Are you stuck and unhappy in your relationship? Do you find yourself wanting to have an affair or has there been one? Do you feel like roommates doing it for the kids? Are you in the agonizing loop of should I stay or should I leave? I have helped many individuals and couples transform their relationships- reconnecting or disconnecting in a healthy way.
(415) 909-4184 View (415) 909-4184
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Vesna Lubina Westbrook
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
16 Endorsed
San Francisco, CA 94114
I work with clients who are (highly) sensitive and/or gifted, who struggle with anxiety or complex trauma, and/or who are curious about their neurodivergence. I also work with therapists. Sensitive people have a finely attuned nervous system, they experience life deeply, yet don't always feel easily understood by others. Growing up, they may have experienced not fitting in, and have adapted to a largely non-sensitive world in myriad ways that didn't always serve their best interest. I support my clients on their path to finding their voice, experiencing genuine relationships, purposeful work, and reclaiming their space in the world.
I work with clients who are (highly) sensitive and/or gifted, who struggle with anxiety or complex trauma, and/or who are curious about their neurodivergence. I also work with therapists. Sensitive people have a finely attuned nervous system, they experience life deeply, yet don't always feel easily understood by others. Growing up, they may have experienced not fitting in, and have adapted to a largely non-sensitive world in myriad ways that didn't always serve their best interest. I support my clients on their path to finding their voice, experiencing genuine relationships, purposeful work, and reclaiming their space in the world.
(530) 270-3224 View (530) 270-3224
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Sadie Phillips
Psychologist, PsyD
San Francisco, CA 94115
I am a licensed clinical health psychologist with extensive training in psycho-oncology and a longstanding clinical focus on providing psychological services in medical settings. It is my goal to work with patients and their families to help during this often difficult adjustment to the medical world and treatment. My interests are wide and each patient is different. I want to meet you exactly where you are at.
I am a licensed clinical health psychologist with extensive training in psycho-oncology and a longstanding clinical focus on providing psychological services in medical settings. It is my goal to work with patients and their families to help during this often difficult adjustment to the medical world and treatment. My interests are wide and each patient is different. I want to meet you exactly where you are at.
(628) 800-0027 View (628) 800-0027
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Yaji Tramontini
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, EMDR, NLP
2 Endorsed
Online Only
You've done the work — the books, maybe even therapy — but something still feels stuck. In your relationship, in how you see yourself, in patterns you keep returning to no matter what you try. You want more than coping tools. You want to actually feel different. I work with individuals ready for deep self-love and transformation, and couples exhausted by the same conflict cycles. Using EMDR, somatic healing, and HeartMath biofeedback, we heal what's driving the pattern — not just manage it.
You've done the work — the books, maybe even therapy — but something still feels stuck. In your relationship, in how you see yourself, in patterns you keep returning to no matter what you try. You want more than coping tools. You want to actually feel different. I work with individuals ready for deep self-love and transformation, and couples exhausted by the same conflict cycles. Using EMDR, somatic healing, and HeartMath biofeedback, we heal what's driving the pattern — not just manage it.
(619) 793-3298 View (619) 793-3298
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Leigh Wakeford
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, BFA, AMFT
5 Endorsed
San Francisco, CA 94114
You are exhausted by the roles you’ve been asked to play. Whether you are navigating the complexities of ENM, polyamory, or kink, or simply tired of the "shoulds" imposed by gender and religious constructs, the cost of "getting it right" has become too high. You may feel a devastating disconnect from your own desires, trapped in a cycle of self-abandonment to earn a sense of belonging. You crave a deeper, authentic connection—to yourself and your partners—but shame and the illusion of separateness keep you stuck. I work with individuals and relational units ready to shed the mask and build an internally-validated life.
You are exhausted by the roles you’ve been asked to play. Whether you are navigating the complexities of ENM, polyamory, or kink, or simply tired of the "shoulds" imposed by gender and religious constructs, the cost of "getting it right" has become too high. You may feel a devastating disconnect from your own desires, trapped in a cycle of self-abandonment to earn a sense of belonging. You crave a deeper, authentic connection—to yourself and your partners—but shame and the illusion of separateness keep you stuck. I work with individuals and relational units ready to shed the mask and build an internally-validated life.
(213) 510-3230 View (213) 510-3230
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Jennifer Lynch
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CCHt
2 Endorsed
San Francisco, CA 94103
Have you come to an obstacle you can't see your way through on your own? Are you noticing challenges in relationships with others or with yourself? Do you have a sense there is something deeper and more to life. Do you long for happiness and fulfillment? In your life so far, you may have had to do a lot of things on your own. But there are some things we can't do alone. A big step in healing is becoming ready to let in support. You may be in a dark night of the soul, which requires a form of therapy that goes deeper.
Have you come to an obstacle you can't see your way through on your own? Are you noticing challenges in relationships with others or with yourself? Do you have a sense there is something deeper and more to life. Do you long for happiness and fulfillment? In your life so far, you may have had to do a lot of things on your own. But there are some things we can't do alone. A big step in healing is becoming ready to let in support. You may be in a dark night of the soul, which requires a form of therapy that goes deeper.
(818) 452-2304 View (818) 452-2304
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Carter Care Therapeutic Services, Margena Carter
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
San Francisco, CA 94111
Are you interested in living life to the fullest but struggle to achieve it? You've taken the first steps towards healing. Carter Care Therapeutic Services is dedicated to you! Regardless of what you're going through, our team of Licensed Therapist will strive to bring out the best in you. You're not alone. We can assist you in resolving your past pain! We will affirm your strengths and challenge you to use them. While promoting insight, healing and change in an environment full of warmth and genuineness. Carter Care Therapist are here to provide a safe, unbiased and non-judgmental environment.
Are you interested in living life to the fullest but struggle to achieve it? You've taken the first steps towards healing. Carter Care Therapeutic Services is dedicated to you! Regardless of what you're going through, our team of Licensed Therapist will strive to bring out the best in you. You're not alone. We can assist you in resolving your past pain! We will affirm your strengths and challenge you to use them. While promoting insight, healing and change in an environment full of warmth and genuineness. Carter Care Therapist are here to provide a safe, unbiased and non-judgmental environment.
(310) 361-2479 View (310) 361-2479
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Lexi Traub
Associate Professional Counselor, APCC
3 Endorsed
San Francisco, CA 94111
Are you a self-motivated creative? I work with highly-sensitive, and neurodivergent individuals who are stable and seeking to develop greater self-awareness, secure attachment, and nervous system regulation. I focus on supporting you with building secure relationships, trust your intuition, and manage your emotions. Alongside my clinical practice I bring 15+ years of spiritual and holistic practices, along with evidence-based practices to help you rewire your subconscious, reparent yourself, and build loving relationships. I work with Kink, LGBTQ+, ENM, LDR, Couples, Kids, Adults, Psychedelic Integration
Are you a self-motivated creative? I work with highly-sensitive, and neurodivergent individuals who are stable and seeking to develop greater self-awareness, secure attachment, and nervous system regulation. I focus on supporting you with building secure relationships, trust your intuition, and manage your emotions. Alongside my clinical practice I bring 15+ years of spiritual and holistic practices, along with evidence-based practices to help you rewire your subconscious, reparent yourself, and build loving relationships. I work with Kink, LGBTQ+, ENM, LDR, Couples, Kids, Adults, Psychedelic Integration
(424) 484-7137 View (424) 484-7137
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Psychedelic Therapy ~Insurance Coverage Available
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
San Francisco, CA 94115
Feya Health is a woman-owned, Psychedelic Assisted Psychotherapy group practice, featured on MTV. Our Integrative approach helps clients address their self-destructive patterns by getting to the core and root of their issues. The result is a drastic reduction in the initial presenting symptoms over a short period of time. We offer a comprehensive, integrative & customizable approach to the Ketamine & Oxytocin Therapy Process and specialize in EMDR, PTSD, CPTSD, human optimization and Pharmaceutical Medication withdrawal. Feya accepts Medicare for in-network coverage for all of our services!
Feya Health is a woman-owned, Psychedelic Assisted Psychotherapy group practice, featured on MTV. Our Integrative approach helps clients address their self-destructive patterns by getting to the core and root of their issues. The result is a drastic reduction in the initial presenting symptoms over a short period of time. We offer a comprehensive, integrative & customizable approach to the Ketamine & Oxytocin Therapy Process and specialize in EMDR, PTSD, CPTSD, human optimization and Pharmaceutical Medication withdrawal. Feya accepts Medicare for in-network coverage for all of our services!
(929) 442-0715 View (929) 442-0715
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Shawna Norris
Verified Verified
San Francisco, CA 94114
Congratulations on taking the first step towards making some life changes. I understand because I've been there. Sometimes we all need a little support in achieving our goals. That’s just fine because life can be overwhelming. Often, we just need a bit of guidance finding the answers that are already inside of us and that’s when coaching can be helpful. The coaching process works well in any area of your life you want to develop or change. The hardest part is taking the first step and I work with men and women who do just that.
Congratulations on taking the first step towards making some life changes. I understand because I've been there. Sometimes we all need a little support in achieving our goals. That’s just fine because life can be overwhelming. Often, we just need a bit of guidance finding the answers that are already inside of us and that’s when coaching can be helpful. The coaching process works well in any area of your life you want to develop or change. The hardest part is taking the first step and I work with men and women who do just that.
(410) 873-7401 View (410) 873-7401
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Debbie Vuong, MFT
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT
San Francisco, CA 94115
I focus my practice on supporting autistic young adults, professionals, and children navigating the complex transitions to independence. Often, these individuals have spent years "masking" to fit into a neurotypical world, leading to profound overwhelm and a sense of being deeply misunderstood. Whether finding footing in adulthood, seeking professional success, or building a child’s foundation, my clients share a common goal: to move beyond survival toward a life that celebrates their unique strengths. This work is designed for those seeking a meaningful, steady, and long-lasting path forward.
I focus my practice on supporting autistic young adults, professionals, and children navigating the complex transitions to independence. Often, these individuals have spent years "masking" to fit into a neurotypical world, leading to profound overwhelm and a sense of being deeply misunderstood. Whether finding footing in adulthood, seeking professional success, or building a child’s foundation, my clients share a common goal: to move beyond survival toward a life that celebrates their unique strengths. This work is designed for those seeking a meaningful, steady, and long-lasting path forward.
(415) 949-7120 View (415) 949-7120

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Neuro-Linguistic (NLP) Therapists
How does neuro-linguistic programming work?
A therapist using Neuro-linguistic programming might start by building a strong rapport and gathering information about the client’s objectives and any problem areas. Then the NLP therapist will employ NLP techniques to guide their client toward healthier thoughts and behaviors. Clients will learn how to better manage their moods and hone their communication skills. NLP will conclude with the therapist and client making a plan for how to integrate the positive changes into their daily life in the future.

What are some techniques used in neuro-linguistic programming?
NLP therapists often employ anchoring, so the client begins to automatically associate their trigger with a healthier response. Clients also learn how to reframe a situation to change the way they react to it for the better, and how to replace the negative beliefs that are holding them back. Many NLP clients practice visualization or forming a mental image of themselves attaining their goals. Every NLP therapist will have their own preferred approach with specific techniques that they have found to be helpful for their clients.

How long does neuro-linguistic programming take?
Since neuro-linguistic programming is not regulated, the length of treatment can vary greatly. Some therapists may only use NLP in a single session, while others may employ it over the course of weeks, months, or even years. It depends greatly on the type and severity of the problem being treated, as well as the individual client’s response to NLP treatment.

Is neuro-linguistic programming evidence-based?
While some people may find neuro-linguistic programming helpful, either in therapy or in their career or personal development, the science behind this approach is inconclusive. Most of the available studies are small in scale and have produced mixed results, and the commercial nature of NLP lends itself to conflicts of interest. More research is needed. In the meantime, practitioners must use their best judgment of whether NLP techniques will be helpful in meeting their clients’ individual needs.