Infidelity Therapists in San Francisco, CA
Topics can include but not limited to: family systems, attachment styles, intimacy, pleasure, sexual dysfunction, boundaries, kink and BDSM, religion, fertility/ reproductive health, non monogamy/ polyamory, infidelity, mood disorders.
As a sex-positive Asian, licensed clinician and certified sex therapist, I provide a safe and supportive space for individuals and couples to explore their attachment and relationship dynamics, intimacy, identity of self, and sexuality. I believe that everyone has the capacity to experience pleasure, joy, and have an overall sense of freedom throughout their lives, especially when they are living their most authentic life.
Topics can include but not limited to: family systems, attachment styles, intimacy, pleasure, sexual dysfunction, boundaries, kink and BDSM, religion, fertility/ reproductive health, non monogamy/ polyamory, infidelity, mood disorders.
As a sex-positive Asian, licensed clinician and certified sex therapist, I provide a safe and supportive space for individuals and couples to explore their attachment and relationship dynamics, intimacy, identity of self, and sexuality. I believe that everyone has the capacity to experience pleasure, joy, and have an overall sense of freedom throughout their lives, especially when they are living their most authentic life.
Marina Counseling | Affirming & Inclusive Therapy
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA, AMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Francisco, CA 94123
Our team reflects the vibrant diversity of the Bay area; we have therapists on staff who specialize in working with Asian, BIPOC, Black, immigrant, Jewish, Latinx, LGBTQ+, and multiracial clients, in ADHD, autism, eating disorders, infidelity, psychedelic integration, and trauma; visit our website to view our therapists' profiles and specialties.
Life’s challenges can feel overwhelming, but you don’t have to face them alone. Our diverse team of therapists provides affordable, trauma-informed, and culturally-sensitive psychotherapy for adults, children, teens, couples, and families, in person in San Francisco's Marina and Downtown districts, and virtually for residents in all of California. Our sliding scale fees are thoughtfully adjusted to your income and circumstances to make long-term weekly therapy a reality. We take great care to connect you with a therapist who resonates with your lived experience and the challenges you're facing.
Our team reflects the vibrant diversity of the Bay area; we have therapists on staff who specialize in working with Asian, BIPOC, Black, immigrant, Jewish, Latinx, LGBTQ+, and multiracial clients, in ADHD, autism, eating disorders, infidelity, psychedelic integration, and trauma; visit our website to view our therapists' profiles and specialties.
Life’s challenges can feel overwhelming, but you don’t have to face them alone. Our diverse team of therapists provides affordable, trauma-informed, and culturally-sensitive psychotherapy for adults, children, teens, couples, and families, in person in San Francisco's Marina and Downtown districts, and virtually for residents in all of California. Our sliding scale fees are thoughtfully adjusted to your income and circumstances to make long-term weekly therapy a reality. We take great care to connect you with a therapist who resonates with your lived experience and the challenges you're facing.
I work with individuals like you who are facing challenges such as anxiety, low mood, people-pleasing, perfectionism, trauma, and relationship issues (including marriage, communication, divorce, parenting, and infidelity).
As a therapist specializing in anxiety, trauma, relationship challenges, and cultural identity, I offer a compassionate, non-judgmental space where you can feel truly seen and heard. My approach combines deep empathy with practical, evidence-based tools, helping you connect with your emotions and navigate life’s challenges on a deeper, more meaningful level.
I work with individuals like you who are facing challenges such as anxiety, low mood, people-pleasing, perfectionism, trauma, and relationship issues (including marriage, communication, divorce, parenting, and infidelity).
As a therapist specializing in anxiety, trauma, relationship challenges, and cultural identity, I offer a compassionate, non-judgmental space where you can feel truly seen and heard. My approach combines deep empathy with practical, evidence-based tools, helping you connect with your emotions and navigate life’s challenges on a deeper, more meaningful level.
I have witnessed and experienced the therapeutic relationship to be incredibly healing and transformative for clients dealing with a variety of issues, including relationship/family concerns, depression, anxiety, postpartum issues, parenting, infertility/pregnancy, grief/loss, infidelity, trauma, career/life transitions, low self-esteem, and substance abuse.
I offer holistic psychotherapy to individuals and couples with a primary focus on relationship issues, anxiety, trauma, and women's issues. My approach is warm, compassionate, interactive, and engaged. I am particularly interested in helping you become more connected to your sense of purpose and authenticity. Above all, I am curious about your unique needs and collaborate with you to continually address and meet these needs.
I have witnessed and experienced the therapeutic relationship to be incredibly healing and transformative for clients dealing with a variety of issues, including relationship/family concerns, depression, anxiety, postpartum issues, parenting, infertility/pregnancy, grief/loss, infidelity, trauma, career/life transitions, low self-esteem, and substance abuse.
I offer holistic psychotherapy to individuals and couples with a primary focus on relationship issues, anxiety, trauma, and women's issues. My approach is warm, compassionate, interactive, and engaged. I am particularly interested in helping you become more connected to your sense of purpose and authenticity. Above all, I am curious about your unique needs and collaborate with you to continually address and meet these needs.
I've worked in community mental health, group practices, Veteran's Affairs hospitals, as well as in outpatient and inpatient settings.
I am a licensed clinical psychologist in California with specializations in depression, anxiety, PTSD, trauma, phobias, self-esteem issues, relationship issues, interpersonal effectiveness, and social skills training. I provide individual psychotherapy for adults. I also have experience working with high-functioning adults on the spectrum. I am in-network for the listed insurances.
I've worked in community mental health, group practices, Veteran's Affairs hospitals, as well as in outpatient and inpatient settings.
I am a licensed clinical psychologist in California with specializations in depression, anxiety, PTSD, trauma, phobias, self-esteem issues, relationship issues, interpersonal effectiveness, and social skills training. I provide individual psychotherapy for adults. I also have experience working with high-functioning adults on the spectrum. I am in-network for the listed insurances.
Recently I have been working with couples coming to address relationship challenges: intimacy and infidelity, finances, gambling and addictions, co-parenting and blended families, domestic violence and child abuse, as well as other relationship challenges.
Soy un terapeuta que es bilingüe y bicultural que ha trabajado en el campo de la salud mental y servicios sociales por más de 16 años. Normalmente trabajo con individuos y familias con varios hermanos, pero también proporciono terapia para parejas también.
Recently I have been working with couples coming to address relationship challenges: intimacy and infidelity, finances, gambling and addictions, co-parenting and blended families, domestic violence and child abuse, as well as other relationship challenges.
Soy un terapeuta que es bilingüe y bicultural que ha trabajado en el campo de la salud mental y servicios sociales por más de 16 años. Normalmente trabajo con individuos y familias con varios hermanos, pero también proporciono terapia para parejas también.
As a Certified Sex Therapist, I help men & women across the sexuality spectrum to overcome performance anxieties, sexual guilt & shame, communication issues, and infidelity.
Are you distracted by insecurities or unhelpful thoughts during sex? Can sex sometimes feel like a performance or an obligation to keep your partner happy? Do you worry that you'll disappoint your partner because of difficulties with erections or orgasm? Do you sometimes avoid partnered sex altogether because masturbating to porn feels less complicated than sex with a partner? If so, you’re not alone, and there's likely nothing "wrong" with you. You may simply be one of the many adults experiencing performance anxieties, desire discrepancies, or who simply have unhelpful beliefs about sex. The good news? I'm know how to help.
As a Certified Sex Therapist, I help men & women across the sexuality spectrum to overcome performance anxieties, sexual guilt & shame, communication issues, and infidelity.
Are you distracted by insecurities or unhelpful thoughts during sex? Can sex sometimes feel like a performance or an obligation to keep your partner happy? Do you worry that you'll disappoint your partner because of difficulties with erections or orgasm? Do you sometimes avoid partnered sex altogether because masturbating to porn feels less complicated than sex with a partner? If so, you’re not alone, and there's likely nothing "wrong" with you. You may simply be one of the many adults experiencing performance anxieties, desire discrepancies, or who simply have unhelpful beliefs about sex. The good news? I'm know how to help.
CBT certification from Department of Veterans Affairs.
Serving couples and individuals (including moms navigating prenatal, postpartum, parenting, career and personal growth).
Are you feeling stuck, caught in patterns of anxiety, trauma, and feeling like you're just not good enough? Do the painful memories of your past keep creeping up even though you’re desperately trying to move forward?
In your relationship, are you tired of having the same exhausting interactions with your partner?
Peace is within reach!
I offer online individual and couples/marriage therapy for clients in Los Angeles, San Francisco and anywhere you are in CA, PA, and FL to help you heal, strengthen and grow.
CBT certification from Department of Veterans Affairs.
Serving couples and individuals (including moms navigating prenatal, postpartum, parenting, career and personal growth).
Are you feeling stuck, caught in patterns of anxiety, trauma, and feeling like you're just not good enough? Do the painful memories of your past keep creeping up even though you’re desperately trying to move forward?
In your relationship, are you tired of having the same exhausting interactions with your partner?
Peace is within reach!
I offer online individual and couples/marriage therapy for clients in Los Angeles, San Francisco and anywhere you are in CA, PA, and FL to help you heal, strengthen and grow.
Areas of expertise include infertility, relationship discord, recovery from infidelity and divorce, adjusting to being a new parent, caring for aging parents or a loved one, and loss of a family member.
My other areas of focus are depression, anxiety, and childhood trauma. I help people and couples understand the origins and triggers of their challenges and assist them in building relationship connection, including emotional and physical intimacy and a healthy, balanced and meaningful life.
Areas of expertise include infertility, relationship discord, recovery from infidelity and divorce, adjusting to being a new parent, caring for aging parents or a loved one, and loss of a family member.
My other areas of focus are depression, anxiety, and childhood trauma. I help people and couples understand the origins and triggers of their challenges and assist them in building relationship connection, including emotional and physical intimacy and a healthy, balanced and meaningful life.
As a licensed marriage and family therapist I help couples resolve chronic conflicts, repair after boundary crossing/ infidelity, improve communication, and restore intimacy and pleasure.
I show up to our time together with grace and humor. I utilize somatic techniques that center safety, regulation, and curiosity. Through a relational lens I guide folks in exploring the landscape of their inner and outer relationships to help restore ease and connection. This approach is empowering, meaningful, and practical.
As a licensed marriage and family therapist I help couples resolve chronic conflicts, repair after boundary crossing/ infidelity, improve communication, and restore intimacy and pleasure.
I show up to our time together with grace and humor. I utilize somatic techniques that center safety, regulation, and curiosity. Through a relational lens I guide folks in exploring the landscape of their inner and outer relationships to help restore ease and connection. This approach is empowering, meaningful, and practical.
Scott Church
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC/MHC, NCC, CST
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Online Only
I help individuals and those in traditional, or non-traditional, relationships, explore issues surrounding: sex, sexuality/sexual orientation, gender, sexual performance/functioning, desire discrepancy, kink/fetishes, compulsive sexual behavior/sex addiction, sexual abuse/trauma, communication, intimacy, and betrays of trust/ infidelity.
I bring effective therapeutic approaches (mindfulness-, somatic-, and attachment-based) to my work with clients. I work intuitively and collaboratively to help clients better understand themselves, the dynamics of relationships, and to effectively address underlying causes, sexual dysfunction, trauma, compulsive sexual behavior, etc.
I help individuals and those in traditional, or non-traditional, relationships, explore issues surrounding: sex, sexuality/sexual orientation, gender, sexual performance/functioning, desire discrepancy, kink/fetishes, compulsive sexual behavior/sex addiction, sexual abuse/trauma, communication, intimacy, and betrays of trust/ infidelity.
I bring effective therapeutic approaches (mindfulness-, somatic-, and attachment-based) to my work with clients. I work intuitively and collaboratively to help clients better understand themselves, the dynamics of relationships, and to effectively address underlying causes, sexual dysfunction, trauma, compulsive sexual behavior, etc.
Meet Our Infidelity Therapists
Michele O'Mara
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, PhD, IMAGO
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Online Only
Infidelity, cheating, and emotional affairs.
I can help you uncover the unconscious drives that influence unhelpful behaviors and teach you effective ways to communicate, create meaningful connections with your partner, understand and heal betrayals, and rebuild trust and a better relationship. I'm Certified in Imago and Discernment, trained on all 3 Levels of Gottman Method, and have EFT training.
Infidelity, cheating, and emotional affairs.
I can help you uncover the unconscious drives that influence unhelpful behaviors and teach you effective ways to communicate, create meaningful connections with your partner, understand and heal betrayals, and rebuild trust and a better relationship. I'm Certified in Imago and Discernment, trained on all 3 Levels of Gottman Method, and have EFT training.
it's "talk therapy" to explore sexuality & issues with sexual desire, intimacy, affairs/ infidelity, orgasm, erectile difficulty, compulsive behavior, porn over-use, gender/orientation concerns, sexual abuse issues.
We all get 'stuck' sometimes. As humans, sometimes the road is very rough. But, you don't have to go it alone! To be fully yourself, comfortable in your own skin, enjoying your relationships - these possibilities are in you, no matter how big the obstacles are. I can help! I'm your coach, your consultant, your experienced mental health expert. Together we'll build on your strengths and grow your confidence to create lasting change. Warm, caring and knowledgeable...this is a safe, compassionate space to explore the difficult places and experiences in your life. You can find healing and grow!
it's "talk therapy" to explore sexuality & issues with sexual desire, intimacy, affairs/ infidelity, orgasm, erectile difficulty, compulsive behavior, porn over-use, gender/orientation concerns, sexual abuse issues.
We all get 'stuck' sometimes. As humans, sometimes the road is very rough. But, you don't have to go it alone! To be fully yourself, comfortable in your own skin, enjoying your relationships - these possibilities are in you, no matter how big the obstacles are. I can help! I'm your coach, your consultant, your experienced mental health expert. Together we'll build on your strengths and grow your confidence to create lasting change. Warm, caring and knowledgeable...this is a safe, compassionate space to explore the difficult places and experiences in your life. You can find healing and grow!
Gerald B. Chambers
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Francisco, CA 94111
My strengths: Addictions, couples, domestic violence, infidelity, interpersonal conflict, parenting, peak performance, relationships, and trauma.
Relationships are as important to us as food and water. They can strengthen us, like a vitamin, or weaken us, like the flu. You are only as good in relationships as the relationships you have been in. As your therapist I can assist you in many ways. I can help you learn more about yourself, increase both self-compassion and compassion for others, and heal past trauma. Together, we can explore how to feel more connected to yourself, your values, and people you care about.
My strengths: Addictions, couples, domestic violence, infidelity, interpersonal conflict, parenting, peak performance, relationships, and trauma.
Relationships are as important to us as food and water. They can strengthen us, like a vitamin, or weaken us, like the flu. You are only as good in relationships as the relationships you have been in. As your therapist I can assist you in many ways. I can help you learn more about yourself, increase both self-compassion and compassion for others, and heal past trauma. Together, we can explore how to feel more connected to yourself, your values, and people you care about.
My specialties include topics of: intimacy, infidelity, marriage, divorce, dating, attachment style and workplace dynamics.
Whether you feel exhausted from efforts to please others, guilty for prioritizing your needs, or stuck in the same holding patterns, therapy can help. I will aim to help you navigate indecision, shame, and doubt so that you can make choices with confidence, and calmly handle interpersonal distress.
My specialties include topics of: intimacy, infidelity, marriage, divorce, dating, attachment style and workplace dynamics.
Whether you feel exhausted from efforts to please others, guilty for prioritizing your needs, or stuck in the same holding patterns, therapy can help. I will aim to help you navigate indecision, shame, and doubt so that you can make choices with confidence, and calmly handle interpersonal distress.
At THT, we help individuals and couples heal from trauma, including childhood wounds, relationship betrayal, medical trauma, and loss.
Do you experience overwhelming feelings of anxiety, isolation, fear, or persistent sadness? Do you find yourself stuck (over and over) in painful relationship patterns? Are you struggling to move forward after a traumatic event? Do you long for healthier connections, emotional relief, or a space to process your pain without judgment? Is it hard to live a fulfilling life because of these struggles? If you often wonder if there's a way forward, you're not alone.
At THT, we help individuals and couples heal from trauma, including childhood wounds, relationship betrayal, medical trauma, and loss.
Do you experience overwhelming feelings of anxiety, isolation, fear, or persistent sadness? Do you find yourself stuck (over and over) in painful relationship patterns? Are you struggling to move forward after a traumatic event? Do you long for healthier connections, emotional relief, or a space to process your pain without judgment? Is it hard to live a fulfilling life because of these struggles? If you often wonder if there's a way forward, you're not alone.
I work with clients ranging from 15 and up on grief, infertility, infidelity, depression, anxiety, OCD, moral/religious identity, sexual abuse, sexual and gender identity, and chronic mental illness.
Trained in Gottman and Prepare/Enrich therapy, I work with premarital couples and couples in conflict seeking to rediscover friendship. I have advanced training in EMDR and Dialectical Behavioral Therapy. I use these techniques to teach emotional regulation skills and help reduce anxiety, depression, and assist clients in building effective relationships.
I work with clients ranging from 15 and up on grief, infertility, infidelity, depression, anxiety, OCD, moral/religious identity, sexual abuse, sexual and gender identity, and chronic mental illness.
Trained in Gottman and Prepare/Enrich therapy, I work with premarital couples and couples in conflict seeking to rediscover friendship. I have advanced training in EMDR and Dialectical Behavioral Therapy. I use these techniques to teach emotional regulation skills and help reduce anxiety, depression, and assist clients in building effective relationships.
I help people struggling with emotional volatility, the effects of trauma including betrayal trauma; substance abuse, sex/porn addiction, “hair pulling”, "head banging" overeating, excessive people pleasing, or obsessively organizing or cleaning to get things “just right”, the list goes on and on, and anxiety, panic, and feelings of depression can result.
I don’t know why I do it… I just seems instinctual, automatic, or just “who I am”. It happens before I can even think of a different way to do things. Even if I know logically that it is not helpful behavior, I can’t seem to stop myself.
Does this sound like you or a loved one? Some of our responses are unconscious and are triggered by either internal or external factors or both. These responses or behaviors can become compulsive and destructive to ourselves, our relationships, and our lives. I work with individuals, couples and families who are struggling with these symptoms or are affected by these symptoms in their loved ones.
I help people struggling with emotional volatility, the effects of trauma including betrayal trauma; substance abuse, sex/porn addiction, “hair pulling”, "head banging" overeating, excessive people pleasing, or obsessively organizing or cleaning to get things “just right”, the list goes on and on, and anxiety, panic, and feelings of depression can result.
I don’t know why I do it… I just seems instinctual, automatic, or just “who I am”. It happens before I can even think of a different way to do things. Even if I know logically that it is not helpful behavior, I can’t seem to stop myself.
Does this sound like you or a loved one? Some of our responses are unconscious and are triggered by either internal or external factors or both. These responses or behaviors can become compulsive and destructive to ourselves, our relationships, and our lives. I work with individuals, couples and families who are struggling with these symptoms or are affected by these symptoms in their loved ones.
Divorce, infidelity, narcissism, addiction, depression, & anxious parenting can all leave their marks.
The needs of others come before your own? Sometimes, as children, we fundamentally altered who we were to adjust to trauma, role-reversals, and cold parenting. This can create an underdeveloped sense of self or we are sensitive the slightest shifts in the moods of others. Relationships are scary. When happiness finally starts to seep in, an overwhelming fear sets in that it will all collapse & disappear.
Divorce, infidelity, narcissism, addiction, depression, & anxious parenting can all leave their marks.
The needs of others come before your own? Sometimes, as children, we fundamentally altered who we were to adjust to trauma, role-reversals, and cold parenting. This can create an underdeveloped sense of self or we are sensitive the slightest shifts in the moods of others. Relationships are scary. When happiness finally starts to seep in, an overwhelming fear sets in that it will all collapse & disappear.
I help clients who are coping with stressful circumstances such as a challenging or neurodivergent child, a serious medical diagnosis, divorce, co-parenting, infidelity, a career crisis or the loss of a loved one.
At times like this we can feel slammed with feelings of grief, hopelessness, anxiety, overwhelm and isolation. I work with clients to process these profound shifts in their lives and help them discover their new normal.
I help clients who are coping with stressful circumstances such as a challenging or neurodivergent child, a serious medical diagnosis, divorce, co-parenting, infidelity, a career crisis or the loss of a loved one.
At times like this we can feel slammed with feelings of grief, hopelessness, anxiety, overwhelm and isolation. I work with clients to process these profound shifts in their lives and help them discover their new normal.
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