Infidelity Therapists in San Francisco, CA

Are you feeling overwhelmed by betrayal and unsure where to turn?
I specialize in working with women, like you, who are navigating the devastating aftermath of partner betrayal. You might be struggling with symptoms of PTSD—sleepless nights, flashbacks, overwhelming emotions—and feel consumed with thoughts of your partner’s actions. Your relationship and family feel uncertain, and it’s overwhelming.
Are you feeling overwhelmed by betrayal and unsure where to turn?
I specialize in working with women, like you, who are navigating the devastating aftermath of partner betrayal. You might be struggling with symptoms of PTSD—sleepless nights, flashbacks, overwhelming emotions—and feel consumed with thoughts of your partner’s actions. Your relationship and family feel uncertain, and it’s overwhelming.

In my work with couples impacted by sexual addiction, betrayal, or infidelity, I support the relationship repair process by providing immediate structure and communication tools.
I am a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT) through the International Institute for Trauma and Addiction Professionals (IITAP). I joined Foundry Clinical Group in 2019, under the guidance of Jenner Bishop. I have completed all 3 levels of Professional Education & Training on Dr. Omar Minwalla's Deceptive Sexuality and Trauma (DST) model and treatment.
In my work with couples impacted by sexual addiction, betrayal, or infidelity, I support the relationship repair process by providing immediate structure and communication tools.
I am a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT) through the International Institute for Trauma and Addiction Professionals (IITAP). I joined Foundry Clinical Group in 2019, under the guidance of Jenner Bishop. I have completed all 3 levels of Professional Education & Training on Dr. Omar Minwalla's Deceptive Sexuality and Trauma (DST) model and treatment.

I specialize in the following for couples: mixed couples (interracial, intercultural, and interreligious), trauma, intimacy, infidelity/transgressions, pre-marital counseling, family planning, and the separation and ending of a relationship.
My clinical approach is multi-disciplinary and rooted in psychodynamic theory, attachment theory, cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), and humanistic psychology. I also have a background in integrative health and wellness, which can contribute to a more in-depth perspective on treatment. My style is collaborative, interpersonal, direct, and non-judgemental, and I encourage clients to be true to themselves and transparent. Although treatment is based on an individual's needs and goals, primary objectives in treatment are to help clients (re)connect to their confidence and curiosity and to reinforce their capacity and resiliency.
I specialize in the following for couples: mixed couples (interracial, intercultural, and interreligious), trauma, intimacy, infidelity/transgressions, pre-marital counseling, family planning, and the separation and ending of a relationship.
My clinical approach is multi-disciplinary and rooted in psychodynamic theory, attachment theory, cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), and humanistic psychology. I also have a background in integrative health and wellness, which can contribute to a more in-depth perspective on treatment. My style is collaborative, interpersonal, direct, and non-judgemental, and I encourage clients to be true to themselves and transparent. Although treatment is based on an individual's needs and goals, primary objectives in treatment are to help clients (re)connect to their confidence and curiosity and to reinforce their capacity and resiliency.

Jose E Trejo
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, Jose E , Trejo, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Online Only
I work with couples and individuals struggling in relationships, infidelity work, having conflict, not connecting, wanting to improve their relationship, wanting to or preparing to be in a relationship and working through the end of a relationship.
I tailor my treatment towards you with a solution-focused, goal-oriented and skills-based approach! This includes a biopsychosocial lens while including the significance of cultural factors. I build on your strengths, utilize resiliency, and focus on the actions needed in order to resolve the struggles you present with.
I work with couples and individuals struggling in relationships, infidelity work, having conflict, not connecting, wanting to improve their relationship, wanting to or preparing to be in a relationship and working through the end of a relationship.
I tailor my treatment towards you with a solution-focused, goal-oriented and skills-based approach! This includes a biopsychosocial lens while including the significance of cultural factors. I build on your strengths, utilize resiliency, and focus on the actions needed in order to resolve the struggles you present with.

Are you feeling stuck in relationship conflicts, facing a tough decision, or trying to heal from a betrayal?
I use Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), a research-backed approach that helps couples and individuals recognize negative patterns and create deeper emotional bonds. Whether you're struggling with conflict, communication breakdowns, or emotional distance, therapy can help. Our work together will be collaborative and tailored to your unique needs.
Are you feeling stuck in relationship conflicts, facing a tough decision, or trying to heal from a betrayal?
I use Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), a research-backed approach that helps couples and individuals recognize negative patterns and create deeper emotional bonds. Whether you're struggling with conflict, communication breakdowns, or emotional distance, therapy can help. Our work together will be collaborative and tailored to your unique needs.

Modern dating and relationships have become a tumultuous territory of uncertainty, miscommunication, rampant ghosting and infidelity.
As a first generation Southeast Asian immigrant raised in the Bay Area, I work with multiple lenses. I provide a multicultural, attachment based, sex positive approach catering to each individual’s needs. I work with clients navigating relationship issues (including ENM and interracial dynamics), identity exploration, grief & loss, and life transitions.
Modern dating and relationships have become a tumultuous territory of uncertainty, miscommunication, rampant ghosting and infidelity.
As a first generation Southeast Asian immigrant raised in the Bay Area, I work with multiple lenses. I provide a multicultural, attachment based, sex positive approach catering to each individual’s needs. I work with clients navigating relationship issues (including ENM and interracial dynamics), identity exploration, grief & loss, and life transitions.

I help clients navigate challenges like life transitions, relationship issues, burnout, parenting, work-life balance, grief, marriage counseling, addiction, gambling, sex addiction, internet addiction, infidelity, self-esteem, stress, divorce, anxiety, and depression.
My therapeutic style is approachable, warm, curious, and, when necessary, challenging. I offer evidence-based treatment modalities, including Gestalt therapy, with a foundation rooted in tolerance, curiosity, and a deep commitment to supporting your unique journey. We will work collaboratively to see how you can learn respond to your environment with greater freedom and choice, where you can see possibilities and turn them into actualities. I'm here to support you in becoming your best self.
I help clients navigate challenges like life transitions, relationship issues, burnout, parenting, work-life balance, grief, marriage counseling, addiction, gambling, sex addiction, internet addiction, infidelity, self-esteem, stress, divorce, anxiety, and depression.
My therapeutic style is approachable, warm, curious, and, when necessary, challenging. I offer evidence-based treatment modalities, including Gestalt therapy, with a foundation rooted in tolerance, curiosity, and a deep commitment to supporting your unique journey. We will work collaboratively to see how you can learn respond to your environment with greater freedom and choice, where you can see possibilities and turn them into actualities. I'm here to support you in becoming your best self.

I have specialized expertise in working with couples, and have successfully helped couples and individuals work through difficult relationship issues including challenging communication, betrayal, loss of intimacy, parenting challenges, sexual trauma, multicultural dynamics, and preparing for marriage.
I specialize in working with people who feel anxious, overwhelmed, or distressed in career, life situation, or around their relationships, whether with a significant other, family, friends, or social situations. Often this involves working with challenging relationship dynamics, insecurities, sense of self, sense of purpose, or past trauma. My approach combines my experience in both psychotherapy and coaching and is direct, compassionate, and transformative. I utilize the proven research focusing on the neurobiology of attachment along with a holistic toolbox including mindfulness and somatic (body oriented) awareness.
I have specialized expertise in working with couples, and have successfully helped couples and individuals work through difficult relationship issues including challenging communication, betrayal, loss of intimacy, parenting challenges, sexual trauma, multicultural dynamics, and preparing for marriage.
I specialize in working with people who feel anxious, overwhelmed, or distressed in career, life situation, or around their relationships, whether with a significant other, family, friends, or social situations. Often this involves working with challenging relationship dynamics, insecurities, sense of self, sense of purpose, or past trauma. My approach combines my experience in both psychotherapy and coaching and is direct, compassionate, and transformative. I utilize the proven research focusing on the neurobiology of attachment along with a holistic toolbox including mindfulness and somatic (body oriented) awareness.

Natalie Pimenta
Associate Professional Clinical Counselor, MA, APCC
Verified Verified
San Francisco, CA 94114
My specialties include helping clients calm anxiety, mobilize depression, heal trauma, PTSD, betrayal, divorce, and regain balance during pregnancy and postpartum.
If you're feeling stuck or carrying the weight of anxiety, depression, self-doubt or relational trauma, I bring warmth, compassion and effective practices to help you find a path forward. Working together, we'll create a safe and supportive space to explore your experiences with care while relieving distress and building resilience. My approach is collaborative and relational, blending unconditional positive regard with evidence-based techniques that help calm anxiety, ease depression, and nurture relationships. Most importantly, therapy is a partnership, and I'll meet you where you are every step of the way.
My specialties include helping clients calm anxiety, mobilize depression, heal trauma, PTSD, betrayal, divorce, and regain balance during pregnancy and postpartum.
If you're feeling stuck or carrying the weight of anxiety, depression, self-doubt or relational trauma, I bring warmth, compassion and effective practices to help you find a path forward. Working together, we'll create a safe and supportive space to explore your experiences with care while relieving distress and building resilience. My approach is collaborative and relational, blending unconditional positive regard with evidence-based techniques that help calm anxiety, ease depression, and nurture relationships. Most importantly, therapy is a partnership, and I'll meet you where you are every step of the way.

As a specialist in sex and relationship, people seek my help for a variety of sexual and relational issues including: recovery from infidelity, out of control sexual behavior aka 'sex addiction,' desire discrepancies, low-sex or no-sex marriages, sex pain, 'sexual performance' issues, challenges with ethical non-monogamy or a desire to open up a relationship, conflicts around porn or fetishes, religious sexual shame, arguing + communication issues, lack of intimacy, major life transitions and couples on the brink of divorce who want clarity and confidence about how to move forward.
In sessions together, you'll learn important relational and/or coping skills, increase insight, shift patterns that don't serve you and have new experiences of connection. I'll provide a welcoming, compassionate space for you to share what's on your heart and mind and support you in illuminating a way through the rough spots in your life and relationships.
As a specialist in sex and relationship, people seek my help for a variety of sexual and relational issues including: recovery from infidelity, out of control sexual behavior aka 'sex addiction,' desire discrepancies, low-sex or no-sex marriages, sex pain, 'sexual performance' issues, challenges with ethical non-monogamy or a desire to open up a relationship, conflicts around porn or fetishes, religious sexual shame, arguing + communication issues, lack of intimacy, major life transitions and couples on the brink of divorce who want clarity and confidence about how to move forward.
In sessions together, you'll learn important relational and/or coping skills, increase insight, shift patterns that don't serve you and have new experiences of connection. I'll provide a welcoming, compassionate space for you to share what's on your heart and mind and support you in illuminating a way through the rough spots in your life and relationships.

communication, trust, commitment; sex/intimacy; neurodiversity; non-monogamy; infidelity; divorce; parenting.
For 17 years, I have worked successfully w/individuals and couples who want to feel better/create change in their lives. Whether relationship difficulty; anxiety or depression; work stress; life transition; trauma, loss, insecurity; you seek direction, deeper connection, a more creative/fulfilling life, or just feel lost or stuck - I tailor the treatment to your unique needs. Good therapy can transform - lead to feeling more alive, true to yourself, capable. We'll work together to alleviate your suffering, challenge old patterns of thinking/relating/behavior behind your distress, find new perspective, achieve your goals.
communication, trust, commitment; sex/intimacy; neurodiversity; non-monogamy; infidelity; divorce; parenting.
For 17 years, I have worked successfully w/individuals and couples who want to feel better/create change in their lives. Whether relationship difficulty; anxiety or depression; work stress; life transition; trauma, loss, insecurity; you seek direction, deeper connection, a more creative/fulfilling life, or just feel lost or stuck - I tailor the treatment to your unique needs. Good therapy can transform - lead to feeling more alive, true to yourself, capable. We'll work together to alleviate your suffering, challenge old patterns of thinking/relating/behavior behind your distress, find new perspective, achieve your goals.
Meet Our Infidelity Therapists

Marina Counseling | Affirming & Inclusive Therapy
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA, AMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Francisco, CA 94123
Our team reflects the vibrant diversity of the Bay area; we have therapists on staff who specialize in working with Asian, BIPOC, Black, immigrant, Jewish, Latinx, LGBTQ+, and multiracial clients, in ADHD, autism, eating disorders, infidelity, psychedelic integration, and trauma; visit our website to view our therapists' profiles and specialties.
Life’s challenges can feel overwhelming, but you don’t have to face them alone. Our diverse team of therapists provides affordable, trauma-informed, and culturally-sensitive psychotherapy for adults, children, teens, couples, and families, in person in San Francisco's Marina and Downtown districts, and virtually for residents in all of California. Our sliding scale fees are thoughtfully adjusted to your income and circumstances to make long-term weekly therapy a reality. We take great care to connect you with a therapist who resonates with your lived experience and the challenges you're facing.
Our team reflects the vibrant diversity of the Bay area; we have therapists on staff who specialize in working with Asian, BIPOC, Black, immigrant, Jewish, Latinx, LGBTQ+, and multiracial clients, in ADHD, autism, eating disorders, infidelity, psychedelic integration, and trauma; visit our website to view our therapists' profiles and specialties.
Life’s challenges can feel overwhelming, but you don’t have to face them alone. Our diverse team of therapists provides affordable, trauma-informed, and culturally-sensitive psychotherapy for adults, children, teens, couples, and families, in person in San Francisco's Marina and Downtown districts, and virtually for residents in all of California. Our sliding scale fees are thoughtfully adjusted to your income and circumstances to make long-term weekly therapy a reality. We take great care to connect you with a therapist who resonates with your lived experience and the challenges you're facing.

I work with individuals like you who are facing challenges such as anxiety, low mood, people-pleasing, perfectionism, trauma, and relationship issues (including marriage, communication, divorce, parenting, and infidelity).
As a therapist specializing in anxiety, trauma, relationship challenges, and cultural identity, I offer a compassionate, non-judgmental space where you can feel truly seen and heard. My approach combines deep empathy with practical, evidence-based tools, helping you connect with your emotions and navigate life’s challenges on a deeper, more meaningful level.
I work with individuals like you who are facing challenges such as anxiety, low mood, people-pleasing, perfectionism, trauma, and relationship issues (including marriage, communication, divorce, parenting, and infidelity).
As a therapist specializing in anxiety, trauma, relationship challenges, and cultural identity, I offer a compassionate, non-judgmental space where you can feel truly seen and heard. My approach combines deep empathy with practical, evidence-based tools, helping you connect with your emotions and navigate life’s challenges on a deeper, more meaningful level.

Noelle Braddock
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, APCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Online Only
And, I have extensive experience in supporting folks as they navigate the following content areas: communication & relationship issues; grief & loss; identity; trauma; sexual orientation, sexuality & sensuality; creativity; systems & lived experiences of oppression; anxiety & fear; depression; co-dependence; addiction; infidelity, betrayal & trust; and inner-child work.
The therapy that I offer is depth-oriented and strongly rooted in Gestalt and Somatic modalities, as well as intersectional feminism. It is trauma-informed and client-centered. For those that are interested, I also enjoy using intuition, creativity, and the imaginal realms (imagery, visualization, experiential exercises, art, dreamwork, etc.) as resources.
And, I have extensive experience in supporting folks as they navigate the following content areas: communication & relationship issues; grief & loss; identity; trauma; sexual orientation, sexuality & sensuality; creativity; systems & lived experiences of oppression; anxiety & fear; depression; co-dependence; addiction; infidelity, betrayal & trust; and inner-child work.
The therapy that I offer is depth-oriented and strongly rooted in Gestalt and Somatic modalities, as well as intersectional feminism. It is trauma-informed and client-centered. For those that are interested, I also enjoy using intuition, creativity, and the imaginal realms (imagery, visualization, experiential exercises, art, dreamwork, etc.) as resources.

Many of my clients experience mood and anxiety symptoms, and/or are referred through couples therapy for issues involving physical and emotional intimacy, attachment patterns, communication and self-expression, infidelity, identity changes, and establishing healthy boundaries.
I provide virtual psychotherapy for individual adults (18+) residing in California. I have specific clinical training in treatment of anxiety and mood disorders (GAD, OCD, PDD/MDD, and Bipolar D/O), relational distress, difficult life adjustments, maladaptive coping behaviors, and psychological challenges associated with sex and intimacy.
Many of my clients experience mood and anxiety symptoms, and/or are referred through couples therapy for issues involving physical and emotional intimacy, attachment patterns, communication and self-expression, infidelity, identity changes, and establishing healthy boundaries.
I provide virtual psychotherapy for individual adults (18+) residing in California. I have specific clinical training in treatment of anxiety and mood disorders (GAD, OCD, PDD/MDD, and Bipolar D/O), relational distress, difficult life adjustments, maladaptive coping behaviors, and psychological challenges associated with sex and intimacy.

Topics can include but not limited to: family systems, attachment styles, intimacy, pleasure, sexual dysfunction, boundaries, kink and BDSM, religion, fertility/ reproductive health, non monogamy/ polyamory, infidelity, mood disorders.
As a sex-positive Asian, licensed clinician and certified sex therapist, I provide a safe and supportive space for individuals and couples to explore their attachment and relationship dynamics, intimacy, identity of self, and sexuality. I believe that everyone has the capacity to experience pleasure, joy, and have an overall sense of freedom throughout their lives, especially when they are living their most authentic life.
Topics can include but not limited to: family systems, attachment styles, intimacy, pleasure, sexual dysfunction, boundaries, kink and BDSM, religion, fertility/ reproductive health, non monogamy/ polyamory, infidelity, mood disorders.
As a sex-positive Asian, licensed clinician and certified sex therapist, I provide a safe and supportive space for individuals and couples to explore their attachment and relationship dynamics, intimacy, identity of self, and sexuality. I believe that everyone has the capacity to experience pleasure, joy, and have an overall sense of freedom throughout their lives, especially when they are living their most authentic life.

Bliss In Being
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Francisco, CA 94115
I work with couples and individuals facing betrayal, intimacy struggles, and deep disconnection.
Good news: healing can happen faster than you think. When brain and body heal together, transformation accelerates. The same relationship that triggers pain can become your greatest source of healing. I use evidence-based methods like EMDR, Gottman, and CPT to create a personalized plan—rooted in deep clinical and research expertise.
I work with couples and individuals facing betrayal, intimacy struggles, and deep disconnection.
Good news: healing can happen faster than you think. When brain and body heal together, transformation accelerates. The same relationship that triggers pain can become your greatest source of healing. I use evidence-based methods like EMDR, Gottman, and CPT to create a personalized plan—rooted in deep clinical and research expertise.

I currently work with adult and adolescent individuals and couples. The issues I deal with include depression and dysthymia, panic attacks, stress, generalized anxiety disorder, gender identity disorder, obsessions and compulsions, childhood sexual trauma, childhood physical abuse, grief and loss, relationship difficulties, communication conflict, commitment, intimacy, sexual difficulties, insecurity, trust, infidelity and social phobia.
I currently work with adult and adolescent individuals and couples. The issues I deal with include depression and dysthymia, panic attacks, stress, generalized anxiety disorder, gender identity disorder, obsessions and compulsions, childhood sexual trauma, childhood physical abuse, grief and loss, relationship difficulties, communication conflict, commitment, intimacy, sexual difficulties, insecurity, trust, infidelity and social phobia.

Using easy to implement tools for healthy communication, I help couples negotiate desire discrepancy, find creative solutions for low-sexual marriages, and navigate the impact of extra-marital relationships: including infidelity repair, polyamory, & consensual non-monogamy.
As a highly trained individual, couples and sex therapist, I help people overcome difficulties with relational and sexual enjoyment. I also actively support those on the fertility journey: encouraging self- advocacy, healthy communication, & thoughtful decision-making. Together, we will identify strengths, diminish anxiety, & bolster positive coping skills.
Using easy to implement tools for healthy communication, I help couples negotiate desire discrepancy, find creative solutions for low-sexual marriages, and navigate the impact of extra-marital relationships: including infidelity repair, polyamory, & consensual non-monogamy.
As a highly trained individual, couples and sex therapist, I help people overcome difficulties with relational and sexual enjoyment. I also actively support those on the fertility journey: encouraging self- advocacy, healthy communication, & thoughtful decision-making. Together, we will identify strengths, diminish anxiety, & bolster positive coping skills.

Dr. Cammy | Therapist & Author
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Online Only
with couples and individuals facing betrayal, intimacy struggles, and deep disconnection These aren’t just relationship issues—they’re trauma responses.
Good news: healing can happen faster than you think. When brain and body heal together, transformation accelerates. The same relationship that triggers pain can become your greatest source of healing. I use evidence-based methods like EMDR, Gottman, and CPT to create a personalized plan—rooted in deep clinical and research expertise.
with couples and individuals facing betrayal, intimacy struggles, and deep disconnection These aren’t just relationship issues—they’re trauma responses.
Good news: healing can happen faster than you think. When brain and body heal together, transformation accelerates. The same relationship that triggers pain can become your greatest source of healing. I use evidence-based methods like EMDR, Gottman, and CPT to create a personalized plan—rooted in deep clinical and research expertise.
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