Infidelity Therapists in San Francisco, CA

Sexual Addiction Sex Misbehavior Infidelity Expert
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, SOTS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Francisco, CA 94102
You and I will use evidence based research oriented methods on the Infidelity Cheating Affairs, Prostitution, Seeking Arrangements, Sugar Daddy, Strip Clubs, Massage Parlors, Certified Specialist.
My clients are high functioning successful men accustomed to superior services who want to stop the sexual addiction, infidelity / cheating , and paid sex behaviors. I know the distorted thinking and how to correct that thinking. Due to my specialized expertise I have been interviewed by Rolling Stone Magazine on "virtual companions" and their outcomes.
You and I will use evidence based research oriented methods on the Infidelity Cheating Affairs, Prostitution, Seeking Arrangements, Sugar Daddy, Strip Clubs, Massage Parlors, Certified Specialist.
My clients are high functioning successful men accustomed to superior services who want to stop the sexual addiction, infidelity / cheating , and paid sex behaviors. I know the distorted thinking and how to correct that thinking. Due to my specialized expertise I have been interviewed by Rolling Stone Magazine on "virtual companions" and their outcomes.

Christine Falconer, Sex Therapist
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CST
Verified Verified
Online Only
Whether it is recovering from infidelity, opening up a previously monogamous relationship or healing from past experiences; I help my clients build loving and lasting relationships.
Are you interested in consensual non-monogamy? Do you have thoughts of creating multiple loving and meaningful relationships but unsure how? Tired of trying to figure it out alone? Or perhaps your partner wants to open up your marriage and the thoughts of trying something like consensual non-monogamy is discomforting and confusing. Maybe you've even tried but are struggling to make it work for you.
Whether it is recovering from infidelity, opening up a previously monogamous relationship or healing from past experiences; I help my clients build loving and lasting relationships.
Are you interested in consensual non-monogamy? Do you have thoughts of creating multiple loving and meaningful relationships but unsure how? Tired of trying to figure it out alone? Or perhaps your partner wants to open up your marriage and the thoughts of trying something like consensual non-monogamy is discomforting and confusing. Maybe you've even tried but are struggling to make it work for you.

I help couples with improving communication, rebuilding trust after infidelity, managing conflicts, adjusting to new life stages, and addressing sexual or emotional intimacy issues.
My practice is dedicated to guiding couples and individuals through the complexities of their relationships, aiming to restore harmony and understanding. My focus on couples therapy and marriage counseling are driven by a commitment to deepen connection, rebuild trust, and create a deeper bond in your relationship.
I help couples with improving communication, rebuilding trust after infidelity, managing conflicts, adjusting to new life stages, and addressing sexual or emotional intimacy issues.
My practice is dedicated to guiding couples and individuals through the complexities of their relationships, aiming to restore harmony and understanding. My focus on couples therapy and marriage counseling are driven by a commitment to deepen connection, rebuild trust, and create a deeper bond in your relationship.

My expertise lies in guiding couples through the healing process, particularly after the pain of infidelity, using the Gottman Method — a research-based approach known for its effectiveness in improving couples/marital satisfaction.
Clients appreciate my down-to-earth, friendly, and calming presence, creating a safe and comfortable environment for both partners to explore their feelings, understand each other's perspectives, and work towards a more fulfilling relationship. Trained in EMDR, I also bring valuable tools for addressing individual trauma that can impact your relationship.
My expertise lies in guiding couples through the healing process, particularly after the pain of infidelity, using the Gottman Method — a research-based approach known for its effectiveness in improving couples/marital satisfaction.
Clients appreciate my down-to-earth, friendly, and calming presence, creating a safe and comfortable environment for both partners to explore their feelings, understand each other's perspectives, and work towards a more fulfilling relationship. Trained in EMDR, I also bring valuable tools for addressing individual trauma that can impact your relationship.

I have over 20 years of experience and specialize in couples therapy, infidelity, financial therapy, ADHD and anxiety.
I'll help untangle the complex past to uncover what works, what doesn't work and how to balance needs in a healthy relationship. I work to understand your history, your deepest longings and needs from an attachment perspective. I also help individuals heal their relationship to money and move into a new chapter full of financial peace and security.
I have over 20 years of experience and specialize in couples therapy, infidelity, financial therapy, ADHD and anxiety.
I'll help untangle the complex past to uncover what works, what doesn't work and how to balance needs in a healthy relationship. I work to understand your history, your deepest longings and needs from an attachment perspective. I also help individuals heal their relationship to money and move into a new chapter full of financial peace and security.

Whether you're facing communication challenges, infidelity, constant arguments, or seeking to deepen your emotional bond, I aim to support you in creating a more fulfilling and loving partnership.
I employ humanistic and holistic approaches. These methods are designed to facilitate genuine connection, empathetic understanding, and deep self-awareness within the context of your relationship. By exploring both conscious and unconscious processes, I aim to help couples tap into their inner wisdom and foster a deeper understanding of each other.
Whether you're facing communication challenges, infidelity, constant arguments, or seeking to deepen your emotional bond, I aim to support you in creating a more fulfilling and loving partnership.
I employ humanistic and holistic approaches. These methods are designed to facilitate genuine connection, empathetic understanding, and deep self-awareness within the context of your relationship. By exploring both conscious and unconscious processes, I aim to help couples tap into their inner wisdom and foster a deeper understanding of each other.

The issues I address are typically related to unhealthy sexual behaviors, infidelity, financial recklessness, gambling, drugs/alcohol, dishonesty/lying, and relational conflicts.
My goal for each man I work with is to provide hope and support while facilitating the recovery process. This usually requires us to dig deep and figure out why we engage in destructive behaviors. It also requires us to develop a treatment plan that specifically targets the maladaptive behaviors and reduces the chance of relapse.
The issues I address are typically related to unhealthy sexual behaviors, infidelity, financial recklessness, gambling, drugs/alcohol, dishonesty/lying, and relational conflicts.
My goal for each man I work with is to provide hope and support while facilitating the recovery process. This usually requires us to dig deep and figure out why we engage in destructive behaviors. It also requires us to develop a treatment plan that specifically targets the maladaptive behaviors and reduces the chance of relapse.

Erma Kyriakos
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT, MA, BME
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
San Francisco, CA 94122
I support couples navigating all sorts of issues, from repeat arguments, neurodiversity, to parenting differences and infidelity.
Hello! You might be here on my page because you and your partner struggle with communication and are feeling disconnected in your relationship. Perhaps important conversations are being swept under the rug -or- it blows up every time you try to talk about it leaving you both feeling alone and misunderstood. You want a healthy relationship, but don't know where to start. I offer tools to improve communication skills and strengthen your relationship capacities so you can begin to feel relief and connection again. Together, we'll explore patterns, nurture intimacy, and cultivate lasting change in your relationship. Change is possible!
I support couples navigating all sorts of issues, from repeat arguments, neurodiversity, to parenting differences and infidelity.
Hello! You might be here on my page because you and your partner struggle with communication and are feeling disconnected in your relationship. Perhaps important conversations are being swept under the rug -or- it blows up every time you try to talk about it leaving you both feeling alone and misunderstood. You want a healthy relationship, but don't know where to start. I offer tools to improve communication skills and strengthen your relationship capacities so you can begin to feel relief and connection again. Together, we'll explore patterns, nurture intimacy, and cultivate lasting change in your relationship. Change is possible!

I am a certified Emotionally Focused Couples Therapist, (CEFT) and I specialize in working with couples to address and remedy destructive communication, breaches in trust, infidelity issues, premarital counseling, and sexual incompatibility.
During this time I am making myself available to those that are suffering from anxiety and depression due to COVID-19 and shelter in place. I am extensively trained as a somatic therapist in working with trauma and will help you to find ways to manage anxiety and depression symptoms.
I am a certified Emotionally Focused Couples Therapist, (CEFT) and I specialize in working with couples to address and remedy destructive communication, breaches in trust, infidelity issues, premarital counseling, and sexual incompatibility.
During this time I am making myself available to those that are suffering from anxiety and depression due to COVID-19 and shelter in place. I am extensively trained as a somatic therapist in working with trauma and will help you to find ways to manage anxiety and depression symptoms.

These problems range from infidelity to legal charges.
Sometimes you don't really know what you have until you almost lose it. Sexual issues can cause you to lose relationships, jobs, and sometimes, your freedom. You never meant to hurt anyone and so often, things get out of control. The constant worry that someone will find out about your sexual behavior is exhausting. What would be like to live a life with no secrets?
These problems range from infidelity to legal charges.
Sometimes you don't really know what you have until you almost lose it. Sexual issues can cause you to lose relationships, jobs, and sometimes, your freedom. You never meant to hurt anyone and so often, things get out of control. The constant worry that someone will find out about your sexual behavior is exhausting. What would be like to live a life with no secrets?

Are you feeling overwhelmed by betrayal and unsure where to turn? You’ve discovered your partner’s sexual infidelity or compulsive behaviors, and it feels like your world has crumbled.
I specialize in working with women, like you, who are navigating the devastating aftermath of partner betrayal. You might be struggling with symptoms of PTSD—sleepless nights, flashbacks, overwhelming emotions—and feel consumed with thoughts of your partner’s actions. Your relationship and family feel uncertain, and it’s overwhelming.
Are you feeling overwhelmed by betrayal and unsure where to turn? You’ve discovered your partner’s sexual infidelity or compulsive behaviors, and it feels like your world has crumbled.
I specialize in working with women, like you, who are navigating the devastating aftermath of partner betrayal. You might be struggling with symptoms of PTSD—sleepless nights, flashbacks, overwhelming emotions—and feel consumed with thoughts of your partner’s actions. Your relationship and family feel uncertain, and it’s overwhelming.
Meet Our Infidelity Therapists

In my work with couples impacted by sexual addiction, betrayal, or infidelity, I support the relationship repair process by providing immediate structure and communication tools.
I am a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT) through the International Institute for Trauma and Addiction Professionals (IITAP). I joined Foundry Clinical Group in 2019, under the guidance of Jenner Bishop. I have completed all 3 levels of Professional Education & Training on Dr. Omar Minwalla's Deceptive Sexuality and Trauma (DST) model and treatment.
In my work with couples impacted by sexual addiction, betrayal, or infidelity, I support the relationship repair process by providing immediate structure and communication tools.
I am a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT) through the International Institute for Trauma and Addiction Professionals (IITAP). I joined Foundry Clinical Group in 2019, under the guidance of Jenner Bishop. I have completed all 3 levels of Professional Education & Training on Dr. Omar Minwalla's Deceptive Sexuality and Trauma (DST) model and treatment.

I specialize in working with women who have experienced betrayal trauma by their partner, complex trauma, religious/cult trauma, relationship issues/attachment wounds, intimate partner violence, and who have been coping with life in an unhealthy way.
Being a therapist is an honor and a privilege to be entrusted with a person's delicate life experiences. I am committed to guiding you on your healing journey. I value authenticity, collaboration, enthusiasm, and gratitude in each session. I utilize EMDR to address unresolved traumatic memories from the past that cause issues in the present.
I specialize in working with women who have experienced betrayal trauma by their partner, complex trauma, religious/cult trauma, relationship issues/attachment wounds, intimate partner violence, and who have been coping with life in an unhealthy way.
Being a therapist is an honor and a privilege to be entrusted with a person's delicate life experiences. I am committed to guiding you on your healing journey. I value authenticity, collaboration, enthusiasm, and gratitude in each session. I utilize EMDR to address unresolved traumatic memories from the past that cause issues in the present.

This can be due to relationship pain after Infidelity, persistent anxiety or depression, or a tumultuous and painful political climate.
I specialize in working individuals and couples struggling with trauma, anxiety, depression, and Betrayal Trauma/ Infidelity. Clients come to me looking for a therapist who gets the impact of Betrayal Trauma, anxiety, and depression and can help get to the root of it. Sessions with me are always at your pace, but with encouragement to reach your goals.
This can be due to relationship pain after Infidelity, persistent anxiety or depression, or a tumultuous and painful political climate.
I specialize in working individuals and couples struggling with trauma, anxiety, depression, and Betrayal Trauma/ Infidelity. Clients come to me looking for a therapist who gets the impact of Betrayal Trauma, anxiety, and depression and can help get to the root of it. Sessions with me are always at your pace, but with encouragement to reach your goals.

Are you and your partner struggling to communicate and are often left feeling unheard? Are you navigating infidelity, divorce, or anxiety about ending a relationship? Are you prone to overthinking and often feel overwhelmed?Whether you're feeling stuck in anxiety or facing a major life transition, you don’t have to face it alone.
I specialize in working with individuals and couples facing high anxiety, relationship difficulties and significant life transitions. My approach is compassionate yet direct. I believe in the power of honest and open conversations that help you achieve a deeper understanding of yourself and your relationships, while also allowing you to embrace the possibili
Are you and your partner struggling to communicate and are often left feeling unheard? Are you navigating infidelity, divorce, or anxiety about ending a relationship? Are you prone to overthinking and often feel overwhelmed?Whether you're feeling stuck in anxiety or facing a major life transition, you don’t have to face it alone.
I specialize in working with individuals and couples facing high anxiety, relationship difficulties and significant life transitions. My approach is compassionate yet direct. I believe in the power of honest and open conversations that help you achieve a deeper understanding of yourself and your relationships, while also allowing you to embrace the possibili

No matter if you are having problems related to intimacy, communication, trauma from betrayal, infidelity, differences in sexual fulfillment, finances, parenting or any other impasse you may experience, attunement is available (you can gain the healing, knowledge the fulfillment you desire and deserve).
Learn how you both contribute to your negative cycle. Attachment styles (your defenses, how you process and respond) exploration of attachment bonds and injuries and how they are possibly impacting your current relationship. Ability to access unacknowledged emotions, positions and behaviors for you and your partner.
No matter if you are having problems related to intimacy, communication, trauma from betrayal, infidelity, differences in sexual fulfillment, finances, parenting or any other impasse you may experience, attunement is available (you can gain the healing, knowledge the fulfillment you desire and deserve).
Learn how you both contribute to your negative cycle. Attachment styles (your defenses, how you process and respond) exploration of attachment bonds and injuries and how they are possibly impacting your current relationship. Ability to access unacknowledged emotions, positions and behaviors for you and your partner.

Infidelity Counseling.
I opened the Clinic in 1987 in order to serve the Greater Bay Area and nearby areas (94103, 94104, 94107, 94108, 94109, 94110, 94111,94115, 94123, 94133, 94158). As a Licensed Psychologist I teach concrete,learnable skills that make dramatic improvements in one's life satisfaction. Most relationships can be saved with sufficient willingness.
Infidelity Counseling.
I opened the Clinic in 1987 in order to serve the Greater Bay Area and nearby areas (94103, 94104, 94107, 94108, 94109, 94110, 94111,94115, 94123, 94133, 94158). As a Licensed Psychologist I teach concrete,learnable skills that make dramatic improvements in one's life satisfaction. Most relationships can be saved with sufficient willingness.

I work with clients experiencing relationship challenges; including, difficulties with communication, intimacy, trust, infidelity, etc.
Our intimate relationships impact all aspects of our lives. When our relationships suffer, we often feel distracted, irritable, sad, and disconnected, not just from our partner but from life. All couples experience challenges and can get stuck in harmful patterns, but you don't have to stay stuck! We can work together to identify those patterns, increase empathy, and utilize skills to shift communication and connection. Your relationship is unique, and I will work with you to identify your relationship values and build a relationship that feels authentic and supportive. Let's create the relationship that works for you!
I work with clients experiencing relationship challenges; including, difficulties with communication, intimacy, trust, infidelity, etc.
Our intimate relationships impact all aspects of our lives. When our relationships suffer, we often feel distracted, irritable, sad, and disconnected, not just from our partner but from life. All couples experience challenges and can get stuck in harmful patterns, but you don't have to stay stuck! We can work together to identify those patterns, increase empathy, and utilize skills to shift communication and connection. Your relationship is unique, and I will work with you to identify your relationship values and build a relationship that feels authentic and supportive. Let's create the relationship that works for you!

I work with couples from all backgrounds and can support you in areas including healing affairs/betrayals, parenting struggles, blended families and sex and intimacy.
Are you and your partner stuck in a cycle of conflict that repeats over and over.... leaving you both feeling disconnected, frustrated and alone? As a Certified Emotionally Focused Therapist and Supervisor, I use the most effective form of couples therapy, to help you to improve communication, stop your cycle of conflict, and build more trust, intimacy and connection.
I work with couples from all backgrounds and can support you in areas including healing affairs/betrayals, parenting struggles, blended families and sex and intimacy.
Are you and your partner stuck in a cycle of conflict that repeats over and over.... leaving you both feeling disconnected, frustrated and alone? As a Certified Emotionally Focused Therapist and Supervisor, I use the most effective form of couples therapy, to help you to improve communication, stop your cycle of conflict, and build more trust, intimacy and connection.

I work with many adult children of alcoholics, women aspiring to live fuller and balanced lives, partners healing from infidelity, clients struggling with social anxiety, and spouses whose partner is uninterested in couples therapy.
Quality psychotherapy can be life-altering, especially when one is motivated and open to the process necessary for change. I enjoy working with individuals who are looking to develop a more grounded sense of self and seeking meaning and direction in daily living. Adults of all ages come to my practice to improve and enrich their relationships with partners, children, family members, friends and colleagues. I work with individuals who are looking to deepen trust and connection, learn communication skills, and resolve repetitive conflicts in order to cultivate resilient and joyful partnership.
I work with many adult children of alcoholics, women aspiring to live fuller and balanced lives, partners healing from infidelity, clients struggling with social anxiety, and spouses whose partner is uninterested in couples therapy.
Quality psychotherapy can be life-altering, especially when one is motivated and open to the process necessary for change. I enjoy working with individuals who are looking to develop a more grounded sense of self and seeking meaning and direction in daily living. Adults of all ages come to my practice to improve and enrich their relationships with partners, children, family members, friends and colleagues. I work with individuals who are looking to deepen trust and connection, learn communication skills, and resolve repetitive conflicts in order to cultivate resilient and joyful partnership.
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Infidelity Therapists
How does therapy for infidelity work?
A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.
How long does therapy for infidelity take?
Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.
How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?
When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.
How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?
Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.