Infertility Therapists in San Francisco, CA
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Susan Allen
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified
Verified
I support women and couples through the emotional challenges of
infertility
, pregnancy and postpartum, and the parenting transition. My approach to therapy is warm, engaged and interactive with a focus on helping people to process and cope with the complex emotions of these life stressors.

Bloom Therapy
Psychologist, PsyD, PMH-C
Verified
3 Endorsed
Verified
3 Endorsed
We provide support for family building challenges including
infertility
, assisted and third-party reproduction, pregnancy loss, birth trauma, perinatal mood and anxiety disorders, adjustment to parenthood, and parenting NICU babies and medically ill children.
Bloom Therapy specializes in women's mental health across the lifespan. Women face unique stressors in their relationships and career, and experience anxiety, depression, and traumatic stress at twice the rate of men. We offer a compassionate, evidence-based approach to address these challenges and help you reach your goals. Our work focuses on building strengths, enhancing self-confidence, and empowering you with knowledge and tools so that you can thrive in your relationships, work, and life.

Robert S Badame
Psychologist, PhD
Verified
Verified
I am a clinical psychologist in practice for over 35 years. A primary interest is working with men, particularly problems with men and aging, men and issues of retirement, anger/stress mgmt., and sexual addiction. I enjoy consulting with corporations. (I also have an MBA). I have extensive background and training in
infertility
and adoption issues. My wife and I are adoptive parents. I also have an interest in working with couples, issues of intimacy, sexuality, soulmate and kindred relationships.
Not accepting new clients

Tameko Jones
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CHT
Verified
Verified
I am a licensed psychotherapist and certified hypnotherapist with 20+ years of experience in the mental health field. I work with women who experience anxiety, depression, post-traumatic stress, grief and loss, relationship challenges, and a host of other concerns. Additionally, I work with women and couples who are experiencing
infertility
. I also offer interactive and engaging group sessions for women struggling with
infertility
. I am a passionate and empathetic clinician committed to helping individuals and couples achieve their dream of parenthood due to my own personal struggles with
infertility
.
Not accepting new clients

Deborah Cooper
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MFT
Verified
Verified
Parenting, blended families, sexual issues, adoption and
infertility
are areas of expertise, as are working with creative and spiritual concerns and helping couples reignite diminished sex lives.
Being a licensed psychotherapist since 1986, I've worked with a wide variety of issues. I know that pain and suffering are inevitable in life, but being miserable is optional. With warmth and humor, I am skilled at helping clients make meaning of the suffering, while facilitating and eliciting options that lead out of it. I work with couples and individuals of different races, ethnicities, sizes, orientations, genders, and ages. Therapy is the process of examining your life as a great novel in process of being created. My job is to help you envision and shape the next chapter.

Samantha Franklin
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified
Verified
I also have a specialty in
infertility
, neo-natal loss, family building and post-partum depression.
If you are feeling overwhelmed with difficult life circumstances, we can work together to define challenges and find solutions. I am an interactive, down-to-earth therapist. I find the resilience of people to be truly inspiring. I believe therapy can help to resolve life crises, restore hope and guide you towards living a more fulfilling life. With renewed inspiration, energy and clarity, you can heal and overcome your challenges. With over 15 years of experience, I have helped many people move forward with their lives.

Michelle Sullivan
Psychologist
Verified
Verified
“Tell me what you fear and I will tell you what has happened to you.” - D.W. Winnicott. A guiding principle of my therapy is linking the suffering of today to the root of why it is so painful. My interest and expertise has focused on: 1) Perinatal Mental Health (pregnancy, loss,
infertility
, and postpartum), 2) Couples Work (particularly grappling with issues of monogamy), and 3) Long-term Individual Psychotherapy (struggles with relationships, creativity, and being in touch with your true self). I believe in being Good Enough rather than striving to be the perfect (partner, parent, person).

Lisa Hanes
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT, RN, CNM
Verified
Verified
Adjustments to
infertility
, pregnancy, birth, parenting and changes in identity, role, relationship can be overwhelming and exhausting.
My experience as a licensed therapist, nurse and midwife, has provided me the unique perspective and understanding of the needs of the Whole Individual and how thoughts and beliefs impact us physically, emotionally and psychologically. My intention is to support and guide clients as they explore and resolve their challenges. Together, we can work through feelings of confusion, insecurity and fear associated with significant individual and relationship transitions, crisis events and medical and emotional challenges. Online therapy is available with office sessions in the future.

Leila Zwelling
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, PMH-C
Verified
Verified
Specializing in women's mental health across the lifespan, with a focus on the reproductive years, relationships, and trauma. Focus areas include
infertility
& loss; single women childless not by choice; LGBT family building; pregnancy & postpartum. I also work with clients who are experiencing depression, anxiety and healing from trauma. While I specialize in women's mental health, I welcome clients who identify throughout the gender identity spectrum.

Shabnam Jesgar
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, LPCC
Verified
Verified
Are you trying to grow your family, but things aren’t going as planned? Or maybe you already knew that having kids would be a challenge for you?
Infertility
can be hard and cause worry, anxiety, anger, depression, grief and loneliness. I am here to help. In our sessions, I can offer you a safe place to talk freely without judgement.

Veronica Cardona
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified
Verified
The journey through
infertility
and motherhood can be stressful and lonely. It often requires patience, perseverance, and above all HOPE. I want to empower and support you during this stage in your life. Are you suspecting a problem because you have been trying to get pregnant without success? Have you been diagnosed with "
infertility
"? Are you considering IVF? Are you struggling with sustaining a pregnancy? Does your heart feel heavy with grief and sorrow over your loss and are ready for relief? Did you recently have a baby and are now struggling with postpartum anxiety, depression or simply feeling mental overload? I can help you.

Shoma Rao
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified
Verified
In addition to the areas listed on my profile I have specific training with pregnant/postpartum/
infertility
issues, couple's issues and substance use.
Starting and staying in therapy can be intimidating! It doesn’t have to be that way. I enjoy using humor and just being a fellow human with my clients while we navigate the path of mental health together. Having a session with me is like talking to an old friend. I strongly believe that the connection between the therapist and yourself is the most crucial aspect of a successful therapeutic relationship.
Office is near:
San Francisco, CA 94102 & Online

Beth Jaeger-Skigen
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, PPSC
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
I specialize in all aspects of
infertility
and pregnancy related issues.
Welcome. Searching for a therapist is a brave first step on the path to healing. If you find yourself not getting what you want out of work, relationships, and personal growth, therapy with me is an effective route to get what you want out of life. I am committed to helping people find more productive ways of overcoming obstacles and self-destructive patterns that interfere with living more satisfying lives. In addition to listening, I am interactive. Clients find me to be warm, empathic and easily approachable. I create a safe environment for my individuals clients, couples and groups.

Pam Miller
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
I work well with individuals going through life transitions, in love, work, identity, grief, parenting,
infertility
. Psychotherapy is not one size fits all, but a relationship finely tailored to each individual(s). Your needs determine the approach I take. I have over 30 years of experience and a wide variety of approaches to choose from. My main tools are good listening, and a strong belief people can learn from their past and current experiences, if they have the support to face themselves honestly. No one is too old to learn new strategies to make life more fulfilling.

Jane Walter
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, RPT
Verified
Verified
Let's face it, talking about sex can be uncomfortable but sexual concerns are actually common. As a compassionate, competent sex therapist, I can help you with: Problems with sexual desire, Wanting to experience orgasm, Erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation, Painful intercourse, Sexual behaviors that are troubling to you, Rekindling sex after pregnancy/childbirth, Overcoming relationship and sexual problems associated with
infertility
and its treatment, Processing trauma and thriving after negative sexual experiences, Working through affairs, Sexual desire discrepancy concerns, Support in polyamorous relationships
Louise Evette Robinson
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT
Verified
Verified
I work with individuals, couples, and families, on facilitating communication, conflict resolution, and often healing old wounds from childhood that cause difficulties in present relationships. I also work with children and their families on parenting issues. I work with couples having
infertility
issues and adoption.

Dr. Shianling Weeks
Psychologist, PhD
Verified
Verified
I have expertise in anxiety, phobias, depression, PTSD,
infertility
, and perinatal distress.
You're deeply caring, creative, and curious. And you feel stuck, not good enough, overwhelmed, hurting. Disconnected from the life you want. You may be in numbness and slowly suffocating in a deep hole. You may find yourself shutting down and avoiding things that are usually important to you. You may be facing a big life change that throws your sense of who you are. You could be struggling to start a family, or dealing with scary thoughts and emotional pain in pregnancy, postpartum, or beyond.

Catherine Singstad, MFT
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MFT
Verified
2 Endorsed
Verified
2 Endorsed
Most of my clients come in struggling with their closest relationships - with their partners, parents, kids, colleagues and/or friends. There is often a deep longing for more joy, authenticity, and freedom from painful symptoms like anxiety and depression. I help clients learn to understand and thoughtfully navigate their emotional world, as we work to unpack and rewire recurring symptoms and habits. Issues I commonly work with include unhealthy relationships, work/life balance, healing unresolved childhood wounds, couples issues, anxiety, depression, parenthood, trauma, low self-esteem, addiction,
infertility
, loss, and grief.

Raya Smail
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT
Verified
Verified
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Infertility
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If you have made your way to this page, you are probably struggling with a "relationship problem"--either with someone else, or with yourself. This is likely causing you significant emotional pain. Your predicament may have been triggered by a recent event, such as loss or trauma, or may have lingered and festered for years. Your symptoms may vary--you may experience persistent discontent, loneliness, emptiness...; have difficulty finding or sustaining a relationship, or have a spouse who wants you to get "fixed".You may be battling addiction or a destructive behavior that is thwarting your life, but impossible to give up, despite endless attempts.
Not accepting new clients

Shana Millstein
Psychologist, PhD
Verified
Verified
I find it gratifying to help women with difficulties related to areas such as sexuality,
infertility
, pregnancy, childbearing, and perimenopause/menopause.
I AM NOT ACCEPTING NEW CLIENTS AT THIS TIME. People come to therapy for many different reasons. Some seek symptom relief, while others want to find ways to cope more effectively, improve their relationships, or make better choices in their lives. Whether your concerns reflect relatively discrete, time-limited issues or more long-standing difficulties, psychotherapy offers an opportunity to address them in a safe, respectful and thoughtful environment.
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Infertility Therapists
How can infertility affect couples and their relationship?
Clients who are dealing with infertility may experience conflict and communication problems. It’s not unusual for shame, blame, and guilt to arise in cases of infertility, whether the source of the problem is one partner or both. This means that clients are upset and pulling away from their partner just when they need them the most. Some clients may find it difficult to spend time around friends and family who are pregnant. Friends and family can also make hurtful comments that increase tension during this time.
How does therapy for infertility issues work?
The therapist will begin by gathering information about the client or couple and make a treatment plan for their specific concerns. In addition to addressing common mental health issues, such as anxiety, depression, and trauma reactions or PTSD, therapists can help clients improve their decision-making and deal with stressors unique to infertility. Some examples include coping with the “two-week wait” before a pregnancy test, the distress associated with a failed attempt or miscarriage, and the shame and blame sometimes associated with reproductive concerns.
What type of therapy is best for infertility issues?
Many therapists offer psychotherapy for individuals and couples who are dealing with infertility issues. Some helpful therapeutic approaches include cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), which can aid clients in reframing negative thoughts about their situation. Expressive writing and art therapy can help clients process difficult feelings. Clients might also benefit from group therapy to experience support from others who are dealing with the same problems.
How long does therapy for infertility issues take?
There is no set length for therapy that addresses infertility or reproductive concerns. Some clients might find it helpful to continue therapy during their pregnancy to have healthy ways to cope with any associated stress, anxiety, depression, or trauma. Some clients who decide not to pursue fertility treatments might benefit from the support of a therapist. The duration of therapy varies depending on the individual client’s specific needs and goals.