Gottman Method Therapists in San Francisco, CA
Everything sucks right now. I get it. I understand feeling stuck under the weight of deep emotional pain. Let me help you cultivate and live a meaningful life, even in the midst of struggle, impasses, and change. Even in the current state of the world. We will foster trust in yourself, your wisdom and values leading the way, and set you on a path of living a better life.
For many Asian Americans and POC, there is struggle to find a therapist who relates to you from shared cultural experience. As a second generation Taiwanese/Chinese American, I can offer you that, with curiosity about your particular story and influences.
Everything sucks right now. I get it. I understand feeling stuck under the weight of deep emotional pain. Let me help you cultivate and live a meaningful life, even in the midst of struggle, impasses, and change. Even in the current state of the world. We will foster trust in yourself, your wisdom and values leading the way, and set you on a path of living a better life.
For many Asian Americans and POC, there is struggle to find a therapist who relates to you from shared cultural experience. As a second generation Taiwanese/Chinese American, I can offer you that, with curiosity about your particular story and influences.
Psychotherapy can represent the joining of a therapist and a client to explore the difficulties they are having and what might be holding them back from the happiness they crave. When we move through these roadblocks with assistance, the path to a happier and more harmonious life becomes more clear. I enjoy working with people dealing with: Autism and developmental disabilities, Depression and mood disorders, Anxiety disorders, life transitions, children and play therapy, difficult family dynamics, Parenting and co-parenting training and support, Post-Partum and Perinatal support, Post-Partum Depression and Anxiety.
Psychotherapy can represent the joining of a therapist and a client to explore the difficulties they are having and what might be holding them back from the happiness they crave. When we move through these roadblocks with assistance, the path to a happier and more harmonious life becomes more clear. I enjoy working with people dealing with: Autism and developmental disabilities, Depression and mood disorders, Anxiety disorders, life transitions, children and play therapy, difficult family dynamics, Parenting and co-parenting training and support, Post-Partum and Perinatal support, Post-Partum Depression and Anxiety.
BIPOC, Queer, Poly Couples(+) therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
San Francisco, CA 94102
I offer relationship therapy for couples, polycules, and people in queer, inter-racial, and non-traditional relationships. Whether you're facing a rupture, moving through a transition, or simply longing to feel closer, therapy offers a space to reconnect with intention. Therapy facilitates partners to uncover the roots of conflict, strengthen communication, and create mutual understanding and emotional safety. I have a special interesting working with:
Asian, BIPOC, and interracial and intercultural couples navigating cultural tensions and power dynamics; partners exploring polyamory, open relationships, or kink
I offer relationship therapy for couples, polycules, and people in queer, inter-racial, and non-traditional relationships. Whether you're facing a rupture, moving through a transition, or simply longing to feel closer, therapy offers a space to reconnect with intention. Therapy facilitates partners to uncover the roots of conflict, strengthen communication, and create mutual understanding and emotional safety. I have a special interesting working with:
Asian, BIPOC, and interracial and intercultural couples navigating cultural tensions and power dynamics; partners exploring polyamory, open relationships, or kink
Are you an individual or couple looking to open up your relationship for the first time? Or maybe you have identified as poly for a while, and you would like some support through a particularly challenging time. I have been coaching & counseling non-monogamous folks for nearly a decade and have identified as polyamorous since before I knew what to call it. My passion is helping poly/non-monogamous people feel seen, heard, and understood as they traverse the challenging landscape outside of the normative paradigm. Our work will focus on deep self-reflection while building strong boundaries and expansive communication skills.
Are you an individual or couple looking to open up your relationship for the first time? Or maybe you have identified as poly for a while, and you would like some support through a particularly challenging time. I have been coaching & counseling non-monogamous folks for nearly a decade and have identified as polyamorous since before I knew what to call it. My passion is helping poly/non-monogamous people feel seen, heard, and understood as they traverse the challenging landscape outside of the normative paradigm. Our work will focus on deep self-reflection while building strong boundaries and expansive communication skills.
Are you a person of color, LGBTQ, or woman-identified professional in a high demand field? Have you been wearing that superhero cape for far too long? Ready to feel more peace in your life? You’ve come to the right place. I’m Dr. Lindsey Brooks and I work with underrepresented achievers. I’ll help you feel more grounded, balanced, and resilient. You might be thinking to yourself: "I need to keep it all together”, “If I just work harder and push myself more, then everything will be okay”, or “I have to stay strong for my family”. Everyone around you sees you as a success, yet something still feels like it’s missing.
Are you a person of color, LGBTQ, or woman-identified professional in a high demand field? Have you been wearing that superhero cape for far too long? Ready to feel more peace in your life? You’ve come to the right place. I’m Dr. Lindsey Brooks and I work with underrepresented achievers. I’ll help you feel more grounded, balanced, and resilient. You might be thinking to yourself: "I need to keep it all together”, “If I just work harder and push myself more, then everything will be okay”, or “I have to stay strong for my family”. Everyone around you sees you as a success, yet something still feels like it’s missing.
I have specialized training in working with couples and draw from evidence-based methods, including the Gottman Method, to help couples enhance their communication, rebuild trust, and strengthen their connection.
I have a deep passion for working with couples and supporting them in meeting their relationship goals. I also specialize in working with members of the LGBTQ+ community, creating a safe, judgment-free space where you feel heard, validated, and supported in freely expressing yourself. My approach is rooted in trust, honesty, and fairness. I will challenge you to engage in meaningful work that promotes growth and empowers you in your relationship in a way that aligns with your values and goals. By meeting you where you are and walking alongside you on your journey, I strive to help you create the changes you desire.
I have specialized training in working with couples and draw from evidence-based methods, including the Gottman Method, to help couples enhance their communication, rebuild trust, and strengthen their connection.
I have a deep passion for working with couples and supporting them in meeting their relationship goals. I also specialize in working with members of the LGBTQ+ community, creating a safe, judgment-free space where you feel heard, validated, and supported in freely expressing yourself. My approach is rooted in trust, honesty, and fairness. I will challenge you to engage in meaningful work that promotes growth and empowers you in your relationship in a way that aligns with your values and goals. By meeting you where you are and walking alongside you on your journey, I strive to help you create the changes you desire.
You’re the one others rely on. You show up, perform, keep it together — but inside you’re anxious, drained, or quietly discouraged. Maybe your relationship feels distant, work pressure never turns off, or your mind won’t stop racing at night. You don’t want to just cope anymore. You want clarity, steadiness, and to feel connected to yourself and the people you love.
You’re the one others rely on. You show up, perform, keep it together — but inside you’re anxious, drained, or quietly discouraged. Maybe your relationship feels distant, work pressure never turns off, or your mind won’t stop racing at night. You don’t want to just cope anymore. You want clarity, steadiness, and to feel connected to yourself and the people you love.
I am an experienced clinician and gage our work by the progress you are making towards your treatment goals. I have extensive experience as a clinical consultant and provide consultation for clinicians. I have supervised clinicians in treatment settings ranging from the counselor's office to acute mental health facilities. I have a professional background in the arts and work with self defined meaning, identity and creative processes. My work specifically is in Lacanalysis and I am in ongoing formation as such with Dr. Jacques Siboni at Topologos Lutecium.
I am an experienced clinician and gage our work by the progress you are making towards your treatment goals. I have extensive experience as a clinical consultant and provide consultation for clinicians. I have supervised clinicians in treatment settings ranging from the counselor's office to acute mental health facilities. I have a professional background in the arts and work with self defined meaning, identity and creative processes. My work specifically is in Lacanalysis and I am in ongoing formation as such with Dr. Jacques Siboni at Topologos Lutecium.
I have a Master's degree in Integral Counseling Psychology and advanced training in couples-oriented Gottman Method therapy and complex trauma treatment.
You feel stuck in a cycle of behavior that plays itself out again and again. Ashamed or bewildered, you ask yourself, "why do I keep doing this?" You want to get to the bottom of it all.
I work with individuals and couples who want to address these cycles and the core beliefs behind them to release the behaviors that no longer serve them. Together, we discover where small shifts are available. Over time, these small shifts can translate into big changes as your cycle is nudged onto a new path.
I have a Master's degree in Integral Counseling Psychology and advanced training in couples-oriented Gottman Method therapy and complex trauma treatment.
You feel stuck in a cycle of behavior that plays itself out again and again. Ashamed or bewildered, you ask yourself, "why do I keep doing this?" You want to get to the bottom of it all.
I work with individuals and couples who want to address these cycles and the core beliefs behind them to release the behaviors that no longer serve them. Together, we discover where small shifts are available. Over time, these small shifts can translate into big changes as your cycle is nudged onto a new path.
Austin
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
2 Endorsed
San Francisco, CA 94122
Waitlist for new clients
I am currently only taking new in-person clients. I have in-person in-office availability on Tuesdays and walk-and-talk, outdoor therapy appointments in SF's Golden Gate Park on Mondays - Tuesdays.
Many of us sense the impact of disconnection from the natural world as well as know the healing, grounding, and well-being we experiencing in connection with the natural world. Walk-and-talk appointments tap into this gift we often overlook.
I am currently only taking new in-person clients. I have in-person in-office availability on Tuesdays and walk-and-talk, outdoor therapy appointments in SF's Golden Gate Park on Mondays - Tuesdays.
Many of us sense the impact of disconnection from the natural world as well as know the healing, grounding, and well-being we experiencing in connection with the natural world. Walk-and-talk appointments tap into this gift we often overlook.
I've received Level 1 training in the Gottman Method of couples therapy and use this in my work with couples of all genders & backgrounds.
Therapy isn’t easy — but that doesn't mean it has to be joyless. If you’re looking for a therapist who can delve into the dark stuff with both the compassionate support and the sense of humor that it deserves, you’ve come to the right place. I'm a Licensed Marriage and Family therapist who works with individuals and couples of all genders and orientations. I have expertise in supporting people through trauma, grief, and loss—especially 'ambiguous' losses such as divorce, estrangement, addiction and heartbreak.
I've received Level 1 training in the Gottman Method of couples therapy and use this in my work with couples of all genders & backgrounds.
Therapy isn’t easy — but that doesn't mean it has to be joyless. If you’re looking for a therapist who can delve into the dark stuff with both the compassionate support and the sense of humor that it deserves, you’ve come to the right place. I'm a Licensed Marriage and Family therapist who works with individuals and couples of all genders and orientations. I have expertise in supporting people through trauma, grief, and loss—especially 'ambiguous' losses such as divorce, estrangement, addiction and heartbreak.
Hi there, I'm David! I’m a licensed Psychotherapist, and a core focus of my work is supporting a broad range of adults and couples via telehealth in the state of California. Across all ages and backgrounds, I seek to help my clients experience relief from shame, anxiety, depression, inner criticism, and relationship struggles through self-understanding and self-compassion.
Hi there, I'm David! I’m a licensed Psychotherapist, and a core focus of my work is supporting a broad range of adults and couples via telehealth in the state of California. Across all ages and backgrounds, I seek to help my clients experience relief from shame, anxiety, depression, inner criticism, and relationship struggles through self-understanding and self-compassion.
With over a decade of experience in clinical psychology, I specialize in helping clients with stress, anxiety, OCD, grief, depression, and trauma. My goal is to support clients in achieving a well-balanced and fulfilling life. I use evidence-based therapies, including CBT, ACT, DBT, and mindfulness, and collaborate with clients to create personalized treatment plans. Additionally, I address lifestyle factors like sleep, nutrition, exercise, and health, recognizing their significant impact on mood and overall well-being.
With over a decade of experience in clinical psychology, I specialize in helping clients with stress, anxiety, OCD, grief, depression, and trauma. My goal is to support clients in achieving a well-balanced and fulfilling life. I use evidence-based therapies, including CBT, ACT, DBT, and mindfulness, and collaborate with clients to create personalized treatment plans. Additionally, I address lifestyle factors like sleep, nutrition, exercise, and health, recognizing their significant impact on mood and overall well-being.
I work with individuals and couples who want to shift relational problem patterns by healing from trauma, deepening their self-awareness, and strengthening their connections with others. I offer tools to help people gain insight into their behavior, learn how to effectively manage their thoughts, emotions, and behaviors, and ameliorate destructive cycles. Collaboratively, my clients and I improve their self-concepts. I use a relational, attachment-based framework and draw on EMDR therapy when indicated.
I work with individuals and couples who want to shift relational problem patterns by healing from trauma, deepening their self-awareness, and strengthening their connections with others. I offer tools to help people gain insight into their behavior, learn how to effectively manage their thoughts, emotions, and behaviors, and ameliorate destructive cycles. Collaboratively, my clients and I improve their self-concepts. I use a relational, attachment-based framework and draw on EMDR therapy when indicated.
Everyone deserves support– life can be overwhelming. Our sessions provide a safe, encouraging space for you to slow down and focus on what’s important. As an advocate for you, your family, or your child, we create solutions that help you find healing.
Everyone deserves support– life can be overwhelming. Our sessions provide a safe, encouraging space for you to slow down and focus on what’s important. As an advocate for you, your family, or your child, we create solutions that help you find healing.
You and your partner used to be on the same team. Now, it feels like you’re permanent opponents. The "honeymoon" phase has given way to lightning-fast reactivity, where small disagreements escalate into "out of nowhere" fights. You might even find yourself wondering: How did we get here? Is this just what happens to relationships?
The short answer: No, it isn't inevitable.
What you’re experiencing is the natural intersection of differing attachment styles and neurobiological triggers. When we feel disconnected, our brains go into "survival mode," treating our partner like a threat rather than a sanctuary.
You and your partner used to be on the same team. Now, it feels like you’re permanent opponents. The "honeymoon" phase has given way to lightning-fast reactivity, where small disagreements escalate into "out of nowhere" fights. You might even find yourself wondering: How did we get here? Is this just what happens to relationships?
The short answer: No, it isn't inevitable.
What you’re experiencing is the natural intersection of differing attachment styles and neurobiological triggers. When we feel disconnected, our brains go into "survival mode," treating our partner like a threat rather than a sanctuary.
Founder of California Integrative Counseling Center, a group therapy practice in downtown San Francisco. Our team specializes in treating individuals with ADHD, Autism Spectrum Disorder, mood disorders, trauma, career challenges, relationship issues, and those going through life transitions. We provide individual therapy, group therapy for Adults with ADHD, couples therapy, teen therapy, and family therapy in person in SF and remotely in California.
Founder of California Integrative Counseling Center, a group therapy practice in downtown San Francisco. Our team specializes in treating individuals with ADHD, Autism Spectrum Disorder, mood disorders, trauma, career challenges, relationship issues, and those going through life transitions. We provide individual therapy, group therapy for Adults with ADHD, couples therapy, teen therapy, and family therapy in person in SF and remotely in California.
I am trained in the Gottman Method, an evidenced-based couples therapy treatment, to support you in bringing peace and enjoyment back to your relationship.
Whether you're facing communication challenges, infidelity, constant arguments, or seeking to deepen your emotional bond, I aim to support you in creating a more fulfilling and loving partnership. I understand the importance of a supportive, nurturing, and non-judgmental environment for couples to feel safe and valued as they navigate their relationship. My goal is to ensure that our work together is collaborative, focusing on what matters most to you and your partner. With extensive experience in working with diverse populations and a wide range of relationship dynamics, I bring a wealth of knowledge to my work with couples.
I am trained in the Gottman Method, an evidenced-based couples therapy treatment, to support you in bringing peace and enjoyment back to your relationship.
Whether you're facing communication challenges, infidelity, constant arguments, or seeking to deepen your emotional bond, I aim to support you in creating a more fulfilling and loving partnership. I understand the importance of a supportive, nurturing, and non-judgmental environment for couples to feel safe and valued as they navigate their relationship. My goal is to ensure that our work together is collaborative, focusing on what matters most to you and your partner. With extensive experience in working with diverse populations and a wide range of relationship dynamics, I bring a wealth of knowledge to my work with couples.
Welcome! People have all kinds of thoughts and feelings. Therapy is one of the few places where you can express yourself fully without fear of judgment. I offer an accepting, inclusive environment where you can feel comfortable showing up just as you are. Whether you are single, dating, or in an established relationship, I can help you reconnect with yourself and others more effectively. I offer specialized help with attention, anxiety, and sleep issues. For clients that prefer talk therapy outdoors, I also offer walk and talk therapy at the beautiful parks near my Pacific Heights office. Please visit my website to learn more.
Welcome! People have all kinds of thoughts and feelings. Therapy is one of the few places where you can express yourself fully without fear of judgment. I offer an accepting, inclusive environment where you can feel comfortable showing up just as you are. Whether you are single, dating, or in an established relationship, I can help you reconnect with yourself and others more effectively. I offer specialized help with attention, anxiety, and sleep issues. For clients that prefer talk therapy outdoors, I also offer walk and talk therapy at the beautiful parks near my Pacific Heights office. Please visit my website to learn more.
Welcome to my practice, where I specialize in providing supportive psychotherapy for ADHD. I also offer neurodiversity affirming ADHD evaluations. If you've been experiencing challenges in your work or relationships, you're not alone. Many of my clients seek support in navigating these areas and are eager to cultivate new perspectives and skills. Your brain is a remarkable beauty and inherently whole just as it is. However, it's undeniable that the world around us often fails to fully accept and accommodate our unique strengths and vulnerabilities.
Welcome to my practice, where I specialize in providing supportive psychotherapy for ADHD. I also offer neurodiversity affirming ADHD evaluations. If you've been experiencing challenges in your work or relationships, you're not alone. Many of my clients seek support in navigating these areas and are eager to cultivate new perspectives and skills. Your brain is a remarkable beauty and inherently whole just as it is. However, it's undeniable that the world around us often fails to fully accept and accommodate our unique strengths and vulnerabilities.
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Gottman Method Therapists
How does the Gottman method work?
One of the core doctrines of the Gottman method is that negative emotions hurt relationships about five times more than positive emotions help them. Thus, couples require five times more positive interactions than negative interactions with each other. The therapist will guide clients on how to improve communication and understanding of each other to manage conflict and have their emotional needs met. The therapist will also advise couples on how to repair relations with each other when conflict arises, and therefore avoid lasting damage.
Is the Gottman method evidence-based?
Yes, this method is an evidence-based approach to couples therapy. The method is based on more than 40 years of research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the psychologists who developed the method. The Gottmans analyzed decades of data to draw conclusions about what types of interactions are likely to lead to specific results, and which interventions are most likely to lead to success. Studies have found that this approach leads to improvements in relationship satisfaction, intimacy, communication skills, and a lower rate of divorce.
How long does the Gottman method take?
The duration of treatment depends on the specific challenges clients face. Sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes long, and an average course of treatment is around 10 sessions. In some cases, such as for couples dealing with a critical problem, the therapist will suggest an intensive course of treatment, with daily sessions over the first two to four days. Treatment is complete when the couple is satisfied and has met the goals they’ve set, and when the therapist believes they have the skills to continue on their own.
Is the Gottman method effective?
Through the Gottman method, couples can achieve changes that are real and sustainable. This treatment has been used for more than 40 years; the method is supported by empirical research, including randomized controlled trials that have demonstrated effectiveness in improving relationship outcomes for couples. Like any talk therapy, success or failure depends in large part on how committed the clients are to making positive changes and working toward results.