Couples Therapists in San Francisco, CA

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Marty L. Cooper
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, MFT
San Francisco, CA 94118
If you have a history of depression and anxiety, you no doubt know what it feels like to move through your day as if trudging through a swamp. At worst, there's little desire or motivation or energy, and then when you do climb out of these moods, you see yourself at some point fall back in. You are likely wanting to learn how to gain some permanent ground, to not have your mood rule you, and to just feel better from day to day. If this is what you are after, then I'd like to help.
If you have a history of depression and anxiety, you no doubt know what it feels like to move through your day as if trudging through a swamp. At worst, there's little desire or motivation or energy, and then when you do climb out of these moods, you see yourself at some point fall back in. You are likely wanting to learn how to gain some permanent ground, to not have your mood rule you, and to just feel better from day to day. If this is what you are after, then I'd like to help.
(415) 894-0951 View (415) 894-0951
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Diana Barrera
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
San Francisco, CA 94102
Today my primary focus is couples therapy at California Couples Counseling, where I help partners navigate conflict, rebuild trust, and strengthen connection with a warm, steady, and practical approach.
In our work, we’ll slow down the negative cycle, listen to understand, and practice clear, respectful communication so repair becomes possible. I help couples notice what’s really driving the pattern and learn tools they can use at home right away.
Today my primary focus is couples therapy at California Couples Counseling, where I help partners navigate conflict, rebuild trust, and strengthen connection with a warm, steady, and practical approach.
In our work, we’ll slow down the negative cycle, listen to understand, and practice clear, respectful communication so repair becomes possible. I help couples notice what’s really driving the pattern and learn tools they can use at home right away.
(415) 463-1771 View (415) 463-1771
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Aimee Rozen
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT, CST
8 Endorsed
San Francisco, CA 94131
Waitlist for new clients
I offer a genuine, compassionate and respectful relationship with my clients, so they can reach greater self-awareness and insight.
I have been a practicing clinician for over 20 years. I have worked in school settings and clinics, specializing in adolescent and adult issues. I believe that teens and parents can greatly benefit from having a neutral adult help navigate through a challenging time.
I offer a genuine, compassionate and respectful relationship with my clients, so they can reach greater self-awareness and insight.
I have been a practicing clinician for over 20 years. I have worked in school settings and clinics, specializing in adolescent and adult issues. I believe that teens and parents can greatly benefit from having a neutral adult help navigate through a challenging time.
(415) 236-2973 View (415) 236-2973
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Hoa My Nguyen
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
San Francisco, CA 94104
Reports relationship difficulties and low self-confidence, marked by self-doubt and poor boundaries.
Whether you're navigating relationship challenges, healing from trauma, or simply looking to better understand yourself, you’ll find a supportive and thoughtful space here.
Reports relationship difficulties and low self-confidence, marked by self-doubt and poor boundaries.
Whether you're navigating relationship challenges, healing from trauma, or simply looking to better understand yourself, you’ll find a supportive and thoughtful space here.
(510) 726-8159 View (510) 726-8159
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Lewis Epstein
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Online Only
I am a highly skilled psychotherapist with over 40 years of experience working with relationships in crisis, individuals suffering from anxiety and depression and parents trying to help their children find authentic success.
When seeking help you deserve a therapist with the broadest range of skills to fit your particular needs. My approaches include Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, hypnotherapy and EMDR as well as couples work and family therapy. You can contact me at 973-378-3466 for a free consultation and I will address any questions you might have.
I am a highly skilled psychotherapist with over 40 years of experience working with relationships in crisis, individuals suffering from anxiety and depression and parents trying to help their children find authentic success.
When seeking help you deserve a therapist with the broadest range of skills to fit your particular needs. My approaches include Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, hypnotherapy and EMDR as well as couples work and family therapy. You can contact me at 973-378-3466 for a free consultation and I will address any questions you might have.
(415) 301-7741 View (415) 301-7741
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Liza Polly Veale
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
2 Endorsed
San Francisco, CA 94102
In addition to individuals, I focus on couples, families and dyads of any kind.
I practice contemporary, relational psychoanalytic psychotherapy. I offer my whole self to this work, even when I am quiet. I welcome your messiness and darkness while being equally curious about your distinctiveness and creativity. I believe life is more bearable when we feel connected to ourselves, to others and to aliveness itself. We each possess innate creativity to find meaning in the intractable problems of life, to act on our desires and to heal our inner worlds.
In addition to individuals, I focus on couples, families and dyads of any kind.
I practice contemporary, relational psychoanalytic psychotherapy. I offer my whole self to this work, even when I am quiet. I welcome your messiness and darkness while being equally curious about your distinctiveness and creativity. I believe life is more bearable when we feel connected to ourselves, to others and to aliveness itself. We each possess innate creativity to find meaning in the intractable problems of life, to act on our desires and to heal our inner worlds.
(628) 277-8771 View (628) 277-8771
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Jennie Lopez
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
San Francisco, CA 94102
I have a deep passion for working with couples and supporting them in meeting their relationship goals.
Understanding that everyone experiences life uniquely, I tailor my approach to fit your specific needs and goals. I have specialized training in working with couples and draw from evidence-based methods, including the Gottman Method, to help couples enhance their communication, rebuild trust, and strengthen their connection.
I have a deep passion for working with couples and supporting them in meeting their relationship goals.
Understanding that everyone experiences life uniquely, I tailor my approach to fit your specific needs and goals. I have specialized training in working with couples and draw from evidence-based methods, including the Gottman Method, to help couples enhance their communication, rebuild trust, and strengthen their connection.
(415) 689-7704 View (415) 689-7704
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Grace Yan
Psychologist, PsyD
San Francisco, CA 94115
Over the years, I have come to understand that many of our difficulties with work and/or relationships can be traced to some forms of disconnection internally and externally, sometime manifested as depression, anxiety, existential angst, eating disorder, or addiction. I view therapy as a continuous in-depth conversation with another person in order to mend past traumas, reconnect with self and others, and develop a new perspective on life. I will bring to this journey curiosity, compassion, knowledge, experiences, and a commitment to help you strive for a healthier and more balanced life.
Over the years, I have come to understand that many of our difficulties with work and/or relationships can be traced to some forms of disconnection internally and externally, sometime manifested as depression, anxiety, existential angst, eating disorder, or addiction. I view therapy as a continuous in-depth conversation with another person in order to mend past traumas, reconnect with self and others, and develop a new perspective on life. I will bring to this journey curiosity, compassion, knowledge, experiences, and a commitment to help you strive for a healthier and more balanced life.
(415) 639-9516 View (415) 639-9516
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Andrea Mar
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
2 Endorsed
Online Only
With couples, my style is interactive and focused.
I draw upon practices that are informed by science, but ultimately human. I feel great privilege having worked with a variety of people and issues over the past 20+ years and I continue to deeply enjoy this work.
With couples, my style is interactive and focused.
I draw upon practices that are informed by science, but ultimately human. I feel great privilege having worked with a variety of people and issues over the past 20+ years and I continue to deeply enjoy this work.
(415) 529-6102 View (415) 529-6102
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Efrén F. Hilera
Psychologist, PsyD, MBA
San Francisco, CA 94111
I am an empowerment and transformational coach who works with individuals, couples, companies and organizations who are committed to living life in a powerful, meaningful and fulfilling way!
I am a licensed clinical psychologist with 20 years of experience. I am well-trained & have extensive experience with evidence-based treatments, including CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy), exposure treatment for anxiety, EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing), motivational interviewing, MBCT (Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy) & DBT (Dialectic-Behavioral Therapy). I also work well with substance use issues.
I am an empowerment and transformational coach who works with individuals, couples, companies and organizations who are committed to living life in a powerful, meaningful and fulfilling way!
I am a licensed clinical psychologist with 20 years of experience. I am well-trained & have extensive experience with evidence-based treatments, including CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy), exposure treatment for anxiety, EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing), motivational interviewing, MBCT (Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy) & DBT (Dialectic-Behavioral Therapy). I also work well with substance use issues.
(650) 924-9912 View (650) 924-9912
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Jessamyn Meyerhoff
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
1 Endorsed
San Francisco, CA 94111
It's about building resilience and developing flexibility and creativity in how you navigate your intimate relationships
I also work with couples struggling to overcome deeply entrenched patterns of hostility, avoidance, destructive expressions of anger or a lack of intimacy. I help partners take responsibility for how their adaptive childhood selves are still running the show, while supporting them to learn more effective pathways to fulfill their desire for connection.
It's about building resilience and developing flexibility and creativity in how you navigate your intimate relationships
I also work with couples struggling to overcome deeply entrenched patterns of hostility, avoidance, destructive expressions of anger or a lack of intimacy. I help partners take responsibility for how their adaptive childhood selves are still running the show, while supporting them to learn more effective pathways to fulfill their desire for connection.
(415) 532-8710 View (415) 532-8710
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Emily Tien
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
4 Endorsed
San Francisco, CA 94114
I work with teens, adults, and couples, especially those dealing with anxiety, panic attacks, recovering from trauma, addressing phobias, and working to strengthen their sense of self.
I have an MS in Marriage and Family Therapy from Fuller Theological Seminary with an emphasis in Medical Family Therapy. I’m trained in EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing, trained by an EMDRIA approved trainer) and am a certified Level II Restoration Therapist.
I work with teens, adults, and couples, especially those dealing with anxiety, panic attacks, recovering from trauma, addressing phobias, and working to strengthen their sense of self.
I have an MS in Marriage and Family Therapy from Fuller Theological Seminary with an emphasis in Medical Family Therapy. I’m trained in EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing, trained by an EMDRIA approved trainer) and am a certified Level II Restoration Therapist.
(415) 340-8903 View (415) 340-8903
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Nina M Utigaard
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MFT, REAT
4 Endorsed
Online Only
The issues or concerns you have may be preventing you from moving forward or from having fulfilling relationships, career or a satisfying life.
Sessions are interactive and offered in a person-centered approach. I work with adults, individually, as well as, couples counseling. I have experience working with depression, anxiety, life transitions, grief and loss, trauma, stress, self-esteem, and communication issues. I also offer expressive arts therapy when helpful. I also offer telehealth sessions.
The issues or concerns you have may be preventing you from moving forward or from having fulfilling relationships, career or a satisfying life.
Sessions are interactive and offered in a person-centered approach. I work with adults, individually, as well as, couples counseling. I have experience working with depression, anxiety, life transitions, grief and loss, trauma, stress, self-esteem, and communication issues. I also offer expressive arts therapy when helpful. I also offer telehealth sessions.
(415) 742-1932 View (415) 742-1932
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Arabella Hester
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
4 Endorsed
San Francisco, CA 94115
Are you a high-achieving professional, founder, or investor who feels like you’re holding everything together — except the relationships that matter most?
I am an EFT therapist when I work with couples. With individuals I work collaboratively to make sure their needs are met. Whether working with couples, individuals, or families, my therapeutic approach is rooted in attachment theory and integrative methods, emphasizing the importance of feeling secure and heard.
Are you a high-achieving professional, founder, or investor who feels like you’re holding everything together — except the relationships that matter most?
I am an EFT therapist when I work with couples. With individuals I work collaboratively to make sure their needs are met. Whether working with couples, individuals, or families, my therapeutic approach is rooted in attachment theory and integrative methods, emphasizing the importance of feeling secure and heard.
(415) 578-3010 View (415) 578-3010
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Mariya Wolff
Psychologist, PhD
Online Only
The therapeutic relationship is unlike any other, and requires a specific type of trust and connection.
My therapeutic approach is eclectic and flexible. I specialize in eating disorders, trauma, anxiety, depression, and adjustment, and I have roots in psychodynamic, existential, and mindfulness modalities, paired with CBT techniques. My style is a blended approach, that utilizes strengths from these modalities and is tailored to each specific individual.
The therapeutic relationship is unlike any other, and requires a specific type of trust and connection.
My therapeutic approach is eclectic and flexible. I specialize in eating disorders, trauma, anxiety, depression, and adjustment, and I have roots in psychodynamic, existential, and mindfulness modalities, paired with CBT techniques. My style is a blended approach, that utilizes strengths from these modalities and is tailored to each specific individual.
(628) 277-8556 View (628) 277-8556
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Pamela San Cristobal
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
San Francisco, CA 94110
As a couples therapist specializing in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), I help couples identify the root of their conflicts and the unmet emotional needs beneath them.
I am currently accepting new clients and specialize in working with couples. My goal is to provide a safe, warm, and non-judgmental space where we can work together to uncover what may be keeping you stuck in recurring conflicts and arguments. Through collaboration, we will explore the dynamics at play in your relationship and develop practical tools to help you communicate more effectively, build trust, and strengthen your connection. Let's work together to create lasting change in your relationship.
As a couples therapist specializing in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), I help couples identify the root of their conflicts and the unmet emotional needs beneath them.
I am currently accepting new clients and specialize in working with couples. My goal is to provide a safe, warm, and non-judgmental space where we can work together to uncover what may be keeping you stuck in recurring conflicts and arguments. Through collaboration, we will explore the dynamics at play in your relationship and develop practical tools to help you communicate more effectively, build trust, and strengthen your connection. Let's work together to create lasting change in your relationship.
(415) 858-6739 View (415) 858-6739
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Suresh Chacko
Psychologist, PsyD
1 Endorsed
San Francisco, CA 94102
We can work to understand the deeper patterns that shape your experiences and relationships.
I help people who struggle with anxiety, depression, trauma, and relationship difficulties. My approach is particularly helpful for those who want to understand themselves more deeply and break free from painful patterns. I create a supportive space where you can explore your experiences, emotions, and relationships with curiosity rather than judgment.
We can work to understand the deeper patterns that shape your experiences and relationships.
I help people who struggle with anxiety, depression, trauma, and relationship difficulties. My approach is particularly helpful for those who want to understand themselves more deeply and break free from painful patterns. I create a supportive space where you can explore your experiences, emotions, and relationships with curiosity rather than judgment.
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Eve Kupferman
Psychologist, PhD
San Francisco, CA 94110
I work with adults, teens and couples.
I believe that therapy can help you feel more connected to yourself and those around you, freer to pursue your goals, and more alive. My approach is to provide a warm supportive environment so you can feel comfortable and able to speak about whatever is distressing you. I like to work collaboratively, exploring both the past and the present, to figure out what is preventing you from feeling more fulfilled. Together, we will develop strategies to remove these obstacles.
I work with adults, teens and couples.
I believe that therapy can help you feel more connected to yourself and those around you, freer to pursue your goals, and more alive. My approach is to provide a warm supportive environment so you can feel comfortable and able to speak about whatever is distressing you. I like to work collaboratively, exploring both the past and the present, to figure out what is preventing you from feeling more fulfilled. Together, we will develop strategies to remove these obstacles.
(415) 894-0931 View (415) 894-0931
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Amina Habib
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
San Francisco, CA 94105
The goal is personal growth and improve mental wellbeing and navigate the client through anxiety, depression, addiction and relationship issues, through collaborative work my client able to gain the tools and insight to deal with the at hand problems and future issues.
I have worked with clients struggling with depression, anxiety and addiction for more than twenty years have helped me to understand, being empathetic, good listener, and meeting the clients where they are at. I adjust my style to the unique needs of the client, exploration, or specific tools. it's important for me to maintain clear boundaries.
The goal is personal growth and improve mental wellbeing and navigate the client through anxiety, depression, addiction and relationship issues, through collaborative work my client able to gain the tools and insight to deal with the at hand problems and future issues.
I have worked with clients struggling with depression, anxiety and addiction for more than twenty years have helped me to understand, being empathetic, good listener, and meeting the clients where they are at. I adjust my style to the unique needs of the client, exploration, or specific tools. it's important for me to maintain clear boundaries.
(213) 462-3862 View (213) 462-3862
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Paul Dubin
Psychologist, PhD
San Francisco, CA 94131
My role is to help individuals and couples work through problems as effectively and efficiently as possible, in a way that builds confidence, self-respect, hope, and, ultimately, a fresh way of living life.
I draw from various sources for ideas and insights, including Humanism, Buddhism, social psychology, and cognitive science. I also specialize in clinical hypnosis, and make selective use of it in my counseling. I take my work seriously, and believe deeply in what I do.
My role is to help individuals and couples work through problems as effectively and efficiently as possible, in a way that builds confidence, self-respect, hope, and, ultimately, a fresh way of living life.
I draw from various sources for ideas and insights, including Humanism, Buddhism, social psychology, and cognitive science. I also specialize in clinical hypnosis, and make selective use of it in my counseling. I take my work seriously, and believe deeply in what I do.
(415) 234-7599 View (415) 234-7599

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FAQ - About Couples Therapy
Does couples counseling work?
Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.

When should a couple seek counseling?
Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.

How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?
The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.

How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?
The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.