Therapists in Pacific Heights, San Francisco, CA
I work with adults, couples, and adolescents who are interested in more depth-oriented therapy. Many are thoughtful and curious about themselves but feel stuck in patterns in their relationships or overwhelmed by anxiety. Others are trying to understand how earlier experiences or trauma may continue to shape their lives. Together, we create space to slow down, reflect, and deepen understanding so that these patterns can begin to shift over time.
I work with adults, couples, and adolescents who are interested in more depth-oriented therapy. Many are thoughtful and curious about themselves but feel stuck in patterns in their relationships or overwhelmed by anxiety. Others are trying to understand how earlier experiences or trauma may continue to shape their lives. Together, we create space to slow down, reflect, and deepen understanding so that these patterns can begin to shift over time.
Are you tired of feeling that your anxiety/depression is in the driver’s seat and your innate creativity is held captive in the trunk? Are you ready for your anxiety/depression to take a back seat and choose what drives you - to feel creative, playful and confident. I am an expert in supporting creative folx who are feeling stuck, anxious, and alone and with no outlet, to feel seen and heard, and give expression to unspoken parts of themselves, to get clear on their needs, wants and their truth. Moving from a place of unbearable pain and stuckness to living full, creative, purpose-driven lives.
Are you tired of feeling that your anxiety/depression is in the driver’s seat and your innate creativity is held captive in the trunk? Are you ready for your anxiety/depression to take a back seat and choose what drives you - to feel creative, playful and confident. I am an expert in supporting creative folx who are feeling stuck, anxious, and alone and with no outlet, to feel seen and heard, and give expression to unspoken parts of themselves, to get clear on their needs, wants and their truth. Moving from a place of unbearable pain and stuckness to living full, creative, purpose-driven lives.
Teresa
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT, APCC
7 Endorsed
Pacific Heights, San Francisco, CA 94115
I am currently accepting new couples only. You may love each other and still feel trapped in the same painful pattern: one partner pursues while the other withdraws, conversations become debates, intimacy feels increasingly distant, or secrecy or betrayal has disrupted trust. You may both be thoughtful, analytical, and self-aware - yet tired of understanding the problem without being able to change what happens between you.
I am currently accepting new couples only. You may love each other and still feel trapped in the same painful pattern: one partner pursues while the other withdraws, conversations become debates, intimacy feels increasingly distant, or secrecy or betrayal has disrupted trust. You may both be thoughtful, analytical, and self-aware - yet tired of understanding the problem without being able to change what happens between you.
Jennifer Boone
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, MBA, CHT
3 Endorsed
Pacific Heights, San Francisco, CA 94109
My work with individuals, couples and families includes relational issues, self-esteem, anxiety, grief, childhood and chronic trauma, life transitions, divorce, parenting, coping with personality disorders, dysfunctional family recovery, spirituality, the expatriate or immigrant experience, women’s issues, and uncovering deep-seated beliefs and patterns.
My work with individuals, couples and families includes relational issues, self-esteem, anxiety, grief, childhood and chronic trauma, life transitions, divorce, parenting, coping with personality disorders, dysfunctional family recovery, spirituality, the expatriate or immigrant experience, women’s issues, and uncovering deep-seated beliefs and patterns.
Margaret Meg Heinicke
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Pacific Heights, San Francisco, CA 94115
Everyone has hidden resources. Each one of us has the strength within to weather the inevitable storms of life. My goal as a therapist is to help my clients explore their potential, while building emotional strength and resilience. I believe in relational, collaborative work that affects real change. I am experienced in Family Systems Therapy and can help both families and individuals examine their experience as part of a family dynamic.
Everyone has hidden resources. Each one of us has the strength within to weather the inevitable storms of life. My goal as a therapist is to help my clients explore their potential, while building emotional strength and resilience. I believe in relational, collaborative work that affects real change. I am experienced in Family Systems Therapy and can help both families and individuals examine their experience as part of a family dynamic.
Alejandra Juarez Shuttleworth
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
4 Endorsed
Pacific Heights, San Francisco, CA 94115
It takes courage to seek change. I’m here to support and guide your healing journey in an empowering way that honors your unique path. I hope you can explore my website and if you think we might be a good fit please reach out to set up a free 15-minute phone consultation.
It takes courage to seek change. I’m here to support and guide your healing journey in an empowering way that honors your unique path. I hope you can explore my website and if you think we might be a good fit please reach out to set up a free 15-minute phone consultation.
Kari Floberg
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
1 Endorsed
Pacific Heights, San Francisco, CA 94123
If you are navigating an eating disorder, relationship challenges, anxiety,
or the quieter question of whether your life is actually what you want it to
be, I work at that intersection. I am an LMFT in San Francisco and Sonoma
County with 10 years of clinical experience and a 14-year background in the
arts, which shapes how I work: creatively, somatically, and with the belief
that the body holds as much as the mind does. I am LGBTQ+ affirming.
If you are navigating an eating disorder, relationship challenges, anxiety,
or the quieter question of whether your life is actually what you want it to
be, I work at that intersection. I am an LMFT in San Francisco and Sonoma
County with 10 years of clinical experience and a 14-year background in the
arts, which shapes how I work: creatively, somatically, and with the belief
that the body holds as much as the mind does. I am LGBTQ+ affirming.
I specialize in working with outwardly high-functioning women who feel anxious, overwhelmed, and disconnected. My clients often appear composed and capable on the outside, but privately struggle with self-doubt, emotional flooding or shutdown, people-pleasing, and the exhausting pressure to keep it all together. Many have a history of relational or developmental trauma, and feel lost in their relationships, unsure of who they are outside of others' expectations.
I specialize in working with outwardly high-functioning women who feel anxious, overwhelmed, and disconnected. My clients often appear composed and capable on the outside, but privately struggle with self-doubt, emotional flooding or shutdown, people-pleasing, and the exhausting pressure to keep it all together. Many have a history of relational or developmental trauma, and feel lost in their relationships, unsure of who they are outside of others' expectations.
I am an experienced psychologist providing brief and long-term psychotherapy and crisis intervention to individual adults. I specialize in trauma, depression, anxiety, separation and divorce, loss and grief, life transitions, relational issues, among others. I am a Certified EMDR practitioner and an Approved Consultant. EMDR is a specialized therapy for symptom relief and the processing of stress reactions/trauma, whether experienced from the distant past or more recently. I am a facilitator for Laurel Parnell's Attachment Focused-EMDR trainings. In addition, I am a Certified Somatic Experiencing Practitioner (SEP) and a facilitator of SE trainings. I provide Consultation to Licensed Professionals.
I am an experienced psychologist providing brief and long-term psychotherapy and crisis intervention to individual adults. I specialize in trauma, depression, anxiety, separation and divorce, loss and grief, life transitions, relational issues, among others. I am a Certified EMDR practitioner and an Approved Consultant. EMDR is a specialized therapy for symptom relief and the processing of stress reactions/trauma, whether experienced from the distant past or more recently. I am a facilitator for Laurel Parnell's Attachment Focused-EMDR trainings. In addition, I am a Certified Somatic Experiencing Practitioner (SEP) and a facilitator of SE trainings. I provide Consultation to Licensed Professionals.
I enjoy working with motivated, well-educated, intelligent people. I help identify what troubles them and work toward understanding and addressing how these difficulties prevent them from experiencing satisfying relationships and making change in their lives. I am an experienced therapist who is direct, collaborative and can help you move toward a potential that's not being reached. I have a nursing / medical background that facilitates my comfort in working within the medical professions, emergency & paramedic services. I have years of experience with those who work in law enforcement and have been chronically traumatized.
I enjoy working with motivated, well-educated, intelligent people. I help identify what troubles them and work toward understanding and addressing how these difficulties prevent them from experiencing satisfying relationships and making change in their lives. I am an experienced therapist who is direct, collaborative and can help you move toward a potential that's not being reached. I have a nursing / medical background that facilitates my comfort in working within the medical professions, emergency & paramedic services. I have years of experience with those who work in law enforcement and have been chronically traumatized.
Adolescence can be a challenging phase of life. Whether it is struggling with self image, anxiety, depression, stress, aggression, defiance, or social or academic difficulties, I specialize in working with teens and their families to address these issues. My style is collaborative, warm, and interactive - yet straight forward. I focus on strengths to promote positive change. People come to grow in a variety of ways, and as a result, I draw from Cognitive Behavioral (including Trauma-Focused CBT), Psychodynamic, Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), and Narrative theories to best meet my clients' needs. Please see my website for further details about my background.
Adolescence can be a challenging phase of life. Whether it is struggling with self image, anxiety, depression, stress, aggression, defiance, or social or academic difficulties, I specialize in working with teens and their families to address these issues. My style is collaborative, warm, and interactive - yet straight forward. I focus on strengths to promote positive change. People come to grow in a variety of ways, and as a result, I draw from Cognitive Behavioral (including Trauma-Focused CBT), Psychodynamic, Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), and Narrative theories to best meet my clients' needs. Please see my website for further details about my background.
I approach therapy as a collaboration between client and therapist, utilizing an integrative holistic approach that adapts to the needs of each person. I value evidence-based therapies alongside the spiritual and embodied experiences of my clients. It is important to me that I help resource folks in ways that feel achievable and sustainable in their day to day lives. I have worked with folks struggling with anxiety, depression, ADHD, trauma, grief and loss, screen/technology addictions, and relational challenges. I have also helped folks to navigate their own relationships to systems of power and desires for change.
I approach therapy as a collaboration between client and therapist, utilizing an integrative holistic approach that adapts to the needs of each person. I value evidence-based therapies alongside the spiritual and embodied experiences of my clients. It is important to me that I help resource folks in ways that feel achievable and sustainable in their day to day lives. I have worked with folks struggling with anxiety, depression, ADHD, trauma, grief and loss, screen/technology addictions, and relational challenges. I have also helped folks to navigate their own relationships to systems of power and desires for change.
Are you living with or have you recently been diagnosed with a major medical condition? Caring for someone who is ill or dying? Are you having difficulties coping with a chronic or newly diagnosed illness? Are your children struggling with the loss of a loved one? Are you dealing with the impact of illness on body image? Are you considering end of life options or dealing with issues such as loss and grief? We help patients, their loved ones, and caregivers coping with cancer, life-altering illness, chronic pain, neurological conditions, infertility, complex pregnancy, and end of life issues.
Are you living with or have you recently been diagnosed with a major medical condition? Caring for someone who is ill or dying? Are you having difficulties coping with a chronic or newly diagnosed illness? Are your children struggling with the loss of a loved one? Are you dealing with the impact of illness on body image? Are you considering end of life options or dealing with issues such as loss and grief? We help patients, their loved ones, and caregivers coping with cancer, life-altering illness, chronic pain, neurological conditions, infertility, complex pregnancy, and end of life issues.
I understand therapy as a process that unfolds through both increased self-awareness and the experience of being met and understood in the room. Over time, this kind of work can foster a greater sense of inner strength, flexibility, and freedom. Meaningful change tends to emerge not from quick solutions, but from carefully exploring the emotional and relational patterns that shape how you experience yourself and others.
I understand therapy as a process that unfolds through both increased self-awareness and the experience of being met and understood in the room. Over time, this kind of work can foster a greater sense of inner strength, flexibility, and freedom. Meaningful change tends to emerge not from quick solutions, but from carefully exploring the emotional and relational patterns that shape how you experience yourself and others.
Life can present us with challenges we're not prepared for. Underlying issues can make it difficult to cope resulting in difficult moods -- anger or irritability, overwhelm, depression or anxiety, sadness, grief. Other reasons for therapy include relationship troubles (e.g., romantic, family, friends), unresolved trauma, demanding life transitions, stubborn self-defeating patterns, and low self-esteem undermining your life. Psychotherapy can help you move proactively through these challenges with better outcomes and more confidence.
Life can present us with challenges we're not prepared for. Underlying issues can make it difficult to cope resulting in difficult moods -- anger or irritability, overwhelm, depression or anxiety, sadness, grief. Other reasons for therapy include relationship troubles (e.g., romantic, family, friends), unresolved trauma, demanding life transitions, stubborn self-defeating patterns, and low self-esteem undermining your life. Psychotherapy can help you move proactively through these challenges with better outcomes and more confidence.
Dr. Denise Stilwell is a licensed clinical psychologist with seven years of experience providing psychotherapy in a variety of clinical settings. She worked as a nurse for sixteen years before she became a psychotherapist and brings that rich experience into her practice. She specializes in treating anxiety, depression, identity issues, interpersonal issues, grief, managing chronic illness, and somatic symptom disorder. Dr. Stilwell collaborates with her clients to ensure they feel seen and heard in their sessions while utilizing evidence-based therapy approaches that are culturally sensitive and individually focused.
Dr. Denise Stilwell is a licensed clinical psychologist with seven years of experience providing psychotherapy in a variety of clinical settings. She worked as a nurse for sixteen years before she became a psychotherapist and brings that rich experience into her practice. She specializes in treating anxiety, depression, identity issues, interpersonal issues, grief, managing chronic illness, and somatic symptom disorder. Dr. Stilwell collaborates with her clients to ensure they feel seen and heard in their sessions while utilizing evidence-based therapy approaches that are culturally sensitive and individually focused.
Hi, I’m Shaina Adelstein (she/her), a Licensed Clinical Social Worker specializing in working with autistic adults, teens, couples, polycules, and families-especially those exploring the intersections of neurodivergence, gender, and sexuality.
My therapy style is warm, collaborative, and direct. I use a strengths-based, anti-masking, affirming approach grounded in Internal Family Systems (IFS), Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Attachment-based therapy, the Gottman Method, mindfulness, and of course humor! I have received extensive training in these methodologies from interning at the San Francisco Marriage and Couples Center.
Hi, I’m Shaina Adelstein (she/her), a Licensed Clinical Social Worker specializing in working with autistic adults, teens, couples, polycules, and families-especially those exploring the intersections of neurodivergence, gender, and sexuality.
My therapy style is warm, collaborative, and direct. I use a strengths-based, anti-masking, affirming approach grounded in Internal Family Systems (IFS), Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Attachment-based therapy, the Gottman Method, mindfulness, and of course humor! I have received extensive training in these methodologies from interning at the San Francisco Marriage and Couples Center.
Often in life there are unexpected events or life transitions that challenge our abilities to cope or understand our sense of self or purpose. When what has been helpful to navigate life is no longer working, symptoms may show up in the form of sadness, depression, anxiety, stress, physical ailments, feelings of isolation, or an overwhelm of emotions that may be difficult to manage alone. I view therapy as a unique opportunity for honest observation and exploration in service of creating a deeper connection with your inherent nature as a way to discover how you can find support from yourself, as well as, feel supported by others.
Often in life there are unexpected events or life transitions that challenge our abilities to cope or understand our sense of self or purpose. When what has been helpful to navigate life is no longer working, symptoms may show up in the form of sadness, depression, anxiety, stress, physical ailments, feelings of isolation, or an overwhelm of emotions that may be difficult to manage alone. I view therapy as a unique opportunity for honest observation and exploration in service of creating a deeper connection with your inherent nature as a way to discover how you can find support from yourself, as well as, feel supported by others.
I have over 25 years of providing individual therapy to adults, children and adolescents. I also work with couples. My clinical experience and training will be the guide in working collaboratively with you to make sense of how you might be avoiding feelings with counterproductive activities or are overwhelmed by emotions and thoughts that prevent you from living a more satisfying life. My specialty areas include: issues related to separation and divorce, child therapy and interventions for early childhood issues. I am interested in understanding the impact of intergenerational trauma. I have experience working with symptoms from trauma.
I have over 25 years of providing individual therapy to adults, children and adolescents. I also work with couples. My clinical experience and training will be the guide in working collaboratively with you to make sense of how you might be avoiding feelings with counterproductive activities or are overwhelmed by emotions and thoughts that prevent you from living a more satisfying life. My specialty areas include: issues related to separation and divorce, child therapy and interventions for early childhood issues. I am interested in understanding the impact of intergenerational trauma. I have experience working with symptoms from trauma.
You've achieved significant success in life, and from the outside, it shows. But inside, something feels divided: pulled in too many directions, second-guessing decisions that should be clear, sensing you've built an impressive life without quite knowing who's living it. You've likely done the work already — therapy, books, practices, even workshops — and still you wonder what will actually fulfill you. I work closely with founders, executives, creatives, and accomplished professionals at moments of transition, developing personalized methods to help you move from fragmentation to a steady, integrated center from which you can lead.
You've achieved significant success in life, and from the outside, it shows. But inside, something feels divided: pulled in too many directions, second-guessing decisions that should be clear, sensing you've built an impressive life without quite knowing who's living it. You've likely done the work already — therapy, books, practices, even workshops — and still you wonder what will actually fulfill you. I work closely with founders, executives, creatives, and accomplished professionals at moments of transition, developing personalized methods to help you move from fragmentation to a steady, integrated center from which you can lead.
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Number of Therapists in Pacific Heights, San Francisco, CA
400+
Average cost per session
$205
Therapists in Pacific Heights, San Francisco, CA who prioritize treating:
| 94% | Anxiety |
| 94% | Social Anxiety |
| 94% | Health Anxiety |
| 94% | Driving Anxiety |
| 90% | Relationship Issues |
| 89% | Depression |
| 86% | Relationship Anxiety |
Average years in practice
14 Years
Top 3 insurances accepted
| 76% | Aetna |
| 62% | Cigna and Evernorth |
| 58% | UnitedHealthcare UHC | UBH |
How Therapists in Pacific Heights, San Francisco, CA see their clients
| 61% | In Person and Online | |
| 39% | Online Only |
Gender breakdown
| 82% | Female | |
| 17% | Male | |
| 1% | Non-Binary |
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Is everyone in the Psychology Today Therapy Directory a licensed therapist?
The Psychology Today directory lists providers who offer legitimate mental health services to the public, including psychologists, psychiatrists, social workers, and counselors.
Many have been licensed by the country or state where they practice; providers whose license or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Some clinicians or organizations provide services for which their state or country does not offer licenses, such as pastoral counseling. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
Many have been licensed by the country or state where they practice; providers whose license or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Some clinicians or organizations provide services for which their state or country does not offer licenses, such as pastoral counseling. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
What’s the difference between a psychologist, a therapist, and a counselor?
Therapists, psychologists, and counselors are all licensed mental health professionals. In the US, psychologists have earned a doctoral degree. The terms “therapist” and “counselor” are used somewhat interchangeably, but generally therapists offer longer-term, mental health care, while counselors offer shorter-term care that may focus on one domain, such as marriage, career, or academic challenges.
Clients should consider factors such as insurance coverage and their primary reason(s) for seeking therapy to determine the type of professional best suited to their needs. Someone struggling with mental health challenges such as depression or anxiety, for example, may wish to seek out a clinical psychologist or therapist, while someone navigating career obstacles or marital upheaval may benefit from seeing a counselor who can offer short-term, targeted support.
Clients should consider factors such as insurance coverage and their primary reason(s) for seeking therapy to determine the type of professional best suited to their needs. Someone struggling with mental health challenges such as depression or anxiety, for example, may wish to seek out a clinical psychologist or therapist, while someone navigating career obstacles or marital upheaval may benefit from seeing a counselor who can offer short-term, targeted support.
What type of therapy is right for me?
The type of therapy best suited to a particular individual depends on several factors, including their primary reason for seeking therapy, their preferred timeline (some therapy types last for a set number of sessions, while others are open-ended), and their personality and preferences—some may prefer a more structured approach. For many individuals, multiple types of therapy could provide a good fit.
How much does therapy cost?
The cost of therapy depends on a number of variables, including location and the therapist’s experience and training. On average, a therapy session in the United States could cost between $100 and $200 or more. If you have insurance, the expense of mental health care is typically lower, but it varies based on your insurance plan details and whether you choose an in-network or out-of-network mental healthcare provider.
What are more affordable or low cost therapy solutions?
Many therapists offer sliding scale payments, usually on a limited number of slots, which consists in an agreement between the therapist and a client to pay a reduced rate. Therapists who provide such arrangements often consider the client's income or ability to pay, but the extent of the discount is ultimately at the therapist's discretion. Furthermore, while group therapy may have different goals and benefits compared to individual therapy, it can be a more affordable solution to address certain types of issues.
Is online therapy cheaper than in-person therapy?
Many therapists charge the same amount for online therapy as they do for in-person therapy—though clients may still find this cost-effective if it cuts down on their transportation costs. Health insurance plans often offer equivalent coverage for online and in-person therapy; indeed, in many places, they are legally required to do so. Text-based or on-demand therapy apps may be cheaper than traditional one-on-one psychotherapy; however, the practice may be less effective and is not likely to be covered by insurance.
Is online therapy a good option?
Therapy conducted online can be just as effective as in-person therapy, as long as there is a strong alliance between the client and the therapist. To find a therapist who provides telehealth services to clients in your area, click “Online Therapy” on the directory homepage and search by your city or town or your zip code.
Are therapy sessions confidential?
Confidentiality is a crucial part of the therapeutic relationship. Therapists in the United States are bound by the regulations set out by the Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act of 1996 (HIPAA), which aims to protect sensitive health information. With very few exceptions, a therapist will only discuss their client with others when the client has given their written permission. The instances in which a therapist would be required to disclose personal information are: if a client poses a danger to themselves or others, if the therapist suspects the abuse of a child or an elderly or otherwise dependent adult, or if they are legally forced to by court order. These exceptions to the confidentiality agreement are usually discussed with a client before their first session.
