Sexual Addiction Therapists in San Diego, CA
Has your partner just discovered your pornography habit? Rawers Therapy specializes in the treatment of Sex Addiction and other Intimacy Disorders (Commitment Fear, Love Addiction, and Male Sexual Anorexia) from a respectful, non-shaming and clinically validated approach. Advanced CSAT certification from IITAP (International Institute for Trauma & Addiction Professionals) assures you we understand what you are going through and what you need to recover and rebuild your relationship.
Has your partner just discovered your pornography habit? Rawers Therapy specializes in the treatment of Sex Addiction and other Intimacy Disorders (Commitment Fear, Love Addiction, and Male Sexual Anorexia) from a respectful, non-shaming and clinically validated approach. Advanced CSAT certification from IITAP (International Institute for Trauma & Addiction Professionals) assures you we understand what you are going through and what you need to recover and rebuild your relationship.
Everyone, at one time or another, encounters challenging experiences which can leave a lasting, negative effect. These challenging or traumatic experiences can leave wounds of shame that can hinder one from being they're true, authentic self. Depression, anxiety, OCD, lowered self esteem and other negative effects can result. I specialize in helping people heal these wounds and resolve the negative effects which results in living a more authentic and assertive life. We will journey and collaborate together to help you achieve your goals. I work with teens, individuals, couples and families on a variety of areas.
Everyone, at one time or another, encounters challenging experiences which can leave a lasting, negative effect. These challenging or traumatic experiences can leave wounds of shame that can hinder one from being they're true, authentic self. Depression, anxiety, OCD, lowered self esteem and other negative effects can result. I specialize in helping people heal these wounds and resolve the negative effects which results in living a more authentic and assertive life. We will journey and collaborate together to help you achieve your goals. I work with teens, individuals, couples and families on a variety of areas.
Are you stuck feeling disappointed, hurt, lonely, or betrayed? Are you confused about what you want in your life? Are you unhappy and unsure of how to make positive changes in your relationships? Do you want to make your life more satisfying?
I am a Marriage and Family Therapist and AASECT certified Sex Therapist. I help people change behaviors and have more satisfying lives and relationships. I help couples improve intimacy and connection, and heal from hurt, disappointment, betrayal and other violations of trust. I help families improve communication, collaboration, and problem solving, and feel more connected to each other.
Are you stuck feeling disappointed, hurt, lonely, or betrayed? Are you confused about what you want in your life? Are you unhappy and unsure of how to make positive changes in your relationships? Do you want to make your life more satisfying?
I am a Marriage and Family Therapist and AASECT certified Sex Therapist. I help people change behaviors and have more satisfying lives and relationships. I help couples improve intimacy and connection, and heal from hurt, disappointment, betrayal and other violations of trust. I help families improve communication, collaboration, and problem solving, and feel more connected to each other.
How do I know if my sexual behavior is out of control? For many men this question is very subjective and they unfortunately wait for a spouse, loved one or their employer to discover their hidden sexual life before considering help. At The Harvey Institute we believe the most important person to evaluate his personal conflict with regulating sexual behavior is the man experiencing the dilemma. We help men contemplate "What is your conflict with your sexual behavior?" and "What is your vision for your sexual health?" We strive to provide a safe, sexually informed and confidential space for sexual health conversations.
How do I know if my sexual behavior is out of control? For many men this question is very subjective and they unfortunately wait for a spouse, loved one or their employer to discover their hidden sexual life before considering help. At The Harvey Institute we believe the most important person to evaluate his personal conflict with regulating sexual behavior is the man experiencing the dilemma. We help men contemplate "What is your conflict with your sexual behavior?" and "What is your vision for your sexual health?" We strive to provide a safe, sexually informed and confidential space for sexual health conversations.
Are you distracted by insecurities & anxious thoughts during sex? Do you worry that you'll disappoint your partner if you're not in the mood, lose your erection, or have difficulties with orgasm? Does the pressure to perform sexually lead you to avoid partnered sex? You might wonder if you have a "porn addiction." Maybe you're navigating the complexities of a non-monogamous relationship. If so, you’re not alone. Many adults just like you experience performance anxieties, desire discrepancies, communication challenges, and hold unhelpful and inaccurate beliefs about sex and masturbation. The good news? I'm here to help.
Are you distracted by insecurities & anxious thoughts during sex? Do you worry that you'll disappoint your partner if you're not in the mood, lose your erection, or have difficulties with orgasm? Does the pressure to perform sexually lead you to avoid partnered sex? You might wonder if you have a "porn addiction." Maybe you're navigating the complexities of a non-monogamous relationship. If so, you’re not alone. Many adults just like you experience performance anxieties, desire discrepancies, communication challenges, and hold unhelpful and inaccurate beliefs about sex and masturbation. The good news? I'm here to help.
Sexual Addiction Sex Misbehavior Infidelity Expert
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, SOTS
San Diego, CA 92108
I am a Sexual addiction elite level expert 31 years & 46,000 hrs sexual misbehavior specialist psychotherapy.
My preeminent expert status had "The Adam Friedland Show” put me on 1st episode of 2nd season re: sexual addiction behaviors, I was interviewed by Rolling Stone Magazine on "virtual companions". I enjoy being the go to clinician and thought leader on high functioning men acting out sexual misbehaviors such as Infidelity, Prostitution use, Sugar Babies, etc
I am a Sexual addiction elite level expert 31 years & 46,000 hrs sexual misbehavior specialist psychotherapy.
My preeminent expert status had "The Adam Friedland Show” put me on 1st episode of 2nd season re: sexual addiction behaviors, I was interviewed by Rolling Stone Magazine on "virtual companions". I enjoy being the go to clinician and thought leader on high functioning men acting out sexual misbehaviors such as Infidelity, Prostitution use, Sugar Babies, etc
I work with high-functioning individuals & partners who are succeeding at all the things... except feeling alive. You've built the career, the relationship, the life. But you're running on empty, disconnected from yourself, your partnership, and what you actually want. The tension is there, or mabye the silence is. You're in your head, managing, pushing through. One of you is frustrated, the other is exahusted. And underneath that, your sexual connection is suffering too - the desire, the intimacy, the wanting. And neither of you know how to close the gap. If you're skeptical that anything can actually change, good. Bring that too.
I work with high-functioning individuals & partners who are succeeding at all the things... except feeling alive. You've built the career, the relationship, the life. But you're running on empty, disconnected from yourself, your partnership, and what you actually want. The tension is there, or mabye the silence is. You're in your head, managing, pushing through. One of you is frustrated, the other is exahusted. And underneath that, your sexual connection is suffering too - the desire, the intimacy, the wanting. And neither of you know how to close the gap. If you're skeptical that anything can actually change, good. Bring that too.
Are you struggling with pornography or sexual compulsivity? Is secrecy, broken trust or loss of intimacy hurting your relationship? Or maybe you’re not in crisis, but you know your marriage could be stronger, more connected, more alive? You’re not alone–we have been through these issues personally and know what it’s like. I’m a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT), and Hunter is a Certified Mentor Coach in long-term recovery. Together, we help men break free (porn, sexting, affairs, prostitution, etc) and we help couples rebuild trust and real intimacy.
Are you struggling with pornography or sexual compulsivity? Is secrecy, broken trust or loss of intimacy hurting your relationship? Or maybe you’re not in crisis, but you know your marriage could be stronger, more connected, more alive? You’re not alone–we have been through these issues personally and know what it’s like. I’m a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT), and Hunter is a Certified Mentor Coach in long-term recovery. Together, we help men break free (porn, sexting, affairs, prostitution, etc) and we help couples rebuild trust and real intimacy.
I believe that each person has a unique purpose. Life presents with situations where depression, addiction, anxiety, eating too much, eating too little, low self-esteem, and no self-identity can distract a person from finding this unique purpose. I like to explore a variety of issues that keep you from experiencing your purpose in life and help you find your meaning and make sense of that meaning.
I believe that each person has a unique purpose. Life presents with situations where depression, addiction, anxiety, eating too much, eating too little, low self-esteem, and no self-identity can distract a person from finding this unique purpose. I like to explore a variety of issues that keep you from experiencing your purpose in life and help you find your meaning and make sense of that meaning.
Caleb is a Certified Sex Addiction Counselor (CSAT), Certified Clinical Trauma Professional (CCTP), Certified Addictions-Informed Mental Health Professional (CAIMHP), Certified Autism Spectrum Disorder Clinical Specialist (CASDCS), Certified Personality Disorder Specialist, Certified Clinical Anxiety Treatment Professional (CCATP). Caleb specializes in helping clients work through addiction recovery, anxiety, addictive behaviors, depression, PTSD, emotional abuse, mental abuse and trauma of various kinds. He strives to provide a safe space for his clients and to walk hand-in-hand with them, guiding them through the healing process.
Caleb is a Certified Sex Addiction Counselor (CSAT), Certified Clinical Trauma Professional (CCTP), Certified Addictions-Informed Mental Health Professional (CAIMHP), Certified Autism Spectrum Disorder Clinical Specialist (CASDCS), Certified Personality Disorder Specialist, Certified Clinical Anxiety Treatment Professional (CCATP). Caleb specializes in helping clients work through addiction recovery, anxiety, addictive behaviors, depression, PTSD, emotional abuse, mental abuse and trauma of various kinds. He strives to provide a safe space for his clients and to walk hand-in-hand with them, guiding them through the healing process.
Are you struggling with pornography or sexual compulsivity? Is secrecy, broken trust or loss of intimacy hurting your relationship? Or maybe you’re not in crisis, but you know your marriage could be stronger, more connected, more alive? You’re not alone–we have been through these issues personally and know what it’s like. I’m a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT), and Hunter is a Certified Mentor Coach in long-term recovery. Together, we help men break free (porn, sexting, affairs, prostitution, etc) and we help couples rebuild trust and real intimacy.
Are you struggling with pornography or sexual compulsivity? Is secrecy, broken trust or loss of intimacy hurting your relationship? Or maybe you’re not in crisis, but you know your marriage could be stronger, more connected, more alive? You’re not alone–we have been through these issues personally and know what it’s like. I’m a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT), and Hunter is a Certified Mentor Coach in long-term recovery. Together, we help men break free (porn, sexting, affairs, prostitution, etc) and we help couples rebuild trust and real intimacy.
Are you feeling disconnected or struggling to express your emotions in your relationship? I provide specialized counseling for men who are ready to work through problems that may be causing strain, including compulsive sexual behaviors. Together, we’ll explore the underlying issues that might be holding you back, helping you reconnect with your partner and find more balance in your life. You are so much more than the challenges you’re facing, and I believe in your potential to grow as a partner, parent, and individual. Reach out today for a free consultation, and take the first step toward the relationship and life you truly want.
Are you feeling disconnected or struggling to express your emotions in your relationship? I provide specialized counseling for men who are ready to work through problems that may be causing strain, including compulsive sexual behaviors. Together, we’ll explore the underlying issues that might be holding you back, helping you reconnect with your partner and find more balance in your life. You are so much more than the challenges you’re facing, and I believe in your potential to grow as a partner, parent, and individual. Reach out today for a free consultation, and take the first step toward the relationship and life you truly want.
Have you been asked by a wife, husband, partner, significant other or employer to make changes in your sexual behavior? Do you find it difficult to change? I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist working with men who struggle with consensual Out of Control Sexual Behavior. I provide assessment, individual and group therapy for men who are experiencing Out of Control Sexual Behavior.
Have you been asked by a wife, husband, partner, significant other or employer to make changes in your sexual behavior? Do you find it difficult to change? I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist working with men who struggle with consensual Out of Control Sexual Behavior. I provide assessment, individual and group therapy for men who are experiencing Out of Control Sexual Behavior.
Some of the areas that I work with include: anxiety, trauma, grief and loss, recovery from sexual addiction, and family of origin issues.
Clients who work with me will find an inviting and collaborative environment where they can bring their “whole” self, the “messy” parts included, and engage in a process to better understand their stories and contexts, while receiving practical suggestions to support their experiences both during and outside of therapy sessions. I enjoy working with clients who wish to get unstuck from repetitive, troublesome, or self-defeating patterns of relating to themselves, others, or their world.
Some of the areas that I work with include: anxiety, trauma, grief and loss, recovery from sexual addiction, and family of origin issues.
Clients who work with me will find an inviting and collaborative environment where they can bring their “whole” self, the “messy” parts included, and engage in a process to better understand their stories and contexts, while receiving practical suggestions to support their experiences both during and outside of therapy sessions. I enjoy working with clients who wish to get unstuck from repetitive, troublesome, or self-defeating patterns of relating to themselves, others, or their world.
Finding healing and restoration in one’s life involves a journey of self-discovery and healthy risk-taking. I seek to help my clients find purpose, wholeness and hope for what lies ahead. Through my personal therapy experiences, I am aware of the power and importance of having a sacred space where one can feel free to share without judgment. I value entering that sacred space with clients and joining with them in the work of moving from a place of pain to one of peace and restoration.
Finding healing and restoration in one’s life involves a journey of self-discovery and healthy risk-taking. I seek to help my clients find purpose, wholeness and hope for what lies ahead. Through my personal therapy experiences, I am aware of the power and importance of having a sacred space where one can feel free to share without judgment. I value entering that sacred space with clients and joining with them in the work of moving from a place of pain to one of peace and restoration.
Oasis Counseling has five Certified Sexual Addiction Therapists (CSAT) who can help you break free of these painful behaviors.
We have been trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes the foremost expert in the treatment of sexual compulsivity. At Oasis Counseling Group, we treat those who are struggling with out of control sexual behaviors as well as their spouses and offer betrayal trauma therapy. We provide individual, couples, and group therapy. We also offer general therapy.
Oasis Counseling has five Certified Sexual Addiction Therapists (CSAT) who can help you break free of these painful behaviors.
We have been trained by Dr. Patrick Carnes the foremost expert in the treatment of sexual compulsivity. At Oasis Counseling Group, we treat those who are struggling with out of control sexual behaviors as well as their spouses and offer betrayal trauma therapy. We provide individual, couples, and group therapy. We also offer general therapy.
I'm a licensed psychologist, with over 20 years of experience specializing in relationship problems, sex addictions, obsessive thinking, anxiety, and depression. I have advanced training to help couples overcome infidelity, lost connection, frequent arguments, and sexual problems. I use mindfulness and experiential approaches that rewire the brain's ability to cope with impulses, anxiety, and make sense of grief. I help people transcend the difficulties preventing them from living peaceful, joy-filled life. My work with clients is highly collaborative and tuning into your strengths will be of central importance.
I'm a licensed psychologist, with over 20 years of experience specializing in relationship problems, sex addictions, obsessive thinking, anxiety, and depression. I have advanced training to help couples overcome infidelity, lost connection, frequent arguments, and sexual problems. I use mindfulness and experiential approaches that rewire the brain's ability to cope with impulses, anxiety, and make sense of grief. I help people transcend the difficulties preventing them from living peaceful, joy-filled life. My work with clients is highly collaborative and tuning into your strengths will be of central importance.
I am a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (IITAP) and have extensive experience working with people who suffer from compulsive sexual behaviors. If you struggle in intimate relationships, I have decades of experience working with clients with childhood attachment wounds that ultimately create difficulty in adult relationships. I help clients by evaluating your issues or diagnoses, creating with you an effective treatment plan. This usually helps you decrease anxiety in your relationships, effectively resolve conflict in your partnership and to experience more peace and happiness in many areas of your life.
I am a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (IITAP) and have extensive experience working with people who suffer from compulsive sexual behaviors. If you struggle in intimate relationships, I have decades of experience working with clients with childhood attachment wounds that ultimately create difficulty in adult relationships. I help clients by evaluating your issues or diagnoses, creating with you an effective treatment plan. This usually helps you decrease anxiety in your relationships, effectively resolve conflict in your partnership and to experience more peace and happiness in many areas of your life.
Additionally, I specialize in sexual addiction, having been trained by an organization founded by Patrick Carnes, a recognized leader in addiction recovery.
True story: I’ve gotten my truck stuck in the same sandy desert spot on TWO different occasions - both times, thinking I knew what to do. Nope. Both times I needed help. Like with my truck, the help I've received in my life has helped me understand who I am and now it inspires me to support others in their journey. I have the privilege of supporting numerous couples, teens, and individuals, and I take an approach that is warm, constructive, and collaborative. Our time is spent understanding who you are, what is getting you stuck, and exploring what it may take to get you where you want to be.
Additionally, I specialize in sexual addiction, having been trained by an organization founded by Patrick Carnes, a recognized leader in addiction recovery.
True story: I’ve gotten my truck stuck in the same sandy desert spot on TWO different occasions - both times, thinking I knew what to do. Nope. Both times I needed help. Like with my truck, the help I've received in my life has helped me understand who I am and now it inspires me to support others in their journey. I have the privilege of supporting numerous couples, teens, and individuals, and I take an approach that is warm, constructive, and collaborative. Our time is spent understanding who you are, what is getting you stuck, and exploring what it may take to get you where you want to be.
I specialize in intimacy and have successfully worked with clients to help them heal from sexual trauma, past sexual assault, sexual disorders such as erectile dysfunction or vaginismus, exploration of sexual identity, desire and libido dissatisfaction, and compulsive sexual behaviors.
I work with couples to guide them to reconnect from betrayal, strengthen communication, and increase sexual satisfaction.
My goal is to support individuals, couples, and families to heal from their past and create a life that is in alignment with their current goals and values.
I specialize in intimacy and have successfully worked with clients to help them heal from sexual trauma, past sexual assault, sexual disorders such as erectile dysfunction or vaginismus, exploration of sexual identity, desire and libido dissatisfaction, and compulsive sexual behaviors.
I work with couples to guide them to reconnect from betrayal, strengthen communication, and increase sexual satisfaction.
My goal is to support individuals, couples, and families to heal from their past and create a life that is in alignment with their current goals and values.
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Sexual Addiction Therapists
When should someone seek treatment for sex addiction?
People should seek treatment for sex addiction if they cannot control their sexual thoughts or behaviours to the point that it disrupts their ability to function in daily life, for example by threatening their finances, career, or relationships. This may include spending an excessive amount of time obsessing over sex, planning sex, watching pornography, or masturbating, as well as consistently engaging in risky sexual activities, using sex to escape distressing feelings, or attempting yet failing to control sexual behavior.
What are the most common treatment options for sex addiction?
Psychotherapy is the most common treatment for sex addiction; therapy helps patients better understand their compulsive thoughts and behaviors and develop strategies to manage their desires. Therapy may be supplemented by medications, such as antidepressants, mood stabilizers, anti-androgens, and the alcohol and substance use medication Naltrexone, as well as support groups, such as 12-step programs.
How long does therapy take for sex addiction?
Recovering from compulsive behavior takes time and effort. There’s no precise timeline for treatment, but research suggests 12 therapy sessions may be enough to see change. Treatment for sexual compulsions requires honesty in therapy, a commitment to understanding triggers and developing coping skills, and potential lifestyle changes such as cutting out alcohol or drugs.
What if sex addiction is left untreated?
Compulsive sexual behavior can have serious repercussions if left unaddressed. For example, if sexual obsessions consume the vast majority of a person’s time, they may lose their job. If they can’t stop paying for sex, their finances may suffer. If they’re dishonest in their relationships, their partner may leave them. If they consistently feel shame, they may struggle with anxiety, depression, or loneliness. Therapy can help people develop the tools to manage sexual thoughts and behaviors that feel uncontrollable.


