Narcissistic Personality (NPD) Therapists in San Diego, CA

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Scott D. Altamirano (San Diego)
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Online Only
You're in the chaos right now - relationship just ended, porn use spiraling, recovering from a narcissistic ex, or stuck in anxious-avoidant dating patterns.
i'm attachment-focused and heavy on psychoeducation and grief work. My approach is direct and unfiltered - I love dark humor, don't shy from awkward topics, and I'm not here to tiptoe around what needs to be said. I'm a gay, liberal, Hispanic, male veteran who is ready to help you figure out your situation.
You're in the chaos right now - relationship just ended, porn use spiraling, recovering from a narcissistic ex, or stuck in anxious-avoidant dating patterns.
i'm attachment-focused and heavy on psychoeducation and grief work. My approach is direct and unfiltered - I love dark humor, don't shy from awkward topics, and I'm not here to tiptoe around what needs to be said. I'm a gay, liberal, Hispanic, male veteran who is ready to help you figure out your situation.
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Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Center
Counselor, MS, LPCC, LMHC, LPC
Online Only
Narcissistic abuse leaves a specific kind of damage, and most therapists won't fully understand it.
Narcissistic abuse recovery requires a specialist. I work with survivors of narcissistic partners, parents, family members, and coworkers using trauma-informed, somatic, and identity-repair approaches. I offer individual therapy, a weekly survivors group, and a 2-hour Recovery Intensive for those who need a roadmap now. Licensed in 7 states.
Narcissistic abuse leaves a specific kind of damage, and most therapists won't fully understand it.
Narcissistic abuse recovery requires a specialist. I work with survivors of narcissistic partners, parents, family members, and coworkers using trauma-informed, somatic, and identity-repair approaches. I offer individual therapy, a weekly survivors group, and a 2-hour Recovery Intensive for those who need a roadmap now. Licensed in 7 states.
(858) 251-9791 View (858) 251-9791
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Heather L Sherwood
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
3 Endorsed
San Diego, CA 92103
(Special focus on emotionally immature relationship dynamics/ narcissistic abuse)
Everyone deserves a safe space to be heard, seen and known. Emotional wellbeing can help all areas of life and I would love to journey beside you as you navigate challenges, transitions, change or loss. I believe we are resilient enough to face our feelings, to change, to grow and to heal. I work with college aged students and adult individuals. I am Level 2 trained in IFS (Internal Family System) as well.
(Special focus on emotionally immature relationship dynamics/ narcissistic abuse)
Everyone deserves a safe space to be heard, seen and known. Emotional wellbeing can help all areas of life and I would love to journey beside you as you navigate challenges, transitions, change or loss. I believe we are resilient enough to face our feelings, to change, to grow and to heal. I work with college aged students and adult individuals. I am Level 2 trained in IFS (Internal Family System) as well.
(858) 295-1725 View (858) 295-1725
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Joyce DeVera
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
3 Endorsed
San Diego, CA 92127
I specialize in and help empower survivors of Narcissistic Personality Disorder ( NPD) and Borderline Personality Disorder, grief, trauma, and relationship issues.
You are in the right place. You need clarity, strength, guidance, support to help you walk through this journey of self awareness. Let's discover what, why, and how you ended up in this situation. Being vulnerable is not always easy, in fact it can be extremely frightening; however, the reward is worth it! YOU are worth it!
I specialize in and help empower survivors of Narcissistic Personality Disorder ( NPD) and Borderline Personality Disorder, grief, trauma, and relationship issues.
You are in the right place. You need clarity, strength, guidance, support to help you walk through this journey of self awareness. Let's discover what, why, and how you ended up in this situation. Being vulnerable is not always easy, in fact it can be extremely frightening; however, the reward is worth it! YOU are worth it!
(858) 771-2920 View (858) 771-2920
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Kelly Ahearn
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
3 Endorsed
San Diego, CA 92108
Sometimes it's just not easy and we get stuck repeating the same cycles because it's familiar but not helpful. Coping skills learned to survive in the past worked then but most likely are not helpful to you now which can be a great cause of you feeling anxious, depressed, stressed, or struggling with managing it all. I promise you are not alone. Discomforts stem from your early learned beliefs and experiences that are present today. The most effective therapy that produces lasting results is through an honest and comfortable relationship between you and the therapist. Let's see if together we can be the best team moving you forward!
Sometimes it's just not easy and we get stuck repeating the same cycles because it's familiar but not helpful. Coping skills learned to survive in the past worked then but most likely are not helpful to you now which can be a great cause of you feeling anxious, depressed, stressed, or struggling with managing it all. I promise you are not alone. Discomforts stem from your early learned beliefs and experiences that are present today. The most effective therapy that produces lasting results is through an honest and comfortable relationship between you and the therapist. Let's see if together we can be the best team moving you forward!
(858) 381-4700 View (858) 381-4700
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Taylor Washington
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
2 Endorsed
Online Only
You may be navigating overwhelm, grief, depression, trauma, narcissistic abuse recovery, uncertainty, or a sense of disconnection on your journey toward feeling more whole.
I offer collaborative, non-pathologizing therapy grounded in psychodynamic, somatic, and parts-based work. Together, we explore your story with care and curiosity, honoring your identity, culture, and lived experience. My goal is to help you feel seen, supported, and more at home in yourself.
You may be navigating overwhelm, grief, depression, trauma, narcissistic abuse recovery, uncertainty, or a sense of disconnection on your journey toward feeling more whole.
I offer collaborative, non-pathologizing therapy grounded in psychodynamic, somatic, and parts-based work. Together, we explore your story with care and curiosity, honoring your identity, culture, and lived experience. My goal is to help you feel seen, supported, and more at home in yourself.
(760) 474-3545 View (760) 474-3545
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Ted Trubenbach
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Hello and welcome! You’ve taken a courageous step in looking for help. I specialize in working with high-achieving men and women who feel stuck in frustrating relationship patterns despite insight, effort, and success in other areas of life. Many of the men I work with struggle with emotional connection and conflict after years of relying on independence. Many of the women I work with find themselves overfunctioning—taking on more than their share while losing a clear sense of themselves.With nearly five decades of experience, I bring a depth of perspective that allows me to identify and work through the underlying dynamic.
Hello and welcome! You’ve taken a courageous step in looking for help. I specialize in working with high-achieving men and women who feel stuck in frustrating relationship patterns despite insight, effort, and success in other areas of life. Many of the men I work with struggle with emotional connection and conflict after years of relying on independence. Many of the women I work with find themselves overfunctioning—taking on more than their share while losing a clear sense of themselves.With nearly five decades of experience, I bring a depth of perspective that allows me to identify and work through the underlying dynamic.
(714) 415-2769 View (714) 415-2769
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Jessica ' Chiara ' Viscomi
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, SEP
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Are you looking to recover from the wounds of narcissistic abuse and codependency and forge happier, healthier relationships?
As a therapist, I consider my role to be a guide and witness to facilitate the development of your true self and your inner resources. I create a genuine and respectful space that allows us to explore where you're at, your goals, and your challenges.
Are you looking to recover from the wounds of narcissistic abuse and codependency and forge happier, healthier relationships?
As a therapist, I consider my role to be a guide and witness to facilitate the development of your true self and your inner resources. I create a genuine and respectful space that allows us to explore where you're at, your goals, and your challenges.
(415) 569-0239 View (415) 569-0239
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Melissa Willard
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
2 Endorsed
Online Only
I’m a Certified Narcissistic Abuse Clinician, and I know how overwhelming it can feel to start therapy—but reaching out is a powerful first step.
A therapist that understands the dynamics of a Toxic/ Narcissistic relationship is essential in breaking free from the chains you feel. I can help you make sense of depression, anxiety and negative thought patterns that you have. I offer therapy that’s more than just surface level work- and help you experience transformation without years of therapy
I’m a Certified Narcissistic Abuse Clinician, and I know how overwhelming it can feel to start therapy—but reaching out is a powerful first step.
A therapist that understands the dynamics of a Toxic/ Narcissistic relationship is essential in breaking free from the chains you feel. I can help you make sense of depression, anxiety and negative thought patterns that you have. I offer therapy that’s more than just surface level work- and help you experience transformation without years of therapy
(559) 245-3239 View (559) 245-3239
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Galina Storozhenko
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
2 Endorsed
Online Only
I have been providing mental health services to a wide range of clients for more than 18 years. I’ve worked in crisis settings as well as private practice, providing services for individuals with severe mental health issues as well as co-occurring disorders. I have expertise in grief, trauma, and substance abuse counseling. I have a holistic approach to providing mental health services and believe that the key to success is to incorporate physical and mental health and a comprehensive way. I am trained in CBT, DBT, ACT, Gottman, and Motivational Interviewing. I am fluent in Russian.
I have been providing mental health services to a wide range of clients for more than 18 years. I’ve worked in crisis settings as well as private practice, providing services for individuals with severe mental health issues as well as co-occurring disorders. I have expertise in grief, trauma, and substance abuse counseling. I have a holistic approach to providing mental health services and believe that the key to success is to incorporate physical and mental health and a comprehensive way. I am trained in CBT, DBT, ACT, Gottman, and Motivational Interviewing. I am fluent in Russian.
(858) 758-7589 View (858) 758-7589
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Carrie Garrigus
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Online Only
Carrie Garrigus is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker. She received her BA in Psychology and Masters in Social Work from the University of Connecticut. Carrie’s diverse experience includes working with adolescents, families, and adults in a variety of settings from, residential care, outpatient/inpatient, to emergency room, primary care, and correctional settings. In the beginning of her career, Carrie worked with adolescents experiencing trauma and insecure attachments.
Carrie Garrigus is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker. She received her BA in Psychology and Masters in Social Work from the University of Connecticut. Carrie’s diverse experience includes working with adolescents, families, and adults in a variety of settings from, residential care, outpatient/inpatient, to emergency room, primary care, and correctional settings. In the beginning of her career, Carrie worked with adolescents experiencing trauma and insecure attachments.
(619) 319-9563 View (619) 319-9563
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Maren Jorgensen
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CST
6 Endorsed
Online Only
Hi, I’m Maren! I’m a sex therapist and trauma specialist passionate about helping people feel connected to themselves and their relationships. I combine sex therapy with trauma therapy using the Internal Family Systems (IFS) model to address the root causes of disconnection and help you reclaim intimacy, trust, and joy. I’m also psychedelic-friendly and offer Ketamine-Assisted therapy to deepen healing and foster profound transformation. My approach is warm, collaborative, and tailored to your unique needs. Let’s work together to create the connection, growth, and healing you deserve!
Hi, I’m Maren! I’m a sex therapist and trauma specialist passionate about helping people feel connected to themselves and their relationships. I combine sex therapy with trauma therapy using the Internal Family Systems (IFS) model to address the root causes of disconnection and help you reclaim intimacy, trust, and joy. I’m also psychedelic-friendly and offer Ketamine-Assisted therapy to deepen healing and foster profound transformation. My approach is warm, collaborative, and tailored to your unique needs. Let’s work together to create the connection, growth, and healing you deserve!
(858) 221-6961 View (858) 221-6961
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San Diego Therapy Center & Neurofeedback
Psychologist, PsyD
1 Endorsed
San Diego, CA 92108
Neurofeedback is able to help children, teenagers, and adults who have experienced Trauma, Post-traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), ADHD and Anxiety disorders as well as a variety of other mental health symptoms. Neurofeedback, also called EEG Biofeedback or brain training, helps train your brain to self-regulate and correct issues that impact your optimal functioning. A self-regulated brain improves the functioning of the central nervous system, mental performance, emotional regulation, and physiological stability. A dysregulated brain has difficulty calming down at appropriate moments, adding physiological symptoms.
Neurofeedback is able to help children, teenagers, and adults who have experienced Trauma, Post-traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), ADHD and Anxiety disorders as well as a variety of other mental health symptoms. Neurofeedback, also called EEG Biofeedback or brain training, helps train your brain to self-regulate and correct issues that impact your optimal functioning. A self-regulated brain improves the functioning of the central nervous system, mental performance, emotional regulation, and physiological stability. A dysregulated brain has difficulty calming down at appropriate moments, adding physiological symptoms.
(619) 304-6506 View (619) 304-6506
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Holistic Psychological Services, Inc.
Psychologist, PsyD
Online Only
Our practice is a safe haven for adult survivors of childhood trauma (sexual, physical, or psychological), intimate partner violence, and narcissistic abuse, offering a dedicated space for healing and empowerment.
At Holistic Psychological Services, Inc., we honor the connection between mind, body, and spirit in every therapeutic interaction. Our approach to mental health care is integrative, focusing on the physical, mental, emotional, spiritual, relational, and systemic dimensions that shape individual wellness. We are committed to addressing the impact of oppressive systems on mental health, especially for Black, Indigenous, and people of color (BIPOC) who may experience distress stemming from systemic inequality.
Our practice is a safe haven for adult survivors of childhood trauma (sexual, physical, or psychological), intimate partner violence, and narcissistic abuse, offering a dedicated space for healing and empowerment.
At Holistic Psychological Services, Inc., we honor the connection between mind, body, and spirit in every therapeutic interaction. Our approach to mental health care is integrative, focusing on the physical, mental, emotional, spiritual, relational, and systemic dimensions that shape individual wellness. We are committed to addressing the impact of oppressive systems on mental health, especially for Black, Indigenous, and people of color (BIPOC) who may experience distress stemming from systemic inequality.
(619) 789-4753 View (619) 789-4753
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Christina A Billings
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Online Only
I am a trauma-informed therapist who specializes in working with moderate to severe mental health populations. I utilize evidence-based modalities, including Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), and Trauma-informed care to support clients in healing from trauma. I bring extensive experience working with high-acuity individuals navigating complex trauma, severe mood disorders, and significant life stressors. My approach is compassionate, collaborative, and focused on helping clients build lasting emotional resilience and stability.
I am a trauma-informed therapist who specializes in working with moderate to severe mental health populations. I utilize evidence-based modalities, including Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), and Trauma-informed care to support clients in healing from trauma. I bring extensive experience working with high-acuity individuals navigating complex trauma, severe mood disorders, and significant life stressors. My approach is compassionate, collaborative, and focused on helping clients build lasting emotional resilience and stability.
(619) 375-5081 View (619) 375-5081
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Marisa Zens
Psychologist, PsyD
3 Endorsed
San Diego, CA 92117
One of the most important ingredients in successful therapy is a good therapeutic fit. My approach is to provide an empathic, warm and supportive environment, and work collaboratively to identify and make sense of your unique struggles and particular obstacles. I work with couples, adolescents and adults and use both insight-oriented and skills-based approaches to find short and long-term solutions to intercept the patterns that are interfering with your personal growth. I also provide supervision and consultation to psychologists and psychotherapy trainees.
One of the most important ingredients in successful therapy is a good therapeutic fit. My approach is to provide an empathic, warm and supportive environment, and work collaboratively to identify and make sense of your unique struggles and particular obstacles. I work with couples, adolescents and adults and use both insight-oriented and skills-based approaches to find short and long-term solutions to intercept the patterns that are interfering with your personal growth. I also provide supervision and consultation to psychologists and psychotherapy trainees.
(619) 940-1548 View (619) 940-1548
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Rocker Health LLC
Counselor, PH.D, NCC, LCPC, LMHC, LPC
San Diego, CA 92130
At Rocker Health, we believe that mental wellness is a journey that deserves compassion, understanding, and personalized support. Our commitment to breaking the stigma surrounding mental health is at the forefront of everything we do. We understand that each individual's experience with mental health is unique, and we strive to create a welcoming environment where individuals feel safe and empowered to share their stories. Our mission is to provide a rock-solid foundation for our clients, guiding them toward a more fulfilling and balanced life.
At Rocker Health, we believe that mental wellness is a journey that deserves compassion, understanding, and personalized support. Our commitment to breaking the stigma surrounding mental health is at the forefront of everything we do. We understand that each individual's experience with mental health is unique, and we strive to create a welcoming environment where individuals feel safe and empowered to share their stories. Our mission is to provide a rock-solid foundation for our clients, guiding them toward a more fulfilling and balanced life.
(858) 264-0520 View (858) 264-0520
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T Joshua Tan
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Online Only
Is anxiety, depression, or trauma holding you back from being your true self? Do you feel stuck in managing difficult life transitions? Now, every little thing becomes super overwhelming. Those negative experiences reopen old wounds and cause new ones. You tried burying your pain hoping it would go away. You feel lonely and tormented. You feel exhausted, stressed, and angry all the time. You wonder how much more you can take. You are unsure of who or where to turn for help. In the midst of this painful journey, you do not have to go through it alone.
Is anxiety, depression, or trauma holding you back from being your true self? Do you feel stuck in managing difficult life transitions? Now, every little thing becomes super overwhelming. Those negative experiences reopen old wounds and cause new ones. You tried burying your pain hoping it would go away. You feel lonely and tormented. You feel exhausted, stressed, and angry all the time. You wonder how much more you can take. You are unsure of who or where to turn for help. In the midst of this painful journey, you do not have to go through it alone.
(760) 227-2334 View (760) 227-2334
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Jan Rakoff
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, BCD
San Diego, CA 92130
I will help you get comfortable with whatever issues you have, beginning with an introductory call to discuss what is troubling you. I will help you explore and learn where you get stuck & identify the possible destructive patterns that are interfering with your ability to achieve goals & peace of mind. I use a compassionate and collaborative approach & we will develop a plan that addresses your problems. You will learn to look in the mirror and not the magnifying glass to improve your self image and relationships with others. You will also learn how to set boundaries; this reduces anger and increases self esteem & control.
I will help you get comfortable with whatever issues you have, beginning with an introductory call to discuss what is troubling you. I will help you explore and learn where you get stuck & identify the possible destructive patterns that are interfering with your ability to achieve goals & peace of mind. I use a compassionate and collaborative approach & we will develop a plan that addresses your problems. You will learn to look in the mirror and not the magnifying glass to improve your self image and relationships with others. You will also learn how to set boundaries; this reduces anger and increases self esteem & control.
(858) 376-7984 View (858) 376-7984
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Kristina Sandler Reynosa
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
2 Endorsed
San Diego, CA 92101
Are you waking up each morning weighed down by worry, replaying past hurts, or wondering “Why do I continually repeat the same relationship patterns & still feel stuck?”If so you’re not alone and you don’t have to keep carrying that burden. Hi! I’m Kristina Reynosa, LMFT! I work with pre-teens, adults, couples &families who are navigating anxiety, trauma,personality disorders &relationship challenges.Many of my clients come to therapy feeling overwhelmed, emotionally stuck or disconnected from themselves and the people they care about. Together we create a safe and supportive space where you can begin to understand your experiences!
Are you waking up each morning weighed down by worry, replaying past hurts, or wondering “Why do I continually repeat the same relationship patterns & still feel stuck?”If so you’re not alone and you don’t have to keep carrying that burden. Hi! I’m Kristina Reynosa, LMFT! I work with pre-teens, adults, couples &families who are navigating anxiety, trauma,personality disorders &relationship challenges.Many of my clients come to therapy feeling overwhelmed, emotionally stuck or disconnected from themselves and the people they care about. Together we create a safe and supportive space where you can begin to understand your experiences!
(619) 514-4189 View (619) 514-4189

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Narcissistic Personality (NPD) Therapists
What type of therapy is best for narcissistic personality disorder?
Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is best treated with talk therapy, which could involve cognitive behavioral therapy, dialectical behavior therapy, schema therapy, gestalt therapy, or similar approaches. A therapist will help a patient uncover the feelings that may drive their behavior and discover how to engage with themselves and those around them with greater empathy and understanding, fewer demands, and less defensiveness, with the goal of developing a more authentic sense of self that enables healthier relationships.

How do therapists treat NPD?
By developing a strong therapeutic relationship, and continually focusing patients on relationships, community, and connection, a therapist, through talk therapy, may be able to help someone with NPD change. In sessions, a therapist will help an individual achieve relief from their current stressors, including the treatment of co-occurring conditions such as anxiety or depression. A therapist may also help an individual to recognize unhealthy coping mechanisms, learn new ways of interacting with others, and eventually become able to feel and display empathy.

Can a narcissist be cured with therapy?
Therapy can be effective. After a serious setback or great loss, someone with NPD may be forced to recognize that they are not immune to life’s challenges. That can spur feelings of melancholy and depression that lead them to seek professional help. Once an individual decides to seek help, they have already taken a step that the majority of those with NPD never will. Still, people with NPD often quit therapy as they naturally resist feeling vulnerable, being challenged, or admitting to flaws.

How can you get narcissistic personality disorder treatment for someone?
It is notoriously difficult to convince someone with NPD to seek help. With their feelings of superiority, they may be unlikely to recognize or acknowledge that they have a problem, or that their problem is narcissism. Sometimes, they are aware that they are arrogant and that others resent them but they don’t see it as a problem because they are convinced of their superiority. People with NPD have trouble maintaining relationships, but family members and others who do feel close to them, and whose presence they value, may be able to encourage them to seek therapy.