Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapists in San Diego, CA

Cynthia Valentine
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Internal Family Systems ( IFS) therapy gives us the tools to turn down the volume on your inner critic—without losing your edge.
No more self criticism, no more self doubt- stop avoiding and learn how to face fears and what hurts the most with compassion and respect. Therapy is about making real connections. No scripts, no quick fixes—just deep, meaningful work to help you be yourself again. Anxious and overwhelmed doesn’t have to be the default mode. Riding the waves of life can be done with confidence and self respect, not worry. If you’re grieving, I can help you honor the loss and make the impossible transition to living the future you didn’t plan.
Internal Family Systems ( IFS) therapy gives us the tools to turn down the volume on your inner critic—without losing your edge.
No more self criticism, no more self doubt- stop avoiding and learn how to face fears and what hurts the most with compassion and respect. Therapy is about making real connections. No scripts, no quick fixes—just deep, meaningful work to help you be yourself again. Anxious and overwhelmed doesn’t have to be the default mode. Riding the waves of life can be done with confidence and self respect, not worry. If you’re grieving, I can help you honor the loss and make the impossible transition to living the future you didn’t plan.
(619) 598-1539 View (619) 598-1539
Chris Chandler
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MS, AMFT
Online Only
I most often use Restoration Therapy (RT) and parts work, similar to Internal Family Systems ( IFS).
You’re feeling drained by the constant pull of the screen. If phone overuse, smartphone addiction, or endless screen time is creating distance in your relationships, or if you’re struggling with compulsive internet or pornography use, you aren't alone. As a therapist specializing in technology addiction and digital balance, I help adults, teens, and couples break free from compulsive habits. Whether you need a digital detox from screen time or help managing sexual compulsions, I provide a compassionate, non-judgmental space to rebuild real-world connection, regain control, and create a grounded, intentional life.
I most often use Restoration Therapy (RT) and parts work, similar to Internal Family Systems ( IFS).
You’re feeling drained by the constant pull of the screen. If phone overuse, smartphone addiction, or endless screen time is creating distance in your relationships, or if you’re struggling with compulsive internet or pornography use, you aren't alone. As a therapist specializing in technology addiction and digital balance, I help adults, teens, and couples break free from compulsive habits. Whether you need a digital detox from screen time or help managing sexual compulsions, I provide a compassionate, non-judgmental space to rebuild real-world connection, regain control, and create a grounded, intentional life.
(619) 489-8689 View (619) 489-8689
Allison Radoff, ADHD + Autism Couples Therapist
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
2 Endorsed
San Diego, CA 92102
Welcome! I work with couples and polycules looking to deepen their understanding of one another, improve trust, communication and intimacy. As a neurodivergent therapist, I enjoy working with mixed-neurotype relationships (where one or more partners identifies as ADHD, autistic, PDA / demand avoidant, or OCD). I support my clients in better understanding the ways their neurotype, past trauma and attachment affect communication and the patterns and cycles within their relationship. I help create a safe space where both partners can show up as their full selves and heal together creating lasting change.
Welcome! I work with couples and polycules looking to deepen their understanding of one another, improve trust, communication and intimacy. As a neurodivergent therapist, I enjoy working with mixed-neurotype relationships (where one or more partners identifies as ADHD, autistic, PDA / demand avoidant, or OCD). I support my clients in better understanding the ways their neurotype, past trauma and attachment affect communication and the patterns and cycles within their relationship. I help create a safe space where both partners can show up as their full selves and heal together creating lasting change.
(619) 503-0929 View (619) 503-0929
Debbie Joann Zenga
Psychologist, PsyD
Online Only
If you're feeling overwhelmed by anxiety, depression, trauma, or simply feeling stuck, you're not alone. My approach is supportive, and direct in creating a safe space to explore what's holding you back while building practical skills for lasting change. Together, we'll identify unhelpful patterns, develop healthier coping, and help you feel more confident, balanced, and in control. As stress becomes more manageable, you'll gain greater clarity, resilience, and the confidence to create a life that feels more fulfilling and aligned with your values. You don't have to have everything figured out, the first step is showing up for you.
If you're feeling overwhelmed by anxiety, depression, trauma, or simply feeling stuck, you're not alone. My approach is supportive, and direct in creating a safe space to explore what's holding you back while building practical skills for lasting change. Together, we'll identify unhelpful patterns, develop healthier coping, and help you feel more confident, balanced, and in control. As stress becomes more manageable, you'll gain greater clarity, resilience, and the confidence to create a life that feels more fulfilling and aligned with your values. You don't have to have everything figured out, the first step is showing up for you.
(858) 239-0597 View (858) 239-0597
Cyndi Pulsinelli
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, EMDR
1 Endorsed
Online Only
I draw from EMDR, Somatic Experiencing, IFS (parts work), and cognitive and dialectical approaches.
Are you exhausted in a way that’s hard to explain? Do you find yourself going through the motions of a life that looks fine on the outside, while quietly feeling disconnected, depleted, and far from yourself? If so, you are not alone, and something can be different. I work with women who are carrying a lot. Women who grew up learning to be everything for everyone else, and somewhere along the way lost touch with who they actually are. Women healing from trauma, narcissistic abuse, eating disorders, and the particular kind of exhaustion that comes from spending years performing a version of yourself that doesn’t quite fit.
I draw from EMDR, Somatic Experiencing, IFS (parts work), and cognitive and dialectical approaches.
Are you exhausted in a way that’s hard to explain? Do you find yourself going through the motions of a life that looks fine on the outside, while quietly feeling disconnected, depleted, and far from yourself? If so, you are not alone, and something can be different. I work with women who are carrying a lot. Women who grew up learning to be everything for everyone else, and somewhere along the way lost touch with who they actually are. Women healing from trauma, narcissistic abuse, eating disorders, and the particular kind of exhaustion that comes from spending years performing a version of yourself that doesn’t quite fit.
(760) 965-3251 View (760) 965-3251
Dion Saxby
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Have you found yourself not feeling like you during your reproductive journey and not even sure why? You might look like you’re holding it all together, while inside you feel anxious, overwhelmed, disconnected, or numb. Maybe you’re overthinking everything, feeling emotionally exhausted, or questioning why this feels harder than it “should.” Whether you’re pregnant, newly postpartum, trying to conceive, or coping with a loss, it can feel incredibly isolating to carry so much internally while still showing up for daily life, relationships, and responsibilities. You don’t have to keep doing this alone.
Have you found yourself not feeling like you during your reproductive journey and not even sure why? You might look like you’re holding it all together, while inside you feel anxious, overwhelmed, disconnected, or numb. Maybe you’re overthinking everything, feeling emotionally exhausted, or questioning why this feels harder than it “should.” Whether you’re pregnant, newly postpartum, trying to conceive, or coping with a loss, it can feel incredibly isolating to carry so much internally while still showing up for daily life, relationships, and responsibilities. You don’t have to keep doing this alone.
(858) 462-5170 View (858) 462-5170
Megan Norris
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Online Only
As an IFS therapist and psychedelic integration coach, I work with people interested in moving beyond the confines of the mind to attend to all aspects of their rich and complex inner worlds.
Guided by the belief that true healing encompasses mind, body, and spirit, I offer a nurturing space for clients to delve into expanded states of consciousness, facilitating personal transformation and self discovery. Through this work, clients gain a deeper understanding of themselves, unlocking their potential for profound growth.
As an IFS therapist and psychedelic integration coach, I work with people interested in moving beyond the confines of the mind to attend to all aspects of their rich and complex inner worlds.
Guided by the belief that true healing encompasses mind, body, and spirit, I offer a nurturing space for clients to delve into expanded states of consciousness, facilitating personal transformation and self discovery. Through this work, clients gain a deeper understanding of themselves, unlocking their potential for profound growth.
(858) 544-2323 View (858) 544-2323
Shannon Little
Counselor, MA, LPCC
Online Only
If you desire change and healing in areas of your life, I would love to walk alongside you in the counseling room to unpack your story and help you explore what that healing could look like. My aim is to provide a safe, compassionate, and authentic space for you to feel seen and known as you process your present and past. If you're hoping to address traumatic memories and PTSD symptoms, I also provide EMDR therapy as a specialized option for working through trauma and distressing experiences.
If you desire change and healing in areas of your life, I would love to walk alongside you in the counseling room to unpack your story and help you explore what that healing could look like. My aim is to provide a safe, compassionate, and authentic space for you to feel seen and known as you process your present and past. If you're hoping to address traumatic memories and PTSD symptoms, I also provide EMDR therapy as a specialized option for working through trauma and distressing experiences.
(619) 485-5451 View (619) 485-5451
Nicole Unsworth
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Are you feeling down or anxious? Perhaps struggling with a transition and feeling stuck? As your therapist, I am invested in supporting you towards your goals and believe that you are the expert in your life and experiences. I am incredibly passionate about empowering individuals to reach their goals and become the best versions of themselves. I hope to provide you with the right tools and strategies that resonate with you as well as utilize your strengths to develop long-lasting solutions. We will collectively work towards your goals and build upon your existing strengths to help manage and cope with life's stressors.
Are you feeling down or anxious? Perhaps struggling with a transition and feeling stuck? As your therapist, I am invested in supporting you towards your goals and believe that you are the expert in your life and experiences. I am incredibly passionate about empowering individuals to reach their goals and become the best versions of themselves. I hope to provide you with the right tools and strategies that resonate with you as well as utilize your strengths to develop long-lasting solutions. We will collectively work towards your goals and build upon your existing strengths to help manage and cope with life's stressors.
(619) 853-5212 View (619) 853-5212
Lilia Wang
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
San Diego, CA 92120
I have always been passionate about understanding others. I believe that most peoples’ actions and beliefs make sense once you understand the full context of their stories. However, we often judge others instead of taking the time to do this. Having a non-judgmental space to explore one’s emotions and experiences is a gift I believe everyone should have access to. Therapy is special because in addition to providing that non-judgmental space, I also can offer practical tools and support for mental health based on my education and experience as a therapist.
I have always been passionate about understanding others. I believe that most peoples’ actions and beliefs make sense once you understand the full context of their stories. However, we often judge others instead of taking the time to do this. Having a non-judgmental space to explore one’s emotions and experiences is a gift I believe everyone should have access to. Therapy is special because in addition to providing that non-judgmental space, I also can offer practical tools and support for mental health based on my education and experience as a therapist.
(510) 391-3816 View (510) 391-3816
Eunice No
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Whether you’re experiencing life transitions, processing a difficult experience, experiencing a relationship distress, or even want to better understand yourself, therapy can be a powerful way to tackle these needs and break unhelpful patterns of interactions or thinking. My goal is to help my clients discover their inner voice, self-compassion, strength and empower them. I’m a good fit for adults who are feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or disconnected—and are ready to better understand themselves and make meaningful changes, even if they’re not sure where to start.
Whether you’re experiencing life transitions, processing a difficult experience, experiencing a relationship distress, or even want to better understand yourself, therapy can be a powerful way to tackle these needs and break unhelpful patterns of interactions or thinking. My goal is to help my clients discover their inner voice, self-compassion, strength and empower them. I’m a good fit for adults who are feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or disconnected—and are ready to better understand themselves and make meaningful changes, even if they’re not sure where to start.
(858) 330-6663 View (858) 330-6663
Daisee Duran
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
5 Endorsed
San Diego, CA 92130
My use of Integrative Somatic Work, Mindfulness, Internal Family Systems, and Parent Child Psychotherapy practices builds a strong foundation for healing.
The journey of healing is brave. The space I provide is for you to explore and heal your mind, body, and spirit. In our sessions, you will have a compassionate place where your experiences and feelings are deeply understood and accepted. I work with individuals, utilizing a holistic and spiritual approach to mental health. Together, we will navigate your path by acknowledging your pain, focusing on growth, and building inner strength.
My use of Integrative Somatic Work, Mindfulness, Internal Family Systems, and Parent Child Psychotherapy practices builds a strong foundation for healing.
The journey of healing is brave. The space I provide is for you to explore and heal your mind, body, and spirit. In our sessions, you will have a compassionate place where your experiences and feelings are deeply understood and accepted. I work with individuals, utilizing a holistic and spiritual approach to mental health. Together, we will navigate your path by acknowledging your pain, focusing on growth, and building inner strength.
(559) 205-7209 View (559) 205-7209
Matthew Schauer
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Online Only
My approach incorporates a variety of evidence-based therapeutic approaches tailored to the needs of each client. My goal is to develop a therapeutic relationship where trust, vulnerability, and safety can be experienced, allowing each client to grow at their level of comfort.
My approach incorporates a variety of evidence-based therapeutic approaches tailored to the needs of each client. My goal is to develop a therapeutic relationship where trust, vulnerability, and safety can be experienced, allowing each client to grow at their level of comfort.
(310) 807-2875 View (310) 807-2875
Amy Anderson, LCSW
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
6 Endorsed
San Diego, CA 92108
I utilize Gottman Method Couples, Mindfulness, Inner Child, DBT, EMDR, and IFS.
We all can feel stuck within our relationships - as we journey together throughout life. Do you ever question if you are giving yourself or your relationships too much credit or pleasing others or yourself too much? Does it feel unbalanced? This can lead you feel heavier or more stuck than you need to feel. I love working with couples & individuals who are ready to heal their 'Inner Child" together & effectively uncover their inner wealth of potential to be more authentic with each other. Whether you seek an authentic relationship within yourself or others, I welcome supporting you, as you show up today.
I utilize Gottman Method Couples, Mindfulness, Inner Child, DBT, EMDR, and IFS.
We all can feel stuck within our relationships - as we journey together throughout life. Do you ever question if you are giving yourself or your relationships too much credit or pleasing others or yourself too much? Does it feel unbalanced? This can lead you feel heavier or more stuck than you need to feel. I love working with couples & individuals who are ready to heal their 'Inner Child" together & effectively uncover their inner wealth of potential to be more authentic with each other. Whether you seek an authentic relationship within yourself or others, I welcome supporting you, as you show up today.
(619) 597-1505 View (619) 597-1505
LeslieGrace Craver
Verified Verified
San Diego, CA 92106
Waitlist for new clients
Consider pausing and taking a breath. Welcome to Healing & Growth. Movement and change often require a new lens, new tools and a partnership with a professional. I utilize mind/body/spirit integrative therapies including Compassion Focused therapy, Yoga & Reiki to assist individuals, partners and families experiencing life transitions, grief & loss and unhealthy generational patterns. Together we identify and build upon core beliefs & existing strengths. Through this process self-limiting beliefs shift to self-enhancing beliefs. Peace, ease and contentment become part of your everyday life as you breathe and settle to breathe again.
Consider pausing and taking a breath. Welcome to Healing & Growth. Movement and change often require a new lens, new tools and a partnership with a professional. I utilize mind/body/spirit integrative therapies including Compassion Focused therapy, Yoga & Reiki to assist individuals, partners and families experiencing life transitions, grief & loss and unhealthy generational patterns. Together we identify and build upon core beliefs & existing strengths. Through this process self-limiting beliefs shift to self-enhancing beliefs. Peace, ease and contentment become part of your everyday life as you breathe and settle to breathe again.
(619) 649-6559 View (619) 649-6559
Kim F Scott
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Online Only
To support this process, I incorporate EMDR and IFS techniques.
Hello! Are you looking to move forward, heal from the past, and fully engage in the present? Would you like to learn effective strategies tailored to your needs? Are you interested in gaining a deeper understanding of yourself? Do you want to build confidence through authenticity, establish healthy boundaries, and cultivate a sense of balance and connection? ​ ​
To support this process, I incorporate EMDR and IFS techniques.
Hello! Are you looking to move forward, heal from the past, and fully engage in the present? Would you like to learn effective strategies tailored to your needs? Are you interested in gaining a deeper understanding of yourself? Do you want to build confidence through authenticity, establish healthy boundaries, and cultivate a sense of balance and connection? ​ ​
(858) 780-4092 View (858) 780-4092
Melissa Diaz
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Online Only
My collaborative approach and integration of CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy), DBT (Dialectal Behavioral Therapy), IFS (Internal Family Systems) and person-centered techniques can create a space to honor your unique needs and goals.
I specialize in supporting children, teens and adults navigating anxiety, depression and life transitions. I support clients in better understanding their thoughts, emotions and patterns while building practical coping skills to increase motivation and confidence.
My collaborative approach and integration of CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy), DBT (Dialectal Behavioral Therapy), IFS (Internal Family Systems) and person-centered techniques can create a space to honor your unique needs and goals.
I specialize in supporting children, teens and adults navigating anxiety, depression and life transitions. I support clients in better understanding their thoughts, emotions and patterns while building practical coping skills to increase motivation and confidence.
(619) 648-2411 x1 View (619) 648-2411 x1
Sara McCracken, IFS Therapist
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
1 Endorsed
San Diego, CA 92110
I am a Level 2 trained Internal Family Systems ( IFS) therapist.
People seek therapy for many reasons, including anxiety, depression, stress, life transitions, and relationship challenges. You may feel overwhelmed, stuck, or disconnected from yourself or others. I believe therapy should be a supportive, nonjudgmental space where you can speak freely and feel understood. My goal is to help you regain balance, strengthen resilience, and reconnect with your sense of purpose and well-being.
I am a Level 2 trained Internal Family Systems ( IFS) therapist.
People seek therapy for many reasons, including anxiety, depression, stress, life transitions, and relationship challenges. You may feel overwhelmed, stuck, or disconnected from yourself or others. I believe therapy should be a supportive, nonjudgmental space where you can speak freely and feel understood. My goal is to help you regain balance, strengthen resilience, and reconnect with your sense of purpose and well-being.
(619) 393-6239 View (619) 393-6239
Laura Todd
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, LPCC
3 Endorsed
Online Only
I bring clinical knowledge, you bring lived experience. Together, we create something tailored to who you are - not who you were told to be. Rather than reducing clients to diagnoses, symptoms, or productivity-based measures of “wellness,” I approach therapy through a lens of curiosity, context, and humanity. I believe many mental health symptoms are often understandable responses to trauma, relational wounds, systemic oppression, chronic stress, and environments that ask people to survive in ways that disconnect them from themselves - as opposed to evidence of failure, brokenness, or dysfunction.
I bring clinical knowledge, you bring lived experience. Together, we create something tailored to who you are - not who you were told to be. Rather than reducing clients to diagnoses, symptoms, or productivity-based measures of “wellness,” I approach therapy through a lens of curiosity, context, and humanity. I believe many mental health symptoms are often understandable responses to trauma, relational wounds, systemic oppression, chronic stress, and environments that ask people to survive in ways that disconnect them from themselves - as opposed to evidence of failure, brokenness, or dysfunction.
(619) 304-6828 View (619) 304-6828
Dr. Mark Gregory Karris
Marriage & Family Therapist, PsyD, MDiv, LMFT
2 Endorsed
San Diego, CA 92108
My work is warm, direct, and deeply relational, drawing from EFT, IFS, and trauma-informed approaches to help you start healing and finding each other again.
Dr. Karris, a passionate clinician, university professor, workshop leader, and best-selling author, brings a comprehensive, research-based, and experiential approach to his work with individuals and couples, drawing from holistic and neuroscience-informed practices. He is deeply committed to helping clients move toward a more meaningful and lasting change.
My work is warm, direct, and deeply relational, drawing from EFT, IFS, and trauma-informed approaches to help you start healing and finding each other again.
Dr. Karris, a passionate clinician, university professor, workshop leader, and best-selling author, brings a comprehensive, research-based, and experiential approach to his work with individuals and couples, drawing from holistic and neuroscience-informed practices. He is deeply committed to helping clients move toward a more meaningful and lasting change.
(619) 492-3775 View (619) 492-3775

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