Infidelity Therapists in San Diego, CA

My specialty is HELPING COUPLES IN CRISIS navigate through the pain of disconnection. If you've discovered infidelity or betrayal in your relationship, and not sure how to move forward, I can help. With trust completely off the table, I help couples create safe enough boundaries to make sense of how the relationship got off track. You don't have to suffer alone. Together we can restore honesty, trust and intimacy back to your relationship.

Welcome! I treat communication and intimacy issues in couples. This can range from couples who feel completely disconnected from each other, to couples who feel connected but are struggling to communicate effectively. I also work with couples struggling with the pain of infidelity . Often couples are stuck in unhelpful dynamics that they can’t seem to break out of. That’s where I come in and can help! I am an attachment focused couples therapist and my focus is to help you identify your relationship dynamics, break unhelpful cycles, learn to meet each others needs, and help you feel connected again.

Do You Find It Impossible To Communicate Without Fighting? Have You Thought, Said Or Heard, "I Love You, But I'm Not In Love With You Anymore?" Has An Affair Already Happened? Need Help In Making A Decision? Helping People Who Ask The Question.... "Should I Stay or Should I Go?" Do you lie awake at night thinking about whether or not you should stay in your relationship? Do thoughts go through your mind over and over again worrying that leaving would hurt someone you care about and you could end up alone if you did?

Are you struggling in your relationships? Are you and your partner dealing with lack of intimacy, betrayal , addiction, or communication issues? I value effective & solution-focused therapy for couples. I help you make effective changes to feel more content and fulfilled in your relationships and life. It is a priority to understand how your background, identity, and relationships influence who you are in order to help you develop insight and useful strategies to improve your life and relationships. I practice Emotiion Focused Therapy (EFT) and have completed all 3 levels of Gottman Method training.

Our relationships can provide us feelings of connection and safety, and give our lives meaning and purpose. They can also bring us pain and disappointment. Is your relationship in trouble? I specialize with issues that can result within relationships, from premarital to divorce, as well as blended family concerns. Whether communication issues, unresolvable conflict, infidelity /affair, addiction, abuse or mental health issues have affected your connection and attunement, I can give you the tools to turn things around in the present and the techniques to provide consistent connection in the future.

I consider myself to be a “down to earth” couples therapist with an open and relaxed style that helps the couples I work with feel at ease with me right away. I have a genuine relationships with couples and often my sessions are filled with laughter, tears, silly moments and deep break throughs. I love to see my couples walking out of my office holding hands, looking at each other with more gratitude, with a new hope for the future.

"RISE ABOVE THE NOISE AND CHAOS FOR CHANGE AND SUCCESS!" Sex Therapy, Sex Addiction, Sex Compulsion, Pornography Addiction, Betrayal , Infidelity , Escort Addiction, Happy Endings Addiction, Extramarital Affairs , Secrets, Cheating are Problems that can be corrected. The therapeutic alliance with Dr Silbert promotes the desirable change the individual is seeking in treatment. Arousal, Erectile Dysfunction, Impotence, Premature Ejaculation, Delayed Orgasm, Anorgasmia, Sex Aversion, Performance Anxiety are Sex problems treated by Dr Silbert. Depression, Anxiety, Stress, Trauma, Loss, Divorce, Lack of Control, Emotional Overload treated.

Absolute " sex addiction " elite level expert 25 years 40,000 hours "sex addiction" specialist therapy provided brings better insights. Evidence based research oriented treating of “Sex Addiction” Infidelity / Cheating / Affairs , Prostitution, (Due to California law only post arrest Child Porn),Seeking Arrangements, Apps, Strip Clubs Massage Parlors, Sex Misconduct, Certified Specialist. I created government funded sexual misbehavior programs, utilizing highly effective clinical models. I use the most up to date understandings to have you not act out self destructive actions while simultaneously loving yourself and the life you have.

Accepting new clients in person and online. I am a therapist specialized in couples therapy and in trauma. Half of my clients are couples who are in crisis, are considering separation or have found out about a betrayal . I see also many couples who have communication problems and are very disconnected from each other. In addition to couples, I work with adults who are having anxiety or depression symptoms. Many of them have gone through experiences of trauma, are in a difficult life transition and are wanting to unpack the past, set boundaries with their family and be their preferred selves.

Dr Silbert promotes healing and strengthening of the capable inner self. The individual is enhanced positively by a belief in the ability to cope with the human condition and the emotional upheaval exacerbated by the winding road of life's journey. From the initial consultation with Dr. Silbert she remains an active verbal participant in your treatment. She most emphatically "listens" and "sees" you in a genuine attempt to validate the importance and significance of what you say and how you are feeling. Evaluation of the problems and strategies for effective intervention are discussed with the individual from the first consult until completion of treatment.

The therapists at Relate Therapy Center specialize in relationships. If you are struggling in your marriage, with your kids, with your significant other, with your friends, or if you're struggling with maintaining relationships at all, we are here to help. Oftentimes, the relationship struggles that people face can lead to significant distress--depression, anxiety, hopelessness, anger, addiction, and more. If you are experiencing these, or other kinds of struggles, know that you don't have to face them alone. We are here to help!

"Escorts-Pornography-Happy Endings-Hook-Ups-Web Cam Sex- Internet Sex- Betrayal -Addiction-FBSM - Infidelity -Extra-Marital Affairs " Sexual addiction is a syndrome in which some form of sex behavior relates to and negatively affects an individual’s life cognitively and behaviorally. Controversy exists among professionals as to whether the syndrome should be considered sexual addiction, sexual compulsion, hypersexual or possibly a symptom of another mental disorder. Whatever the name, the problem is the same, which includes behavior that is out of control and negatively affecting various aspects of an individual’s life!"

Welcome to my practice. I have about 15 years of clinical experience and have been featured on NBC/KCAL/HLN as an expert psychologist. I work primarily with men who have hit “rock bottom” and would like help getting up. These men are often in crisis when we first meet. The issues I address are typically related to unhealthy sexual behaviors, infidelity , financial recklessness, gambling, drugs/alcohol, dishonesty/lying, and relational conflicts. My therapy approach is a combination of psychoanalytic, cognitive-behavioral, and the 12-Step recovery model. I also share insight from my own painful but redemptive recovery journey.

Welcome to my practice. I have about 15 years of clinical experience and have been featured on NBC/KCAL/HLN as an expert psychologist. I work primarily with men who have hit “rock bottom” and would like help getting up. These men are often in crisis when we first meet. The issues I address are typically related to unhealthy sexual behaviors, infidelity , financial recklessness, gambling, drugs/alcohol, dishonesty/lying, and relational conflicts. My therapy approach is a combination of psychoanalytic, cognitive-behavioral, and the 12-Step recovery model. I also share insight from my own painful but redemptive recovery journey.

You deserve to feel seen, heard, and to know you matter in your relationships. Connection is key to good mental health. Connection with ourselves, our romantic partners, our family, and our friends. Many of our issues can be traced back to our relationships. Whether it is a current relationship or trauma hanging around from our past experiences or childhood. I want to help you achieve the relationship you deserve (and you DO deserve it) whether that is with your partner, family, grieving the loss of a relationship, breaking negative patterns, making a decision about a relationship, or while dating and trying to find a partner.

Our relationships can provide us feelings of connection and safety, and give our lives meaning and purpose. They can also bring us pain and disappointment. Is your relationship in trouble? I specialize with issues that can result within relationships, from premarital to divorce, as well as blended family concerns. Whether communication issues, unresolvable conflict, infidelity /affair, addiction, abuse or mental health issues have affected your connection and attunement, I can give you the tools to turn things around in the present and the techniques to provide consistent connection in the future.

Are you feeling your life has has been turned upside down, the life you once knew was filled with deceit and betrayal by the person you love the most? Wondering how to heal from the devastation? You are unable to sleep, eat, focus, connect with others, and care for yourself. Perhaps you have been coping with drugs, alcohol, shopping, or food to deal with the pain that has been done to you. You are feeling your life has shattered into a million pieces and not sure where to even begin. Betrayed partners have experienced a trauma like no other and have been deeply hurt.

I'm a licensed psychologist, specializing in relationship problems, sex addictions, obsessive thinking, anxiety, and depression. I have advanced training to help couples overcome infidelity , lost connection, frequent arguments, and sexual problems. I use mindfulness and experiential approaches that rewire the brain's ability to cope with impulses, anxiety, and make sense of grief. With 20 years of experience, I help people transcend the difficulties preventing them from living peaceful, joy-filled life. My work with clients is highly collaborative and tuning into your strengths will be of central importance.

How to choose the right therapist to help you? With so many options out there looking for someone that will understand what is keeping you up in the middle of the night is very important. So many people struggle with communication, relationship and intimacy issues that the quality of their lives significantly decreases. Helping clients reconnect with others is my speciality. If you are ready to change your relationships and improve your quality of life give me a call. Looking forward to meeting you soon!

Hi! My name is Ian and I am looking forward to helping you through life’s challenges. Are you dealing with relationship issues, loneliness, feelings of anxiety, or hurts from the past? I’d love to be of help to you! Feelings of being alone, anxious, or betrayal are very real and can be overwhelming. And, sometimes we just need guidance to help us navigate life and move forward. In either case, I’m here to help you meet your goals. I work with individuals from all walks of life; adults of all ages, and teens 16 years of age and up.