Infidelity Therapists in San Diego, CA
Psychotherapy of San Diego, Dr Silbert RN,CNS,PHD
Psychologist, RN, CNS, PhD, FACCS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Diego, CA 92108
A therapeutic relationship develops to treat issues of attachment, angst in living, childhood abuse, betryal, infidelity, sex addiction.
Dr Silbert promotes healing and strengthening of the capable inner self. The individual is enhanced positively by a belief in the ability to cope with the human condition and the emotional upheaval exacerbated by the winding road of life's journey. From the initial consultation with Dr. Silbert she remains an active verbal participant in your treatment. She most emphatically "listens" and "sees" you in a genuine attempt to validate the importance and significance of what you say and how you are feeling. Evaluation of the problems and strategies for effective intervention are discussed with the individual from the first consult until completion of treatment.
A therapeutic relationship develops to treat issues of attachment, angst in living, childhood abuse, betryal, infidelity, sex addiction.
Dr Silbert promotes healing and strengthening of the capable inner self. The individual is enhanced positively by a belief in the ability to cope with the human condition and the emotional upheaval exacerbated by the winding road of life's journey. From the initial consultation with Dr. Silbert she remains an active verbal participant in your treatment. She most emphatically "listens" and "sees" you in a genuine attempt to validate the importance and significance of what you say and how you are feeling. Evaluation of the problems and strategies for effective intervention are discussed with the individual from the first consult until completion of treatment.
Sex Therapy San Diego, Dr Silbert RN,CNS,PH.D.
Psychologist, RN, CNS, PhD, FAACS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Diego, CA 92108
Sex Therapy, Sex Addiction, Sex Compulsion, Pornography Addiction, Betrayal, Infidelity, Escort Addiction, Happy Endings Addiction, Extramarital Affairs, Secrets, Cheating are Problems that can be corrected.
Cognitive/behavioral/psychodynamic therapy is recognizing and analyzing inner thoughts and feelings for awareness and understanding. Change takes place when one recognizes and deletes the false stories, allowing for expression of the authentic self. The more trustworthy self promotes satisfying interactions in personal, professional and sexual relationships.
Sex Therapy, Sex Addiction, Sex Compulsion, Pornography Addiction, Betrayal, Infidelity, Escort Addiction, Happy Endings Addiction, Extramarital Affairs, Secrets, Cheating are Problems that can be corrected.
Cognitive/behavioral/psychodynamic therapy is recognizing and analyzing inner thoughts and feelings for awareness and understanding. Change takes place when one recognizes and deletes the false stories, allowing for expression of the authentic self. The more trustworthy self promotes satisfying interactions in personal, professional and sexual relationships.
Áurea Oliveira
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MS LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Diego, CA 92108
I specialize in couples work, including infidelity, and in helping individuals create a secure sense of self.
I use trauma-informed, attachment-based Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) with a somatic approach in my work with couples on trust, communication, conflict resolution, and infidelity, and with individuals on anxiety, self-esteem, shame, relational trauma or relational concerns to develop a secure sense of self and of belonging in their relationships.
I specialize in couples work, including infidelity, and in helping individuals create a secure sense of self.
I use trauma-informed, attachment-based Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) with a somatic approach in my work with couples on trust, communication, conflict resolution, and infidelity, and with individuals on anxiety, self-esteem, shame, relational trauma or relational concerns to develop a secure sense of self and of belonging in their relationships.
Susan Heemstra
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Verified Verified
8 Endorsed
San Diego, CA 92110
Are you and your partner dealing with lack of intimacy, betrayal, addiction, or communication issues?.
For more informaiton please go to www.theheartofthemattercounseling.com
Are you and your partner dealing with lack of intimacy, betrayal, addiction, or communication issues?.
For more informaiton please go to www.theheartofthemattercounseling.com
Sexual Addiction Sex Misbehavior Infidelity Expert
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, SOTS
Verified Verified
San Diego, CA 92108
You and I will use evidence based research oriented methods on the Infidelity Cheating Affairs, Prostitution, Seeking Arrangements, Sugar Daddy, Strip Clubs, Massage Parlors, Certified Specialist.
My clients are high functioning successful men accustomed to superior services who want to stop the sexual addiction, infidelity / cheating , and paid sex behaviors. I know the distorted thinking and how to correct that thinking. Due to my specialized expertise I have been interviewed by Rolling Stone Magazine on "virtual companions" and their outcomes.
You and I will use evidence based research oriented methods on the Infidelity Cheating Affairs, Prostitution, Seeking Arrangements, Sugar Daddy, Strip Clubs, Massage Parlors, Certified Specialist.
My clients are high functioning successful men accustomed to superior services who want to stop the sexual addiction, infidelity / cheating , and paid sex behaviors. I know the distorted thinking and how to correct that thinking. Due to my specialized expertise I have been interviewed by Rolling Stone Magazine on "virtual companions" and their outcomes.
Private Two Day Couples Retreat - Therapy Intensives In San Diego
Psychologist, PhD
Not Verified Not Verified
San Diego, CA 92121
I incorporate a variety of therapy modalities specifically for working with problems related to infidelity, addiction, and a history of trauma.
I provide couples and individual therapy in both traditional weekly formats but also acute care (meeting multiple hours in one day). This intensive format is helpful for those who are experiencing a crisis in their marriage or would like to make progress more efficiently than what once-a-week therapy can offer. Check out the NYTimes article about this treatment method of relieving distress more quickly and with more long lasting change than what traditional weekly therapy can do. I reserve some evenings and weekends for intensives so we can fit you in as soon as possible, which does wonders in giving you hope for a path forward.
I incorporate a variety of therapy modalities specifically for working with problems related to infidelity, addiction, and a history of trauma.
I provide couples and individual therapy in both traditional weekly formats but also acute care (meeting multiple hours in one day). This intensive format is helpful for those who are experiencing a crisis in their marriage or would like to make progress more efficiently than what once-a-week therapy can offer. Check out the NYTimes article about this treatment method of relieving distress more quickly and with more long lasting change than what traditional weekly therapy can do. I reserve some evenings and weekends for intensives so we can fit you in as soon as possible, which does wonders in giving you hope for a path forward.
Carolyn Gerard
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Diego, CA 92101
If you've discovered infidelity or betrayal in your relationship, and not sure how to move forward, I can help.
Are you one who wants to talk your problems out? Or one who prefers to avoid fighting and shuts down? As an Emotionally Focused therapist and Trauma Specialist I help couples make sense of these challenges and restore a safe and loving connection.
If you've discovered infidelity or betrayal in your relationship, and not sure how to move forward, I can help.
Are you one who wants to talk your problems out? Or one who prefers to avoid fighting and shuts down? As an Emotionally Focused therapist and Trauma Specialist I help couples make sense of these challenges and restore a safe and loving connection.
I work with clients experiencing relationship challenges; including, difficulties with communication, intimacy, trust, infidelity, etc.
Our intimate relationships impact all aspects of our lives. When our relationships suffer, we often feel distracted, irritable, sad, and disconnected, not just from our partner but from life. All couples experience challenges and can get stuck in harmful patterns, but you don't have to stay stuck! We can work together to identify those patterns, increase empathy, and utilize skills to shift communication and connection. Your relationship is unique, and I will work with you to identify your relationship values and build a relationship that feels authentic and supportive. Let's create the relationship that works for you!
I work with clients experiencing relationship challenges; including, difficulties with communication, intimacy, trust, infidelity, etc.
Our intimate relationships impact all aspects of our lives. When our relationships suffer, we often feel distracted, irritable, sad, and disconnected, not just from our partner but from life. All couples experience challenges and can get stuck in harmful patterns, but you don't have to stay stuck! We can work together to identify those patterns, increase empathy, and utilize skills to shift communication and connection. Your relationship is unique, and I will work with you to identify your relationship values and build a relationship that feels authentic and supportive. Let's create the relationship that works for you!
I have advanced training to help couples overcome infidelity, lost connection, frequent arguments, and sexual problems.
I received excellent training at USC and Stanford and continue to stay current with the latest research to guide my work. I have a compassionate, non-judgmental and somewhat playful stance that characterizes the way I do therapy. I am fully engaged and my approach is both practical and deep.
I have advanced training to help couples overcome infidelity, lost connection, frequent arguments, and sexual problems.
I received excellent training at USC and Stanford and continue to stay current with the latest research to guide my work. I have a compassionate, non-judgmental and somewhat playful stance that characterizes the way I do therapy. I am fully engaged and my approach is both practical and deep.
Eunice A Palacios Ramírez
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
San Diego, CA 92108
I also have experience with couples where there has been infidelity and are in crisis.
I have advanced training in an evidence based model called Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), this model helps couples understand how they react to each other and helps them communicate from vulnerability rather than from reactivity. I am a couple therapist who is in charge of facilitating a conversation where the couple can listen to each other.
I also have experience with couples where there has been infidelity and are in crisis.
I have advanced training in an evidence based model called Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), this model helps couples understand how they react to each other and helps them communicate from vulnerability rather than from reactivity. I am a couple therapist who is in charge of facilitating a conversation where the couple can listen to each other.
Sex Addiction San Diego, Dr Silbert RN,CNS,PH.D.
Psychologist, RN, CNS, PhD, FAACS
Verified Verified
San Diego, CA 92103
"Escorts-Pornography-Happy Endings-Hook-Ups-Web Cam Sex- Internet Sex- Betrayal-Addiction-FBSM - Infidelity-Extra-Marital Affairs" Sexual addiction is a syndrome in which some form of sex behavior relates to and negatively affects an individual’s life cognitively and behaviorally.
Understanding the pain, understanding the problem, and most importantly understanding the process for change and acceptance by the individual is the professional expertise provided by Dr. Silbert. The primary goal of treatment is to enable an individual to understand the power one has to modify a negative sense of self and promote a life with "no regret."
"Escorts-Pornography-Happy Endings-Hook-Ups-Web Cam Sex- Internet Sex- Betrayal-Addiction-FBSM - Infidelity-Extra-Marital Affairs" Sexual addiction is a syndrome in which some form of sex behavior relates to and negatively affects an individual’s life cognitively and behaviorally.
Understanding the pain, understanding the problem, and most importantly understanding the process for change and acceptance by the individual is the professional expertise provided by Dr. Silbert. The primary goal of treatment is to enable an individual to understand the power one has to modify a negative sense of self and promote a life with "no regret."
Meet Our Infidelity Therapists
Struggling with infidelity, trust issues, or relationship challenges?.
Whether you're working through betrayal, improving your relationship, or building self-confidence, therapy provides a structured, supportive space for meaningful change. I offer telehealth sessions with flexible scheduling to suit your needs.
Struggling with infidelity, trust issues, or relationship challenges?.
Whether you're working through betrayal, improving your relationship, or building self-confidence, therapy provides a structured, supportive space for meaningful change. I offer telehealth sessions with flexible scheduling to suit your needs.
The issues I address are typically related to unhealthy sexual behaviors, infidelity, financial recklessness, gambling, drugs/alcohol, dishonesty/lying, and relational conflicts.
My goal for each man I work with is to provide hope and support while facilitating the recovery process. This usually requires us to dig deep and figure out why we engage in destructive behaviors. It also requires us to develop a treatment plan that specifically targets the maladaptive behaviors and reduces the chance of relapse.
The issues I address are typically related to unhealthy sexual behaviors, infidelity, financial recklessness, gambling, drugs/alcohol, dishonesty/lying, and relational conflicts.
My goal for each man I work with is to provide hope and support while facilitating the recovery process. This usually requires us to dig deep and figure out why we engage in destructive behaviors. It also requires us to develop a treatment plan that specifically targets the maladaptive behaviors and reduces the chance of relapse.
Kate Nicholson
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
San Diego, CA 92108
Whether there has been infidelity, communication breakdowns, or traumatic events, we can work together to repair your relationship.
To help us reach these goals, I use Emotionally Focused Therapy, parts work, and attachment theory to assess, access, and create change in an experiential, authentic, and vulnerable way. My specialty is in couples therapy, specifically repairing after an attachment injury. I offer individual, couples, pre-marital, teen, and family therapy.
Whether there has been infidelity, communication breakdowns, or traumatic events, we can work together to repair your relationship.
To help us reach these goals, I use Emotionally Focused Therapy, parts work, and attachment theory to assess, access, and create change in an experiential, authentic, and vulnerable way. My specialty is in couples therapy, specifically repairing after an attachment injury. I offer individual, couples, pre-marital, teen, and family therapy.
Whether you are a couple who is dealing with a relationship crisis like infidelity or broken trust; or a family that has a reoccurring conflict that you have not been able to solve; or an individual who struggling with depression or anxiety.
The therapists at Relate Therapy Center specialize in relationships. If you are struggling in your marriage, with your kids, with your significant other, with your friends, or if you're struggling with maintaining relationships at all, we are here to help. Oftentimes, the relationship struggles that people face can lead to significant distress--depression, anxiety, hopelessness, anger, addiction, and more. If you are experiencing these, or other kinds of struggles, know that you don't have to face them alone. We are here to help!
Whether you are a couple who is dealing with a relationship crisis like infidelity or broken trust; or a family that has a reoccurring conflict that you have not been able to solve; or an individual who struggling with depression or anxiety.
The therapists at Relate Therapy Center specialize in relationships. If you are struggling in your marriage, with your kids, with your significant other, with your friends, or if you're struggling with maintaining relationships at all, we are here to help. Oftentimes, the relationship struggles that people face can lead to significant distress--depression, anxiety, hopelessness, anger, addiction, and more. If you are experiencing these, or other kinds of struggles, know that you don't have to face them alone. We are here to help!
Joleena is a Certified Clinical Trauma and Addiction Specialist, a Certified Functional Medicine and Trauma Specialist, a Betrayal Trauma Coach, with a Masters of Psychology in Grief Counseling, and trained in Domestic Abuse and Intimate Partner Violence.
She has developed unique skills for working with Betrayal Trauma clients as well as Sex Addicts. She uses state of the art therapies, based off of the newest research such as, Multichannel Eye Movement Integration (MEMI), EMDR (Bilateral Stimulation), EFT, CBT, and Restoration Therapy techniques. See her website for full credentials and training.
Joleena is a Certified Clinical Trauma and Addiction Specialist, a Certified Functional Medicine and Trauma Specialist, a Betrayal Trauma Coach, with a Masters of Psychology in Grief Counseling, and trained in Domestic Abuse and Intimate Partner Violence.
She has developed unique skills for working with Betrayal Trauma clients as well as Sex Addicts. She uses state of the art therapies, based off of the newest research such as, Multichannel Eye Movement Integration (MEMI), EMDR (Bilateral Stimulation), EFT, CBT, and Restoration Therapy techniques. See her website for full credentials and training.
I am a CSAT (certified sexual addiction therapist) and a CPTT (certified partner trauma therapist treating betrayal), and I am also trained in EMDR and IFS, two of the most powerful therapies available.
As a woman of faith, I understand the values and concerns of my Christian clients, and I know the power of God to heal and restore.
I am a CSAT (certified sexual addiction therapist) and a CPTT (certified partner trauma therapist treating betrayal), and I am also trained in EMDR and IFS, two of the most powerful therapies available.
As a woman of faith, I understand the values and concerns of my Christian clients, and I know the power of God to heal and restore.
These problems range from infidelity to legal charges.
Sometimes you don't really know what you have until you almost lose it. Sexual issues can cause you to lose relationships, jobs, and sometimes, your freedom. You never meant to hurt anyone and so often, things get out of control. The constant worry that someone will find out about your sexual behavior is exhausting. What would be like to live a life with no secrets?
These problems range from infidelity to legal charges.
Sometimes you don't really know what you have until you almost lose it. Sexual issues can cause you to lose relationships, jobs, and sometimes, your freedom. You never meant to hurt anyone and so often, things get out of control. The constant worry that someone will find out about your sexual behavior is exhausting. What would be like to live a life with no secrets?
The issues I address are typically related to unhealthy sexual behaviors, infidelity, financial recklessness, gambling, drugs/alcohol, dishonesty/lying, and relational conflicts.
My goal for each man I work with is to provide hope and support while facilitating the recovery process. This usually requires us to dig deep and figure out why we engage in destructive behaviors. It also requires us to develop a treatment plan that specifically targets the maladaptive behaviors and reduces the chance of relapse.
The issues I address are typically related to unhealthy sexual behaviors, infidelity, financial recklessness, gambling, drugs/alcohol, dishonesty/lying, and relational conflicts.
My goal for each man I work with is to provide hope and support while facilitating the recovery process. This usually requires us to dig deep and figure out why we engage in destructive behaviors. It also requires us to develop a treatment plan that specifically targets the maladaptive behaviors and reduces the chance of relapse.
Julie Hassler
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, LPCC, LMHC
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Online Only
Whether communication issues, unresolvable conflict, infidelity/affair, addiction, abuse or mental health issues have affected your connection and attunement, I can give you the tools to turn things around in the present and the techniques to provide consistent connection in the future.
I have extensive training and experience in the scientific-based modalities of the Gottman Method, Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy, and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy. With evidence of empirical research of effectiveness of these models, you can feel confident that you're receiving a proven therapy that worked in saving countless relationships.
Whether communication issues, unresolvable conflict, infidelity/affair, addiction, abuse or mental health issues have affected your connection and attunement, I can give you the tools to turn things around in the present and the techniques to provide consistent connection in the future.
I have extensive training and experience in the scientific-based modalities of the Gottman Method, Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy, and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy. With evidence of empirical research of effectiveness of these models, you can feel confident that you're receiving a proven therapy that worked in saving countless relationships.
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Infidelity Therapists
How does therapy for infidelity work?
A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.
How long does therapy for infidelity take?
Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.
How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?
When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.
How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?
Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.