Gottman Method Therapists in San Diego, CA

I’m Hayley and I am an Associate Marriage and Family Therapist, experienced in working with clients who encounter relational conflict, body image/self-esteem issues, anxiety, depression, major life transitions, and multicultural concerns. I understand feeling stuck in patterns that no longer serve us, or feeling unsure of what to do or how to change. I help individuals and couples develop an awareness of these patterns, recognize their unique strengths, and lean into their most empowered selves. Everyone deserves to heal from their past struggles, cultivate healthy relationships, and feel fulfilled in the present.

I help individuals and couples make positive changes in life as well as develop skills to better manage the issues that may get in the way. I will help you make sense of your difficulties and bring understanding to negative behavior patterns. I have worked with a variety of individuals and couples from multicultural backgrounds with a wide range of complex mental health related issues. I am particularly experienced in treating those with a history of trauma, depressive or anxiety symptoms and issues that interfere with: relationships, academic performance/work or creativity.

I am passionate about helping people foster healthy relationships. This can be achieved by acquiring effective communication skills which are key for all relationships. I enjoy working with couples and individuals. I place emphasis on resilience, meaning, hope, and faith in healing. I have extensive experience working with people affected by anxiety, depression, and life transitions. My background includes work with couples, individuals, and people affected by negative family attachments and addictions. I am keen on exploring early attachment. I enjoy supporting women in their birth and postpartum journey.

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Hello! My name is Camille. I am an LCSW and I am passionate about helping humans navigate all kinds of relationships, at all stages, beginning/entering the dating pool, honeymoon phase/settling in, developing/maintaining long lasting and meaningful relationships with people they love, working through challenges, and managing needs etc. I work towards helping people understand their own identity and how that impacts all aspect of their relationships such as; communication, trust, fidelity, trauma, family dynamics, sex and even the role mental health plays in our relationships. I hope to help you get relationship you want and deserve

Are you feeling pressures from stress, or maybe anxiety in your daily routine? Are there unresolved issues impacting your relationships? Have you been struggling & feel that now is the time to get support? You do not have to do this alone, let me help. Lifes challenges can stem from previous trauma, changes in family structure, life transitions, or a host of other themes. We'll work through these together, by making our sessions uniquely yours, allowing growth through confronting the threat of fear, anxiety (and any other problem which may make you feel stuck) while developing healthier coping strategies.

I have immediate availability and we return calls within 24 hours! Are you struggling to let go and heal from a traumatic experience? Do you feel stuck in sadness or overwhelmed with worry? Do things seem so stressful that it is hard to feel happiness? If any of these questions ring true for you, I have the expertise to guide you in overcoming these challenges. I utilize state of the art evidence-based treatment methods to directly work on your concerns and cut through the obstacles that are limiting your life. In my practice you will learn essential coping skills to apply in your life immediately to begin your transformation.

Immediate availability for NEW clients. Finding the right therapist can be difficult and scary. If you are a couple struggling with communication issues, infidelity, making boundaries, intimacy, trust, commitment, and emotional disconnection, I am here to help you. As a licensed couple and family therapist, I am trained in Gottman Method level 3, and have expertise in helping with traumas, betrayals, communication and connection in relationships. My special service includes three days of Private Intensive Couples Retreats (virtual or in-person) and The Gottman Relationship Checkup.

My goal is to build strong therapeutic relationships with my clients, grounded in empathy and trust. I am committed to learning each of my client's unique and diverse life stories. My clients rely on me to help "unpack" not only the issues that brought them to therapy, but to better understand how their upbringing, family, and life experiences impact their mental wellbeing. I work with adults, couples, families and adolescents (age 16 and up), who are experiencing depression, anxiety and stress, trauma, grief and loss, life transitions, maternal mental health, and relationship conflicts.

Do you want someone to hear you...really listen to you? Someone who meets you on your life journey and provides an empathetic environment with understanding and free from judgement?

I work with adults (18+) who are having difficulties with negative self-talk, emotion regulation, and conflicts in relationships. These difficulties can often look like depression, anxiety, intense stress, anger, poor self-esteem, self-harm, suicidal thoughts and more. I am here to support you with these challenges. Looking for a therapist can especially be difficult in addition to facing current struggles in our life. Feel free to call for a free 15-minute consultation to see how I may be able to help.

We, as humans, are wired for relationship and connection. Often challenges in life bring about difficulties that are deeply troubling and painful and get in the way of our relationship with our self and others. My desire is to help you navigate these challenges to help restore hope and healing in your life and relationships with others. I approach our time together as an honor and privilege, and want our time to be safe and transformational.

Our relationships can provide us feelings of connection and safety, and give our lives meaning and purpose. They can also bring us pain and disappointment. Is your relationship in trouble? I specialize with issues that can result within relationships, from premarital to divorce, as well as blended family concerns. Whether communication issues, unresolvable conflict, infidelity/affair, addiction, abuse or mental health issues have affected your connection and attunement, I can give you the tools to turn things around in the present and the techniques to provide consistent connection in the future.

Stop and envision what your best self, relationship, job, life look like. Are you currently where you want to be? If not, what is standing in your way? Is it fear? Lack of time? Feel stuck? Don’t know where to start? Change can be hard and scary. But better days are ahead and I want to help you get there. You are not alone on this journey. If you are ready to get started in LIVING the life you envision for yourself, let’s get started. Call me today for a free consultation.

Do you feel like you and your partner are stuck in a place where you are misunderstood, out of synch, and angry- no matter how hard and how sincerely you try to connect? Does a part of you want to make positive choices and life improvements while another part of you feels stuck in pursuing activities that make you feel ashamed, lost, or numb? Or do you feel like the ways that you have coped for most of your life are no longer working or are getting in the way of you moving forward, but you aren’t sure how to change? This can feel so frustrating and confusing- you may not even feel like you can describe what it’s like for you!

I am passionate about helping others and my specialty is helping couples improve their relationship. My therapeutic approach is to provide support and practical feedback to help clients effectively address personal and relationship challenges. I provide a safe, structured environment and work collaboratively with clients to develop the skills and implement the tools needed to live a fulfilling life and develop satisfying relationships. I am an interactive, solution-focused therapist. Clients find me to be warm, engaged and compassionate but I can be direct when necessary. I use humor in session and enjoy being creative in my work.