Divorce Therapists in San Diego, CA
Our connections and relationships with self and others play a pivotal role in finding meaning. Relationships can be rewarding and love filled and can also be lonely and overwhelming. As a couples therapist using the Gottman Method framework, I help individuals find connection through identifying their needs, wants and fears. It’s my goal to work collaboratively together to create an experience that is comforting and beneficial, my hope is for you to find growth and wholeness. I bring a combination of motivational interviewing, trauma based and solution focused approaches in addition to evidence-based tools from the Gottman Method.
Our connections and relationships with self and others play a pivotal role in finding meaning. Relationships can be rewarding and love filled and can also be lonely and overwhelming. As a couples therapist using the Gottman Method framework, I help individuals find connection through identifying their needs, wants and fears. It’s my goal to work collaboratively together to create an experience that is comforting and beneficial, my hope is for you to find growth and wholeness. I bring a combination of motivational interviewing, trauma based and solution focused approaches in addition to evidence-based tools from the Gottman Method.
I aim to provide you with support and relief from your anxiety and/or depressive symptoms and also offer you a perspective and understanding of your struggles and likely differs from what you might hear from family or friends. I share in the hope you will move forward in ways you might previously feared impossible. Good therapy focuses on maximizing your strengths and reducing your difficulties in the healing process.
I aim to provide you with support and relief from your anxiety and/or depressive symptoms and also offer you a perspective and understanding of your struggles and likely differs from what you might hear from family or friends. I share in the hope you will move forward in ways you might previously feared impossible. Good therapy focuses on maximizing your strengths and reducing your difficulties in the healing process.
My name is Melissa Erb, PsyD Candidate, LCSW. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) based in San Diego, California, and a current Clinical Psychology doctoral candidate specializing in neuropsychology. I provide therapy to clients statewide through telehealth, working with adults and adolescents who are managing anxiety, depression, and life transitions. I also have extensive experience supporting individuals and families connected to adoption and foster care. My approach integrates Mindfulness-Based Therapy and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), allowing me to meet clients where they are in their healing process.
My name is Melissa Erb, PsyD Candidate, LCSW. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) based in San Diego, California, and a current Clinical Psychology doctoral candidate specializing in neuropsychology. I provide therapy to clients statewide through telehealth, working with adults and adolescents who are managing anxiety, depression, and life transitions. I also have extensive experience supporting individuals and families connected to adoption and foster care. My approach integrates Mindfulness-Based Therapy and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), allowing me to meet clients where they are in their healing process.
Affirming Therapy Center (ATC) offers therapy for individuals and couples seeking clarity, connection, and well-being. You may feel uncertain, anxious, or hesitant to share your desires, identity, or relationship choices—especially if they don’t fit traditional expectations. We help clients navigate intimacy challenges, sexual functioning, mismatched desire, and transitions in their relationships. Our team provides professional, nonjudgmental care for life changes and sexual health, including kink/BDSM, polyamory, ethical non-monogamy (ENM), and sexual identity exploration.
Affirming Therapy Center (ATC) offers therapy for individuals and couples seeking clarity, connection, and well-being. You may feel uncertain, anxious, or hesitant to share your desires, identity, or relationship choices—especially if they don’t fit traditional expectations. We help clients navigate intimacy challenges, sexual functioning, mismatched desire, and transitions in their relationships. Our team provides professional, nonjudgmental care for life changes and sexual health, including kink/BDSM, polyamory, ethical non-monogamy (ENM), and sexual identity exploration.
I help people find creative ways to reinvent themselves after divorce, loss of a spouse, and other major life transitions.
At some point we all struggle to adjustment to life's changes; it's normal to feel stuck and I believe people have what it takes to adjust. For the past 20 years, I have been working with children and teens who are struggling to balance the demands of school and their social life. I integrate parents in my work as much as possible. I also work with adults and Couples often come to me for help in distress and are confused about how or why their relationship has derailed. I am dedicated to helping people build stronger; more intimate relationships and I use several modalities when attempting to help couples in distress.
I help people find creative ways to reinvent themselves after divorce, loss of a spouse, and other major life transitions.
At some point we all struggle to adjustment to life's changes; it's normal to feel stuck and I believe people have what it takes to adjust. For the past 20 years, I have been working with children and teens who are struggling to balance the demands of school and their social life. I integrate parents in my work as much as possible. I also work with adults and Couples often come to me for help in distress and are confused about how or why their relationship has derailed. I am dedicated to helping people build stronger; more intimate relationships and I use several modalities when attempting to help couples in distress.
Suffering from stress, depression, anxiety? Feeling stuck in a harmful relationship? Are you grappling with your identity? Or just feeling overwhelmed? I would like to bring in the available resources within yourself for a lasting solution. My approach is adaptive to my clients' needs, with the objective of achieving long-term emotional, mental, and spiritual wellness. Some people benefit from talking, a reflection into who they really are, and others would like to explore and understand why, or to solve specific problems and achieve specific goals. And others wish to learn how to better communicate and be more assertive.
Suffering from stress, depression, anxiety? Feeling stuck in a harmful relationship? Are you grappling with your identity? Or just feeling overwhelmed? I would like to bring in the available resources within yourself for a lasting solution. My approach is adaptive to my clients' needs, with the objective of achieving long-term emotional, mental, and spiritual wellness. Some people benefit from talking, a reflection into who they really are, and others would like to explore and understand why, or to solve specific problems and achieve specific goals. And others wish to learn how to better communicate and be more assertive.
I am a Marriage and Family Therapist focused on enhancing the quality of life for families and individuals through collaborative and compassionate counseling. I love working with children, families, and individuals, guiding them through challenging times. I believe that providing a safe and supportive environment for individuals will help them to gain insight to help promote the positive change in life that they are seeking. I specialize in domestic violence, sexually abused children, children and adults dealing with trauma, parenting challenges, self-esteem issues, life transitions, emotion regulation, anxiety, and depression.
I am a Marriage and Family Therapist focused on enhancing the quality of life for families and individuals through collaborative and compassionate counseling. I love working with children, families, and individuals, guiding them through challenging times. I believe that providing a safe and supportive environment for individuals will help them to gain insight to help promote the positive change in life that they are seeking. I specialize in domestic violence, sexually abused children, children and adults dealing with trauma, parenting challenges, self-esteem issues, life transitions, emotion regulation, anxiety, and depression.
As a therapist my goal is to assist you in finding your purpose, place and power. I approach clients with empathy, using love, compassion and humor. I work with adults who find themselves in an uncomfortable and sometimes painful place. I am an educated grounded therapist who has walked the talk. Utilizing evidenced based treatment models, I offer up respect that you are your own best critic, therefore, it is a collaborative therapeutic session that I offer. I believe it is my role to help you to find where your insight may need adjustment in order to find solutions that are healthier and empowering.
As a therapist my goal is to assist you in finding your purpose, place and power. I approach clients with empathy, using love, compassion and humor. I work with adults who find themselves in an uncomfortable and sometimes painful place. I am an educated grounded therapist who has walked the talk. Utilizing evidenced based treatment models, I offer up respect that you are your own best critic, therefore, it is a collaborative therapeutic session that I offer. I believe it is my role to help you to find where your insight may need adjustment in order to find solutions that are healthier and empowering.
I have a passion for coming alongside others and believe it's just part of my DNA as a human being. 25 years ago I began my career as a medical assistant and a teacher. In my late-20's I enlisted in the US Navy, where I served as a first responder and was part of the Sexual Assault Victims Intervention team. I've lived overseas with kids in tow, and have a deep understanding of the effects of betrayal, infidelity, and cross addictions. I've worked as a Hospice Spiritual and Bereavement Coordinator, a counselor at several crisis houses and transitional living centers, as well for non-profit agencies providing therapeutic services.
I have a passion for coming alongside others and believe it's just part of my DNA as a human being. 25 years ago I began my career as a medical assistant and a teacher. In my late-20's I enlisted in the US Navy, where I served as a first responder and was part of the Sexual Assault Victims Intervention team. I've lived overseas with kids in tow, and have a deep understanding of the effects of betrayal, infidelity, and cross addictions. I've worked as a Hospice Spiritual and Bereavement Coordinator, a counselor at several crisis houses and transitional living centers, as well for non-profit agencies providing therapeutic services.
Sasha Aleksandra Mousenko
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
2 Endorsed
San Diego, CA 92108
Conflict and emotional pain are part of being human, but they don’t have to leave you feeling hopeless or disconnected. If you’ve been struggling with the same difficult patterns—whether in your relationships or within yourself—therapy can offer a way forward. I provide a supportive space where you can begin to understand what drives these cycles and find healthier ways. Together, we’ll work on building your capacity to connect more deeply, approach yourself and others with greater empathy and warmth, and manage emotions so they don’t lead to withdrawal, explosive reactions, or disconnection.
Conflict and emotional pain are part of being human, but they don’t have to leave you feeling hopeless or disconnected. If you’ve been struggling with the same difficult patterns—whether in your relationships or within yourself—therapy can offer a way forward. I provide a supportive space where you can begin to understand what drives these cycles and find healthier ways. Together, we’ll work on building your capacity to connect more deeply, approach yourself and others with greater empathy and warmth, and manage emotions so they don’t lead to withdrawal, explosive reactions, or disconnection.
I help individuals and couples in California and Connecticut navigate intimacy concerns, low desire, sexual anxiety, relationship conflict, and the impact of trauma on sex, intimacy, and emotional connection. Many of my clients come to therapy feeling confused, stuck, or disconnected from their bodies or partners—and wanting something to change, even if they’re not sure where to start.
I help individuals and couples in California and Connecticut navigate intimacy concerns, low desire, sexual anxiety, relationship conflict, and the impact of trauma on sex, intimacy, and emotional connection. Many of my clients come to therapy feeling confused, stuck, or disconnected from their bodies or partners—and wanting something to change, even if they’re not sure where to start.
I offer individual and couples therapy, along with a Healing from Narcissistic Abuse support group, to foster growth and confidence. I specialize in supporting teens, couples, survivors of intimate partner violence, those struggling with codependency, and LGBTQ+ individuals navigating identity, faith, and family. If you’re feeling anxious, stuck, or weighed down by trauma or relationship challenges, I’m here to help. My approach is compassionate, collaborative, and solution-focused. Book a free consult!
I offer individual and couples therapy, along with a Healing from Narcissistic Abuse support group, to foster growth and confidence. I specialize in supporting teens, couples, survivors of intimate partner violence, those struggling with codependency, and LGBTQ+ individuals navigating identity, faith, and family. If you’re feeling anxious, stuck, or weighed down by trauma or relationship challenges, I’m here to help. My approach is compassionate, collaborative, and solution-focused. Book a free consult!
I do Not take insurance but my rates are very low. I am accepting clients for ONLY online session. I am committed to providing the tools to maintain functioning. Are you struggling with stress, anxiety, depression, addiction? Is there unresolved trauma, grief, or a sense of not belonging? Do you need an empathetic ear to verbalize your feelings, thoughts, and emotions? Let us help you in your self-journey.
My dual training in mental health (anxiety, depression, Impulse, addictive behaviors, etc.) & systemic family therapy enables me to understand & effectively work with the individual & relationship aspects of the situation.
I do Not take insurance but my rates are very low. I am accepting clients for ONLY online session. I am committed to providing the tools to maintain functioning. Are you struggling with stress, anxiety, depression, addiction? Is there unresolved trauma, grief, or a sense of not belonging? Do you need an empathetic ear to verbalize your feelings, thoughts, and emotions? Let us help you in your self-journey.
My dual training in mental health (anxiety, depression, Impulse, addictive behaviors, etc.) & systemic family therapy enables me to understand & effectively work with the individual & relationship aspects of the situation.
My philosophy is change starts from the inside out with a choice and realization that it is for our higher good. As part of the human experience, there are times when unexpected losses, betrayals or traumatic events can leave us feeling alone with a host of negative emotions, feeling stuck in grief, anger, bitterness, anxiety and depression.
My philosophy is change starts from the inside out with a choice and realization that it is for our higher good. As part of the human experience, there are times when unexpected losses, betrayals or traumatic events can leave us feeling alone with a host of negative emotions, feeling stuck in grief, anger, bitterness, anxiety and depression.
Most people feel stuck in their relationships at some point. Maybe the love is still there, but the connection feels distant. Or maybe there is so much hurt from your past or from daily conflicts that you can't see your way back to happiness. Don't lose hope: effective therapy can help. Whether you work with me as an individual, a couple, or a polycule, my goal is to help you get unstuck from unhelpful patterns in your relationships and rebuild connection, closeness, and joy. I can help you better understand yourself and your partner(s), increase empathy and intimacy, and support you in changing what's not working.
Most people feel stuck in their relationships at some point. Maybe the love is still there, but the connection feels distant. Or maybe there is so much hurt from your past or from daily conflicts that you can't see your way back to happiness. Don't lose hope: effective therapy can help. Whether you work with me as an individual, a couple, or a polycule, my goal is to help you get unstuck from unhelpful patterns in your relationships and rebuild connection, closeness, and joy. I can help you better understand yourself and your partner(s), increase empathy and intimacy, and support you in changing what's not working.
I am the director of Pacifica Group Counseling and Wellness. We specialize in couple work as well as the struggle with various traumas, using both EFT and Brainspotting. I personally do Focused Sessions, working to find breakthrough in specific goals we collaborate on. It is a unique and different way to approach couple therapy that works for couples who struggle with the weekly therapy format. If you are looking for weekly therapy, individual work, work with teens, or work in Spanish, my team is highly trained and ready to help you!
I am the director of Pacifica Group Counseling and Wellness. We specialize in couple work as well as the struggle with various traumas, using both EFT and Brainspotting. I personally do Focused Sessions, working to find breakthrough in specific goals we collaborate on. It is a unique and different way to approach couple therapy that works for couples who struggle with the weekly therapy format. If you are looking for weekly therapy, individual work, work with teens, or work in Spanish, my team is highly trained and ready to help you!
I’m a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) in the state of California. I completed my Masters in Social Work from the University of Southern California (USC) with an emphasis in Military Social Work, and received my Bachelor of Arts in Social Welfare from the University of California, Berkeley. I'm also a combat veteran, and I've experienced some of the darkest of days during my time in service (was overhead the shootdown of EN 17). My goal as a therapist is to help people navigate through their toughest moments in life and to restore hope when it seems like it no longer exists.
I’m a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) in the state of California. I completed my Masters in Social Work from the University of Southern California (USC) with an emphasis in Military Social Work, and received my Bachelor of Arts in Social Welfare from the University of California, Berkeley. I'm also a combat veteran, and I've experienced some of the darkest of days during my time in service (was overhead the shootdown of EN 17). My goal as a therapist is to help people navigate through their toughest moments in life and to restore hope when it seems like it no longer exists.
I have notable experience treating issues such as depression, anxiety, and helping people who are struggling with normative life changes (such as divorce, job loss, or losing a loved one).
Sometimes changes in life aren't what you expected, or weren't expected at all. No matter what you are going through, you are likely experiencing uncertainty. There is hope. I have over 40 years of experience working with children and adults. My aim is to collaborate with you regarding your priorities for treatment in order to help you in setting goals for your mental health that you can achieve.
I have notable experience treating issues such as depression, anxiety, and helping people who are struggling with normative life changes (such as divorce, job loss, or losing a loved one).
Sometimes changes in life aren't what you expected, or weren't expected at all. No matter what you are going through, you are likely experiencing uncertainty. There is hope. I have over 40 years of experience working with children and adults. My aim is to collaborate with you regarding your priorities for treatment in order to help you in setting goals for your mental health that you can achieve.
Healing is an integral part of our journeys, and everyone deserves to live with a sense of peace & purpose. Yet many find it difficult to reflect on whether they are living in alignment with themselves and what they truly value. I have worked alongside individuals from all walks of life navigating through addiction, depression, anxiety, trauma, and various life transitions. I also help adults and couples navigate through their journeys of infertility, pregnancy, adoption, and fostering. I would love to meet you, learn about you, and walk this journey with you as you find your path towards healing through peace & purpose.
Healing is an integral part of our journeys, and everyone deserves to live with a sense of peace & purpose. Yet many find it difficult to reflect on whether they are living in alignment with themselves and what they truly value. I have worked alongside individuals from all walks of life navigating through addiction, depression, anxiety, trauma, and various life transitions. I also help adults and couples navigate through their journeys of infertility, pregnancy, adoption, and fostering. I would love to meet you, learn about you, and walk this journey with you as you find your path towards healing through peace & purpose.
Are you craving closeness with your partner but feel so far away? Are you caught in another fight and can’t find your way out? I help partners find a way back to each other by getting out of stuck patterns and connecting in a new and meaningful way. I have seen couples come out the other side of struggle more bonded than before, despite betrayals, infidelity, and long-term resentment. Healing is always possible. As a part of the LGBTQ community, I love supporting the people and the relationships in our community.
Are you craving closeness with your partner but feel so far away? Are you caught in another fight and can’t find your way out? I help partners find a way back to each other by getting out of stuck patterns and connecting in a new and meaningful way. I have seen couples come out the other side of struggle more bonded than before, despite betrayals, infidelity, and long-term resentment. Healing is always possible. As a part of the LGBTQ community, I love supporting the people and the relationships in our community.
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