Bisexual Therapists in San Diego, CA

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Alex Urrutia
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
San Diego, CA 92103
I have worked in several areas of mental health care and have truly found my purpose and passion in assisting those who struggle with trauma and/or addiction. I understand how trauma has been locked within the psyche and having an individual feel as though they are stuck within themselves. I understand that addiction was a solution to several problems at the time because it allowed relief, but in reality it only masked the underlying issues. My goal for each of my clients is to have them recognize their own strengths and abilities so they may continue or begin to live meaningful lives.
I have worked in several areas of mental health care and have truly found my purpose and passion in assisting those who struggle with trauma and/or addiction. I understand how trauma has been locked within the psyche and having an individual feel as though they are stuck within themselves. I understand that addiction was a solution to several problems at the time because it allowed relief, but in reality it only masked the underlying issues. My goal for each of my clients is to have them recognize their own strengths and abilities so they may continue or begin to live meaningful lives.
(415) 639-5442 View (415) 639-5442
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Wing Yee Wong
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Online Only
My approach is culturally sensitive, recognizing and acknowledging the cultural background of my clients. This inclusivity guides me in adopting strategies that are both sensitive and effective in meeting the unique needs of each individual. My psychotherapy style is characterized by empathy, rationality, and a relational focus. I emphasize the examination of feelings and thoughts by addressing stuck patterns and engaging in collaborative exploration with clients to facilitate behavioral changes. Additionally, I believe in the individual's capacity for change and trust that they possess answers within themselves.
My approach is culturally sensitive, recognizing and acknowledging the cultural background of my clients. This inclusivity guides me in adopting strategies that are both sensitive and effective in meeting the unique needs of each individual. My psychotherapy style is characterized by empathy, rationality, and a relational focus. I emphasize the examination of feelings and thoughts by addressing stuck patterns and engaging in collaborative exploration with clients to facilitate behavioral changes. Additionally, I believe in the individual's capacity for change and trust that they possess answers within themselves.
(650) 481-7153 View (650) 481-7153
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Be Curious Therapy, Jean Pappalardo
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Connection is important! Hearing yourself talk is important! Having a space that's just for you is important! There is so much going on these days- it can be overwhelming. Let's connect and talk about your feelings. I specialize in working with Black, POC, LGBTQIA+, and Fat/bigger-bodied people of all genders. I provide individual (not couples) therapy to curious people who are ready to get to work! I work virtually with residents of CA and FL.
Connection is important! Hearing yourself talk is important! Having a space that's just for you is important! There is so much going on these days- it can be overwhelming. Let's connect and talk about your feelings. I specialize in working with Black, POC, LGBTQIA+, and Fat/bigger-bodied people of all genders. I provide individual (not couples) therapy to curious people who are ready to get to work! I work virtually with residents of CA and FL.
(310) 425-3783 View (310) 425-3783
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Sarah Koerner
Psychologist, PsyD
2 Endorsed
San Diego, CA 92108
We all have times in life where we feel stuck and the way we've always done things isn't working for us anymore. Sometimes those stuck points look like feeling irritated, numb, scared, sad, or not able to turn off our thoughts. I create a supportive space to explore what’s working, and what's not working, in my clients' lives. Sessions feel like a real conversation with clinical info peppered in. I believe humor and joy are often useful to help shift perspective. My goal is for clients to learn how to live in the present so that they can engage more fully in their lives.
We all have times in life where we feel stuck and the way we've always done things isn't working for us anymore. Sometimes those stuck points look like feeling irritated, numb, scared, sad, or not able to turn off our thoughts. I create a supportive space to explore what’s working, and what's not working, in my clients' lives. Sessions feel like a real conversation with clinical info peppered in. I believe humor and joy are often useful to help shift perspective. My goal is for clients to learn how to live in the present so that they can engage more fully in their lives.
(619) 367-4845 View (619) 367-4845
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Emily Davis
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, LPCC
Online Only
Sexual liberation and exploration can help uncover psychosomatic healing and self empowerment. My priority is to offer a nurturing, non-judgmental and collaborative space where I support my clients integrate pleasure and autonomy into their lives. My services include, but aren't limited to, navigating desire discrepancies, processing sexual and relational trauma, releasing shame related to sexuality, supporting parents of LGBTQIA+ children and management of anxiety or depression. I work with individuals, couples, ENM configurations, sex workers, queer, trans or neurodivergent individuals.
Sexual liberation and exploration can help uncover psychosomatic healing and self empowerment. My priority is to offer a nurturing, non-judgmental and collaborative space where I support my clients integrate pleasure and autonomy into their lives. My services include, but aren't limited to, navigating desire discrepancies, processing sexual and relational trauma, releasing shame related to sexuality, supporting parents of LGBTQIA+ children and management of anxiety or depression. I work with individuals, couples, ENM configurations, sex workers, queer, trans or neurodivergent individuals.
(619) 350-0930 View (619) 350-0930
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Theo Villalobos
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, SEP
Online Only
Welcome, I'm glad you're here. I am nonbinary, neurodivergent and Latinx and provide gender affirming care in English and Spanish. I specialize in somatic, mindfulness-based and trauma-informed models of care. Equity is an essential value that drives my approach to clinical work. Bienvenido/bienvenida/bienvenide, me alegro de que estés aquí. Soy una persona no binario, neurodivergente y Latinx, y ofrezco afirmación de género en mi trabajo en inglés y español. Me especializo en modelos basados en somáticos, basados en la atención plena y basados en el trauma. La equidad es un valor esencial que impulsa mi enfoque clínico.
Welcome, I'm glad you're here. I am nonbinary, neurodivergent and Latinx and provide gender affirming care in English and Spanish. I specialize in somatic, mindfulness-based and trauma-informed models of care. Equity is an essential value that drives my approach to clinical work. Bienvenido/bienvenida/bienvenide, me alegro de que estés aquí. Soy una persona no binario, neurodivergente y Latinx, y ofrezco afirmación de género en mi trabajo en inglés y español. Me especializo en modelos basados en somáticos, basados en la atención plena y basados en el trauma. La equidad es un valor esencial que impulsa mi enfoque clínico.
(831) 777-2861 View (831) 777-2861
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Garrett Rutz
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
2 Endorsed
San Diego, CA 92131
To be honest, I really loathe writing these things but I will state this from the heart: my work and focus is to go above and beyond cookie-cutter therapy approaches that do not consider your uniqueness, the context in which you live and relate, and the personal struggles and triumphs you experience; I hope I can do better than what has become "normal" therapy. As a narrative therapist I invite my clients into the magic of the "everyday ordinary", recapturing the joy of living in the face of what you are up-against. My aim is to restore hope, dignity and agency in the lives of those who consult with me.
To be honest, I really loathe writing these things but I will state this from the heart: my work and focus is to go above and beyond cookie-cutter therapy approaches that do not consider your uniqueness, the context in which you live and relate, and the personal struggles and triumphs you experience; I hope I can do better than what has become "normal" therapy. As a narrative therapist I invite my clients into the magic of the "everyday ordinary", recapturing the joy of living in the face of what you are up-against. My aim is to restore hope, dignity and agency in the lives of those who consult with me.
(442) 223-0587 View (442) 223-0587
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Jenée Harris First Responder Mental Health
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, EMDR, IMFT
Online Only
Hi, I’m so glad you have taken a step to beginning therapy. I work with First responders, and non-first responders via Telehealth in California and Ohio. I have immediate openings for first responders available.
Hi, I’m so glad you have taken a step to beginning therapy. I work with First responders, and non-first responders via Telehealth in California and Ohio. I have immediate openings for first responders available.
(619) 949-3731 View (619) 949-3731
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Merissa A. Mathews
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
2 Endorsed
San Diego, CA 92110
Are you experiencing low self-esteem, anxiety, feeling stuck in a dark place of depression or addiction? Maybe you are experiencing challenges with feeling too needy in relationships or having difficulty connecting emotionally. Perhaps, you are wanting to be more assertive, have less stress in social situations, and have more confidence at work. Past experiences can strongly influence the way you feel about yourself and the world. Past events can be anything from experiencing emotional/physical/sexual abuse, bullying, emotional neglect, experiencing racial trauma, or not feeling accepted for being LGBTQ+.
Are you experiencing low self-esteem, anxiety, feeling stuck in a dark place of depression or addiction? Maybe you are experiencing challenges with feeling too needy in relationships or having difficulty connecting emotionally. Perhaps, you are wanting to be more assertive, have less stress in social situations, and have more confidence at work. Past experiences can strongly influence the way you feel about yourself and the world. Past events can be anything from experiencing emotional/physical/sexual abuse, bullying, emotional neglect, experiencing racial trauma, or not feeling accepted for being LGBTQ+.
(619) 393-4746 View (619) 393-4746
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Dr. Francesca Luizza
Psychologist, PsyD
San Diego, CA 92108
Do you feel like you’re surviving instead of living? Are you in a constant state of stress and physical and mental exhaustion? Do you find yourself using alcohol, drugs, sex, relationships, or other unhealthy behaviors to cope, escape, or numb your pain? Now more than ever, people are feeling increasingly depressed, anxious, overwhelmed, and uncertain about the future while still being haunted by their past. If this experience resonates with you, you are not alone. With expertise in mood, addiction, relational, and trauma-related disorders, I customize my therapeutic approach to fit your unique needs and desires.
Do you feel like you’re surviving instead of living? Are you in a constant state of stress and physical and mental exhaustion? Do you find yourself using alcohol, drugs, sex, relationships, or other unhealthy behaviors to cope, escape, or numb your pain? Now more than ever, people are feeling increasingly depressed, anxious, overwhelmed, and uncertain about the future while still being haunted by their past. If this experience resonates with you, you are not alone. With expertise in mood, addiction, relational, and trauma-related disorders, I customize my therapeutic approach to fit your unique needs and desires.
(619) 558-0629 View (619) 558-0629
Gray Whale Therapy
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA
San Diego, CA 92123
Passion for working with individuals who are experiencing grief and loss.
Passion for working with individuals who are experiencing grief and loss.
(858) 330-6144 View (858) 330-6144
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Kristen Nurkowski
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Online Only
Congrats on taking the first step, or continuing, on your personal wellness journey. Only by taking the time to explore your inner-workings, can we begin to identify and eradicate what doesn’t work by developing strategies & moving towards what does, allowing a healthy authentic adult version of you to emerge. As a licensed clinical social worker, I take a humanistic perspective, utilizing both psychodynamic and holistic approaches to support my clients moving toward their valued direction.
Congrats on taking the first step, or continuing, on your personal wellness journey. Only by taking the time to explore your inner-workings, can we begin to identify and eradicate what doesn’t work by developing strategies & moving towards what does, allowing a healthy authentic adult version of you to emerge. As a licensed clinical social worker, I take a humanistic perspective, utilizing both psychodynamic and holistic approaches to support my clients moving toward their valued direction.
(760) 263-6810 View (760) 263-6810
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Rina Schul
Psychologist, PhD
1 Endorsed
San Diego, CA 92121
You’re tired of not feeling well, but hesitate to reach out to a therapist: Can I trust a stranger? Can anyone really help me? On the surface, you function well in life, but deep down, you feel like you’re not truly “showing up” or that you don’t fully “belong.” It’s as if your authentic self is hiding, sensing that being fully you might not be safe. There may be parts of your life story that explain why you feel uncomfortable, different from others, or weighed down by anxiety or sadness. I would love to work with you in therapy to explore these issues and help you improve your daily life experience.
You’re tired of not feeling well, but hesitate to reach out to a therapist: Can I trust a stranger? Can anyone really help me? On the surface, you function well in life, but deep down, you feel like you’re not truly “showing up” or that you don’t fully “belong.” It’s as if your authentic self is hiding, sensing that being fully you might not be safe. There may be parts of your life story that explain why you feel uncomfortable, different from others, or weighed down by anxiety or sadness. I would love to work with you in therapy to explore these issues and help you improve your daily life experience.
(619) 658-6091 View (619) 658-6091
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Freedom Within Therapy and Wellness Center
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
San Diego, CA 92110
You don’t have to hold it all together here. Let’s be honest—life is a lot sometimes. You might be the strong one, the fixer, the one everyone leans on... but inside you’re exhausted, anxious, or just not feeling like yourself. That’s where we come in. We’re a group of real people who also happen to be really good therapists. We’re not going to stare at you blankly or ask, “And how does that make you feel?” on repeat. We actually care, we’re not afraid to be human in the room, and we know that healing happens when you feel safe, seen, and not judged.
You don’t have to hold it all together here. Let’s be honest—life is a lot sometimes. You might be the strong one, the fixer, the one everyone leans on... but inside you’re exhausted, anxious, or just not feeling like yourself. That’s where we come in. We’re a group of real people who also happen to be really good therapists. We’re not going to stare at you blankly or ask, “And how does that make you feel?” on repeat. We actually care, we’re not afraid to be human in the room, and we know that healing happens when you feel safe, seen, and not judged.
(619) 367-6753 View (619) 367-6753
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Nick Fager - Sex Therapy
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, LPCC, LMHC, ST
3 Endorsed
San Diego, CA 92104
Whether you're wanting to work through a particular sexual issue, or wanting to generally expand your sexuality and capacity for pleasure, I can open up a safe and non-judgmental space to explore topics that may have felt very difficult to discuss in other settings. I am LGBTQ identified and affirming. Depending on your preferences, we can either dive into the past and get a better understanding of how your sexual narratives and patterns came to be, or we can stay in the present and work together to expand your capacity for pleasure, or both! I welcome individuals and couples of all sexual and gender identities.
Whether you're wanting to work through a particular sexual issue, or wanting to generally expand your sexuality and capacity for pleasure, I can open up a safe and non-judgmental space to explore topics that may have felt very difficult to discuss in other settings. I am LGBTQ identified and affirming. Depending on your preferences, we can either dive into the past and get a better understanding of how your sexual narratives and patterns came to be, or we can stay in the present and work together to expand your capacity for pleasure, or both! I welcome individuals and couples of all sexual and gender identities.
(619) 648-2780 View (619) 648-2780
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Ruth Millican: Adult Autism Assessment
Psychologist, PsyD
2 Endorsed
San Diego, CA 92102
Welcome to my page! I provide neurodiversity affirming psychological assessments for those wondering if they may be Autistic or PDA later in life. Often times, people have been missed or mis-diagnosed, especially those who are assigned female at birth, or BIPOC. You may have also been missed if you are high masking or have low support needs. The testing I provide takes all of these factors into consideration to give you the most accurate understanding of your identity. Neurotypes (Autism ADHD, PDA) are differences and not disorders and I provide evaluations in a way that honors the whole person.
Welcome to my page! I provide neurodiversity affirming psychological assessments for those wondering if they may be Autistic or PDA later in life. Often times, people have been missed or mis-diagnosed, especially those who are assigned female at birth, or BIPOC. You may have also been missed if you are high masking or have low support needs. The testing I provide takes all of these factors into consideration to give you the most accurate understanding of your identity. Neurotypes (Autism ADHD, PDA) are differences and not disorders and I provide evaluations in a way that honors the whole person.
(619) 745-5203 View (619) 745-5203
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Izán Corso
Psychological Associate, MA
1 Endorsed
San Diego, CA 92108
You may be someone who feels curious about your inner world and ready to understand the patterns shaped by past relationships and experiences. You might be navigating anxiety, depression, questions about identity, trauma, or challenges with substance use — and find yourself stuck in familiar cycles, even when you deeply want change. Perhaps you carry pain that hasn’t had space to be held, or you’re tired of feeling disconnected from yourself or others. You’re seeking deeper self-understanding, emotional freedom, and more fulfilling relationships. In our work together, you’ll find a warm and reflective space in which you can heal.
You may be someone who feels curious about your inner world and ready to understand the patterns shaped by past relationships and experiences. You might be navigating anxiety, depression, questions about identity, trauma, or challenges with substance use — and find yourself stuck in familiar cycles, even when you deeply want change. Perhaps you carry pain that hasn’t had space to be held, or you’re tired of feeling disconnected from yourself or others. You’re seeking deeper self-understanding, emotional freedom, and more fulfilling relationships. In our work together, you’ll find a warm and reflective space in which you can heal.
(619) 492-7084 View (619) 492-7084
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Devin Xayasomloth
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Change is constant. At times, it leaves us feeling like we’ve disconnected. You may feel stuck, or your body & emotions numb. Maybe you feel drawn to seek a fresh perspective on issues you’ve had with yourself, a partner, friends, or family. At times, we know we need a shift, but it sounds exhausting to go through alone. Many of my clients find that they feel better when they have an ear to listen and affirming space to feel seen and explore. You have the medicine, and i'm happy to be a compassionate witness on your healing journey, please reach out to collaborate with me today!
Change is constant. At times, it leaves us feeling like we’ve disconnected. You may feel stuck, or your body & emotions numb. Maybe you feel drawn to seek a fresh perspective on issues you’ve had with yourself, a partner, friends, or family. At times, we know we need a shift, but it sounds exhausting to go through alone. Many of my clients find that they feel better when they have an ear to listen and affirming space to feel seen and explore. You have the medicine, and i'm happy to be a compassionate witness on your healing journey, please reach out to collaborate with me today!
(619) 864-1377 View (619) 864-1377
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Mary 'molly' Gildersleeve
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, MA, LPCC
2 Endorsed
San Diego, CA 92117
Do you perceive yourself or have been told by others you are "too sensitive" or a chronic "overthinker"? Have you felt as though others might be missing something or aren't seeing the world through the same lens? As a queer neurodivergent human, much of my life has felt like an attempt to make electronic music in a world that continues to prioritize classical. Landing on the labels "neurodivergent" and "polyamorous" allowed me to see myself as something separate from my struggles because the language offered me a chance to unpack ablism and toxic compulsory monogamy in a productive way, both for myself and my relationships.
Do you perceive yourself or have been told by others you are "too sensitive" or a chronic "overthinker"? Have you felt as though others might be missing something or aren't seeing the world through the same lens? As a queer neurodivergent human, much of my life has felt like an attempt to make electronic music in a world that continues to prioritize classical. Landing on the labels "neurodivergent" and "polyamorous" allowed me to see myself as something separate from my struggles because the language offered me a chance to unpack ablism and toxic compulsory monogamy in a productive way, both for myself and my relationships.
(619) 853-4870 View (619) 853-4870
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Dr. Haran Kingstan
Psychologist, PsyD
1 Endorsed
San Diego, CA 92102
I have had the honor of working with individuals across the lifespan with a variety of mental health concerns such as trauma, anxiety, depression, life transitions, sexual and gender-identity related issues, family dynamics, and more. I believe that humans are inherently relational and that we are born to thrive in connection to others and wouldn’t be who we are if not for the people that have come in, and sometimes out, of our lives. Examining these relationships can be a huge part of therapy, whether it’s with our parents, our partners, or with ourselves.
I have had the honor of working with individuals across the lifespan with a variety of mental health concerns such as trauma, anxiety, depression, life transitions, sexual and gender-identity related issues, family dynamics, and more. I believe that humans are inherently relational and that we are born to thrive in connection to others and wouldn’t be who we are if not for the people that have come in, and sometimes out, of our lives. Examining these relationships can be a huge part of therapy, whether it’s with our parents, our partners, or with ourselves.
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Bisexual Therapists

What is bisexual-affirming therapy?

Bisexual-affirming therapy is a type of mental health support that fully affirms and reflects a client’s bisexual identity. It is rooted in acceptance and does not attempt to change or question an individual’s orientation. In this type of therapy, clients work with a therapist who understands the unique experiences of bisexual people. This support is especially important, as research shows that bisexual individuals face higher rates of anxiety, depression, and suicidal ideation compared to other groups. Bisexual-affirming therapy acknowledges that bisexual individuals may encounter specific stressors—such as invalidation, relationship challenges, and minority stress—that require specialized understanding and intervention. Many therapists also provide couples therapy for bisexual partners, helping them navigate relationship dynamics, communication challenges, or external stressors that may impact their relationship.

While not required, some clients prefer working with bisexual therapists who may bring personal insight to the therapeutic relationship. However, a non-bisexual therapist with strong training and a genuine commitment to affirmation can be equally effective. The most important factor is finding a therapist who understands how identity impacts mental health and can create a space of trust and respect.

What can a bisexual therapist help with?

Bisexual-affirming therapists can provide support across a wide range of concerns relevant to bisexual individuals. Whether through personal or professional experience, they often have specialized knowledge in areas such as the coming out process, navigating stereotypes, and dealing with common stressors. Relationship support is another key area of focus, as bisexual clients may face unique challenge when dating or maintaining relationships across genders. Affirming therapists can also help clients build coping strategies for managing discrimination or stigma.

Additionally, many bisexual-affirming therapists can connect clients to other providers or community-based resources—such as bisexual support groups or LGBTQ+ organizations—that offer additional affirming spaces for connection. It's important to note that therapists provide can talk therapy and counseling services but do not prescribe medication—if medication is needed for conditions like depression or anxiety, they will coordinate care with a psychiatrist or primary care physician who can provide psychiatric medication management alongside therapeutic support.

How do I find a bisexual therapist?

The Psychology Today online directory is a helpful tool for finding bisexual-affirming therapists. You can use search filters to identify therapists who specialize in LGBTQ+ care and work specifically with bisexual clients. You can also filter by clinical specialties, therapeutic approaches, accepted insurance, session costs, and languages spoken to find the right fit.

During initial consultations or early sessions, ask potential therapists about their specific training in bisexual-affirming care, their experience with LGBTQ+ clients, and their therapeutic approach to identity-related concerns. An effective bisexual-affirming therapist will demonstrate genuine understanding of bisexual experiences, including awareness of the unique challenges facing bisexual individuals. You can also look for credentials or continuing education in areas such as LGBTQ+ mental health, trauma-informed care, and intersectionality.