Infidelity Therapists in North Hills, San Diego, CA
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Áurea Oliveira
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, MS, AMFT
Verified
Verified
I work with couples on emotional disconnection, communication and sexual intimacy, attachment injuries such as
infidelity
,
betrayal
and abandonment and with individuals on developing a secure sense of self and on feeling more heard, seen, and connected in the context of their close relationships.
Relational issues arise when we stop feeling security and trust in our relationships, emotionally disconnected, and unable to communicate our needs clearly to one another. As a marriage and family therapist, I am guided by the idea that the more effectively dependent we are on each other, the more independent and adventurous we become. I also believe that the quality of our relationships can deeply impact our mental wellness in general. Humans are bonding, relational beings who need to feel secure and loved in their close relationships. We need to know that we matter to our loved ones.

Dalija Dragisic
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified
Verified
Relationships are incredibly complicated, and relationship issues can have profound impact on your quality of life. Anxiety and depression may be the result of unhealthy relationship dynamics, or may be caused by typical stressors such as financial problems or disagreements about raising children. If you are having difficulties in your current relationship, or if you are trying to understand past relationship struggles, I am qualified to help you. I work with couples and individuals engaging in high conflict,
affairs
, issues of past trauma, parenting, depression, anxiety, substance addiction, divorce, or criminal concerns.

Oasis Counseling Group
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, CSAT
Verified
10 Endorsed
Verified
10 Endorsed
In my practice, Oasis Counseling Group, we treat those who are struggling with out of control sexual behaviors as well as their spouses and offer
betrayal
trauma therapy.
Does your sexuality feel out of control? Are you struggling to control compulsive sexual behaviors? I can help. I am a Certified Sexual Addiction Therapist (CSAT) who can help you break free of these painful behaviors. Additionally, I specialize in couples therapy using Restoration Therapy, EMDR and perform individual and family therapy. As a group practice we work with clients of all backgrounds to help them create a happier and healthier future. Our compassionate, non-judgmental and positive approach will help you to feel comfortable and safe so that you can heal from the unique situation you are facing.

Dr. Ca-Lie Cheng-Wang
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified
Verified
I specialize in treating addiction, anxiety, depression, relationship issues,
infidelity
, substance abuse, postpartum depression, parenting/family issues, and anger-related issues.
I am a Mandarin and English-speaking psychologist.

Joleena Landstedt
CCTP, CSAT, CCTSA, CLC, MA
Joleena Landstedt is a CSAT Candidate through IITAP, a Certified Clinical Trauma Professional, Certified
Betrayal
Trauma Coach, a Certified Clinical Trauma and Addiction Specialist, and a Certified Life Coach with a Bachelors of Science in Psychology. Joleena specializes in helping couples working through
betrayal
and addiction of all kinds. She also works with clients that are struggling with anxiety, addictive behaviors, depression, PTSD, emotional abuse, mental abuse and trauma of various kinds. Her passion is to provide a safe space for her clients and to walk hand-in-hand with them, guiding them through the healing process.

Dr. Mark Gregory Karris
Marriage & Family Therapist, PsyD, MDiv, LMFT
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
Are you ready to experience a powerful transformation in your relationship? As a compassionate and competent couples therapist in San Diego, California, I'm here to help you and your partner overcome the challenges you're facing and create a stronger, more connected bond. With my extensive experience as a university professor, best-selling author, researcher, and workshop facilitator, I have the knowledge and skills to guide you on your journey to healing and growth. Together, we can create a brighter future for your relationship. Let's start your transformation today!

Barbara Morett, Bicultural Couples Therapist
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
Are you looking for a therapist who can hold space for all of your unique identities, culture and relationship dynamics? I specialize in working with couples who want to understand each other better, but are struggling to find common ground. I work with couples who are from different cultures, backgrounds, are different races, or have different neurotypes (one partner who has ADHD or Autism and the other who does not). My lived experience with neurodiversity and being bi-cultural help me to assist couples in finding more connection and understanding for one another.

Marlee Cornue
Pre-Licensed Professional, APCC
Verified
Verified
I LOVE what I do. My passion is to help individuals grow and heal while they navigate the everyday tasks of careers, family life, and being in relationship with others. I have extensive training and supervision in Emotionally Focused Therapy.

Jacob W Oliver
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MS, AMFT
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
I work with those who are experiencing anxiety, depression, anger, relationship issues, traumatic pasts and the general stresses of life. Those feeling empty, drained and at their last stretch can find their second wind with new tools and a new understanding of life.

Svetlana Ishchenko
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA
Verified
Verified
I am fascinated by the affects of attachment and bonding on interpersonal relationships and have a deep commitment to helping people articulate and address the core issues with which they struggle. I am currently working towards my PMH-C (Perinatal Mental Health Certification), as I am passionate about supporting women and families experiencing fertility, pregnancy, postpartum, pregnancy/infant loss, TFMR, grief, adoption, and parenting. I am a a mom who struggled with postpartum anxiety and OCD with both of my pregnancies, so I know firsthand how shameful and isolating these experiences can be.

Cara Allen
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, MM, LCSW, CST
Verified
3 Endorsed
Verified
3 Endorsed
Seeking support with sexual challenges, relationships, living with cancer, grief, or a combination of these? With 20 years of experience providing therapy and AASECT certification as a sex therapist, you can talk with me about the things others are uncomfortable talking about. You may have experienced the death of a loved one or a different type of life transition. You may be struggling with adjusting to a new relationship or feeling disappointed with an aspect of your current one. I can provide you with support, insights, treatment, education, and guidance during times of transition and beyond.
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Molly Paris
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified
Verified
Sharing our inner experiences with someone can often feel frightening, which is exactly why I place such an importance on connection and acceptance in the therapeutic process. I aim to create a safe environment that will invite my clients to delve deeper into their personal narrative, as I truly believe we are not built to process emotions alone. As humans, we all have a propensity to grow and become our true selves, unfortunately we aren’t always gifted with the circumstances to allow it. I am passionate about creating a space for not only self-discovery and self acceptance, but to allow clients to feel seen, heard, and valued.

Carly Stewart
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA
Verified
Verified
Are you battling anxiety that feels like it holds you back from experiencing a full life? Or perhaps you're dealing with a loss that feels too heavy to hold. Or maybe you're in a relationship that is not turning out quite like you had planned or hoped? Whatever brings you to this page, I'm here to help walk with you. “Your problem is how you are going to spend this one and precious life you have been issued. Whether you're going to spend it trying to look good and creating the illusion that you have power over circumstances, or whether you are going to taste it, enjoy it and find out the truth about who you are.” ― Anne Lamott
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Nicole Asencio
Marriage & Family Therapist, PsyD, LMFT
Verified
3 Endorsed
Verified
3 Endorsed
Life can be difficult at times and hard to navigate. The good news is it doesn't have to be this way! I assist couples and individuals to work through life's challenges by utilizing their strengths, exploring areas of growth and creating a new chapter in their life. We will work together to understand the patterns that have persisted and work towards healing. Despite the coronavirus regulations, I am an "essential service provider" in California and continue to meet with clients via telehealth. Please contact me to schedule an appointment.

Hayden Dover
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT, CST
Verified
Verified
I offer psychotherapy to individuals and couples who grapple with a variety of concerns or who wish to use therapy as an avenue for personal growth and greater fulfillment. I am committed to facilitating self-awareness in my clients which will allow them to make choices that are healthy and empowering.

Donna S Scott
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
Are you tired of how the past creeps up into your day-to-day life? Feel sad or lonely, living as roommates instead of husband and wife? You’ve felt abandoned by God. No matter how hard you have prayed to be healed, your heart remains in pieces. The struggles in your relationships have kept you in a place of sadness and loneliness. My passion is to connect hurting people with a healing Savior, by utilizing faith-based knowledge along with clinical therapeutic training. I am dedicated to providing you with the highest quality of professional services for helping you overcome your situation.

Aron Pederson
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Verified
Verified
Clients who work with me will find an inviting and collaborative environment where they can bring their “whole” self, the “messy” parts included, and engage in a process to better understand their stories and contexts, while receiving practical suggestions to support their experiences both during and outside of therapy sessions. I enjoy working with clients who wish to get unstuck from repetitive, troublesome, or self-defeating patterns of relating to themselves, others, or their world.

Camille Cooke
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified
Verified
Hello! My name is Camille. I am an LCSW and I am passionate about helping humans navigate all kinds of relationships, at all stages, beginning/entering the dating pool, honeymoon phase/settling in, developing/maintaining long lasting and meaningful relationships with people they love, working through challenges, and managing needs etc. I work towards helping people understand their own identity and how that impacts all aspect of their relationships such as; communication, trust, fidelity, trauma, family dynamics, sex and even the role mental health plays in our relationships. I hope to help you get relationship you want and deserve

Fleurette McNair
Associate Professional Clinical Counselor, MHA, MA, AMFT, APCC
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
Are you feeling pressures from stress, or maybe anxiety in your daily routine? Are there unresolved issues impacting your relationships? Have you been struggling & feel that now is the time to get support? You do not have to do this alone, let me help. Lifes challenges can stem from previous trauma, changes in family structure, life transitions, or a host of other themes. We'll work through these together, by making our sessions uniquely yours, allowing growth through confronting the threat of fear, anxiety (and any other problem which may make you feel stuck) while developing healthier coping strategies.

Richard George Kastanias
Marriage & Family Therapist, Richard Kastanias, MS, LMFT
Verified
Verified
Only 18% of Therapists in the United States performing Couple Therapy have actual training in how to do Couple Therapy. Most Therapists claiming to be competent in working with Couples are applying training they received in working with individuals to the Couple's behaviors and believe that this will work. It Doesn't! And with couples Divorcing at the highest rate in modern times, quality Couple Therapy is a Must! Finding a Qualified Couple Therapist is Essential! Extensive research has shown that Emotionally Focused therapy for couples has the highest success rate of any form of couple therapy and relationship satisfaction!
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Infidelity Therapists
How does therapy for infidelity work?
A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.
How long does therapy for infidelity take?
Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.
How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?
When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.
How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?
Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.