Male Therapists in San Bernardino County, CA
For many men, turning to Pornhub, OnlyFans, cam sites, or even Instagram creates a growing emotional gap, eroding trust, intimacy and connection.
I work with men who feel trapped by secrecy, shame, and fear of losing valued connections. I understand this struggle personally because I’ve been in your shoes. As a mental health professional and someone who’s faced these challenges, I help you overcome barriers, rebuild trust, restore intimacy, and become the partner you want to be.
For many men, turning to Pornhub, OnlyFans, cam sites, or even Instagram creates a growing emotional gap, eroding trust, intimacy and connection.
I work with men who feel trapped by secrecy, shame, and fear of losing valued connections. I understand this struggle personally because I’ve been in your shoes. As a mental health professional and someone who’s faced these challenges, I help you overcome barriers, rebuild trust, restore intimacy, and become the partner you want to be.
I work primarily with men who have hit “rock bottom” and would like help getting up.
My goal for each man I work with is to provide hope and support while facilitating the recovery process. This usually requires us to dig deep and figure out why we engage in destructive behaviors. It also requires us to develop a treatment plan that specifically targets the maladaptive behaviors and reduces the chance of relapse.
I work primarily with men who have hit “rock bottom” and would like help getting up.
My goal for each man I work with is to provide hope and support while facilitating the recovery process. This usually requires us to dig deep and figure out why we engage in destructive behaviors. It also requires us to develop a treatment plan that specifically targets the maladaptive behaviors and reduces the chance of relapse.
Bjorn Lars Gothberg
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Rancho Cucamonga, CA 91730
I work with individuals and couples that struggle with depression, anxiety, stress, work with men and women, grief, anger issues, marital counseling, spirituality, relationship issues, and trauma.
It is not always easy to take the first steps beginning your therapeutic journey toward creating a life you desire. I am here to help guide you on this journey through my experience and education to help you become the best version of yourself, the version of yourself that you want. I will work with you to help identify stressors in your life, strengths you have, and attainable goals you would like to reach through a collaborative process and person-centered counseling, moving at your pace and no one else’s.
I work with individuals and couples that struggle with depression, anxiety, stress, work with men and women, grief, anger issues, marital counseling, spirituality, relationship issues, and trauma.
It is not always easy to take the first steps beginning your therapeutic journey toward creating a life you desire. I am here to help guide you on this journey through my experience and education to help you become the best version of yourself, the version of yourself that you want. I will work with you to help identify stressors in your life, strengths you have, and attainable goals you would like to reach through a collaborative process and person-centered counseling, moving at your pace and no one else’s.
Nash Dharma
Associate Clinical Social Worker, MSW, ASW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Upland, CA 91786
I specialize in working with teens, men, and couples, providing a space where you can feel truly heard and supported.
Unconditional support is a central part of the therapeutic process. My style is to treat you with compassion and respect. My clients describe me as ‘easy to talk to,’ ‘understanding,’ and ‘not judgmental.’ Like Bill Withers famously said, “We all have pain, we all have sorrow, but if we are wise, we know there’s always tomorrow’. I am honored to earn the privilege of supporting you through therapy and will be there if you need to ‘lean on me when you’re not strong.’ I became a therapist because I believe that we all need the help of others to help us through our challenges.
I specialize in working with teens, men, and couples, providing a space where you can feel truly heard and supported.
Unconditional support is a central part of the therapeutic process. My style is to treat you with compassion and respect. My clients describe me as ‘easy to talk to,’ ‘understanding,’ and ‘not judgmental.’ Like Bill Withers famously said, “We all have pain, we all have sorrow, but if we are wise, we know there’s always tomorrow’. I am honored to earn the privilege of supporting you through therapy and will be there if you need to ‘lean on me when you’re not strong.’ I became a therapist because I believe that we all need the help of others to help us through our challenges.
I specialize in providing compassionate support to professional men and women as well as school-age teens who are navigating challenges related to anxiety, depression, and trauma.
Are anxiety and worry squeezing you? Does sadness and despair shadow your every move, regardless of your efforts? Do you carry memories of abuse and trauma, leaving you broken, damaged, and disconnected from your true self? The weight of these emotions forms a relentless storm within, casting shadows over relationships whether at home, work, or school. The pressure to be perfect weighs heavily, eroding well-being and sowing doubt. Sleep, focus, and clarity remain elusive. Internally, you yearn for success and true happiness, yet the struggle persists, leaving you feeling like a mere facade, a fake, a deceiver, a fraud.
I specialize in providing compassionate support to professional men and women as well as school-age teens who are navigating challenges related to anxiety, depression, and trauma.
Are anxiety and worry squeezing you? Does sadness and despair shadow your every move, regardless of your efforts? Do you carry memories of abuse and trauma, leaving you broken, damaged, and disconnected from your true self? The weight of these emotions forms a relentless storm within, casting shadows over relationships whether at home, work, or school. The pressure to be perfect weighs heavily, eroding well-being and sowing doubt. Sleep, focus, and clarity remain elusive. Internally, you yearn for success and true happiness, yet the struggle persists, leaving you feeling like a mere facade, a fake, a deceiver, a fraud.
Forge Men's Wellness / Luis Resendez LMFT
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Online Only
Men, you’ve been holding it all together for everyone else—who’s holding you up?.
I get it—therapy can feel like a lot of talking with no results. That’s not my style. I cut through the fluff and get straight to the point, helping you make sense of what’s going on, find real solutions, and regain peace.. No psychobabble here, no blaming your concerns on "toxic masculinity" Just honest conversations. No BS.
Men, you’ve been holding it all together for everyone else—who’s holding you up?.
I get it—therapy can feel like a lot of talking with no results. That’s not my style. I cut through the fluff and get straight to the point, helping you make sense of what’s going on, find real solutions, and regain peace.. No psychobabble here, no blaming your concerns on "toxic masculinity" Just honest conversations. No BS.
I have a passion for working with individuals and couples including Men/Women/Trans and Non-Binary clients ranging in age from 13-80.
Hello and welcome to our center which provides affordable online/telehealth service. My goal is to provide a safe, non-judgmental, and supportive space that will allow you to openly express your thoughts and feelings. I specialize in assisting clients with relationship/couples’ issues, depression, obsessive-compulsive disorder, anxiety, domestic violence, trauma, and grief.
I have a passion for working with individuals and couples including Men/Women/Trans and Non-Binary clients ranging in age from 13-80.
Hello and welcome to our center which provides affordable online/telehealth service. My goal is to provide a safe, non-judgmental, and supportive space that will allow you to openly express your thoughts and feelings. I specialize in assisting clients with relationship/couples’ issues, depression, obsessive-compulsive disorder, anxiety, domestic violence, trauma, and grief.
The Weight Room: Therapy for Black and Brown Men
Marriage & Family Therapist
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Online Only
At The Weight Room, we provide therapy built for Black and Brown men.
You’ve been carrying a lot—stress, relationship struggles, life transitions, or the weight of expectations. Maybe communication keeps breaking down, trust has been shaken, or you feel stuck with no clear direction. You want change, but figuring it out alone feels overwhelming. Deep down, you want peace, clarity, and confidence in your next steps. Whether it’s rebuilding after infidelity, navigating fatherhood, or breaking cycles of frustration, you’re ready for something different. Therapy shouldn’t feel like another burden—it should be a space where you can lay it down, sort through it, and come back stronger.
At The Weight Room, we provide therapy built for Black and Brown men.
You’ve been carrying a lot—stress, relationship struggles, life transitions, or the weight of expectations. Maybe communication keeps breaking down, trust has been shaken, or you feel stuck with no clear direction. You want change, but figuring it out alone feels overwhelming. Deep down, you want peace, clarity, and confidence in your next steps. Whether it’s rebuilding after infidelity, navigating fatherhood, or breaking cycles of frustration, you’re ready for something different. Therapy shouldn’t feel like another burden—it should be a space where you can lay it down, sort through it, and come back stronger.
For many men, turning to Pornhub, OnlyFans, cam sites, or even Instagram creates a growing emotional gap, eroding trust, intimacy and connection.
I work with men who feel trapped by secrecy, shame, and fear of losing valued connections. I understand this struggle personally because I’ve been in your shoes. As a mental health professional and someone who’s faced these challenges, I help you overcome barriers, rebuild trust, restore intimacy, and become the partner you want to be.
For many men, turning to Pornhub, OnlyFans, cam sites, or even Instagram creates a growing emotional gap, eroding trust, intimacy and connection.
I work with men who feel trapped by secrecy, shame, and fear of losing valued connections. I understand this struggle personally because I’ve been in your shoes. As a mental health professional and someone who’s faced these challenges, I help you overcome barriers, rebuild trust, restore intimacy, and become the partner you want to be.
My Practice has an extensive history in treating women, men and children who have experienced traumatic events, which has caused a psychological or emotional disorder.
Today you are one step closer to a new you where you feel empowered and on a positive path to growth and well-being. If you're looking for extra support and guidance through a challenging situation or you're just ready to move in a new direction in your life, I look forward to working with you. Together we will identify goals you are seeking to obtain; with the use of the latest clinical interventions, you will acquire clarity about yourself, you will learn skills that work in your daily life, and you will gain internal strength and hope.
My Practice has an extensive history in treating women, men and children who have experienced traumatic events, which has caused a psychological or emotional disorder.
Today you are one step closer to a new you where you feel empowered and on a positive path to growth and well-being. If you're looking for extra support and guidance through a challenging situation or you're just ready to move in a new direction in your life, I look forward to working with you. Together we will identify goals you are seeking to obtain; with the use of the latest clinical interventions, you will acquire clarity about yourself, you will learn skills that work in your daily life, and you will gain internal strength and hope.
James Curtis
Associate Clinical Social Worker, MSW, MSCJ, JD
Verified Verified
Rancho Cucamonga, CA 91730
Waitlist for new clients
I focus on men & adolescent boys.
Single & Group Sessions:
In addition to a traditional therapy structure (a block or ongoing regularly scheduled sessions), I offer Single and Group Sessions. A Single Session lasts up to 90 minutes and is scheduled quickly but is NOT crises treatment. Groups Sessions are 1 hour and meet every few weeks. Groups are limited to 8 participants.
I focus on men & adolescent boys.
Single & Group Sessions:
In addition to a traditional therapy structure (a block or ongoing regularly scheduled sessions), I offer Single and Group Sessions. A Single Session lasts up to 90 minutes and is scheduled quickly but is NOT crises treatment. Groups Sessions are 1 hour and meet every few weeks. Groups are limited to 8 participants.
Meet Our Male Therapists
Sep Kalantari
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, PPSC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Ontario, CA 91761
I'm also trained in Trauma Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and specialize in: Men's Issues, Couples, Fatherhood, Divorce, Trauma, Anxiety, Depression.
Have you been through a recent crisis in your relationship? Maybe you're feeling lonely, disconnected, or stuck? Are you ready to make some changes in your life? I want to help you move forward and live the life that you deserve! Together, you and I will explore what is keeping you from your full potential and develop strategies to manage stress, improve relationships, and reach your personal goals. Take the initial step of your journey toward a healthier life by giving me a call. Your first phone consultation is free.
I'm also trained in Trauma Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and specialize in: Men's Issues, Couples, Fatherhood, Divorce, Trauma, Anxiety, Depression.
Have you been through a recent crisis in your relationship? Maybe you're feeling lonely, disconnected, or stuck? Are you ready to make some changes in your life? I want to help you move forward and live the life that you deserve! Together, you and I will explore what is keeping you from your full potential and develop strategies to manage stress, improve relationships, and reach your personal goals. Take the initial step of your journey toward a healthier life by giving me a call. Your first phone consultation is free.
Fontana Counseling and Recovery Center
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Fontana, CA 92335
However, twenty-four years of experience working with children and adolescents, couples in crisis, men, and those with addictions has prepared me to be uniquely qualified to help you on a new journey.
I have specialized in the treatment of children and adolescents. As the author of "Preventing Columbine," I am a subject expert in working with troubled teens. I am also well trained in substance addiction and mental illness, men's issues, healing from marital infidelity, and resolution of identity issues.
However, twenty-four years of experience working with children and adolescents, couples in crisis, men, and those with addictions has prepared me to be uniquely qualified to help you on a new journey.
I have specialized in the treatment of children and adolescents. As the author of "Preventing Columbine," I am a subject expert in working with troubled teens. I am also well trained in substance addiction and mental illness, men's issues, healing from marital infidelity, and resolution of identity issues.
Randy Higgins
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, Randy, Higgins, LCSW, CSAT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Online Only
I also specialize in working with men and women who struggle with unmanageable sexual behaviors, and issues with managing anger and domestic violence issues.
Dr. Carnes is a pioneer in the field of sex addiction. I received training from Dr. Patrick Carnes to provide treatment to adults with unwanted sexual behaviors. As a certified sex addiction therapist, I have the skill set to provide you the necessary tools to manage your behaviors.
I also specialize in working with men and women who struggle with unmanageable sexual behaviors, and issues with managing anger and domestic violence issues.
Dr. Carnes is a pioneer in the field of sex addiction. I received training from Dr. Patrick Carnes to provide treatment to adults with unwanted sexual behaviors. As a certified sex addiction therapist, I have the skill set to provide you the necessary tools to manage your behaviors.
Anthony Phillips
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Rancho Cucamonga, CA 91730
As a culturally competent Therapist, I focus on being an agent of change that supports women, men, and couples.
Upon starting a new therapeutic journey, I always share that through this process, we will change the idea of “why is this happening to me” to “everything is going according to plan.” As we get started, the first order of business is to construct an environment where you can feel seen, heard, and safe throughout this journey of self-discovery. The goal is to meet you where you are, so we can get you where you want to be. We will accomplish this by taking an integrative approach to facilitate personal growth and healing by identifying themes, unresolved conflicts, and behavioral patterns.
As a culturally competent Therapist, I focus on being an agent of change that supports women, men, and couples.
Upon starting a new therapeutic journey, I always share that through this process, we will change the idea of “why is this happening to me” to “everything is going according to plan.” As we get started, the first order of business is to construct an environment where you can feel seen, heard, and safe throughout this journey of self-discovery. The goal is to meet you where you are, so we can get you where you want to be. We will accomplish this by taking an integrative approach to facilitate personal growth and healing by identifying themes, unresolved conflicts, and behavioral patterns.
Donté Witherspoon
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Rancho Cucamonga, CA 91730
Since 2009 I have helped 200+ men battle through anxiety, depression, addiction, infidelity and restore their relationships.
Many men have this misconception that counseling is a form of weakness. Rest assured, counseling is a form of strengthening and awakening the masculine soul. I strongly believe that you already have the answers to the questions you are so desperately looking for within your own personal life and/or your relationships.
Since 2009 I have helped 200+ men battle through anxiety, depression, addiction, infidelity and restore their relationships.
Many men have this misconception that counseling is a form of weakness. Rest assured, counseling is a form of strengthening and awakening the masculine soul. I strongly believe that you already have the answers to the questions you are so desperately looking for within your own personal life and/or your relationships.
I typically work with men and women struggling with cancer or addiction/alcohol issues, as well as those struggling with trauma, anxiety, depression, and life transitions.
I am a certified Acceleration Resolution Therapist and am trained in EMDR. My therapeutic approaches include Humanistic, Client-Centered, Experiential, Solution-Focused, Gestalt, CBT, and DBT.
I typically work with men and women struggling with cancer or addiction/alcohol issues, as well as those struggling with trauma, anxiety, depression, and life transitions.
I am a certified Acceleration Resolution Therapist and am trained in EMDR. My therapeutic approaches include Humanistic, Client-Centered, Experiential, Solution-Focused, Gestalt, CBT, and DBT.
My speciality is counseling men.
It takes courage, strength, and commitment to want to improve your life and follow through with your vision. Whether you want to make behavioral, emotional, spiritual, interpersonal, or health related changes, I will help you explore the issues in depth. I want to hear and understand the context of your story. I will bring passion to our interactions and provide you with honest feedback. I will support you in finding meaning in your struggle and create an open atmosphere where you can look at all of your options as you decide how to take the next steps in your life journey.
My speciality is counseling men.
It takes courage, strength, and commitment to want to improve your life and follow through with your vision. Whether you want to make behavioral, emotional, spiritual, interpersonal, or health related changes, I will help you explore the issues in depth. I want to hear and understand the context of your story. I will bring passion to our interactions and provide you with honest feedback. I will support you in finding meaning in your struggle and create an open atmosphere where you can look at all of your options as you decide how to take the next steps in your life journey.
My dad would make statements such as: "boys don't cry" and "act like a man.
I am a bilingual (Spanish/English) Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with years of experience working with individuals, couples, and families. I graduated from Antioch University, Los Angeles, with a Masters's degree in Clinical Psychology with an emphasis on Marriage and Family Therapy. I help individuals, children, families, and couples dealing with trauma, depression, anxiety, behavioral issues, life transitions, and other debilitating situations.
My dad would make statements such as: "boys don't cry" and "act like a man.
I am a bilingual (Spanish/English) Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with years of experience working with individuals, couples, and families. I graduated from Antioch University, Los Angeles, with a Masters's degree in Clinical Psychology with an emphasis on Marriage and Family Therapy. I help individuals, children, families, and couples dealing with trauma, depression, anxiety, behavioral issues, life transitions, and other debilitating situations.
I have been mainly working with men and men's issues, but also work with couples.
I worked in Mental Health int he 80's, was a police officer for 25 years. While in that role, I helped to develop the Crisis Intervention Team with my department and helped develop a 40 hour training for other Law Enforcement officers for the stated. I was involved with that program until I retired and due to some conflicts, I could not continue.
I have been mainly working with men and men's issues, but also work with couples.
I worked in Mental Health int he 80's, was a police officer for 25 years. While in that role, I helped to develop the Crisis Intervention Team with my department and helped develop a 40 hour training for other Law Enforcement officers for the stated. I was involved with that program until I retired and due to some conflicts, I could not continue.
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Male Therapists
As a man, why might I want to see a male therapist?
There are many reasons a man might wish to work with a male therapist, including a degree of shared identity, which may help client and therapist connect to each other and allow for a more free-flowing discussion of issues that can be deeply personal. Some men may feel more comfortable talking to a male therapist about relationship concerns, the pressures they feel around the roles society and family place on men, career or job challenges, self-esteem, or anger problems. For some men who have not had a male role models in their lives, a good male therapist may be especially helpful.
How can I find out about a therapist’s experience treating men?
Individuals looking for treatment should feel comfortable directly asking a therapist about their history treating men overall and the issues that arise in therapy with men. A good therapist will be happy to discuss such matters as well as their educational background, approach to treatment, and how they think they can aid a prospective client.
Can clients benefit from having a therapist of the same gender?
Therapy is not gender-specific, but some men as well as women feel more comfortable opening up about their experiences and history with therapists of a specific gender. An individual may feel that they have to explain less background information and be on the same page more quickly, particularly when discussing gender-specific challenges. That said, a good clinician can transcend most if not all gender concerns. Ultimately, the most important factor in therapy is the connection and trust the client is able to build with the practitioner.
Would a male therapist have specific training in treating men?
Generally, no. There are no certifications for treating men specifically, but there are continuing education classes that therapists may take that focus on treating men as a group. There are many therapists who focus on men and male issues in their treatment and therefore have experience and expertise in this domain.