Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists in Sacramento, CA
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Leigh Johnson
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
You love your partner, but things feel challenging and confusing lately. Perhaps you’re finding it difficult to communicate clearly without the conversation escalating into yet another argument. Or maybe you feel far away from one another, and time spent in one another’s company has gradually grown tense and aloof. Perhaps there is something missing in your sexual dynamic, or you're seeking guidance in negotiating new boundaries around polyamory or
kink
. Welcome.
Rachel Roberts
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified
4 Endorsed
Verified
4 Endorsed
I am poly and
kink
-friendly!.
I work with adult individuals, couples and families who are interested in moving towards a place of healing by way of exploration, insight, and self-compassion. While my approach to therapy is collaborative and person-centered, therapy is individualized based on the needs of my client, their strengths and limitations, and goals for therapy. I take great value in helping clients develop and lean into self-agency.
Aubrey Grande
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA
Verified
Verified
I am experienced in working with both polyamorous/non-monogomous and monogamous relationships, as well as folks in the
kink
community.
My approach is centered around curiosity, possibility, and the celebration of each individual’s unique story. I offer a collaborative therapeutic environment that counters normativity and recognizes the impact of oppressive systems within our society. I utilize narrative therapy in my work, this approach will recognize your personal values and highlight your skills. I aim to assist you in exploring and strengthening the version of you that might be struggling to come to the surface.
Katie Arlene Baptist
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CST
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
I delight in helping my clients to trust themselves and love themselves and to reclaim pleasure and desire! My approach is rooted in a practice of presence, is
sex positive
, LGBTransQIA+ and non-binary welcoming, and respectful of client’s values, spiritual paths, and lifestyle choices.
I hold affirming space for visionary, non-conforming, pleasure seekers in California who need support and some inspiration for their sexual self-discovery journeys. I am an AASECT certified sex therapist, and provide education, skill building, and a shame free zone to talk about desire, identity, and relationships.
Genevieve Fahey
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified
3 Endorsed
Verified
3 Endorsed
I invite poly, monogamous, and
kink
folks.
Being sensitive in this world isn't easy. If you identify as a healer or a highly sensitive/empathetic person, you may find yourself trying to use your gifts to "save" others. You may find that people easily open up to you. You may also find that a lot of your dating life has been based on healing, changing, and helping others. It leaves little room for your needs, leading to dysfunctional relationships. When you continuously have projects instead of partners you might be worried your "picker" is broken. It's not broken. It's just not your job to heal everyone. It's time to find a relationships based on reciprocity.
Regina Isabel K'burg
Marriage & Family Therapist, PsyD
Verified
Verified
Skilled in Adolescent and Adult Therapy, Sexually Problematic Behaviors, Couple’s,
sex positive
, LGBTQI, Personality Disorders, Reunification,Social Issues for Males, Psychological Assessment, minor attracted individuals, and nontraditional couples.
Isabel upholds the belief we are wounded in relationships and healed in relationships. She desires to provide a safe space to heal. As a therapist, Isabel is proactive, transparent, and honest. Currently, she is working towards certification in sex therapy and sex addiction. She utilizes an integrative approach tailored to individual client’s needs. Her reflective therapeutic style emphasizes the unique strengths of individuals and their ability to create change. In Isabel’s career, she has experience working in inpatient, forensic, school based, and community outpatient settings.
Pam C Bauerle - In Person Sessions
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified
Verified
Married for 38 years, I understand the ups and downs that happen in a relationship, and how to move through them in a productive way. Therapy is simply an opportunity to develop new skills for moving through life's challenges. Known for my kindness and direct approach, I create a calm and non-judgmental space as we create a new path for your life, clearing painful patterns and experiences. As a
sex positive
therapist I help you energize your path, relationship and sex life helping you learn how to communicate your true needs and desires, allowing you to move forward to the next level. Feel free to call me. I look forward to it...
Justin Altman
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified
Verified
My practice is inclusive, however I have particular experience with anxiety, depression, relationship issues, chemical dependency, trauma, polyamory,
kink
/bdsm, and alternative relationship styles.
If you are reading this, it likely means something in your life is not going well; maybe you’re having relationship troubles, you’re having trouble getting motivated to do the things you need to do, or perhaps you just don’t feel satisfied with your life. You’ve probably tried fixing this on your own, but have run into a wall. I know the feeling – I’ve been there, and I know how beneficial it can be to get some help. Whatever your goals are – to develop or repair your relationships, reduce the impact of trauma, alleviate symptoms like depression or anxiety, or to learn about yourself and improve life satisfaction – I’m here for you.
Adrian Eric Scharfetter
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, CST
Verified
2 Endorsed
Verified
2 Endorsed
I am an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist. I work with low sexual desire, infidelity, mismatched desires and needs, erectile dysfunction, delayed or impaired orgasms, ejaculation concerns, LGBTQIA health or curiosity, sexual trauma, embarrassment and anxiety in regard to sex and sexuality. Exploring types of sexual behaviors, relationship configurations and non heteronormative expressions. Singles and couples who may be exploring or approaching issues in alternative relationships and alternative family structures, including ethical non-monogamy, polyamory,
kink
, living single, co-parenting, and chosen family.
Adrienne Parker-Morano
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified
Verified
I possess a
sex positive
outlook and understanding of the powerful influence that sexuality has on a person's life.
My awareness of human sexuality rises above my own personal opinion and experiences. I affirm all sexual orientations and transgender experience. I help people reclaim their authentic sexual selves within their particular spiritual/religious/lifeview practice and I tailor my treatment to best fit each individual client. I address a client's sexual issues directly. I don't sidestep the sex part to deal with the other issues in the relationship, although I don't ignore them either. Physiological, psychological, emotional and spiritual processes, are all a part of human sexuality and I understand that an integrated approach is necessary.
Elin Kiyoko Campbell
Associate Clinical Social Worker, MSW, ASW
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
As a poly/non-monogamy,
kink
, sex-positive, and LGBTQIA+ affirming therapist, this means I work with people in a variety of consensual relationship configurations.
As a queer, neurodivergent therapist who found myself in the mental health field as a result of a gamut of lived experience – I know too well how difficult it can be to find a therapeutic space where you “fit.” This world is heavy enough without the added difficulty of summoning the strength to reach out for help, only to feel like you must change yourself to access therapeutic support. It’s a terrible, gut-wrenching feeling that I have personally experienced. This will not happen with me.
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Psychologist, PsyD, CSWT
Verified
8 Endorsed
Verified
8 Endorsed
A Certified Sexual Wellness Therapist & Psychologist, I work with the
kink
, LGBTQ+, and ENM communities.
Wouldn't it be nice if you could more fully enjoy sex without worrying about how your body looks, feels, smells, or if it will (or won't) function "properly?" While most people want to have more enjoyable sex, many don't know where to start. It can be difficult to navigate the complexities of sex, desire, pleasure, and relationships without knowledgeable help. That's where I come in. I specialize in helping adults with sexuality concerns, performance anxieties, desire discrepancy, relationship communication, porn use, & those exploring
kink
/BDSM & non-monogamous relationships.
Diana Beth Strimling
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
Verified
Verified
I am queer, poly,
kink
aligned, and neurodiverse and have recently submitted my hours to be a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist specializing in the LGBTQIA community.
You've been thinking about therapy, but you are worried about judgement from the therapist or are afraid that they won't understand you or your identity. You know you want a therapist who is neurodiverse and a part of the LGBTQ+ community. You know that you are ready to make changes in your life, but you feel like it would be easier if you had someone supporting you through those changes. You want your therapist to be honest but empathetic, and someone who can create a safe environment for you to share your secrets that you haven't been able to share with anyone else.
Alexandra M Jansen
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Verified
1 Endorsed
Verified
1 Endorsed
Welcome, I work primarily with clients that are within the LGBTQIA+ and
Kink
/BDSM communities. I also am body positive,
sex positive
, poly positive, geek/nerd positive, and trauma informed. I feel that the therapy space should feel safe and build on your strengths. If you’re here, you’re probably struggling with a significant burden in your life. Whether it’s anxiety, depression, trauma, or even difficulties with relationships, I want you to know that researching your future therapist is a great first step. In fact, having a good relationship with them has been known to be a major factor in achieving progress in your therapy.
Liz Vines
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified
2 Endorsed
Verified
2 Endorsed
As an LGBTQIA+ allied clinician, I am
kink
/poly friendly and feel passionate about helping people thrive in their preferred lifestyle.
Do you feel like you are “too sensitive for the world around you?” Are you fine one moment and then overwhelmed with emotions the next? Maybe you’re in a “good” relationship, but can’t stop wondering whether it’s right for you. It can feel scary and lonely when it seems like your life is going well, while there is a different reality under the surface. Many of my clients live with trauma, anxiety, extreme stress levels, and depression. They manage to expertly float through life finding “success” while feeling empty and depleted. The good news is that the skills that have helped you come this far are already in place.
Mary Schellentrager
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified
Verified
Life is full of challenges. You're doing your best but may still be feeling lost and overwhelmed. As part of the LGBTQIA+ community, you want a therapist who can empathize and relate to your unique experiences. You may want to improve your relationships with others or with yourself. You may have difficulty setting boundaries and identifying your needs. Perhaps you want to heal from past traumas and develop skills to manage triggers. You might be stuck in beliefs, stories, or patterns that are no longer serving you. The good news is that obstacles can be opportunities. Let's explore them together.
Majica Alba
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, ATR
Verified
2 Endorsed
Verified
2 Endorsed
Are you and your partner struggling to maintain a deep connection and overcome negative communication patterns? You may be fed up with constant arguments, feelings of distance, or the inability to express your emotions effectively. It might be hard to remember a time when your relationship didn't feel this way. But one thing is for sure: you're ready for a change. You're ready to rekindle the love and understanding that once defined your partnership. You're ready to foster a supportive, harmonious, and lasting bond.
Waitlist for new clients
Michael Lysaght
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified
5 Endorsed
Verified
5 Endorsed
*I offer teletherapy to clients in California, Nevada and Colorado. I offer in-office visits in Sacramento and San Francisco when allowed by local ordinance and client comfort.* Sometimes we expect far too much from ourselves. Each client is invited into a space where there is no expectation and where they are free to be themselves, without fear of judgement or misunderstanding. Adults can sometimes struggle to find space to hold compassion for themselves. Couples (and all variants of relationship structure) can also use a nonjudgmental time and space to feel heard, while building tools for communication.
Jake Clevenger
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
Verified
6 Endorsed
Verified
6 Endorsed
Do you want to use your creative side to help reduce your anxiety, depression, trauma, grief/loss, relationship problems, and addiction? This can include drawing, song writing, poetry, acting, carving, crafting, dancing, photography, playing instruments and more. You get to choose. Join a therapeutic setting that invites you to express yourself in your own unique way. All skill levels are welcome and cherished. Get more out of therapy and bless your life with meaningful art that honors your story.
Not accepting new clients
Carol Knight
Psychologist, PsyD, MA
Verified
5 Endorsed
Verified
5 Endorsed
I work with adults and couples using a relational approach that emphasizes connection: being seen, heard, and valued for who you are and where you are in your journey. My goal is to create a welcoming, nurturing, non-judgmental space where you feel safe to share your needs and explore the factors and patterns that may be impacting your quality of life. As an immigrant, I am particularly sensitive to the many ways different people show vulnerability, and strive to take multicultural, interpersonal, and contextual factors into account in order to get to know the multiple identities forming our whole selves.
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Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists
Why might an individual want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
A sex-positive or kinky individual may want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist because the client may feel safer and more supported discussing their experiences and challenges. A therapist who identifies as kink-friendly will have experience with clients having diverse sexual preferences and will likely be nonjudgmental and supportive about issues brought to the table. It is important to note that sex-positive, kink-allied individuals may find equal success with therapists who do not have such specialized knowledge and background. The most important factor in the success of therapy is for the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond.
Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in sex-positive, kink-allied treatment?
Generally, no. There are limited training programs and unofficial accreditations that therapists can pursue, but a therapist’s expertise will ultimately come from their previous experience with similar clients, their engagement with organizations that promote sex positivity or kink-allied lifestyles, and the importance they place on safety and cultural sensitivity.
How can individuals recognize a good sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
An experienced therapist is able to help clients explore their sexual identity and expression and relieve any discomfort or stigma attached to discussing such matters and the client’s overall challenges. A therapist who is sex-positive and kink-allied is able to create an environment that honors a client’s experience and sexual preferences. To recognize a good therapist, clients can simply ask directly about topics and issues important to them and gauge their comfort level and connection with a clinician based on the responses.
Can clients benefit from having a therapist with a focus on sex positivity and alternative sexual lifestyles?
Some individuals may feel most comfortable knowing that the clinician they’re working with has a commitment to creating an atmosphere of sex positivity and has experience with relationship diversity and alternative relationship structures. Working with a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist may help clients respect their own challenges and improve identity-affirming treatment.