Infidelity Therapists in Sacramento, CA
I’m passionate about helping individuals and couples overcome challenges surrounding intimacy, infidelity, communication, and connection.
Much of my work has focused on helping clients navigate life transitions and get out of repetitive cycles to reignite the spark that they once felt. I do this through restoring healthy foundational patterns of attachment and utilizing unique experiential techniques to get you to a place where you feel empowered to conquer life’s obstacles.
I’m passionate about helping individuals and couples overcome challenges surrounding intimacy, infidelity, communication, and connection.
Much of my work has focused on helping clients navigate life transitions and get out of repetitive cycles to reignite the spark that they once felt. I do this through restoring healthy foundational patterns of attachment and utilizing unique experiential techniques to get you to a place where you feel empowered to conquer life’s obstacles.
I enjoy working with insightful and reflective people struggling with relational issues like infidelity, intimacy, moving on from a relationship and poly/open relationships.
I primarily use Internal Family Systems (IFS), Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFT), and Narrative Therapy in my work, however, I select treatment theory based upon the needs of clients after considering the strengths of the individuals, problems being addressed and openness to particular theoretical frameworks.
I enjoy working with insightful and reflective people struggling with relational issues like infidelity, intimacy, moving on from a relationship and poly/open relationships.
I primarily use Internal Family Systems (IFS), Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFT), and Narrative Therapy in my work, however, I select treatment theory based upon the needs of clients after considering the strengths of the individuals, problems being addressed and openness to particular theoretical frameworks.
Maybe it's a relationship that's falling apart, a painful betrayal, difficulties with food and feeling comfortable in your body, or a growing sense that you've lost yourself.
I help people get unstuck in the moments when life feels the heaviest. In therapy, I bring a balance of clear insight, honest and direct feedback, and the kind of emotional depth that allows us to go beyond surface-level solutions. My goal is to not only help you understand what you’re experiencing, but how to create change and take steps in a new direction.
Maybe it's a relationship that's falling apart, a painful betrayal, difficulties with food and feeling comfortable in your body, or a growing sense that you've lost yourself.
I help people get unstuck in the moments when life feels the heaviest. In therapy, I bring a balance of clear insight, honest and direct feedback, and the kind of emotional depth that allows us to go beyond surface-level solutions. My goal is to not only help you understand what you’re experiencing, but how to create change and take steps in a new direction.
I support stressed adults and couples with trauma, infidelity, and sexual concerns.
My clients tell me that they feel like their voice truly matters, and that’s not something they’ve felt in a long time. Most of my clients have high expectations for themselves-I have high expectations for myself, too, and I work hard to support you so you can feel better. You deserve the life and relationships you want.
I support stressed adults and couples with trauma, infidelity, and sexual concerns.
My clients tell me that they feel like their voice truly matters, and that’s not something they’ve felt in a long time. Most of my clients have high expectations for themselves-I have high expectations for myself, too, and I work hard to support you so you can feel better. You deserve the life and relationships you want.
Together, we’ll explore the unconscious patterns, protective strategies, and attachment wounds shaping your relationship, so you can heal from betrayal, strengthen communication, and rediscover intimacy, self trust, and authentic connection.
I support individuals and couples to uncover the unconscious patterns and insecurities that fuel conflict. Through deeper self-understanding, we rebuild trust, repair communication, and create a more conscious, secure, and lasting foundation for emotional intimacy and connection.
Together, we’ll explore the unconscious patterns, protective strategies, and attachment wounds shaping your relationship, so you can heal from betrayal, strengthen communication, and rediscover intimacy, self trust, and authentic connection.
I support individuals and couples to uncover the unconscious patterns and insecurities that fuel conflict. Through deeper self-understanding, we rebuild trust, repair communication, and create a more conscious, secure, and lasting foundation for emotional intimacy and connection.
Going through a divorce or breakup can be devastating. It can shake your confidence and leave you feeling overwhelmed, lonely, or unsure of who you are now. But this moment doesn’t have to define you. I help men navigate the emotional fallout of relationship loss with clarity, compassion, and practical tools. Together, we work to understand what happened, strengthen what’s next, and help you rebuild a life that feels steady, meaningful, and rooted in who you’re becoming.
Going through a divorce or breakup can be devastating. It can shake your confidence and leave you feeling overwhelmed, lonely, or unsure of who you are now. But this moment doesn’t have to define you. I help men navigate the emotional fallout of relationship loss with clarity, compassion, and practical tools. Together, we work to understand what happened, strengthen what’s next, and help you rebuild a life that feels steady, meaningful, and rooted in who you’re becoming.
We can help you achieve your personal or relational goals like communication, overcoming trust/ infidelity, sex, addiction, parenting differences, past trauma (sexual, physical, emotional), repairing fractures within yourself and your relationship and more.
We do our best to offer clients outstanding services by providing our staff with ongoing training in proven and cutting-edge theory and practice. We are a nonprofit counseling that offers affordable counseling services and free workshops with flexible hours and days to meet most needs and issues.
We can help you achieve your personal or relational goals like communication, overcoming trust/ infidelity, sex, addiction, parenting differences, past trauma (sexual, physical, emotional), repairing fractures within yourself and your relationship and more.
We do our best to offer clients outstanding services by providing our staff with ongoing training in proven and cutting-edge theory and practice. We are a nonprofit counseling that offers affordable counseling services and free workshops with flexible hours and days to meet most needs and issues.
You want better emotional and physical intimacy. You've been feeling sad, disconnected and frustrated as you've been trying to work through your relationship issues yourself or with your partner. You feel stuck--you might be thinking "I love them so much, but why is this so hard?!" I help unfulfilled couples & stressed individuals create happy lives & thriving relationships. Free resources and information on how to get started is available at my website (www.lovehealgrow.com).
You want better emotional and physical intimacy. You've been feeling sad, disconnected and frustrated as you've been trying to work through your relationship issues yourself or with your partner. You feel stuck--you might be thinking "I love them so much, but why is this so hard?!" I help unfulfilled couples & stressed individuals create happy lives & thriving relationships. Free resources and information on how to get started is available at my website (www.lovehealgrow.com).
Parenting couples - life is so hard sometimes! I am a longterm therapist specializing in therapy for parents. Research shows that relationship satisfaction dips to an all time low upon becoming parents and typically lasts until your youngest child is 5. Do you want help recovering from that dip? I will help you feel more connected as a couple and less stressed as parents. Schedule directly through out site at www.lovehealgrow.com.
Parenting couples - life is so hard sometimes! I am a longterm therapist specializing in therapy for parents. Research shows that relationship satisfaction dips to an all time low upon becoming parents and typically lasts until your youngest child is 5. Do you want help recovering from that dip? I will help you feel more connected as a couple and less stressed as parents. Schedule directly through out site at www.lovehealgrow.com.
I offer individual therapy (relationships, anxiety, eating disorders), couple's therapy ( infidelity/ betrayal, communication, premarital, attachment) and Christian counseling (although I love to work with people of all faiths/backgrounds
Do you work a 9-5? I have some 7 pm slots available! This tends to work well for working professionals, parents, or busy students who are trying their best to fit therapy in to their tight schedules!
You want secure relationships. A clear mind that is not overrun with anxiety. To finally feel good in your own skin. These goals seem simple yet they feel out of reach. I am a therapist who "gets" you and isn't afraid to jump in and help sort through the chaos!
I also offer Christian counseling (by request) so that we can incorporate your values and beliefs into our therapy as we improve your mental health and relationships.
I offer individual therapy (relationships, anxiety, eating disorders), couple's therapy ( infidelity/ betrayal, communication, premarital, attachment) and Christian counseling (although I love to work with people of all faiths/backgrounds
Do you work a 9-5? I have some 7 pm slots available! This tends to work well for working professionals, parents, or busy students who are trying their best to fit therapy in to their tight schedules!
You want secure relationships. A clear mind that is not overrun with anxiety. To finally feel good in your own skin. These goals seem simple yet they feel out of reach. I am a therapist who "gets" you and isn't afraid to jump in and help sort through the chaos!
I also offer Christian counseling (by request) so that we can incorporate your values and beliefs into our therapy as we improve your mental health and relationships.
The issues I address are typically related to unhealthy sexual behaviors, infidelity, broken relationships, drugs/alcohol, dishonesty/lying, financial recklessness, and gambling.
My goal for each man I work with is to provide hope and support while facilitating the recovery process. This usually requires us to dig deep and figure out why we engage in destructive behaviors. It also requires us to develop a treatment plan that specifically targets the maladaptive behaviors and reduces the chance of relapse.
The issues I address are typically related to unhealthy sexual behaviors, infidelity, broken relationships, drugs/alcohol, dishonesty/lying, financial recklessness, and gambling.
My goal for each man I work with is to provide hope and support while facilitating the recovery process. This usually requires us to dig deep and figure out why we engage in destructive behaviors. It also requires us to develop a treatment plan that specifically targets the maladaptive behaviors and reduces the chance of relapse.
Trauma leaves wounds that don’t always heal. And you “don’t get over it,” either. Instead, it runs in the background, quietly shaping every part of your life. It’s what’s fueling your anxiety, your depression, and your relationship conflicts. That unresolved trauma is the reason you’re stuck in patterns you can’t explain – like emotional distance, frequent arguments, stress that never lets up, or unhealthy coping like substance use. Life may look “fine” from the outside, but inside, something is off. It’s a burden you carry, and it’s lonely because you feel like no one could ever really see or understand what you’re going through.
Trauma leaves wounds that don’t always heal. And you “don’t get over it,” either. Instead, it runs in the background, quietly shaping every part of your life. It’s what’s fueling your anxiety, your depression, and your relationship conflicts. That unresolved trauma is the reason you’re stuck in patterns you can’t explain – like emotional distance, frequent arguments, stress that never lets up, or unhealthy coping like substance use. Life may look “fine” from the outside, but inside, something is off. It’s a burden you carry, and it’s lonely because you feel like no one could ever really see or understand what you’re going through.
When your relationship is falling apart, nothing is more painful, lonely, and frightening. Your once best friend is now a foreign stranger, and the foundation of a family you participated in building is falling apart right before your eyes. The pain can become unbearable, and the best you can do is manage the pain so it doesn't completely destroy you. In these moments finding a solution may elude you or seem to be beyond your ability. Seeking a professional during such times can help you, and the ones you care most about in this world, get your life back on track.
When your relationship is falling apart, nothing is more painful, lonely, and frightening. Your once best friend is now a foreign stranger, and the foundation of a family you participated in building is falling apart right before your eyes. The pain can become unbearable, and the best you can do is manage the pain so it doesn't completely destroy you. In these moments finding a solution may elude you or seem to be beyond your ability. Seeking a professional during such times can help you, and the ones you care most about in this world, get your life back on track.
My ideal clients are individuals and couples facing the aftermath of infidelity.
I specialize in affair recovery for both betrayed and unfaithful partners. Using a structured, research-based approach, I help couples process the affair, rebuild trust, and decide their next steps. I offer weekly counseling and private intensive retreats tailored to your healing journey.
My ideal clients are individuals and couples facing the aftermath of infidelity.
I specialize in affair recovery for both betrayed and unfaithful partners. Using a structured, research-based approach, I help couples process the affair, rebuild trust, and decide their next steps. I offer weekly counseling and private intensive retreats tailored to your healing journey.
Maybe you've experienced a betrayal like an emotional or physical affair.
I help couples learn to communicate effectively, reconnect, and learn to prioritize their relationship. Marriage counseling should feel safe enough to explore hard things but also practical enough so that you make progress. We’ll always go at your pace, never pushing faster than you're comfortable with.
Maybe you've experienced a betrayal like an emotional or physical affair.
I help couples learn to communicate effectively, reconnect, and learn to prioritize their relationship. Marriage counseling should feel safe enough to explore hard things but also practical enough so that you make progress. We’ll always go at your pace, never pushing faster than you're comfortable with.
Abby Loyola, Betrayal Trauma/Infidelity
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MS
1 Endorsed
Online Only
This can be due to relationship pain after Infidelity, persistent anxiety or depression, or a tumultuous and painful political climate.
I specialize in working with individuals and couples struggling with Betrayal Trauma/ Infidelity, anxiety, depression, and trauma. Clients come to me looking for a therapist who gets the impact of Betrayal Trauma, anxiety, and depression and can help get to the root of it. Sessions with me are always at your pace, but with encouragement to reach your goals.
This can be due to relationship pain after Infidelity, persistent anxiety or depression, or a tumultuous and painful political climate.
I specialize in working with individuals and couples struggling with Betrayal Trauma/ Infidelity, anxiety, depression, and trauma. Clients come to me looking for a therapist who gets the impact of Betrayal Trauma, anxiety, and depression and can help get to the root of it. Sessions with me are always at your pace, but with encouragement to reach your goals.
My desire is to help you live a full life, to listen openly and without bias and to understand you outside of your problems; to help you see that you have strengths and resources that will help you get through this difficult time or the challenges you face. My goal is to help you feel hopeful again. As a couple's therapist, (I also am a collaborative divorce therapist, mediator, coach, and parent coordinator) my goal is to help the couple heal or learn how to move forward in a positive manner. I am passionate about women's issues, including peri- and post-partum, loss, infertility, and grief and work with military and their families
My desire is to help you live a full life, to listen openly and without bias and to understand you outside of your problems; to help you see that you have strengths and resources that will help you get through this difficult time or the challenges you face. My goal is to help you feel hopeful again. As a couple's therapist, (I also am a collaborative divorce therapist, mediator, coach, and parent coordinator) my goal is to help the couple heal or learn how to move forward in a positive manner. I am passionate about women's issues, including peri- and post-partum, loss, infertility, and grief and work with military and their families
As an experienced Marriage Counselor and an Infidelity Recovery Expert serving California, I have helped hundreds of couples and individuals, rebuild trust and discover deeper more fulfilling relationships.
As a mature therapist I draw from my own personal experiences and from working with many diverse people over the years. I offer a positive approach that helps couples connect. I have helped many couples when all else has failed. I also offer Tandem Marriage Counseling, meeting individually for a portion of the sessions.
As an experienced Marriage Counselor and an Infidelity Recovery Expert serving California, I have helped hundreds of couples and individuals, rebuild trust and discover deeper more fulfilling relationships.
As a mature therapist I draw from my own personal experiences and from working with many diverse people over the years. I offer a positive approach that helps couples connect. I have helped many couples when all else has failed. I also offer Tandem Marriage Counseling, meeting individually for a portion of the sessions.
I work with betrayal trauma, childhood and attachment trauma
I utilize an integrated therapeutic approach of Emotionally Focused Therapy, Trauma Informed Care, Sensate Focus, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy
I work with betrayal trauma, childhood and attachment trauma
I utilize an integrated therapeutic approach of Emotionally Focused Therapy, Trauma Informed Care, Sensate Focus, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy
I specialize in helping clients heal from infidelity, substance use, and past trauma.
Many of my clients come to me carrying heavy burdens, relationship struggles, addictions, anxiety, depression, fears, low self‑esteem, parent‑teen conflicts, or trauma that continues to affect their present relationships. They long for relief, clarity, and the ability to move forward without feeling trapped by the past. My role is to create a safe, compassionate space where those needs are honored and where healing can begin.
I specialize in helping clients heal from infidelity, substance use, and past trauma.
Many of my clients come to me carrying heavy burdens, relationship struggles, addictions, anxiety, depression, fears, low self‑esteem, parent‑teen conflicts, or trauma that continues to affect their present relationships. They long for relief, clarity, and the ability to move forward without feeling trapped by the past. My role is to create a safe, compassionate space where those needs are honored and where healing can begin.
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Infidelity Therapists
How does therapy for infidelity work?
A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.
How long does therapy for infidelity take?
Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.
How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?
When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.
How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?
Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.