Co-Parenting Counseling Therapists in Rancho Santa Fe, CA

Carole Doherty
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA, MSOL
Online Only
Life is an extraordinary journey filled with constant changes and challenges. Therapy is a powerful tool that helps us navigate our way through some of the more chaotic and confusing times. The best answers are found by looking inward; examining personal strengths, values and beliefs, to gain insight and promote personal growth. I provide individual, couples and family therapy with a focus on building healthy relationships with self, family, friends and community. Most of our significant relationships fall somewhere on the continuum between dependency and interdependency.
Life is an extraordinary journey filled with constant changes and challenges. Therapy is a powerful tool that helps us navigate our way through some of the more chaotic and confusing times. The best answers are found by looking inward; examining personal strengths, values and beliefs, to gain insight and promote personal growth. I provide individual, couples and family therapy with a focus on building healthy relationships with self, family, friends and community. Most of our significant relationships fall somewhere on the continuum between dependency and interdependency.
(619) 493-4061 View (619) 493-4061
Dr. Keith Kanner
Verified Verified
Rancho Santa Fe, CA 92067
Seeking assistance when suffering is the first hurdle in trying to feel better as making any sort of change or modification is a Very difficult endeavor even if one is motivated . True change involves a number of fundamental modifications including Cognitive , Behavioral , Physical , Emotional, Social , and Personality maturity. Furthermore , Change is a process, not an immediate phenomenon. My Health & Wellness Program combines these and other proven methods of Change into a 3-Month intensified , but rewarding experience. My Client satisfaction has been consistently excellent. I look forward in helping you make the changes you believe will improve your Life forever.
Seeking assistance when suffering is the first hurdle in trying to feel better as making any sort of change or modification is a Very difficult endeavor even if one is motivated . True change involves a number of fundamental modifications including Cognitive , Behavioral , Physical , Emotional, Social , and Personality maturity. Furthermore , Change is a process, not an immediate phenomenon. My Health & Wellness Program combines these and other proven methods of Change into a 3-Month intensified , but rewarding experience. My Client satisfaction has been consistently excellent. I look forward in helping you make the changes you believe will improve your Life forever.
(619) 552-3538 View (619) 552-3538
Prana Seth
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Rancho Santa Fe, CA 92067
Are you looking to start individual or couples therapy? Life is busy and messy. Between work, relationships, family expectations, and daily demands, it can be hard to slow down and make sense of what’s happening. Therapy creates space to pause and reflect — to distinguish between the loud voice of self-criticism and the quieter wisdom of your inner compass. Together, we shift from reactivity to intention, strengthen communication, and build greater clarity, confidence, and self-trust. For more info on my work, check out my personal website: Pranapsychotherapy.
Are you looking to start individual or couples therapy? Life is busy and messy. Between work, relationships, family expectations, and daily demands, it can be hard to slow down and make sense of what’s happening. Therapy creates space to pause and reflect — to distinguish between the loud voice of self-criticism and the quieter wisdom of your inner compass. Together, we shift from reactivity to intention, strengthen communication, and build greater clarity, confidence, and self-trust. For more info on my work, check out my personal website: Pranapsychotherapy.
(424) 401-7718 View (424) 401-7718
Dr. Melanie A Greenberg
Psychologist, PhD
Rancho Santa Fe, CA 92067
Are you struggling with anxiety, trauma, stress, relationship problems, grief, a major life transition? Perhaps you've been coping the best you can, but your usual strategies no longer work. You may feel stuck or caught in patterns that keep repeating despite your best efforts. I help adults, teens, and couples understand the thoughts, emotions, relationship patterns, and nervous system responses that keep you stuck. Clients often describe me as warm, collaborative, and encouraging. I strive to create a safe, supportive environment where you feel understood while also gently challenging the patterns that keep you stuck.
Are you struggling with anxiety, trauma, stress, relationship problems, grief, a major life transition? Perhaps you've been coping the best you can, but your usual strategies no longer work. You may feel stuck or caught in patterns that keep repeating despite your best efforts. I help adults, teens, and couples understand the thoughts, emotions, relationship patterns, and nervous system responses that keep you stuck. Clients often describe me as warm, collaborative, and encouraging. I strive to create a safe, supportive environment where you feel understood while also gently challenging the patterns that keep you stuck.
(858) 203-2131 View (858) 203-2131
Johanna Crespin
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Currently accepting in-person and telehealth clients. Optional on-site childcare is available during in-person sessions. I’m glad you’re here. I know how hard it can be to reach out for support and how important it is to feel safe and truly seen. I work with individuals and couples navigating trauma, relationship challenges, neurodivergence, postpartum and parenting transitions, and emotional overwhelm. My approach is warm, collaborative, and deeply affirming, with a focus on helping you feel more grounded, reconnect with your strengths, heal from past experiences, and move toward the life and relationships you want.
Currently accepting in-person and telehealth clients. Optional on-site childcare is available during in-person sessions. I’m glad you’re here. I know how hard it can be to reach out for support and how important it is to feel safe and truly seen. I work with individuals and couples navigating trauma, relationship challenges, neurodivergence, postpartum and parenting transitions, and emotional overwhelm. My approach is warm, collaborative, and deeply affirming, with a focus on helping you feel more grounded, reconnect with your strengths, heal from past experiences, and move toward the life and relationships you want.
(760) 615-3457 View (760) 615-3457
Theresa Walker
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Serves Area
I am an LCSW therapist located in Poway California. I specialize in EMDR therapy, PTSD, domestic violence, children's play therapy, grief and loss issues and self esteem building. I see individuals, couples, families and have group therapy sessions. I am committed to helping individuals, couples and families develop the relationships they desire among other people and themselves. My office is a safe place to begin the process of change and help people learn the tools needed in order to make the desired changes.
I am an LCSW therapist located in Poway California. I specialize in EMDR therapy, PTSD, domestic violence, children's play therapy, grief and loss issues and self esteem building. I see individuals, couples, families and have group therapy sessions. I am committed to helping individuals, couples and families develop the relationships they desire among other people and themselves. My office is a safe place to begin the process of change and help people learn the tools needed in order to make the desired changes.
(858) 386-4709 View (858) 386-4709
Association for Compassionate Transformation
Psychologist, PsyD
Serves Area
Would you like to be successful emotionally, socially, spiritually and professionally? Do you need assistance directing personal growth, relationships, family life or your career? I specialize in assisting individuals to lead a productive life, a meaningful existence and reach their highest potential.
Would you like to be successful emotionally, socially, spiritually and professionally? Do you need assistance directing personal growth, relationships, family life or your career? I specialize in assisting individuals to lead a productive life, a meaningful existence and reach their highest potential.
(858) 367-3966 View (858) 367-3966
Heidi Furnish
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
If you are an individual, couple or family struggling with stress, difficult emotions, relationship issues, trauma or any other life challenge, I am here to provide a safe space to help you find hope and restoration. Difficulties come our way unexpectedly and in many different ways. I am dedicated to getting to know each person’s story with compassion and respect, and working collaboratively towards the achievement of the personal and collective goals of my clients.
If you are an individual, couple or family struggling with stress, difficult emotions, relationship issues, trauma or any other life challenge, I am here to provide a safe space to help you find hope and restoration. Difficulties come our way unexpectedly and in many different ways. I am dedicated to getting to know each person’s story with compassion and respect, and working collaboratively towards the achievement of the personal and collective goals of my clients.
(406) 306-7211 View (406) 306-7211
Dr. Pontea Dianati
Verified Verified
Serves Area
Pontea Dianati, PhD, is a doctor of psychology, holistic coach, and spiritual guide with over 15 years of experience supporting deep personal and spiritual transformation. With a doctorate in clinical psychology and extensive training in energy psychology and consciousness-based practices, her work integrates psychological insight with intuitive and spiritual support. Her approach honors both inner inquiry and spiritual awareness, offering a supportive space where emotional healing, energetic clearing, and soul-level remembrance can unfold with care and intention.
Pontea Dianati, PhD, is a doctor of psychology, holistic coach, and spiritual guide with over 15 years of experience supporting deep personal and spiritual transformation. With a doctorate in clinical psychology and extensive training in energy psychology and consciousness-based practices, her work integrates psychological insight with intuitive and spiritual support. Her approach honors both inner inquiry and spiritual awareness, offering a supportive space where emotional healing, energetic clearing, and soul-level remembrance can unfold with care and intention.
(619) 304-8352 View (619) 304-8352
Camille Carter
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Hello, My name is Camille Carter and I have been supporting and guiding others as a Clinician for 26 years. Seeking therapy is the best gift you can give to yourself and to those around you. Together we create goals, develop ways to better manage day to day life, relationships and stressors. Therapy is a journey towards healing, growing and creating a life with more peace, joy and contentment.
Hello, My name is Camille Carter and I have been supporting and guiding others as a Clinician for 26 years. Seeking therapy is the best gift you can give to yourself and to those around you. Together we create goals, develop ways to better manage day to day life, relationships and stressors. Therapy is a journey towards healing, growing and creating a life with more peace, joy and contentment.
(619) 870-1432 View (619) 870-1432
Kristin Hirt
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Online Only
I welcome you to come as you are. I help folks who grew up in highly stressed, conflictual, and/ or dysfunctional families of origin, who didn’t receive emotional attunement or support from their parent(s), who were neglected, abandoned, excessively criticized, and/ or abused - often in the presence of parental narcissism, substance abuse, and/or mental illness. I offer support with grieving that experience, growing internal self-worth and confidence, managing anxiety. I’ll coach you in recognizing and honoring your feelings and needs, finding your voice, setting boundaries, and asserting your needs in all sorts of relationships.
I welcome you to come as you are. I help folks who grew up in highly stressed, conflictual, and/ or dysfunctional families of origin, who didn’t receive emotional attunement or support from their parent(s), who were neglected, abandoned, excessively criticized, and/ or abused - often in the presence of parental narcissism, substance abuse, and/or mental illness. I offer support with grieving that experience, growing internal self-worth and confidence, managing anxiety. I’ll coach you in recognizing and honoring your feelings and needs, finding your voice, setting boundaries, and asserting your needs in all sorts of relationships.
(510) 872-2336 View (510) 872-2336
Men's Issues - Dr. Dean
Psychologist, PsyD, QME, Author
Serves Area
I have been in practice since 2007 and have been featured on ABC, NBC, and KCAL as an expert psychologist. I work primarily with men who have hit “rock bottom” and would like help getting up. These men are often in crisis when we first meet. The issues I address are typically related to unhealthy sexual behaviors, infidelity, broken relationships, drugs/alcohol, dishonesty/lying, financial recklessness, and gambling. My therapy approach is a combination of psychoanalytic, cognitive-behavioral, and the 12-Step recovery model. I also share insight from my own painful but redemptive recovery journey.
I have been in practice since 2007 and have been featured on ABC, NBC, and KCAL as an expert psychologist. I work primarily with men who have hit “rock bottom” and would like help getting up. These men are often in crisis when we first meet. The issues I address are typically related to unhealthy sexual behaviors, infidelity, broken relationships, drugs/alcohol, dishonesty/lying, financial recklessness, and gambling. My therapy approach is a combination of psychoanalytic, cognitive-behavioral, and the 12-Step recovery model. I also share insight from my own painful but redemptive recovery journey.
(760) 491-6639 View (760) 491-6639
Evan Simmons
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
6 Endorsed
Serves Area
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, specializing in Cognitive Behavior Therapy. I have experience and great interest in working with and empowering, children, adolescents, adults and families. I began my career working with young children diagnosed with Autism, ADHD, and other related childhood disorders. Since then, I have expanded and continued my work with children, families, adolescents, and adults struggling with symptoms related to family difficulties, ADHD, Anxiety, Depression, career and social challenges, and other mental health concerns.
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, specializing in Cognitive Behavior Therapy. I have experience and great interest in working with and empowering, children, adolescents, adults and families. I began my career working with young children diagnosed with Autism, ADHD, and other related childhood disorders. Since then, I have expanded and continued my work with children, families, adolescents, and adults struggling with symptoms related to family difficulties, ADHD, Anxiety, Depression, career and social challenges, and other mental health concerns.
(805) 754-2392 View (805) 754-2392
Thomas E Bell
Marriage & Family Therapist
Serves Area
I prefer clients who are receptive to looking at their situation as a result of earlier decisions and experiences. I am not judgemental or critical. I try to help clients make sense of their situation.
I prefer clients who are receptive to looking at their situation as a result of earlier decisions and experiences. I am not judgemental or critical. I try to help clients make sense of their situation.
(858) 217-4873 View (858) 217-4873
Daniel Menely
Licensed Professional Counselor, LMHC, MA
Online Only
Most couples who find their way here have already tried talking it through — and keep ending up in the same place. The problem usually isn't effort or intention. It's that they're missing a framework built on what actually works. I'm a Gottman Method Level 3 practitioner with 15 years teaching communication at NYU Tisch. I work with couples navigating conflict, emotional distance, eroded trust, and affair recovery — and with individuals dealing with anxiety, burnout, and major life transitions.
Most couples who find their way here have already tried talking it through — and keep ending up in the same place. The problem usually isn't effort or intention. It's that they're missing a framework built on what actually works. I'm a Gottman Method Level 3 practitioner with 15 years teaching communication at NYU Tisch. I work with couples navigating conflict, emotional distance, eroded trust, and affair recovery — and with individuals dealing with anxiety, burnout, and major life transitions.
(925) 709-5374 View (925) 709-5374
Carmen - Veritas Therapy and Wellness
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, LPCC
3 Endorsed
Online Only
Find your way back to your most authentic self. You’ve been resilient for a long time, but "getting by" isn't the same as thriving. If anxiety, trauma, or the weight of a major life change has you feeling disconnected, it’s time for a different approach. Welcome, I’m Carmen (Lic. 16818), and my goal is to help you bridge the gap between where you are and where you want to be. I specialize in helping adults navigate life’s toughest transitions by combining 10+ years of experience with evidence based practices that actually work. You’ve already taken the first step by being here let’s do the rest together. Open to all CA residents!
Find your way back to your most authentic self. You’ve been resilient for a long time, but "getting by" isn't the same as thriving. If anxiety, trauma, or the weight of a major life change has you feeling disconnected, it’s time for a different approach. Welcome, I’m Carmen (Lic. 16818), and my goal is to help you bridge the gap between where you are and where you want to be. I specialize in helping adults navigate life’s toughest transitions by combining 10+ years of experience with evidence based practices that actually work. You’ve already taken the first step by being here let’s do the rest together. Open to all CA residents!
(619) 724-5158 View (619) 724-5158
Brad P. Miller, Psy.D.
Psychologist, PsyD
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Feeling overwhelmed because of life's increasing demands? Feeling like you have exhausted your resources and have run out of options to change your situation? I strongly believe that when we experience a supportive and encouraging environment coupled with practical, solution-focused guidance, we can discover new possibilities and find the strength to make change. As a licensed clinical psychologist for over 25 years, I specialize in individual therapy for adolescents and adults. As a solution-focused psychologist I help clients develop the necessary tools to attain the personal growth they are committed to accomplishing.
Feeling overwhelmed because of life's increasing demands? Feeling like you have exhausted your resources and have run out of options to change your situation? I strongly believe that when we experience a supportive and encouraging environment coupled with practical, solution-focused guidance, we can discover new possibilities and find the strength to make change. As a licensed clinical psychologist for over 25 years, I specialize in individual therapy for adolescents and adults. As a solution-focused psychologist I help clients develop the necessary tools to attain the personal growth they are committed to accomplishing.
(858) 437-9958 View (858) 437-9958
Randy Buckley
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Online Only
I am a Licensed Clinical Therapist with over 25 years of experience working with children, teens, adults and families. I specialize in treating depression, anxiety, ADHD, trauma, PTSD, physical/sexual and emotional abuse, parenting, parent-child conflict, grief, relationship issues and divorce issues. I am currently only offering tele therapy and only work with adults. Online therapy can be offered in the comfort of your own home.
I am a Licensed Clinical Therapist with over 25 years of experience working with children, teens, adults and families. I specialize in treating depression, anxiety, ADHD, trauma, PTSD, physical/sexual and emotional abuse, parenting, parent-child conflict, grief, relationship issues and divorce issues. I am currently only offering tele therapy and only work with adults. Online therapy can be offered in the comfort of your own home.
(619) 432-6571 View (619) 432-6571
Steven D Solomon
Psychologist, PhD
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
For many years I worked almost exclusively with individuals, helping them overcome depression, anxiety and other issues and maladies that were ruining their lives. Then, about 25 years ago, after hearing so many horror stories from couples about their previous couples therapy experiences, I decided to specialize in working with couples and completed advanced couples therapy training. I help couples heal and rebuild their relationship, creating the intimate, loving and happy relationship that they have been yearning for but could not previously achieve, the relationship in which both partners feel safe, respected and fully loved.
For many years I worked almost exclusively with individuals, helping them overcome depression, anxiety and other issues and maladies that were ruining their lives. Then, about 25 years ago, after hearing so many horror stories from couples about their previous couples therapy experiences, I decided to specialize in working with couples and completed advanced couples therapy training. I help couples heal and rebuild their relationship, creating the intimate, loving and happy relationship that they have been yearning for but could not previously achieve, the relationship in which both partners feel safe, respected and fully loved.
(619) 378-4225 View (619) 378-4225
Kenneth Fried
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Serves Area
Ken is a passionate and seasoned Marriage and Family therapist who has been helping people improve the quality of their lives and relationships for over 35 years. Equal parts clinician, healer and coach, Ken has a unique way of helping people identify and dissolve the obstacles that have been limiting their greater fulfillment and success in life. With an emphasis on personal growth and the deeper work of Self-discovery, he patiently guides his clients towards their best version of themselves. When clients can begin producing dramatically new outcomes and results in their daily lives, he knows his unique brand of therapy is working!
Ken is a passionate and seasoned Marriage and Family therapist who has been helping people improve the quality of their lives and relationships for over 35 years. Equal parts clinician, healer and coach, Ken has a unique way of helping people identify and dissolve the obstacles that have been limiting their greater fulfillment and success in life. With an emphasis on personal growth and the deeper work of Self-discovery, he patiently guides his clients towards their best version of themselves. When clients can begin producing dramatically new outcomes and results in their daily lives, he knows his unique brand of therapy is working!
(760) 845-2745 View (760) 845-2745

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FAQ - Co-Parenting Counseling
What happens in co-parenting counseling?
Co-parenting usually refers to the shared responsibility of raising a child after parents separate or divorce. Even when both parents want what is best for their child, co-parenting can bring stress, conflict, and major adjustment for the whole family. In co-parenting counseling, a therapist helps parents work through these challenges. Common topics in co-parenting counseling include communication difficulties, parenting differences, and their child’s well-being. In many cases, co-parents attend counseling sessions together, allowing the counselor to help them practice communication and problem-solving in “real-time”. Depending on the situation, one or both parents may also meet individually with the therapist before or during the counseling process.

How do I know if co-parenting counseling is right for our situation?
In most cases, co-parenting counseling is voluntarily sought by parents; however, it may also be court-ordered in certain family law cases. When counseling is not required, there is no single sign that a family “needs” it. Some parents begin counseling early to help everyone adjust to new roles, routines, and expectations before any more significant conflict emerges. Counseling may be especially helpful, however, when parents are dealing with ongoing communication problems, repeated disagreements about parenting decisions, or difficulty helping a child adjust between homes. If the same issues keep coming up despite your efforts to resolve them, co-parenting counseling can offer a more structured and supportive way to move forward.

Do both parents have to agree to attend co-parenting counseling?
If co-parenting counseling is court-ordered, it may be required that both parents attend counseling for an allotted amount of time. However, for those voluntarily seeking co-parenting counseling, it is up to you and your counselor to decide who will attend sessions. Many therapists encourage both parents to attend sessions, but if one parent is particularly reluctant, unavailable, or if there are safety concerns, one parent may choose to attend counseling on their own. Individual support can still help a parent improve their own communication skills, set boundaries, and respond to co-parenting challenges more effectively.

How do I bring up co-parenting counseling to a reluctant co-parent?
It can help to frame co-parenting counseling around your child’s well-being, rather than blame or criticism toward the co-parent. For example, you might say that you want to create more consistency for the child across households or help the child navigate school challenges in a more effective way. Timing also matters when bringing up the topic of counseling. It is usually best not to raise the idea during an argument or moment of high tension. Instead, choose a calm time, and offer the other parent a say in choosing the therapist, scheduling sessions, or deciding what goals to focus on in sessions.