Secular and Non-Religious Therapists in Poway, CA
Are you feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or carrying something that feels too heavy to bear?
Maybe anxiety, past experiences, or relationship patterns keep showing up in ways that create distress. You might feel disconnected from yourself, caught in cycles of fear, shame, or self-doubt—and ready for transformation.
I work with adults experienci trauma, anxiety, and life transitions who are ready for deeper, lasting change. Together, we create a safe, grounded space to process your experiences, understand your patterns, and reconnect with yourself.
I also support clients navigating the emotional impact of stigma, shame and isolation.
Are you feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or carrying something that feels too heavy to bear?
Maybe anxiety, past experiences, or relationship patterns keep showing up in ways that create distress. You might feel disconnected from yourself, caught in cycles of fear, shame, or self-doubt—and ready for transformation.
I work with adults experienci trauma, anxiety, and life transitions who are ready for deeper, lasting change. Together, we create a safe, grounded space to process your experiences, understand your patterns, and reconnect with yourself.
I also support clients navigating the emotional impact of stigma, shame and isolation.
Therapy isn't about becoming someone different—it's about understanding yourself, breaking free from patterns that keep you stuck, and creating a life that feels more like your own. I work with adults navigating anxiety, depression, relationship challenges, life transitions, stress, grief, and emotional distress. Together, we'll build insight, develop practical skills, and create lasting change using evidence-based approaches. My goal is to help you leave therapy feeling more confident, capable, and equipped to navigate life's challenges.
Therapy isn't about becoming someone different—it's about understanding yourself, breaking free from patterns that keep you stuck, and creating a life that feels more like your own. I work with adults navigating anxiety, depression, relationship challenges, life transitions, stress, grief, and emotional distress. Together, we'll build insight, develop practical skills, and create lasting change using evidence-based approaches. My goal is to help you leave therapy feeling more confident, capable, and equipped to navigate life's challenges.
Whether you're seeking support for anxiety, life transitions, relationships, or the unique experiences that come with being autistic or neurodivergent, therapy can provide a space to feel understood, supported, and empowered. My goal is to create a collaborative, affirming environment where you can develop practical tools while honoring your authentic self. My approach is collaborative, evidence-based, and tailored to each client's unique strengths, needs, and goals.
Whether you're seeking support for anxiety, life transitions, relationships, or the unique experiences that come with being autistic or neurodivergent, therapy can provide a space to feel understood, supported, and empowered. My goal is to create a collaborative, affirming environment where you can develop practical tools while honoring your authentic self. My approach is collaborative, evidence-based, and tailored to each client's unique strengths, needs, and goals.
I became a therapist to encourage self growth and reflection and promote change for a better state of mind. I welcome individuals who feel overwhelmed by anxiety, loss of self, and those who are searching for more meaningful relationships. I enjoy working with individuals who are interested in finding additional support in their relationships.
I became a therapist to encourage self growth and reflection and promote change for a better state of mind. I welcome individuals who feel overwhelmed by anxiety, loss of self, and those who are searching for more meaningful relationships. I enjoy working with individuals who are interested in finding additional support in their relationships.
Paisley Dutcher @WAVE
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Waitlist for new clients
Your mind is unique. Let’s explore it together! My work is based on reinforcing your strengths and building compassion for your struggles. I am trained in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and use evidence based techniques to address anxiety, depression, emotional distress, and relational challenges (platonic, romantic, or familial).
Together we can make your unique mind work for you.
Your mind is unique. Let’s explore it together! My work is based on reinforcing your strengths and building compassion for your struggles. I am trained in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and use evidence based techniques to address anxiety, depression, emotional distress, and relational challenges (platonic, romantic, or familial).
Together we can make your unique mind work for you.
I’m currently accepting new clients. Over the past 10 years, social equality has been the focus of my career. I have a passion for family systems and understanding the role each individual has. Together we’ll explore what life has asked you to bear with child trauma, addiction and domestic abuse. We'll begin building a new chapter rooted in your strength and authenticity. My style is warm yet practical, rooted in the belief that you already have tools inside you- sometimes just needing support to uncover and apply them to real-life change.
I’m currently accepting new clients. Over the past 10 years, social equality has been the focus of my career. I have a passion for family systems and understanding the role each individual has. Together we’ll explore what life has asked you to bear with child trauma, addiction and domestic abuse. We'll begin building a new chapter rooted in your strength and authenticity. My style is warm yet practical, rooted in the belief that you already have tools inside you- sometimes just needing support to uncover and apply them to real-life change.
Are you feeling alone in managing your diabetes/other chronic illness, and struggling with the burnout, grief, anxiety, and other mental health challenges that come with it? I provide a safe space where we can unpack it all and work together to improve your emotional well-being.
I found Strive to Thrive Psychology to improve the quality of life and mental health of adults living with Type 1 or Type 2 diabetes, autoimmune disorders, mood disorders and other chronic invisible illnesses/invisible disability, as well as supporting their caregivers and loved ones. I would be honored to be a part of your journey to live your best life.
Are you feeling alone in managing your diabetes/other chronic illness, and struggling with the burnout, grief, anxiety, and other mental health challenges that come with it? I provide a safe space where we can unpack it all and work together to improve your emotional well-being.
I found Strive to Thrive Psychology to improve the quality of life and mental health of adults living with Type 1 or Type 2 diabetes, autoimmune disorders, mood disorders and other chronic invisible illnesses/invisible disability, as well as supporting their caregivers and loved ones. I would be honored to be a part of your journey to live your best life.
I’m Alex! I’m a queer therapist who believes our identities, experiences, and values shape who we are and how we move through the world. I care deeply about supporting people in building lives that are authentic & aligned with what truly matters to them.
Many people I work with are exploring questions around identity, belonging, and what it means to live authentically in a world that can make that complicated. I also believe it’s important to acknowledge the larger systems and pressures we’re all navigating, and therapy can be a place to process the anger, grief, joy, hope, and resilience that come with living in today’s world.
I’m Alex! I’m a queer therapist who believes our identities, experiences, and values shape who we are and how we move through the world. I care deeply about supporting people in building lives that are authentic & aligned with what truly matters to them.
Many people I work with are exploring questions around identity, belonging, and what it means to live authentically in a world that can make that complicated. I also believe it’s important to acknowledge the larger systems and pressures we’re all navigating, and therapy can be a place to process the anger, grief, joy, hope, and resilience that come with living in today’s world.
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I help trauma survivors heal from the past so they can live their lives to the fullest. I frequently work with folks who have left an oppressive religion, escaped an abusive relationship, or survived sexual trauma. If you feel haunted by your past, ashamed of what you had to endure to survive, or unsure of who you truly are, you've come to the right place. You deserve to be truly free from what you have overcome. I would be honored to support you as you heal from the past, find and embrace your true self, and create your new authentic life.
I help trauma survivors heal from the past so they can live their lives to the fullest. I frequently work with folks who have left an oppressive religion, escaped an abusive relationship, or survived sexual trauma. If you feel haunted by your past, ashamed of what you had to endure to survive, or unsure of who you truly are, you've come to the right place. You deserve to be truly free from what you have overcome. I would be honored to support you as you heal from the past, find and embrace your true self, and create your new authentic life.
I provide individual therapy for concerns like complex PTSD, anxiety and panic, religious trauma, scrupulosity and moral injury, identity development, relationship and family strain, political stress, and body image. If you are navigating a faith transition or life after a high-demand group, you may feel thoughtful yet anxious or numb, worn down by shame and people-pleasing. You want language for what happened, relief in your body, and a steadier sense of self. Together we will process trauma, set boundaries, separate fear from values, and rebuild relationships based on consent and choice.
I provide individual therapy for concerns like complex PTSD, anxiety and panic, religious trauma, scrupulosity and moral injury, identity development, relationship and family strain, political stress, and body image. If you are navigating a faith transition or life after a high-demand group, you may feel thoughtful yet anxious or numb, worn down by shame and people-pleasing. You want language for what happened, relief in your body, and a steadier sense of self. Together we will process trauma, set boundaries, separate fear from values, and rebuild relationships based on consent and choice.
Alyssa
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, LPCC
4 Endorsed
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
Does life feel stuck on “hard mode”? Maybe anxiety is loud, self-doubt won’t quiet down, or old memories keep resurfacing. Big changes can feel overwhelming—and constantly replaying the past or worrying about the future is exhausting.
What if things could feel lighter? What if past experiences didn’t bother you?
Therapy is a space to unpack what’s heavy, quiet the mental noise, and learn tools that work in real life. Together, we’ll help you feel steadier, more confident, and back in control—one manageable, meaningful step at a time.
Does life feel stuck on “hard mode”? Maybe anxiety is loud, self-doubt won’t quiet down, or old memories keep resurfacing. Big changes can feel overwhelming—and constantly replaying the past or worrying about the future is exhausting.
What if things could feel lighter? What if past experiences didn’t bother you?
Therapy is a space to unpack what’s heavy, quiet the mental noise, and learn tools that work in real life. Together, we’ll help you feel steadier, more confident, and back in control—one manageable, meaningful step at a time.
I believe the wounds that shape us most aren't always the dramatic ones. Sometimes it's growing up feeling like you were too much – or never quite enough. Learning that love had to be earned, not simply given or received. Then abandoning yourself to keep others close – or pushing people away before they could leave first. These things leave a mark. They show up in your relationships, your self-worth, and the way you move through the world. You might not even call it trauma, but somewhere along the way, something taught you that it wasn't safe to trust, to need, or to feel – and you've been quietly working around that ever since.
I believe the wounds that shape us most aren't always the dramatic ones. Sometimes it's growing up feeling like you were too much – or never quite enough. Learning that love had to be earned, not simply given or received. Then abandoning yourself to keep others close – or pushing people away before they could leave first. These things leave a mark. They show up in your relationships, your self-worth, and the way you move through the world. You might not even call it trauma, but somewhere along the way, something taught you that it wasn't safe to trust, to need, or to feel – and you've been quietly working around that ever since.
Therapy, while helpful, can be complicated by systemic and environmental concerns. As a Queer and neurodivergent Filipino immigrant, I honor the struggles young adults, adults, and older adults face living in our rapidly-changing society, specializing in supporting them through life transitions, relationships, and emotional concerns to build their lives through a trauma-informed, culturally-responsive, and affirming framework.
Therapy, while helpful, can be complicated by systemic and environmental concerns. As a Queer and neurodivergent Filipino immigrant, I honor the struggles young adults, adults, and older adults face living in our rapidly-changing society, specializing in supporting them through life transitions, relationships, and emotional concerns to build their lives through a trauma-informed, culturally-responsive, and affirming framework.
My clients come from communities which have often not been well served by traditional mental healthcare - queer, trans, non-monogamous, polyamorous, and kinky people seeking support have sought me out knowing there is no need to explain or justify who they are. I specialize in working with religious trauma, asexuality, neurodiversity, and burn out as well. I am trauma informed and work from an intersectional lens to help my clients process trauma, work through major life transitions, and explore identity and personal goals.
My clients come from communities which have often not been well served by traditional mental healthcare - queer, trans, non-monogamous, polyamorous, and kinky people seeking support have sought me out knowing there is no need to explain or justify who they are. I specialize in working with religious trauma, asexuality, neurodiversity, and burn out as well. I am trauma informed and work from an intersectional lens to help my clients process trauma, work through major life transitions, and explore identity and personal goals.
I am an AuDHD, queer, nonbinary, and white multicultural therapist offering affirming online therapy throughout California. I focus on neurodivergence, trauma, trans and nonbinary experiences, non-monogamous and mixed-neurotype relationships, and navigating burnout in all areas of life under capitalism.
It can feel isolating when you’re misunderstood, especially when living with trauma or marginalized identities. To restore that sense of connection, I believe healing isn’t just about what happens in therapy; it’s also about finding belonging in the world outside of it.
I am an AuDHD, queer, nonbinary, and white multicultural therapist offering affirming online therapy throughout California. I focus on neurodivergence, trauma, trans and nonbinary experiences, non-monogamous and mixed-neurotype relationships, and navigating burnout in all areas of life under capitalism.
It can feel isolating when you’re misunderstood, especially when living with trauma or marginalized identities. To restore that sense of connection, I believe healing isn’t just about what happens in therapy; it’s also about finding belonging in the world outside of it.
I work with adults ages 20 to 60 who are feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or dissatisfied with how life is going. Many are struggling with anxiety, depression, anger, relationship difficulties, stress, or major life transitions. Others simply have a sense that something isn't quite right but can't put their finger on why. Together, we work to understand what's driving these patterns, develop practical coping skills, and create lasting change that helps you feel more confident and fulfilled.
I work with adults ages 20 to 60 who are feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or dissatisfied with how life is going. Many are struggling with anxiety, depression, anger, relationship difficulties, stress, or major life transitions. Others simply have a sense that something isn't quite right but can't put their finger on why. Together, we work to understand what's driving these patterns, develop practical coping skills, and create lasting change that helps you feel more confident and fulfilled.
I work with adolescents, teens, young adults, and adults who feel overwhelmed, anxious, stuck, disconnected, or unsure of where to go next. Together, we'll explore what's getting in the way while building insight, resilience, and a path toward healing. I also support clients navigating anxiety, depression, ADHD, neurodivergence, relationship concerns, identity exploration, LGBTQIA+ experiences, anger, and mild substance use concerns.
I work with adolescents, teens, young adults, and adults who feel overwhelmed, anxious, stuck, disconnected, or unsure of where to go next. Together, we'll explore what's getting in the way while building insight, resilience, and a path toward healing. I also support clients navigating anxiety, depression, ADHD, neurodivergence, relationship concerns, identity exploration, LGBTQIA+ experiences, anger, and mild substance use concerns.
Hey you! I can only imagine how many other profiles you have tirelessly scrolled through trying to find that right fit just for you. Well as you take a pause here, I’d love to share my favorite quote by Maya Angelou that says this: “I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will NEVER forget how you made them feel.” Now I can only imagine and empathize with you as to what feeling lead you here at this very moment. Feelings such as depression, anxiety, grief, behavioral issues with pre-teens/teens, family conflict, lack of anger management, suicidal thoughts, etc.
Hey you! I can only imagine how many other profiles you have tirelessly scrolled through trying to find that right fit just for you. Well as you take a pause here, I’d love to share my favorite quote by Maya Angelou that says this: “I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will NEVER forget how you made them feel.” Now I can only imagine and empathize with you as to what feeling lead you here at this very moment. Feelings such as depression, anxiety, grief, behavioral issues with pre-teens/teens, family conflict, lack of anger management, suicidal thoughts, etc.
Therapy for Men Who Want to Feel Like Themselves Again.
Most of the men I work with don't come to therapy because they want to become someone new. They come because something doesn't feel like them anymore.
Maybe confidence has faded. Maybe anxiety has gotten louder. Maybe relationships don't feel the way you hoped they would. Or maybe you're simply tired of carrying everything on your own.
As a gay therapist, I specialize in working with men experiencing depression, anxiety, relationships, identity, and masculinity. Many of my clients are gay, bisexual, queer, or questioning, but anyone who connects with my approach is welcome.
Therapy for Men Who Want to Feel Like Themselves Again.
Most of the men I work with don't come to therapy because they want to become someone new. They come because something doesn't feel like them anymore.
Maybe confidence has faded. Maybe anxiety has gotten louder. Maybe relationships don't feel the way you hoped they would. Or maybe you're simply tired of carrying everything on your own.
As a gay therapist, I specialize in working with men experiencing depression, anxiety, relationships, identity, and masculinity. Many of my clients are gay, bisexual, queer, or questioning, but anyone who connects with my approach is welcome.
Autism/ADHD assessments offered at a reasonable fee (sliding scale).
Neurodivergent therapist specializing in support for Black, brown, indigenous, queer and trans people who have historically needed therapy and been denied access. I have worked in the field of psychology since 2002 and am passionate about helping individuals, families/couples achieve more connection, insight and awareness. I have concentrated experience working with marginalized groups, formerly incarcerated, people with sexual trauma and people struggling with racial trauma/discrimination. I provide direct, compassionate feedback to help with goal achievement.
Autism/ADHD assessments offered at a reasonable fee (sliding scale).
Neurodivergent therapist specializing in support for Black, brown, indigenous, queer and trans people who have historically needed therapy and been denied access. I have worked in the field of psychology since 2002 and am passionate about helping individuals, families/couples achieve more connection, insight and awareness. I have concentrated experience working with marginalized groups, formerly incarcerated, people with sexual trauma and people struggling with racial trauma/discrimination. I provide direct, compassionate feedback to help with goal achievement.
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Secular and Non-Religious Therapists
What is a secular and non religious approach in therapy?
Secular or non-religious therapy is a theoretical orientation used by many therapists and describes a therapeutic approach that does not rely on any specific religious or faith-based beliefs in the therapeutic process. Secular counselors will often approach therapy with an emphasis on evidence-based practices, such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) or Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) to help clients, instead of relying on religious practices, such as prayer or belief in God.
Is secular therapy primarily for non-religious people?
Both religious and non-religious individuals can benefit from secular therapy. People exploring their religious or spiritual beliefs may find it especially useful to work with a secular therapist who is unbiased toward any specific religion. While religious individuals might value the connection and familiarity of seeing a counselor who shares their beliefs, secular counseling can offer them the chance to develop coping skills independent of their religious practice, which can be beneficial in various aspects of their lives.
Can a secular approach to therapy help with religious trauma?
One major reason clients may seek a secular therapist is to process previous religious experiences, including religious trauma. Secular therapists can help clients manage symptoms of the trauma through practices such as Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) therapy or Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT). They can also encourage clients through talk therapy or psychodynamic approaches to explore the roots of their religious trauma. Since secular therapists do not have any predetermined religious beliefs, they can be particularly helpful for clients looking to explore their own religious beliefs following a history of religious trauma.
What does non religious marriage and premarital counseling involve?
Marriage and premarital counseling typically involves a couple meeting with a therapist to discuss topics such as planning for marriage, navigating a new marriage, addressing relationship challenges, and developing better communication and conflict resolution skills. Non-religious therapists assist couples in achieving these goals without adhering to specific religious beliefs or frameworks, often emphasizing inclusivity and non-judgment, especially for "nontraditional" couples. However, seeking couples therapy from a non-religious counselor does not mean religious topics are off-limits. In fact, non-religious couples from different religious backgrounds may benefit from a secular therapist who remains neutral toward the beliefs of each partner.