Narcissistic Personality (NPD) Therapists in Poway, CA
I specialize in and help empower survivors of Narcissistic Personality Disorder ( NPD) and Borderline Personality Disorder, grief, trauma, and relationship issues.
You are in the right place. You need clarity, strength, guidance, support to help you walk through this journey of self awareness. Let's discover what, why, and how you ended up in this situation. Being vulnerable is not always easy, in fact it can be extremely frightening; however, the reward is worth it! YOU are worth it!
I specialize in and help empower survivors of Narcissistic Personality Disorder ( NPD) and Borderline Personality Disorder, grief, trauma, and relationship issues.
You are in the right place. You need clarity, strength, guidance, support to help you walk through this journey of self awareness. Let's discover what, why, and how you ended up in this situation. Being vulnerable is not always easy, in fact it can be extremely frightening; however, the reward is worth it! YOU are worth it!
Hi! I'm a licensed counselor in NJ and CA working for 18 years with individuals, couples, adolescents, and families. I believe in a client centered approach where a safe, open environment is created and my client(s) is part of creating the counseling process. I utilize an integrative approach, pulling from different techniques that are best suited for a client's preferences and/or needs with a focus on client strengths. Progress looks like a client having more clarity and awareness of self, stability and calm within, harmony with how they interact with others and the world around them, and the ability to achieve desired goals.
Hi! I'm a licensed counselor in NJ and CA working for 18 years with individuals, couples, adolescents, and families. I believe in a client centered approach where a safe, open environment is created and my client(s) is part of creating the counseling process. I utilize an integrative approach, pulling from different techniques that are best suited for a client's preferences and/or needs with a focus on client strengths. Progress looks like a client having more clarity and awareness of self, stability and calm within, harmony with how they interact with others and the world around them, and the ability to achieve desired goals.
Hello and welcome. I offer psychotherapy for adults, couples, families, and teens dealing with relationship difficulties, depression and anxiety, bipolar disorder, personality issues, schizophrenia, and other mental health problems. I also help family members understand their loved one's difficulties and help couples and families communicate more effectively. I believe that change occurs within the context of a positive therapeutic relationship and my focus is on creating a caring, compassionate, and sensitive space where individuals, couples, and families can make significant change in their lives.
Hello and welcome. I offer psychotherapy for adults, couples, families, and teens dealing with relationship difficulties, depression and anxiety, bipolar disorder, personality issues, schizophrenia, and other mental health problems. I also help family members understand their loved one's difficulties and help couples and families communicate more effectively. I believe that change occurs within the context of a positive therapeutic relationship and my focus is on creating a caring, compassionate, and sensitive space where individuals, couples, and families can make significant change in their lives.
My hope is that people involved in therapy will gain insight, awareness and personal growth. Clients learn to identify negative, distorted thought patterns and implement healthy, effective coping skills. In relationship counseling, couples become more intentional in the way they listen, communicate and express their feelings.
My hope is that people involved in therapy will gain insight, awareness and personal growth. Clients learn to identify negative, distorted thought patterns and implement healthy, effective coping skills. In relationship counseling, couples become more intentional in the way they listen, communicate and express their feelings.
Helping others has always been a desire of mine. I have been a therapist for 13 years and have helped clients with a variety of issues such as anxiety, relationship help, marriage, parenting, life skills, pornography, anger, and many more. I have seen and heard a lot of issues from a lot of different people who have had hardship and others who needed guidance. I believe that we all come from different walks of life and sometimes on our journey; we may get steered in the wrong direction. It is my desire to help guide you back in the right direction. I want to validate your emotions and makes sure you are heard.
Helping others has always been a desire of mine. I have been a therapist for 13 years and have helped clients with a variety of issues such as anxiety, relationship help, marriage, parenting, life skills, pornography, anger, and many more. I have seen and heard a lot of issues from a lot of different people who have had hardship and others who needed guidance. I believe that we all come from different walks of life and sometimes on our journey; we may get steered in the wrong direction. It is my desire to help guide you back in the right direction. I want to validate your emotions and makes sure you are heard.
I prefer clients who are receptive to looking at their situation as a result of earlier decisions and experiences.
I am not judgemental or critical. I try to help clients make sense of their situation.
I prefer clients who are receptive to looking at their situation as a result of earlier decisions and experiences.
I am not judgemental or critical. I try to help clients make sense of their situation.
Are you a parent who is struggling with your child or teen? Does your child or teen have out of control or really big behaviors? Do they self harm or have suicidal thoughts? Do you want your family back? I can help. I work with parents through a type of therapy called Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) to help them help their children and teens. My team of therapists work directly with the children and teens to help them gain emotional & behavioral control, & I work with parents to help them get their life back. We provide much more than traditional talk therapy & we help you get results!
Are you a parent who is struggling with your child or teen? Does your child or teen have out of control or really big behaviors? Do they self harm or have suicidal thoughts? Do you want your family back? I can help. I work with parents through a type of therapy called Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) to help them help their children and teens. My team of therapists work directly with the children and teens to help them gain emotional & behavioral control, & I work with parents to help them get their life back. We provide much more than traditional talk therapy & we help you get results!
I have been providing mental health services to a wide range of clients for more than 18 years. I’ve worked in crisis settings as well as private practice, providing services for individuals with severe mental health issues as well as co-occurring disorders. I have expertise in grief, trauma, and substance abuse counseling. I have a holistic approach to providing mental health services and believe that the key to success is to incorporate physical and mental health and a comprehensive way. I am trained in CBT, DBT, ACT, Gottman, and Motivational Interviewing. I am fluent in Russian.
I have been providing mental health services to a wide range of clients for more than 18 years. I’ve worked in crisis settings as well as private practice, providing services for individuals with severe mental health issues as well as co-occurring disorders. I have expertise in grief, trauma, and substance abuse counseling. I have a holistic approach to providing mental health services and believe that the key to success is to incorporate physical and mental health and a comprehensive way. I am trained in CBT, DBT, ACT, Gottman, and Motivational Interviewing. I am fluent in Russian.
I am also a Certified Women's Mental Health and Reproductive Health Specialist, Certified in Narcissistic Abuse Treatment, Certified in Anger Management..
When life no longer feels like it fits- I will help you find your way.
Are you currently going through a time in your life that’s left you feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, or unsure of who you are anymore? Whether you're facing loss of purpose, healing from infidelity, feel angry or struggling with infertility and impactful changes in your identity or relationships, these experiences can feel deeply isolating.
Together, we slow things down, untangle what feels overwhelming, and create space for clarity and emotional steadiness.
I am also a Certified Women's Mental Health and Reproductive Health Specialist, Certified in Narcissistic Abuse Treatment, Certified in Anger Management..
When life no longer feels like it fits- I will help you find your way.
Are you currently going through a time in your life that’s left you feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, or unsure of who you are anymore? Whether you're facing loss of purpose, healing from infidelity, feel angry or struggling with infertility and impactful changes in your identity or relationships, these experiences can feel deeply isolating.
Together, we slow things down, untangle what feels overwhelming, and create space for clarity and emotional steadiness.
Addiction is not a problem to be fixed, but rather a person. I have worked with many people with various addictions and realize that addressing one problem from one perspective is not enough. I specialize in getting to know a person first and then helping that person heal from past hurts, learn skills for problem-solving, improve communication, build strong relationships, practice ways to manage strong emotions, learn to slow down and change their harmful or intrusive thoughts, draw from their faith for strength, develop strong support systems, and with all this, hope of long-term recovery can become reality.
Addiction is not a problem to be fixed, but rather a person. I have worked with many people with various addictions and realize that addressing one problem from one perspective is not enough. I specialize in getting to know a person first and then helping that person heal from past hurts, learn skills for problem-solving, improve communication, build strong relationships, practice ways to manage strong emotions, learn to slow down and change their harmful or intrusive thoughts, draw from their faith for strength, develop strong support systems, and with all this, hope of long-term recovery can become reality.
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Meridian Counseling: Individual and Family Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Life can get complicated and there is no handbook on how to handle things like depression, anxiety, addiction and relationship problems. It is important to know two things: 1. you are not alone, 2. challenges are always opportunities to grow and change your life. You are probably here because it's time to "do something different." Let us help guide you through this journey!
Life can get complicated and there is no handbook on how to handle things like depression, anxiety, addiction and relationship problems. It is important to know two things: 1. you are not alone, 2. challenges are always opportunities to grow and change your life. You are probably here because it's time to "do something different." Let us help guide you through this journey!
Narcissistic abuse leaves a specific kind of damage, and most therapists won't fully understand it.
Narcissistic abuse recovery requires a specialist. I work with survivors of narcissistic partners, parents, family members, and coworkers using trauma-informed, somatic, and identity-repair approaches. I offer individual therapy, a weekly survivors group, and a 2-hour Recovery Intensive for those who need a roadmap now. Licensed in 7 states.
Narcissistic abuse leaves a specific kind of damage, and most therapists won't fully understand it.
Narcissistic abuse recovery requires a specialist. I work with survivors of narcissistic partners, parents, family members, and coworkers using trauma-informed, somatic, and identity-repair approaches. I offer individual therapy, a weekly survivors group, and a 2-hour Recovery Intensive for those who need a roadmap now. Licensed in 7 states.
Kimberly B Lavender
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, BBS, LMSW-C, MI, TF-CBT, FPE
5 Endorsed
Serves Area
Expanded training and certification in working with those that have experienced mental, physical, &/or psychological ( narcissistic) abuse; religious oppression, deconstruction, and spiritual recovery; experience working with front liners, SOM, MDOC, & high profile careers.
Currently accepting new clients in California and Michigan. I believe in supporting and guiding clients to find their own answers, using a holistic, supportive, and integrated approach that encompasses the mind, body, and spirit. Through personal growth and development, we can learn to make healthy and lasting changes that replenish our positive energy. It is finding our own inner strengths; the power to find our own answers and to rid ourselves of negative self-talk so that we can be at peace with the decisions we make, regardless of unwelcome influence and/or the advice of others, and choosing to live a healthier, happier life.
Expanded training and certification in working with those that have experienced mental, physical, &/or psychological ( narcissistic) abuse; religious oppression, deconstruction, and spiritual recovery; experience working with front liners, SOM, MDOC, & high profile careers.
Currently accepting new clients in California and Michigan. I believe in supporting and guiding clients to find their own answers, using a holistic, supportive, and integrated approach that encompasses the mind, body, and spirit. Through personal growth and development, we can learn to make healthy and lasting changes that replenish our positive energy. It is finding our own inner strengths; the power to find our own answers and to rid ourselves of negative self-talk so that we can be at peace with the decisions we make, regardless of unwelcome influence and/or the advice of others, and choosing to live a healthier, happier life.
You may be navigating overwhelm, grief, depression, trauma, narcissistic abuse recovery, uncertainty, or a sense of disconnection on your journey toward feeling more whole.
I offer collaborative, non-pathologizing therapy grounded in psychodynamic, somatic, and parts-based work. Together, we explore your story with care and curiosity, honoring your identity, culture, and lived experience. My goal is to help you feel seen, supported, and more at home in yourself.
You may be navigating overwhelm, grief, depression, trauma, narcissistic abuse recovery, uncertainty, or a sense of disconnection on your journey toward feeling more whole.
I offer collaborative, non-pathologizing therapy grounded in psychodynamic, somatic, and parts-based work. Together, we explore your story with care and curiosity, honoring your identity, culture, and lived experience. My goal is to help you feel seen, supported, and more at home in yourself.
Specialized in treating anxiety, self esteem, codependency, identity, healing from unhealthy relationships (including narcissistic abuse)
You are here because you are hurting and want to heal. Healing is possible and you deserve love and acceptance for just being you- your full authentic self. I have been treating anxiety, depression, identity, codependency, eating disorders, low self esteem and relationships issues in children, teens and adults since 2007. My therapeutic style is often more directive, as I see myself as a part of your therapeutic process-not a quiet observer. I use a balance of cognitive behavioral therapy techniques and exploring how your childhood shaped your current thoughts and behaviors.
Specialized in treating anxiety, self esteem, codependency, identity, healing from unhealthy relationships (including narcissistic abuse)
You are here because you are hurting and want to heal. Healing is possible and you deserve love and acceptance for just being you- your full authentic self. I have been treating anxiety, depression, identity, codependency, eating disorders, low self esteem and relationships issues in children, teens and adults since 2007. My therapeutic style is often more directive, as I see myself as a part of your therapeutic process-not a quiet observer. I use a balance of cognitive behavioral therapy techniques and exploring how your childhood shaped your current thoughts and behaviors.
I work with clients with trauma, addiction, narcissistic abuse, anxiety, depression, OCD, C-PTSD/PTSD, and more.
I specialize in Narcissistic Abuse Healing and Recovery. I developed a proven treatment model, "The 5 Stages of Narcissistic De-Conditioning", designed to support deep healing, rebuilding, and long-term avoidance of future narcissistic relationships.
Couples /FamilyTherapy for monogamous couples, ENM couples, and polyamorous couples are also offered.
I work with clients with trauma, addiction, narcissistic abuse, anxiety, depression, OCD, C-PTSD/PTSD, and more.
I specialize in Narcissistic Abuse Healing and Recovery. I developed a proven treatment model, "The 5 Stages of Narcissistic De-Conditioning", designed to support deep healing, rebuilding, and long-term avoidance of future narcissistic relationships.
Couples /FamilyTherapy for monogamous couples, ENM couples, and polyamorous couples are also offered.
Are you struggling with PTSD, trauma, anxiety, depression, narcissistic abuse recovery, low self esteem, and loneliness?
Sessions typically involve helping you to gain insight into thoughts, emotions, and behaviors, explore alternative ways of viewing situations, and modify unhelpful behavior. I use DBT, EMDR, attachment and mindfulness-based approaches to therapy as well as draw from a a range a range of techniques to meet the needs and strengths of each individual client.
Are you struggling with PTSD, trauma, anxiety, depression, narcissistic abuse recovery, low self esteem, and loneliness?
Sessions typically involve helping you to gain insight into thoughts, emotions, and behaviors, explore alternative ways of viewing situations, and modify unhelpful behavior. I use DBT, EMDR, attachment and mindfulness-based approaches to therapy as well as draw from a a range a range of techniques to meet the needs and strengths of each individual client.
Hello and welcome! You’ve taken a courageous step in looking for help. I specialize in working with high-achieving men and women who feel stuck in frustrating relationship patterns despite insight, effort, and success in other areas of life. Many of the men I work with struggle with emotional connection and conflict after years of relying on independence. Many of the women I work with find themselves overfunctioning—taking on more than their share while losing a clear sense of themselves.With nearly five decades of experience, I bring a depth of perspective that allows me to identify and work through the underlying dynamic.
Hello and welcome! You’ve taken a courageous step in looking for help. I specialize in working with high-achieving men and women who feel stuck in frustrating relationship patterns despite insight, effort, and success in other areas of life. Many of the men I work with struggle with emotional connection and conflict after years of relying on independence. Many of the women I work with find themselves overfunctioning—taking on more than their share while losing a clear sense of themselves.With nearly five decades of experience, I bring a depth of perspective that allows me to identify and work through the underlying dynamic.
I’m a Certified Narcissistic Abuse Clinician, and I know how overwhelming it can feel to start therapy—but reaching out is a powerful first step.
A therapist that understands the dynamics of a Toxic/ Narcissistic relationship is essential in breaking free from the chains you feel. I can help you make sense of depression, anxiety and negative thought patterns that you have. I offer therapy that’s more than just surface level work- and help you experience transformation without years of therapy
I’m a Certified Narcissistic Abuse Clinician, and I know how overwhelming it can feel to start therapy—but reaching out is a powerful first step.
A therapist that understands the dynamics of a Toxic/ Narcissistic relationship is essential in breaking free from the chains you feel. I can help you make sense of depression, anxiety and negative thought patterns that you have. I offer therapy that’s more than just surface level work- and help you experience transformation without years of therapy
Sometimes it's just not easy and we get stuck repeating the same cycles because it's familiar but not helpful. Coping skills learned to survive in the past worked then but most likely are not helpful to you now which can be a great cause of you feeling anxious, depressed, stressed, or struggling with managing it all. I promise you are not alone. Discomforts stem from your early learned beliefs and experiences that are present today. The most effective therapy that produces lasting results is through an honest and comfortable relationship between you and the therapist. Let's see if together we can be the best team moving you forward!
Sometimes it's just not easy and we get stuck repeating the same cycles because it's familiar but not helpful. Coping skills learned to survive in the past worked then but most likely are not helpful to you now which can be a great cause of you feeling anxious, depressed, stressed, or struggling with managing it all. I promise you are not alone. Discomforts stem from your early learned beliefs and experiences that are present today. The most effective therapy that produces lasting results is through an honest and comfortable relationship between you and the therapist. Let's see if together we can be the best team moving you forward!
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Narcissistic Personality (NPD) Therapists
What type of therapy is best for narcissistic personality disorder?
Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is best treated with talk therapy, which could involve cognitive behavioral therapy, dialectical behavior therapy, schema therapy, gestalt therapy, or similar approaches. A therapist will help a patient uncover the feelings that may drive their behavior and discover how to engage with themselves and those around them with greater empathy and understanding, fewer demands, and less defensiveness, with the goal of developing a more authentic sense of self that enables healthier relationships.
How do therapists treat NPD?
By developing a strong therapeutic relationship, and continually focusing patients on relationships, community, and connection, a therapist, through talk therapy, may be able to help someone with NPD change. In sessions, a therapist will help an individual achieve relief from their current stressors, including the treatment of co-occurring conditions such as anxiety or depression. A therapist may also help an individual to recognize unhealthy coping mechanisms, learn new ways of interacting with others, and eventually become able to feel and display empathy.
Can a narcissist be cured with therapy?
Therapy can be effective. After a serious setback or great loss, someone with NPD may be forced to recognize that they are not immune to life’s challenges. That can spur feelings of melancholy and depression that lead them to seek professional help. Once an individual decides to seek help, they have already taken a step that the majority of those with NPD never will. Still, people with NPD often quit therapy as they naturally resist feeling vulnerable, being challenged, or admitting to flaws.
How can you get narcissistic personality disorder treatment for someone?
It is notoriously difficult to convince someone with NPD to seek help. With their feelings of superiority, they may be unlikely to recognize or acknowledge that they have a problem, or that their problem is narcissism. Sometimes, they are aware that they are arrogant and that others resent them but they don’t see it as a problem because they are convinced of their superiority. People with NPD have trouble maintaining relationships, but family members and others who do feel close to them, and whose presence they value, may be able to encourage them to seek therapy.


